Mother is resentful , jealous and feels inadequate. She feels like her family can get along just fine without her , when she was the heroic family nurturing figure . She needs a close friend or her own mom to have a heart to heart talk . She's smiling but raging with jealousy.
Ugh that mom is jealous because her daughter is everything she's NOT...smart, pretty, talented & empathetic This is a good way to never see your grandkids one day
Reminds me of my own mother so much. I literally moved out cause I couldn’t stand her constant bullying lmfao. If you’re insecure and jealous of your own daughter u gonna be sad 4eva.
at some point, i blocked the viral mayo mom bc she’s a hater and i hate that for her daughter. I hate that the dad puts up with her, bc if this is how she is with food, imagine how miserable she is in other aspects ?? Then also when Mayo mom showed her own cooking…i was revolted. Even if it’s bait and everyone’s in on it, i block content that doesn’t spark joy in me these days on tiktok. Tiktok is my unwind time and i use it about 1-2 times a week.
I'll give you some positive. In one video the daughter asked the dad if he agreed with the mom over the dish. Not only did he say no but he even laughed as he said it. The daughter definitely is not alone nor is she unsupported in her home. Its still a struggle to live with a parent like mayo mom but its nice to have a supportive dad even if he should be shutting such behavior down with mayo mom as her partner.
It’s a territory thing for her. Her daughter is doing the mom’s job but better. Husband eats snacks before dinner when mom cooks, but loves daughters cooking. Daughter is a threat to her role.
She shouldn’t have to be though! That’s her daughter! And if her husband didn’t make her feel like shit, then she wouldn’t even feel a threat to her child. That’s what it boils down to, no wonder what is truly going on behind doors, that man does not like his wife. And using the daughter to get back from the mother. A man who truly loves his wife would appreciate just a meal even if it’s gross.
She shouldn’t have to be though! That’s her daughter! And if her husband didn’t make her feel like shit, then she wouldn’t even feel a threat to her child. That’s what it boils down to, no wonder what is truly going on behind doors, that man does not like his wife. And using the daughter to get back from the mother. A man who truly loves his wife would appreciate just a meal even if it’s gross.
i'm not one to leave comments often, but this time i definitely wanted to. i enjoy a lot the way you articulate and explain yourself. this video was such a nice listen while i'm working, definitely will binge-listen the rest. ^^
Omg, thank you! So happy to have you here ❤ I love to listen to podcasts while I work too, so I’m thankful you’ve tuned into my show while working as well!
I feel so bad for her having to endure that constantly, im sure its not just with her cooking either. its good she can laugh about it, but im sure it still affects her on a deeper level. it would be hard for it not to. :( I hope that she just stops cooking for her mom and just cooks for herself/her dad and whoever else appreciates her food. since clearly the mom doesn't ever have anything nice to say about it!!!!!!
I'm late to the party finding out about "Mayo Mom" so, apologies. But, I don't think it has ANYTHING to do with the food. I think it's insecurities and jealousy.
The daughter needs to put her homemade food into a takeout container cus it's clear mayo mom isn't telling the truth and just being very disrespectful towards the daughter.
I'm no contact with my father, for 18 months now, who is worse than mayo mom. I don't plan to ever make contact with him again. My life feels so much lighter without that constant, grinding negativity. He'd hate on my food, then go back for seconds and thirds, gobbling and smacking his lips while telling me how horrible my cooking was. I really feel for Shawn ❤
I cut contact with everyone related to me or not because of the environment I was in. So yes in no contact, it was not an easy decision to make. It was a build up over time of one day realising "This isn't normal, I don't want this anymore or to continue, nothing will ever be good enough for them or anybody".
yes exactly the same for me, it was a build up that lead me to my decision and you’re right it’s not easy. but i agree, i had the same thoughts, like this is not normal behavior, & don’t wanna go through this anymore!
@@ALittleBitALotPodcast For sure and some days are still hard and hurt a lot more than others. I guess in a way it's sort of like grieving and letting go.
I hope that her mom is prepared to not talk to her daughter after she moves away. I am no contact with my mother. I had felt her contentment from a young age.
this is my first time coming across your page! i am not a fan of podcasts but wow i enjoyed hear you talk. anywho i am in a similar situation with my mother who is a narcissist. as i got older i started cooking more for the family than she did. that brought up comments from my father and brother about “ur mother has competition” now i’ve noticed she tries to start dinner before i wake up and never asks for help anymore. Its an ego thing i believe.
Im no contact with my gma too!! Sorry yours sucks as well. You hear so much about people going NC with their parents and not a lot about NC with grandparents.
the only way you can make potatoes "creamier" is to change the potato you buy. this mom is wild as hell to add, this is what we call a cook-from-a-can mom in my family. she probably grew up where her mom carried on her grandmother's tradition of cooking which was to use a lot of carbs and dairy except the difference is that her grandmother cooked with fresh dairy and fresh carbs and the like back when she was a mother. that idea was passed down through the family to use a lot of carbs and dairy and food and not really be good with me because you primarily put emphasis on the flavor and feeling of both the carbs and the cheese. this is some typical Midwestern mom bullshit. everything is processed now so we can't cook like we did 70-100 years ago. this woman is absolutely delusional is she thinks that cooking from a can is the only way you can cook.
The mothers smirk every time she criticizes her makes my skin crawl, so sad her mother enjoys tearing her daughter down
omg yeah, the smirk takes me out every timeeee 😭
Mother is resentful , jealous and feels inadequate. She feels like her family can get along just fine without her , when she was the heroic family nurturing figure .
She needs a close friend or her own mom to have a heart to heart talk .
She's smiling but raging with jealousy.
Ugh that mom is jealous because her daughter is everything she's NOT...smart, pretty, talented & empathetic
This is a good way to never see your grandkids one day
Reminds me of my own mother so much. I literally moved out cause I couldn’t stand her constant bullying lmfao. If you’re insecure and jealous of your own daughter u gonna be sad 4eva.
so sorry you had to deal with that, glad you moved out! 🫶🏾
It seems as through the mom is jealous of her Daughter's talent, perhaps? I've observed this sort of behavior within my own family.
at some point, i blocked the viral mayo mom bc she’s a hater and i hate that for her daughter. I hate that the dad puts up with her, bc if this is how she is with food, imagine how miserable she is in other aspects ?? Then also when Mayo mom showed her own cooking…i was revolted. Even if it’s bait and everyone’s in on it, i block content that doesn’t spark joy in me these days on tiktok. Tiktok is my unwind time and i use it about 1-2 times a week.
yes, doing what’s best for you with the content you take in is such a good thing
I'll give you some positive. In one video the daughter asked the dad if he agreed with the mom over the dish. Not only did he say no but he even laughed as he said it.
The daughter definitely is not alone nor is she unsupported in her home. Its still a struggle to live with a parent like mayo mom but its nice to have a supportive dad even if he should be shutting such behavior down with mayo mom as her partner.
It’s a territory thing for her. Her daughter is doing the mom’s job but better. Husband eats snacks before dinner when mom cooks, but loves daughters cooking. Daughter is a threat to her role.
My mom would be celebrating if my brother and I started cooking dinners for everyone. Mayo mom is insaneeee
the exact situation i live in wow you put it into words.
She shouldn’t have to be though! That’s her daughter! And if her husband didn’t make her feel like shit, then she wouldn’t even feel a threat to her child. That’s what it boils down to, no wonder what is truly going on behind doors, that man does not like his wife. And using the daughter to get back from the mother. A man who truly loves his wife would appreciate just a meal even if it’s gross.
She shouldn’t have to be though! That’s her daughter! And if her husband didn’t make her feel like shit, then she wouldn’t even feel a threat to her child. That’s what it boils down to, no wonder what is truly going on behind doors, that man does not like his wife. And using the daughter to get back from the mother. A man who truly loves his wife would appreciate just a meal even if it’s gross.
i'm not one to leave comments often, but this time i definitely wanted to. i enjoy a lot the way you articulate and explain yourself. this video was such a nice listen while i'm working, definitely will binge-listen the rest. ^^
Omg, thank you! So happy to have you here ❤ I love to listen to podcasts while I work too, so I’m thankful you’ve tuned into my show while working as well!
That mayo chicken looked so gross ugh.
I feel so bad for her having to endure that constantly, im sure its not just with her cooking either. its good she can laugh about it, but im sure it still affects her on a deeper level. it would be hard for it not to. :( I hope that she just stops cooking for her mom and just cooks for herself/her dad and whoever else appreciates her food. since clearly the mom doesn't ever have anything nice to say about it!!!!!!
I'm late to the party finding out about "Mayo Mom" so, apologies.
But, I don't think it has ANYTHING to do with the food.
I think it's insecurities and jealousy.
The daughter needs to put her homemade food into a takeout container cus it's clear mayo mom isn't telling the truth and just being very disrespectful towards the daughter.
I think moyo mom is just jelly😅
I'm no contact with my father, for 18 months now, who is worse than mayo mom. I don't plan to ever make contact with him again. My life feels so much lighter without that constant, grinding negativity. He'd hate on my food, then go back for seconds and thirds, gobbling and smacking his lips while telling me how horrible my cooking was. I really feel for Shawn ❤
Malicious Mom just likes to belittle, insult, and throw her daughter into adversity. Mom is just an inherently hurtful person.
Narcissistic Mother that's all i have to say ...
I have one!!!
She does things like this.😢
I cut contact with everyone related to me or not because of the environment I was in. So yes in no contact, it was not an easy decision to make. It was a build up over time of one day realising "This isn't normal, I don't want this anymore or to continue, nothing will ever be good enough for them or anybody".
yes exactly the same for me, it was a build up that lead me to my decision and you’re right it’s not easy. but i agree, i had the same thoughts, like this is not normal behavior, & don’t wanna go through this anymore!
@@ALittleBitALotPodcast For sure and some days are still hard and hurt a lot more than others. I guess in a way it's sort of like grieving and letting go.
I hope that her mom is prepared to not talk to her daughter after she moves away. I am no contact with my mother. I had felt her contentment from a young age.
this is my first time coming across your page! i am not a fan of podcasts but wow i enjoyed hear you talk. anywho i am in a similar situation with my mother who is a narcissist. as i got older i started cooking more for the family than she did. that brought up comments from my father and brother about “ur mother has competition” now i’ve noticed she tries to start dinner before i wake up and never asks for help anymore. Its an ego thing i believe.
thank you for tuning in! also so sorry you’ve had to deal with that from your mom 😭
This is the first video of yours I’ve seen and girl you sold me!! I’m a fan ❤
Yesss, thank you for watching! 🫶🏾✨
Im no contact with my gma too!! Sorry yours sucks as well. You hear so much about people going NC with their parents and not a lot about NC with grandparents.
thank you, sorry you’re going through that too!! you’re right though, I hardly ever see anyone talking about no contact w/ grandparents either 😭
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Maybe just a negative person overall
amendment: maybe she does not like her daughter
the only way you can make potatoes "creamier" is to change the potato you buy. this mom is wild as hell
to add, this is what we call a cook-from-a-can mom in my family. she probably grew up where her mom carried on her grandmother's tradition of cooking which was to use a lot of carbs and dairy except the difference is that her grandmother cooked with fresh dairy and fresh carbs and the like back when she was a mother. that idea was passed down through the family to use a lot of carbs and dairy and food and not really be good with me because you primarily put emphasis on the flavor and feeling of both the carbs and the cheese. this is some typical Midwestern mom bullshit. everything is processed now so we can't cook like we did 70-100 years ago. this woman is absolutely delusional is she thinks that cooking from a can is the only way you can cook.
Love the video and keep it up!
thank you ❤️✨
Wait a min did you say your name is Kristin??? Hey twin!
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Way too much talking even in the shorts version
That’s the point of a podcast.. to talk.. lmaoo
Wait, too much talking in a podcast??😭😭&& I’m watching because of the shorts version lol
thanks for watching!! & right idk what people are on these days lol
It was never about the food. Her mom was just trying to cut her down, slander and lies from the mother.