As black men we have a lot of unlearning to do and equally a lot of learning to do regarding our perception of marriage and relationships. I really love and appreciate you guys. This is beautiful ❤️
As women we are so grateful for men who have a teachable spirit! That goes a looong way. Thank you so much for the feedback. We appreciate it so much❤️
You guys teaching me a lot!!!!! I’ve got to respond to this caption..Looking back, I’ve failed some what..... Money alone is not the answer.....I like this forum!!!!!
Yes that's romans. I never thought I could gain weight but lockdown level 5 2020 proved me wrong. Hubby was cooking nice romantic lunches every single day for me and the kids. I gained so much in a short period of time and my daughter also gained a lot and she only 9 but wearing 14/15. But I am happy because we didn't gain through stress but by being spoiled. 🤣🤣
Recently started watching you guys and I can't stop! Lovely, wholesome, honest, and exemplary. Really enjoying your content. Thank you for sharing yourselves!
Im so in-love with this chanel .I feel all couples should have this talks it makes it so much easier. transparency, communication and love becomes easier.
I recently got out of a vat n sit situation and on my side, Lerato articulated my "grievances" with so much precision. I find comfort in knowing that there are other men that are from Mars, just like me. Keep going, this is solid.
You are so blessed to have such a wonderful wife. Because I know how uncomfortable communication is, this is the only way she will get the best out of you. She is doing a great job
I'm returning to this video for the 2nd time cause I had a fallout with my boyfriend. The thing of retreating when facing problems, plus the consistency one 😌. I was convinced that I'm ending the relationship but I know he's a gentleman & has never given me reasons to doubt him.
“Life is but a dream”🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤 😂😂 aggg for me is the consistency and the authenticity y’all are so real man And fun...we really do appreciate your installments 🤗🤗🤗🌸😊😊🙏🙏
this was so tense 😂 but it was interesting to hear the guys point of view. I love vulnerability from a guy, I like to make him feel like he can trust me while I encourage him.
I think as men we have been taught about purpose, vision and plans and we grow up thinking we need to have a plan or a solution for everything. Should a time come that you don’t know it’s really a difficult place to be in because women look to you for direction. Thank you for bringing this to life. We don’t always have the answers.
This was hardest of all the clips, with that being said. I totally agree with both side point of view. Truly we can’t live without each other, still we must learn to understand each other. I’m an artist and I believe that it’s hard to be understood 😂. Keep up good work and we learn as we go!
I don't speak nor understand your native language but please, never stop inserting it in your videos. It's something else, my goodness, I'm in love with it!
If only it were possible to like your videos a million times, I would take a day off just to like your videos...You two are amazing.i love the healthy communication..May the Lord bless your family
Such a treat ❤️ Thank you for your authenticity. Thank you for schooling and grounding us through sharing your experiences so generously... Much appreciated 💕💕
What you do is a kingdom thing. A pray that one day you will have a series on mzanzi TV and have couples call to comment./ seek counsel. This is bigger than you could imagine. Launch into the deep for a great catch. This is one of the most transformative session for me. This is life long learning.
Guys where have you been??I only discovered you last week,I've been hooked ever since.Love,love you. Pheto an extra ordinare virtous woman,Lerato a leader with a great vision and wisdom.You guys rock!!Believers keeping it real ❤❤👑👑
I share the same sentiment with Pheto on romance and I also agree with the both of you on the fact that romance means different things to different people thats why it"s important to get to know your partner "date out of the bedroom" over time. On a different note I think behavioral & neuro- psychology be part of courtship as it plays a vital role in understanding some of the basic/general differences between men and women like men are visual beings while women are emotional beings, and that most women are system thinkers (pedantic) while most men are concerned with the bigger picture because of neurological reasons!
I see the channel is growing yippie. 💃💃 Anyway, I share the same sentiments with you Phetola from no.1 to 5, I swear these men were cut from the same cloth. I always say the same thing to my husband, to a point where I annoy myself, so so draining. As for opening up, we've come a long a way, I see a lot of improvement. Communication is really the key
Lerato you said we should let you know how you did... Here's my perspective - It sounded like you were politely defending and giving reasons why you can't change, which mostly seemed to revolve around what Phetola must do or change in order for you to change, rather than you acknowledging and looking within yourself on how you can change on the 5 issues that Phetola raised. But I really found your explanations enlightening, there are different perspectives on a matter. That's my point of view.
Oh my gosh, first video of you guys and your love language and communication... yum, dear future love... God bless your union and family. Thank you for this.
New subscriber! ❤️ I greatly appreciate the examples and the transparency that you both bring to the table. It really helps me to identify with myself.
I am also a lover of the little things YHO! Just bring me back my favorite chocolate and I’m a gone girl. On a serious note - the conversations you guys are having are transformational! You’ve created such a beautiful, vulnerable and necessary space for love ❤️ you two have made a little less scared of marriage & hopeful!!! I can see two willing humans can make it work. Qhubekani! Continue!
YOOOO Phetola is beautiful, the proportion of her heard is everything, Mr Lee you are blessed your wife is quality , her aura and authenticity set her apart, she is indeed pulchritude
We just discovered this channel, great work guys. Content plus quality 👏🏿👏🏼 Biggest issue for most husbands: Wives want it done and it must be done NOW. 😂😂
Not me watching this after breaking up with someone who retreats when they’re processing 🙈 I’m really late on this channel but I’m here now and I’m binge watching everything 🤣
This I need to share with my husband. I see me in your wife's behaviour . Everything I definatly feel the same. Maybe we share the same personality traits. I love you guys ❤❤❤
Am not a man but am like him when am going through a situation i retreat myself because i have to understand what am feeling for myself and understand it in order for me to even talk about it and when i do that i normally find a solution in the process then i talk about it . I really just think everyone handle problems different some people have to talk about it some don't .
Much love. normally if a video goes over 15 minutes I lose interest, but with you guys its different. in fact the longer it takes I know some good nugget will be coming my way. In telling your story, you combine wisdom and laughter. You even tackle both your weaknesses with grace. Just the gestures alone from 34:04 communicated your point perfectly ( even muted it there, and still got you perfectly). Great communicator.
This was a courageous conversation. I think you guys are a funnel so that God can talk to his people. I am a fan of your work. This is marriage, the happy marriage is exactly this uncomfortable conversation. 🤩
Yoooo!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 proper wardrobe malfunction! And we couldn’t re-record because we had already recorded the entire installment and we always go with our first takes. So we had to try make a plan🤣🤣
Wow, your husband is very smarth and very intelligent the way his speak . He is very honest to deffentiate his personal opinion from general opinions. So beautiful the way you address each other. God is really the head of your marriage. Love you guys.
💖💖💖I'm so in love with you guys. So this is the second video of you guys that I've watched and I'm learning so much more than the topic of the installment. Watching you is learning about communication everytime. You full of energy! You're so real! You have so much wisdom! May God continue to bless your marriage and with so much wisdom.
I honestly love the way you guys communicate. You bring such a different energy to Black Love ....Christian Love on YT.
Thank you so much for the affirmation ❤️🙏🏾
Seconded 💛
I really wish this was on Mzansi Screens...alot of marriages could be enhanced or saved. Im new here but im really happy to be part of the family
This is such a great compliment. Thank you. We are really trusting that the message will reach people who need to hear it, at the right time❤️🙌🏾
I a totally agree with you. I have seen some of the programs on TV covering such topics. However, it hasn't been as true as The Makhs..
@@CbosEasyRecipes7 Totally agree too 💯
The moment when Loreto said 'No I dont wanna live without you..forget it'.
Wow!!!! Thats deep love
No truer comment has been posted.
Just a 17 year old taking notes❤️❤️❤️I love you guys😍😊
Oh wow! This is so precious! ❤️❤️.
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As black men we have a lot of unlearning to do and equally a lot of learning to do regarding our perception of marriage and relationships. I really love and appreciate you guys. This is beautiful ❤️
As women we are so grateful for men who have a teachable spirit! That goes a looong way. Thank you so much for the feedback. We appreciate it so much❤️
One of the most honest statements... I felt this ❤️💕
You guys teaching me a lot!!!!! I’ve got to respond to this caption..Looking back, I’ve failed some what..... Money alone is not the answer.....I like this forum!!!!!
Omg! The part where she defined romance as having dinner cooked and the house clean, topped it for me mehn... I cant forget that too
Yes that's romans. I never thought I could gain weight but lockdown level 5 2020 proved me wrong. Hubby was cooking nice romantic lunches every single day for me and the kids. I gained so much in a short period of time and my daughter also gained a lot and she only 9 but wearing 14/15. But I am happy because we didn't gain through stress but by being spoiled. 🤣🤣
You guys are amazing. I have been married for30 years and I am learning so much from this conversation.
Recently started watching you guys and I can't stop! Lovely, wholesome, honest, and exemplary. Really enjoying your content. Thank you for sharing yourselves!
I relate so much when you say a "clean house and a cooked meal after a long day at work is absolute romance".
I really love the honesty in your conversations❤️❤️❤️
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Im so in-love with this chanel .I feel all couples should have this talks it makes it so much easier. transparency, communication and love becomes easier.
I discovered this channel yesterday and I'm hooked. 🌻
Your strength is u listen to each other and u learn from each other 😍
This channel makes me fall for my man everyday.
The honesty that comes with this channel!! I Stan!! 🙌❤️
Aaaah thank you so much! ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I recently got out of a vat n sit situation and on my side, Lerato articulated my "grievances" with so much precision. I find comfort in knowing that there are other men that are from Mars, just like me.
Keep going, this is solid.
Ausi Phetolo is so elegant and well spoken. I love how you guys communicate with each other. Love the channel.
Thank you for the subtitles 🤣🙏 Thato has been translating for me 🤣
We got you Markus!!🤣🤣. How awesome is Thato!?🤗🤗❤️❤️. Thank you both for watching🤗🤗
I do think we as women want things done OUR way.
And we’ve convinced OURSELVES that our way is the right way.
And it’s not.
That was intense, I went through so much emotions listening...it was triggering. Thank you once again for the installment.
Thank you so much for watching❤️❤️
Love the backround sound, honestly makes it much more nicer, no echo etc.. The content hayke, too good.. To 10K
My gosh, the consistency! I love it!
💃🏿💃🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️
The energy in this channel though🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️
New subbie here!!! Love the convo!
You guys are beautiful!!!
I have no words but i love where this drove to! You guys tapped into profound relationships challenges. Thank you, my perspective is blessed.
Thank you so much for watching🤗❤️
you guys have such calm spirits...i could watch you all day...i simply just love you. keep being you...
You are so blessed to have such a wonderful wife. Because I know how uncomfortable communication is, this is the only way she will get the best out of you. She is doing a great job
I'm returning to this video for the 2nd time cause I had a fallout with my boyfriend. The thing of retreating when facing problems, plus the consistency one 😌. I was convinced that I'm ending the relationship but I know he's a gentleman & has never given me reasons to doubt him.
My heart when I get a notification😍My couple
Aaaah!! Thank you so much Wewe . We don’t take for granted that you keep coming back❤️🤗
@@TheMakhs I love you guys one day I want to come back and watch with my husband(well still praying for one☺) such inspirational content
“Life is but a dream”🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
😂😂 aggg for me is the consistency and the authenticity y’all are so real man
And fun...we really do appreciate your installments 🤗🤗🤗🌸😊😊🙏🙏
Aaah Malebo!! Thank you so much for your kinds words! We really appreciate you❤️
Awwww, I’m learning ahead of time and I’m grateful for this. “Communication is 🔑 “
this was so tense 😂 but it was interesting to hear the guys point of view. I love vulnerability from a guy, I like to make him feel like he can trust me while I encourage him.
They don’t want to burden us and they don’t want to put so much stress on us. Thank you guys for sharing.
I think as men we have been taught about purpose, vision and plans and we grow up thinking we need to have a plan or a solution for everything. Should a time come that you don’t know it’s really a difficult place to be in because women look to you for direction.
Thank you for bringing this to life. We don’t always have the answers.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
How you spoke about the honesty part neh is a whole new revelation 🙌👌....this is beautiful 🤍
Aaah thank you so much for watching❤️❤️🤗🤗
Consistency and honesty are key in any relationship. Thank you for breaking it down so we better understand one another. Love u guys💖
Thank you so much for watching! We appreciate your constant love and support❤️❤️😘😘
I immediately download, even when I end up watching it later. I cannot afford to miss these conversations, thank you Fam❤
This was hardest of all the clips, with that being said. I totally agree with both side point of view. Truly we can’t live without each other, still we must learn to understand each other.
I’m an artist and I believe that it’s hard to be understood 😂. Keep up good work and we learn as we go!
um here for the vulnerable conversations!soo good!!I can relate with y'all in so many levels.thank you for the consistency and authenticity
Thank you so much for your kind words! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️
Number 1 for me!!! I can't get enough of your content. Absolutely love your realness and your transparency.
I don't speak nor understand your native language but please, never stop inserting it in your videos. It's something else, my goodness, I'm in love with it!
If only it were possible to like your videos a million times, I would take a day off just to like your videos...You two are amazing.i love the healthy communication..May the Lord bless your family
Such a treat ❤️ Thank you for your authenticity. Thank you for schooling and grounding us through sharing your experiences so generously... Much appreciated 💕💕
Thank you so much for journeying with us. We appreciate you so much❤️
What you do is a kingdom thing. A pray that one day you will have a series on mzanzi TV and have couples call to comment./ seek counsel. This is bigger than you could imagine. Launch into the deep for a great catch. This is one of the most transformative session for me. This is life long learning.
Just got here. And I had no choice but to continue watching...I love that y'all keep God first in everything! So beautiful..Black love
Guys where have you been??I only discovered you last week,I've been hooked ever since.Love,love you.
Pheto an extra ordinare virtous woman,Lerato a leader with a great vision and wisdom.You guys rock!!Believers keeping it real ❤❤👑👑
The way i love your jingle
The way we love you!❤️❤️
@@TheMakhs ke le rata self. I can so relate to your content. Keep it coming guys me I’m here for all of it
I share the same sentiment with Pheto on romance and I also agree with the both of you on the fact that romance means different things to different people thats why it"s important to get to know your partner "date out of the bedroom" over time. On a different note I think behavioral & neuro- psychology be part of courtship as it plays a vital role in understanding some of the basic/general differences between men and women like men are visual beings while women are emotional beings, and that most women are system thinkers (pedantic) while most men are concerned with the bigger picture because of neurological reasons!
I see the channel is growing yippie. 💃💃
Anyway, I share the same sentiments with you Phetola from no.1 to 5, I swear these men were cut from the same cloth. I always say the same thing to my husband, to a point where I annoy myself, so so draining.
As for opening up, we've come a long a way, I see a lot of improvement. Communication is really the key
"Eh la re gafisa maan" that hit home 🏡
1st time commenting, but hey Phetola is me, i am her🥰
“Not when we’ve gotten it wrong, but when we getting it right” !!!!!!!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Subscribed today and already on my third video. You guys are a vibe. Appreciate you
Wabona wena Khutso!🙌🏾🙌🏾 . Thank you so much🙌🏾🤗
Me too
MY WEEKLY PILL
Aaaah!!! This is so special❤️❤️. Thank you🙏🏾
Lerato you said we should let you know how you did... Here's my perspective - It sounded like you were politely defending and giving reasons why you can't change, which mostly seemed to revolve around what Phetola must do or change in order for you to change, rather than you acknowledging and looking within yourself on how you can change on the 5 issues that Phetola raised. But I really found your explanations enlightening, there are different perspectives on a matter. That's my point of view.
Lol I died when Lerato looked at his 6 pack.I love you the Makhs. Aus Pheto you are the best.
Binge watching...love the content! So insightful
I love how you both know each other and communicate so well. There's a lot to learn from this conversation
You guys are amazing! You've become my faves!
Yaaaay!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you so much❤️❤️
Oh my gosh, first video of you guys and your love language and communication... yum, dear future love... God bless your union and family. Thank you for this.
New subscriber! ❤️ I greatly appreciate the examples and the transparency that you both bring to the table. It really helps me to identify with myself.
I am also a lover of the little things YHO! Just bring me back my favorite chocolate and I’m a gone girl. On a serious note - the conversations you guys are having are transformational! You’ve created such a beautiful, vulnerable and necessary space for love ❤️ you two have made a little less scared of marriage & hopeful!!! I can see two willing humans can make it work. Qhubekani! Continue!
IT’s THE LITTLE THINGS!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your kind words and affirmation. We aspire to inspire the possibility of good marriages in 2020...
Your content is deep, very insightful!
YOOOO Phetola is beautiful, the proportion of her heard is everything, Mr Lee you are blessed your wife is quality , her aura and authenticity set her apart, she is indeed pulchritude
When you can't stop watching because you got a shout out ! whooooooop!!!!!!!!!!!💃💃💃💃💛
💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿we see you !!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️
I LOVE the part about wanting to be "perceived" that is so huge. It's like you don't want a mind reader, you just want awareness
Notification gang
Gang gang!!❤️
Mr Makhs is on point, my boyfriend has been saying this to me but he explained it beautifully and more clearly. Thank you
As women, we are taking notes🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
We just discovered this channel, great work guys. Content plus quality 👏🏿👏🏼
Biggest issue for most husbands: Wives want it done and it must be done NOW. 😂😂
Aaah thank you so much for finding us! We really appreciate your affirmation and encouragement❤️❤️❤️
Thanks a lot guys, I just started watching your videos last week, I am learning a lot, you guys are very realistic
Wow!!! "Being honest with yourself to the point where you allow yourself to be vulnerable to your partner" by Lerato 😍
...so Profound
❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
Love number 5, Pheto👌
Not me watching this after breaking up with someone who retreats when they’re processing 🙈
I’m really late on this channel but I’m here now and I’m binge watching everything 🤣
I was about to break up because of that but I'm calmed down now 😂
@@RatoM.Official I’m glad the message reached you in time 🙌🏿🤣
Sho Lerato brought so much perspective hey. This is gonna help so many of us, esp me because I'm Pheto through and through🤣🤣🤣
Lerato is wise beyond his years❤️
You and Pheto🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey Siya funny when l saw this channel l thought of you❤
This I need to share with my husband. I see me in your wife's behaviour . Everything I definatly feel the same. Maybe we share the same personality traits. I love you guys ❤❤❤
Guys my first time here , but let me tell you you were talking to me OMG thank you guys .
Whoop whoop consistency is on another level...love love you family ❤
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️. We love you!!
l just love the way u open up ur lives mostly when u reference to ur own lives. love u family
Am not a man but am like him when am going through a situation i retreat myself because i have to understand what am feeling for myself and understand it in order for me to even talk about it and when i do that i normally find a solution in the process then i talk about it . I really just think everyone handle problems different some people have to talk about it some don't .
5 months later si la📍I wisdom e la!👌love love love, you two!❤
Today I'm not first but atleast I'm part of the notification squad 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰🥰💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Gang gang!! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️
Much love. normally if a video goes over 15 minutes I lose interest, but with you guys its different. in fact the longer it takes I know some good nugget will be coming my way. In telling your story, you combine wisdom and laughter. You even tackle both your weaknesses with grace. Just the gestures alone from 34:04 communicated your point perfectly ( even muted it there, and still got you perfectly). Great communicator.
Learning so much from you two. Shuuuuu! Modimo a le lote 🌿
Re leboha hle 🥺❤️
This was a courageous conversation. I think you guys are a funnel so that God can talk to his people. I am a fan of your work. This is marriage, the happy marriage is exactly this uncomfortable conversation. 🤩
I love watching you guys. God bless this marriage 😍
I love the content that you bring to your challenge❤️ It's really helpful ✨
Amazing honest content. Did you guys go to therapy together? Your communication skills are amazing.
I have 3 boys and a husband and I grew up with a brother as a sibling...the information is very helpful and informative
Number 4!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Consistency is a big one! I would say for me don't do anything while dating that you can't keep up with once you get married.
“Is it me”😂 I’m so much like Phetola 🙈
Wow u guys are amazing the way u both communicate with each. There's a look lot I'm learning that I can also use in my marriage. One love ❤️💗💖
As soon as I started noticing Phetola' s "mmmmmmm" the video changed for me 😂😂😂 I love you guys💓
Yoooo!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 proper wardrobe malfunction! And we couldn’t re-record because we had already recorded the entire installment and we always go with our first takes. So we had to try make a plan🤣🤣
Don't worry about it Sis
The problem is us who notice the littlest details. 😂😂it's a very bad habit, my bad
The truth in this
DEFINITELY CONSISTENCY AND HONESTY ARE BIG TO US!!!!
I enjoyed this. I love the honesty ❤️
We are so glad!❤️🤗
Wow, your husband is very smarth and very intelligent the way his speak . He is very honest to deffentiate his personal opinion from general opinions. So beautiful the way you address each other. God is really the head of your marriage. Love you guys.
💖💖💖I'm so in love with you guys. So this is the second video of you guys that I've watched and I'm learning so much more than the topic of the installment. Watching you is learning about communication everytime. You full of energy! You're so real! You have so much wisdom! May God continue to bless your marriage and with so much wisdom.
We are complicated, mara these men that God blessed us with 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ ...Extreme sport
Can't wait for the next instalment
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 extreme sport!!
What did we do to deserve so many vids this week ! not complaining, LOVE LOVE LOVE!
You welcomed us into your hearts❤️❤️🤗🤗
I enjoy your content so much that I think I’ve rewatched a couple of episodes. You have so much wisdom to share 🔥🔥
You guys are so cool and real..love listening to you..and there's always a smile cause I can relate😍