How to Deal With Loss or Grief of Love Ones
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- When someone you love has died, is there such thing as moving on? Grief is not easy. It takes time. Grief is not something that we want to avoid feeling either. Grief is part of our journey and human experience. To fight grief is to fight what's natural. Instead, let grief guide you to be a more powerful being.
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*_"There's no universal method for healing"_*
thanks for saying that. We all have our own way dealing with grief
@Karen luvs Jesus, I hope he makes it/ made it through COVID!! My father died 3 years ago and it hurt so much losing him- my prayers are to you 😊
Im the 666th like
Yes most definitely.
Crying from pain of loss helps me once done with little bouts of sadness I think of all good times we shared grief can bring out so much stuff and so many various emotions!!
All know is never took their time for granted it meant the world to me no matter what!!
yeah I remember when losing my aunt and when I was at her funeral even though I was upset my body didn't externalize any of those emotions and I got yelled at by my other family members for acting cold while they were in tears. I wish people understood not everyone externalizes their emotions. doesn't mean they don't feel them though. in fact those feelings I had ate me up for months before I could really do anything resembling my usual routine.
@Ari luvs Jesus WHAT HAPPENED , did your grandpa survive? :( :) ?
People will judge you when you're still grieving for an amount of time that they consider "so long"... which makes you feel even worse
Who are these people? Do you mind sharing? They sound really toxic.
@@Psych2go so many people in my grieving mom groups have been told to get over it, it being their child they lost. People don't get it until they are there themselves and get it and we don't want them to have loss to get it, but man it would be nice it they could just understand even a tenth of our pain at losing a child.
@アミーナ I am sorry to tell you that does not get better after school. I hope you have some supporting family or friends that you can talk to.
Those people are not friends
@@Psych2go I had a friend say that to me. Ditto with a grief therapist 9 months after my Mom died. He was exasperated that I was "still" sad "months and months" after her passing (9 months). Just the session before he told me there's no timeline, so I reminded him and he tried to backtrack.
When my dad died 8 years ago, i would message his facebook and tell him what I want to tell him. It really helped me.
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. And I'm glad you found a way that helped and sharing it with others on this community. How are you nowaday?
I’m so sorry for your loss and this is so helpful. Stay strong
I am sorry for your loss. Really sorry. I thought of doing the same but I kind of didn’t want to. It was very confusing to me.
Messaging my mom's fb since 2011, I feel you
I would send a message to my Brother through his e-mail address
“Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory” -Dr. Seuss
I agree with that. Here’s another quote: “things end but memories last forever”
The one thing eternal is love
Im going through the same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😢😢😢😢😢
That's rich coming from someone like Dr suess
Lost my mother yesterday and since then been searching for anything that could help me to go through this tough time.. I just try to cope with it but everytime I realize that I won't see her and hug her again makes me destroyed within.. I miss you and love you mum, you'll always be in my heart.. أحبك ياأمي ♥️
Allah rahmou. 3 weeks ago I losted oma. She was for me as mother..i don t know how I can live..😔
الله يرحما و يصبرك ... wish you the best
Damn bro i ll never forget your comment😭
Set a time to get over a loved ones death isn’t necessary. I lost my beautiful Mother 39 years ago, and am only now able to speak about her w/o breaking down. She was so ahead of her time. She was like a eccentric/genius Chief Petty Officer in the Navy, Car Mechanic,inventor,artist,photographer ,she left this world too soon. Just keep their memories alive. Honoring always.❤️💕☯️☸️✝️
🐹🌻🐥 Condolences to all who lost loved ones. Know their spirits live on forever 🌻🌌🗻🌅😇✨💫
I lost my loved girlfriend of 7 years. Wanted to ask her to be my wife this Christmas , wont be able to after a horrific accident that took her away from me. I don't know how to get back to normal and every night is pain and suffering. I really feel for all those that lost someone close in their life. May God find a way to sooth your aching soul. I love you too. I miss you so much Tricia. I will forever love you.
I’m so sorry 😞 I lost my older brother who was 22 in a car accident this year, august 4th.. it hurts so much. I’m 14 and I wanna be like him because he did everything good in life.. he was so loved
I'm so sorry ☹️
I'm so sorry, I lost my boyfriend of 7 years in August. He was in a rock climbing accident. Try to get out for daily walks, helps emotions move through. ♥️
I lost mine the other day. 😭
I’m sorry for your loss… my heart goes out to you it’s such a hard time during Christmas let alone with your plans for the future. I hope you heal.
The sadness of losing your loved ones never really fades away, but just by remembering them for who they were, how nice they were, what they did for you..keeping those memories alive, and remembering them for all of the good they did for you, and others, trust me it helps. I lost my grandpa about 2 years ago. The pain of losing them never went away, but just by focusing on all the good they did, and how they impacted your life and just trying to focus on that. It truly helped me. Grief is probably one of the most painful things you can ever go through, trust me, I know. But just know that it gets better. I pray for everyone going through grief that you never give up, you keep living your life, and you have a blast doing it. I know it'll get hard sometimes but just know that you're not alone, and that plenty of other people are going through exactly what you're going through. God bless everyone reading this, and have a fantastic day. ♥
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I'm in deep pain right now. I love my father so much.
i understand the pain of losing a mother, i lost mine.
Thank you ❤
My grandfather passed away just today. He was very faithful in Christ. I hope you get to be happy with Jesus, Mario. 💙
Grief is so difficult, I’m really struggling atm. Great upload
Amy Parker hold on, and take care of yourself! I know that it’s hard but things get better! And instead of seeing that person as gone, try to focus on the life they lived. On all your happiest moments with them. Honor them! You can move on, while still keeping them in your heart! I hope it gets better for you❤️
Amy Parker 🙏♥️
I know it’s hard to move on, but just try your hardest to get your mind off of it, do something, keep yourself occupied. I used to grief over my loved one a lot and so I would always be doing something, maybe hanging out with friends, going online, etc. it was the only time school felt like a better place than home. Just know that they will always be there with you in spirit. Good luck recovering
Hold on keep on living and take your time
It really is difficult and a lifelong process. When you are having an "up" time, notice the feeling. When you are having a "down" time, remember what an "up" time felt like and know it will come back. Then feel the pain. Talk to the person you lost out loud. It's ok to feel that pain. They were an amazing component in your life...of course it is horrible they are now not there. Allow yourself that feel and gently tell yourself another "up" will come and ease it for a bit. As time goes on, the "down" will be farther out but will always hit you emotionally. Give yourself a hug and do a self care day when it does happen. Hugs
When I lost my mom I taught I'd never get over it I was so overfilled with grief but now look at me stronger than I can ever be ,I always wrote a journal and trust me it helped me I write a journal everyday
I lost my mother unexpectedly in September...when do things get easier. I want pain 2 stop
@@EnlightenedMindsELEVATE for me, it's not really easier. It's just more durable. It's been over 8 years now. Dealing with being motherless daughter evolves each year with my age. She wasn't there to see me graduate any school, meet my boyfriend, speak with me like women to women... I think I miss her more now than couple years ago. I really really do.
@@EnlightenedMindsELEVATE I'm so sorry faith I hope God fills your heart with patience and love to over come this hard situation ...I didnt even realize it that I was over with griefing I moved away from where I was went to another place for a fresh start I had freinds who I could seek to at moment wen I had break downs i feel like my freinds where the real reason how i got over it they mad me so happy n stuck by me
Wen things used to go wrong I write it in my journal I felt like my journal was connected to my mom like she would be able to read it so I used to vent on my journal telling my mom about every good and bad situation happening in my life so in that way she could at least see me grow into a better person
My mom just got diagnosed with brain cancer so I'm currently in like, pre-grieving grieving. My life is a mess atm.
I lost my grandma about a month ago and I feel so lost without her. She adopted me and my siblings when our mom passed away (I was only 2 at the time my mother passed) so my grandma was basically my mom. I’m currently 16 and I’m so hurt because I still needed her, I wanted her to watch me get my drivers license, graduate, see me go to college. I just miss her so much, I wish she was still here.
Please, Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I hope you took your time to heal yourself and come to terms with everything. I also lost my grandma tonight, I am so shocked and empty, but I try to be optimistic and be happy for her since she now can be with her husband and many loved ones. Sending warm hugs
@@evelynn4841 Thank you, and I’m so sorry to hear that. Just know everything will get better through time, I learned this from experience. I’m now 18 and I’m much happier now, ofc I still miss her but I don’t get sad when I think about her now, just happy 🫶🏻🫶🏻sending love ur way
I just found out my grandma passed away at age 77. I didn't spend enough time with her
My friend passed away almost 4 years ago now. I dont cry when I think about her being gone because as it was said in the video I still dont accept that shes gone, she was too young, but if I think about the day that I found out I cant stop crying.
Sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you can inspire and help those who face similar situations heal.
@@Psych2go thank you for your kind words. I want to try and help those who are in a similar situation but as you said people handle grief in all different ways.
I had a friend, we were close at one point but grew distant over time. One day a mutual friend called and said he passed. I didn't cry, at first. I went to give flowers to his mom who made a memorial in their front yard. I couldn't stop shaking the moment I saw her. It all became so real. I went back to my car and cried for a while before leaving. That was more than a few years ago but I still remember him from time to time. He was the only person I ever knew personally who left us.
Btw I'm not trying to hog your spotlight, the point was the only time I cried was the day he passed but I don't think I will ever forget him. His name was Alejandro Uribe. wjla.com/news/local/two-hit-killed-on-tracks-of-garrett-park-marc-station--90642 this was what was shown on the news
Also this ua-cam.com/video/W3F0YMEfJv0/v-deo.html
It was him and his best friend.
My best friend passed away just this january 2019. I saw how she dies. If only I could share a half of my life during that moment. Until now am grieving.
i try to think that i'm lving for them, that i'm making them proud.
One life for the two of you
It was helpful for 12yrs. Now any thing cant help
Yes
My mom passed in August. This loss has been crushing in my life. I'm so tired of people saying get over it or she's in a better place or it's time to get on with your life. No one seem to understand or want to understand my grief. Especially not my family.
I understood,it is so painful that I can't imagine,sorry for ur loss.
I hear you
Jesus understands and he loves you more than you could ever want to be loved and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I lost my mother this august too. How are you doing now?? How do I deal with this? 😔
Lost my parents within 5 weeks of each other back in October. People don't understand. They were my best friend. They took care of me for 44 years. People say they're In a better place. No. A better place would be with me at home
Lost my dad a couple weeks ago to cancer, he was so strong, even while going through this and suffering, he still wanted the world for me and my brothers. I’m just greatful I got to hold his hand and tell him I love him the last few days before his death. I just wish I would of cherished the days with him more while he was alive.
My brother committed suicide last week. I've sat around a lot and just let my mind run wild, knowing that you won't be able to say "hi" or tell then a joke is honestly depressing, I really wish I gave him more of my time. The way I've been able to deal with his loss is honestly just letting myself feel whatever I'm feeling. It hurts yeah, but I know I'll be alright and that it'll all be okay in the end. Knowing I don't have to stand strong and being able to go and talk to my friends or family makes me feel a lot better.
I do hope anyone else feeling this way will be able to get to the other side of this dark road and remeber that everything'll be okay. Just like the wise words of Erza, "Don't die for your friends, live for them."
R.I.P to my brother, who'll always be my hero. Love you bro 💚💚
I don't want to bring you back to this but I want you to know you are the toughest person ever. I list my grandparents when I was 10 and 13 - I'm 14 right now. I knew I had about 2 weeks left with them and got to see them on their death bed. I can't even begin to imagine what suicide feels like. I felt helpless even with weeks of preperation and acceptance and I was able to make terms nicely. I wish he was here to know how much he meant to you. Fly high 🕊️🕊️
I lost my father last month from COVID and i cry every night. I searched grieving for a loved one and this video came up. Its easier said that done but this put many things into perspective for me. Thank you
My father too 💔 It is an unbearable pain.
mine too... together with millions...
@@editorx8067 same bro 2 weeks ago sorry
My mom passed away last night from Covid-19 as well :(
My dad, 3 weeks ago, Covid too...too much pain
My dad was k!lled when I was 5. It’s still hard because I realize now, how horrible it was. It’s unfair really. All of my friends and cousins got to grow up with their father. They still get to hug their father, love their father, and see their father everyday. That’s something I would do anything for. I just want to be in my fathers arms one last time, even if it’s for a day. I appreciate this video because years later, I still have struggling.
If you are really struggling, then help wouldn't hurt. I believe young people who grew up without one or more parent as some of the strongest people in the world. You should note all the main characters without one or less parents saving the world and rising from the ashs. I know your father would be proud of you and I am too. I also know that he loves you more than anything.
my dad was shot when i was 4 and now im 16, and my mom has cancer im scared to loose my mom😔💔💔
@@lilbaconskrrr4777 you will not lose her.Because god is not that cruel. Hope she will come back to normal life .
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Yeah man I was supposed to see a dying family member today but she sadly died yesterday, just found out, really a shock, it has only been 3 weeks since she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and now she’s gone, she used to do my hair, best hair dresser I knew, I’m gonna miss her bright light personality, I didn’t even get to say goodbye…
I just lost my mom on Monday and it is the hardest thing for me to deal with. She was 78 years old and had lived with me for as long as I could remember. People kept telling me that it will get better but I feel like it will not. My mom was everything to me. I miss her laughing out loud at my jokes. I miss asking her, what you want for breakfast. Lunch and dinner. I don't sleep well anymore. I kept getting up to check her room like she's still there. I cried alot, I can't eat or sleep. I don't care about anything anymore. This is the most hardest thing I ever had to deal with and I have been through alot of tough times in my life. She always told me to live my life when she is gone and not to worry. My is changed forever and I will never be the same person again.
I am doing exactly the same after my mom's death on 24th Wednesday May 2023. It feels like am losing my mind
@@fauzianalwoga My condolences to you. I'm sure to she loved you lots and is proud of who you've become. Stay strong, take care of ourself and surround yourself with your loved ones. You deserve the best. May your mom rest in peace
Let’s read these books to see what we can help us and our parents get rid of suffering:
1-In One Lifetime Pure Land Buddhism
2-The Three Reffuges
The Ten Recitation Method
Glossary
3- Buddhism:
The Awakening of Compassion and Wisdom
Following the Dharma thoughts to cultivate for avoiding reincarnation and rebirth to the Western Pure Land
I lost both my parents to cancer 3 months ago. I sit in their bedroom just being close to them
@@fauzianalwogaStay strong 💪 it's a part of life.
My mother passed away suddenly December of last year and I bought a crafted journal and put photos and memories in . I found this gave me some comfort looking through the good times in her life.
But missing her is so hard at times.
I almost cried on how that felt
One thing I can’t get over after losing my precious aunt is the idea that I won’t ever see her again. In my mind she is so alive. I can hear her laugh, I can feel her touch and to realize that those thoughts are just memories and I won’t be able to experience her presence anymore is so difficult for me.
This is the same case with me..but it isn’t an aunt it’s my mom and the issue is that i have never ever dreamed of this happening cuz she was young she was 39 and i’m only 12..
Facing the same issue. Lost my aunt month back. She was more than my aunt. A friend a mentor ... a mother.
@@farahimran3670 yes, the pain is so real. It feels like a physical pain. The days feel darker and pointless. I’m still in pain and think about her every day, but each day I feel a bit stronger. There are days that still feel extremely dark for me but I remind myself that my aunt would not want me to be happy. Let yourself feel what you need to feel and the days that feel so dark for you, remind yourself that there will be better days because there will be. She wouldn’t want you to give up on living the only life you have. Live it to the fullest and remind yourself about the love and happiness your aunt gave you.
Thanks for the support
!Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I lost my dog and she was like a sibling to me. I never got to say goodbye in person or hug her but we all got to see her one last time. Losing her is very hard because I have never lost some one I loved so much. I wish I just could have hugged her one last time. All she wanted was to be loved. She was so sweet, affectionate, and protecting. Thank you for making this video.
I lost my young cat few days ago. She is the prettiest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle and most adorable kid I have ever known. I searched for this kind of video to get rid of mental breakdowns.
Thanks for sharing this, as I am going crazy thinking of her. I want her to rest and live in peace and stay happy where ever she is.
I feel you. Its been a year for me and i still feel like shit.
I feel exactly the same. He was So young😞 Died out of nowhere… hè was So special, kind, pretty.. I could go on for ages. I feel lost and miss his little habits so much. I cant describe how much I miss him. But i know hè lived really happy so that makes it a bit more easy to deal with. Hope you are doing well🙌
It's been a year since my cat went missing and I hope he's out there somewhere happy💔
My father just passed the day I messaged this, it's just a meaning of life.
I lost my big brother this morning. He is the closest brother to me, he is so kind, he's always so generous to us and my parents. he always buys me food even though I didn't tell him I was hungry. He got into an accident. Someone crashes from the back of his motorcycle. This is my first time I lost someone I dear the most especially when it comes to family members. Im 14. He is 22. Young I know. I really missed him even tho it has just been a few hours.
Hey Shara I have a similar experience I lost my brother in 2018... he was 20 and I was 15 . You'll miss him for the rest of your life and that's normal. I surely miss mine every day and it's been three years. I won't say anything because words never made me feel any better but time definitely heals .
I am so sorry for your loss, I too lost my beloved brother suddenly. I know how it feels.
My sister passed yesterday at 38 years old. I just want to be happy, I want to share the joy and kindness she shared with everyone she met. I know she wouldn't want me to be upset.
Only Jesus can bring true joy and happiness. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
You want to be happy after your sister died? I don't know how that is possible or even if it's a good thing to be happy, it just simply doesn't make any sense. I lost my brother at age 38 Nov 2021 and i am still grieving, I don't think I can ever stop grieving his loss.
My husband died almost three months ago and all I wanted to do is just lay down, but because we have three children two of which are minors and needed me I went back to work after a week. I don't cry as much as before but I find myself feeling sad from time to time; like today out of nowhere I started crying because I miss him so much and everyday I tell him that I love him sometimes three or four times a day but the pain is so much and seems to never end.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.
Lost my mom to cancer 3 weeks ago and I still can’t believe it. She was my best friend and the best mom ever. Don’t know know what to do without her. I’m just lost.
😢
Lost mine a week ago, she was my bestie and gave me good advice. I feel how you feel
My mom committed suicide in September, and now I avoid everything that I can having to do with self-harm (she didn't self-harm, I'm the one struggling with it), suicide, or anything that reminds me of her, including a certain song. Sometimes I think of her posting a status update on Facebook or calling one of my relatives and I kind of let myself forget that she's gone. I hate it.
I just want to let go of all this pain and hurt that I'm not letting myself feel, but I'm so scared to let myself feel all of my repressed emotions.
We all were in these situations, it's so hard and unforgivable, don't bother yourself that you're not forgetting or moving on your life we all were through this shit and it takes a lot of time. Feel free to text me everytime you want. Don't forget that you're never there is so many people out there waiting for you.
Me too. I want my mommy back. I have to see her again.
Sometimes we unintentionally protect ourselves by repressing our emotions. In due time you’ll be able to “deal” with it and allow those emotions to be there too.
You’ll learn how to give it a place within your new life. Which might not make it hurt any less but it will become easier to recover yourself whenever you feel lost.
I hope you’ll be able to recover. I wish you the best! Keep your memories alive and remember, there is always someone who loves you!
That made me cry bro😭
You deserve it
I just lost my grandma today,it felt like I'm living trough hell.she always done alot of things for me and didn't ignore me and always cared for me.i love you grandma you will always stay in my heart
I lost my grandma, she was mean and i was young so i didn't feel much. But i lost someone very close recently very much a mother to me. It feels very weird that you cant text them or visit them for a chat. Its like they went missing. Feels weird
I pray that God will comfort your heart! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
@@kelleymcfadden9675 I hope God comforts you as well
I lost my grandma too its been like three weels sinse and my and my. Mother still cry after her. I left my home country and left her and my grandpa there to and to cope with that i just wouldnt really talk to her as it was too painfull talking to her as i never seeed her but she died on the 6th of may and i regret everything missing her messages those sweet things shed send my little bears kittens cats and i never replied or said anything i regret that she was like. A second mother to me taking care of me since i was a baby she would do everything for me i remember before we left home she would always buy me lego as she knew i loved it she was the the best
Hey its been 2 yrs you commented on this video , I want ask after 2 yrs how you feeling is anything changed in life ? Bcz I lost my both grandparents in span of 3 months my grandpa in oct 2023 and grandma just 15 days ago on jan 31st idk how to cope up with loss bcz I lived with them for all my life(I am 18yrs old) so I have a habit of seeing them everytime daily . my heart wrenches when I their empty room 😢💔
Lost my grandma today. She's been by my side all throughout my life, from the moment of my birth until now and we were really close, she's the one who comfort me whenever my parents would bad mouthed me, and she was a really wise person. She's mostly the one who thought us how to be a better person and learn how to carry on with life. Now we are currently mourning for her, and my heart really can't see her, because I don't wanna breakdown infront of people...
im sorry youre going through this. its okay to break down you don't have to put on a brave face for anyone. you are suffering right now. i lost my dad within 6-7 months ago and I still breakdown quite often
😢🧸
I find your situation so relatable. I also lost my grandma yesterday and the fact that I won't be able to see her or talk to her ever again is killing me on the inside. I hope we can heal together. Also I'm editing this in order to thank you for sharing, it made me feel that I'm not alone. * virtual hug *
Yeah I js lost my grandma yesterday. I ain’t seen her since summer. I regret not calling or texting her more mann.
@@mac2541 so sorry 🙏🏾
I really needed this😕 my uncle passed 2 months ago and yesterday I was crying non stop. Thank you
Mar Maldo ♥️🙏
Same my grandma died a s I was crying my eyes out 😭
I hope you are doing okay now❤️❤️
I lost my best friend (my dog) two days ago, her decline was sudden and quick, I lost her within 5 days of going to the vet...It's the day after and this helped me release some confusion about what I was feeling and how I even proceed with life, without her. I know it's fresh, and I'm in the thick of it, but I intend to honor her life with living my best, and taking care of myself, so that I am able to continue remembering her and loving her from a far. Thank you for this 5 minute video, it helped.
I just lose my mom yesterday. She got infected with covid and it lead to her heart failing. She's already cured from covid but her pneumonia already covered 50% of her lungs so she must stay in the hospital and transferred to ICU. It's too late tho, her heart already reached it's limit.
There's really nothing that I wouldn't give to return back time and tell her to not go outside and just let me take care of the things she needs to do.
God, I missed her so much.
the exact same thing happened with my mom. I am praying for you.
This story made my heart grieve with you. It is f’d up that some people “don’t believe in COVID”
@@theateeqafzalshow6950 im so sorry...please try to stay strong...
My grandma died of fucking covid too....
Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
Grieving is because we loved that person who has gone and some how has taken part inside us, so when we grieve, we must think that the other one still love you, and you cry because you love. And thinking in other way, there is a beautiful story that says: when someone has gone of this world, it will become a star in the night, and someday it will be born in a star and take birth again in the Earth! So their life is always alive, when you feel them believe that they aren't far of you. The bound between lifes is something eternal, that is why it is so strong, strong enought to make you grieve. But think in other way, if the bound is eternal, life is alive.
Thank you for this. It means a lot to all of us who are grieving because its hard to find hope. These are the words that I've been hoping someone would say, that we are more connected than we realize.
@@pavayeesocrates9420 if it helps you, although a person may die, the atoms that once made them up will continue existing forever. Like maybe as rain, or oxygen, or anything else. The only exception (that i know of) is nuclear reaction
@@kawosdhdos Thank you :) Thinking about how I will get to see them again, just in a different form makes me smile.
my grandfather died 2 weeks ago. I’ve been looking for ways to cope but everything just gets worse. My biggest nightmare was losing him and I did. He loved me the most and I did too. He wasn’t that sick and I used to stay with him all the time. I can’t even breathe sometimes nowadays. I feel empty and lost. I find no meaning in life.
I'm really sorry. Your grandfather probably passed away around April 6th which is the day my 25-year-old cousin passed away. We're in the same boat. I know the feeling. It's a complete nightmare and utter devastation. It's hard to stay strong but we have each other. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I sincerely mean that.
I’m dealing with the death of my fiancé of 8yrs and 13 yrs all together. He passed from cancer July 17th and it was so fast. He was diagnosed within the last two months. Well it wasn’t a full two months. He was my best friend. It’s feeling like I have no reason to be here. I’m so devastated and hurting . I keep kissing and talking to his photos. I have the picture of him in the casket.. I can’t live without him!
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I am so sorry for your loss
Bless your heart❤️ You're so so strong. Proud of you
I'm sorry for your loss
I totally understand what you are going through. Lost my beloved girlfriend of 7 years on the 25th of Sep this year. And yes it doesn't seem like this will ever go away. But it will get easier for you and soon you will save a day specifically for him. And that will be the first step in forever honoring your lost loved one and believe me , you'll know ,they know too.
This video helped me to understand that feeling grief is just part of being human, my cat had unexpectedly passed away in an accident and it was a total shock. I haven't been able to get out of bed to do anything but eat, brush teeth... My family keeps pushing me to get over it and try to make a point that it was just an animal not a human. It's hard when everything around you reminds you of them, no more hearing his little meows, no more hearing him run up and down the stairs... no more cuddling with him at night. Looking at his cat tree I can't help but sometime see if he's there. It's hard to not know what to feel or how to feel especially as an adult since being older should make you more experienced and know what to do during these tough times to be able to continue on with life. That's why I have been searching youtube to help me over come all this grief that I was feeling only to realize it's going to take a lot of time and to accept it's okay to feel this way.
I understand what each of you is going through I lost my husband,my brother, my brother in law whom I was very close too and now my most wonderful grieving buddy my cat who was here with me through all those times and all this a little over one year I’ve shed enough tears to last a lifetime I also wonder what our purpose is to be here to have to feel so lost and alone .it’s so,so hard ..
Among the few things that kept me here after experiencing a great deal of grief-related trauma growing up was venting grief in the form of making grim art, dressing in funerary garb, listening to and singing/playing angry and/or grim music, including dirges, and writing characters with tragic backstories for assorted media.
I even wrote a journaling to them after their passing, each of them, wishing them well wherever they were now. I’m tearing up slightly while typing this, now.
CPTSD is a cruel thing, and though the past still comes back to ruin my day sometimes, be it grief or other trauma from my childhood, through expressing it, it does not trouble me so much as it used to.
i lost my grandmother due to covid today, i can't do anything without remembering her and crying. I wish you all a great recovery and i hope i'll manage to recover too 💞
Jesus loves you! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ua-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/v-deo.html
I just lost my dad on 1-31-24 to an unexpected asthma attack, he was 56 and im 24 and took care of me even though i lived as a complete shut in, he loved and supported me anyway... i dont know how to move forward and become an actual adult... but he was always there trying to help me. He was my hero, dad and best friend.
I just lost my gran.....its honestly the first time in my life I have experienced true loss as she lived with me, and it has just changed my perception of everything...I do hope everyone watching this video finds their own way to deal with their loss and that it's ok to not be ok
This is helpful today is 2 months since my husband of 46 yrs suddenly passed. I found this comforting.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?..
My way of dealing with grief is letting all my emotions out at once. Crying for hours within one day for example. I feel so tired and relaxed after, i fall easily asleep and afterwards everything just feels better. The heavy burden in my chest is either gone or minimized. 😁
Thank you for your kind words and suggestions. I'm definitely going to try this because it still hurts so much.
1:34 I don't reject reality. I think I'm okay and it just hits me again... it's been years and I still breakdown.
My grandfather is in the hospital. My dad is crying in a way I've never seen before, and there's nothing that anyone can do about it. We all have had some emotional connection to him, but my dad was raised, cared for, and owed so much to him. Just seeing him in such a weak state is heartbreaking.
this sucks
2/4/22 he passed away this morning at ~4:00 am. RIP GRANDPA ILY
Oh my god this video was recommended to me when I needed it the most. Thank you
Hope all is well! Let us know if any of the points in the video resonate with you.
Same
My sister murdered her kids. Before the incident I went over to her house the day before to check if she was ok. She was very paranoid and acted like everyone was out to get her. She divorced her husband and was fighting over custody. I’m my heart I felt I should get help and keep the kids with me for safety yet I did not listen thinking no mom can hurt her kids. Not knowing just how damaged and paranoid my sister mind was. My incompetence cost my nieces their lives. There is no redeeming this
Thank you
My brother & uncle died a day apart so it really took a toll on me. I avoided grieving and paid for it later. Now I heal through prayer and celebrating my loved ones memories. Between January and March I lost 4 really close family members 😢 BUT GOD 🙌🏾
Lost my grandma today, I didn't spend that much time with her and I really regret it.
Love you, grandma,
Don’t take loved ones for granted and show them your love
I found this very helpful in dealing with the grief of losing my only sibling. He lived in another country and I hadn’t seen him for 2 years. I liked the simple, uncomplicated style of this video.
🙏🌺
My grandfather passed away yesterday, which happens to be my birthday. I keep thinking about the joyful moments we had and how much I miss him. Although he is gone, I am happy he was in my life.
I had to watch a lot of helpful videos like this. Also, and it sounds cliche, but time was the biggest healer for me. That was for a lost love. Now I have lost my last close brother, and this grief feels so finale and deep. I know it will take time, probably a lot of it for this loss. I thank people that care to help as it is vital and life saving.
I lost my granda , the kindest man alive , he would always smile at everyone and never had a bad word to say about anyone , he would always be worried about if he looked ignorant and if he did he would walk back and say sorry , I loved my granda ever so greatly , he died last night I ran in and seen his still body I couldn’t believe it
I lost my mum last year and it feels like yesterday. I’m still in shock and overwhelmed with grief. The pain is torturous.. nothing feels the same. The joy has been sucked out of everything. It’s like I’m a child screaming for my mum again but this time she hasn’t just nipped out, she’s never coming back
Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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I feel the same
I lost my grandma to cancer in her Brest and brain she passed in her sleep and I miss her so much 😭😢
my grandmother died today,i woke up then heard this news.she died because of covid. i really miss her,we thought that she is just going to check up then never thought that this would happen to her..i dont know what to do anymoree.. i have a lot of problems in school and at home.. its sad and depressinggg like i wanna cry everytime i remember her,i should've have hugged her before going to hospital,since she lives next to our house plss i wanna recover quicklyy
I definitely understand this.....same thing happened to my grandma.....it's been tough
Same here, But she’s in the hospital. She has a low chance of surviving, I Really hope she’s going to be ok.
Remember that the happiness you shared with them is greater than the sorrow you currently feel.
I’ve been almost grieving over my great grandma for almost 3 years now. I’m now in a mix of the depression and acceptance phase. 1,5 years I didn’t want to speak nor think about her death. It still makes me very sad but I know she’s with her husband now and is better.
She loved kiwis and introduced me to them. Also I took a lot of baths (which still love to do) and she made strawberry jam herself (which I want to try soon).
Some of you may heard that our legend, Technoblade had recently passed away and it's been bugging me lately. It's kinda surprising that I've done some of these tips before I watched this vid. Tysm psych2go, you're like a Therapist to me❤
A close friend of mine passed a few hours ago, they where so close to me and helped me be who I am right now, and I thank them for that, rest easy, my friend
My mom passed away when I was 9 and I am still grieving I want everyone to know your not alone. I still wrote in the journal we shared and kept pictures of her with me. People would always say I seemed happy about my moms lost. It’s what upsetted me. I’m worried I will forget her. At night when I’m upset I pretend my mom is next to me and singing to me with her beautiful voice.
I lost my dad when I was 14. It was very sudden and I didn't allow me to grief cause I thought I had to keep the family together and be strong for the others. Now, 15 years later, I'm still working on coping with the trauma. Keep honoring your mom, celebrate her if you had a good relationship, it doesn't matter what other think about us, we are just doimg our best to compensate the loss of a parent at a very young age.
Btw chiminie and bangtan helped me a lot.
My father died yesterday, rest in peace papa , i wish i could hug you last time
How to heal from grief:
*1. There is no real healing*
Agreed
1000 subs with no video challenge I agree. It just hurts less, never goes away
Yes. Still grieving over the loss of a horse I use to ride.
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@gailjj hope you are doing better now mate
Reading people's stories in the comment section makes my story sound so stupid. But my 1 month old pet bird (sparrow) passed away yesterday. We had to put her down cuz she was hurt, she sustained multiple fractured in a body which cannot be healed. She was in so much pain. It was a tough decision, but it was for her best.
I spent every moment with her, and made sure she felt safe and loved. I wish she could have stayed with us longer though. But I guess, when death comes knocking at one's door, opening it is inevitable.
I love you sergeant. 💗
You guys can make fun of me if u want but I miss technoblade he died 2 days ago on the 30 of June 2022
Even after a year of their death, I just blame myself for not spending time with them more.
I lost my grandmother today. I think the same thing but I know she cherrised the memories and I did too
I lost my grandma.I couldn't go see her because I was in another country and lost my visa. I cannot stop crying , I just feel like I should have found a way to go see her. She was so kind, loving and funny. grandma I love you so much, I don't know how I am going to deal with this feeling but you shall live in my heart for your greatest memories. you did so much and I'm so grateful that I was given life from your life. rest in peace . romina loves you
Ive lost my Father, Grandma, and a good friend all within the past 4 months. I have always been a keep-to-myself type of person so these few people were about all I had. Sometimes life feels surreal and I dont know how to deal with my emotions and lately sometimes I just break down and cry. Its nothing I can prevent or even try to fight, it just happens. I know that sometime in the future my day will come and the only thing that keeps me going is knowing that I will see my loved ones again. I will cherish every single day that im alive here in this thing called Life.
I'm sorry....
Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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My loved one just died a few hours ago and I’m watching these just so I can see how other people feel and I just feel regret for not spending enough time with my loved one I wish I could go back
My father's died when I was 11 years old and my mother's died when I was 17 years old now i'm 20 yrs old no sister no brother I'm homeless even my relatives don't care about me I'm such in pain, depression,
Just lost my dad and step dad a month apart, and now all me and my siblings and mom have is my granny, holidays don’t even feel the same. Please pray for us
Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I lost my father and mother during the last five months. My father's death was expected, due to age related issues, but my mother's death was totally unexpected. God gave me the time to feel and understand that my father is dying so that i could take care of him very well during his last days. But my mom whom i loved the most just left us without a word. She seemed to be physically ok but she always expressed concerns about her ill-health and i took it as anxiety related issues. If i get a second chance, i know it is foolish to think so, I would spend more time with her, would express more love and affection towards her and talked more to her as she should have expected from me 😢
I lost one of my closest friends in a car accident last week. It’s still unbelievable that he had to go so young and it makes me wish I could’ve spent more time with him 😢
I lost my best friend too.. She's leaving my school and I'm practically heartbroken.. She was everything to me and now I'll be alone.. You're not alone,, we're all in this together,, and know that you're strong to go through this.. And this is exactly why the universe planned it this way,, and surely, it will have some better lesson or teaching for you in future. Have Faith
Thanks my aunt just died i needed this thank you everyone needs this not just me.
My grandpa won’t be with us much longer, he’s got congestive heart failure. I just talked with him over the phone (he’s 10 hours away) but I will miss him and I want to make sure my mom is alright as she’s already lost her mom
Im so sorry to here that. My grandpa is getting weaker and more frail as his health deteriorates each passing day. He’s lived for 84 years and is now reaching the last year of the average life expectancy of the country we live jn. I have to be prepared for his passing. It could happen anytime now.
My grandpa passed away and I couldn't even say goodbye this is so helpful thank you so much
When I was at school my friend got a phone call that he left grandma died. She started to cry non stop and I started to cry remembering my grandparents
My dad just died yesterday from a heart attack at work and he was gone by the time he got to the hospital, and I can still see his cold lifeless body
I'm so so sorry
I never felt what you feel but I understand.
If you want to talk about it I am always here ❤
You need to be strong for him.
I lost my father yesterday and it was a sudden heart attack. None of us knew what was coming. I love him so much but it shatters my heart that we have so many unfinished memories… it still seems unreal to me. Like something you see in the movies is actually happening to you. First funeral I’ve ever been to is this one. He was so young, just 56 years old. I’ll forever carry him with me
I lost all 6 members of my OG pokemon team.
It may not be important, but it is to me.
Don’t invalidate the significance of friendships. You are always allowed to feel the way you feel. And losing someone or something is always a mourning process. The stronger the connection the harder it gets. Stay strong❤️
Waiting for my mother's biopsy results has me on edge, and I'm not feeling very optimistic about it. The loneliness is overwhelming, especially since my friends don't seem to understand the anxiety and pain I'm going through. Being unmarried, it looks like I'll be navigating this phase all alone. I've distanced myself from my friends, and the prospect of the challenges ahead feels like a lonely journey. I'm anxious about the difficult road that lies ahead, and it's hard to see a way out. If anyone has been through something similar and has advice, I'd be grateful for any insights. Thanks for being there.
i lost my dad a few months ago, my biggest fear is to forget his voice, and how was life when he was alive, i just want him back, he was a great father, i couldn’t ask for more
In regards to my mortality.
What keeps me going, is scientists finding a cure for aging, and other diseases, so we can live forever. And while they find & perfect that, I'm preparing my body, finances, and life, for what the best cure is.
HOLY CRAP I would be EXTREMELY mortified if I could live forever. I’m looking forward to eternal rest
Observing Rogue that'll never happen, nothing lasts forever.
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And how can you be so sure? Do you have a time-machine? Can you see into the distant future? Religious people have faith, that there's a god & afterlife. My faith is more possible, that science will accomplish, what's literally incredible.
Observing Rogue nothing lasts forever.
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People & things may change. But my death is not guaranteed. You are wasting your time.
In 17 and one of my closest mates just passed unexpectedly, he was perfectly healthy, this is the first time anyone I’ve ever known has died and I don’t know how I should feel or what to do
3 years and I still cry and morn my beautiful boy everyday and still my pain feels like it did the day my dog, my best friend, my greatest love passed.
I hope you u all are okay ❤️
Same to you
It's almost 4 months grieving,living so hard I feel like I'm dying slowly😭
I feel you 😞
Lost my dad 10 months ago....but still makes me cry like a child....😥😥😥
I lost my friend to day he was swimming in a lake and he got to faraway from the shore and he went missing under the water and from what I was told sadly he died .Rip Isaac.I miss you 😭💔💔😭 but this video really helped me to cope with his death
I am so sorry for your loss 💔
I lost my tia to covid... it was so sudden and she’s the first person I’ve lost who I was so close too... it doesn’t feel real
I’m sorry to hear that, my tia just passed last night from covid too and idk how to deal with this 🤧
@@Z000TED thank you for your condolences, I am passing the same prayers your way, may we celebrate them, I’m so sorry for your loss, they are looking after us now and I will not let my tia’s life be another number, please whoever is reading this wear your mask, let’s end this nightmare. please, for our loved ones whos lives shouldn’t have been lost... my tia has so many years left I just know it.
I lost my brother because of covid too and it happened so fast. I still cannot believe it.
i lost my friend a month ago that was always there for me and always told me to follow my dreams. Because of them i found back to my old hobby’s and interests. Rest easy aims 💕
When the video said it’s okay that your not okay I instantly started crying because when I truly let myself feel how I’m feeling I broke
*my mom is dead my dad is dead ,the family of my mother is dead and i knew them so much* i miss them everyday my dad died 15 years ago and my mom 11 years ago i am now 21.😭
I'm so sorry to hear what you had to go through,I hope your courage never leave in this path
That's harsh. They passed at such an early stage in your life. I'm sure wherever you are now in life, your parents are happy for you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain that you have felt your entire childhood but you are incredibly strong, I hope you know that. You don't have to feel pressured to "move on". You got this.
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This past Friday morning, a friend of mine I've known for 7 years took his own life. He had been suffering for a very long time and tried to alienate and push away everyone he ever knew, everyone who ever cared about him. He tried to make all of us hate him but all it did was make us want to help more.
I'm glad he's finally done fighting but it still hurts to know that he's gone. He didn't leave a note, he never told anyone of us why, he never told anyone of us how he was feeling, how he was crumbling to pieces...I just wish we could've done something.
He took his own life in a car I sold him that I had some of my most treasured memories in...this car is being returned to me and it fucks me up even more to know that I have to drive it now because I just got into a car accident that totaled my car...I need it but I just don't want to look at it. It has a name "Solace" which I guess...it certainly was for him in the end. He loved that car as much as I did and it seems like it loved him back enough to be those open arms and that comfort he needed in the end to finally...stop fighting.
I don't know how to feel or what to do. The only other thing for some reason I feel is rage that nobody in this situation can be allowed time to grieve amidst all the police bullshit, this legal bullshit, the funeral arrangements and the liquidation of the possessions of that lovedone...why does this have to be the first step after someone dies? Even if they took their own life? It's monstrous and I know this is just the stage of anger in the scale of grief but...knowing that doesn't do anything but make me angrier because I, just like he is...am now a statistic.
Pain is just so wrong..
Im sorry for your loss. My father passed away in a horrible and unfair way, reaching 79, mere 2 weeks away from his 80 bday. Why did he die? Because his doctor didnt know that pancreatic cancer couldnt be detected with blood tests. To me it feels like a car crash happened instead but my father was alive for 1 month and 2 weeks more but struggling hard. He didnt get to say good bye to all his friends either, he just wanted to get more energy from food/water but he kept throwing up. The doctors didnt tell us shit either of what to expect and they only made the situation worse. So much for free healthcare, its trash. The nurses treated him like shit too, taking away his drops for water etc, and told him he "should learn to drink from a cup" instead but each time he did he threw up. I partially blame them for passively killing off my dad too. My dad had full faith in his doctor. "You dont have cancer!" and then he gets one that cant be detected. Never told or warned of this either. The only thing that keeps me from not snapping is the rest of my family and my dad visiting me in my dreams twice. But I still miss him and the way he passed is eating me up. Then theres the realisation that my nation never taught these valueable knowledge in school. We had to learn about shitty history that we cant use for shit and all kinds of other things.
I've lost an uncle, my friend, and a pet in the past two months, and my aunt's in the hospital. I feel you man, do what you need to do.
@@idonotliveinparaguay.2361 Im so sorry to hear :( *Hug*
It's almost two months now since I lost my mum. That woman did everything for me and my siblings. I was not there to see her final moments. It's worse that I have to accept it and move on because I need to pass my bar finals. Dear Mum, I love you and miss you so much. I don't know if this pain will ever go away but I'm happy you are resting now. I regret not expressing how much I love you while you were still in this world. Till we meet again, until then, goodbye.
I wish that you had stayed just for a little while longer...
But I suppose you were missing your other family members a lot too...and sickness and old age..
Thank you for being in my life, let's meet again sometime if there is something like an afterlife...till then I will just have to muster up all my courage and strength myself now.
I hope that you will be happy and if watching I'll put on the best show that I can.
AND once again Thank you soooooo much for the past 20 years....and for trying your best, now it is my turn😊❤.
6 months ago we lost Technoblade, I wasn’t the most active watching fan but he was still dear to my heart.
2 months ago I lost a close family friend, I regret not visiting her more.
Both of these people were very important people in my life. Now that their gone I feel empty and alone. Even though they past away months ago, I cry almost every day just thinking about them.
It’s comforting to know I’m not alone.
I've actually Lost my grandma recently it will be 7 months tomorrow and 1 year since she got sick , and i feel guilty that i didnt spend the last 5 months with her i literally feel like its my fault that she died and i promised my Grandma that i will not cry when she dies bc she hates when i cry bc she thinks it's her fault and this video actually helped me
My father died last month, and I'm trying my best to recover. I hate crying every freaking time.
Everything will be okay someday . Trust me🙂
Lost my father 2 days ago. I will never forget his strength, grace, humility and smile. He was so warm towards everyone and had such a pure heart. My dad’s strength and memories will forever be in my heart and I will continue to push boundaries because of him, I know he would want me to achieve great things and enjoy every moment that life offers. I love you so much Dad, you are finally at peace and no longer suffering from the heartache and pain from this world. 10/27/2023 ❤
I wished I could have been better to them when they were still here