Just two days ago, my ex boyfriend told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, and I didn't see it coming at all. I was still in love and trying my best to improve the relationship. I begged him to stay at first, until I realised that there's no purpose of being with someone that stays out of pity. I believe that I'll be alright; because I'm surrounded by people I love, and it really helps to talk to them about it. One day I'll find someone that's right for me, but for now, i'm gonna focus on taking care of myself ❤️
oh yeah, that sounds pretty mich like me two years ago! It was especially difficult because he said he still cared for me, just not in a romantic way. Although it was hard (and probably not the most healthy at first) we managed to stay friends and I'm in a new relationship now. I hope you're doing better!
I'm sorry 2 hear that you went through this an it sounds like 2 need 2 heal yourself and that's called self caring love urself first then u will find the love thats meant 4 you when time is right
I hope you are doing well. Something like that happened to me and I was destroyed for like over 1.5 years. Then I picked myself up and started moving forward only to have that ex come back lol But throughout, I learned the same thing. If someone truly loved me, it wouldn't have taken someone to leave me for so long to figure this out! For him, it just was grass wasn't greener on the other side & for me, I am in a relationship with a friend of a friend who really got me through my dark period. Long story short, the moment you realize your worth and stop begging, you make room for someone who sees your worth to come into your life. So I hope you will find someone who can love you right and who is right for yoi.
For those in a hurry 0:24 You feel like you can't be yourself around them 1:08 You always initiate conversations and dates 1:48 You don't feel their trust 2:30 You fight instead of having healthy arguments 3:11 You can't open up to them about anything 3:48 You're very defensive when asked about them 4:32 You're afraid to let them meet the people you're close to 5:25 You're constantly on the lackout for new partners 6:26 You don't feel like you're becoming a better person 7:18 You're staying in the relationship out of comfort Sometimes, you can can try to let go of your relationship if you can't take this anymore ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I've had an online relationship with someone and safe to say it never works out (i was the obsessive one around her). But what matters is we made good memories and we tried our very best. Letting go and saying goodbye was surprisingly easy because we both simply realized we were better off without each other. Breaking up has let us get back to our own lives, passions, and goals
In many of the scenes, there is a slow motion dance that all the characters are doing with each other. Back and forth, back and forth. Speed up the vibration, and create the people in a more free hand fashion.
I suffer from Major Depressive Disorder, ADHD, and Anxiety and I find that sometimes watching these videos makes me feel like I start looking for all the wrong in my relationships with people. Anyone else feel that way? I feel like after watching so many of these, I just become more paranoid and 'omg is that how I am/we are too?' All I know is this: Life is a constant struggle and I've been through a lot with the people in my life. But it's the fact that we come together and not give up on each other that makes us strong. It's so easy to just say, 'This isn't working out' and remove yourself. But to remember the good and keep in mind There is NO set rulebook for living life, forgiveness and learning to keep being there for each other even when you feel weak, THAT takes strength. You can grow together if you actually remember to be present and forgiving. Live what feels right for YOU, not what others tell you what should be. Because at the end of the day, every single one of us is just trying to figure this life thing out. Every single one. No one is perfect.
thats true, but sometimes (and i mean most cases) admitting that it isnt working and detaching yourself from that situation really is the right thing to do
Oof, you hit me right in the ADHD. There really is no set rule book. There are ways of two people carrying themselves in a relationship between them. There are hard lines that cross into abuse and other traits. But above that are lines that are in similar hues when two people must come together to really define what they both are okay with and how they handle it. If both parties actively work on that together however it works for them, then that is really what matters. Comparing to others will never work, and taking everyone else's opinions on how it should be done never helps either.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️. Love is the greatest.
I was in a 8 year marriage with a physically abusive narcissist. I have been separated for a year, but getting mentally and emotionally out of it is taking its own sweet time. This video just hit so many spots. I still question my judgement, but I am getting there small step by small step everyday.
This compelling video brings back terrible memories of my recent breakup after four years of dating. My dearest friend made the decision to go, and I was left with an inexhaustible hurt. I can't even begin to imagine my life without him, much as I keep trying to make amends. I'm frustrated. I want to write about how much I miss him here because I can't seem to get him out of my head.
I understand how hard it is to let go of someone you love; after a five-year relationship ended, I was unable to simply let him go; instead, I tried everything to get him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance.
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1. 0:24 you feel like you can't be yourself around them 2. 1:10 you always initiate conversations and dates 3. 1:49 You don't feel their trust 4. 2:33 you fight instead of having healthy argument 6. 3:50 your very defensive when asked about them 7. 4:34 your afraid to let them meet the people your close to 8. 5:27 your constantly on the lookout for new partners 9. 6:26 you don't feel like your becoming a better person 10. 7:20 your staying in the relationship out of comfort This took me forever TwT
I'll watch these videos until I get married and all throughout my life. You've helped me through soooooo many stuffs. I'm slowly learning how to be myself, how to love, how to be loved and how to be happy. Thank you.
Is it meant to be,attracted to you for being yourself ,if they don't accept your behaviour,trust issues stem from insecurities,arguing about trivial matters not a good trait,intervention could be the cure,are they easily irritated,that could be a red flag,how many deal breakers are there,does it feel daunting,could there be something wrong,ask yourself if she's the one,have a reason for it🏳️🌈
In my current relationship, now 4 years in, we've definitely had phases where we went through some of these mentioned. But we've worked through a lot together, and continue to grow and learn and support each other, I've been into psychology for 8 years, and convinced her to join my academy I'm in, she's now 3 years, so our arguments get... Deep and very complex lol, we both know a lot about each others subconscious patterns, which helps us support the other, but in times of heated arguments good god we can press each others buttons Moreno than anyone else either of us have been with hahaha. But at the end of the day when we cool off, we both take responsibility for the projections we've thrown at the other, and take responsibility for the our own patterns we played out in the other. She's genuinely the most loving and affectionate person I've ever been with by FAR! And I for her, although she's only been with one other person before me, I've been in 5 relationships before her, and had one/two off dates with about 20 other girls, so I know she's top tier on the market, and never take her for granted. ❤ Because of her lack of relationships and her perfectionism, she sometimes wonders if there's someone even more perfect than me for her out there, which I think is totally understandable and normal given her only being with one other guy her 30 years on this Earth lol. But she keeps coming back every once in a while saying "I saw another guy I found realky attractive today, and when I asked myself what I found attractive in him, it was all the same stuff I love about you, and think to myself, I already have all of that at home for me 😊" and gives me a hug. Which some people might take as an offense, but I find it really flattering. Because no matter what relationship you are in, you don't suddenly find other attractive people non attractive, every client I've had has admitted this to me, our teacher as well. It's totally normal human biology to find others attractive when you are already taken, and SO many people judge themselves for it and see it as a red flag, it's not, it's normal. The true red flag there is if you start falling in love with someone else, and/or find yourself chasing something with someone else. Not just simply finding someone else desirable.
the part where you said if she wonders if theres somebody out there more perfect than you.. thats not a good thing. maybe its understandable, but not a good thing. why would she even think that if shes in love with you?
@@scottmeager5919 alrighty then. just be careful :) didnt wanna jump to conclusions, but i thought it was too much of a red flag and i wanted to warn you ab it just in case. anyways, hoping everything is working out
This video was very real, and brought tears to my eyes. I feel like we stay in relationships due to comfort. We are often afraid to leave, in fear of being alone. Sometimes we have to listen to our intuition, when it pokes at our spirits. We often ignore those red flags that someone isn't right for us, and end up suffering in the end.
I always say its a two way street. Whether you dating, in a serious relationship or even platonic relationships. Dont always wait for the other to text first. Especially if they wrote to you last. We all on our phones way too much to not take a few seconds to say hey how are you.
True but it seems like the connection has been fading. We dropped contact for a few wks cuz of me so I messaged can we meet up and talk soon. Hopefully the convo rekindles something
Having gotten out of a toxic relationship not that long ago and after two months of depression watching this video made me realise how messed up my relationship was and how I kept romanticising shit that was really wrong. It is very important to share videos like this so people in unhealthy relationships know when to get out. Although I am extremely grateful for that relationship because it taught me a lot about myself, what I want and how I should be treated. I’m happy to say that I am now in a healthy relationship that makes me really happy and brings me peace :)
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
@@SRHisntSilent i did, it took me two months of depression and feeling worthless and lost but when I came out the other end I had become a better person. Now I feel like I know myself better and the things I want ❤️
The always initiating conversation and plans part got me. I'm ALWAYS the one going out of my way to see how they're doing or trying to make plans. Only to get the "I'm busy" responses or nothing at all. Not worth my time anymore.
I'm cringing because this doesn't describe my current crush - which is great - but another someone I spent too much time hoping it would work out. Note to self: it's okay! You're learning! ❤️
My girl had very bad past related to her family and surrounding. A lot of people wanted to use her, or see her going completely mad. From moment when we decided to be together she changed in fantastic way. She don't think about suicide anymore, she stopped thinking about her depression or anxiety, her self confidence and love to herself grown imaginably strong and big and if there is any doubt she is always talking with me about everything. I understand her very well and i want to support her no matter what and be her private therapist. I'm not applying into her brain fake positive things. I always explain to her everything from good and bad side, and always want to show her reality of everything (consequences of good, and bad choices). It was very hard for her to understand that i want to help her and all the time when she felt overwhelmed. She rather wanted to close herself in room without no one and just be depressed and overthink instead of ask for help. Problem was that no one was really with her to listen to her problems, fears and she was always the one who wanted to listen to people rather than getting help. She often wanted to be around people with suicide thoughts and depression than around someone who really wanted to help her. She changed drastically now and she completely forgot about her planning her own death (yes she was planning it and as long she got used to this feeling, and felt comfortable she would do this). I'm so happy she changed so much and all the time i'm explaining to her how far she already went and how fast she evolved, and teared down this wall which she created from years. I understand this massive responsibility and i still want to help her without harming her. She is the reason why i started to learn about mental problems to understand her and being able to always help her/ give what she truly desires. Learn, be more understandable, be more patient, don't be afraid of your own feelings, don't be afraid of yourself! never do nothing against yourself, have rules and honor and always value them, be faithful, always be honest in good, polite way (don't mistake it with being mean! Words have power! Words are key to everything!). Evolve people! Be better version of yourself even if you will fail in something, don't let it get to you! Always try as many times as you need to achieve success!
These videos really are great. My (now ex) fiance and I split up a few months ago after more than 5 years, but I feel that we're better friends than we ever have been now because we understood that we just weren't right for each other. We're still way too important to each other to be removed from our lives completely, and she's been my bestie for years anyways, so there's no way we couldn't make a bff-ship work. It was hard, but we're much happier now.
Thanks so much for this video!! I found it super helpful. My experience in a relationship has been very supportive and patient. My partner is someone who is an introvert and so finds it difficult to open up, but I use kind and gentle word to create a safe environment. Asking questions rather than demanding and not expecting results or a response straight away. I check on her day to day with spaces in between to breathe and if she would rather talk by text, then I accept her choice and adapt myself. She really appreciates this. Also, she does the same to me and this is what strengthens our relationships in times when it gets tough. Humans are like mirrors: you give them happiness, you get happiness back, but if you give them negativity, you get an argument and a sense of brokenness.
I have experienced a few of these things with in my current relationship. We are currently taking space and a lot is changing in our relationship. It has been very stressful and challenging but I do not let go because there are glimmers of hope that make me think it is still right. I hope that we can reasonably come to a conclusion together or that our communication and dynamic begins to improve.
Poor Itto on the thumbnail 😔 he's a very sweet and caring guy to his gang, granny, and generally all of his friends so he surely deserves the best. Edit: they changed the thumbnail _(probably for the best because even I myself feel very sad when I saw Itto beaten up by Sara)_
I have a very close friend. We’ve both admitted to really liking each other, but both acknowledge that we aren’t capable of a relationship right now. Not in the sense that we’re too unstable, but that it’s best for our friendship that we don’t start anything at the moment.
Sometimes it’s just meant to be a good friendship and these are as hard to find as well! Nice to hear that you found a way to be together in any shape or form. I have such friends as well and I appreciate them a lot :)
Friendship may be best for now and you can grow together. Then if you guys feel it can be a relationship, it will be strong because you all understand each other. I wish you all the best and may Ahayah bless you both.
Love it! I relate to most of the things here (my previous relationship). I wasn’t happy. It wasn’t a harmonious relationship. We often faught and are incompatible.. looking back, the red flags were there but i ignored them, making excuses for them. Ending the relationship was the best thing i did for myself and i never felt sad about it. Infact i felt free and happy; like a heavy burden was lifted off of me. Trust your guts.
0:46 Love that you included Cursed Princess Club here! Gwen you are beautiful. And to anyone reading this message, know that you are beautiful and worthy of love.
I think we should add to that list: They constantly make excuses to delay or avoid coming see you (especially on special occasions such as your birthday, or you inviting them to meet your family/friends). It could be made to sound like a sudden tragedy, accident, or inconvenience right when you are expecting them and they fail to upkeep their communication after days go by. But when you want to go see them or if they ask you to come see them, you drop everything…
1:27 : Relationship may means either love or friendship. If you always initiate the conversation with someone, that someone might not be a good friend.
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
ive been with someone for 19 months in total. we got together because i was helping him thru a break up. the more we hung out the more i loved being in his company. well i had my own trauma to deal with being over sexualized since childhood and its the only way i know. so in the beginning of our relationship i texted a couple of "male friends" thinking they were friends and they wanted pics stupid me obliged. idk boundaries, mine were crossed as a child so i never know whats completely right or wrong ina relationship. i owned up to my shit and apologized, gave him full access to everything of mine from emails to social media.. well when he found out he blew up so badly he hasnt talked or forgiven me after A whole year. til this day he hasnt talked but every time we argue he likes to blow it up in my face. well after i realized i loved him more than i realized and he "forgave" me. he made me realize those arent friends just men using the title. well for the past year hes been messaging women, adding insta hoes, liking their half naked pics on FB and IG. but if i post pics like they do he gets pissed and yells at me thinking im asking for the attention and how his "wife" shouldnt be posting these photos (im not his wife. hes trying to mold me into his ideal woman) i stopped and still am dealing with the consequences everyday, but i caught him so many times and when i call him out on it he blows my year ago bs and makes himself the victim. last night he goes "wow thanks for showing me you love me. i feel unloved" so i told him "you hurt me, you calling these other women beautiful, sexy or gorgeous but you also calling me that and these girls are all "baddie" types WHICH IM NOT!! you hurt me, why should i comfort you when you did me wrong this time?" then he goes then maybe i should send dick pics and texts other girls? how would you feel? all night (havent slept btw. been up since 6 am yesterday) i was writing out what he gives me in this relationship and what i have given him. He does this thing that supposedly are so nice for me but then blows it in my face that he did this, this and that for me so why wont i show him more appreciation. and im here 👁👄👁 really dude? i cook for you, i went to massage school to help you, i take of your daughter when my son needs me more, i clean this entire damn house and wash clothes by hand. he smokes our money away between weed and cigarettes. i need to leave before i become more depressed. i was happier before i met him...
You answered your own statement. Cause if you can't do it y should he, and of he keeps blowing up and throwing stuff in your face, his forgiveness is not from the heart. And it's time to move on to someone who makes you happy. When you truly forgive, you don't bring stuff back up. May God bless you
Life is too short girl.. too short to spend it unhappy and imprisoned when you know you could be healthy and happy if you left him. The attachment will pass and this is certainly not ‘love’. I want better for you ✨
Wait what kind of pics of you do you send to other people? Not because other people do it you should do it too... I could sympathize with the statement but then again if the other person isn't doing the right things either that's on them...
Do it as soon as possible! It’s better to take the rose colored glasses off now. you will have to face reality soon. Living arrangements, friends, leave behind new family, etc. and you will have to get back into your own every day life and learn to be with just you. It’s better to do it now you’ve already done so much for this person and you feel like he doesn’t do enough and treats you like shit! That’s so unexplainable. Want better for yourself and soon you will find peace within and better love will come sooner or later.
I just recently ended a very loving and caring relationship. We've known each other all our lives as he's my best friends' brother and things went well for a few months. It wasn't an easy decision but we weren't growing any longer even though we were rooting for and supporting each other. Also just like number 8 on the list, I was just like Blue, through and through. We're still friends but we need some space until we've both healed and feel comfortable being around each other again. 8 and 9 were extremely relatable.
I'm passing by a breakup, from a 4 years relationship. Resuming, we were in a distant relationship, i was in avery busy routine of university and work, and she was stuck with his parents and work, trying to get in the university, but we get emotionally distant because of the lack of time and energy to express our love for each other, unfortunatally she expend more time thinging on it and dind't bring this topic on the conversation, that's why still upset and sad. This video made me understand more about why our relationship wasn't working anymore. And be aware of this, helps a lot to move on. Thanks for the video.
My ex and I were having communication issues, and anytime I would try to express myself, instead of listening to me, he instead focused on how much time had passed between the time I started talking to the point I stopped. It was hard to talk to him, but know I was on a timetable to express myself made it very difficult. I tried to avoid uncomfortable conversations, but the more I tried to avoid them, the more the issues persisted.
I recently went through a break up. This video really open my eyes and allow me to build the courage I need to talk and open up. My relationship was dying for quite a while and it wasn't a balanced one either.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 4 years. I'm about 2 months out of my old relationship and felt really trapped and unhappy. When i had the opportunity to leave, i immediately took it. I still feel lost on where my life is gunna go from here, but i appreciate that this video helped me feel a sort of justified in my reasons for leaving. Thank you 💜🖤
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6+ years just 2 days ago… I resonate with much of the points but it’s more complicated when it’s been long distance the whole time. I love him dearly… he’s just busy… a lot. But it reached a point I felt closer to everyone else in my life but him. We blamed distance but never set a time it would end. So I broke it off… I told him how I felt and he was supportive. I asked him if within 2 years I can find a way to meet him that I hope he’ll have coffee with me. Maybe I’m being selfish or maybe I copped out by setting this for myself but if not for the relationship I’m doing this for myself. At least this way we can grow apart and if it’s really meant to be it’ll work out- I’ve always wanted to take a trip to London alone anyways… I’m proud of myself for taking the risk and allowing us to grow this way- but I’d be lying if I said I could imagine any other future of mine without him in it. I know I’m selfish…
My 2 year relationship ended two days ago. As the video said, we have done all that we can. Sometimes letting go is better than holding it. It feels suck that I cannot see him anymore. But life will move on and time will heal us.
I watched all your videos , and a few others … gathered some courage and broke up. Then i went into self doubt , consistently asked myself if i have been taking these theories too seriously , but once the initial phase was over i realised probably i did the right thing.
These wonderful videos, (Great voice to the lady in them) provide insight on betterIng myself as a wounded War veteran also, as an individual with mental health issues. This channel’s videos have saved my life more than the Veterans Affairs (VA) which my family and I are grateful for. This channel helped me redeem, and grow into the lady I am happy to be! Thank you all, from the bottom of my heart and soul!
I recently broke up with my boyfriend after four months, described him SO HEAVY throughout this video 100%!!! I had to cut him off real quick cause he wasn’t worth my effort or tears or anything of such things. He was already pushing me into moving in together, getting married and having kids knowing I don’t want none of that! He was too toxic and hurtful with what he would say about me as well but I closed the door peacefully for my sake and wellbeing ☺️
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
Your videos on relationships really helped me realize my needs arent less important than my partners and that I matter, my voice aswell as my opinion are worth being heard. Really thank you and your team
knowing that I'm a toxic person and hurt and annoy anyone and everyone around myself, I feel better knowing that she's happy now. I wish I were a better person really.
I watched this from the perspective of the one that was broken up with; I’ve moved on and tried to improve as a person way since then but I’ve never stopped wondering where exactly it all went south, and I got some ideas here where her and I began treating each other with complacency and a lack of meaningful communication that led to snowballing issues to the point it came falling apart Thanks for making this, it’s helped to put some things to rest in my mind after 4 years
Here’s the thing: my friendship/relationship? with this person is extremely weird. We both liked each other a few years ago, but at the time I wasn’t ready for anything serious. We kept in touch and he became my best friend, but I never fully let go of my crush on him. Now we work at different places and haven’t seen each other in six months. I told him that I still liked him a couple of months back, but he said that he’d have to meet in person to know how he felt for sure. Since then he’s made no effort to meet anywhere, and I’m too nervous because I’m extremely socially awkward and always get nervous around him. I don’t really know what to do, because sometimes it feels like we both like each other, and sometimes it feels like it’s completely one sided.
I'm not in a relationship yet, but something I've noticed whenever I meet someone new and we both talk about ourselves, I end up only caring about what I have to say about me, and not so much about what thay have to tell me. I unfortunately got this trait from my mother, who would always do that whenever she would talk to me. Thankfully I'm knowing that that's a problem, thanks to this video, and the next time I talk to someone, I'll be careful about my response and not change the subject.
I just got out of a relationship and then I saw this video and realized that breaking up with her was a good thing, I didn't feel excited to see/hear from her anymore and it felt more like a chore and obligation. But truthfully I kept staying with her because I felt and feel like now I'm going to be single and alone forever.
I'm seeing all these signs, especially the lack of validation and resentment. That's honestly how we got to this point. I made friends with a guy who's has this way of understanding my point of view, and supports my dreams. He's married so it's strictly moving forward is strictly off the table, but now that I know there's guys like him out there like him. I just missed my chance with him, but now there's real hope in ways I've never felt before.
Holy damn this channel feel like a course on healthhy relationships, I'm marathoning and binge watching these videos like crazy rn and I feel like a playlist with all of them would be really great
I had this one girl two years ago, and I wasn't really prepared to handle a relationship at that time, but I just was pretty invaded, I couldn't even express how I felt without an argument ensuing, so I tried to break it off and I couldn't no matter what. I had to break up with her in the sloppiest and worst way ever and just ghost her, just to prove I was done, I got with another person, cause I was unprepared, but I just wanted to be safe. Bottom line, trust your intuition, and don't be afraid to tell someone your truth, that's all that's important.
Yes I agree!! It is very important, like you said, to trust your intuition. To be alright with who you are, to love yourself, then see what to look for or seek
Currently on the fence about ending my relationship. I set a deadline for the end of this month. We have been together 3 1/2 years. He wants kids one day and I don't. There are other things I don't get that I know I could find in someone else who is just right for me. It's hard because I've never broken up with someone before. That feeling of what's going to happen after the breakup is hard. We have gotten so comfortable with eachother.
Your videos actually really helped me out and I got a girlfriend and we both hangout and legitimately love and trust each other. Ps. I'm in middle school
9 and 10 are so real. I've been with someone for 8 years despite being just not compatible, because it was comfortable and I was afraid to be alone. I managed and cared for the relationship and him, like a parent for a child. I was stressed and I felt disrespected and not seen or valued. When we broke up I felt like a weight was lifted from me and I learned to be okay on my own with the help of my psy. It was tough because I had to change job at the same time, I was depressed, but one year later I feel so much better. I promise you can do it, and it gets so much better
Someone asked me if I felt traumatized from past relationships after posting a video on social media about people perceiving great treatment from their partner as a joke. I didn't say anything but I was going to answer yes. Yes, I am still traumatized and still struggle with healing from my past relationships, but this video helped me to acknowledge the behaviors witnessed in those past relationships and keeping an observant eye on any red flags (which were mentioned in the video) for the near future. I'm just super nervous to date again and probably won't do it for a long time, but I hope and pray for more reassurance and a great guy that crosses out all these red flags. Again, no one is perfect, but trauma is a serious thing that can be overcome with a little help every day.
My ex was never really interested in my life. After I said what was concerning me and brought up some solutions. She didnt really wanted try them out. After a week she broke up with me via text and was insulting me on new years eve. I still am really confused and heartbroken about this one but I think it was the best for me. I did not actually love her for who she was but who she could become and she did not respected my desires in the relationship, while I was very cautious and accommodating. She had a rough past and I respected that very much, but that does not excuse her behavior. Your videos are really helping me to get over her and show me that I deserve someone better. Love you!
Bottom line; If your basic traits as a human being are “not enough”, time to say Sayonara. With some people, they demand perfection. And then once you reach that, there’s another 943 things they want you to change.
@@Psych2go 1, 4, 6, 7 It’s just that lately it feels like whenever I am myself around them it turns into arguments, like I’m an inconvenience to be around. They’d rather be left alone to work on things. We’ve had a complicated history and trying to introduce them to my friends or talk about him to others has been difficult. I kind of feel like I need to defend him even if no one is “attacking”.
I know these at the back of my brain and how they’re wrong and I should move on, but whenever it’s me who tells myself these, i doubt myself. I feel like I’m not right and I’m wrong for doubting my partner that way. I recently just broke up and I’ve been following this channel for a while now and I’m glad I watched this video that made me feel a lot better of my decision. Thank you! ❤️
Happy to hear that the video can help with your anxiety. If you want, we put together the anxiety playlist here: ua-cam.com/video/oYAF36BykdM/v-deo.html. Hopefully, some of the videos in here could help. Thanks!
So, I just want to say that I very very recently just broke up with my boyfriend because of these very same reasons and I just want all of you that may be going through this to know that it's going to be okay. It's going to feel extremely rough especially if you still love the person, but you have to remember that your inner peace is better than just keeping someone around for the sake of comfort or fear of change. I'm still in the healing process from it and it's been a roller coaster of emotions, but at the end of the day, it will feel better not having to fight an inner battle with yourself anymore.
First reason she said I immediately agreed. I felt like I couldn’t be myself because he never liked whatever I did unless it was to just sit still and don’t do anything that includes interacting w anybody. Everything I did, it always gave me anxiety because I’d think, would he get mad at me for this? He always accused me of cheating no matter how faithful I was and when we finally broke up yesterday he still accused me one final time and it made me really upset. He’s been so manipulative and controlling like it’s really crazy and it all goes down to him being a really insecure person who never bothered to address it and overcome it.
i find it sad & heartbreaking that... well i had to go through a breakup recently. i just watched this video and... i was able to resonate with almost all (if not all) the points mentioned in this video. breaking up was truly the best for us both, & the points in this video reminded me that the break up was a good choice. it just makes me sad that... our love just couldn't work out as much as we both tried. 😔
i’m going through this rn :( i’m also asking myself why i keep dating narcissistic people and i think it might be because i grew up with narcissistic parents and family members. thank you for the video
"Most" people chase what's familiar.... Kudos for being honest about it. Hopefully you inspire others to do the same. The world could use more introspection among its inhabitants
Maybe, Letting go is the only reason. I like him a lot sometimes but I’m not sure about our future. It’s also scary to break up because we’ve gone too far in our connection, cared about each other but in the end, all that I felt is that maybe we’re not meant to be forever.
I’m more off into friendship with them. I started to realised things are going south and it became less exciting due to we talked daily. So right now we are just having some space but at the same time worried that we can’t go back like it used to anymore. i will miss them and never regret meeting them even once. Thank you for existing in my life
This is true and relatable for me. The same thing happened with me. And as said sometimes we need to let go things for us and others for their better. This feels soo good when learnt this things from your own and when it works ✨😇
This was me with my last... she didn't actually like me back in the first place so for a long time we were stuck together and I was convincing myself it wasn't an unhealthy relationship but it was. It was always me starting convos, I had to hide a lot of myself around them, etc. ): Hopefully my next relationship will go more positively, thank you for the tips.
The best thing a person can do to protect their hearts is to match the energy. Learn to treat people like they treat you and 85% of problems, and insecurities, go away.
i love these videos, and your voice is so soothing. even though it's a 10 signs someone may not be for you, i was able to think about my partner and realize that i'm very happy where we are. also, awry is like a-hunting, so it sounds like "wry."
The initiating one is a big thing. I always have to speak first to spend time with them and talk. It hurts because it seems like I am not needed and am useless to everyone. I dont have anyone that tells me how im doing or good morning. So i decided to go in search of better friends. Still waiting. Ill post updates here. Update 1: its pretty hard. Really awkward to just approach someone and talk
After all this videos about relationships, signs, etc etc I just come to the conclusion that seeking for/being in a relationship is just so energy draining that I might aswell just invest that energy into things more relevant than finding a "partner" thats still gonna go at any given time.
Accuracy 100%.....ended late last year. Ended my year with saying my thank yous and good byes....maybe after healing from all the past hurt possibly give it a wholehearted shot in the future. Till then take care of yourself
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This is really helped! I’ve been thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend-… She makes me cry way to much and when I hang out with her i don’t have any motivation-! She always says I do something wrong when I don’t do anything and she doesn’t tell me about anything! I try to be there for her, but it’s just so hard!!- I try to keep her happy but she’s always mad or annoyed at me! She never tells me what I do wrong! And I guess, I’m a little protective of her but it’s only cause she’s done bad stuff it the past!! She complains to me about me being a little protective but I just am trying to keep her safe! I’m not overly protective tho-! Also, every time I say, “I might break up with u” she just ignores me and or puts “…” when we text! I love her so much but I just can’t deal with her!!! She makes me cry everyday and she makes me really sad! I change my whole personality, just to make her happy even when I’m sad! Anyways, that’s all I had to say-…
Sounds as if you don't love yourself enough. Practice more self love and others can then love you too. I too was a people pleaser but once I made it about me first then others respected me. As long as I cared more for others they took advantage of my good nature. Whatever you do I wish the best on your journey you are the most important person in your mind always now.
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
11 years. Married vor 7. We started this relationship just before I turned 17 and my parents hated them. It was just awful in the beginning. My friends wasnt really fond of them, but they didnt hated them straight up like my parents did. I was in love an knew about their bad past and a part of the traumas they went trough. So I sticked to them and my love grew every single day. But then I noticed, that I can not heal from my own traumas. Ptsd is horrifing but they have this as well … just for other reasons. I couldnt move forward. I was stagnant because deep down I knew, that when I grow, they wouldnt and I had to leave them behind. I didnt wanted that and I did more and more and even more, till my whole world … was them. I couldnt go out to meet friends, because I had lost so many … and because of the thought, that I would find someone else I think could be interesting. I denied the fact, that I should leave. I couldnt leave, even if I wanted to. All this hurt I would cause them. And then, last month, I finally decided to end this. They ruined 2 out of my 3 passions and the moment I realised this, I fled to my godfather, thought about it all and ended the relationship. They and I are still married. Its all fresh and we also still live in the same flat, just in diffrent rooms. And I feel SO much better. I dont have to try and fix things anymore. I dont need to pretend to care for their stuff. All these feelings of freedom, boredom etc are so new and exhausting. But I move again. I can live for myself, even in the same flat. They is a good person and the years we spent werent always bad. We just … grew apart. And I cant wait for my life to finally start again. Breaking up is the best decision I made in the last 8 years.
Unfortunately I had to let go of a relationship like this once. I'm glad I made the right choice. Though it did _not_ end well, unfortunately.. And I probably should've or could've handled it better somehow but at the same time, that might just be my anxiety and self consciousness talking.. I definitely recognized a lot of these signs. And the person became really desperate and clingy when I suggested we break things off, to be fair..
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She’s AMAZING
A lot of golden stars.
Just two days ago, my ex boyfriend told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, and I didn't see it coming at all. I was still in love and trying my best to improve the relationship. I begged him to stay at first, until I realised that there's no purpose of being with someone that stays out of pity. I believe that I'll be alright; because I'm surrounded by people I love, and it really helps to talk to them about it. One day I'll find someone that's right for me, but for now, i'm gonna focus on taking care of myself ❤️
How are u..?
oh yeah, that sounds pretty mich like me two years ago! It was especially difficult because he said he still cared for me, just not in a romantic way. Although it was hard (and probably not the most healthy at first) we managed to stay friends and I'm in a new relationship now. I hope you're doing better!
@@qasdina7368 i'm doing alright! :)
I'm sorry 2 hear that you went through this an it sounds like 2 need 2 heal yourself and that's called self caring love urself first then u will find the love thats meant 4 you when time is right
I hope you are doing well. Something like that happened to me and I was destroyed for like over 1.5 years. Then I picked myself up and started moving forward only to have that ex come back lol
But throughout, I learned the same thing. If someone truly loved me, it wouldn't have taken someone to leave me for so long to figure this out! For him, it just was grass wasn't greener on the other side & for me, I am in a relationship with a friend of a friend who really got me through my dark period.
Long story short, the moment you realize your worth and stop begging, you make room for someone who sees your worth to come into your life. So I hope you will find someone who can love you right and who is right for yoi.
6:19 "I'm gonna leave you for Glamrock Freddy
Good bye." the best thing ever
I always get so thrilled when they include my weeb/gaming loves.
@@blushymae Weeb?
Why I predicted this reference here
@@mindyourbusiness8658 weeb/GAMINT
I would leave a partner for glamrock freddy too 😭
For those in a hurry
0:24 You feel like you can't be yourself around them
1:08 You always initiate conversations and dates
1:48 You don't feel their trust
2:30 You fight instead of having healthy arguments
3:11 You can't open up to them about anything
3:48 You're very defensive when asked about them
4:32 You're afraid to let them meet the people you're close to
5:25 You're constantly on the lackout for new partners
6:26 You don't feel like you're becoming a better person
7:18 You're staying in the relationship out of comfort
Sometimes, you can can try to let go of your relationship
if you can't take this anymore
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Thank You! 💜
Ty
@@natsunderen You're welcome ❤️
All the things I did two years back.🙄
Thanks for putting this list together. How are you doing lately?
I've had an online relationship with someone and safe to say it never works out (i was the obsessive one around her). But what matters is we made good memories and we tried our very best. Letting go and saying goodbye was surprisingly easy because we both simply realized we were better off without each other. Breaking up has let us get back to our own lives, passions, and goals
The new style feels fresh, modern, and still keeps the phsyc2go charm. Whoever animated this, you did a great job! :D
Glad you like this style! Very happy to hear that!
Mhm..
In many of the scenes, there is a slow motion dance that all the characters are doing with each other. Back and forth, back and forth. Speed up the vibration, and create the people in a more free hand fashion.
@@Psych2go is each style made by a different person? Because if not the artist must be very talented at simple animations
@@darkheliboi probably
I suffer from Major Depressive Disorder, ADHD, and Anxiety and I find that sometimes watching these videos makes me feel like I start looking for all the wrong in my relationships with people. Anyone else feel that way? I feel like after watching so many of these, I just become more paranoid and 'omg is that how I am/we are too?' All I know is this:
Life is a constant struggle and I've been through a lot with the people in my life. But it's the fact that we come together and not give up on each other that makes us strong. It's so easy to just say, 'This isn't working out' and remove yourself. But to remember the good and keep in mind There is NO set rulebook for living life, forgiveness and learning to keep being there for each other even when you feel weak, THAT takes strength. You can grow together if you actually remember to be present and forgiving. Live what feels right for YOU, not what others tell you what should be. Because at the end of the day, every single one of us is just trying to figure this life thing out. Every single one. No one is perfect.
thats true, but sometimes (and i mean most cases) admitting that it isnt working and detaching yourself from that situation really is the right thing to do
Oof, you hit me right in the ADHD.
There really is no set rule book.
There are ways of two people carrying themselves in a relationship between them. There are hard lines that cross into abuse and other traits.
But above that are lines that are in similar hues when two people must come together to really define what they both are okay with and how they handle it.
If both parties actively work on that together however it works for them, then that is really what matters. Comparing to others will never work, and taking everyone else's opinions on how it should be done never helps either.
@@JSRF420 this🙌 Thank you
@@anotherhealingjourneybegins you got it dood x3 🙌
I too feel the same way, sometimes I think am I paranoid or Smth!!
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️. Love is the greatest.
You too♡
You too❤️
Thanks. This is Great!!
@James Bally ❤️
@@SRHisntSilent ❤️
I was in a 8 year marriage with a physically abusive narcissist. I have been separated for a year, but getting mentally and emotionally out of it is taking its own sweet time. This video just hit so many spots. I still question my judgement, but I am getting there small step by small step everyday.
l know of a manl who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work l' m assuring you, you gonna testify
Wha'tsapp him for help
Time will heal everything didi
@@Dave-idd do you actually need help
Hoping you heal because you deserve better
This compelling video brings back terrible memories of my recent breakup after four years of dating. My dearest friend made the decision to go, and I was left with an inexhaustible hurt. I can't even begin to imagine my life without him, much as I keep trying to make amends. I'm frustrated. I want to write about how much I miss him here because I can't seem to get him out of my head.
I understand how hard it is to let go of someone you love; after a five-year relationship ended, I was unable to simply let him go; instead, I tried everything to get him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I broke up with my boyfriend around september and most of these signs I recognized. Now I feel more confident that I made the right decision. Thanks.
proud of ya
Yess me too
1. 0:24 you feel like you can't be yourself around them
2. 1:10 you always initiate conversations and dates
3. 1:49 You don't feel their trust
4. 2:33 you fight instead of having healthy argument
6. 3:50 your very defensive when asked about them
7. 4:34 your afraid to let them meet the people your close to
8. 5:27 your constantly on the lookout for new partners
9. 6:26 you don't feel like your becoming a better person
10. 7:20 your staying in the relationship out of comfort
This took me forever TwT
Thank you I always appreciate when people like you do this so tysm have a good day or night I appreciate you
@@rosieTHEtogonian tysm 💜️ you too 💕
thank u so much
11. You're always the one that calls them. They never call you.
12. They screen your calls and never return them.
I'll watch these videos until I get married and all throughout my life. You've helped me through soooooo many stuffs. I'm slowly learning how to be myself, how to love, how to be loved and how to be happy. Thank you.
Is it meant to be,attracted to you for being yourself ,if they don't accept your behaviour,trust issues stem from insecurities,arguing about trivial matters not a good trait,intervention could be the cure,are they easily irritated,that could be a red flag,how many deal breakers are there,does it feel daunting,could there be something wrong,ask yourself if she's the one,have a reason for it🏳️🌈
Same gonna watch this till I get married. Lets dodge the bullets bestiee
Might as well work towards a relationship instead. Just a tip from a stranger
@@kiwiwooqsame here
In my current relationship, now 4 years in, we've definitely had phases where we went through some of these mentioned.
But we've worked through a lot together, and continue to grow and learn and support each other, I've been into psychology for 8 years, and convinced her to join my academy I'm in, she's now 3 years, so our arguments get... Deep and very complex lol, we both know a lot about each others subconscious patterns, which helps us support the other, but in times of heated arguments good god we can press each others buttons Moreno than anyone else either of us have been with hahaha.
But at the end of the day when we cool off, we both take responsibility for the projections we've thrown at the other, and take responsibility for the our own patterns we played out in the other.
She's genuinely the most loving and affectionate person I've ever been with by FAR!
And I for her, although she's only been with one other person before me, I've been in 5 relationships before her, and had one/two off dates with about 20 other girls, so I know she's top tier on the market, and never take her for granted. ❤
Because of her lack of relationships and her perfectionism, she sometimes wonders if there's someone even more perfect than me for her out there, which I think is totally understandable and normal given her only being with one other guy her 30 years on this Earth lol.
But she keeps coming back every once in a while saying "I saw another guy I found realky attractive today, and when I asked myself what I found attractive in him, it was all the same stuff I love about you, and think to myself, I already have all of that at home for me 😊" and gives me a hug. Which some people might take as an offense, but I find it really flattering. Because no matter what relationship you are in, you don't suddenly find other attractive people non attractive, every client I've had has admitted this to me, our teacher as well.
It's totally normal human biology to find others attractive when you are already taken, and SO many people judge themselves for it and see it as a red flag, it's not, it's normal.
The true red flag there is if you start falling in love with someone else, and/or find yourself chasing something with someone else.
Not just simply finding someone else desirable.
the part where you said if she wonders if theres somebody out there more perfect than you.. thats not a good thing. maybe its understandable, but not a good thing. why would she even think that if shes in love with you?
@@userm180 There's more context to it than that.
@@scottmeager5919 alrighty then. just be careful :) didnt wanna jump to conclusions, but i thought it was too much of a red flag and i wanted to warn you ab it just in case. anyways, hoping everything is working out
@@userm180 honestly everything has never been better between us, year 4 together now.
@@scottmeager5919 wowww, 4 years? thats a lottttttt. what is u guys' secret for such a long lasting relationship?
This video was very real, and brought tears to my eyes. I feel like we stay in relationships due to comfort. We are often afraid to leave, in fear of being alone. Sometimes we have to listen to our intuition, when it pokes at our spirits. We often ignore those red flags that someone isn't right for us, and end up suffering in the end.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay 🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
1:05 "Your value does NOT decrease, due to someone else's inability to see your worth."
I always say its a two way street. Whether you dating, in a serious relationship or even platonic relationships. Dont always wait for the other to text first. Especially if they wrote to you last. We all on our phones way too much to not take a few seconds to say hey how are you.
Noted
True but it seems like the connection has been fading. We dropped contact for a few wks cuz of me so I messaged can we meet up and talk soon. Hopefully the convo rekindles something
@@Respect2theFallen what about now?
@@thepurplekidx nope I fucked up and her cutoff game strong. Had a feeling I was being replaced anyway so I didn't tell them what I wanted to
@@Respect2theFallen damn! so sad... man up! ur true love coming to u, about time.
Having gotten out of a toxic relationship not that long ago and after two months of depression watching this video made me realise how messed up my relationship was and how I kept romanticising shit that was really wrong. It is very important to share videos like this so people in unhealthy relationships know when to get out. Although I am extremely grateful for that relationship because it taught me a lot about myself, what I want and how I should be treated. I’m happy to say that I am now in a healthy relationship that makes me really happy and brings me peace :)
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
Hope that you heal because you deserve it
@@SRHisntSilent i did, it took me two months of depression and feeling worthless and lost but when I came out the other end I had become a better person. Now I feel like I know myself better and the things I want ❤️
im sorry ab what you had to go through, but im glad it helped you become a better version of yourself :)
That's what happens when you idealize someone due to lust.
The always initiating conversation and plans part got me. I'm ALWAYS the one going out of my way to see how they're doing or trying to make plans. Only to get the "I'm busy" responses or nothing at all. Not worth my time anymore.
I'm cringing because this doesn't describe my current crush - which is great - but another someone I spent too much time hoping it would work out.
Note to self: it's okay! You're learning! ❤️
My girl had very bad past related to her family and surrounding. A lot of people wanted to use her, or see her going completely mad. From moment when we decided to be together she changed in fantastic way. She don't think about suicide anymore, she stopped thinking about her depression or anxiety, her self confidence and love to herself grown imaginably strong and big and if there is any doubt she is always talking with me about everything. I understand her very well and i want to support her no matter what and be her private therapist. I'm not applying into her brain fake positive things. I always explain to her everything from good and bad side, and always want to show her reality of everything (consequences of good, and bad choices). It was very hard for her to understand that i want to help her and all the time when she felt overwhelmed. She rather wanted to close herself in room without no one and just be depressed and overthink instead of ask for help. Problem was that no one was really with her to listen to her problems, fears and she was always the one who wanted to listen to people rather than getting help. She often wanted to be around people with suicide thoughts and depression than around someone who really wanted to help her. She changed drastically now and she completely forgot about her planning her own death (yes she was planning it and as long she got used to this feeling, and felt comfortable she would do this). I'm so happy she changed so much and all the time i'm explaining to her how far she already went and how fast she evolved, and teared down this wall which she created from years. I understand this massive responsibility and i still want to help her without harming her. She is the reason why i started to learn about mental problems to understand her and being able to always help her/ give what she truly desires. Learn, be more understandable, be more patient, don't be afraid of your own feelings, don't be afraid of yourself! never do nothing against yourself, have rules and honor and always value them, be faithful, always be honest in good, polite way (don't mistake it with being mean! Words have power! Words are key to everything!). Evolve people! Be better version of yourself even if you will fail in something, don't let it get to you! Always try as many times as you need to achieve success!
These videos really are great. My (now ex) fiance and I split up a few months ago after more than 5 years, but I feel that we're better friends than we ever have been now because we understood that we just weren't right for each other. We're still way too important to each other to be removed from our lives completely, and she's been my bestie for years anyways, so there's no way we couldn't make a bff-ship work. It was hard, but we're much happier now.
Thanks so much for this video!! I found it super helpful. My experience in a relationship has been very supportive and patient. My partner is someone who is an introvert and so finds it difficult to open up, but I use kind and gentle word to create a safe environment. Asking questions rather than demanding and not expecting results or a response straight away. I check on her day to day with spaces in between to breathe and if she would rather talk by text, then I accept her choice and adapt myself. She really appreciates this. Also, she does the same to me and this is what strengthens our relationships in times when it gets tough. Humans are like mirrors: you give them happiness, you get happiness back, but if you give them negativity, you get an argument and a sense of brokenness.
What a pleasure to read this
You are every introverts dream!
awww that is so sweettt!! how's it going?
if I can't give my partner what he needs even though he accepted that, what could we do to save our relationship?
The Freddy part got me dying on the inside. Good vid tho, keep it up.
I have experienced a few of these things with in my current relationship. We are currently taking space and a lot is changing in our relationship. It has been very stressful and challenging but I do not let go because there are glimmers of hope that make me think it is still right. I hope that we can reasonably come to a conclusion together or that our communication and dynamic begins to improve.
hey, how's it going so far?
Poor Itto on the thumbnail 😔 he's a very sweet and caring guy to his gang, granny, and generally all of his friends so he surely deserves the best.
Edit: they changed the thumbnail _(probably for the best because even I myself feel very sad when I saw Itto beaten up by Sara)_
Just finished his story quest and nyaaa you couldnt have said it any better.
And he has cool kabuto bug
itto?1?!
@@lxncexzs they changed the thumbnail 😭
I love Itto so much, he's sweet and funny 😊❤
I have a very close friend. We’ve both admitted to really liking each other, but both acknowledge that we aren’t capable of a relationship right now. Not in the sense that we’re too unstable, but that it’s best for our friendship that we don’t start anything at the moment.
Sometimes it’s just meant to be a good friendship and these are as hard to find as well!
Nice to hear that you found a way to be together in any shape or form. I have such friends as well and I appreciate them a lot :)
Sad yet wholesome
Who knows what will happen?
All the best
Friendship may be best for now and you can grow together. Then if you guys feel it can be a relationship, it will be strong because you all understand each other. I wish you all the best and may Ahayah bless you both.
proud of u guys for being mature ab it
Love it! I relate to most of the things here (my previous relationship). I wasn’t happy. It wasn’t a harmonious relationship. We often faught and are incompatible.. looking back, the red flags were there but i ignored them, making excuses for them. Ending the relationship was the best thing i did for myself and i never felt sad about it. Infact i felt free and happy; like a heavy burden was lifted off of me.
Trust your guts.
thanks for sharing this!
0:46 Love that you included Cursed Princess Club here! Gwen you are beautiful. And to anyone reading this message, know that you are beautiful and worthy of love.
Thank U :)
I thought that's what that was! I haven't read that recently; I should go binge the rest to get caught up
I saw that too
I love that webtoon too🥰
I love gwennnnn!
I think we should add to that list:
They constantly make excuses to delay or avoid coming see you (especially on special occasions such as your birthday, or you inviting them to meet your family/friends). It could be made to sound like a sudden tragedy, accident, or inconvenience right when you are expecting them and they fail to upkeep their communication after days go by. But when you want to go see them or if they ask you to come see them, you drop everything…
Been there
1:27 : Relationship may means either love or friendship. If you always initiate the conversation with someone, that someone might not be a good friend.
Yes, I agree !!
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇱🇷that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
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Orrrr they might have social anxiety.
ive been with someone for 19 months in total. we got together because i was helping him thru a break up. the more we hung out the more i loved being in his company. well i had my own trauma to deal with being over sexualized since childhood and its the only way i know.
so in the beginning of our relationship i texted a couple of "male friends" thinking they were friends and they wanted pics stupid me obliged. idk boundaries, mine were crossed as a child so i never know whats completely right or wrong ina relationship. i owned up to my shit and apologized, gave him full access to everything of mine from emails to social media.. well when he found out he blew up so badly he hasnt talked or forgiven me after A whole year. til this day he hasnt talked but every time we argue he likes to blow it up in my face. well after i realized i loved him more than i realized and he "forgave" me. he made me realize those arent friends just men using the title. well for the past year hes been messaging women, adding insta hoes, liking their half naked pics on FB and IG. but if i post pics like they do he gets pissed and yells at me thinking im asking for the attention and how his "wife" shouldnt be posting these photos (im not his wife. hes trying to mold me into his ideal woman) i stopped and still am dealing with the consequences everyday, but i caught him so many times and when i call him out on it he blows my year ago bs and makes himself the victim. last night he goes "wow thanks for showing me you love me. i feel unloved" so i told him "you hurt me, you calling these other women beautiful, sexy or gorgeous but you also calling me that and these girls are all "baddie" types WHICH IM NOT!! you hurt me, why should i comfort you when you did me wrong this time?"
then he goes then maybe i should send dick pics and texts other girls? how would you feel?
all night (havent slept btw. been up since 6 am yesterday) i was writing out what he gives me in this relationship and what i have given him. He does this thing that supposedly are so nice for me but then blows it in my face that he did this, this and that for me so why wont i show him more appreciation. and im here 👁👄👁 really dude? i cook for you, i went to massage school to help you, i take of your daughter when my son needs me more, i clean this entire damn house and wash clothes by hand. he smokes our money away between weed and cigarettes.
i need to leave before i become more depressed. i was happier before i met him...
You answered your own statement. Cause if you can't do it y should he, and of he keeps blowing up and throwing stuff in your face, his forgiveness is not from the heart. And it's time to move on to someone who makes you happy. When you truly forgive, you don't bring stuff back up. May God bless you
Life is too short girl.. too short to spend it unhappy and imprisoned when you know you could be healthy and happy if you left him. The attachment will pass and this is certainly not ‘love’. I want better for you ✨
Wait what kind of pics of you do you send to other people? Not because other people do it you should do it too... I could sympathize with the statement but then again if the other person isn't doing the right things either that's on them...
Do it as soon as possible! It’s better to take the rose colored glasses off now. you will have to face reality soon. Living arrangements, friends, leave behind new family, etc. and you will have to get back into your own every day life and learn to be with just you. It’s better to do it now you’ve already done so much for this person and you feel like he doesn’t do enough and treats you like shit! That’s so unexplainable. Want better for yourself and soon you will find peace within and better love will come sooner or later.
I'm sorry but please leave him you'll suffer more 😔
It’s sad when they say they love you and care about you but they don’t show it.or when they keep blaming you instead of reassuring you :(
Fuckin spot on man
I just recently ended a very loving and caring relationship. We've known each other all our lives as he's my best friends' brother and things went well for a few months. It wasn't an easy decision but we weren't growing any longer even though we were rooting for and supporting each other. Also just like number 8 on the list, I was just like Blue, through and through. We're still friends but we need some space until we've both healed and feel comfortable being around each other again. 8 and 9 were extremely relatable.
I'm passing by a breakup, from a 4 years relationship. Resuming, we were in a distant relationship, i was in avery busy routine of university and work, and she was stuck with his parents and work, trying to get in the university, but we get emotionally distant because of the lack of time and energy to express our love for each other, unfortunatally she expend more time thinging on it and dind't bring this topic on the conversation, that's why still upset and sad. This video made me understand more about why our relationship wasn't working anymore. And be aware of this, helps a lot to move on. Thanks for the video.
My ex and I were having communication issues, and anytime I would try to express myself, instead of listening to me, he instead focused on how much time had passed between the time I started talking to the point I stopped. It was hard to talk to him, but know I was on a timetable to express myself made it very difficult. I tried to avoid uncomfortable conversations, but the more I tried to avoid them, the more the issues persisted.
I recently went through a break up. This video really open my eyes and allow me to build the courage I need to talk and open up. My relationship was dying for quite a while and it wasn't a balanced one either.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 4 years. I'm about 2 months out of my old relationship and felt really trapped and unhappy. When i had the opportunity to leave, i immediately took it. I still feel lost on where my life is gunna go from here, but i appreciate that this video helped me feel a sort of justified in my reasons for leaving. Thank you 💜🖤
Always better than being with a narcissistic, sociopath.
No fankkkks.
This just happened to me too 4 yrs..I didn’t know what a narc was ..
@Patience Lovely i do not want my ex back by any means.
It'll be fine soon. Trust me.
@@lopunnycinderace8825 lol
all the references in the art make this even better 💖
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6+ years just 2 days ago… I resonate with much of the points but it’s more complicated when it’s been long distance the whole time. I love him dearly… he’s just busy… a lot. But it reached a point I felt closer to everyone else in my life but him. We blamed distance but never set a time it would end. So I broke it off… I told him how I felt and he was supportive. I asked him if within 2 years I can find a way to meet him that I hope he’ll have coffee with me. Maybe I’m being selfish or maybe I copped out by setting this for myself but if not for the relationship I’m doing this for myself. At least this way we can grow apart and if it’s really meant to be it’ll work out- I’ve always wanted to take a trip to London alone anyways… I’m proud of myself for taking the risk and allowing us to grow this way- but I’d be lying if I said I could imagine any other future of mine without him in it. I know I’m selfish…
My 2 year relationship ended two days ago. As the video said, we have done all that we can. Sometimes letting go is better than holding it. It feels suck that I cannot see him anymore. But life will move on and time will heal us.
I watched all your videos , and a few others … gathered some courage and broke up. Then i went into self doubt , consistently asked myself if i have been taking these theories too seriously , but once the initial phase was over i realised probably i did the right thing.
It feels like a chore being in the relationship I'm in.
Maybe because the passion in love is gone how about reigniting the spark...
I'd say leave lol there nobodys chore
These wonderful videos, (Great voice to the lady in them) provide insight on betterIng myself as a wounded War veteran also, as an individual with mental health issues. This channel’s videos have saved my life more than the Veterans Affairs (VA) which my family and I are grateful for. This channel helped me redeem, and grow into the lady I am happy to be! Thank you all, from the bottom of my heart and soul!
I recently broke up with my boyfriend after four months, described him SO HEAVY throughout this video 100%!!! I had to cut him off real quick cause he wasn’t worth my effort or tears or anything of such things. He was already pushing me into moving in together, getting married and having kids knowing I don’t want none of that! He was too toxic and hurtful with what he would say about me as well but I closed the door peacefully for my sake and wellbeing ☺️
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Oh my, I'm glad you left!
Your videos on relationships really helped me realize my needs arent less important than my partners and that I matter, my voice aswell as my opinion are worth being heard. Really thank you and your team
knowing that I'm a toxic person and hurt and annoy anyone and everyone around myself, I feel better knowing that she's happy now. I wish I were a better person really.
I watched this from the perspective of the one that was broken up with; I’ve moved on and tried to improve as a person way since then but I’ve never stopped wondering where exactly it all went south, and I got some ideas here where her and I began treating each other with complacency and a lack of meaningful communication that led to snowballing issues to the point it came falling apart
Thanks for making this, it’s helped to put some things to rest in my mind after 4 years
Here’s the thing: my friendship/relationship? with this person is extremely weird. We both liked each other a few years ago, but at the time I wasn’t ready for anything serious. We kept in touch and he became my best friend, but I never fully let go of my crush on him. Now we work at different places and haven’t seen each other in six months. I told him that I still liked him a couple of months back, but he said that he’d have to meet in person to know how he felt for sure. Since then he’s made no effort to meet anywhere, and I’m too nervous because I’m extremely socially awkward and always get nervous around him. I don’t really know what to do, because sometimes it feels like we both like each other, and sometimes it feels like it’s completely one sided.
0:46 This is from Cursed Princess Protection! It's such a good webtoon that shows that beauty isn't just expressed outwardly but inside as well.
6:25, GOOD JOB SUPERSTAR!
I'm not in a relationship yet, but something I've noticed whenever I meet someone new and we both talk about ourselves, I end up only caring about what I have to say about me, and not so much about what thay have to tell me. I unfortunately got this trait from my mother, who would always do that whenever she would talk to me. Thankfully I'm knowing that that's a problem, thanks to this video, and the next time I talk to someone, I'll be careful about my response and not change the subject.
I just got out of a relationship and then I saw this video and realized that breaking up with her was a good thing, I didn't feel excited to see/hear from her anymore and it felt more like a chore and obligation. But truthfully I kept staying with her because I felt and feel like now I'm going to be single and alone forever.
Feel you
I'm seeing all these signs, especially the lack of validation and resentment. That's honestly how we got to this point. I made friends with a guy who's has this way of understanding my point of view, and supports my dreams. He's married so it's strictly moving forward is strictly off the table, but now that I know there's guys like him out there like him. I just missed my chance with him, but now there's real hope in ways I've never felt before.
The genshin fan that makes the thumbnails for these videos is such an icon
Holy damn this channel feel like a course on healthhy relationships, I'm marathoning and binge watching these videos like crazy rn and I feel like a playlist with all of them would be really great
I had this one girl two years ago, and I wasn't really prepared to handle a relationship at that time, but I just was pretty invaded, I couldn't even express how I felt without an argument ensuing, so I tried to break it off and I couldn't no matter what. I had to break up with her in the sloppiest and worst way ever and just ghost her, just to prove I was done, I got with another person, cause I was unprepared, but I just wanted to be safe. Bottom line, trust your intuition, and don't be afraid to tell someone your truth, that's all that's important.
Yes I agree!! It is very important, like you said, to trust your intuition. To be alright with who you are, to love yourself, then see what to look for or seek
the narrator has such beautiful voice, with beautiful message carried, I cannot help but feel my body and mind becoming light.
Currently on the fence about ending my relationship. I set a deadline for the end of this month. We have been together 3 1/2 years. He wants kids one day and I don't. There are other things I don't get that I know I could find in someone else who is just right for me. It's hard because I've never broken up with someone before. That feeling of what's going to happen after the breakup is hard. We have gotten so comfortable with eachother.
Keeping your chin up and moving past the disappointment may be hard, but it will leave you better off in the long run.
Your videos actually really helped me out and I got a girlfriend and we both hangout and legitimately love and trust each other. Ps. I'm in middle school
Happy to hear that you found someone amazing! Hopefully, it will be a fruitful relationship where you can learn lots from each other.
@@Psych2go Thank you! I couldn't do it without your videos. 😁
And yet, I still am *L o n l i*
WHAT!? Jesus Christ man you got this
And you also helped yourself
9 and 10 are so real. I've been with someone for 8 years despite being just not compatible, because it was comfortable and I was afraid to be alone. I managed and cared for the relationship and him, like a parent for a child. I was stressed and I felt disrespected and not seen or valued. When we broke up I felt like a weight was lifted from me and I learned to be okay on my own with the help of my psy. It was tough because I had to change job at the same time, I was depressed, but one year later I feel so much better. I promise you can do it, and it gets so much better
Man I wish I saw this video sooner- I needed this awhile back.
Someone asked me if I felt traumatized from past relationships after posting a video on social media about people perceiving great treatment from their partner as a joke. I didn't say anything but I was going to answer yes. Yes, I am still traumatized and still struggle with healing from my past relationships, but this video helped me to acknowledge the behaviors witnessed in those past relationships and keeping an observant eye on any red flags (which were mentioned in the video) for the near future. I'm just super nervous to date again and probably won't do it for a long time, but I hope and pray for more reassurance and a great guy that crosses out all these red flags. Again, no one is perfect, but trauma is a serious thing that can be overcome with a little help every day.
This is a good new art style, also love the thumbnail with Sara and Itto
@James Bally I was never in a relationship
My ex was never really interested in my life. After I said what was concerning me and brought up some solutions. She didnt really wanted try them out. After a week she broke up with me via text and was insulting me on new years eve. I still am really confused and heartbroken about this one but I think it was the best for me. I did not actually love her for who she was but who she could become and she did not respected my desires in the relationship, while I was very cautious and accommodating.
She had a rough past and I respected that very much, but that does not excuse her behavior.
Your videos are really helping me to get over her and show me that I deserve someone better.
Love you!
The Narrator's always good at this!!
Me who was just having a break down over someone never knew I needed it. Thank you so much! 💗
Bottom line; If your basic traits as a human being are “not enough”, time to say Sayonara. With some people, they demand perfection. And then once you reach that, there’s another 943 things they want you to change.
IM LOVING THIS CHANNEL AND ITS THUMBNAILS
Great video as usual! This one is hitting a little close to home after a rough week with my partner 💔
Sorry to hear. Which points did you relate to most?
@@Psych2go 1, 4, 6, 7
It’s just that lately it feels like whenever I am myself around them it turns into arguments, like I’m an inconvenience to be around. They’d rather be left alone to work on things. We’ve had a complicated history and trying to introduce them to my friends or talk about him to others has been difficult. I kind of feel like I need to defend him even if no one is “attacking”.
@@randommob2806 hmm.. does he feel the same about you?
I know these at the back of my brain and how they’re wrong and I should move on, but whenever it’s me who tells myself these, i doubt myself. I feel like I’m not right and I’m wrong for doubting my partner that way. I recently just broke up and I’ve been following this channel for a while now and I’m glad I watched this video that made me feel a lot better of my decision. Thank you! ❤️
Hello psych2Go. I'm a person with anxiety at moderate section. You guys are helping me to beat it thank you so much
Happy to hear that the video can help with your anxiety. If you want, we put together the anxiety playlist here: ua-cam.com/video/oYAF36BykdM/v-deo.html. Hopefully, some of the videos in here could help. Thanks!
@@Psych2go thanks for the information and kindness phych2Go
proud of you for working against it :)
So, I just want to say that I very very recently just broke up with my boyfriend because of these very same reasons and I just want all of you that may be going through this to know that it's going to be okay. It's going to feel extremely rough especially if you still love the person, but you have to remember that your inner peace is better than just keeping someone around for the sake of comfort or fear of change. I'm still in the healing process from it and it's been a roller coaster of emotions, but at the end of the day, it will feel better not having to fight an inner battle with yourself anymore.
I always have the feeling that Psych2Go knows what is going on in my life.
Thank you!
First reason she said I immediately agreed. I felt like I couldn’t be myself because he never liked whatever I did unless it was to just sit still and don’t do anything that includes interacting w anybody. Everything I did, it always gave me anxiety because I’d think, would he get mad at me for this? He always accused me of cheating no matter how faithful I was and when we finally broke up yesterday he still accused me one final time and it made me really upset. He’s been so manipulative and controlling like it’s really crazy and it all goes down to him being a really insecure person who never bothered to address it and overcome it.
I love how y’all squeezed in fnaf! I love it xD
Also yet another great video! This one (and others) have helped me so much. Keep it up!!❤️💕
i find it sad & heartbreaking that... well i had to go through a breakup recently. i just watched this video and... i was able to resonate with almost all (if not all) the points mentioned in this video. breaking up was truly the best for us both, & the points in this video reminded me that the break up was a good choice. it just makes me sad that... our love just couldn't work out as much as we both tried. 😔
i’m going through this rn :( i’m also asking myself why i keep dating narcissistic people and i think it might be because i grew up with narcissistic parents and family members. thank you for the video
"Most" people chase what's familiar.... Kudos for being honest about it. Hopefully you inspire others to do the same. The world could use more introspection among its inhabitants
Maybe, Letting go is the only reason. I like him a lot sometimes but I’m not sure about our future. It’s also scary to break up because we’ve gone too far in our connection, cared about each other but in the end, all that I felt is that maybe we’re not meant to be forever.
The animation in this is very appealing! I really dig the vibe and simplicity of it:)
I’m more off into friendship with them. I started to realised things are going south and it became less exciting due to we talked daily. So right now we are just having some space but at the same time worried that we can’t go back like it used to anymore. i will miss them and never regret meeting them even once. Thank you for existing in my life
This is true and relatable for me. The same thing happened with me. And as said sometimes we need to let go things for us and others for their better. This feels soo good when learnt this things from your own and when it works ✨😇
THE THUMBNAIL IS SO ADORABLE
THE WHOLE IS WATER WET CONVO !?!?
GLAMROCK FREDDY--
the among us plushie and " you have to VENT blu " !?!?
This was me with my last... she didn't actually like me back in the first place so for a long time we were stuck together and I was convincing myself it wasn't an unhealthy relationship but it was. It was always me starting convos, I had to hide a lot of myself around them, etc. ): Hopefully my next relationship will go more positively, thank you for the tips.
@Vicky Pharo Thank you very much Vicky! I have since gotten over the feelings and such, I appreciate your compassion!
The best thing a person can do to protect their hearts is to match the energy. Learn to treat people like they treat you and 85% of problems, and insecurities, go away.
The person that made the dialogues IS amazing, they are hylarius
"I'm not a fury, am I" 😂
i love these videos, and your voice is so soothing. even though it's a 10 signs someone may not be for you, i was able to think about my partner and realize that i'm very happy where we are.
also, awry is like a-hunting, so it sounds like "wry."
The initiating one is a big thing. I always have to speak first to spend time with them and talk. It hurts because it seems like I am not needed and am useless to everyone. I dont have anyone that tells me how im doing or good morning. So i decided to go in search of better friends. Still waiting. Ill post updates here.
Update 1: its pretty hard. Really awkward to just approach someone and talk
2:45 omg that is so cute the speech bubble 😭😭😭 love it😂😂
Staying in bed all day and binging Psych2Go vids after acute people trauma is it’s own therapy ❤️❤️❤️❤️
After all this videos about relationships, signs, etc etc I just come to the conclusion that seeking for/being in a relationship is just so energy draining that I might aswell just invest that energy into things more relevant than finding a "partner" thats still gonna go at any given time.
I support this style. Another great video. Thanks for posting.
Accuracy 100%.....ended late last year. Ended my year with saying my thank yous and good byes....maybe after healing from all the past hurt possibly give it a wholehearted shot in the future. Till then take care of yourself
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This is really helped! I’ve been thinking of
breaking up with my girlfriend-… She makes me cry way to much
and when I hang out with her i don’t have any motivation-!
She always says I do something wrong when I don’t do anything and she doesn’t tell me about anything!
I try to be there for her, but it’s just so hard!!- I try to keep her happy but she’s always mad or annoyed at me!
She never tells me what I do wrong! And I guess, I’m a little protective of her but it’s only cause she’s done bad stuff it the past!!
She complains to me about me being a little protective but I just am trying to keep her safe!
I’m not overly protective tho-! Also, every time I say, “I might break up with u” she just ignores me and or puts “…” when we text!
I love her so much but I just can’t deal with her!!! She makes me cry everyday and she makes me really sad!
I change my whole personality, just to make her happy even when I’m sad! Anyways, that’s all I had to say-…
Sounds as if you don't love yourself enough. Practice more self love and others can then love you too. I too was a people pleaser but once I made it about me first then others respected me. As long as I cared more for others they took advantage of my good nature.
Whatever you do I wish the best on your journey you are the most important person in your mind always now.
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yeah i went through some of these but i know now where to stand and if she come back never give her that same reason to leave
Hooollld uppp did i just see a cursed princess club reference- 0:46
11 years. Married vor 7. We started this relationship just before I turned 17 and my parents hated them. It was just awful in the beginning. My friends wasnt really fond of them, but they didnt hated them straight up like my parents did.
I was in love an knew about their bad past and a part of the traumas they went trough. So I sticked to them and my love grew every single day.
But then I noticed, that I can not heal from my own traumas. Ptsd is horrifing but they have this as well … just for other reasons.
I couldnt move forward. I was stagnant because deep down I knew, that when I grow, they wouldnt and I had to leave them behind.
I didnt wanted that and I did more and more and even more, till my whole world … was them.
I couldnt go out to meet friends, because I had lost so many … and because of the thought, that I would find someone else I think could be interesting.
I denied the fact, that I should leave. I couldnt leave, even if I wanted to. All this hurt I would cause them.
And then, last month, I finally decided to end this. They ruined 2 out of my 3 passions and the moment I realised this, I fled to my godfather, thought about it all and ended the relationship.
They and I are still married. Its all fresh and we also still live in the same flat, just in diffrent rooms.
And I feel SO much better. I dont have to try and fix things anymore. I dont need to pretend to care for their stuff.
All these feelings of freedom, boredom etc are so new and exhausting. But I move again. I can live for myself, even in the same flat.
They is a good person and the years we spent werent always bad. We just … grew apart.
And I cant wait for my life to finally start again. Breaking up is the best decision I made in the last 8 years.
It's so cute that Genshin Impact characters were used in the thumbnail 🥰
Unfortunately I had to let go of a relationship like this once. I'm glad I made the right choice. Though it did _not_ end well, unfortunately.. And I probably should've or could've handled it better somehow but at the same time, that might just be my anxiety and self consciousness talking.. I definitely recognized a lot of these signs. And the person became really desperate and clingy when I suggested we break things off, to be fair..