The honesty one is very tricky I guess, what stops us from sharing everything with our partner? Does this mean honesty can destroy? How is not sharing everything protecting someone? I dont know but can we also bring scripture to this so maybe we can see God's perspective on honesty. I dont know if my comment makes sense I Love you guys. Your transparency is releasing so many from bondage and it is so refreshing
We definitely agree with you ,in part… Honesty is definitely the best policy however information which will not serve real purpose and not contribute to your relationship in a positive way, then we would choose to omit. We are also not talking about instances where there’s deceit, as we strongly discourage being deceitful . Examples of some of the things we feel will not be building would be: - Small things that you find annoying about your partner. Pray about it and move on; - Negative feelings towards your partners family members; - Discouraging them about their dreams and goals without catching the full vision. etc Hope this gives you a bit of context on our stance.
❤️❤️All my love from Nigeria, She is too much, such a bomb, a challenge... Please ensure you push this for her, she will indeed be a blessing to many more 🥰🤗
Is it just me or someone else smiles sheepishly by just seeing this couple... And when they start talking, mehn... Its tops it up for me. I need to be honest, am crushing on you guyz for real...all the way from Nigeria.
Sorry for keeping you waiting. With that said, i am here now. With the register. ✍🏿 Here we subscribe and keep our notification bell on. We like before watching. comment while watching. (Ads are part of the instalment, so we watch them too.) And we share share share. Love, class captain.
The way you guys root for each other .. like you always have each other’s backs and express kindness when you talk about each other’s weaknesses 🥺🥺❤️❤️
Phetola should definitely enter as Mrs South Africa! You are a stunning, confident, quality woman of God, and you’d represent God, your family and country well! I’m from Bermuda so I can’t vote officially, but take this comment as my vote!! 😅 I’ve learned soooo much from you in each installment about how to carry myself as a woman (until God allows me to become a wife and mother). Oh, and I think your laugh would win major bonus points. 🤗💛
In terms of honesty vs transparency in/before relationships (not marriage), I believe that there can be some information that can be premature to share with a person and would cause more harm than good. You can omit some information and still be honest about the fact that you are omitting it, like Lerato said. I straight up told a guy I was talking to that I was not ready to share certain information with him instead of lying about it, and he understood and appreciated that. I’m realising now how wise it was of me not to share at that point because I myself had not even healed or understood that certain thing. I would have confused him as well. Now, a few months later, I feel I’m in a better space to be able to share that stuff with wisdom, a sound mind, and in a concise manner. Ps. This is something that only affects me, not the both of us. It would be a different story if it also affected him.
Your videos are purposeful.this is a calling and you guys are fulfiliing it effectively. I hope they increase Lerato's chances of getting into heaven😂😂
Phetola I like that point, women read and research a lot and men are a bit idle about these things. For instance It took a while to get hubby into consuming marriage content and thank God he enjoys it now and seen how it has opened conversations between us and has gotten us communicating much more than we did in the past. Yes to Phetola going to Mrs SA, she is a perfect fit
Sis Phetola please enter for Mrs South Africa hle because you already have my vote akiri sisters are there to uplift each other ❤️thank you The Makhs this video was very informative and fun to watch 🤩
I've started watching your videos a week back or so and you guys are so beautiful together. I love your hearts and vibe as a couple. Thank you for relatable great content. Shout out from Botswana
I find that I value transparency more than I value honesty (that’s not to say that I don’t value honesty because I do ). My understanding of honesty is if I ask you a question and you tell me the truth. Whereas, transparency is you tell me the truth without me having to ask. I feel transparency comes with the greatest amount of respect because you’re at the point where you know that you can trust me even in your most vulnerable state. I strongly feel transparency is the defining moment in the shift of dynamic of the relationship from getting to know each other to being invested in each other’s growth.
Yes, we would vote for you. Hence I asked you when you did the hair instalments to consider some girl talk instalments. You are incredible. #phetolaforMrsSA
Honesty is everything, thanks for putting it out, our generation needs it more than anything. We are a generation that keeps taking and giving nothing back to the world. It all emanates from little things like dishonest
Loved the questions. My partner and I have actually asked each other these, which were mostly inspired by a book we read called Eight Dates by John Gottman. We are still in the dating phase so your videos truly inspire the kind of marriage and home I want. Thank you for opening up your home for us to learn. I don't always comment 🙈 but I always watch and like.. More like like then watch😁. God bless your family. And I'll definitely vote for you Mrs Makhs😌😌
I believe in the marriage as a concept and as a union. I truly appreciate you guys for letting us into your marriage in such a real n transparent manner. Thank you for debunking a lot of myths surrounding the union of marriage. You are making it less fearful and more luring and enjoyable. I truly appreciate the role you are playing in my own journey toward marriage.
Very interesting questions indeed, with very difficult answers I must say. Enjoyed it, but I think I enjoyed seeing He Makhs was so smitten by She Makhs.😂😂😂😂, he couldn’t help it.
Ntate Makhs your wife's laughter is out off this world besides the content you guys deliver i listen to hear her laugh 🙈 big ups to you guys love your work
Ausi Pheto from the first episode I watched I've BEEN thinking this lady should enter Mrs South Africa, cause you're absolutely amazing so please. Please🙂
I love you guys so much ❤️ this girl is single but gets all excited everytime you upload 💃💃 I adore how Lerato looks at his wife each time😍❤️so adorable
0 dislike for this video, if this is not God's job then I don't know. This is the first time ever in my life seeing installment without dislike. It really proves your authentucity... This is so amazing
All i know is that you become Transparent to avoid explanations,and built Trust and Mistrust,honesty is becoming true to yourself and in everything avoid pretense and keeping things to yourself for too long emptying yourself.
Ba ha Makhetha, please unpack the honesty chat with us. What interesting view and context you are bringing in. Thank you for these sessions. We're learning so much. Your love is beautiful also!🥰
Great content, Not sure whether you are aware for future videos Phetola needs to look directly in the camera rather than side ways. Keep up the good work guys
Yes we’d definitely vote for you Pheto 😍 🇿🇦 👑 I’ve learnt so much from you guys but the biggest of them being the extension of grace to one another and carrying oneself gracefully. I feel like I breathe better here... 😩❤️
Absolutely enjoyed this segment So much laughter towards the end on Phetolas political views yoooh weitse keng we don’t discourage eating maar at least achieve 90% of the things that needs to be done 😅 I would definitely vote for you obe Mrs SA 🤗😃 You are so beautiful mommy ❤️
Phetola hle batong!!!!!! Go, go and enter that Mrs SA!!!!! Your husband is so so so right. You embody all the qualities and characteristics of a Mrs South Africa maan! Please recognise how AMAZING you are comrade, please chief😃.I would so vote for you I would so get my to peeps to vote for you. You are a winner wena!!!!😉
I think there are certain standards that consider omission as dishonesty. But i think as a couple, u need to agree to what standards of dishonesty are acceptable to u.
As soon as I came across you (AMAAAAAAAAZIIIIIIINNNNNNG couple) I am hooked and wow, everything you share is so so invaluable. I now sit with a notebook to take notes, because when the Mr shows up, home girl will be ready😎☺️😁🙃🤗💃🏾. Loads of love, best of wishes and abundant blessings upon abundant blessings from 🇩🇪 . You two are the realest👌🏾. P.s Now I am shamelessly going to copy paste this until I get a shout out😂😂
I think honesty is coming out with the truth without being asked Transparency is waiting to be asked... If it was not brought up the information was not gonna be revealed
Definitely Phetola for Mrs South Africa, this platform has definitely inspired me to be the kind of woman Phetola is, a woman after God's own heart. Please do definitely enter we will most definitely vote for you !!!
The honesty one is very tricky I guess, what stops us from sharing everything with our partner? Does this mean honesty can destroy? How is not sharing everything protecting someone? I dont know but can we also bring scripture to this so maybe we can see God's perspective on honesty. I dont know if my comment makes sense
I Love you guys. Your transparency is releasing so many from bondage and it is so refreshing
We definitely agree with you ,in part… Honesty is definitely the best policy however information which will not serve real purpose and not contribute to your relationship in a positive way, then we would choose to omit. We are also not talking about instances where there’s deceit, as we strongly discourage being deceitful . Examples of some of the things we feel will not be building would be:
- Small things that you find annoying about your partner. Pray about it and move on;
- Negative feelings towards your partners family members;
- Discouraging them about their dreams and goals without catching the full vision. etc
Hope this gives you a bit of context on our stance.
It does give me context, thank you so much for your response
I totally understand
Yessssss Pheto. Next year enter Mrs SA il organise my army to vote for you
Aaaaah this is so sweet!!!♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗
❤️❤️All my love from Nigeria, She is too much, such a bomb, a challenge... Please ensure you push this for her, she will indeed be a blessing to many more 🥰🤗
If you Enter Mrs South Africa I would VOTE for you, Phetola
Ke tlo entere waitsi! 😬😬🤗🤗🤗. Thanks for the vote of confidence♥️♥️♥️
Me too
@@_lebz_M_TV awesome 😊
Phetola for Mrs South Africa, will definitely vote for you🙌🏽❤️ I love you guys🤗
I don't want to sound weird but now I treat the Makhs as my older brother and sister.. I'm not married but I love how they give good advice 🌸🤍
Is it just me or someone else smiles sheepishly by just seeing this couple... And when they start talking, mehn... Its tops it up for me.
I need to be honest, am crushing on you guyz for real...all the way from Nigeria.
Mr Makhs, i think they must always make you the main speaker at all your men's conferences in this country
"A partner that gets intimidated by me is not my partner"💕 thank you for this, it's rough outchea.
Sorry for keeping you waiting.
With that said, i am here now. With the register. ✍🏿
Here we subscribe and keep our notification bell on.
We like before watching.
comment while watching.
(Ads are part of the instalment, so we watch them too.)
And we share share share.
Love, class captain.
Phetola is so pretty😍, and her laugh is so contagious!!😅
Definitely… Phetola for Mrs SA… Look forward to her laugh always 😂😂
Yaaaaayyy!!!🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️💃🏿💃🏿
I love how you guys interact with each other as husband and wife
We will definitely vote for you as Mrs SA
So much respect 😭
The way you guys root for each other .. like you always have each other’s backs and express kindness when you talk about each other’s weaknesses 🥺🥺❤️❤️
I’m here marking the register. Beautiful people ❤️
Present!🤗🤗♥️
Phetola should definitely enter as Mrs South Africa! You are a stunning, confident, quality woman of God, and you’d represent God, your family and country well! I’m from Bermuda so I can’t vote officially, but take this comment as my vote!! 😅 I’ve learned soooo much from you in each installment about how to carry myself as a woman (until God allows me to become a wife and mother). Oh, and I think your laugh would win major bonus points. 🤗💛
Sis Phetola's laugh is everything 🥰😘❤😂
Sooo true ♥️
In terms of honesty vs transparency in/before relationships (not marriage), I believe that there can be some information that can be premature to share with a person and would cause more harm than good. You can omit some information and still be honest about the fact that you are omitting it, like Lerato said. I straight up told a guy I was talking to that I was not ready to share certain information with him instead of lying about it, and he understood and appreciated that. I’m realising now how wise it was of me not to share at that point because I myself had not even healed or understood that certain thing. I would have confused him as well. Now, a few months later, I feel I’m in a better space to be able to share that stuff with wisdom, a sound mind, and in a concise manner.
Ps. This is something that only affects me, not the both of us. It would be a different story if it also affected him.
Yes for Mrs SA and we will back you.
Been such a fan of Phetola since she was the face of Sisters of Africa conference at church.
Your videos are purposeful.this is a calling and you guys are fulfiliing it effectively.
I hope they increase Lerato's chances of getting into heaven😂😂
😂😂😂
Thank you so much for the love♥️♥️♥️♥️
Phetola I like that point, women read and research a lot and men are a bit idle about these things. For instance It took a while to get hubby into consuming marriage content and thank God he enjoys it now and seen how it has opened conversations between us and has gotten us communicating much more than we did in the past.
Yes to Phetola going to Mrs SA, she is a perfect fit
Sis Phetola please enter for Mrs South Africa hle because you already have my vote akiri sisters are there to uplift each other ❤️thank you The Makhs this video was very informative and fun to watch 🤩
We shall vote, Phetola for Mrs SA💃💕
Aaaah guys♥️♥️♥️♥️
I almost jumped when i saw the notification, thanks for always serving us nice stuff mahn!!!
I screamed!!! So I feel you😂
Same here 🤣🤣
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰aaaaawwww
please enter Phetola!!!!
100% behind you!!!!
I've started watching your videos a week back or so and you guys are so beautiful together. I love your hearts and vibe as a couple. Thank you for relatable great content. Shout out from Botswana
Thank you for another episode!!! I love the fact that Lerato freely takes his role as the head to provide and love his family. Sooo refreshing :)
This people are so much in love even after 13 yrs that it is such a blessing to me...And Phetola's laughter is everything...
I find that I value transparency more than I value honesty (that’s not to say that I don’t value honesty because I do ). My understanding of honesty is if I ask you a question and you tell me the truth. Whereas, transparency is you tell me the truth without me having to ask. I feel transparency comes with the greatest amount of respect because you’re at the point where you know that you can trust me even in your most vulnerable state. I strongly feel transparency is the defining moment in the shift of dynamic of the relationship from getting to know each other to being invested in each other’s growth.
Yes, we would vote for you. Hence I asked you when you did the hair instalments to consider some girl talk instalments. You are incredible. #phetolaforMrsSA
I'm loving the hashtag 😊
Honesty is everything, thanks for putting it out, our generation needs it more than anything. We are a generation that keeps taking and giving nothing back to the world. It all emanates from little things like dishonest
Definitely we shall vote for you. 🔥🔥🔥you are beautiful, smart and you add value and definitely have something to give to humanity
Aaahhh🥺 Lerato randomly saying to Pheto “your so beautiful “
Loved the questions. My partner and I have actually asked each other these, which were mostly inspired by a book we read called Eight Dates by John Gottman.
We are still in the dating phase so your videos truly inspire the kind of marriage and home I want. Thank you for opening up your home for us to learn. I don't always comment 🙈 but I always watch and like.. More like like then watch😁.
God bless your family.
And I'll definitely vote for you Mrs Makhs😌😌
Nice conversation guys. Thank you, oh hey Phetola go for it girl.
The Great I AM loves you
I believe in the marriage as a concept and as a union. I truly appreciate you guys for letting us into your marriage in such a real n transparent manner. Thank you for debunking a lot of myths surrounding the union of marriage. You are making it less fearful and more luring and enjoyable. I truly appreciate the role you are playing in my own journey toward marriage.
Go for it.. Will definitely vote!! Love you lots ❤️
Sego don’t let me down once I’m there neh. O voute 😂♥️
Hey Family
Thank you for sharing from the heart as per usual. I love Phetolas views on men, they really need to be more teachable.
Hey Fam! Thank you so much for your constant love and support♥️♥️♥️♥️
Phetola your laugh is contagious😂😂 enter thee miss SA u gorgeous
It's like your love for each other grows more and more on each new video, it's really beautiful to watch!! Thank you for sharing your family with us
I agree. Please enter Mrs South Africa.
In all the videos I've watched ya'll are holding hands... when I realised this I teared up a little.
Very interesting questions indeed, with very difficult answers I must say. Enjoyed it, but I think I enjoyed seeing He Makhs was so smitten by She Makhs.😂😂😂😂, he couldn’t help it.
Happy to be here....my fav couple
Like before listening because I know you never disappoint 😁
Aaaah thank you so much♥️♥️♥️
Phetola for Mrs S.Africa moss ayicace ❤️❤️,enjoyed this one too fam🙌🙌
Phethola please enter. I would totally vote for you 😍🥰
You are so beautiful to watch, #TheMakhs, your connection is amazing. She definitely should enter Mrs SA. We will vote for you, Mrs Makhs.
Ntate Makhs your wife's laughter is out off this world besides the content you guys deliver i listen to hear her laugh 🙈 big ups to you guys love your work
Am probably the youngest follower here
Am honestly learning a lot from you guys ♡
“We’re in a serious relationship”😂
Ausi Pheto from the first episode I watched I've BEEN thinking this lady should enter Mrs South Africa, cause you're absolutely amazing so please. Please🙂
I love you guys so much ❤️ this girl is single but gets all excited everytime you upload 💃💃 I adore how Lerato looks at his wife each time😍❤️so adorable
Yes amen Men are providers and women are nurtures. We are ying and yang like that
Thank you guys personalities should click to avoid awkward moments in the relationship going forward😊.
my favorite South African youtubers couple im watching from Lesotho
Thank you so much Polao♥️♥️♥️
Oh man! I thoroughly enjoyed this instalment!
And YES! You have great Potential and I think you should enter for Mrs South Africa!!!
I have learnt that honesty is being truthful when you have to be and transparency if freely giving the truth without being ask
That moment when Mr Makh said "eish, you're so beautiful" 😢😢🕯️🕯️
Yes please enter for Mrs. South Africa, I love you and I believe you have the potential. I will definitely back you up (vote for you).
Yes! Yes! Yes! Mrs Makhs for Mrs SA!!!!!!!! You convinced you'd get my vote yet?
Not me resisting this channel since last year. God brought me here last month (again😂😂). And now I'm running to the notifications today. 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂!! So happy you gave in! Welcome♥️♥️♥️♥️
I'm def gn Vote ,Mrs SA here we come!!!!
Constantly learning from you guys, I love that you are keeping it real...appreciate you both
Love love love looooovvvvveeeeee you guys so much ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much Malebo. We appreciate you. Love you!♥️♥️🤗🤗
0 dislike for this video, if this is not God's job then I don't know. This is the first time ever in my life seeing installment without dislike. It really proves your authentucity... This is so amazing
Give up the right to be right.. I felt that shoo( in Phetolas voice)😁
All i know is that you become Transparent to avoid explanations,and built Trust and Mistrust,honesty is becoming true to yourself and in everything avoid pretense and keeping things to yourself for too long emptying yourself.
Ethical,incorruptible men and women of integrity and selfless leadership is needed in our political sphere.
Phetola is sooooo funny, can Lerato comment on the saying that men love happy women. Phetola makes me laugh. All the way from Uganda
Aaaaaaaahhh thank you so much! Laughter is very important to me. I am so happy that I can make others laugh♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I would 100 ℅ vote for you to be Miss South Africa😂😂😂.
Lots of love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪. Am really learning alot
😂😂 for that contagious laugh and humility...you have my vote moghel 😍
Ba ha Makhetha, please unpack the honesty chat with us. What interesting view and context you are bringing in.
Thank you for these sessions. We're learning so much. Your love is beautiful also!🥰
My guys 😎U rock. Perfect representation of God's blessing
Great content, Not sure whether you are aware for future videos Phetola needs to look directly in the camera rather than side ways. Keep up the good work guys
Constantly learning and unlearning from your videos🤙
Yes our men need good role models 🙌🏽
Shona and Connie typa vibess❤️
Omg I died when Phetola said sorry ne e pala 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for your ministry, family ♥️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Go enter Mrs SA girl. You will WIN. Go Bamoka, that infectious laugh, looks and brains will get you that crown and win a lot of hearts. Ilwa Ntombo
Of course we will vote for you Pheto 🔥👌
Really?!🤗🤗😩♥️
Phetola for Mrs South Ah’ ❤️👏🏻
Yes we’d definitely vote for you Pheto 😍 🇿🇦 👑
I’ve learnt so much from you guys but the biggest of them being the extension of grace to one another and carrying oneself gracefully. I feel like I breathe better here... 😩❤️
No omission for me, complete honesty :) !
Absolutely enjoyed this segment
So much laughter towards the end on Phetolas political views yoooh weitse keng we don’t discourage eating maar at least achieve 90% of the things that needs to be done 😅
I would definitely vote for you obe Mrs SA 🤗😃
You are so beautiful mommy ❤️
Phetola hle batong!!!!!! Go, go and enter that Mrs SA!!!!! Your husband is so so so right. You embody all the qualities and characteristics of a Mrs South Africa maan! Please recognise how AMAZING you are comrade, please chief😃.I would so vote for you I would so get my to peeps to vote for you. You are a winner wena!!!!😉
Yasss Phetola for Mrs SA 2022!
I think there are certain standards that consider omission as dishonesty. But i think as a couple, u need to agree to what standards of dishonesty are acceptable to u.
The way Lerato looks at her,wow!!!Love love and affection
You guys are such a vibe. I bumped into your channel yesterday and I was like, I will be listening to you again. Phetola's laugh is just it!!!
We will vote for you Pheto ❤️❤️
As soon as I came across you (AMAAAAAAAAZIIIIIIINNNNNNG couple) I am hooked and wow, everything you share is so so invaluable. I now sit with a notebook to take notes, because when the Mr shows up, home girl will be ready😎☺️😁🙃🤗💃🏾.
Loads of love, best of wishes and abundant blessings upon abundant blessings from 🇩🇪 . You two are the realest👌🏾.
P.s Now I am shamelessly going to copy paste this until I get a shout out😂😂
The gems in this video - that time I watched it when it dropped last year too.
Right!! I'm back here again!!
I think honesty is coming out with the truth without being asked
Transparency is waiting to be asked... If it was not brought up the information was not gonna be revealed
Yes to Mrs South Africa..I would vote for you.
Watching from Germany, love you guys.
Notification gang 😍❤️
🤗🤗🤗
Give up the right to be right!!
Listern osi babes. Im for it go for Miss SA , you are brilliant cc.
Oh my word you guys are so much happier today. Love this🤍😭
Pheto's laugh! Forever my favorite!!
Definitely Phetola for Mrs South Africa, this platform has definitely inspired me to be the kind of woman Phetola is, a woman after God's own heart.
Please do definitely enter we will most definitely vote for you !!!