ASKING MY WIFE *JUICY* QUESTIONS MEN ARE AFRAID TO ASK WOMEN | South African Couple YouTubers
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2021
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In today's instalment, Lerato asks Phetola juicy questions that men are afraid to ask women.
Check out Phetola’s sit down with Buli:
• WHEN THE WIFE BECOMES ...
When my girlfriend starts saying I'm fine, Immediately know that there trouble in paradise. If shes really fine she would never use the word fine.😅
😃😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂Always!!!
You sir have figured woman out😂😂
A man of is word is what attracts us more to a man. A man who can hold it down, who is self-aware of himself...so attractive! And of course, a man who has a relationship with God.
Definitely💯💯
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I personally like it when my man is comfortable enough to be vulnerable around me...once in a while just be in my arms for comfort...I wouldn't mind...
We really do love it♥️
The Queens laugh is so contagious bathong, makes my day. Absolutely adore your compatibility.
♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗
She’s so cute 🥰🥰
This new intro is giving what it's supposed to give 😭🔥🔥
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🥂🥂🥂 thank you!
Yey!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 its doing it
Some women do it, to protect their partners, because if a man knows that they did not satisfy you, they feel like they failed. And that put pressure on them. While some might lebel their women as needy.
So true.
Pheto's laugh is contagious manh😣😂😂❤
Good boys are scared - Bad boys are bolder. We dont want to be mistreated, but we dont want someone afraid and boring with no ideas. LOL
Yesss‼️
I was never attracted to "bad boys"
Women definitely look at the character. Integrity! Presence! Knows exactly what he wants
The less you know about how many person your partner has been with is the better it will be for you both. Something are better left unsaid, which makes for a peaceful life.
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Most bad boys are very charming and manipulative, they're always ready to attack whereas good guys take time to even shoot their shot, sometimes women want that exciting factor thinking they could even change these bad boys
Yesss‼️
Such a valid point! I think as women we also like “projects” thinking we can change someone. We learn the hard way. A human being can’t change a person.
Wanting a bad guy is more of feeling of security. In a young mindset perspective bad means protector, exciting.. it's the demeanor and we like confidence. As we grow older what we admired we than realise we deserve more and the good guy will end up finishing first if they stay consistently good!
Then you come with trauma to a good guy that he will most likely pay for or make up for all the trauma that was caused by the bad guy because guaranteed for sure your bad boys batlao hurdaa 🤣🤣
@@simonmahlangu923 we all have some sort of trauma but anyway a bad guy doesn't have to turn a woman into a bad person. It is all about self value if you believe you're a good guy, why would you tolerate any less.. it's a cycle what attracted you to a "bad girl" in the first place ?
True!!!!!!
@@BekaSmalls Most men don't want "bad girls" we fuck them yes because they're attractive but they're not meeting my moms. Let's be honest a bad boy doesn't symbolize "security" or "protection" because you know that relationship will most likely fail. Here's something to think about, a good man makes a woman feel bad because she's not a good woman and a bad boy makes a woman feel better about herself. He takes away the pressure/responsiblity of being a good woman. Take your time, think about it reread again.
I love the answer about periods and moods. 💯
Lerato was savage with this!!! I couldn’t stop laughing. Phetola was spot on for all the answers!!
Right!!!????He went iiiinnn😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you Alesia!
The transparency here👌👌 you did well Phetola. It's honestly reviving to see a young christian couple that is so open in talking about such issues.
Thank you so much♥️♥️
You guys don’t even understand HOW PROUD I am of Pheto!!! I mean in comparison to some of the 1st videos where she in the hot seat??? PHETO YOU KILT THIS!! You are opening up and getting more comfortable and we appreciate it sooo much! Keep it up sis, you repped us well!
Lerato held nothing back with these questions 😅
I love you guys ❤️
Thank you so much Aba! Really appreciate your beautiful words❤️
Sometimes guys feel like we don't enjoy it when we don't orgasm and it's not even the case so we fake it so that they don't feel like they're not doing it proper, it's basically feeding their ego.
Agreed💯
Thats deception
"im ready for you to be a FATHER!" 😂😂😂😂😂
Sis Pheto, you answered really well😍🙌
With regards to the period thing, I totally agree. Gaslighting tends to come in such subtle ways and I think guys have to be mindful of their words even if they feel “justified”. Some people even take it to such extreme measures where they will avoid accountability and hide behind “it’s that time of the month”.
The Makhs always giving me a dose of laughter 🤗
Height, a bit of muscle and good hygiene works for most women
To me as an individual and as a woman who speaks on her behalf.
Size doesn't matter, as long and "One" knows how to use it PROPERLY
Sis Phetola's laugh!! Love it
Awww fam🤭! Thanks for the shout out😁💃. Ke le rata hurree❤❤! Just to add to Pheto's answer, I think security is very important and not just financial security but emotionally, spiritually and physically as well. To know that he's got me covered, no matter what and he has my back. That makes me feel safe.
I like that, the most important thing about a man is character,literally nothing else matters. Consistency in words and actions.
That’s so attractive! We feel safe with a man whose word means everything to them♥️
Character! Character! That is so true a man of His word
If you’re happy married or in a good relationship. NOPE, you won’t even check other men, they’re not even interesting
Before I met my hubby I will fake it if its bad sex or you are wasting time lol but once I met the one who brought it out of me, I can't fake it! He knows me too well. We are not faking things here. We are going all the way.!
I am fine😂 while they are tears in my eyes. As per usual love the yall👏🏾👏🏾
Phet really represented us well on this one❤️ I literally answered all the questions first, and she said the exact same thing!! She is me, I am her, we are one😂❤️
The joy in his face at 10:19
We date bad guys when we are not yet serious about any relationship. Because we think breaking a heart of a bad guy may not make us carry as much guilt as we would carry if we broke the heart of a good guy.
When we finally make a decision to date seriously, we then choose good guys
Ladies, does this make sense????
I absolutely loved this. Its wonderful how freely you guys communicate. Very important aspect of a relationship. Content is rich as always. Shout out from Sarah from Jamaica!!!
"I was poor"😂😂😂😂😂
Love this 😍Phetola represented well there! These are must have conversations with people around us
Love it for the Makhs!!! And the new intro 😍😍😍
About the emotions, Sesi Phetogo answered very well👌👌💯
Very well represented by our Queen!!! Everything was answered just the way most of us would have answered.
The size question 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m dying💀💀. Yes the size matters.💁🏽♀️ and well answered.
I’m not really for the physicality but rather the brains. As my man, are you able to give me answers on things I don’t understand or need to know? Are you able to contribute to general conversations? Can you reason on my behalf? It’s not even about qualifications but just INTELLIGENCE.
Emotional support is a must have felas. Be emotionally available and DO NOT compete with your Queen, you will push her away.
Spot on!!
Love this comment, couldn't have articulated it any other better way.
I love Phetola she's so authentic ❤
Shout out to us who comment before even watching the whole installment🤣🤣🤣❤❤
The character answer is on point 🙌🏽
Well done Phetola for representing!!! 👏❤️ Loved all the answers honestly!
You guys are so amazing😂😘😊I really love this channel can't believe we are on 45k.I was one of the first 5 subscribers.We've grown so much💝💝💝
I love Mr Makhs's facial expressions when wifey answers 🤣🤣🤣.. You guys though 🤩🤩🤩
As a man, it is an obligation to share your food with us, it's not goinyenywhere🥱... And sometimes I'm fine means I want to process my emotions alone.
Here's my 2 Cents from personal observation(I stand to be corrected):
Women do want a Good Guy but fall for/date bad boys because they have kinda studied "the game". It's like they research which Qualities does majority of women like in a Man(Eg romantic, sexy, confident, lil bit dominant, funny, spontaneous etc).. So they have learned how to LURE in their prey(women) by presenting these Qualities to them. I guess that's how most of them also manage to date multiple women.
I agree with Phetola bad guys are fun and always know how to make you want them even more. And good guys are normally real & never just do things to get what they want from you.
Gang gang we here!! It's the consistency for me♥️♥️ dankie fam
You definitely represented us well!!!
Oooh wooow! I just heard my name right there! Yes! You pronounced it very well. You are doing an amazing job. Thats ministry right there. You have no idea! Keep up the good work you are doing. Stay blessed!
As a woman, I feel well represented Ma'am, thank you very much!
You did awesome Pheto! You represented well!
Great installment Phetola, you did very well ❤️😘
I’m fine could also mean let me process my emotions and then speak clearly to you when I’m ready. Also, if you don’t leave us alone we may say some not nice things which we don’t want to do.
Ayy this new intro real got me dabbing for real🔥🔥🔥🔥
Its the consistency for me.. you guys are amazing..😍😍🔥
#notificationGang
Ausi Phetola "A man of your words" on point🙌. For us its simple, mean what you say and that's an outstanding character. I pray everyday to find a man like that🤞
You guys are the best❤️
Much love from Namibia ❤️
🤣🤣Nope size doesn’t matter BUT don’t be TOO small 🙊. Pheto is ME I am Pheto when it comes to wanting dark ‘manly men’ there’s just something about a dark, tall, not pretty and bulky man that makes us feel safe/protected.
Its that manly factor u know and they look like they can take care of stuff in general you know and in charge!!!
I was passing by and I saw this channel I like ur channel guys
Loving your topic before i even watch😍
My faves😍😍 you guys are so interesting to watch❤️
Notification Gang 🔔 🎉 🥂 It's the consistency for me!!! 💥 DREAM TEAM
It's "baby what does I'm fine mean" for me🤣🤣🤣
Outed me ha Lerato a re "Boris Cojo and company" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are representing us very well😅😅🔥🔥🔥 yaasss girl you're on fire
Pheto did really well.#representing.
I agree with you
Mr Makhs came through for the gents🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love the new intro 😍❤️
"Whats the most important thing a woman looks for in a man?"
She gave the answer what they SHOULD look for, but lets be real....that isn't what a lot of women actually think about initially or at all
Phetho answered really well..Representing us ladies
I just love you guys. Keep sharing these awesome videos ❤️
Mr Makhs came guns blazing with these questions
Wow Lerato I never thought men want to know these questions. Phetola I'm with you girl Lerato really put you on the spot but you did well
Size depends on preference and ur women's size as well. Bt what matters most is skill more than size
Skill babe, skill 💯
I enjoy Phetolaz laughter..it's my highlight🤸🤸🤣🤣
I think the big size issue being a thing is because we just say it to bruise a man’s ego most of the time, like if you break my heart I would just say you have a small * just to make myself feel better...
Attacking the guy's ego to make yourself feel better seems like a sign of insecurity and immaturity.
@@believebecomedc3825 okay
Phetola made me also laugh 😂 specifically on the question of “does size matter “ it was indeed uncomfortable 😂😂! Am obsessed with this dream Team ❤️❤️You’re doing great guys
Happy Heritage Day Family
Happy Heritage to you everyone 🥰
Sisi Phetola thanks, you represented us very well ❤❤❤❤.
Another response to Question 1. We are -lovely dovey - NEEDY -we want to be in your space,-what's yours is mine...
I like the new intro. Nice job!
Hei mara!!!these questions are hard🙈😅but you represented us well.
Shuu... Love the new intro🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Road to 50k in October 💃💃💃💃🙏🙏. Wow what an installment, Mr Makhs came prepared for real. But im grateful for this installment truly coz these are se Questions that couples often shun away to ask, they are regarded as "taboo" yet left unaddressed they are causing serious relationship damages. Thank you guys, truly appreciate you and the work that you are doing, God bless you fam💖🙏.
Loving the Current Intro Guys,My 9yr old stopped in her tracks and was like "Mummy I love it" 🔥
Aus Phetola you represented us well 😍. Completely cracked up when Lerato said he was dark because he was poor 🤣 😂😂
Sometimes the whole going for bad guy thing is really daddy issues manifesting themselves, or trauma from previous relationships, all you've ever known are these bad relations with the male gender... sexual relationship wise.
True‼️
Phetola is right we want all things manly... dont be overly sensitive, be bufff enough to squeeze me when I cry, be tall enough for me to hide behind you when danger approaches, a lil hair down there, be dark mhani!!!
Did i not die when he ask does the size matter hahahahaa ses phetola you are really presenting us very well
The tidal sequence is doing the things 😍😍🔥..
Love how joyous Phetola is😍😍😍..
Gang gang💃💃💃💃love you guys you really inspire me♥️♥️♥️
I loved this so much. And i love you two😘❤️
I can't get over the new jingle❤❤❤😭😭😭
Loving the new intro
Phetola’s passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You represented us well sis. 🙌🏾
Dark, tall handsome was my taste... Now am moved to handsome whites, I love interracial, ladies pray for me, I trusting God for interacial marriage
Aus Phetola 🤣😂😂 yey these Questions mara. You did well❤️❤️
Wanting a bad boy is a trauma response pila pila. We can unpack it and list all those other reasons, but it all boils down to trauma.
Glad to hear that many men face the same questions and women somehow react the same way.. “ I’m fine”, then why did you not ask me what was wrong… Glad to know we are not strange 😂😂