Sadness is something we all need and we will all experience, there's no way around it, it''s part of our nature whether you're masculine or feminine, there's a book that talks a lot about femininity and how to be the best woman you can possibly be, it's called the power of the female aura on lentlish.
True, i hurt ppl even when I don’t have the intention to do so ! My mind is isolated and i feel sad and basically my brain wants to stay sad and thinks too much .. i wish i could just turn that down
Sadness lets you put down the walls you have been puting up against the world. After putting them down you feel your vulnerability, you don't pity yourself for it, instead you understands it and it's comforting to understand yourself. you don't feel the fear of judgement of showing your vulnerability to someone. You FEEL you.
Apathy is feeling dead inside. Sadness is like a jolt to the system, to the heart, that we're still alive. My entire life there's been this feeling that something is missing. Then a Billie Eilish song comes on and hits me with a lyric like "I knew you in another life" and it triggers me for unexplained reasons. It's like there's a sadness in resonance, an echo that strums across the strings of our heart. To me, when I'm moved to cry, it's like I'm honoring those that have lived through pain and suffering versus being apathetic to it.
Omg sameee here, idk but im also generally a sad person. But for me, i find comfort in sadness, bcs feeling sad at least make me felt like im still human rather than not feel anything :(
Don’t know how your video came up in my feed but this is exactly how I feel and what I think constantly but its always hard to make people around understand that I am not lost neither depressed
I really like the oranges in the back. And i know for sure that was intentional - I love the contrast. From what i decipher from this scene, and this is just a personal view, is that while you find comfort in sadness, in the dull areas of life (which may be ironic because sadness is an emotion with so much depth and substance, and i feel like happiness alone is a shallow emotion) So while you like the dull areas, like me, you feel that you need a dosage of happiness too, every once in a while. So that oranges must be happiness. Taking one orange occasionally to cherish it, then you won't feel that happiness is shallow. You'll feel that happiness is much more precious when there is so much sadness. Just the way you like the sun on your skin when there is so much rain. Thank you for this, and you aren't the only one feeling this way. This all applies to me too. Great job.
If you've experienced comfort much more than anything else, there's a comfort to it. Because it's a safety net. Any other emotion might feel too overwhelming or out of place. I am the exact way. I feel a lot but I feel sad the most. But feeling is not a bad thing, as long as you know how to manage it. I love the orange peeling the end, the blanket is coming off, you're out in the open and vulnerable. The peel is the blanket, the sadness.
The endless pursuit of happiness makes us sad, it is normal to be sad as normal as happy can be, life is a mix of them, sad events happen anyway and we can not do anything about... peace!
sadness She tends to bring me back to the present, the now, Moments quiet, alone with me myself, and I, Heck even them sad chill songs I usually listen to sound better, Shit happens on my journey called Living, I am glad Sadness sets the mood and background to process all that's going on.
I love that the movie "Inside Out" emphasizes this - that sometimes your main/default emotion is sadness and thats ok. I always felt like I had an obsession with sadness but after that movie I realized that it's not that I like being sad, but that it's my main emotion where I feel most like myself. (Rileys mom main emotion is sadness because she sits in the center of them). The important part is that I experience all my emotions well - just, sadness gets a little more of me. 💙
Love this perspective and 100% relatable about will i create and think like i do if i wasnt this sad. Almost dont know what i would be like if i wasnt sad...
Since my childhood I used to be a melancholic person, but for the last 4 years I had been acting up to be a smiling extrovert person and I am intensely suffering.
Well I was there a week ago since 2-3 years i founded comfort in sadness and was anxious whenever something good happens to me (idk if you feel that too) but these days I am trying mindfull content and just 5 min of meditation it really helping me establish myself again . Idk if it will be helpful to you I jus wanted to share my story...
Finding comfort in sadness can be a slippery slope. It’s easy to romanticize suffering, but that mindset spreads like a disease in our generation. Happiness is a choice-don’t let sadness define you.
That's the thing. Without sadness how would you really know what happiness is! All the experiences will feel bland. The contrasting depths of nature allows us to fully feel variety of emotions. And that only makes us human.
I can relate to this one hundred percent. Should I be worried? Hahaha. For me it's more complicated to deal with it externally, because no one seems to be able to understand it, than actually feeling this way. Anyway, thanks for this video. I subscribed and I'm following you on Spotify. All the best to you.
The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit. - (Psalms 34:18) Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart. - (Matthew 11:28-29) Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. - (John 14:27)
Sadness and Happiness, what is it actually how do we define it? No one knows right or anyone? It's not like sadness doesn't exist, If someone says it throw this to them Dea*h and Life are in coexistence so if one is happening other must happen, it is same with happiness and sadness. Better say we have made ourselves comfortable with it, if someone is silent, isolated, he must be depress(d or sad but who knows what he is actually feeling right? I will give you my example, I am not perfect firstly not even considered good by myself but I love to observe things or peoples, when I am in class people, people dealing with things come to me and like says what's the reason of your sadness, when I reply I am not sad, they are like why do you keep such silence? So sadness is just a perspective, if you go by people's thinking yes it can be sadness but if you go with yourself, it comes out to either happiness for you or just neutral thing. So saying that sadness is your comfort or you find comfort there, better ask "IS IT ACTUALLY SADNESS FOR ME?" I am not a reader or anything so wordplay is a thing I can't think of so yes just want to say you have a bright future really great voice and completely shook by the thought process you have. Do well, Enjoy life (in your own way). (Just one more thing I want to add like, you kind of look like one of my teacher from first year of college) take care
How does this not burn you out? I am a high functioning depressed person and I don't really like being sad and I kind of wouldn't mind being happy but not in a fake way in a way that is content with life.
"I cry to feel a little else of everything else because I always feel too much of everything" too real😭✋🏾
@@Nifemiii-d3u :”)
here’s a hug from me🫂
Ecclesiastes 7:3 KJV
Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.
' Live in a place long enough and start liking it. '
Damnn bro🫂
Sadness is the new peace. Loneliness is the new peace. Staying away from everything is peace.
We are who we are because of the things that we go through. Such a beautiful poem.
@@mxhesh doesn’t that just make you wonder tho :’)
And thank you so much 🥹🫶🏻
Sadness is something we all need and we will all experience, there's no way around it, it''s part of our nature whether you're masculine or feminine, there's a book that talks a lot about femininity and how to be the best woman you can possibly be, it's called the power of the female aura on lentlish.
I crave the pain of break ups. Those Sad songs just don't hit the same.
dudeee , little things which made me happy during that phase now just feels hollow now
@@fluffyninja7808 same
True, i hurt ppl even when I don’t have the intention to do so ! My mind is isolated and i feel sad and basically my brain wants to stay sad and thinks too much .. i wish i could just turn that down
sadness is the only thing I feel nowadays, all other feelings are playing hide and seek
Sadness lets you put down the walls you have been puting up against the world. After putting them down you feel your vulnerability, you don't pity yourself for it, instead you understands it and it's comforting to understand yourself. you don't feel the fear of judgement of showing your vulnerability to someone.
You FEEL you.
Sadness is the norm, happiness is an anomaly.
If that's true, why even try to be happy?
We shouldn't strive for happiness. Happiness is fleeting. Contentment/satisfaction should be our pursuit. That's more fulfilling and long lasting.
Apathy is feeling dead inside. Sadness is like a jolt to the system, to the heart, that we're still alive. My entire life there's been this feeling that something is missing. Then a Billie Eilish song comes on and hits me with a lyric like "I knew you in another life" and it triggers me for unexplained reasons. It's like there's a sadness in resonance, an echo that strums across the strings of our heart. To me, when I'm moved to cry, it's like I'm honoring those that have lived through pain and suffering versus being apathetic to it.
And as far as I’m concerned I’ve high functioning depression and anxiety and I’m a sad person too.
Im sorry to hear but I hope you heal 🥹
I just realised that even I have started to find comfort in sadness and this scares me.
This resonates with me. I'm glad to see someone else who deals with the same insecurities and emotions that I do.
@@hinam9684 I’m so glad you could see that you’re not alone :) and there’s no need to feel insecure about how you feel and who you are 🫶🏻
Omg sameee here, idk but im also generally a sad person. But for me, i find comfort in sadness, bcs feeling sad at least make me felt like im still human rather than not feel anything :(
Sadness is lucidity and being sensitive,it's when you're aware of things as they are without thinking...to me.
I was thinking I was the only one who did that, but now I'm happy that you find comfort in sadness too❤
I comfort myself and squeeze so tight by knowing the fact that at the end you’ve yourself and you have to take care of you cause nobody else will ❤
This is the most relatable thing I have even seen and experienced
Don’t know how your video came up in my feed but this is exactly how I feel and what I think constantly but its always hard to make people around understand that I am not lost neither depressed
Yes that's what I agree with aswell I also find sadness comforting I feel so much better knowing that other people feel this way too love you ❤
We are a poetry, not like anyone else, but the one that makes you feel yourself.
LOVE your Beautiful Words....
This is totally relatable to me as well , but sometimes coming out of sadness is all we want.
There's comfort in sadness. Something about it calming the mind but honestly some happiness wouldn't hurt once in a while :D
In sadness I found close to God
And we are quite souls which is so rare 🌷🖇
This healed me in a way i cannot quite explain....so thankyou so much..
Im so glad to hear 🥹🫂
Without sadness there's nothing to feel happy about.
I really like the oranges in the back. And i know for sure that was intentional - I love the contrast.
From what i decipher from this scene, and this is just a personal view, is that while you find comfort in sadness, in the dull areas of life (which may be ironic because sadness is an emotion with so much depth and substance, and i feel like happiness alone is a shallow emotion)
So while you like the dull areas, like me, you feel that you need a dosage of happiness too, every once in a while. So that oranges must be happiness. Taking one orange occasionally to cherish it, then you won't feel that happiness is shallow. You'll feel that happiness is much more precious when there is so much sadness. Just the way you like the sun on your skin when there is so much rain.
Thank you for this, and you aren't the only one feeling this way. This all applies to me too. Great job.
If you've experienced comfort much more than anything else, there's a comfort to it. Because it's a safety net. Any other emotion might feel too overwhelming or out of place. I am the exact way. I feel a lot but I feel sad the most. But feeling is not a bad thing, as long as you know how to manage it. I love the orange peeling the end, the blanket is coming off, you're out in the open and vulnerable. The peel is the blanket, the sadness.
This is tooooo good, make more of these please 😭
This is beautiful 🤍
I have that comfort with being alone, if it wasn't for physical touch -
I genuinely think I could live alone without a partner forever.
Tristeza é uma passagem. É um aviso q algo q está bem. Vc consegue. Olhe para si mesma.
for the first time i feel seen
:“)🫂
I feel you Ava.
The endless pursuit of happiness makes us sad, it is normal to be sad as normal as happy can be, life is a mix of them, sad events happen anyway and we can not do anything about... peace!
sadness
She tends to bring me back to the present, the now,
Moments quiet, alone with me myself, and I,
Heck even them sad chill songs I usually listen to sound better,
Shit happens on my journey called Living, I am glad Sadness sets the mood and background to process all that's going on.
I love that the movie "Inside Out" emphasizes this - that sometimes your main/default emotion is sadness and thats ok. I always felt like I had an obsession with sadness but after that movie I realized that it's not that I like being sad, but that it's my main emotion where I feel most like myself. (Rileys mom main emotion is sadness because she sits in the center of them). The important part is that I experience all my emotions well - just, sadness gets a little more of me. 💙
Love this perspective and 100% relatable about will i create and think like i do if i wasnt this sad. Almost dont know what i would be like if i wasnt sad...
Since my childhood I used to be a melancholic person, but for the last 4 years I had been acting up to be a smiling extrovert person and I am intensely suffering.
Acting won’t help but I genuinely hope you find your state of comfort 🥹
Thanks@@avababashahi
this is beautiful
So do I! Thanks for this.
Now this is called content and this is how a creator should be!!👏👏❤
I love this
I feel the same way, Ava.
Beautiful nails, miss Ava !!! ☺
thank you
I relate
Me too !! But i don't know why ..
i found this vid of urs and now I can't stop watching your videos!!
I clicked this vid cuz it was relatable and um.. it's okay not to be okay🍷
🥹🫂🫶🏻
Best video I have ever seen 🤍🤍
' suffering feels religious if you do it right. '
1:09 so powerful
Play "Asylums for the Feeling" Moment!
Yep. Same here. ❤️
Well I was there a week ago since 2-3 years i founded comfort in sadness and was anxious whenever something good happens to me (idk if you feel that too) but these days I am trying mindfull content and just 5 min of meditation it really helping me establish myself again . Idk if it will be helpful to you I jus wanted to share my story...
Im happy mindfulness is helping you and thanks for your comment🥹
Finding comfort in sadness can be a slippery slope. It’s easy to romanticize suffering, but that mindset spreads like a disease in our generation. Happiness is a choice-don’t let sadness define you.
I love being sad
Nice one
That's the thing. Without sadness how would you really know what happiness is! All the experiences will feel bland. The contrasting depths of nature allows us to fully feel variety of emotions. And that only makes us human.
I am overwhelmed with sadness and self hatred. My ex told me that I am such a pessimistic person and can not be better. :(
relatable:)
Found someone like me 🙂
I can relate to this one hundred percent.
Should I be worried?
Hahaha.
For me it's more complicated to deal with it externally, because no one seems to be able to understand it, than actually feeling this way.
Anyway, thanks for this video.
I subscribed and I'm following you on Spotify.
All the best to you.
Thank you so much for your support 🫂
@@avababashahi Anytime! 🤗🫂
i find stillness in it
Love you the way you are 🫂
🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻
not the happy one but the living one
Also, I'm a sad person,
I like to be sad
00:25 sadnees nutz!
PAHAHHAHA I JUST NOTICED HELP😭
😂
كانّه الشعور الصحيح الذي يجب أن نشعر فيه شوبنهاور يفكر هكذا ايضا
Good shii
'i find comfort in sadness'
real
The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit. - (Psalms 34:18)
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart. - (Matthew 11:28-29)
Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. - (John 14:27)
Keep going
Me too
❤❤
Sadness and Happiness, what is it actually how do we define it? No one knows right or anyone? It's not like sadness doesn't exist, If someone says it throw this to them Dea*h and Life are in coexistence so if one is happening other must happen, it is same with happiness and sadness. Better say we have made ourselves comfortable with it, if someone is silent, isolated, he must be depress(d or sad but who knows what he is actually feeling right?
I will give you my example, I am not perfect firstly not even considered good by myself but I love to observe things or peoples, when I am in class people, people dealing with things come to me and like says what's the reason of your sadness, when I reply I am not sad, they are like why do you keep such silence?
So sadness is just a perspective, if you go by people's thinking yes it can be sadness but if you go with yourself, it comes out to either happiness for you or just neutral thing.
So saying that sadness is your comfort or you find comfort there, better ask "IS IT ACTUALLY SADNESS FOR ME?"
I am not a reader or anything so wordplay is a thing I can't think of so yes just want to say you have a bright future really great voice and completely shook by the thought process you have.
Do well, Enjoy life (in your own way).
(Just one more thing I want to add like, you kind of look like one of my teacher from first year of college)
take care
Hm..
But, You don't have to. 🙂❤️☕
I love you
How does this not burn you out? I am a high functioning depressed person and I don't really like being sad and I kind of wouldn't mind being happy but not in a fake way in a way that is content with life.
Exactly, i've always wondered how can people put up fake personality for so long. I've always wondered how can people be so bold.
Jesus heals you of any despair or darkness in your life. He loves you deeply. Turn to him before it's too late people♥️
Can we talk, please
U can talk to me honey
Can I date you?
Bruh 💀
Girl try out Jesus. Just talk to God. Just try it out❤❤
Your potential scares the poets, singers and directors! I am somehow so sure of the bright future ahead of you😭🫶🏼!
@@avinezzatea Avin girl you don’t how much your support means to me 🥹🫶🏻
❤❤
Me too