This is How an Elegant Woman Sits with Confidence!

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  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2024

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  • @preciousbonsu7336
    @preciousbonsu7336 Рік тому +390

    Watching this is an eye opener. Our non verbal body language speaks volumes. Friendly confidence even makes us look so much more attractive and approachable.

  • @asanwababy
    @asanwababy Рік тому +100

    Being comfortable is the key 👌🏾

  • @deboraha4908
    @deboraha4908 Рік тому +401

    Elegant women do not cross their legs at the knee. We cross our legs at the ankle.

  • @miyangtangwan7046
    @miyangtangwan7046 Рік тому +65

    Being confident is owning and occupying a space, while being aware of yourself and your environment, and becoming comfortable within that setting. It's an art, and the more you practice, the easier it looks and the more masterful you become.

  • @simmyisrad
    @simmyisrad Рік тому +40

    I'll definitely have to work on this, people can tell when you're nervous

    • @saalihaatif34
      @saalihaatif34 7 місяців тому +1

      more like i am the one who makes ppl nervouse w/ my stare 💀☠

    • @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw
      @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw 4 місяці тому

      Girl hiding da fact that you nervous that don't make you not nervous

  • @allyp6868
    @allyp6868 Рік тому +10

    Girl, I was considering taking some etiquette classes. However, I'll save my coins and keep watching your videos. Thanks! Keep up the good work hon. I'm learning a lot. God Bless..

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 Рік тому +31

    The only thing to change is that "ladies" dont cross their legs. We should cross at the ankles. ❤

    • @groawning1345
      @groawning1345 Рік тому +1

      Ei

    • @2Good2B4Gotten4Real
      @2Good2B4Gotten4Real Рік тому +7

      Nope. That's boring. You don't wanna be a boring person. Add a little spice here and there 🙂

  • @DeeandTee_London
    @DeeandTee_London Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for all your ladylike teachings Deborah.

  • @jinx2100
    @jinx2100 5 місяців тому +6

    I like crossing my legs when I sit, I just find it more comfortable

  • @utubechannel3846
    @utubechannel3846 Рік тому +3

    You are doing something that is very very much needed for some of us. Thank you for doing your part of changing our culture of doing things any ole kind of way. I love it!

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 Рік тому +22

    Love your videos, you're charming and funny, as well as beautiful! Thank you for these tips. Indeed, nothing wrong with being confident, though I have believed my entire life that there is. I have a prominent figure and my body has been 'trained' to slouch, hide and become small. I've been really hardened but I've spent the last few years healing and reclaiming my femininity, allowing my body to open, radiate, be confident, soft and feminine. And to SLOW DOWN which feels so good, yet I'm still adjusting to. Anyway, thank you again! God bless you! ❤️‍🔥🌹🙏

  • @M3thaddictakatweek
    @M3thaddictakatweek 4 місяці тому +2

    TYSM. I'M ALWAYS SO ANXIOUS AND SHY AT SCHOOL.

  • @SPerez-or3mt
    @SPerez-or3mt Рік тому +35

    Girl I’m from the projects clenching my purse nervously is a thing lol

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 Рік тому +75

    I like to be comfortable, so I'm definitely the girl that occupies the entire seat and uses a throw pillow for support. Nice one Winnie👍🏽

  • @alenabisam
    @alenabisam Рік тому +3

    When I see her doing this elegant things I just hold my breath till she finishe😂😂😂

    • @neshas.4774
      @neshas.4774 Рік тому

      Same here because, I know I did one of the wrong ones lol.
      I love these videos. ✅

  • @thelearnerscrib
    @thelearnerscrib Рік тому +6

    this is nice Winnie! I love your demonstrations. and you look so beautiful too

  • @KavitaChauhan-pd3yd
    @KavitaChauhan-pd3yd 17 днів тому

    I understand...she is a Beautiful and Confident woman ❤💫

  • @ayemenrelove-serah6352
    @ayemenrelove-serah6352 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for the teachings. Most appreciated

  • @abena7810
    @abena7810 Рік тому +26

    i ain’t smiling at no one! 😭🤣

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Рік тому +1

      And that’s why you probably still single

    • @ahkniyaprice8147
      @ahkniyaprice8147 Рік тому +1

      ​@@PlatinumHustle And your not? Since when os tgat am insult? 😂

    • @alphamail8974
      @alphamail8974 Рік тому +3

      ​@@PlatinumHustle is being single supposed to be an insult to Women? Because they need a man so bad
      It's better to be single than with just any man that's not worth her time.

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Рік тому

      @@alphamail8974 single not by choice lmfao. A woman needs to be in the kitchen and making babies and taking care of the house 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Рік тому

      @@ahkniyaprice8147 huh lol

  • @MsOctober30
    @MsOctober30 4 місяці тому +1

    Yeah u just gained a new subscriber!🫡🌹🫶🏾

  • @siimplyblessed996
    @siimplyblessed996 Рік тому +2

    I love her tips ❤

  • @euniceosamudiamen2420
    @euniceosamudiamen2420 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for all these.

  • @iloveyoublackma6247
    @iloveyoublackma6247 Рік тому +4

    The leg cross was incorrect. Ladies/Women cross at the ankle. Do to dresses & skirts. Men cross the legs over.

  • @Julives-O98
    @Julives-O98 Рік тому +3

    I love your videos so much and I have really learnt alot. Keep up with the good work 🥰

  • @tuliptail5539
    @tuliptail5539 Рік тому +19

    Well, show does a confident woman sits?
    Comfortably , whatever way makes you comfortable, you sit that way and that shows confidence

  • @Mr-Atheist
    @Mr-Atheist 4 місяці тому +2

    Great ma'am

  • @itssilvermadallion
    @itssilvermadallion 12 днів тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @Muntae_BTS_army
    @Muntae_BTS_army 10 днів тому +1

    I always sit like this....

  • @Rhea_Singh23
    @Rhea_Singh23 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks 👍😊

  • @nisiamavalentine1792
    @nisiamavalentine1792 Рік тому

    Thanks for always coming through for this babygal muma❤
    Sending love ❤❤❤

  • @Keba2008
    @Keba2008 Рік тому

    Love these gems of etiquette and confidence.💕

  • @vanishadutta2667
    @vanishadutta2667 2 місяці тому

    Wowww great
    Thanks for teach great tips ...I follow I love it .....
    Awesome 👌

  • @cmlady0437
    @cmlady0437 Рік тому +1

    I'm usually the one at the edge of the seat thinking that's dainty 😂😂
    Lesson learned.... Thank you! 💎

  • @kimbee1718
    @kimbee1718 Рік тому +4

    My new found BIG SISTER❤

  • @AddorPrecious
    @AddorPrecious 10 місяців тому

    You doing a great job 👍

  • @louisaharrell
    @louisaharrell Рік тому

    I love this

  • @blessingsorekie
    @blessingsorekie Місяць тому +1

    I'm a short lady,not sitting at the edge is quite difficult for me😅

  • @sophiadonai5583
    @sophiadonai5583 Рік тому +30

    I was always taught a lady crosses her legs at the ankle. Especially when wearing a dress.

  • @JESUSISLORD7777
    @JESUSISLORD7777 Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE ❤️MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🏽

  • @AishathshaheenaShaheena
    @AishathshaheenaShaheena 6 місяців тому

    I know this song I literally watched it more than a 100 times

  • @Aphmausbiggestfan-f3g
    @Aphmausbiggestfan-f3g Місяць тому +1

    When I watch this video, my legs were already crossed

  • @renus6015
    @renus6015 Рік тому

    Nice..I needed this..

  • @cookie-20006
    @cookie-20006 4 місяці тому +1

    thanks soo much babe

  • @mildadassan6100
    @mildadassan6100 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Winne❤I have learnt alot FROM your videos

  • @ann-mariesmall2022
    @ann-mariesmall2022 Рік тому

    These are the things our children need to see and learn that they can be a better man and woman of world thanks for doing this I myself am learning too.

  • @fronko_donko
    @fronko_donko Рік тому

    First step.... Look this damn BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤

  • @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe
    @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe 9 місяців тому

    I used to be a shy girl but when I started following U am a very confident girl now thanks dear

    • @prathibhabhasuran3289
      @prathibhabhasuran3289 День тому

      How shy ? First u were not crossing your legs so now do u cross your legs?

  • @nkiruobih670
    @nkiruobih670 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos Winnie. I have learnt so much from you ❤️🥰❤️

  • @esoheegho8899
    @esoheegho8899 19 днів тому

    I love this love what you do❤
    training bringings by His grace

  • @Period-mw8fw
    @Period-mw8fw Рік тому

    Ok ur right…what a difference those subtle changes made❤

  • @LM-zi9te
    @LM-zi9te 2 місяці тому

    the second one is so me, always sitting on the edge, I even when sitting at a table let both my legs on the outside not under the table like im bout to flee any moment if anything bad happens ..or if I feel not wanted. Anxiety ...

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984

    Croosing your legs st the knee is ok too ,I love all your videos you are inspiring

  • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
    @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 3 місяці тому

    It’s what comes out of your mouth that is really important as well

  • @mercywanjiku5184
    @mercywanjiku5184 Рік тому +3

    Need to be elegant na,,,,you gain a follower maa❤❤

  • @MiixAndMatch
    @MiixAndMatch Рік тому

    So let your bag be snatched elegantly.

  • @DanysDollHouse
    @DanysDollHouse 9 днів тому

    Loving this content will be doing something similar soon ur such an inspiration

  • @splendourchukwumaife4515
    @splendourchukwumaife4515 Рік тому +4

    I love your shoes ❤

  • @pamelaj3214
    @pamelaj3214 9 місяців тому

    Well, it would seem I have some of this elegant stuff down already, and I didn’t even realize 😮. I always cross my legs at the ankles out of habit, and I do sit with my hands linked while staring into people’s eyes attentively. Sometimes I do clench my purse, but only if I’m uncomfortable in the setting. Same goes for sitting on the edge of the couch. If I’m not trying to sink into it or lean back too far, I just sit near the edge.

  • @esehairgrowthsecret
    @esehairgrowthsecret Рік тому

    Just how I love to sit 😍 cuz I'm a confident woman 💪

  • @Slaythedaygurly
    @Slaythedaygurly 2 місяці тому

    Me over here man spreading because its comfy 😅

  • @stephanieijeomaokafor9653
    @stephanieijeomaokafor9653 Рік тому

    Thanks so much winnie for the eye opener

  • @agaikochkuch8794
    @agaikochkuch8794 Рік тому

    Now I have you as my elegant teacher because what I'm wearing definitely decide how I'm sitting 😢😢😢.

  • @Mynameismud57
    @Mynameismud57 Рік тому +1

    Self respect, respect yourself

  • @LilangelXd.05
    @LilangelXd.05 2 місяці тому

    Thank u❤!

  • @sanvishorts.5255
    @sanvishorts.5255 4 місяці тому

    Thanks alot!!!!!

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Рік тому +1

    Perfectly lovely. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @iweajunwachiamaka5285
    @iweajunwachiamaka5285 Рік тому +1

    Thanks soo much winnie ❤

  • @kutieluvsmj7
    @kutieluvsmj7 Рік тому

    I do that but I just do the rbf instead of a smile but I definitely have confidence

  • @Ever_Winning
    @Ever_Winning Рік тому +9

    Decency commands respect. Cover your privacy neatly and elegantly. Take a cue from the 'woman of elegance' channel and the ladies from the British Royal family.

  • @DuvalDiva-ul5zl
    @DuvalDiva-ul5zl 5 місяців тому

    I love it, I'm ol' skool please show the ladies how to enter & exit a vehicle in a dress/skirt. Thank you ✌🏿💞💃🏿

  • @solangemutatsimana2276
    @solangemutatsimana2276 Місяць тому

    You're just beautiful 😢
    Love from Rwanda ❤❤

  • @MrAgiru
    @MrAgiru Рік тому

    Ty for tips

  • @adisalami4565
    @adisalami4565 Рік тому +1

    Belle femme remplie de bons sens ❤❤❤Femme de valeur ❤❤❤❤

  • @nattetau4235
    @nattetau4235 Місяць тому

    You help a lot 😊😊😊

  • @SandraAtwenebaCoffie
    @SandraAtwenebaCoffie Рік тому

    I love this confidence ❤

    • @utubechannel3846
      @utubechannel3846 Рік тому

      Knowing how to do things brings the gift of confidence. That's what I've found.

  • @Ishwaqluvx182
    @Ishwaqluvx182 Рік тому

    How to comment elegantly 💀
    1. Get a pillow
    2.get a blanket
    3.keep dreaming

  • @DorisNjoku-j3f
    @DorisNjoku-j3f 2 місяці тому

    Wow, so nice.thanks

  • @relaxbebe
    @relaxbebe Рік тому

    I love your tips thank you.

  • @essymummy2999
    @essymummy2999 Рік тому +1

    I was thought in Nursing school and in secondary school it's unladylike to cross leg at the knee. Rather u cross at the ankle.

  • @marvelizzyugochukwu8984
    @marvelizzyugochukwu8984 Рік тому

    l love watching your videos, coz l always learn

  • @francekgasi8506
    @francekgasi8506 8 місяців тому

    That's so Great 😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @avatarbeauty
    @avatarbeauty Рік тому +9

    wearing your glasses on your forehead is awkward, an elegant lady you don't wear a 🕶️ on their forehead or neither wearing it while entering an apartment, you take it off and putt it inside the glass case, please learn to level up more.✨💕

    • @OLUCHI_okonkwo
      @OLUCHI_okonkwo Рік тому +1

      True winnie herself said so in a previous video

    • @justlikethat3219
      @justlikethat3219 Рік тому +3

      Clearly, you still need lessons because all elegant women know if you have nothing nice to say or can't articulate constructively, move along to a channel that meets your needs.

  • @Dora-63908
    @Dora-63908 2 місяці тому

    Ok. Lets teach each other.
    1. For a lady like me, the dress is too short to be confident
    2. When you take off your glasses, rest them beside your handbag or put them in a case and not on top of your head. Unless you're at a sporting event.
    3. Ladies do not sit with their knees overlapped. That's the way gentlemen sits. Ladies overlap from the ankles. ❤

  • @bodymindspirit8600
    @bodymindspirit8600 Рік тому

    I sit on the edge with my back straight weirdly comfortable....

  • @Mary-2u-b8i
    @Mary-2u-b8i Місяць тому

    Im asian and I learnt different sitting attiquettes from finishing school.

  • @tinarogers2181
    @tinarogers2181 5 місяців тому

    I remember my mom telling me to not sit like a boy or man when I was growing up, She would say do not sit with your legs open like that. I still have a hard time sitting the way she wanted me too

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 8 місяців тому

    This is beyond words. I found content with a similar message, and it was absolutely mind-blowing. "Adapting with Aging" by James Crescent

  • @edeniris3308
    @edeniris3308 Рік тому

    Your videos are great but I always leave to download the music cause it's always so darn great 😅

  • @yenziigamedze1709
    @yenziigamedze1709 7 місяців тому

    The entire sit 😂

  • @AdeyemoChristiana-sw7jv
    @AdeyemoChristiana-sw7jv 3 місяці тому

    U got it ❤

  • @milliscentvilla4271
    @milliscentvilla4271 6 місяців тому

    @winnieschoolofelegance Thank you for lifting my spirit each time. I feel Elegant by watching your videos 🙂 but I'd like to ask that " for us with short legs how do we handle sitting on high depth chairs without looking like kids ( i mean my legs has to touch the chairs)🙂. Not like im that short though Thank you

  • @Blue-zx5mp
    @Blue-zx5mp 11 місяців тому

    That's me. I'm clench because of my body. I try to hide everything.

  • @fireflymiesumae
    @fireflymiesumae Рік тому

    Ty

  • @AAA-we2st
    @AAA-we2st Рік тому +4

    Actually this is incorrect, I attended a public girls school, and crossing your legs isn’t elegant, it’s sitting at a slight angle with your right foot slightly twisted behind your left foot, and your hands elegantly placed on top of your left thigh,crossing your legs exposed you and also acts as a hazard for those walking by or pass you, still a lovely video though, but definitely incorrect, x

  • @onokurefeendurance1044
    @onokurefeendurance1044 Рік тому

    pls teach us more,I luv ur smile

  • @wildfiregirl1556
    @wildfiregirl1556 Рік тому +1

    I could never lol. Folks act like they are scared of me I don't bite lol.

  • @ievaleikarte5570
    @ievaleikarte5570 Рік тому

    Elegant women minimal articulate with hands and do not shake body.

  • @shawnlevel3095
    @shawnlevel3095 3 місяці тому

    I hope this is being taken as a compliment...how old is this young lady? Her looks doesn't go with her maturity. She looks young but acts way more mature. It's actually refreshing❤

  • @Jeffreyway
    @Jeffreyway Рік тому

    You Remind Me Sooo Much of My Bestie My Sis.. KRON MOORE
    She Star on TYLER PERRY'S
    The Oval on BET .. She Plays The 1st. Lady
    VICTORIA FRANKLIN
    I've ALWAYS Loved How She Carries Herself and her Posture...
    ALL The Right Ways Is Sooo HER Check Her Out When You Get a Chance ❤👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼

  • @learningwithlubna8753
    @learningwithlubna8753 9 місяців тому

    Complexion doesn't matter u r pretty sister