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It's an extra fee. We know it's 'available.' But - it's too much to pay in this economy to watch a bunch of reruns. Oprah has her share & then some. Bye Felicia -
Oprah should have dropped the moochers into a house to fend for themselves and have cameras film everything, a new reality show called Moochers. I'd watch. 🤩
25 years later - some of these parents are likely passed on by now. Would love to see a follow-up. That 39-yr-old is pushing 65. Yikes: 😮 Jessica's baby is grown...
My daughter lives with me for a few years and moved out because she didn't like my rules. She was working and still had a hard time in her mind giving me $20 a week. She bought food with food stamps and thought that was the rent. I'd give her a list of food for me because I didn't eat like she did but she'd rarely get anything on my list. Sometimes shed forget. She left thank God! Fast forward 10 years and she's homeless. I offer her a place to live and she trashed my house in a few short weeks and won't clean up after herself. She eats all my food. She can't stop eating. It's weird. Goes in the pantry and eats everything while in the pantry closet. She's brain damaged by now from drugs and cannot complete a task and is super paranoid. Goes through all my cupboards and closets constantly. She left to get a job. It was a relief! I was worried for my safety actually. She hasn't gotten a job and it's been a year. She's living with friends and they can't get her to do anything. She mooches food off of them. I'm glad she's gone. It was awful. I won't even let her in the house because of the safety issue. I lock all my doors now which I didn't do before. I got a dog, too. Put a beware of dog sign on the front door.
This seems to be my life. The amazing part is that my daughter's ex husband, although is good to the children provides no support. The court recently lowered child support that he doesn't pay anyway. My daughter does the best she can. My help assures her that the boys get everything they want, most of the time. How long should I do this?
You're done doing! When you have to ask the question, that's your answer. I have a friend with an almost 50 year old alcoholic son that she let back in her house and now her house wreaks of his funky cigarettes. He doesn't work, begs her for money so he can get drunk. She is in a full depression. Telling her to put him out is not something she can bring herself to do and it infuriates me to see my friend being sucked into his disease. My advice to you, even if it hurts you to put her out - let it hurt. Give her a time limit to leave, stick to it and go find your peace. People make their own choices in life and then they want others to live their consequences. We have to learn to help without making people comfortable enough that it becomes enabling. I wish you the best❤
His latest arrest was in 01/24 - Arlon Charles Menchion, 60, of Lexington Park, MD, by DFC Travis Wimberly, for CDS: Possession - Not Marijuana, CDS: Possession of Paraphernalia, Resisting Arrest.
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It's an extra fee. We know it's 'available.'
But - it's too much to pay in this economy to watch a bunch of reruns.
Oprah has her share & then some.
Bye Felicia -
I remember this episode. The first man has lived in my mind rent free since 1999.
Kick him out 🧠
@@lawrenceoxfordhahahahaha
Make him pay
😂
arlon menchion? He was recently arrested
Mom created this monster. She raised him. 😊
You are truly a saint an amazing woman with a soul that brings love joy and life to me and all I respect U Ophrah
Oprah should have dropped the moochers into a house to fend for themselves and have cameras film everything, a new reality show called Moochers. I'd watch. 🤩
How
Cool r u!!
I wish these episodes went more deeply into the psychology of what motivates everyone
Mental health usually plays a part too in motivation.
The man didn't cleaned the room 😂😂😂 for at least 6 months
Thanks your nice and warm voice❤ . It gives us energy.
That mother didn’t want him out. If she did, he wouldn’t be there, Period!
My sister boyfriend parents moved & never let anyone know where they lived to get rid of their mooching kids 😅😅
What a great idea!!
😂😂😂
Always lovely to watch your show 💖💯💗👍
I just looked up the first guy, he’s been arrested a LOT in the past few years.
More details please
Arlon Menchion, I had to look him up too🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Why
25 years later - some of these parents are likely passed on by now.
Would love to see a follow-up.
That 39-yr-old is pushing 65. Yikes: 😮
Jessica's baby is grown...
My daughter lives with me for a few years and moved out because she didn't like my rules. She was working and still had a hard time in her mind giving me $20 a week. She bought food with food stamps and thought that was the rent. I'd give her a list of food for me because I didn't eat like she did but she'd rarely get anything on my list. Sometimes shed forget.
She left thank God! Fast forward 10 years and she's homeless. I offer her a place to live and she trashed my house in a few short weeks and won't clean up after herself. She eats all my food. She can't stop eating. It's weird. Goes in the pantry and eats everything while in the pantry closet. She's brain damaged by now from drugs and cannot complete a task and is super paranoid. Goes through all my cupboards and closets constantly. She left to get a job. It was a relief! I was worried for my safety actually. She hasn't gotten a job and it's been a year. She's living with friends and they can't get her to do anything. She mooches food off of them. I'm glad she's gone. It was awful. I won't even let her in the house because of the safety issue. I lock all my doors now which I didn't do before. I got a dog, too. Put a beware of dog sign on the front door.
So sorry to hear that.
First guy is too cute to be so bummy lol
I thought so too
@@llamalady8700 highkey lol
The kids driving truck ROCK🤗 Doing it right🤗🤗🤗
This seems to be my life. The amazing part is that my daughter's ex husband, although is good to the children provides no support. The court recently lowered child support that he doesn't pay anyway. My daughter does the best she can. My help assures her that the boys get everything they want, most of the time. How long should I do this?
You're done doing! When you have to ask the question, that's your answer.
I have a friend with an almost 50 year old alcoholic son that she let back in her house and now her house wreaks of his funky cigarettes. He doesn't work, begs her for money so he can get drunk. She is in a full depression. Telling her to put him out is not something she can bring herself to do and it infuriates me to see my friend being sucked into his disease.
My advice to you, even if it hurts you to put her out - let it hurt. Give her a time limit to leave, stick to it and go find your peace. People make their own choices in life and then they want others to live their consequences. We have to learn to help without making people comfortable enough that it becomes enabling.
I wish you the best❤
The point in cleaning is THAT IS NOT YOUR HOUSE , YOUR PARENTS WANT THEIR HOUSE TO STAY CLEAN!!!
I would like to see a Where are they now show 🤲🏾🙏⛪️🤲🏾🙏⛪️🤲🏾🙏⛪️
Yes! That first guy is almost 60 now. Wonder what he’s up to
Look him up… not so good.. hint: about four mugshots
Ooof! @@deesee3622
Dr. Phil looks a lot like Dabney Coleman
I had no idea Dr.Phil got his name from this show initially.
Yes. Oprah put Dr. Phill on the map. And, many more famous people.
First guy is this a mess. In 2022 at 59 he had convictions. I wonder if he is still with his mother. If the mother is stiil alive.
I bet all the moochers ran out to get their CDL licenses too. Not! 🤣
Bom dia Opraha Winfrey eu só Victoria DEUS ti a bênção e toda a sua família e sua vida, 😁👍👩🎓❤❤❤
I believe you can not blame the parents for what their kids do ...but on this show all the parents are lacking that part called a spine.
It’s the parents fault you’re the enabler
Need an update on moocher son.
His latest arrest was in 01/24 - Arlon Charles Menchion, 60, of Lexington Park, MD, by DFC Travis Wimberly, for CDS: Possession - Not Marijuana, CDS: Possession of Paraphernalia, Resisting Arrest.
Search his names he’s been arrested like 6 times in 2024 so far.
Arlon omggggg 😂 I know u personally and I've hung out with u ar ur moms back what 2021 u still stay there !!!!
I wonder if he was addicted to opiates and couldnt afford or find the motivation to move out?
That’s what I’m wondering especially after googling him and seeing he has four mugshots online
Some person loves animals more than children not any idea
27:00
This episode seems a little contrived…
Ok
The first guy makes no sense the girl seems normal
These freaking bums!
Peter Pan Syndrome