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To the wife who has the husband who doesn't remember birthdays or holidays. If you've clearly expressed how much they mean to you, then obviously he does not care. Next Christmas, his birthday, Father's Day, etc, get him nothing. Get yourself a nice present from Santa. On your birthday, invite friends over or go out and celebrate. On Mother's Day, take yourself and your kids out to brunch. He may start to realize what being ignored feels like.
Man, my heart goes out to all the women here. Hope God has changed their lives for better. You beautiful women, God loves you and you matter to God! I hope you always know that God loves you more than your husbands. Sending so much love and light to your beautiful souls
Yeah. But Phil forgot to add the 30 minutes wife needs to decompress. She's dealt with wake up, dress, breakfast, meltdowns, make lunches, brush teeth,take to school, bill paying, groceries, house cleaning, call from school for sick kid, dentist appt, repair person showing up, dog eating something that made them sick, pick up from school, snacks, meltdowns, homework, dinner prep, remembering the laundry etc......
Romance, IMHO, is not flowers or grandiose gestures… for me, it is, “hey hon, I saw this magazine about >subject< you love and picked it up for you…” or they may go out of their way for a bargain, but your brand of fancy oat milk is always in the fridge… or “Good morning…I got up and fed the cat so she wouldn’t wake you up!” … small things that tell you that you are on their mind. ❤️ PS. I just buy my own darn flowers!
@@MsChantae Yes, that’s lovely too! I am lucky that my spouse is a good communicator, supportive, and we expect a level of respect and adultness in our convos.
Just watch this and relationships are hard work I started thanking God for my single life when I remember how hard relationships are I wouldn't change my single life for anything honestly it's just not worth it at least of course if their kids then you're forced but relationships are hard no wonder I have never seen a happily married woman
Women who are married to Narcissists who use their wives as servants and choose not to take responsibility within the house that they live in, need to recognise their power and get out of selfish relationships like these.
After marriage and having kids, many men loose interest and are not romantic anymore! They were romantic and gave a lot of attention before marriage but once they get what they wanted, it’s gone…Why is it so hard to pay attention to their wive after marriage? Some men need to chase…if they are too sure, that’s what can happen! Many divorces because of lack of attention to their wives! Nothing worst than being ignored by your partner!
Would LOVE LOVE LOVE to know how many of these marriages are still in tact. The first guy sounds like a classic narcissist. This is so sad to see how much emotional abuse is present in some of these marriages
Facts are facts that sound like the game to me, the script...be a man... Go to church, give your life to God, lead your wife and children biblically and you'll have it made dude!!!
He’s romantic, easy to talk to always remembers birthdays etc caring ,married40 years. Usually happy, these men don’t try very hard these women gave up there life to be with them, I like the guy who knows his car well🎉
who did y'all marry? LOL . Truth be told my husband is not a person who presents flowers nor gifts but I don't really mind it. When things are not done that he is supposed to do, I can do it myself - easier than getting frustrated by it. He has his flaws and so do I. His better qualities outweighs the flaws. He is my best friend for 33 years and running. Love runs deeper that these things for me. I know I got really lucky. Good luck ladies.
The first husband OBVIOUSLY does not like his wife. I don’t think I have ever met any man that loves his wife deeply that would reject physical affection. Perhaps his attraction is also not 100%. Sounds like he finds her annoying. He is obviously emotionally unavailable.
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To the wife who has the husband who doesn't remember birthdays or holidays. If you've clearly expressed how much they mean to you, then obviously he does not care. Next Christmas, his birthday, Father's Day, etc, get him nothing. Get yourself a nice present from Santa. On your birthday, invite friends over or go out and celebrate. On Mother's Day, take yourself and your kids out to brunch. He may start to realize what being ignored feels like.
I like these ideas
Great advice!
I’d love to see a “Where Are They Now” episode.🧐 I wonder how many didn’t make it and how many made it through?
Man, my heart goes out to all the women here. Hope God has changed their lives for better. You beautiful women, God loves you and you matter to God! I hope you always know that God loves you more than your husbands. Sending so much love and light to your beautiful souls
I hope you find the help you need 😩
" Mother Theresa in a turtleneck ". 😂😂😂
Keep these videos coming! this is very much helpful when the Oprah show is not airing. thank you so much for all the uploads
Oprah you are an amazing person, I appreciate what you did, the way you choose the topic, your conversation all
I love Dr. Phil He is the best!❤
Huge fan of Oprah Winfrey love it watching from New Zealand 💯💖💖💚👍
Yeah. But Phil forgot to add the 30 minutes wife needs to decompress. She's dealt with wake up, dress, breakfast, meltdowns, make lunches, brush teeth,take to school, bill paying, groceries, house cleaning, call from school for sick kid, dentist appt, repair person showing up, dog eating something that made them sick, pick up from school, snacks, meltdowns, homework, dinner prep, remembering the laundry etc......
Romance, IMHO, is not flowers or grandiose gestures… for me, it is, “hey hon, I saw this magazine about >subject< you love and picked it up for you…” or they may go out of their way for a bargain, but your brand of fancy oat milk is always in the fridge… or “Good morning…I got up and fed the cat so she wouldn’t wake you up!” … small things that tell you that you are on their mind. ❤️
PS. I just buy my own darn flowers!
Agreed the true Test is 🖊Poverty/ Illness/ job loss. Shows who people truly are 🔥
Acts of service and gift giving
I prefer words of affirmation 😊
@@MsChantae Yes, that’s lovely too! I am lucky that my spouse is a good communicator, supportive, and we expect a level of respect and adultness in our convos.
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This is mostly because of the way these men's parents brought them up, it's been this way for centuries 😮
Now you know why I’m single! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
My husband is the talker and the communicator,more than me im300 words unless I’ve got something to say 😊
The only thing you need to consider is whether your partner is important to you or not. If they are, then pay attention to them!
Amen!❤
mother teresa in a turtleneck 🤣
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I CACKLED!!!
Just watch this and relationships are hard work I started thanking God for my single life when I remember how hard relationships are I wouldn't change my single life for anything honestly it's just not worth it at least of course if their kids then you're forced but relationships are hard no wonder I have never seen a happily married woman
Agreed never met one either .Thats why Deadly women 📺And Snapped are so Prevalent they stayed way to long 🚨💔🔥 Many Ticking Time bombs 💣
I’m a happily married woman. 👋 it works if both parties are committed to making it work and put God first.
Women who are married to Narcissists who use their wives as servants and choose not to take responsibility within the house that they live in, need to recognise their power and get out of selfish relationships like these.
The first husband is clearly 🌈
"Turns off Golden Girls" 😂
Last couple has it going on ❤
The man should come home and help their wife with the kids
This is ridiculous... I left my ex husband because he was in my face 24/7. I sat boundaries he kept crossing. No, this is not fair.
I love dr Phil
After marriage and having kids, many men loose interest and are not romantic anymore! They were romantic and gave a lot of attention before marriage but once they get what they wanted, it’s gone…Why is it so hard to pay attention to their wive after marriage? Some men need to chase…if they are too sure, that’s what can happen! Many divorces because of lack of attention to their wives! Nothing worst than being ignored by your partner!
This is true. It takes work from both husband and wife to pursue each other. Adoring her and Praising him.
Would LOVE LOVE LOVE to know how many of these marriages are still in tact. The first guy sounds like a classic narcissist. This is so sad to see how much emotional abuse is present in some of these marriages
Facts are facts that sound like the game to me, the script...be a man... Go to church, give your life to God, lead your wife and children biblically and you'll have it made dude!!!
He’s romantic, easy to talk to always remembers birthdays etc caring ,married40 years. Usually happy, these men don’t try very hard these women gave up there life to be with them, I like the guy who knows his car well🎉
Men complaining nonstop. Dr. Phil holding them accountable.
Love this❤
who did y'all marry? LOL . Truth be told my husband is not a person who presents flowers nor gifts but I don't really mind it. When things are not done that he is supposed to do, I can do it myself - easier than getting frustrated by it. He has his flaws and so do I. His better qualities outweighs the flaws. He is my best friend for 33 years and running. Love runs deeper that these things for me. I know I got really lucky. Good luck ladies.
I don’t get marrying someone when you don’t like how they communicate or how they show their love.
Women watching kids all day don’t get time away to decompress.
Mother Teresa comment though😢
Had me rolling🤣🤣🤣
Just cuz she needs it, why is that any more important that him needing to come home and chill first🤔
We need MORE communication communication communication
I honestly believe some of these men are on the spectrum. There is something just not 100% balanced in their heads... so sad.
I agree that these men seen to be in on the spectrum.
I'm sure some of these couples are divorced by now. So sad. 😢
Everybody should wash their own underwear. What is the excuse for dropping it next to the hamper and not inside? Foolish.
Bom dia Opraha Winfrey eu só Victoria feliz Natal Deus ti a bênção e toda a sua família e sua vida. 😂🎉❤❤❤
Fired!!🤣
damn i miss the oprahj show
The first husband OBVIOUSLY does not like his wife. I don’t think I have ever met any man that loves his wife deeply that would reject physical affection. Perhaps his attraction is also not 100%. Sounds like he finds her annoying. He is obviously emotionally unavailable.
These guys are all horrors
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I agree "what about us?"
The first lady is annoying ME and I’m only two minutes in. 😕
She gave me anxiety
As a woman,I’ll honestly say nothing satisfies a woman period 😂
I was just watching shows about men killing their wives. Crying because he doesnt buy you flowers?
So contrived and I don’t trust Dr. Phil one bit.