Love this, I’m 20 yrs old and I want to be good husband and father one day. I want to use my 20s to build the man I know I need to be when that time comes. It’s get hard and lonely sometimes but it will be worth it. This video made feel better about focusing on myself and trying overcome my problems so I don’t put them all on my partner. Thank you guys keep going!!!!
Proud of you. I’m glad you can learn from what doesn’t work and focus on building you, knowing yourself so that you’ll know for sure that is right for you in a wife.
This conversation was extremely helpful for me. I am a woman who has had to live in her masculinity, & within this conversation I have realized why I have always attracted men that I eventually felt like I became the "mother" to. Thank you 19 keys & Stephen for doing God's work and bringing awareness to all of us! I am extremely grateful.
We all have masculine and feminine in us. Embracing both and knowing how to bring them out at the appropriate times is definitely is necessary but sometimes we bring them out at the wrong time and it can come off offensive to your partner. So knowing your partner and accepting both and expressing them at the right times is definitely important.
The first half of this conversation really made me sad. The realization that we live in such a loveless, transactional world is heartbreaking. It’s hard for those of us who truly live in our heart chakra and view the world from a love centered perspective.
Manifest baby. -there is a man out there that will appreciate you. Be specific and grateful in your heart while visualizing WHO YOU NEED TO BE to attract that man that you desire.
When he mentioned the suppressed shadow self as a child. It really hit me and completely changed my entire outlook on everything I do. I was extremely physically abused as a child and I had to always pretend I was okay. Always hiding bruises and scars and pretending my body was okay when I was in severe pain. I remember recently saying to myself I kind of lost track of who I was because I’m still pretending to this day. Working a job I hate being around dishonest hatful ppl at work. It makes me shut down and I keep quiet to myself to avoid it, just as I was a child. I couldn’t fight with my mother so I would try my hardest to stay as quiet as I possibly could to avoid it even though it never worked. I guess now I realize that, I get to get comfortable with finding my voice and using it.
Learning assertiveness and setting boundaries have helped me with how I show up authentically. Sending many blessings on your journey to rediscovery. 🎉❤
Women instinctively become masculine when we realize we’re not being protected. We can’t help it. I hear you guys saying we NEED to be feminine all the time but different circumstances causes a different response 🤷🏽♀️.
Yeah I noticed this with my woman. After I came into her life and provided that natural masculine energy she’s been able to step all the way into her femininity
I agree 100%. The powers that be (see sources like The Willie Lynch Letter and the Leopold from Belgium's letter to the missionaries.) have intentionally reversed the roles of the Black man& Black woman. They have destabilized the people, given them and idol god& sabotaging the original family structure designed by our Creator. The result has been effeminate Black men who are either homosexual (I say this in truth& not to harm anyone) or effeminate Black men who are heterosexual and/or brainwashed+ hypersexualized-want too many Black women but can't take care of self nor them OR doesn't want a Black woman at all and prefers non melanated women because he was not properly taught how to reproduce a 100% replica of himself. Those type of men are incapable of physically and spiritually protecting/providing for our Black women. This has caused Black women to become what they never were to be- masculine, homosexuals/lesbians/butches/ bad mouthing or rebellious towards the Black men, etc. It takes a wise man (husband) and spiritually conscious/awakened Black man to provide for/protect/cover/teach/shape/mold his woman (wife) so that she can righteously submit to her man and comfortably operate in her natural femininity that the Creator embedded in her DNA. When our people overstand this and stop engaging in gender wars our oppressors taught us to highlight, we can improve and rise as a nation of people world wide.
Been married to my husband since 22….. turned 33 this year and we are still doing our thang! We look at social media , look at our children and am FEARFUL of the current brainwash smh !!!! Great conversation
That’s great and I’m happy for y’all. Also i think it is very nice that you shared that with the world. More people need to hear/see more of this type of love & relationships. And Know that it is realistic and could be the norm. Nowadays we see and hear more about the toxic and bad relationships that go wrong.
19KEYS I can't believe you're in your early 30's! Your mindset definitely isn't on the average level of the young men that's your age today. You're definitely high level! I'm so thrilled of all y'all wisdom and knowledge! Your parents must be very proud of you. 😊 Continue to elevate and help many others. Continue to be the leader that you are 🎉❤
I am so PROUD to see how ACCOUNTABLE you have become, how MATURE and I am here for it. Thank you for standing up for HEALING. It is good to see you encouraging our black men to accept that MENTAL HEALTH is necessary AND it will only achieve through intentional healing. Seeing a therapist to talk or vent about your issues is not something to be a shame about. It shows that as man you are taking accountability for your part in the BROKENNESS and the failure of our black communities across the earth.
Excellent high level conversation! Love how they stayed on the facts where men and women can show up better. Instead of bashing. More men need to hear this way of thinking, honest, true, differing opinions but a shared commonality of what role men play in the whole dynamic of a family/marriage/relationship. Love it!
19 Keys has done it again. His guest speakers are always the best at the subject matter; and he provides us with something to which most of us would never have access, due to a lack of affordability; which is why the Blk community is falling apart. This was a most excellent broadcast! It was concise, conducive, and comprehensive, i.e., the best how-to guide to successful relationships. I wish that all Blk men, young and old, would take time out to listen to this content as it would greatly improve their understanding of relationships, women, and culture. Perhaps the awakening is really happening and there really is hope for the future; especially for Blk people, as it outlines the two things that have greatly affected the Blk community: the disfunction and disappearance of the Blk family. They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it is worth mentioning that great nations have risen from villages. More importantly, is the understanding that a village is a collection and extension of families. Family is a nation’s most valuable asset, and unity is its strongest fortress; coupled, they protect a nation of people from extinction.
It is so good to hear a man outrightly say he doesn't celebrate Easter or Christmas. I know that 19 Keys has done his research. Absolutely beautiful. Love the principles you stand on.
I was 10 sewing clothes , making cds & dvds, and taught myself to braid by 11… at 13 I wanted to be a model … but deep down I always wanted my own busuness… fast forward it took covid & me losing my job for me to get back to my roots.. now 3 years later & 3 millions later .. I have my own business & 100% OWN brand all from flipping my rent money
I totally AGREE...children need at least one parent when they come home from school. I didn't do many "things" because my mother was home until I became an adult!
19 Keys, with respect, please provide the space for your guest to talk more. We get that you are a Thought Leader but please ask them more questions. You legit go on monologues for 3 minutes - 10 minutes
I agree He did this more with Stephen than any other guest because Stephen is not misogynistic but 19 key is. 19 keys has more work to do with the way he views women/relationships/marriages.
Love both of these men & the knowledge they bring, they earned the results of the hard work. These are the true authentic divine masculine leaders we have needed on this earth⭐️
Every African American needs this interview it’s biblical essential to have in your mental tool kit to navigate relationships of all kind family romance friendship associates etc
I watched at least 60% of your videos the way you was breaking stuff down I'd have to say I think this is your best verbal presentation breaking it all the way down. Big facts and statistics I know I didn't know those statistics
I was just thinking today I wanted to make a video like this and then. I came home and this was on. I learned a lot. Y'all are doing your job I appreciate you🎉 another one
People attempt to avoid the pain instead of critical view the purpose in the pain-- the release and forward movement !!! And yess the choice is being made by YOU, I, WE. It’s beautiful
These are the conversations we need to have individually, prayerfully spiritually and collectively. Thus is high vibrational right here. This is the black I love respect honor. For this I wait to return to what is black. What is beautiful. Not about race … but the grandness of who we were created to be … I am
Hats off to these two gentlemen 🎩🎩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I really enjoyed this conversation!! It made me analyze myself deeply 🤔💭 thanks for another high level conversation‼️ 💪🏾🧠👑
Definitely one of thee best conversations of life and relationships I've ever heard but it's two of the GOATs so didn't expect anything less!!💯❤✊🏽🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽
I'm so pleased to hear this informative information. Healing is the utmost wealth to the overall human anatomy. This was a great (E.F.T.)session and collaboration. Embracement on another level of "HIGH-LEVEL CONVERSATIONS." reaching out to the masses who genuinely believe that therapy is only for others, not us. "Deal To Heal" without "Shame Is Claiming Your Pain." Bro Keys❣, this is real F.O.I. "Soldiering" and tuning into self-worthiness. Thank you, Bro. Stephen Speaks❣ for leading and being led into shared reasoning. And always EYL❣
Interesting discussion here…This really goes to show just how messy things can get when there’s no standards in place, no character developed, no morals to observe. When left alone to develop our own rules of engagement, it’s not good.
I feel so bad because my 2 nieces and 1 nephew-all siblings aren't being taught ANYTHING by their Dad who is a single father because their Mom left years ago and my mom in law passed two years ago who really was their parent. Me and my husband try to intervene but my brother in law is arrogant so we backed off 😢 So sad, we check in on the kids often but their not being exposed to ANYTHING 😢 He's just creating low self esteem adults who will be thirsty from attention from others. We pray over them daily. Sorry just venting.
This conversation is DYNAMIC as hell!!! I resonated most with the last part on marriage. I wholeheartedly and personally agree that I am my best in a relationship with a partner who is able to connect with me spiritually, handle the financial burdens of the relationship and who understands that I am my best as his wife/supporter NOTHING else...remove the stress from me - allow me to focus on me and on showing up for you. the return on that is invaluable!!!
When you started to discuss the different roles and the importance of understanding them within the family, I almost fell out.😂 I have a deep passion for raising awareness around this topic. It is so important that we understand our roles within the family in order for the family to thrive and maintain. Every role is necessary. Thank you for speaking on this. I feel affirmed 😊
You brothers hit the nail dead center with this high level convo. This resonates with me 1000%. Salute for bringing this to the table, it shed light on a lot of things we are dealing with. ON MULTIPLE LEVELS. Multi dimensional high level frfr🫡
Can we just clone these two men goodness...we need this breed of men out here for us good women 🙏🏽...🙄 A gal can dream 😊..great discussion and insight Kings!!! Keep up the Light ✨ work!!!?? Gratitude 💪🏾
As far as the fitness aspect and some women not liking physically fit men........ I've never really been superficial in that aspect, so weight and fitness never was a factor. Now, having said that. I'm more in tune with myself and now and realizing that when a man loves himself and has worked and working on himself, he becomes conscious of what he puts in his mind and body. Naturally, that's going to reflect on his physical appearance. He's going to be active, You can't be your healthiest and not be physically active. Walking, jogging, gym, out in nature, playing a sport, something. And when you aren't healing, that can also show internally and externally on your body. For myself, if he's not actively loving himself, he can't love me in the way that I need to be loved. If he's in the gym that inspires me.
This is a great Conversation. I like how 19 Keys uses his skill of reciprocity. His platform is not here to interview,its to brainstorm. His platform is to mentally spar a soundingboard, to kill false ideas and ignorance thats rooted in traditions. You may be more of a fan ,of one of his guest to hear there philosophy. They have different styles of presentation but built a house together as brothers minus ego.
I appreciate the fact that Stephan speaks didn’t feed on to the “ toxic masculinity “ perspective where it seem like 19 keys was trying to take the conversation but instead Stephan addressed that it’s trauma within the black community for both men and women.. he also touched on dissecting the root cause of the trauma instead of trying to blame one or the other gender.. he hit the nail on the head with this one.. this goes back to what Yada Awakening was saying on his interviews.. the problem is a lot of men cant process the aggressive approach of how Yada approach the conversation.. these broken men instead reacted in an emotional feminine way.. which I guaranteed the honest masculine men actually understood and agree with Yada, which is almost exactly the same thing Stephan is saying but with a softer more in depth approach.
That Shadow self is soooo real. Ive always felt like this but didnt know what to call it. This causes so much anxiety also. Its soooo real whew. Just working and paying bills can be so miserable. I have no idea what I should be doing. But this is definitely not it smh!!
God Bless You! Stephan and 19 Keys...Community is the key; our mirrored reflection of who we truly are. Relationships are so separate and individualistic; however, Community can help you identify who we truly are. African Community! ❤ Peace and Love, Minister Hanifah Hightower, Detroit
Definitely a must watch more than once! So many valuable lesson spoken that it’s so many to catch! I had the opportunity to see 19 Keys high level tour in Philadelphia and I left feeling even more enlightened! Everything we must do to achieve success must be high level especially as it relates to relationships! We need a part 2! Lol 😊
Seeing Keys interview Stephan is beautiful! While both men are (to my little bit of knowledge) single/ unmarried, they are doing all the right self-work to show up as the best version of themselves when it’s time to chose a wife/ life partner. It is SUPER important to use single seasons to do the SELF work & focus on the things that need improvement, while sharpening the skills that are already good. The self love, self restraint, and self respect (as well as high respect for [black] women) says sooo much about these men… they deserve ALL the great things coming to them in the future, including an ideal partner! Beautiful convo, as always!! Keys is that dude, idc who says what 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Fellas I was not expecting this ep, This was a collab i didnt know i need to hear together in conversation, i trully learned and gained alot of value from these two in the ep! TRULY APPRICATE THIS! i always watch stephan i Respect 19 keys
I appreciate this conversation. I wanted to share that others deciding for what’s best for your future isn’t great. They’re deciding based on the things they find important. But as the individual, there needs to be a connection and collaboration between the two. You could have a family that you’ve hated being a part of. Why would you sign up to suffer having someone who fits in with a toxic dynamic. The more important part is that the family dynamic has to be healthy before their input can be considered.
This was by far my favorite high level conversation👏🏽👏🏽 this collab was much needed and this video can be so eye opening and beneficial… for both men and women and understanding and accepting the relationship dynamics. Such great insight
This conversation was incredibly insightful. High level conversations is the best show in the world right now and it's not even close! Tap in w/ the Gods 🗣
Wonderful healthy and mature conversation! Thanks Stephan for the conversation on provider and independent women near the end. You really have a strong understanding. I hope others will gain understanding from you. "Kama Sutra" is my one of favorite movie of all time. 🙂
Love the higher level leveling! Pushing and challenging many perspectives and culture group. cleaning up our own backyards for a stronger, more unified movement! Go King Go!!💪
Bruh these two just broke down everything in what this generation is experiencing, it’s mind blowing the knowledge I just soaked. Now it’s time for me to get my wifey lol
19Keys❤ this was your best interview ever. I really loved your push ups with the flames and sound effects. I could feel the power and the energy with each push up. My take away was you have to have a spiritual connection. It is better to bond spiritually first to put your hooks into each other, so that if any conflict presents itself physically between you both you are not easily moved by it. You feel me…❤️🙏🏽👊🏽
The talk about the poly relationship is so mundane. When you are speaking on relationships on a spiritual level their is no room for more than the divine feminine and the divine masculine. Y’all letting these earthly pleasures fool y’all. So many unhealed and unawakened people giving advice from a wounded place . Never let any relationship be ruled by fear. Only guided by love
This is such a powerful statement! For me as a man practicing semon retention and learning to view a relationship without the thought of sex unless it is to actual produce q child. Makes a poly relationship not seem appealing on any level
Glad to have been able to join 19Keys for this high level conversation. I pray everyone finds this video helpful 🙏🏾
Gratitude for sharing your perspective
If they don't their just not on your level... yet. ☺I really enjoyed this conversation! ❤🔥
Dope indeed✅
This is deep!
Much needed depth and insight. Thank You.
Love this, I’m 20 yrs old and I want to be good husband and father one day. I want to use my 20s to build the man I know I need to be when that time comes. It’s get hard and lonely sometimes but it will be worth it. This video made feel better about focusing on myself and trying overcome my problems so I don’t put them all on my partner. Thank you guys keep going!!!!
Good job bro. You have a bright future ahead of you
@Palm Tr33 Goddess 🌴 thank you so much!
Proud of you. I’m glad you can learn from what doesn’t work and focus on building you, knowing yourself so that you’ll know for sure that is right for you in a wife.
That's HONORABLE young man 💪
Self awareness and self development is so important now. Preparing yourself for a wife. Understanding what your values are and learn and observe.
Being authentic is best. Let a person love you for who you’re.
Scary thing. Lol. Learning to show ALL my parts...and OWN them.
Facts definitely the best recipe for both parties' long run
My goofy ass thought you said being autistic smh 😂
A high-level relationship event would be really great!
Thank you Keys for always loving on us Black woman! We appreciate you
As a black man we love you to life. Ase’
“Not everyone is entitled to a relationship “ - POWERFUL.
Lol wow I literally read this comment soon as Stephen said it 🔥🔥
So true
This conversation was extremely helpful for me. I am a woman who has had to live in her masculinity, & within this conversation I have realized why I have always attracted men that I eventually felt like I became the "mother" to. Thank you 19 keys & Stephen for doing God's work and bringing awareness to all of us! I am extremely grateful.
I can relate.
We all have masculine and feminine in us. Embracing both and knowing how to bring them out at the appropriate times is definitely is necessary but sometimes we bring them out at the wrong time and it can come off offensive to your partner. So knowing your partner and accepting both and expressing them at the right times is definitely important.
You are speaking facts and men are loosing their feminine energy and it's causing toxic relationships.
I want masculine energy to the max
I agree 👏🏾
@@judahlion3330you much masculine energy is imbalance and breeds toxicity.
The first half of this conversation really made me sad. The realization that we live in such a loveless, transactional world is heartbreaking. It’s hard for those of us who truly live in our heart chakra and view the world from a love centered perspective.
Manifest baby. -there is a man out there that will appreciate you. Be specific and grateful in your heart while visualizing WHO YOU NEED TO BE to attract that man that you desire.
Well said❤️ I overstand 🙏🏽
Seriously it’s so upsetting
Yeah, I got rid of those rose colored glasses in my early 20s. Life has become much less "lovely", but much more productive.
Honestly you should go and listen to PRINCELLA the queen maker, she will really open your eyes 👀
When he mentioned the suppressed shadow self as a child. It really hit me and completely changed my entire outlook on everything I do. I was extremely physically abused as a child and I had to always pretend I was okay. Always hiding bruises and scars and pretending my body was okay when I was in severe pain. I remember recently saying to myself I kind of lost track of who I was because I’m still pretending to this day. Working a job I hate being around dishonest hatful ppl at work. It makes me shut down and I keep quiet to myself to avoid it, just as I was a child. I couldn’t fight with my mother so I would try my hardest to stay as quiet as I possibly could to avoid it even though it never worked. I guess now I realize that, I get to get comfortable with finding my voice and using it.
Learning assertiveness and setting boundaries have helped me with how I show up authentically. Sending many blessings on your journey to rediscovery. 🎉❤
Women instinctively become masculine when we realize we’re not being protected.
We can’t help it. I hear you guys saying we NEED to be feminine all the time but different circumstances causes a different response 🤷🏽♀️.
Yeah I noticed this with my woman. After I came into her life and provided that natural masculine energy she’s been able to step all the way into her femininity
I agree 100%. The powers that be (see sources like The Willie Lynch Letter and the Leopold from Belgium's letter to the missionaries.) have intentionally reversed the roles of the Black man& Black woman. They have destabilized the people, given them and idol god& sabotaging the original family structure designed by our Creator. The result has been effeminate Black men who are either homosexual (I say this in truth& not to harm anyone) or effeminate Black men who are heterosexual and/or brainwashed+ hypersexualized-want too many Black women but can't take care of self nor them OR doesn't want a Black woman at all and prefers non melanated women because he was not properly taught how to reproduce a 100% replica of himself. Those type of men are incapable of physically and spiritually protecting/providing for our Black women. This has caused Black women to become what they never were to be- masculine, homosexuals/lesbians/butches/ bad mouthing or rebellious towards the Black men, etc. It takes a wise man (husband) and spiritually conscious/awakened Black man to provide for/protect/cover/teach/shape/mold his woman (wife) so that she can righteously submit to her man and comfortably operate in her natural femininity that the Creator embedded in her DNA. When our people overstand this and stop engaging in gender wars our oppressors taught us to highlight, we can improve and rise as a nation of people world wide.
Agree!
Yes Sis,my thoughts exactly.
This💯
I was waiting for a high level relationship conversation, y’all didn’t disappoint 🔥🤝🏾
@@LedePat that’s your opinion & that’s okay sir
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Stephan, this is the best conversation you’ve ever had! Everything in this video is absolutely true!
Facts
Been married to my husband since 22….. turned 33 this year and we are still doing our thang! We look at social media , look at our children and am FEARFUL of the current brainwash smh !!!! Great conversation
That’s great and I’m happy for y’all. Also i think it is very nice that you shared that with the world. More people need to hear/see more of this type of love & relationships. And Know that it is realistic and could be the norm. Nowadays we see and hear more about the toxic and bad relationships that go wrong.
Bless up
19KEYS I can't believe you're in your early 30's! Your mindset definitely isn't on the average level of the young men that's your age today. You're definitely high level! I'm so thrilled of all y'all wisdom and knowledge! Your parents must be very proud of you. 😊 Continue to elevate and help many others. Continue to be the leader that you are 🎉❤
I love how Stephan was able to stand ground on a lot of views that someone less articulate may have just nodded off. Great build!
I peeped that as well
I am so PROUD to see how ACCOUNTABLE you have become, how MATURE and I am here for it. Thank you for standing up for HEALING. It is good to see you encouraging our black men to accept that MENTAL HEALTH is necessary AND it will only achieve through intentional healing. Seeing a therapist to talk or vent about your issues is not something to be a shame about. It shows that as man you are taking accountability for your part in the BROKENNESS and the failure of our black communities across the earth.
Excellent high level conversation! Love how they stayed on the facts where men and women can show up better. Instead of bashing. More men need to hear this way of thinking, honest, true, differing opinions but a shared commonality of what role men play in the whole dynamic of a family/marriage/relationship. Love it!
This is where it gets REAL GOOD!!!!! These men just helped me heal decades of trauma and pain. 35:14
Yes
19 Keys has done it again. His guest speakers are always the best at the subject matter; and he provides us with something to which most of us would never have access, due to a lack of affordability; which is why the Blk community is falling apart. This was a most excellent broadcast! It was concise, conducive, and comprehensive, i.e., the best how-to guide to successful relationships. I wish that all Blk men, young and old, would take time out to listen to this content as it would greatly improve their understanding of relationships, women, and culture. Perhaps the awakening is really happening and there really is hope for the future; especially for Blk people, as it outlines the two things that have greatly affected the Blk community: the disfunction and disappearance of the Blk family. They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it is worth mentioning that great nations have risen from villages. More importantly, is the understanding that a village is a collection and extension of families. Family is a nation’s most valuable asset, and unity is its strongest fortress; coupled, they protect a nation of people from extinction.
It is so good to hear a man outrightly say he doesn't celebrate Easter or Christmas. I know that 19 Keys has done his research. Absolutely beautiful. Love the principles you stand on.
Say it again! Those are not holidays made for us nor our ancestors...
Already excited for this one!
Happy Mother’s Day to all you mommies doing your absolute best, you all are appreciated beyond measures❤🤲🏾💪🏾
I was 10 sewing clothes , making cds & dvds, and taught myself to braid by 11… at 13 I wanted to be a model … but deep down I always wanted my own busuness… fast forward it took covid & me losing my job for me to get back to my roots.. now 3 years later & 3 millions later .. I have my own business & 100% OWN brand all from flipping my rent money
I totally AGREE...children need at least one parent when they come home from school. I didn't do many "things" because my mother was home until I became an adult!
Can you please provide the time stamps to that part of the convo?
Also on which part that was?
I love the mutual respect between the two of them
19 Keys, with respect, please provide the space for your guest to talk more. We get that you are a Thought Leader but please ask them more questions. You legit go on monologues for 3 minutes - 10 minutes
Yesss he's asking a question, and then he answers for the guest. He talked way more than the guest.
@michellepusey3613😂😂😂he's definitely interviewing himself
Didn’t even let the professional talk much.
Glad someone said it.
I agree He did this more with Stephen than any other guest because Stephen is not misogynistic but 19 key is. 19 keys has more work to do with the way he views women/relationships/marriages.
Love both of these men & the knowledge they bring, they earned the results of the hard work. These are the true authentic divine masculine leaders we have needed on this earth⭐️
Every African American needs this interview it’s biblical essential to have in your mental tool kit to navigate relationships of all kind family romance friendship associates etc
These men really understand love on another level. I’m glad to get a listen on the knowledge
*THIS EPISODE CAME RIGHT ON TIME IT REALLY DID SPEAK TO ME ABOUT MY SITUATION*
I watched at least 60% of your videos the way you was breaking stuff down I'd have to say I think this is your best verbal presentation breaking it all the way down. Big facts and statistics I know I didn't know those statistics
Truth, and 19 Keys always keeps it real and logical. Peace God!!!
I was just thinking today I wanted to make a video like this and then. I came home and this was on. I learned a lot. Y'all are doing your job I appreciate you🎉 another one
People attempt to avoid the pain instead of critical view the purpose in the pain-- the release and forward movement !!! And yess the choice is being made by YOU, I, WE. It’s beautiful
These are the conversations we need to have individually, prayerfully spiritually and collectively.
Thus is high vibrational right here.
This is the black I love respect honor.
For this I wait to return to what is black. What is beautiful. Not about race … but the grandness of who we were created to be … I am
This is the collaboration we needed. I thoroughly enjoyed these men and their intellect!
What I did hear from this convo was the power of friendship and how it’s vital to building a successful relationship.
Hats off to these two gentlemen 🎩🎩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I really enjoyed this conversation!! It made me analyze myself deeply 🤔💭 thanks for another high level conversation‼️ 💪🏾🧠👑
FACTS!!!
Great mature conversation. Reason , understanding , non judgmental and non one sided! 👏🏽
Definitely one of thee best conversations of life and relationships I've ever heard but it's two of the GOATs so didn't expect anything less!!💯❤✊🏽🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽
Realistic conversation about relationships that we needed. I'll be rewatching this one as much as possible.
Me toooo !!!
This was the best understanding conversation based on relationships. Congrats 👏 19 keys and Stephen I'm 28 and I love listening to you both. 🎉
The guest was spitting bars!
It is really great to hear men out here doing shadow work.❤
I so much appreciate the intelligence of Stephan Speaks has and the value he brought to this conversation.
I love seeing these two have a conversation about relationships… beautiful two of my favorite people on the internet ❤❤❤
Thanks!
I'm so pleased to hear this informative information. Healing is the utmost wealth to the overall human anatomy. This was a great (E.F.T.)session and collaboration. Embracement on another level of "HIGH-LEVEL CONVERSATIONS." reaching out to the masses who genuinely believe that therapy is only for others, not us. "Deal To Heal" without "Shame Is Claiming Your Pain." Bro Keys❣, this is real F.O.I. "Soldiering" and tuning into self-worthiness. Thank you, Bro. Stephen Speaks❣ for leading and being led into shared reasoning. And always EYL❣
My Brother 19keys appreciate having Stephan Speaks on the show. It's like 2 Gods conversating on the betterment of the human race.
Interesting discussion here…This really goes to show just how messy things can get when there’s no standards in place, no character developed, no morals to observe. When left alone to develop our own rules of engagement, it’s not good.
I feel so bad because my 2 nieces and 1 nephew-all siblings aren't being taught ANYTHING by their Dad who is a single father because their Mom left years ago and my mom in law passed two years ago who really was their parent. Me and my husband try to intervene but my brother in law is arrogant so we backed off 😢 So sad, we check in on the kids often but their not being exposed to ANYTHING 😢 He's just creating low self esteem adults who will be thirsty from attention from others. We pray over them daily. Sorry just venting.
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This conversation is DYNAMIC as hell!!! I resonated most with the last part on marriage. I wholeheartedly and personally agree that I am my best in a relationship with a partner who is able to connect with me spiritually, handle the financial burdens of the relationship and who understands that I am my best as his wife/supporter NOTHING else...remove the stress from me - allow me to focus on me and on showing up for you. the return on that is invaluable!!!
When you started to discuss the different roles and the importance of understanding them within the family, I almost fell out.😂 I have a deep passion for raising awareness around this topic. It is so important that we understand our roles within the family in order for the family to thrive and maintain. Every role is necessary. Thank you for speaking on this. I feel affirmed 😊
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Keeping this in my library to watch again at a later date
I have such a tremendous respect for @MeetStephanSpeaks. He is objective and honest in his thought processes and very intentional in his wording.
You brothers hit the nail dead center with this high level convo. This resonates with me 1000%. Salute for bringing this to the table, it shed light on a lot of things we are dealing with. ON MULTIPLE LEVELS. Multi dimensional high level frfr🫡
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Can we just clone these two men goodness...we need this breed of men out here for us good women 🙏🏽...🙄 A gal can dream 😊..great discussion and insight Kings!!! Keep up the Light ✨ work!!!?? Gratitude 💪🏾
Another great interview, lots of light bulbs went off while listening! Thanks my brothers!❤
My kiddos and I are thrilled to be here 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 listening. Faith come by hearing and hearing by the Word of God!! We love you😊
As far as the fitness aspect and some women not liking physically fit men........ I've never really been superficial in that aspect, so weight and fitness never was a factor. Now, having said that. I'm more in tune with myself and now and realizing that when a man loves himself and has worked and working on himself, he becomes conscious of what he puts in his mind and body. Naturally, that's going to reflect on his physical appearance. He's going to be active, You can't be your healthiest and not be physically active. Walking, jogging, gym, out in nature, playing a sport, something. And when you aren't healing, that can also show internally and externally on your body. For myself, if he's not actively loving himself, he can't love me in the way that I need to be loved. If he's in the gym that inspires me.
1000 % in agreement. How you love yourself internally mostly reflect outwardly.
So, in a few paragraphs, you DO care about a man's physique...?🙃
@TomikaKelly you'll have yo read it again.
This is a great Conversation. I like how 19 Keys uses his skill of reciprocity. His platform is not here to interview,its to brainstorm. His platform is to mentally spar a soundingboard, to kill false ideas and ignorance thats rooted in traditions.
You may be more of a fan ,of one of his guest to hear there philosophy. They have different styles of presentation but built a house together as brothers minus ego.
this is gem on top of Gems. Social & Relational events & clubs is such a great outlet for the Youth and more after 🧡
All respect to Stephen Speaks.
This was a much needed high-level conversation. Keep it going 🙏🏾
My two favorite people on the the internet. Powerful ❤ All praise to the most high for this conglomerate
This was a Great Show! So many jewels being dropped! Thank you!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
I appreciate the fact that Stephan speaks didn’t feed on to the “ toxic masculinity “ perspective where it seem like 19 keys was trying to take the conversation but instead Stephan addressed that it’s trauma within the black community for both men and women.. he also touched on dissecting the root cause of the trauma instead of trying to blame one or the other gender.. he hit the nail on the head with this one.. this goes back to what Yada Awakening was saying on his interviews.. the problem is a lot of men cant process the aggressive approach of how Yada approach the conversation.. these broken men instead reacted in an emotional feminine way.. which I guaranteed the honest masculine men actually understood and agree with Yada, which is almost exactly the same thing Stephan is saying but with a softer more in depth approach.
That Shadow self is soooo real. Ive always felt like this but didnt know what to call it. This causes so much anxiety also. Its soooo real whew. Just working and paying bills can be so miserable. I have no idea what I should be doing. But this is definitely not it smh!!
I love him, he’s really helped me in my relationship just by watching his UA-cam videos.
Grandest Thanks 19Keys Brother Jibrial and Stephan🤲🏾The Brothas & Sistas are benefiting greatly from this high level conversation. Message received💯‼️
This was a life changing conversation!
God Bless You! Stephan and 19 Keys...Community is the key; our mirrored reflection of who we truly are. Relationships are so separate and individualistic; however, Community can help you identify who we truly are. African Community! ❤ Peace and Love, Minister Hanifah Hightower, Detroit
Definitely a must watch more than once! So many valuable lesson spoken that it’s so many to catch! I had the opportunity to see 19 Keys high level tour in Philadelphia and I left feeling even more enlightened! Everything we must do to achieve success must be high level especially as it relates to relationships! We need a part 2! Lol 😊
Excellent! Much gratitude for the discussion that needed to be had and more conversations like this great start.
Seeing Keys interview Stephan is beautiful!
While both men are (to my little bit of knowledge) single/ unmarried, they are doing all the right self-work to show up as the best version of themselves when it’s time to chose a wife/ life partner. It is SUPER important to use single seasons to do the SELF work & focus on the things that need improvement, while sharpening the skills that are already good. The self love, self restraint, and self respect (as well as high respect for [black] women) says sooo much about these men… they deserve ALL the great things coming to them in the future, including an ideal partner!
Beautiful convo, as always!! Keys is that dude, idc who says what
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Fellas I was not expecting this ep, This was a collab i didnt know i need to hear together in conversation, i trully learned and gained alot of value from these two in the ep! TRULY APPRICATE THIS! i always watch stephan i Respect 19 keys
I appreciate this conversation. I wanted to share that others deciding for what’s best for your future isn’t great. They’re deciding based on the things they find important. But as the individual, there needs to be a connection and collaboration between the two. You could have a family that you’ve hated being a part of. Why would you sign up to suffer having someone who fits in with a toxic dynamic. The more important part is that the family dynamic has to be healthy before their input can be considered.
This was by far my favorite high level conversation👏🏽👏🏽 this collab was much needed and this video can be so eye opening and beneficial… for both men and women and understanding and accepting the relationship dynamics. Such great insight
Powerful conversation, exactly what we needed to hear 🔥🔥🔥
This conversation was incredibly insightful. High level conversations is the best show in the world right now and it's not even close! Tap in w/ the Gods 🗣
Wonderful healthy and mature conversation! Thanks Stephan for the conversation on provider and independent women near the end. You really have a strong understanding. I hope others will gain understanding from you. "Kama Sutra" is my one of favorite movie of all time. 🙂
My favorite part! ❤✊🏾✊🏾🪬🧿⚡️✨🌟3:16:12
This conversation is everything. Bless
Love the higher level leveling! Pushing and challenging many perspectives and culture group. cleaning up our own backyards for a stronger, more unified movement! Go King Go!!💪
I'm so happy they're talking!!!!! I love both of them.
This is the about THE MOST balanced conversation i ever heard in my life between two Alpha Males in my mofo in life! Salute to you brothers!!
Man I love Stephan speaks I already know it’s gonna be good and I haven’t even clicked play yet
Thank you, this has been so beneficial
for me🙏🏽.
Yess that’s so true some family can sabotage your relationship out of jealousy and unhealed traumas. Healthy family input is key 🔑
Bruh these two just broke down everything in what this generation is experiencing, it’s mind blowing the knowledge I just soaked. Now it’s time for me to get my wifey lol
Thank you🎉 I'm sharing this video with my 18 y.o. son❤
1:50:20 - Gratituuude ✨💐✨
1:50:43 - Too Good Not to Share. 🙌🏽🥰
Thank you for an informative, thought provoking, and entertaining show!
33:52 A WORD!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ LOVE to hear intelligent & brilliant BLACK MEN speaking to partnership & generation building!! 🫶🏾💕
19Keys❤ this was your best interview ever. I really loved your push ups with the flames and sound effects. I could feel the power and the energy with each push up. My take away was you have to have a spiritual connection. It is better to bond spiritually first to put your hooks into each other, so that if any conflict presents itself physically between you both you are not easily moved by it. You feel me…❤️🙏🏽👊🏽
Heard this was coming. So excited it's here. Can't wait to watch and listen... I'll be back with my thoughts.
I absolutely enjoyed this conversation.💯🤎 Thank you KINGS👑🤎👑for presenting us with your thought-provoking perceptions, truth and transparency.💕💫💜🌻
Great and much needed conversation. They should another 1 with a woman there to have even deeper conversation.
Listening to Stephen always gives me hope there are still great men out here 😌 I love them both ❤
The talk about the poly relationship is so mundane. When you are speaking on relationships on a spiritual level their is no room for more than the divine feminine and the divine masculine. Y’all letting these earthly pleasures fool y’all. So many unhealed and unawakened people giving advice from a wounded place . Never let any relationship be ruled by fear. Only guided by love
This!! When I hear men speak about it I know he’s just not quite where I need him to be
HELLO
This is such a powerful statement! For me as a man practicing semon retention and learning to view a relationship without the thought of sex unless it is to actual produce q child. Makes a poly relationship not seem appealing on any level
Imagine the world was full of 19Key(s). The world would be chef's kiss.
Dr. Umar + 19 Keys.. would be fire