it’s exhausting to be traumatized & full of grief

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  • @hannagaither5910
    @hannagaither5910 14 днів тому +24

    “it is exhausting to be traumatized but even more to really want to heal” puts it all into words

  • @chokiachokiii
    @chokiachokiii 13 днів тому

    Wish you lots and lots of strength and luck 🙌🏻
    Can’t even imagine how hard it must be for you 🥲 we do become real adults when mom is gone😖 and this world can be so damn cold sometimes. Just treat yourself with kindness that she would’ve given you if she was still there. She’s watching you and would’ve wanted for you to be happy and strong 🙌🏻
    Sending you a big big hug🤗✨✨✨

  • @kaylalayne2
    @kaylalayne2 14 днів тому +25

    You’re incredibly inspiring. I’m starting a 6 week outpatient intensive anxiety program tomorrow and your video randomly popped up on my feed. Following losing a family member last year, I’ve been slowly but steadily deteriorating and I’m at the point where my life is falling apart. As you said, it is exhausting. But what’s most scary is letting go of the comfortable familiarity of despair and instead trying out hope for a change. But I’m doing it. And so are you. I’m so proud of you! And I’m gonna try to make myself proud too. Thank you for spreading your strength.

  • @abbybrown638
    @abbybrown638 15 днів тому +8

    Ive never been more proud of a stranger.
    ❤ fuck yea, let's not rot, let's find joy❤

  • @hanna.9650.
    @hanna.9650. 14 днів тому +12

    So well said. Sorry for your loss. Good for you for doing the work. Thanks for posting. Very relatable!

  • @bwabwa8810
    @bwabwa8810 14 днів тому +7

    And it takes time. Keep breathing. We are coming up on the 5th anniversary of my mom's passing. Each year has gotten better in many ways.

  • @aeriontaylor
    @aeriontaylor 15 днів тому +3

    Such heavy words, so well written.. you got this sis❤

  • @charnaeyoung9815
    @charnaeyoung9815 14 днів тому +2

    You can do it. ❤❤❤

  • @emilybrackeen7318
    @emilybrackeen7318 14 днів тому +3

    You got it girl. I know it’s not easy, but take it a day at a time. You’ll feel better one day, and it’s ok if you get sad and it’s ok to miss her. Just know she’s watching you and like all moms they want you to continue on and be the best you can be. 🙏❤sending love and prayers

  • @sydneyashelton8597
    @sydneyashelton8597 13 днів тому +1

    Your commitment to healing is truly inspiring.

  • @ChazHolcomb
    @ChazHolcomb 15 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey❤️

  • @Joy_Mission
    @Joy_Mission 14 днів тому +2

    Very inspiring. Thanks for sharing.

  • @maym8849
    @maym8849 14 днів тому +1

    It will get easier. I promise it will get easier. Every day is a step in a long road and one day youll be so far away from this pain

    • @cheriejones854
      @cheriejones854 14 днів тому

      I disagree, lost my mom 3 years ago and the pain is overwelming still

  • @venessaromero5410
    @venessaromero5410 14 днів тому +1

    God bless you beautiful soul, may your healing bring you home to yourself💕 & remember the ones we love are never gone they live on in spirit and within our own hearts and souls ✨

  • @tammyhiatt1804
    @tammyhiatt1804 15 днів тому +2

    Oh man, your words are very powerful and so well spoken. Your words are strength to others. Many prayers sent your way to aide you in your recovery blessing you with much needed strength and lots of love and support. ❤

  • @malloryslife2972
    @malloryslife2972 13 днів тому

    Ten days ago, I lost my mum, too. I am shattered to pieces 💔

  • @ReaganBowen-ng7yh
    @ReaganBowen-ng7yh 15 днів тому +1

    My dad recently lost his mom grief hurts but you are in my prayers always ma’am

  • @sarahprice933
    @sarahprice933 14 днів тому +1

    My mother was k!lled by her husband, my step dad/adopted father. I truly truly understand. You are inspiring. It is so exhausting to be traumatized. It's been 18 years, but it still feels like yesterday. Everyday is different, but you can have a breathtaking life. I have a husband my mother never had the priviledge of having and a baby boy who is my whole world. I get to watch my husband be the father I never had. It is so healing. You got this.

  • @hollyaustin8572
    @hollyaustin8572 15 днів тому +1

    You have such a beautiful way with words. I have not experienced trauma like yours, but your words give me hope and motivation. Thank you

  • @sinner2sanctified
    @sinner2sanctified 14 днів тому

    So much love girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MollyVoigt-r8i
    @MollyVoigt-r8i 14 днів тому

    I wish you all the best and thay you may heal in your own time ❤

  • @summerbelleflowers8836
    @summerbelleflowers8836 14 днів тому

    Praying for you 🙏💖

  • @thefryinator007
    @thefryinator007 14 днів тому

    Girl i feel like such an unimportant member of society most days, but im just trying to enjoy life anyway.

  • @4leafclover133
    @4leafclover133 14 днів тому

    God bless you and heal you. Losing a parent is never easy at any age. Everyone deals with grief and trauma in thier own time. Give yourself time and most of all love and patience.

  • @camrynclark24
    @camrynclark24 14 днів тому

    I’m so proud of you. God bless you and your healing journey. May Jesus comfort and protect you sweet girl 🩷🥺

  • @SarahCamp-k3y
    @SarahCamp-k3y 14 днів тому

  • @lh9424
    @lh9424 14 днів тому

    beautiful and brave💗praying for you girl!

  • @jamg8483
    @jamg8483 14 днів тому

    Right here with you babe. Father was an addict, he was never really in my life and my mom I believe is a covert narcissist. Went no contact with her almost a year ago now. It’s hard. It’s messy. And it hurts like hell. But it is all worth it. There is peace at the end. I’m not there yet but I have found some peace in this past year already so I know there’s only more to come. Sending you love sister, you are far from alone ❤❤❤

  • @rebekahrutledge1633
    @rebekahrutledge1633 15 днів тому

    Today I was doing a journal prompt which was writing a letter from your shadow self to your current self, and through that I realized how much I’ve been trying to live my life like nothing happened. But after reflecting I know that if I work on healing, I will be better in the long run. ❤

  • @zephawilliams8356
    @zephawilliams8356 14 днів тому

    Jesus loves you and knows your pain. He is the way the truth and life! ❤️ praying for you

  • @jenergy1000
    @jenergy1000 14 днів тому

    How do i do this. Therapists havent helped me

  • @LuliaLeul
    @LuliaLeul 14 днів тому

    Jesus loves you so much.

  • @youtubemensch8793
    @youtubemensch8793 13 днів тому

    🫂

  • @solarhandz
    @solarhandz 14 днів тому

  • @ericagreene1579
    @ericagreene1579 14 днів тому