Great job, summarizing one part of this excellent book, it's a good formula. Since you love unsolicited advice: If you haven't run into it yet, you might also be interested in Integral Theory and AQAL, by Ken Wilber, particularly the quadrants. They are another form of task separation but instead draw the notion of subjective vs objective aspects and individual vs collective into a four box matrix. When you introduce another, you just duplicate the individual areas, one set for each participant. This results in considering what our own minds, behaviors, our culture and our physical environment contribute to any given interaction and offer a nice tool for reflection or prediction.
I smoke weed often, don't drink out of personal preference. Not sure what any of that has to do with conforming lol, my circle has many people who do use both, one or the other, or neither. Do you think they care if you do or don't, and are making videos? Nobody cares mate lol, nobody worth knowing is expecting others to "conform" or using marijuana as a prerequisite for friendship.
hey ben just clarifying cause i didn't mean for that to be taken literally as i drink and smoke myself, i was just saying it's easy to fall in with the crowd and forget yourself out of pressure to be liked or accepted, but i agree if it's a personal choice that's different, anyways thanks for the comment :)
@@LukeDashwood Ah I gotcha, I feel like being of the younger generation myself I weirdly see that fading away. I think it’s there when people are younger, but after people go through the standardized schooling system and either enter university or the ‘real world’/job market, I don’t see many young people caring about what others do. In fact I’ve noticed myself a large scale trend of people in our age demographic being more open than ever, honestly if anything being yourself seems to be encouraged even in the mainstream more now than conformity does. Never the less I also for sure agree that following the crowd for that reason isn’t the best for anyone
@@BenjaminStolen Interesting insight, I would just say even if that is the case (that the culture is more accepting these days, which I would agree is probably true) i'd still say most people have an innate desire to be accepted by ALL and will hide the parts of themselves that make them different (but also special), at least with people they aren't comfortable/close with to avoid rejection, but maybe that's just me haha, should probably just go to therapy instead of making videos but fuck it we ball
Get ready for this to go viral!
The cinematography omg, I’m so glad I stumbled across this, so well written filmed and made
Thankyou!! I have to give credit to my location it did most of the work haha
I recommend taking a deep look into the concept of wabi-sabi next. It's intimately connected.
Thanks for the “unsolicited advice” man! Just keep going!
Great video brother. The music, the views, the life lessons - everything came together perfectly. Subbed.
the quality is wild! Thank you for the video, food for thought 100%
Great video. Surprised you have less than 600 subs. Wish you the best, I learned a lot from this video. Thanks :)
Bro, keep it up with your tasks and don’t give up!
Loved the video! Keep it up 👍
Nice video, wish I could also stay in japan
Geeat video funny humor awesome cinematography, subbed
Great job, summarizing one part of this excellent book, it's a good formula. Since you love unsolicited advice: If you haven't run into it yet, you might also be interested in Integral Theory and AQAL, by Ken Wilber, particularly the quadrants. They are another form of task separation but instead draw the notion of subjective vs objective aspects and individual vs collective into a four box matrix. When you introduce another, you just duplicate the individual areas, one set for each participant. This results in considering what our own minds, behaviors, our culture and our physical environment contribute to any given interaction and offer a nice tool for reflection or prediction.
Dang I also read this book. It really changed my lifestyle a lot, Highly recommend it
love this video
You should feel proud of this
Much Love from India❤❤
I was here before it went viral (421 views)
Thankyou !!
Read this book, got me out of myself spiraling out from my surrounding, I also read it twice.
It’s free on youtube as audiobook.
great work dog
Literally meaning "you don't have to be a people pleaser" 😉
wow, how tf did i bump into this shit ? at only 200 some views, bravo on the insight homie 💯
Appreciate you :)
Don’t go to toyotathon this year.
Wow...that was awesome. Love from Germany :D
Thankyou!!
I dont mind having the unpopular opinion life is too short to pretend
Gud sup
I smoke weed often, don't drink out of personal preference. Not sure what any of that has to do with conforming lol, my circle has many people who do use both, one or the other, or neither. Do you think they care if you do or don't, and are making videos? Nobody cares mate lol, nobody worth knowing is expecting others to "conform" or using marijuana as a prerequisite for friendship.
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@@tosieunleas confused offended or both
hey ben just clarifying cause i didn't mean for that to be taken literally as i drink and smoke myself, i was just saying it's easy to fall in with the crowd and forget yourself out of pressure to be liked or accepted, but i agree if it's a personal choice that's different, anyways thanks for the comment :)
@@LukeDashwood Ah I gotcha, I feel like being of the younger generation myself I weirdly see that fading away. I think it’s there when people are younger, but after people go through the standardized schooling system and either enter university or the ‘real world’/job market, I don’t see many young people caring about what others do. In fact I’ve noticed myself a large scale trend of people in our age demographic being more open than ever, honestly if anything being yourself seems to be encouraged even in the mainstream more now than conformity does. Never the less I also for sure agree that following the crowd for that reason isn’t the best for anyone
@@BenjaminStolen Interesting insight, I would just say even if that is the case (that the culture is more accepting these days, which I would agree is probably true) i'd still say most people have an innate desire to be accepted by ALL and will hide the parts of themselves that make them different (but also special), at least with people they aren't comfortable/close with to avoid rejection, but maybe that's just me haha, should probably just go to therapy instead of making videos but fuck it we ball
Read this book, got me out of myself spiraling out from my surrounding, I also read it twice.
It’s free on youtube as audiobook.