We Don't Trust Our Son With Our $4.3 Million Mansion | Country House Rescue REVISIT | Abode

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2023
  • Heath House is a beautiful mansion home to Jon and Flavia. The couple inherited the house in 2002 after John's mother passed. However, the couple are unable to keep on top of caring for the house and dream of selling it. Their son Ben wants to inherit the property and turn it into a business. Ruth Watson returns to the family a year after her last visit to see what’s changed. Has Ben taken over the mansion? Did his business fail? Did the couple sell it?
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  • @inesolujic2534
    @inesolujic2534 10 місяців тому +671

    For anyone curious as to what has happened since this was filmed 13+ years ago: Ben and his brother inherited the house. Unfortunately their father passed away not long after the show was filmed and their mother just a few months later. The younger brother, Justin, ran it as a wedding and photography venue with his wife. No idea what Ben was doing. It seems that Covid was rough for them and the estate was sold in 2021 for over £6 million. After the estate was sold, the Phillips family auctioned off some of the art, silverware, books and furniture of the house in 2022. They had a very active Facebook page until the house was sold.

    • @DavidS1164
      @DavidS1164 9 місяців тому +188

      Imagine losing your ancestral family home after 15 generations… Unbelievable sad how it still happens. ;/
      But the proces of emotional decay started in the generation before. The obvious lack of trust and vision and the general negative attitude were not exactly fair nor helpful.

    • @amalali504
      @amalali504 9 місяців тому +91

      Thank you for the update. Much appreciated. RIP Jon & Flavia.

    • @PankajDoharey
      @PankajDoharey 8 місяців тому +8

      Yup saw it on the facebook page.

    • @izaac1312
      @izaac1312 8 місяців тому +48

      That’s such a shame. Thanks for the information though

    • @anthonywilliams9852
      @anthonywilliams9852 5 місяців тому +13

      I didn't think that just the weddings commercial venue alone would uplift the revenues on the upkeep of the estate non plussed by John's unconscious wish to consider selling the house at modest prices.

  • @mdj2742
    @mdj2742 Рік тому +561

    The parents need to admit that they want the money from the sale and aren’t interested in keeping the home in the family. Ben is charming and has an endearing quality. He also appears to be quite determined. He’s the perfect person to manage the estate.

    • @krustycreme1093
      @krustycreme1093 10 місяців тому +81

      Absolutely, and I think it's actually wrong to sell an inherited home rather than pass it down to your spring , as the ancestors did to you!

    • @terra2730
      @terra2730 10 місяців тому +18

      @@krustycreme1093 They just didnt want to burden their sons thats all and they said as much!
      They knew how much work the house had been for them! Geez

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 10 місяців тому +28

      Agree. There's so much you could do with it. Photoshoots, Weddings, Air bnb , glamping, corporate clay pigeon shooting days, artists teaching weekends, yoga retreat weekends ....

    • @derricklangford4725
      @derricklangford4725 10 місяців тому +15

      Fuc that, sale and get the money. You have to be Mega rich to keep up with repairs on that house, let someone with the financial means take that project on.

    • @terra2730
      @terra2730 10 місяців тому +23

      @@derricklangford4725 You would be wrong! You must be a quitter

  • @jamessmithson-br7rm
    @jamessmithson-br7rm 3 місяці тому +220

    To have a house like this in the family, and a son willing to take on the challenge and to not let him is absolute madness.

    • @jeanettemullins
      @jeanettemullins 3 місяці тому +20

      I think the dad was the one bad at making the house a business but can't see his own flaws, only that there must be no potential. He seems to have a personality that's not easily challenged and takes it out on his son.

    • @jean405
      @jean405 2 місяці тому +8

      It is also very cruel!

    • @johnmightymole2284
      @johnmightymole2284 2 місяці тому

      Not really

    • @gemmaelsworthy5297
      @gemmaelsworthy5297 2 місяці тому +5

      read up further the kids ending up selling it anyway

    • @daylehudson6810
      @daylehudson6810 2 місяці тому

      It doesn't hurt to try

  • @denisedspain7991
    @denisedspain7991 2 місяці тому +44

    I would hate to be the one that has to sell a house after it was in the family for 14 generations! Wow!

    • @mr.crowgamer6250
      @mr.crowgamer6250 Місяць тому +1

      5 not 14 there generation had been around for 14 lived in it for 5

    • @angiejohnson6666
      @angiejohnson6666 Місяць тому +1

      Me too!😮

    • @langyd4518
      @langyd4518 12 днів тому

      all they do is sit around and blather

    • @titandarknight2698
      @titandarknight2698 11 днів тому

      @@langyd4518 well that is what chairs are for. In thier house. For sitting and talking with others.

  • @MartyJackson
    @MartyJackson Рік тому +100

    Imagine owning a house and not even knowing how many bedrooms it has. Maaaad

    • @n.g.l.
      @n.g.l. 5 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 місяці тому +10

      And he thinks the son is incompetent. Lived there his WHOLE LIFE and never counted.

    • @bonniephelps9481
      @bonniephelps9481 3 місяці тому +12

      That is so true. They don’t even know what they own, how can they possibly manage it.

    • @youreatowel9705
      @youreatowel9705 2 місяці тому +1

      Thats not an easy question with a home like this its not as cut and dry as our normy houses. So how many bedrooms originally how many rooms are actively acting as a bedroom where do you draw the line of whats a bedroom? You put a bed in a ballroom or a library does it make it a bedroom? If I walk into a 2000 square foot room with a staircase in it and no closet idc how many beds are in it to me its not a bedroom. Then you got areas that are servant quarters or mother in law suits where they have a bedroom and kitchen maybe even a living room area in that section so thats not a bedroom nor can the bedrooms in those areas really be counted as a bedroom.

    • @piotr5338
      @piotr5338 Місяць тому

      Old money - folks have like thet .

  • @mohussain1615
    @mohussain1615 Рік тому +104

    They should also hire the estate out for filming movies and tv shows.

    • @WSMITHify
      @WSMITHify 10 місяців тому +2

      No money in that, believe me I’ve tried

    • @mirandalu6703
      @mirandalu6703 9 місяців тому +8

      @@WSMITHifywell, but it may be a good advertisement.

    • @northsouth252
      @northsouth252 2 місяці тому

      They have tried that....I think it was called "in the land of plenty".

    • @daylehudson6810
      @daylehudson6810 2 місяці тому

      Good idea

    • @marciaoh7056
      @marciaoh7056 16 днів тому

      It already has been used in four movies.
      Its nice pocket money but not a steady income.

  • @kjss4345
    @kjss4345 Рік тому +119

    Old guy lived there his whole life....no idea how many rooms😀

    • @janedoe5229
      @janedoe5229 4 місяці тому +15

      You would think that one rainy, he might have counted them. And thinking about putting it up for sale and no idea exactly how many rooms he is selling.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 місяці тому +28

      He's never counted. Yet thinks his son is too incompetent to inherit it.

    • @SlayNorway
      @SlayNorway 2 місяці тому +2

      @@OffGridInvestortypically how it goes

    • @ThaidUp
      @ThaidUp 2 місяці тому

      Exactly what a moron.

    • @kevinbrown-ge6sz
      @kevinbrown-ge6sz 2 місяці тому +3

      @@janedoe5229 It would seem there would be architectural designs, , archives, tax records or some other documents showing the size and number of rooms in the house.

  • @evehawasinare228
    @evehawasinare228 Рік тому +184

    The father needed to trust his son more. He has done well

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty Рік тому +10

      Parent always c their kids r still kids

    • @darren6831
      @darren6831 Рік тому

      Both parents are dead and the business is still going

    • @nicolesibylla2541
      @nicolesibylla2541 10 місяців тому +1

      Ben's father is a mammalian failure.

    • @kristibyerts5987
      @kristibyerts5987 2 місяці тому +3

      No he was right The kids ended up inheriting the house and sold it for over 6 million

    • @pearpo
      @pearpo Місяць тому

      Parents still remember them as children but they need to adapt and raise adults.

  • @lizrigby-jones3700
    @lizrigby-jones3700 10 місяців тому +50

    Lovely guy Ben is. His father criticises him in a negative view. Hopeful he can gain confidence to carry on the good work.

    • @pearpo
      @pearpo Місяць тому +1

      It seems that the family problem goes back further to the Wife Flavia and the Dad’s Mother who managed the house into her death.
      Flavia said it was part of her wedding vows she wanted to have nothing to do with the house.
      It seems passed this attitude to her younger son. Who appears a silent saboteur “on Mum’s side.”

  • @totallydomestic433
    @totallydomestic433 Рік тому +147

    Benjamin is a wonderful son! I hope he gets the credit he deserves.

    • @yama5182
      @yama5182 11 місяців тому +2

      Sure…but next time if he’s going to attend or meet and greet, he should wear a suit…looks more professional and he isn’t, than it doesn’t matter. 👍

    • @janinep97
      @janinep97 10 місяців тому

      At 42 he still doesn’t live on his own, I think his head is in the clouds

    • @janinep97
      @janinep97 10 місяців тому +5

      So sad, the dad passed summer, mum in December, 2021.

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому +2

      He gets credit for being a toff who can't manage an inherited property.

    • @lindab8397
      @lindab8397 9 місяців тому

      @@janinep97 oh no…. Sorry to hear that. 😮

  • @susangreen2344
    @susangreen2344 Рік тому +217

    Ben is charming which adds to his new found role with hosting events. He is absolutely the right person for this and is well committed towards the business attached to Heath House. He has proved himself worthy of rising to such a challenge and going forward. Well done!

    • @Metaworldwide
      @Metaworldwide Рік тому

      He's not going to marry you.

    • @maganalia
      @maganalia Рік тому

      @davidoffon Really? Damn I wanted to watch the stable rebuild!

    • @Taina2024
      @Taina2024 6 місяців тому +3

      The other people have been charming as well, but if you watch the other shows, you'll notice that Ruth Watson is extremely rude and she makes very disgusting comments towards the clients (for example about the paintings of their ancestors) that really riles them up. She's behaving incredibly well and humbled on this episode for some reason (even in the tone of her voice). Maybe she feels intimidated.

    • @LeaWilson-zc2zm
      @LeaWilson-zc2zm 2 місяці тому

      Ben is charming how would you know are you sleeping 🛌 with him you clown 🤡

    • @LeaWilson-zc2zm
      @LeaWilson-zc2zm 2 місяці тому

      🤣🤣🥲🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mountresplendent
    @mountresplendent Місяць тому +14

    To Ben and Justin,
    You did the best you could. Wishing you peace of mind. 🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @-ZED-
    @-ZED- Рік тому +129

    ----Update----
    I have checked and in 2021 the house was sold to new buyers and a few years after this was aired both parents passed away leaving it to their sons who tried to keep it afloat but eventually did not work out and then sold the property.

    • @sandraford4235
      @sandraford4235 Рік тому +24

      That’s a shame ,

    • @yvonnemar77
      @yvonnemar77 Рік тому +4

      😢😢😢

    • @TomWatsonB1
      @TomWatsonB1 Рік тому +37

      Yes, I was about to write this. Brother Justin and his wife (married in 2015) tried their hand at Heath House, but it was sold. Perhaps Covid was the nail in the coffin.

    • @sventer198
      @sventer198 Рік тому +9

      @@TomWatsonB1 sadly it would have been.

    • @kenj.8897
      @kenj.8897 Рік тому +16

      Maybe the new owners can keep it in their family for 14 generations

  • @Whoiskevinjones
    @Whoiskevinjones Рік тому +70

    Surely there was a way to increase earnings from farm land, too. If he didn't know how many bedrooms were in the house, he likely never met with the farmers to ask how he could help.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 місяці тому +14

      Exactly. 600 acres and not a damn sheep in sight. I know in Australia we can only run 2 sheep an acre, they can run 22-24 in England. No idea of the amount of rooms although living there his whole life, probably never talked to farmers, and then somehow think THE SON is incompetent.

    • @raymondgagne8363
      @raymondgagne8363 2 місяці тому

      @@OffGridInvestorI guess this comment applied to Dad and Mom also, they ran the home in deficit for years prior to the filming.

    • @daylehudson6810
      @daylehudson6810 2 місяці тому

      Maybe have more owners

    • @elizabethash4720
      @elizabethash4720 2 місяці тому

      ​@OffGridInvestor when people say such things about others they are usually talking about themselves. Seems his father had a blind spot.

  • @doonewatts7155
    @doonewatts7155 Рік тому +20

    Fantastic Benjamin! You are so lovely despite obviously being battered down emotionally by an overbearing father. To finally stand up to him and prove him utterly wrong delights me no end

  • @JerryDLTN
    @JerryDLTN Рік тому +28

    Turn it into a Bed and Breakfast. Serve meals like Miss Mary Bobo's in Lynchburg, TN. Have a horseback-led tours of the grounds. Host activities in the yard as if living in 1836. Partner up with some attraction in town near the home. Maybe have an annual car show like at the Marlborough House

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad Рік тому

      And where will the money come from. To pay off the mortgage each month? After they pay off the heating bills that is.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +1

      Horses are extremely expensive to own; not at all a solution to a property already too expensive to own.

    • @user-sb6uf7sm6g
      @user-sb6uf7sm6g Місяць тому

      🥃 Jack was here.

    • @pearpo
      @pearpo Місяць тому

      Stables for others horses.
      Yes business takes capital, but to have a family gem and heirloom of such historic significance and cut off your own children from the earning/ managing their legacy seems very cruel. Someone wrote they did sell it but at least for a higher amount then a lowball offer. And some strides were made in John learning to mature and be Fatherly to his adult son(s). Part of parenting is raising the adults and then letting go.

  • @user-pb1ue9bk9z
    @user-pb1ue9bk9z Рік тому +54

    What a delight to watch, enjoyed every second. Did not appreciate it being filmed over a decade ago and sad to hear John and Flavia have now passed.

  • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
    @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +46

    Little Ben was so hopeful and enthusiastic, he is so sweet.

    • @rgray531
      @rgray531 5 місяців тому +7

      Little? He is a 40 something old man.

  • @wendymaybury6329
    @wendymaybury6329 Рік тому +42

    Staggeringly beautiful house and especially the grounds!

  • @GingerNinja1
    @GingerNinja1 Місяць тому +6

    Beautiful mansion & grounds. I hate to hear they ended up selling 13 yrs later, but hopefully the new owners will maintain it.

    • @dodge33445
      @dodge33445 Місяць тому

      Yeah, True Ginger... If they can afford to buy it for 6 mil, they can afford to keep it up.. Prolly better than the aging couple could.

  • @daisy9910
    @daisy9910 6 місяців тому +39

    Parents like this raise insecure children who lack confidence, then denigrate them to say, 'see you aren't good enough'. I'm glad Ben was able to have a go. John was incredibly rude to Ruth.

    • @elizabethash4720
      @elizabethash4720 2 місяці тому +4

      Gaslighting is very destructive.

    • @MrVorpalsword
      @MrVorpalsword Місяць тому

      @@elizabethash4720 I believe they're rigging it up for electricity in the near future.

  • @waynemiller6156
    @waynemiller6156 3 місяці тому +4

    This was a beautiful home and gardens. I hope whoever bought it, has respect for it, cares about it and loves this house keeping it a historical piece of beautiful architectual history. Its a truely amazing and has so much beauty and craftsmanship that so many homes lack today.

  • @kylie-mareebaldwin4672
    @kylie-mareebaldwin4672 Рік тому +23

    Imagine if your primary stressor in life was what to do with your inherited wealth.
    Glad they kept it in the family.

    • @terra2730
      @terra2730 Рік тому +1

      They were going broke why do you think they needed to sell it

    • @tslee8236
      @tslee8236 Рік тому +1

      A gift or a curse? 😅

    • @planetclaire820boulder8
      @planetclaire820boulder8 2 місяці тому

      I think that they could have at least tried and as it progressed, met with large Hotel chains and collaborated, to turn it into a hotel, and high end dining, along with the wedding/ reception venues. They could have made deals, to each have a private suite for each son. The photography office/studio on site. Sometimes locals want to stay close rather than going on holiday abroad. Everyone's needs would have been met and the grand Home would have gone on for years to come. Dad seemed a likeable man and mum too, but ...

  • @suzannegriffin5121
    @suzannegriffin5121 Рік тому +55

    I'm glad that Jon and Flavia decided to allow their son to go forward with the house, as it is his birthright as it was Jon's, and his father's and his father's and so on. Hopefully Ben will marry some day and be able to pass the property on to his child.

    • @kayleyholland5655
      @kayleyholland5655 Рік тому +7

      It’s already up for sale 10 years after this show. Seems like he was waiting for his parents to die so he could inherit all the money

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому +1

      Not likely. The house was sold.

    • @rorus9530
      @rorus9530 5 місяців тому +1

      @@busterbiloxi3833 Thats a shame after so many generations.

    • @raymondgagne8363
      @raymondgagne8363 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kayleyholland5655very crude comment in my opinion. The sons would inherit either way, if the house was sold prior to parents passing or after, it’s called inheritance, whether in assets or liquid makes no difference. Dad inherited the house the same way as his son, I’m guessing the comment can apply to Dad too?

    • @kayleyholland5655
      @kayleyholland5655 2 місяці тому +1

      @@raymondgagne8363 no the parents would have sold it and used the money for their retirement leaving not as much for the son. Whereas if the son managed to get them to keep it, there would be no loss of money spent on the parents retirement

  • @emiscand
    @emiscand Рік тому +61

    I love posh people and their stiff upper lip. Them: "Two strokes and a heart attack..it was terribly unfortunate". Me: I can't do anything today, I have a slightly sore throat.

    • @snorttroll4379
      @snorttroll4379 2 місяці тому +1

      Only the unrefined and poor use that word unironically

  • @PROUDCANADIANGIRL
    @PROUDCANADIANGIRL Рік тому +21

    These incredible castle type estates you see here is something you would never see in Ontario.. the charm and vast history of these structures is so fascinating and only something you would see in a movie here. I can only think of one estate here like Heath house but it’s only 80 years old.. these estates are hundreds of years old ..
    I would definitely give it to my son or daughter if they wanted to keep it going and in the family. This son is 42, not a child. I read this couple have passed away so my condolences. 🙏🏼

    • @expo1706
      @expo1706 10 місяців тому

      That's not true. There's Casa Loma and other places.

    • @vicj9256
      @vicj9256 Місяць тому

      @@expo1706 Nothing as old as in England. Ontario is a baby in comparison. Casa Loma is only about 110 years old and came from "new" money and in a different social context than the old houses in England evolved out of. The owner of Casa Loma only lasted 10 years before it was seized for unpaid taxes.

  • @ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293
    @ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 Рік тому +14

    Buying a historic home of that calibre is prohibitive for most relatively well off folks-- not because of the purchase price, which can often be suspiciously reasonable, but because of the running costs. THAT'S where you get stung. And it explains why they so often leave private hands and get turned into hotels. How people are permitted to turn Grade-listed properties this gorgeous into modern hotels baffles me but a private owner with intentions to rejuvenate it as a private dwelling is watched like a hawk is one for the scholars.

  • @Anna.Mason151
    @Anna.Mason151 Рік тому +20

    It is lovely to see a family break those negative family role projections that don’t serve to uplift each person, and to see everyone in the family benefit from the changes it has made.

  • @mpalmer7800
    @mpalmer7800 Рік тому +24

    Am binge watching these mansions stories!!! These are amazing stories

  • @spotifyde5979
    @spotifyde5979 2 місяці тому +7

    on the market for 2 years and doesn't know how many bedrooms it has? no wonder he hasn't sold it yet

  • @reptreptilian
    @reptreptilian 3 місяці тому +17

    Ben is a good son. At least he gives a s**t about his family's legacy.

  • @nvw2978
    @nvw2978 Рік тому +56

    I love Ben, he has such a sweet awkwardness about him but a blossoming determination to make a success and keep it in his family for generations to come.
    I would love to have the lady of that manor and the wife of a gorgeous guy like Ben. X

    • @Metaworldwide
      @Metaworldwide Рік тому +12

      Alright love this ain't Gold Diggers version of tinder.

    • @Di-gr3ex
      @Di-gr3ex Рік тому +1

      @@Metaworldwide 🤣

    • @gambylou9959
      @gambylou9959 Рік тому

      @@Metaworldwide 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣

    • @kayleyholland5655
      @kayleyholland5655 Рік тому +1

      Well he put it up for sale in 2021 again. I think he was just waiting for his parents to die so he could get all the money from the sale himself.

    • @krustycreme1093
      @krustycreme1093 10 місяців тому +1

      @@kayleyholland5655 Seriously?
      That's disgusting, after 14 generations in the family!
      I bet Ben was after a husband too, not a wife, which is why he stayed single while his parents were around!

  • @jumaris28
    @jumaris28 Рік тому +67

    I love seeing Benjamín hands on , proving his parents that he is more than capable to run the business and keep the State on the Family for generations to come !! Greetings from Oxnard California
    🇺🇸 love this Channel 😊

    • @MusicList-rl9yu
      @MusicList-rl9yu 10 місяців тому

      805? Wow...

    • @kathrynwitte3398
      @kathrynwitte3398 9 місяців тому +1

      The parents died a decade ago and the sons sold it after the pandemic.

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому

      Benjamin is totally incapable and sold out.

    • @pushpenderrana6190
      @pushpenderrana6190 Місяць тому

      A forty plus young man whose father has no confidence in his abilities and makes that clear is whats puling him down.Its obvious that the father never got the property to make itself pay by the letting it outfor weddings or weekend guests or shooting grounds,else his son would be handling it like apro.

  • @2Sugarbears
    @2Sugarbears Рік тому +157

    I don't get "dad" telling son to do what he failed to do.

  • @evelynenerveat2077
    @evelynenerveat2077 Рік тому +16

    So thrilled Ben could live his dream with a little help. Selling that gorgeous stately family home would have been such a terribly heart-breaking prospect.
    Well done Benjamin. You can be proud of what you've achieved

    • @kathrynwitte3398
      @kathrynwitte3398 9 місяців тому +1

      Yet he sold it after the pandemic for £6.5M.

  • @rozieofpetitprince
    @rozieofpetitprince Рік тому +16

    I believe the dad is not as arrogant and ignorant as he sounded at first, he needed some comfort from his son that the latter is capable of doing the business that Ben successfully managed to prove to his father. Bravo, Benjamin, well done 🙏🏻

    • @nicolesibylla2541
      @nicolesibylla2541 10 місяців тому +1

      Face it, the dad is a both a mammal and a failure.

    • @pmc8119
      @pmc8119 3 місяці тому +1

      He certainly was! The very reason he had two 40 something sons who couldn't form relationships is a pretty good indication

  • @RLReagan
    @RLReagan Рік тому +14

    I think the father lost sight of the potential. Happened with my parents just being overwhelmed. This was at a time the travel industry was being overtaken by internet and apps. They were so lost. My family’s business had so degraded by the time of their death there was no option but to sell.

  • @dorothyfrew6147
    @dorothyfrew6147 2 місяці тому +30

    I'm dying to pressure wash the outside. It would be so pretty.

    • @MrVorpalsword
      @MrVorpalsword Місяць тому +5

      ..... possibly take the protective patina from the outside of the stone, exfoliate and leave it wide open to corrosion and erosion. Seen it a million times, leave well alone. PS sorry I've just looked again, over-cleaning those façades would be a disaster, washing away its protection as well as its history.

    • @dodge33445
      @dodge33445 Місяць тому +1

      No, its supposed to be like that.

    • @Kbcmkk5
      @Kbcmkk5 29 днів тому +1

      lol Mee too!

  • @deirdremaza2703
    @deirdremaza2703 Рік тому +71

    What an excellent choice to leave it in the family. Good luck Benjamin with your new found business ❤️ from New York 🍀

    • @kellyrichards1354
      @kellyrichards1354 Рік тому +3

      Yes, all the best to Ben, all the next generation/s. Also from New York (currently).

    • @h.r.puffinstuff7099
      @h.r.puffinstuff7099 Рік тому +1

      I also am glad they didn’t sell! It’s lovely, especially some of the grounds! Even though I am not from New York, I did go to college there!

    • @kathrynwitte3398
      @kathrynwitte3398 9 місяців тому

      @@h.r.puffinstuff7099they sold it after the pandemic.

    • @banshee1133
      @banshee1133 8 місяців тому

      @@h.r.puffinstuff7099 they already sold it

    • @neptu17
      @neptu17 7 місяців тому

      @@h.r.puffinstuff7099 they did sell it

  • @annagonzales8178
    @annagonzales8178 Рік тому +17

    I’m so sad at how these parents have so much disbelief in their own son and their family lines future in keeping this magnificent property in their family!! They have a spark of hope and they’d rather snuff it out than let it stay lit. However the parents didn’t seem to want the home bc they were always 50/50 prior to having move in. Go Ben go!!! Keep going! Make your ancestors proud and those future generations!!!

    • @robinhood-ex3em
      @robinhood-ex3em 16 днів тому

      Maybe they knew their son and his character better than we for 40 minutes on TV…

  • @brownysshitfightofamind1828
    @brownysshitfightofamind1828 Рік тому +18

    I feel for both son’s having a father like that.

    • @rozieofpetitprince
      @rozieofpetitprince Рік тому

      So do I… ahhh, the mother is quite a piece of “art”…((

    • @mobius2891
      @mobius2891 Місяць тому

      I think Dad was a passive-aggressive bully in the WORST sense of the word. His poor sons.

  • @sherreywurz731
    @sherreywurz731 9 місяців тому +9

    Absolutely stunning house and land.

  • @rosebudame
    @rosebudame Рік тому +45

    WOW, what a difficult father. Ben almost never had a chance. If they had commercialized a number of years earlier they may have survived Covid and anything else.

    • @North49191
      @North49191 Рік тому +1

      Did you ever consider that Ben was a spoiled brat his whole life?

    • @rosebudame
      @rosebudame Рік тому +12

      @@North49191 Well who may have created a “spoiled brat”?

    • @tomdonadel8531
      @tomdonadel8531 Рік тому

      Difficult father but from what I can see, Ben is a bafoon. He would bankrupt that house in no time

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad Рік тому +6

      Did these comments all move over from another page? It was filmed in 2009. It is now March 2023....

    • @sarahstrong7174
      @sarahstrong7174 Рік тому +3

      @@tomdonadel8531 He seems quite practical to me.

  • @rozieofpetitprince
    @rozieofpetitprince Рік тому +15

    The old lady used to tell her son that he bullied Benjamin… how sad is that

  • @scotnick59
    @scotnick59 Рік тому +11

    Heath House would make a cool place to film Shirley Jackson's THE HAUNTING OF HILL HOUSE!

    • @daylehudson6810
      @daylehudson6810 2 місяці тому

      If they keep it they shouldn't have sold the art works on the walls. Seeing the art on the walls it part of the joy of visiting

  • @garyblais8602
    @garyblais8602 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Hugh Bonneville for your great dialogues amongst some sorry stories. Bravo on your new career.

  • @aprilstar3572
    @aprilstar3572 Рік тому +12

    I’m so proud of the young man and I feel sure he will make it

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому

      Still sure? The house was sold by the sons, two wastrel laggards.

  • @TiGGowich
    @TiGGowich 6 місяців тому +4

    I feel so empathetic to Ben (also because that's my name), because I've been in the same boat. He is clearly ambitious and capable... but a life of your own parents telling you that you are a good for nothing and cannot pull it off takes away all your confidence and trust in your own abilities. I am so happy for Ben that he did manage to pull it off and gain his confidence back despite his father not ever having his back...

  • @IDidntAskU
    @IDidntAskU Рік тому +8

    " so your kinda use to running out of money" 😑
    Story of my life. 😅

  • @XOX74
    @XOX74 Рік тому +13

    Sorry to see it up for sale. Maybe it didnt hold the same feeling since his parents passed. Lovely people. 🙏🙌

    • @katharinatrub1338
      @katharinatrub1338 Рік тому

      Oh! What sad News! I guess to split up the inheritance.... hum...

  • @denisemahoney232
    @denisemahoney232 10 місяців тому +19

    I believe the parents would be embarrassed if their son made a go of it and they couldn't.
    It is sad that the parents would rather sell than give their son a chance to keep it in the family. Ben would make a real go of this and prove he was more than capable.

    • @nicolesibylla2541
      @nicolesibylla2541 10 місяців тому +2

      Bingo.

    • @kristibyerts5987
      @kristibyerts5987 2 місяці тому +1

      Nope not true, they didn’t sell And they passed away and the sons inherited it and then ended up selling it, So the parents had to struggle during their final years just for their sons to sell it and make the money and live good smh

    • @uniqtraveller2162
      @uniqtraveller2162 11 днів тому

      Yes, It was sold privately so sad ,I worked there and fell in love with it still miss it .!

  • @angelavonhalle5144
    @angelavonhalle5144 2 місяці тому +3

    This would be a good movie set.

  • @nelltaylor8171
    @nelltaylor8171 Рік тому +12

    Such a shame that the father didn’t trust the son. The mother never wanted any involvement in the house, as evident also by her wedding vows. It’s such a shame as after this programme was aired the house has since been sold at over £6M, as being a successful events location.

    • @mariejosemckeown
      @mariejosemckeown 10 місяців тому +2

      Really ?

    • @ecaldwell9
      @ecaldwell9 10 місяців тому +1

      I think there is a reason why he has a concern. He knows his son more than we do. He’s 5th generation of being there & doesn’t know how many BR’s are there? You’re selling the property & don’t know how many BR’s there are? I’m glad the property was finally able to support itself, & not had to tear it down or anything like that. They have the right to sell & get return on the money they’ve invested over the yrs. They don’t owe their sons anything. They have gotten them to the age of majority. They’re done!

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому +1

      The father was aware of his son's, uh, embrace of the love that dares not speak its name.

  • @paulafoster2607
    @paulafoster2607 Рік тому +6

    I know what he means by saying Americans will like it. When I'm in England I love staying in the old houses. But to my surprise someone from another country has bought it and has nothing to tell me about the history or the history of the area. It would be very nice to stay somewhere like this.

  • @jaimicottrill2831
    @jaimicottrill2831 Рік тому +8

    It's a pity that these old manor homes are crumbling and being neglected because they are too expensive to heat and light. If the historical societies that are supposed to "protect' thiese homes would loosen the restrictions on certain things then it might save more houses. Discreet solar panels, or renovating to include geothermal heating, making sure the windows are triple glazed etc can all help off set the cost of heating the homes.

    • @vicj9256
      @vicj9256 Місяць тому

      Sometimes you are to let the past die. The economic and social system that created those houses is gone.

  • @jacqui9176
    @jacqui9176 Рік тому +12

    Sad to see Ben's parents has now passed on and the property is up for sale.

    • @jennybertenshaw7694
      @jennybertenshaw7694 10 місяців тому +4

      Don't know where you got that from It is now being run by Ben and Justin and his wife Julia and has rave reviews

    • @busterbiloxi3833
      @busterbiloxi3833 9 місяців тому

      It was sold.@@jennybertenshaw7694

  • @Straighttalk95
    @Straighttalk95 3 місяці тому +4

    “No no rubbish you 😂 be quiet ! “ 😂😂😂😂😂 he told her off like a headmaster would a pupil 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @davidnavratil5349
    @davidnavratil5349 2 місяці тому +5

    From my viewpoint they did not have the moral right to deny their son of the inheritance. Both of them were old and should let their son have a go on the house like all the generations before. He also showed lot of passion and interest into doing something with the estate. I think both parents were selfish.

    • @Bird1964
      @Bird1964 Місяць тому

      Agreed 👍 😊

  • @wasblind4835
    @wasblind4835 Рік тому +18

    It was wonderful to see the house was kept. Good wishes for Ben. I agree the stable house should be fixed up for more income.

  • @debbieross5257
    @debbieross5257 9 місяців тому +4

    I would love to visit this beautiful estate, if ever I have the opportunity. I wish them every success in their venture.

  • @nabilfreeman
    @nabilfreeman 2 місяці тому +5

    The idea that they would even sell off the asset is the mentality that is completely wrong with the UK. People value cash more than assets and then a generation later all the money is gone.

  • @skontheroad
    @skontheroad Рік тому +7

    Poor Aunt Anthea!

  • @JerryDLTN
    @JerryDLTN Рік тому +4

    30:10 An idea for Ben: Get a couple of GoPros to mount up high to record his events down below and then watch afterward to see what went well and what could have been improved.

  • @mrvgstyle2442
    @mrvgstyle2442 9 місяців тому +7

    Unfortunately, I did some research. John Philips died in August 2011 and Flavia died a few months later in December of the same year. Heath House was sold and its contents were sold at auction by the Italian Art Society in April of 2022. I also ran into an online article that said Ben Philips mysteriously disappeared. Ben and his younger brother, Justin last owned the house. Justin and his wife, Sophie, were managing the business side of Heath House prior to its sale.

    • @panamaJ
      @panamaJ 2 місяці тому +4

      Where did you read that? I just googled it and it’s still with the Philips family.

    • @mrvgstyle2442
      @mrvgstyle2442 2 місяці тому

      @@panamaJ , Google 'Heath House, Staffordshire for sale." It was listed by Savills for £6,250,000. You can look it up on the site for Francis York. You need to be careful about internet searches because search engines keep old, outdated information. Best to click on the link for the actual date published.

    • @phoenixgirl70
      @phoenixgirl70 2 місяці тому

      @@panamaJDid you read the date of what you saw. It was sold in 2023. The website no longer works. I think it was the result of Covid plus the father didn’t seem to want anything to do with the house. I was surprised his mother had lived there until she passed. I think just mistakes made over time as the upkeep costs would have been around 100 grand a year. Imagine needing the plumbing fixed?! But yes it sold and then most contents auctioned off. I’ve been looking up everything I could for hours this afternoon. Maybe the new owners have the money and re-open it again. I’m just glad it didn’t fall into ruins.

  • @adam_lux4691
    @adam_lux4691 Рік тому +6

    R.I.P to both John & Flavia

  • @PJL7095
    @PJL7095 2 місяці тому +1

    Such a beautiful estate even in 2008. I could find plenty of ways to make it a profitable yet still carrying the charm of the land

  • @Fireflier71
    @Fireflier71 Рік тому +3

    It's 2013 and just googled the house and it states its owned still by the sons 🙏👏👏

  • @stephendennis5969
    @stephendennis5969 Рік тому +28

    The mother wanted it gone. She knew her health was failing and wanted it gone. Especially since dad procrastinates and wouldn’t make any decisions. He was just doing what she wanted. And they were ignoring their son, who was damn near pleading for them to let him run it.

    • @kuchikopi4631
      @kuchikopi4631 Рік тому +5

      Yea, the poor mother didn't want to burden the sons with that huge responsibility.

  • @blancabulgrin5560
    @blancabulgrin5560 2 місяці тому +1

    I think Ben is doing well ,I hate to see that home go for two million That's nothing I'm cheering for you Ben your doing great!!!

  • @blancabulgrin5560
    @blancabulgrin5560 2 місяці тому +1

    I just read what happen,so sorry for your parents. I 'm glad it was Six million you got for it best wishes to you both !!!

  • @1NeverunderStood
    @1NeverunderStood Рік тому +7

    Seems father and mother do not want the son to do things they 🫠Never did Bravo the son well done Bravoto you

  • @kentuckianaboy
    @kentuckianaboy Рік тому +7

    Old place sure would look better with a pressure washing on the outside.

  • @LaoZi2023
    @LaoZi2023 9 місяців тому +2

    I think the Fulford's could learn something from this family. True, the Fulford's need a lot of repairing, but I wonder if they could find some people who would want to help in the renovation for a chance to satay in their house. Mr. Fulford seems like a riot to spend some time with, but Mrs. Fulford would be difficult. As a faux painter and artist, I've worked for similar types, and it's tough when there's a person in the mix, making decisions, who can't reason well. Scaffolding would be one of the biggest issues for the Fulford mansion, and leaving people alone to do the work. I love that kind of work, it's not as enjoyable as painting a canvas, but it is satisfying. I'd love go to the Fulford's and spend a few months to renovate the entire place. They pay for the materials, and we work for food and experience. There would need to be a team of artists, a mason, wood workers, a few faux artists...I've done masonry, construction work, faux wood, faux marble ( both in the French and the Italian influence), sculpting, metal work, plumbing, heating (of course inspections would be necessary). The possibilities would be endless.

  • @mikebegonia6134
    @mikebegonia6134 Рік тому +5

    Now Heath House is on the market for a cool 6.2 mil.

  • @RK-fx4sv
    @RK-fx4sv Рік тому +5

    I am glad to see they were able to make a go of it.

  • @vivdoolan6846
    @vivdoolan6846 Рік тому +51

    The father is the problem.....hes a total nightmare ! He wouldnt trust Ben but didnt realise himself how badly he failed himself and that anyone was going to do better.

  • @bakenumber4
    @bakenumber4 Рік тому +2

    I'm sorry to hear his dear ma,ma had a stroke, but thank goodness her recovery is coming along...America wishes her well.

  • @bend3rbot
    @bend3rbot Місяць тому +1

    So sad to see the family who clearly benefited in the past centuries from exploiting the spoils of empire coming to the realisation that it wasn't ever deserved of their intelligence or within their natural means. One's heart goes out! ❤😊

  • @Jennifer62389
    @Jennifer62389 Рік тому +3

    I have taking care of my own little house, can you imagine having to take care that place. His father should have been training his son's all the things they would need to know and writing it down for his son's, that's their father's fault. Let your son take it on.

  • @maidinulster
    @maidinulster 9 місяців тому +3

    Ben honestly, you most def need a good woman behind you, no shadow of a doubt

  • @janetgreen7678
    @janetgreen7678 Рік тому +10

    Dan, Come on man! You graft harder than any 10 men! Killer respect for you.
    Weather you realized it or not when you first started your UA-cam journey, you began creating a priceless gift for your boys! The rest of us are secondary happy travel companions on your journey.
    The historical record you are creating will be forever treasured by the boys and their future children. Epic gift. I do hope that you will have the time to review your remarkable evolution and enjoy the ride.
    This venture has proven to be a catalyst, bringing people from all points of the globe together. Allowing new friendships to blossom into a massive Good Vibe Tribe! Whoot! How cool is that?
    Your perspective is amazing. Good stuff.
    We are going through it all with you. Loudly cheering you on. Even on your toughest days you are not alone. All you need to do is ask for help from this great community. So many people willing to help sharing their professional experience with you. This also may help others with their own projects.
    Look at you being such a philanthropist! Way to go!
    Personally I am honored to witness your endeavors.
    Thanks mate from Herndon, Virginia USA.
    Now for the love of God man! Get yourself a pair of steel toed boots! I roll my eyes every time I see you working in those sneakers!
    Much love and respect to you my friend. Janet

    • @katharinatrub1338
      @katharinatrub1338 Рік тому +2

      Hi, after watching House Rescue, and commented it, I read some of the following and read your comment. It must have been the following video started (happened to me sometimes). By chance I am also a 'follower' of Dan (the gardener), only your comment is on the wrong , 'Page'... Have a good day!

    • @janetgreen7678
      @janetgreen7678 Рік тому

      @@katharinatrub1338 thank you!

    • @katharinatrub1338
      @katharinatrub1338 Рік тому

      @@janetgreen7678 You are most welcome ; ))

    • @rockyquinn3374
      @rockyquinn3374 Рік тому +1

      Lol, I also knew exactly who the comment was meant for

  • @user-or6ep1cg5h
    @user-or6ep1cg5h 2 місяці тому +3

    How sad for these family estates to get sold off smh

  • @helenamarich5597
    @helenamarich5597 Місяць тому +1

    Well done Ben! 👏

  • @kimberlystritt8631
    @kimberlystritt8631 4 місяці тому

    I’ve recently stumbled upon this program.
    So far I have completely been enjoying.
    Seeing this was over a decade ago, I hope that Heath House under the direction of blossoming Ben has journeyed to a wonderful place, wherever that may be.
    As an American who loves history and decor with a background in event planning , my mind was on overload with endless ideas.
    Those sofas are amazing.
    Cheers 🥂 🍾 to Ben, family & The Heath House 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @katharinatrub1338
    @katharinatrub1338 Рік тому +8

    I've watched another Video with Ruth and Heath House which I liked to but this Story beat's it by far. In fact I am very moved by this New Version ! Ruth what a Master in Speak and Act! You have multiple talents and also the one of a Mediator! I simply adored this Video!

    • @daylehudson6810
      @daylehudson6810 2 місяці тому

      They should not have taken the are off the walls to sell. Maybe they didnt

  • @virginiabotha3545
    @virginiabotha3545 10 місяців тому

    Commitment is an amazingly powerful thing. Full commitment equals full power. Making a decision and sticking with it is power.

  • @cynsmi
    @cynsmi Рік тому +12

    The sons are so willing, how can they sell their heritages?

    • @nata3467
      @nata3467 Рік тому +5

      Lack of money

    • @uniqtraveller2162
      @uniqtraveller2162 11 днів тому

      Yes, It was sold privately so sad ,I worked there and fell in love with it still miss it .!

  • @dawnwesterbeck346
    @dawnwesterbeck346 Рік тому +3

    Glad to have an update.

    • @-ZED-
      @-ZED- Рік тому

      This is from 2009 see my comment for a more up to date update.

  • @mmemphisevonygameaccount7871
    @mmemphisevonygameaccount7871 8 місяців тому +3

    With Ben living in the home, I think the Heath house will continue on successfully. I honestly hope he consults PROFESSIONALS in each of the various occupational requirements needed to run such an establishment successfully.

    • @SirMrShanks
      @SirMrShanks 6 місяців тому

      since this was filmed 13+ years ago: Ben and
      his brother inherited the house. Unfortunately
      their father passed away not long after the
      show was filmed and their mother just a few
      months later. The younger brother, Justin, ran
      it as a wedding and photography venue with
      his wife. No idea what Ben was doing. lt
      seems that Covid was rough for them and the
      estate was sold in 2021 for over £6 million
      After the estate was sold, the Phillips family
      auctioned off some of the art, silverware,
      books and furniture of the house in 2022
      They had a very active Facebook page until
      the house was sold.

    • @ClubOceanBlue22
      @ClubOceanBlue22 6 місяців тому +2

      @@SirMrShanks what a shame. The estate was eternal, 6 million spends quickly

  • @jonsnow6741
    @jonsnow6741 Рік тому +6

    Captains often take the ship down with them as others are seen as less able .

  • @lyndaslocs
    @lyndaslocs 2 місяці тому +1

    Many people fantasize about living in a castle. The reality is that they are exceedly expensive and demand a lot of work to maintain. As an older person I couldn't imagine having to be responsible for it.

  • @curiousaboutanything2454
    @curiousaboutanything2454 10 місяців тому +4

    What a gorgeous property!
    A treat for the eyes.
    But you have to a substantial amount of money to maintain it, otherwise it's a nightmare 😊

  • @eaccristo
    @eaccristo Рік тому +8

    The old lady managed before she passed. Why can’t the couple continue what she did. ?? I think it’s magnificent. Bed and Breakfast. Air B and B. Weddings. Put in a five star restaurant. Exclusive music venue. I am full of ideas.

    • @katharinatrub1338
      @katharinatrub1338 Рік тому +1

      Yes the old Lady managed bevor her passing. Very touching story that was too.

  • @RideoutMr
    @RideoutMr Рік тому +5

    Love restoration...admire those who do it.

  • @servraghgiorsal7382
    @servraghgiorsal7382 Рік тому +7

    With all those bedrooms,I think it would be great as a private school, maybe for exceptional ( Smart) students.

    • @dunbarnoon9872
      @dunbarnoon9872 Місяць тому

      This was also my thought. A great place to raise and educate children

  • @pohguanlim7987
    @pohguanlim7987 Рік тому +1

    謝謝分享這麼好的視頻,很感動,為兒子的努力感到自豪。

  • @stacistein702
    @stacistein702 8 місяців тому

    I'm madly in love with this manor. It's my favorite estate so far on this program.

  • @elizauksamad304
    @elizauksamad304 9 місяців тому +3

    So painful to watch when senior parents don’t see adult children grown able to manage a historical asset.

  • @piotr5338
    @piotr5338 Місяць тому

    The image of a grazing cow on the meadow , after Ruth and Jhon's meeting on the bench , has reminded me of the saying: Only a cow doesn't change a point of view.
    It was brilliant comparing it to the John's thinking .

  • @haruspex1-50
    @haruspex1-50 8 днів тому

    Would make a lovely wedding venue in the summer months. Potentially could be a lovely place for afternoon tea.