[Q&A] Is Making Friends HARD in KOREA? 🇰🇷 America vs. Korea, Tattoos, & More

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024

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  • @marlonaleister
    @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +17

    another other question you may have or your own personal stories/anecdotes, please feel free to share here! thank you so much for 40,000 susbcribers and all of the questions in todays video

    • @Smoses_senpai
      @Smoses_senpai 8 місяців тому +1

      If someone were to plan a 3 month study trip to korea what do you think would be the best time for that during the year?

    • @user-vn8wu3cf4v
      @user-vn8wu3cf4v 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Smoses_senpai I recommend April, May, June or September, October, November.
      Avoid summer (July, August) and winter (December, January, February) in South Korea at all costs.

    • @movielink786
      @movielink786 7 місяців тому +1

      Bro get a better hair cut

    • @Smoses_senpai
      @Smoses_senpai 7 місяців тому

      Get better Internet manners@@movielink786

    • @ziggy4u2
      @ziggy4u2 7 місяців тому

      Have you thought about giving up citizenship in America? And if so how hard would it be to become a Korean citizen?

  • @brooklynradillo
    @brooklynradillo 8 місяців тому +12

    time stamps !!
    0:34 - intro
    1:55 - are there specific areas in korea where you can't have tattoos?
    3:26 - is it hard making friends in korea?
    4:45 - do you like korea or america better?
    6:22 - who r u? (lol)
    7:20 - is korea safe right now?
    8:26 - what made you want to come to korea?
    10:15 - please give examples of culture shocks
    12:45 - outro
    hope this helped!! also congrats on 40k i love your content

  • @hjcklv9845
    @hjcklv9845 8 місяців тому +19

    Likely the best man you can find on UA-cam reviewing south Korea so far
    Watched numbers of his contents and I approve this man and his channel gives you very clear truths and advices about korea so far btw I'm a native Korean born and raised, living pretty much all my life here.
    I could find radom people talking about Korea on UA-cam with ease. However, I have not quite found anyone doing it with good enough comprehension of our culture and also without any delusional or biased perspectives until I found this man while scrolling down radom shorts for a bit that was very random
    Most of the people reviewing Korea on UA-cam seem to have such a narrow experiences and perspectives even if they are living here, sometime, even if they are native themselves. They are usually stuck in a perspective of a certain group, such as of only early twenties party studens and etc, but this guy tells most of the things with a wide sight with deep thoughts including good reasons. So yea, great work keep up this way
    I'm not a native eng speaker so my sentences might confuse you, just hoping it would make sense.

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +5

      thank you so much, this means a lot! I do my best to speak from a place of a realistic prospective, especially through my own personal experiences. I have had my ups and downs living here, but anywhere I would move to, it would be the same hahah I have found so much comfort and positivity living here in Korea, and I hope to share my experiences as authentically as possible for those who are curious about coming to Korea for themselves :-) thank you for your support!

    • @Meithesnowman
      @Meithesnowman 8 місяців тому

      Fr!!

    • @Maya-so5yk
      @Maya-so5yk 8 місяців тому +2

      don’t worry, your english is very good and understandable!

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 6 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful compliment. I agree also. I cant stand how some people talk about South korea .

  • @edizzle1981
    @edizzle1981 5 місяців тому +5

    Hi. Hope you're doing ok. Haven't seen you post in a while.

  • @sanfernandovalleyboy
    @sanfernandovalleyboy 4 місяці тому +5

    Hey Marlon, why'd you stop doing videos?

  • @user-rk2vl5id8n
    @user-rk2vl5id8n 8 місяців тому +6

    I think you are great! I’m from Germany. My original name is Hanseatic David Stonebridge, moved from Manchester for some years and the then moved to Rhyl, north Wales. I’ve lost my German accent and picked up Mancunian dialect, the years later Moved to Rhyl, north wales. I can only remember so,em German and I miss German Coffee! Even if I have a German coffee. And a German cousin whom I speak to often. My German comes out of me some times after re learning it without realising it. I so miss my home town, getting up at 6am, enjoying German coffee outside, sat drinking German coffee, my original name is Hanseatic David Stonebridge, please stay safe in North Korea Marlo. Please give us us a thumbs up mu friend. You have done an amazing job in coming to Koreah. Well done my friend. How is the night life for you? My friend? How do you cope, Marlon? Please explain it to me my good friend. Stuart. X

  • @alphafann
    @alphafann 8 місяців тому +8

    한국 좋아해줘서 고마워요~항상 재밌는 영상 잘 보고있습니다~ 그리고 너무 잘생겼어요! ㅎㅎ

  • @dylanthekoreanteacher
    @dylanthekoreanteacher 8 місяців тому +6

    오늘도 잘 봤습니다! Really enjoyed today's video :)

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому

      thank you so much for always supporting - more and more to come :-)

  • @hjcklv9845
    @hjcklv9845 8 місяців тому +5

    Oh and about the tattoo part, just for you Marlone since you are actually settling here, it is only cool between teens and early twenties, it actually is socially nearly banned outside of that certain group. It's because just like there are specific gang sign tattoos in other countries, tattoo itself is still a gang sign in Korea. Also our long old tradition has always banned it and it used to be a sin in out culture. Our very new generations also are aware of this but they are more like, whatever idc it looks cool anyways, but if you are willing to have certain type of jobs here, will be jobs would like you not to have any visible tattoos. Tattoos really do make people think of street gangs still in Korea and It won't easily go away as long as the small gangs keep doing that and the new generations are still new in our society. Even our media tells people that tattoo now is OK, but if you have a closer look on the people in a certain work fields, you can see literally no one has any tattoos on. Yea there is an actual gap between what people say and the actual reality so you might wanna check before get some tattoos if you want one day. It might take couple more generations to be totally ok I guess cz then the people in charges will be the present new generations

    • @user-vn8wu3cf4v
      @user-vn8wu3cf4v 8 місяців тому +1

      맞아요. 한국에서 문신은 여전히 매우 부정적이에요. 제 생각엔 문신에 대한 인식은 세월이 흘러도 딱히 바뀌지 않을듯요

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +4

      thank you for letting us know! yes, I have heard that having tattoos is still seen as a taboo in korea, specifically related to criminal activity and the ban on getting tattoos in korea. from my experience, I have seen quite a few people with varying tattoos in different places - coffee shops, restaurants, parks, saunas, etc. however, I do recognize that Korean society still does have a gap of acceptablility for things like this. I believe especially in working environments, if someone interviewed had visible tattoos, the employer is likely to think about that. in America, there is a similar sentiment but I could imagine Korea would be stricter. thank you for sharing this :-)

  • @Meithesnowman
    @Meithesnowman 8 місяців тому +2

    A whole video about culture shocks sounds quite interesting!! :)

  • @teshi1424
    @teshi1424 8 місяців тому +4

    Great video. Would love a full length video about culture shock, maybe some ones that people might not think about

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +5

      sounds like a great idea! I talked about it briefly in a different video, but I should definitely go more into depth about this topic. definitely something I have my own opinions on, especially through my years of living here I have plenty of stories hahah

    • @teshi1424
      @teshi1424 8 місяців тому +1

      @@marlonaleister sounds awesome

  • @TT-zv1oh
    @TT-zv1oh 8 місяців тому +2

    Congrats on 40k!!

  • @Smoses_senpai
    @Smoses_senpai 8 місяців тому +2

    the video quality is actually alright as it is

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +3

      thank youuuuu I try to make it as good as possible, but I think once I upgrade the quality there will be a noticable difference. ESPECIALLY the brightness idk why but when I upload to youtube the brightness gets so blown out 😭😭 when editing and processing it doesn’t look this way, but whaaatevs lol

  • @TheAttila555
    @TheAttila555 8 місяців тому +2

    Best wishes from Hungary! 😊

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +2

      thank you! I want to go back so badly, I miss Hungary 😭

  • @EVILBUNNY28
    @EVILBUNNY28 6 місяців тому +1

    No way! Six (6) dialects! The UK is only about 2.5x the size of South Korea yet has at least 37 different dialects (accents)
    And yes, some of them are truly incomprehensible if you don’t know how to understand them.

  • @StrangeJedi
    @StrangeJedi 7 місяців тому

    This is pretty cool stuff!!!! I lived in Yongsan (Hannam Villiage) from 1999-2001. Your content is AWESOME! Don't get old, btw

  • @dumbbitchenergy3942
    @dumbbitchenergy3942 8 місяців тому +3

    Ahah when you shushed the camera when saying you play genshin and hsr, I relate so bad. Saying you like those games is harder than saying your opinion sometimes online 😭

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +6

      hahahahah I looooove genshin and hsr, some people juuuuust…. have strong opinions about those games, especially online lolol I’m working on being a more proud genshin/hsr lover, especially after just pulling ruan mei 😭😭

    • @dumbbitchenergy3942
      @dumbbitchenergy3942 8 місяців тому +2

      @@marlonaleister Honeslty so true! It’s so awkward trying to explain games you like when you cant guess if the person is gonna say some awful things when you reveal it. And heck yeah Ruan Mei! She’s awesome, though I’m waiting for peacony characters or IL personally.

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +2

      omgggggg I’m so excited for peacony characters too! I saw Sunday and Robin and I’m just 🧍‍♂️waiting for more info……… I got Ruan Mei at 3 pity AND won my 50/50, my luckiest pull ever so far 😭😭😭 good luck on your peacony pulls!

    • @dumbbitchenergy3942
      @dumbbitchenergy3942 8 місяців тому +1

      @@marlonaleister good luck on your future pulls too! Actually hope you get both Sunday and robin bc I know i want them too 😭

    • @graca87
      @graca87 7 місяців тому

      lmao I relate to this too 🥲

  • @madenesian85
    @madenesian85 8 місяців тому

    Love your videos Marlon!! Keep the amazing content comin 🎉❤

  • @Melleanah
    @Melleanah 8 місяців тому +3

    What would you say the easiest way to start and learn the Korean language. Any suggestions?

    • @alessaxreacts9935
      @alessaxreacts9935 8 місяців тому +1

      Start with learning Hangul the korean alphabet. I learned from the youtube channel Jenny the Live she explains it simple to understand

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +4

      definitely start with hangeul, but dont buy any books for it! you can learn how to for free on so many resources online, and probably within a few hours you will be able to at least READ korean :-) good luck!

    • @Melleanah
      @Melleanah 8 місяців тому

      Thank you I appreciate the suggestions.

  • @sichaoxian
    @sichaoxian 8 місяців тому

    Just came back from Texas. Yes, the car culture especially in Houston is pretty deep. anyone walking on the street is a homeless guy…
    Besides traditional Asian cities, European cities are pretty walkable too

  • @Rebecca-bz6ph
    @Rebecca-bz6ph 8 місяців тому +1

    The whole no tattoos in saunas is more of a Japan thing, as someone who lived in Japan and now lives in Korea that’s what I’ve seen.

  • @user-rk2vl5id8n
    @user-rk2vl5id8n 6 місяців тому +1

    i love you Marlon Aliester ❤

  • @crunch2yy2
    @crunch2yy2 8 місяців тому +4

    I don't mean to cause offense, but I'm genuinely curious about your living situation. Considering the high cost of rent in Seoul and the challenges young Koreans face in securing apartments, I wanna know how you managed to find your current place.

    • @mjferreiro
      @mjferreiro 8 місяців тому +2

      I understood he doesn´t live in Seoul, that makes a big difference about cost of rent.

    • @marlonaleister
      @marlonaleister  8 місяців тому +5

      I don’t live in Seoul at the moment, but I have before and I will probably be moving back veeeery soon. hopefully when the time comes to move, I’ll make a video on the process and go more into depth of how I live here and how I make it possible :-)

  • @KathySmith-ei9yw
    @KathySmith-ei9yw 8 місяців тому

    I think you’re adorable Marlon, keep it up!

  • @gean4890
    @gean4890 7 місяців тому +1

    Hi Marlon, this is my first time watching one of your videos. It's nice to find someone who's willing to answer questions and show a broader perspective on the culture. I am currently learning to speak Korean. I've got the alphabet and can read it but still learning meaning, context and how the culture affects the communication. I do have a question though maybe you can help me out so I don't offend people moving forward.... Is asking someone about their hobbies offensive? I started talking to this guy from Incheon and when I asked what his hobbies were, he super avoided the question. In fact he stopped talking to me for about a week. Then pretended he didn't see the question. When I asked again, he completely stopped talking to me. Like I offended him, but he didn't say this. Also, is it improper or rude for Koreans to ask questions? He answered every question I had, except the one above, but never asked me any in return. I apologize for the length of my post I just wanted you to have context. Thank you in advance for considering my questions.

    • @user-vn8wu3cf4v
      @user-vn8wu3cf4v 7 місяців тому +1

      Asking someone about their hobbies is not rude at all. (I'm South Korean)

    • @gean4890
      @gean4890 7 місяців тому

      @@user-vn8wu3cf4v I appreciate the clarification. Thank you.

  • @akcheartsjb
    @akcheartsjb 7 місяців тому +1

    Do you ever miss your family or go back to the US and visit them? Have they come to see you during these years?

  • @Camilles_pov
    @Camilles_pov 6 місяців тому

    Can you make a video on culture shock? I got into a study abroad program in Korea and i want to learn as much as i can to prepare myself for at unexpected culture shocks!

  • @Chili.512
    @Chili.512 8 місяців тому

    I'm from Texas as well, moving to Seoul next month!

  • @Bella_for_you7
    @Bella_for_you7 8 місяців тому +3

    What is you job? I've heard its hard to get a job as a foreigner

  • @letsplayball0
    @letsplayball0 8 місяців тому

    Great video. ❤

  • @mlisuisme
    @mlisuisme 5 місяців тому

    👍🏼

  • @thunderdrumandbass
    @thunderdrumandbass 13 днів тому

    Do a dating story one bro

  • @KathySmith-ei9yw
    @KathySmith-ei9yw 8 місяців тому

    I like Korean-Koreans better than Korean-Americans. Is that weird?
    My anxiety has gone done 80% since I’ve been in Korea. I never realized how stressful the US is until I came here. Crazy.
    I do live in Las Vegas though, a very stressful town in so many ways.

  • @user-zw7ll2zl1j
    @user-zw7ll2zl1j 8 місяців тому +1

    I've been to South Korea for five years, and there are places where people don't speak English due to a dislike of foreigners. Cultural shock can be challenging. I've lived in Malaysia, where English is spoken, and it's diverse. Have you traveled to other Asian countries?

  • @Smoses_senpai
    @Smoses_senpai 8 місяців тому

    The most shocking thing thing for me in this video was that Aleister isn't your last name😅

  • @anilehn
    @anilehn 4 місяці тому

    7:21 just a little remark from my Ukrainian perspective: even though the war is not active in South Korea at the moment, it can start anytime, and right now there's nothing really that can prevent it. So, imo, it's still better to be prepared, at least look for available shelters nearby (if you're already living there) and read about how to survive a nuclear explosion. I'm not being paranoid. There're chances people living in Korea will wake up one morning and see bombings through their windows like many Ukrainians did.

  • @crazwidowonestepatatime
    @crazwidowonestepatatime 7 місяців тому

    You are a very handsome young man. You should be able to make friends easily. 😊Your wonderful personality helps as well. I’m old enough to be your mother so it can say that and get away with it. 😂😂😂😂

  • @ruhanirusetra8486
    @ruhanirusetra8486 8 місяців тому

    What's your Instagram the one you post on frequently. One in your description is dead end.

  • @brucehur2051
    @brucehur2051 7 місяців тому +2

    tattoos are ugly......