Mary J. Blige Ignored SO MANY Red Flags With Kendu Isaacs 🚩

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  • @Mrs51315
    @Mrs51315 Рік тому +1161

    Never trust a black man with pretty eyes😭🤦🏾

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Рік тому +58

      😂

    • @youknowyoulikeit1000
      @youknowyoulikeit1000 Рік тому +43

      😂

    • @calibama6234
      @calibama6234 Рік тому +71

      Natural eye color or contacts ?😂

    • @mrod87
      @mrod87 Рік тому +229

      Terrance Howard tried to tell us in Best Man. 😂😂😂 Also….his life story. 👀

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +75

      💀💀💀@@mrod87

  • @Sheyshel
    @Sheyshel Рік тому +417

    Don't date when you're in a bad place. Heal first!!!

  • @MadiAbara
    @MadiAbara Рік тому +378

    Molestation, physical/ verbal abuse, promiscuity, substance abuse, being cheated on..Mary’s been thru a lot😭. As a life long fan, I hope she’s well.

    • @lovelysosweet8386
      @lovelysosweet8386 Рік тому +7

      A Capricorn woman’s life!

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Рік тому +7

      ​@@lovelysosweet8386I mean no disrespect. I've had female Capricorn ♑ friends and acquaintances. I won't speak in absolutes. But, quite a few of them seem like THEY'RE addicted to drama ESPECIALLY if they come from a broken home. My late great aunt was no different. 😢

    • @blasianluvschocolate397
      @blasianluvschocolate397 Рік тому +2

      ​@@lovelysosweet8386facts 😢

    • @Mone333Williams
      @Mone333Williams Рік тому

      ​@@danavixen6274I have a Capricorn aunt ..and she is a recovery addict. She was Mary j...every relationship was abusive. Verbal.. physical.. financially..mentally and emotionally. Every single relationship. I'm sorry but it's something about Capricorn women they attract drama...they think love is fussing and fighting. I wish them healing 🌹🩷

    • @career5690
      @career5690 Рік тому +3

      @@danavixen6274My mama isn’t addicted to drama she’s just argumentative when people come for her.

  • @mesimesi2313
    @mesimesi2313 Рік тому +372

    Paying a man money when he cheated has to be devastating. Just listening to this story is making me ill.

    • @MsCeCe-lt1zg
      @MsCeCe-lt1zg Рік тому +25

      Me also.. Stomack starting to hurt

    • @natv55
      @natv55 Рік тому

      Especially him asking for more. Low down dirty good-for-nothing piece of ish 😡

    • @neinei697
      @neinei697 Рік тому +15

      I hate the judge and that viper ex husband.I never liked him from the jump.mxm

    • @BeautyNBrains86
      @BeautyNBrains86 Рік тому +7

      Making you ill. Screaming 😂😂😂

    • @sharriri3030
      @sharriri3030 8 місяців тому +4

      Reason #12 why I don’t want it! Happy af single

  • @teejthebrownbratt1725
    @teejthebrownbratt1725 Рік тому +156

    Not “Kendu with his broke ass!”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +6

      💀💀

    • @DorisPayne348
      @DorisPayne348 Рік тому +2

      That tripped me out too!🤣🤣🤣

  • @danavixen6274
    @danavixen6274 Рік тому +782

    When love is blind, discernment goes out the window.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +33

      Yup!

    • @4.carmeljwn
      @4.carmeljwn Рік тому +29

      I love your comedic style and interludes. Whoever writes the script is pure genius!!

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Рік тому +18

      ​@@4.carmeljwnRRG needs to win some awards. 🏆

    • @4.carmeljwn
      @4.carmeljwn Рік тому +4

      @@danavixen6274 for sure!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +5

      Thank you baby!@@4.carmeljwn

  • @meekaw22
    @meekaw22 Рік тому +46

    I’ll never for When K. Michelle said, "The lighter the eyes, the bigger the lies..." I felt that.

  • @Hains22
    @Hains22 Рік тому +217

    She had a little too much fun making this episode 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +46

      Absolutely 💀

    • @nicolem2877
      @nicolem2877 Рік тому +21

      Ok!!! It’s kind of hard with a rock hard ding-a..😂😂😂. I was busy working with this playing in the background... I was like- say what now??? 😂 😂😅

    • @cebrinachandler1708
      @cebrinachandler1708 Рік тому +7

      Never too much ❤😅

    • @teef3309
      @teef3309 Рік тому +15

      Having her a good ole time! The singing was sending me Lmaooo

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +11

      She has a good time making all of her videos. She's the queen of shade.🤣😄

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Рік тому +466

    She made her husband a manager 😔🤔...nooo. I hope us BW learn not to do this. If a man is such a great " Manager" and such, he should be able to get OTHER talent with no problem. Also, men making more than a ♀️ 👠 is DRASTICALLY different then a woman making more than a man.

    • @rayecaters2u
      @rayecaters2u Рік тому +38

      Sadly, some women will never learn. Life.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому +15

      I mean... we're learning this FROM looking at Mary J, etc

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Рік тому +18

      @@Heyu7her3… and Wendy and Monique…

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Рік тому +2

      ABSOLUTELY agree with you!

    • @BacDaFukUp4life
      @BacDaFukUp4life Рік тому

      tina and the roach, melba moore, angie stone, kelly price... shit the list continues!! she knew betta.....to kick your family to the curb, when it was no problems beforehand!! WTF?
      straight hustla mentality 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @a.h.2667
    @a.h.2667 Рік тому +831

    Mary is not Kendu's physical preference. Never ignore the colorist red flags.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles Рік тому +243

      I won’t date a man that has a history of mostly/solely dating preferences. Nothing against the women, it’s about his mindset.

    • @iwillsurvive1335
      @iwillsurvive1335 Рік тому +120

      ​@@so.many.obstaclessmart 👌🏽. He'll make you a placeholder

    • @susandorcean4555
      @susandorcean4555 Рік тому +150

      The only thing that was attractive about her to him was her money.SMH🤦

    • @fauxgars736
      @fauxgars736 Рік тому +70

      I never liked him because he looked exactly like my ex who took all my money and made me sell my apartment. I never liked him!

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 Рік тому +11

      ​@@so.many.obstacles❤❤❤💯💯💯💯. Yup! Plain and simple

  • @REDMr97
    @REDMr97 Рік тому +152

    You should’ve done the harmony on “NOT GON’ CRY!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Please keep singing! I’m here for it!

  • @Kreezword913
    @Kreezword913 Рік тому +134

    I love that Mary is reparenting her inner little girl💜 I am 42 on the same journey.

  • @scarzwr
    @scarzwr Рік тому +462

    Between the singing, original beats, promoting snacks, the shade and constructive information. I love this channel!
    P.S You guys actually keep it factual an

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +27

      Thank you BFF!

    • @mtchar9312
      @mtchar9312 Рік тому +20

      Love the narrator

    • @tiffanyanderson9437
      @tiffanyanderson9437 Рік тому +15

      Don’t forget the laughter. That laugh makes things even more funny. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Рік тому +8

      ​@@tiffanyanderson9437Her laugh is SAVAGE! 💀💀💀💀

    • @tabithabryan
      @tabithabryan Рік тому +8

      And her voice😂😂😂

  • @paradigmshift9166
    @paradigmshift9166 Рік тому +270

    May this woman find someone that truly loves and cares for her, for her and not her money and success.❤

    • @hartwell146
      @hartwell146 Рік тому +20

      Like so many of us, I included myself ,learn to love yourself first.

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Рік тому +13

      May Mary and MANY others in her shoes love themselves FIRST!!!!

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Рік тому +14

      ​@@hartwell146I was just going to say that that! There's nothing wrong with being happily single.

    • @hartwell146
      @hartwell146 Рік тому +1

      @@wadilotus yes indeed !!

    • @sarossamitha8094
      @sarossamitha8094 Рік тому +6

      That would be a blessing it has been 8 years,since her divorce 😶 miracles do come true🙂

  • @SpammytheHedgehog
    @SpammytheHedgehog Рік тому +175

    You know what they say... love can not only shatter your heart, but it can shatter your mind.

  • @niabelizaire3596
    @niabelizaire3596 Рік тому +169

    Mary is gorgeous and aged like fine wine 🍷❤️👠

  • @theejaydoubleyew
    @theejaydoubleyew Рік тому +218

    She did, many of us have. It happens. She wanted to be loved and again learned the hard way that she wasn't loving herself the best, so attracted someone who did the same. Give thanks that she seems to be on the other side of his goofy axx and she's now living her best life. Mary comes across as a genuinely cool lady; I've always wished her the best.
    That Queen Latifah snark lmaooooo!

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Рік тому +10

      I think maybe he was what she needed at the time. People and seasons change and you realize you’re being left behind. These already famous and talented black women keep marrying the help. Wendy Williams and Monique made the same mistake.

    • @prinprin3324
      @prinprin3324 Рік тому +2

      So true alot of us have learned the hard way 😭

    • @kjkjkj360
      @kjkjkj360 Місяць тому

      well said

  • @donnajustbeingreal6607
    @donnajustbeingreal6607 Рік тому +249

    This is why ladies should date, marry, and have kids by a man that has more than you.
    If not you will be taking care of them. 💔
    Men are provider not women.

    • @JadedJassy21
      @JadedJassy21 Рік тому +39

      Such an outdated viewpoint…date someone who isn’t a user

    • @donnajustbeingreal6607
      @donnajustbeingreal6607 Рік тому +21

      @@JadedJassy21 Thank you for sharing your view point.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles Рік тому +17

      @@JadedJassy21Do you have examples of how this, “outdated viewpoint” has been advantageous for women, specifically after divorce.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому +8

      ​@@JadedJassy21Someone who isn't a user but is, instead, generous

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Рік тому +18

      Or just stop marrying the help and keep your personal marriage love life out of your professional life. They should be separate and this is the reason why.

  • @annrrf1464
    @annrrf1464 Рік тому +255

    Never let a man tell you twice he is not into you

  • @andreablossom3929
    @andreablossom3929 Рік тому +426

    Did Mary have the worst lawyer or what? This case has always been so confusing to me. He cheated. There is proof that he cheated. Usually that is enough for someone to not have to fork over money and not only did he get a hefty alimony check he got child support for children that weren't hers???? How does a judge rule on something like that in the way that he did?

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +151

      No prenup

    • @schmaelepaulection1431
      @schmaelepaulection1431 Рік тому +97

      Also, it depends on the laws of the state you married in too.

    • @dianegreen1937
      @dianegreen1937 Рік тому +80

      I was thinking the same. Who the hell was that lawyer really representing. That was insanity. 😳

    • @kiwihotable
      @kiwihotable Рік тому +82

      That’s the part that pissed me off!! And he had the nerve to ask FOR MORE MONEY!! Trifling at its finest 🙃😒

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +54

      This case pissed me TF OFF‼️

  • @felichiapowe851
    @felichiapowe851 Рік тому +55

    It was so much shade thrown in this video, im sitting under the tree taking a cool break 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +6

      💀💀💀

  • @mildredfierce999
    @mildredfierce999 Рік тому +224

    MJB, Mel B & Wendy Williams, made their husbands their Manager, despite having NO PREVIOUS MANAGEMENT EXPERIENCE 😳 then had to pay them severance pay when the marriage ended. Gurl.....🙄

    • @rerebrook5057
      @rerebrook5057 Рік тому +17

      Wendy is the only one who left with money 🤷🏾

    • @jaythethinker3994
      @jaythethinker3994 Рік тому +7

      But in all those cases there careers took off with their husbands managing, having that support helped them. Problem was the fame went to the men’s head once the wives reached that status.

    • @kaylabey
      @kaylabey Рік тому +17

      @@jaythethinker3994how ? the ladies still lost in the end. what good is the success if they have nothing to show for it ?

    • @jaythethinker3994
      @jaythethinker3994 Рік тому +2

      @@kaylabey what do you mean nothing to show for it they are still wealthy, and did their best work during that time, that’s a legacy no man can take from them. The only thing they lost was the men.
      But I hear what your saying.

    • @mildredfierce999
      @mildredfierce999 Рік тому +14

      @@jaythethinker3994 Melanie Brown was a millionaire Spice Girl, when she met Stephen Belafonte (fake name) and just like MJB and her infamous chicken commercial 😳 Stephen made some questionable career choices as Mel’s Manager. Mel B got the America Got Talent gig, because of her decades long friendship with Simon Cowell (who hated Stephen Belafonte, as did most of Mel’s friends and family, as they knew how much of a waster and opportunist he was). Mel B was a millionaire when she met Stephen Belafonte and ended up broke when she finally left his grifting, pathetic, fake name ass.

  • @GoddesssofMind
    @GoddesssofMind Рік тому +243

    I feel for her but honestly I know how it feels to be so unlucky in love. Everyone deserves love ❤️ may we all get it.

  • @brandid4239
    @brandid4239 Рік тому +105

    Kendu is the last to call anybody ugly looking like Herman monster from the hood

    • @mrs.kittylarou4970
      @mrs.kittylarou4970 Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @timmy841212
      @timmy841212 Рік тому +3

      😂💀

    • @Rabbit_the_Realtor
      @Rabbit_the_Realtor 7 місяців тому +2

      It’s always the ugly ones that will try to bring down your self esteem

    • @hello-dannie
      @hello-dannie 7 місяців тому +2

      Facts 😂😂😂

    • @73lyfe96
      @73lyfe96 6 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @prettybrowneyes7481
    @prettybrowneyes7481 Рік тому +68

    Never enter a relationship while dealing with an inner struggle/brokenness... An abusive man or user will use that to get u in his trap. They can smell your pain and desperation a mile away.

    • @AA-bd2sl
      @AA-bd2sl Рік тому +5

      I agree! This is why it is very important that women (and men) make sure that they are happy and healed before they date, even if it means going to therapy and on a self love journey. It's worth the peace of mind in the end.

  • @SimpleeKomplex
    @SimpleeKomplex Рік тому +106

    My heart goes out to Mary. She didn't deserve to be treated that way.

  • @rebels42wynn83
    @rebels42wynn83 Рік тому +85

    Never tell a man about your past trauma when it comes to abuse of any kind. I have all the love and respect for Mary and I hope that she will be blessed with a real, trusting man. This latest tea was so eye-opening for sure.

    • @trulyworkfromhome6767
      @trulyworkfromhome6767 Рік тому +14

      Yup, that's so true! They will play it against you!

    • @jayj.2956
      @jayj.2956 Рік тому +11

      i know this is meant to be a protective measure for women, but i think if you are dating and considering marriage… evaluate your reasons for marriage and what partner you specifically want if you feel like you can never share your past traumas with your partner. Having strong boundaries and prioritizing self-wellness and awareness will prevent individuals from staying in relationships with men who use their trauma against them. Because someone who has the capacity to do that, is likely also showing other red flag behaviors.

    • @wendyhestick8514
      @wendyhestick8514 Рік тому +5

      Never tell anyone but a therapist. If you tell a man, he will do the same thing to you. Put it in a book and empty your hurt, while making money from your pain

  • @charlahenry
    @charlahenry Рік тому +123

    I feel bad for Mary, you want love so bad, you'll fall for anything, he used her troubled past against her, I'm glad she woke up and hopefully she'll find true 💕 ❤❤❤

  • @augustG.I.F
    @augustG.I.F Рік тому +36

    So the singing and the celebrity reactions cRaCk me up EVERYTIME 😅😂

  • @felichiapowe851
    @felichiapowe851 Рік тому +58

    RRG singing has given me life on this Monday afternoon 😆

  • @JesusisKing03
    @JesusisKing03 Рік тому +41

    I appreciate every single person that participates in bringing us all these stories but THIS narrator is my ultimate favorite 😂😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +6

      Thank you bestieee! ❤️

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +3

      I always say the same thing, just not the first part. Lol

    • @Channyb89
      @Channyb89 Рік тому +1

      @@MoDavI-sl7iy😂😂😂

    • @jacluv7862
      @jacluv7862 Рік тому +1

      Me 2!!!! Her story telling, singing, laughing. She’s perfect for this content.

  • @squarebear619
    @squarebear619 Рік тому +173

    When your friends drop you due to your man's behavior then you should sit back and really look at him and yourself. Especially great friends who have always been there. And then to fire your sister? She basically replaced one addiction for another in him and the bad relationships she was so used to.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @wendyhestick8514
      @wendyhestick8514 Рік тому +2

      He is a narcissist, they first isolate you, before they pounce on you!

    • @dr.andmrs.phibes7454
      @dr.andmrs.phibes7454 Рік тому +7

      She should have never fired her sister or given her true friends the boot when they tried to give her the truth about her boo. Two serious mistakes.

    • @lucybunwa5833
      @lucybunwa5833 4 місяці тому

      @@dr.andmrs.phibes7454right!!!

  • @ZzDippedInButter
    @ZzDippedInButter Рік тому +21

    I had the opportunity to meet her this past Saturday & she was so cool and super down to earth & she is freaking beautiful in person!! I pray she finds a real king that loves her for her!

  • @stoneysoraclechannel7839
    @stoneysoraclechannel7839 Рік тому +120

    Kicked her own sister to the curb. Women will betray their women friends and family for a man QUICK!

    • @selenadavis1643
      @selenadavis1643 Рік тому +26

      So true. And a man won’t think twice kicking a woman to the curb for the next chic

    • @MsYakKi
      @MsYakKi 6 місяців тому +3

      That's not true. Her sister is married and wanted to focus on her family. Her children were very young and she wanted more.

  • @Views202
    @Views202 Рік тому +161

    I see why she didn’t have any kids. Too much hurt,too much pain

    • @Kam876.
      @Kam876. Рік тому +14

      You know i always wondered why she didnt have any. Not that she needed to..just curious

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +17

      She always said she never wanted any. Not sure why @@Kam876.

    • @mariarod6998
      @mariarod6998 Рік тому +9

      When u have to fire ur own family members for a man some thing definitely is wrong Never take a man with kids something s wrong He’s after ur money

    • @millymilly8264
      @millymilly8264 8 місяців тому +1

      Why would she? She knows the game she don't want the evil doers to sacrifice her babies duh

    • @electricsoul8624
      @electricsoul8624 3 місяці тому

      Why do you care about her not having kids?

  • @HouseOfAriaLynn
    @HouseOfAriaLynn Рік тому +57

    The RAY J SCARE DOWN IS Iconic 🤣🤣😭😭😤😤😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +6

      💀💀💀

  • @centellvasilopoulos
    @centellvasilopoulos Рік тому +37

    This made me sad. He was preying on her from the beginning. Knew she was down and used that to slip right on in. Be careful out there ladies.

  • @abiola33
    @abiola33 Рік тому +66

    That singing took me right out 🤣🤣! Separate to that, I wish Mary J Blige experiences real relationship happiness from a good man the way she deserves it.

    • @TheUnique134441
      @TheUnique134441 Рік тому +2

      i was drinking my water and spit it straight out! that had me dyinggg 😂😂 i did not expect that!

    • @abiola33
      @abiola33 Рік тому

      @@TheUnique134441 Honestly! 🤣🤣

  • @Rollthedice8
    @Rollthedice8 Рік тому +47

    Nah your humor is unmatched RRG 😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +3

      Thanks bestie!

    • @Shayoyeye5223
      @Shayoyeye5223 Рік тому +2

      For real 💯😆

    • @krazykaye8843
      @krazykaye8843 Рік тому +1

      Truly! I be getting my giggle on. 😂😂

  • @taupenoire1933
    @taupenoire1933 Рік тому +87

    Fortunately, she did not relapse after the carnage over her divorce, but she picked herself up and moved on and refuse to be a victim

  • @wickedwisdom6088
    @wickedwisdom6088 Рік тому +68

    The IRONY of Mary FINALLY realizing that Kendu was a conman is that I said the EXACT same thing when I first saw him!!!! I heard an account where Mary and Kendu were out to dinner, and he persistently flirted with the waitress IN FRONT OF MARY!!!! I told my girlfriends, "He is VERY intimidated by Mary's success, so he's making passive aggressive jabs to keep her "in her place." That man isn't doing nothing but using Mary! I sure hope that she's okay when she FINALLY realizes this man is doing nothing but using her!" 🤨

  • @lseven5212
    @lseven5212 Рік тому +46

    OMG! Great video. The singing & that Mitch McConnel clip had me cracking up at work (I was on break though) But in all sincerity, Kendu is the kind of person that will have you featured on the ID Channel. I am so glad that Mary was able to get rid of him and is focusing on herself. She's an inspiration to a lot of women out there.

    • @InitaRichMan
      @InitaRichMan Рік тому +7

      Why she bring Mitch into Mary's mess

    • @tammylowden6857
      @tammylowden6857 Рік тому +3

      😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣@@InitaRichMan

    • @BacDaFukUp4life
      @BacDaFukUp4life Рік тому +5

      kendu should've been posted on a milk carton!
      m.i.a. 🙋🏿‍♀️

  • @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552
    @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552 Рік тому +83

    If there is anyone I want to win at love it is my girl Mary Jane Blige.... She's helped us all navigate love when it's hard.. When it's beautiful and when u think it can't happen... If anyone deserves love it's the woman who helped us to keep believing in it... It's going to happen for her... I believe it. #theend ❤

  • @chelseawilliams8588
    @chelseawilliams8588 Рік тому +29

    Mary is so daggone beautiful!! I’m glad she made it out with her life. As much as the financial loss hurts, as long as you have breath, you’re winning.

  • @msdiva
    @msdiva Рік тому +14

    Welcome back to the best narrator ever! And delivering extra shade today. 😂😂😂

  • @Ilove2teach52
    @Ilove2teach52 Рік тому +134

    The singing😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @redcupchronicles6812
    @redcupchronicles6812 Рік тому +29

    Just goes to show you, no matter how successful or beautiful a woman can be the need to be loved and wanted will toss all good sensibilities out the way

  • @MariahBraxton1
    @MariahBraxton1 Рік тому +87

    One more red flag 🚩 you forgot RRG is that Maya Angelou warned Mary not to marry or even date Kendu because he was still married when Mary first met him.

    • @timmy841212
      @timmy841212 Рік тому +14

      I wonder if Whitney told her too.

    • @caymenbrown2465
      @caymenbrown2465 10 місяців тому +2

      😱😱😱

    • @Rabbit_the_Realtor
      @Rabbit_the_Realtor 7 місяців тому +1

      😮😮😮

    • @kjkjkj360
      @kjkjkj360 Місяць тому

      yikes. she got warned by this super wise super revered person, and still went ahead and did it. lol

  • @markiehwarren8866
    @markiehwarren8866 Рік тому +31

    I love Mary she will never be washed up to me!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +4

      He was clearly jealous of her success

  • @Littlebirdinatree
    @Littlebirdinatree Рік тому +54

    That wasnt love, it was dependency syndrome. Ive learned not to get into serious relationships when vulnerable. My view of things is very different once im healed and over something. Also, dont " fall in love" with an assumption. For example, You assume he is a good guy because he is a quiet guy or something. Been there done that and he was worse than my previous ones.🤦‍♀️

  • @wickedwisdom6088
    @wickedwisdom6088 Рік тому +74

    Like I did with the Wendy Williams story (which RRG pinned), I'm going to go in another direction with this. When a woman is HEALTHY, she will not even entertain BS for one second! Kendu capitalized on Mary's insecurities BECAUSE he KNEW that she was insecure. When a man KNOWS that you have high self-esteem and will not think twice about kicking him to the curb if he doesn't see her worth, he is more likely to treat you better. The fact that Kendu was verbally abusive AND slanging his 🍆 all over the place shows that he NEVER loved Mary and just wanted to use Mary. It is well known that Mary was in an abusive relationship with KC. Too many women (and men) are quick to jump into a relationship when they should be alone, HEALING THEMSELVES. If a woman does not love herself, she will get rid of one abusive man and replace him with another BECAUSE she does not love, respect, or value herself.
    Ladies, if you find that you are attracted to men that verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually abuse you, PLEASE end this relationship and get THERAPY. Therapy will help you to clearly see the ROOT of your unconscious attraction to abusers. I wish Mary and peace, love, and happiness to you all! Remember: You DO NOT need to be in a relationship with another person to value yourself. When you love yourself, you model for others how they SHOULD treat you. The moment that a man disrespects you, you won't think twice about kicking him to the curb.
    I LOVE you all!!!! 😘😘😘

    • @RamonaSamuelsTV
      @RamonaSamuelsTV Рік тому +8

      You’re so right with everything you said. Therapy should be normalised and welcomed. It’s healthy for anyone who needs help.

    • @cebrinachandler1708
      @cebrinachandler1708 Рік тому +5

      Facts, you attract what vibe you put out in the universe. She was a wounded woman/ prey for the buzzard , he smelled her years early 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Рік тому +4

      Love you back. Prayer and therapy are POWERFUL healing resources. I know all too well. Better than to heal than to repeat the TOXIC cycle. 🙏🏾❤

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +4

      Yesss bestie!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @DomDownTV
    @DomDownTV Рік тому +29

    Mary is truly a survivor.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      🙏🏾❤

  • @BrittanyLashell
    @BrittanyLashell Рік тому +50

    The singing has me weak everytime 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +3

      💀💀💀

  • @moniqueloomis9772
    @moniqueloomis9772 Рік тому +14

    Lady RRG's solos and giggles give me wings and life! 😊🥰

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @valerieirvin4330
    @valerieirvin4330 Рік тому +38

    So sad when a man like Kendu could manipulate women to be a dirty man. Mary trusted him too help her heal. I’m trying to be nice with my words because I don’t want to be blocked..

  • @jamakadavis5511
    @jamakadavis5511 Рік тому +63

    Kendu looks shady 🤮

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +4

      👀

    • @terryscoffer
      @terryscoffer Рік тому +1

      😂😁😁😅😁😁😅🤣😁😁

  • @dnholmestyle3772
    @dnholmestyle3772 Рік тому +24

    It was the singing AND the Mary dancing meme for me😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +3

      💀💀💀

  • @melloff8144
    @melloff8144 Рік тому +44

    I would buy Mary's new albums in a blink...

  • @hopecutkelvin5853
    @hopecutkelvin5853 Рік тому +17

    Just listen to her sing one the ballads on her albums during those times. You can hear the raw pain & emotion in her voice. Gut wrenching😢😢😢

  • @MrsLegalDiva
    @MrsLegalDiva Рік тому +31

    Mary is a Queen and the second part of her life is going to be even more amazing. ❤❤❤

  • @iamKIRBYok
    @iamKIRBYok Рік тому +13

    The birds chirping in the beginning after you song Mary's "Not Gone Cry"😂 guh I was looking like what was that too and then you hit it us with Mitch at that press conference🤣🤣 You are cutting up on this video lol❤❤❤

  • @CocoaMango
    @CocoaMango Рік тому +10

    BABY! You showed out bad with the Not Gon Cry adlib 😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +1

      💀💀💀

  • @lindashelby2246
    @lindashelby2246 Рік тому +7

    This happens when you fall in love with the fantasy of being in love. It takes a real lesson and maturity and having self love to know and understand the differences.

  • @sonyae777
    @sonyae777 Рік тому +8

    I love me some Mary!! ❤
    Thank you for sharing, RRG!! 🥰
    I am praying for Mary's continued healing, restoration and peace.. ❤❤❤

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching, bestie!

  • @char_d.0908
    @char_d.0908 Рік тому +27

    Great video RRG! His own daughter calling him "trash" tho...Wow!😮

  • @BirdLadySpeaks
    @BirdLadySpeaks Рік тому +15

    That “Can’t do it” 😂😂😂😂💛💛💛💛

  • @ashantitraylor7240
    @ashantitraylor7240 Рік тому +25

    This is so sad! Sorry this happened to you Mary

  • @chanellie86
    @chanellie86 Рік тому +9

    I swear I have you singing Not Gon Cry on repeat!! “Can’t do it” 😂😭

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +1

      💀💀💀

  • @iaminevitable_
    @iaminevitable_ Рік тому +15

    This is so good as always!!! I feel horrible for Mary.. what he put her through was so unfair. I wished she was smarter with her finances… never go into a relationship where you make the most money without a prenup especially a woman, I feel like he was only in the relationship to take from her and she let her guard down. It’s so sad smh

  • @Butterfly-V
    @Butterfly-V Рік тому +6

    Your voice is one of a kind. I watch the videos just to hear You talk and laugh.😊❤ Also for the truth about these celebrity relationships.

  • @BirdLadySpeaks
    @BirdLadySpeaks Рік тому +6

    I am so glad that you are back 💛💛💛💛

  • @Mirage031
    @Mirage031 Рік тому +14

    We love you, Mary. You are a beautiful soul and your music has helped so many people get through tough times.

  • @SagittariusQueen1980
    @SagittariusQueen1980 Рік тому +22

    If I were a millionaire I'm not dealing with no broke joke! His money gotta be higher than mine.

  • @loisbrown1059
    @loisbrown1059 Рік тому +7

    That's right always protect your INNER CHILD ,She's your past that helps YOU learn in the present. Like some say " If I knew then what I know now" It's called Life's lessons!!❤

  • @alexutzcel
    @alexutzcel Рік тому +8

    RRG always delivers! ❤

  • @withneyjoseph51
    @withneyjoseph51 Рік тому +23

    She deserves the world

  • @ZOEYLOVE17mon
    @ZOEYLOVE17mon Рік тому +6

    Hit it sis😂 WELCOME BACK! You can't keep leaving us, we our fix " HOT STANKING MESS"

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      💀💀💀

  • @capricorngoddess3641
    @capricorngoddess3641 Рік тому +2

    Not Mitch McConnell Frozen And You Laughing Afterwards 😂😂😂 This Was A Really Good One RRG 😂 And THE SINGING AT BEGiNNING Was The Cherry 🍒 On Top!! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @darienwilliams6070
    @darienwilliams6070 Рік тому +20

    We look for people, things, and vices to heal and bring comfort. There's only 1 that does that!

  • @chussey51020
    @chussey51020 Рік тому +2

    My good sis. Your vocal commentary has me in stitches 😂😂

  • @brandid4239
    @brandid4239 Рік тому +102

    Alot of black women date down just to say they have a black man and end up paying the price later

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Рік тому

      😂

    • @calibama6234
      @calibama6234 Рік тому +6

      Just to say they have a man because they’re not all dating black men.

    • @InitaRichMan
      @InitaRichMan Рік тому +16

      Ladies please stop dating Dusties !!!!!!!!!!! #Cyn G

    • @CaribGirlBrownSugar
      @CaribGirlBrownSugar Рік тому +1

      Story of my life. Just to have a black man.

    • @greenytaddict
      @greenytaddict Рік тому

      @@InitaRichMan Certified trash bag with demon eyes

  • @Shayoyeye5223
    @Shayoyeye5223 Рік тому +6

    @RRG just keeps getting better and better ❤💯, Iove your story telling style & sense of humour.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому

      Thanks baby!

  • @criminalmindsgirl2936
    @criminalmindsgirl2936 Рік тому +12

    I felt Mary on what she said about Aaliyah and 9/11...I was only 11 years old and was suffering from depression and didn't understand my mental health. It was sad and horrible.

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 Рік тому +8

    That Ray J stare had me ☠️☠️☠️. I got my popcorn and I’m ready for all the 🚩

  • @Inksplash52
    @Inksplash52 Рік тому +10

    Her first mistake was firing her sister as a manager and most likely he made her get rid of her friends. I always stand by never leaving your friends & family over no relationship or marriage because at the end of the day when some things fall apart those friends & family are gonna be there.

  • @KeeKeeSoto
    @KeeKeeSoto Рік тому +22

    Omg the singing...Im cryyiiing 😭🤣🤣 No pun intended 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +5

      Did you love it? LOL

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto Рік тому +4

      @@rrg ummm yea Girl, absolutely! 😶🙃😂

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton Рік тому +1

    Im sorry but the Mitch McConnell clip always get me lol !!😅😅😅Your channel is EVERYTHING! LOVE LOVE LOVE ❤❤❤❤

  • @EnlightenedandElite
    @EnlightenedandElite Рік тому +5

    That "can't do ittt" during that Mary interlude session took me out 😭😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      LMAOOOO

  • @bazoena
    @bazoena Рік тому +16

    I don't care how in love I am, if my sister is my manager. I am not giving my husband this position.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @CatherineDavis-r6g
    @CatherineDavis-r6g Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this video❤Have a safe and blessed day, Love your personality and narrating✌🏼

  • @GiftsbyChosen
    @GiftsbyChosen Рік тому +2

    No ma'am🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when you put Sen. Mitch McConnell in it, I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 turn the lights off, and throw your mic on the other side of the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AA-bd2sl
    @AA-bd2sl Рік тому +11

    What happened to Mary J. Bilge in her former marriage, shows that it is VERY important to make sure you are happy and healed BEFORE you date. Mary should have addressed her depression and the trauma that she went through with a therapist BEFORE she got in a relationship so that she could see the users and abusers coming before they even speak to her. I can easily sense evil in a man because I am more happier and healed than I used to be. Plus, when you are happy and healed while single, you'll naturally have higher standards when it comes to men and you'll naturally attract more happier and healed men who are empathetic. Users and abusers lack empathy, so having an empathetic partner is very important.

  • @LA-Will
    @LA-Will Рік тому +34

    Kendu needs to change his name to CANT DO…for himself
    How long is temporary?

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +5

      Until they settled on a final amount

  • @Mr407boi
    @Mr407boi Рік тому +47

    Mary is a beautiful women. I believe she's looking for ❤️ and wants to be a wife. Her father was missing in her life and she doesn't know how to judge men's character. She should be happy by now🎉

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +4

      ❤❤❤

  • @Amusiclover37
    @Amusiclover37 Рік тому +1

    The singing had made my entire week and it’s only Monday hahaha…TY RRG 💜 be blessed!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching, bestie!

  • @cleftheart1969
    @cleftheart1969 Рік тому +17

    I can do BETTER alone I was so happy for her 😖 so sad ...It took years for me to find my inner peace ..still a working progress..but how sad for a loser to bum off a woman. Thanks rrg for teaching me to appreciate my singlehood and my toy 😊🙏🏾

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf Рік тому +47

    The biggest red flag is his daughter. That girl appears extremely unbalanced. Im sorry yall i cant date someone with kids that behave like that.

    • @bresams2917
      @bresams2917 Рік тому +5

      I use to say "who's drunk a** angry daughter is this?" Watching that show. Ooh Kendu! Makes sense 💅🏾

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 Рік тому

      Me either

    • @jenniferray509
      @jenniferray509 Рік тому +1

      Yes I couldn't believe that was his daughter. It showed me even more that he wasn't shit.

    • @TM-nb9zf
      @TM-nb9zf Рік тому +5

      @@jenniferray509 exactly. I understand mental illness can hit anyone. But that girl appears extremely damaged. Almost like she was neglected and abused

    • @jenniferray509
      @jenniferray509 Рік тому +3

      @@TM-nb9zf exactly you could look in her eyes and hear in her voice that she was very abused. And that her father sucked so much to the point where he wouldn't even call.

  • @universallove5472
    @universallove5472 Рік тому +23

    We never see the red flags others see until it's tooooo late. Better late then never.❤ He is dusty just like Stebbie J😮

  • @4.carmeljwn
    @4.carmeljwn Рік тому +2

    THE best DARN narrator on the innanet. I said what I said fight me. Hey auntie RRG KEEP ME LAFFIN. ❤YA

  • @HouseOfAriaLynn
    @HouseOfAriaLynn Рік тому +10

    Never Ever Marry Your Manager Duhhhhhhhhhhh 😒🤦🏿‍♀️🤔🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Рік тому +3

      They'll never learn