Coach, I cannot thank you enough for what I have learned from you concerning narcissist. I tried to help one of these individuals and went through hell and back or about 15 months. I thought I was losing my mind until I’ve started seeking help. I was 79 years old and had never been involved with anything like this chaos.! I started watching I was studying narcissism, and boy, did I wake up to the facts of their chaos. Thanks again and again!
Knowledge Is Power. I made the mistake a kicked the narcissist in his butt for always lying in front of a crowd of people. I have learned my lesson and will not be mentally abused anymore, I went ghost back in January 2023. He is now dead to me.
This is so on point Jesse. This dude thought he could chase after hot chicks online while he strings me along. Well I gave him the cut off and now he’s been cut off by the hot chicks. It’s beautiful
Thank you ! needed to hear this today! My husband’s mask slipped off April 21 and sadly my oldest daughter is a narcissist too. I have been no contact with him since June 2 and have never been so disrespected, betrayed and thrown out like trash. It has traumatized me and I’m healing. Thank God I was only with him 7 years. He was never faithful and played victim behind my back and lied so bad about me. My daughter does the same. I have just decided to go no contact with her. I can’t take the abuse anymore. I’m 57 years old and it’s time I take care of me and heal from this mess. ❤🙏 I’m a new subscriber
I did exactly what Randy suggested! Let the narc know how inept she was and how "Happy I was to be away from her chaos and drama"!! Living a stress free life now and grateful I was for the Peace of mind I had acquired by leaving the Narc Cult Family. Healthy....wealthy and Oh so much Wiser!! Thank you!!!
Thank you Coach! The things we do out of appreciation for certain things soothes our souls & the narcissist will squash it like a bug every single time- So grateful for new chapters in life💙
@13:55, I’m not even mad about these tears 😭. Thank you for sharing Chico. I was under spiritual attack from the moment I opened my eyes this morning. You just put the exclamation point on the devils eviction notice today.😅❤️
The walk away , yeh push them to the others like them , they'll stalk everyone they know you know especially if It was a long relationship \ marriage - listen - learn - watch - be quiet and eliminate . Leave them to their own demise seriously . Don't feel bad , they are gonna explode ! Period , matter of time . . . Amen 🙏
Even when I was young when I first met him... Before our quick engagement and quick marriage, that resulted in three children and many years of marriage that I was fully committed to and then some... But I was thrown away like garbage, and the children were used and abused and now one is gone forever from this Earth... But the thing I noticed from the start.. if only I would have had more faith in my Lord and more faith in myself and more knowledge about that they were these types of entities.... But I didn't one thing I did notice was the lack of common Sense and the lack of being able to understand jokes and sarcasm which was lost on him... And I would have to explain that is a joke... It was not an insult it was just meant for a laugh at yourself... Which is healthy.... But he had no clue of how to operate in that way in which my family was very much accustomed to and it was natural and it was true and it was funny 🤣
Yup! My ex narc should have “listened” when I went silent, no longer attempted to argue common sense with him. He manipulated everything he could at the same time told me I was old and bitter. He threatened me with his fists while calling me names. I would lmao most of the time until I got fed up. Never struck him. He became so bitter towards everyone. I went forward and left his ass. I’ll eventually hear what’s going on with him because my narc siblings will use it as a game to inform me. They no not what they do, but I’m waiting to hear because it won’t be good. Seriously, he’s so pathetic that I cannot wish bad on him because knowing how he is it won’t be good. He kept pushing the envelope towards anyone he could. There’s always somebody bigger and badder out there.
You’re brilliant you’ve worked hard and you’re brilliant you giving us information that is priceless. When you said do you think you are the one that was brought in to finally break him and yes you’re right . This man was 6” 5’ 250 pounds I would give it right back to him. He didn’t scare me a bit but I did get caught up in the narcissistic shit that they give you the trauma blah blah blah .I woke up this morning and started to feel sorry for myself but when you said, was I the one that was going to put him on his ass, you were absolutely right absolutely and that knock me right into reality that. He has a choice in life to take the road less traveled and be a decent person and he didn’t. Thank you Jesse so much, Amen
Chico,off the subject of this video I wanted to share with you and the tribe that I have been studying lately for a career. Two months ago while I was at my second job I was driving on I-75 down here in Florida and an 18 wheeler semi truck passed,I had been considering it for almost a decade but never fell through with it. Come January I am gonna face my fear and go to school in Jacksonville for a month and a half to get my Class A CDL so I can make a living being an Over the road truck driver,it consists of three of my favoritest things working,driving and traveling and dang it man I can't wait! Hurry January and hurry fastest!
Only When You're Down Recognize when things are going well in life, who disappears? And, who enters your life? When things are going well in life, who disappears? Recognize when your life is breaking down, who is leaving your life? When things are going poorly in life, who secretly enjoys your woes? Depleted woes to share, do not entertain They leave no more conversations to be had Only Statements "At least I'm not like him" Recognize that - ignored and dumbed down - is your Success apprehended Recognize that there is no longer a sense of relating to them
My ex through my sons ashes onto my Rv floor and because I cried he grabbed me and punched me to the floor for showing grief! This week I finally left him but feel beyond afraid n exhausted! Watching these videos feels like you have my back in spirit thank you
Thanks so much 🙏 Im really working on myself so i can feel indifferent as i eventually face this coward in divorce court soon. Ive been in self isolation & healing for 5 months. You help Empower me & im grateful 🙏
I’m cool if I see you eating your potatoes by hand. However, if I see you eating under the table I’m going to tell you to stand up because I really need a hug. ❤
J, we are able to respect people's cultures and appreciate differences. Enjoy your papitas mine is using tortillas as a spoon and seeing the expression on others face. 🎉 thanks coach
I found I was just going through the motions with my Hobbies/ Exercises I was running on muscle memory and was able too still fret about the narcissistic while I was Mountain biking and Snowboarding . I had too do what Jesse says too dontake up something You haven’t done much of or none of change your routine evn if it’s a Coffee shop? Go too a diffrent one. Change your perspectives and you will have e to be more mindful which= Healing time. Now I’ve done that for past year and have learned what a Narcissist is and what Gaslights areand Flying Monkeys do/ look like I’m able to now Mountain bike,Hike,Snowboard and my mind isn’t wandering or focused on the Narcissistic.
Jesse I've been listening to you for 4 years off and on. I got it again from a narcissist snared. But I may seeing it sooner now. Everytime I come back to you to listen to you to help me get back on my feet again Thank you so much. Athe narc said he can feel my energy good and bad... I need to learn how to hide it
😭😭😭 “I used to eat my dinner under the table”… I used to go out to the varanda ( porch) and turn my little radio on as I was doing homework or reading something. Because my parents would smoke so much in the living room and not open the windows.
My parents would put us in their truck with the windows both up and both smoke and when we would cough because we couldn't breath ,they would laugh,and of course it got me addicted at an early age and I smoked most of my life, I'm lucky to still be alive, I have guit now after 65 yrs thanks to God !
You are a good coach. My opinion we both lived in similar homes as children. Maybe that is why we try to help so many people. We do not want anyone else to go what we went through. We are partly strong as steel and some days soft hearted as marshmellows. The other person needs to decide what day it is and proceed with caution. BIG SMILE
Coach Jesse and survivors the narcissist getting with another one is a match made in 🔥that's combustion a explosion in the works I would sit grab my popcorn watch the fire works 😂🤣.
Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that one hit the hardest out of everything you have said. 4:15 I spend my days doing what I’m good at and think I’ll sharpen my skill which is 50/50 true but the times I am not is because of what you said because of that comfort. I started playing sim flying games and learning about cars and playing other car games to learn about new and different things and I’m starting to feel that rumination stuff go away but the second I do what I used to I’m back in it.
Coach thank you so much!! You touched on somethings I went through!! You hit the hammer on the nail!! Get the where we're you!! I call and got no answer!! I need you help!! When I'm not there!! It's been crazy since you were not here!
YES HE DID WEAPONIZE US JESS FOR THAT VERY REASON ,AND HERE IS THE SCRIPTURE, THAT PROVES THAT ? HIS WARNING TO THE NARCISSIST, NOT TO MESS WITH HIS CHOSEN ONES ? ( PSALMS 105:15 )
I walked away. Silently.
Coach, I cannot thank you enough for what I have learned from you concerning narcissist. I tried to help one of these individuals and went through hell and back or about 15 months. I thought I was losing my mind until I’ve started seeking help. I was 79 years old and had never been involved with anything like this chaos.! I started watching I was studying narcissism, and boy, did I wake up to the facts of their chaos. Thanks again and again!
Knowledge Is Power.
I made the mistake a kicked the narcissist in his butt for always lying in front of a crowd of people.
I have learned my lesson and will not be mentally abused anymore, I went ghost back in January 2023.
He is now dead to me.
This is so on point Jesse. This dude thought he could chase after hot chicks online while he strings me along. Well I gave him the cut off and now he’s been cut off by the hot chicks. It’s beautiful
Thank you ! needed to hear this today! My husband’s mask slipped off April 21 and sadly my oldest daughter is a narcissist too. I have been no contact with him since June 2 and have never been so disrespected, betrayed and thrown out like trash. It has traumatized me and I’m healing. Thank God I was only with him 7 years. He was never faithful and played victim behind my back and lied so bad about me. My daughter does the same. I have just decided to go no contact with her. I can’t take the abuse anymore. I’m 57 years old and it’s time I take care of me and heal from this mess. ❤🙏 I’m a new subscriber
That is fantastic.😂Next to the island where they can all pick each other😂
I did exactly what Randy suggested!
Let the narc know how inept she was and how "Happy I was to be away from her chaos and drama"!!
Living a stress free life now and grateful I was for the Peace of mind I had acquired by leaving the Narc Cult Family. Healthy....wealthy and Oh so much Wiser!! Thank you!!!
Amen 🙏🏽
Narcissism is cannibalizing itself
They everywhere 😢court a judges police government blows my mind 😮😮😮
🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽🙌💯💯💯🇺🇸🇺🇸
Put them on a island
All together
Watch the games begin ❤
There is no island big enough
I think I would like to see that soap😂
You inspire me. I have gotten silent. Now I find my silence was the only thing that saved me.
Stuck with each other "affirming their own mental disorders" 😂
Thank you Coach! The things we do out of appreciation for certain things soothes our souls & the narcissist will squash it like a bug every single time- So grateful for new chapters in life💙
❤amen❤
Halliluliha💝
@13:55, I’m not even mad about these tears 😭.
Thank you for sharing Chico.
I was under spiritual attack from the moment I opened my eyes this morning.
You just put the exclamation point on the devils eviction notice today.😅❤️
All true do not react when prrovoked
THANK YOU JESSE!!!!!
Thank you for your help ❤❤❤❤
What what we will all reap what we sow they can stay in their septic tank
The walk away , yeh push them to the others like them , they'll stalk everyone they know you know especially if It was a long relationship \ marriage - listen - learn - watch - be quiet and eliminate . Leave them to their own demise seriously . Don't feel bad , they are gonna explode ! Period , matter of time . . . Amen 🙏
Great explanation 🌷thank you
Even when I was young when I first met him... Before our quick engagement and quick marriage, that resulted in three children and many years of marriage that I was fully committed to and then some... But I was thrown away like garbage, and the children were used and abused and now one is gone forever from this Earth... But the thing I noticed from the start.. if only I would have had more faith in my Lord and more faith in myself and more knowledge about that they were these types of entities.... But I didn't one thing I did notice was the lack of common Sense and the lack of being able to understand jokes and sarcasm which was lost on him... And I would have to explain that is a joke... It was not an insult it was just meant for a laugh at yourself... Which is healthy.... But he had no clue of how to operate in that way in which my family was very much accustomed to and it was natural and it was true and it was funny 🤣
My brother offered me a faustian deal yesterday...and i saw it for what it was.
Thank you brother.
Yup! My ex narc should have “listened” when I went silent, no longer attempted to argue common sense with him. He manipulated everything he could at the same time told me I was old and bitter. He threatened me with his fists while calling me names. I would lmao most of the time until I got fed up. Never struck him. He became so bitter towards everyone. I went forward and left his ass. I’ll eventually hear what’s going on with him because my narc siblings will use it as a game to inform me. They no not what they do, but I’m waiting to hear because it won’t be good. Seriously, he’s so pathetic that I cannot wish bad on him because knowing how he is it won’t be good. He kept pushing the envelope towards anyone he could. There’s always somebody bigger and badder out there.
Liked, shared, and subscribed 🎉😂
Yep, I believe we are seeing this play out in my husband's family. It is quite humorous.
Don't be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.
Roy T. Bennett,
You’re brilliant you’ve worked hard and you’re brilliant you giving us information that is priceless. When you said do you think you are the one that was brought in to finally break him and yes you’re right . This man was 6” 5’ 250 pounds I would give it right back to him. He didn’t scare me a bit but I did get caught up in the narcissistic shit that they give you the trauma blah blah blah .I woke up this morning and started to feel sorry for myself but when you said, was I the one that was going to put him on his ass, you were absolutely right absolutely and that knock me right into reality that. He has a choice in life to take the road less traveled and be a decent person and he didn’t. Thank you Jesse so much, Amen
Yes sir
Amen Brother I love the Truth
Chico,off the subject of this video I wanted to share with you and the tribe that I have been studying lately for a career. Two months ago while I was at my second job I was driving on I-75 down here in Florida and an 18 wheeler semi truck passed,I had been considering it for almost a decade but never fell through with it. Come January I am gonna face my fear and go to school in Jacksonville for a month and a half to get my Class A CDL so I can make a living being an Over the road truck driver,it consists of three of my favoritest things working,driving and traveling and dang it man I can't wait! Hurry January and hurry fastest!
Only When You're Down
Recognize when things are going well in life, who disappears? And, who enters your life?
When things are going well in life, who disappears?
Recognize when your life is breaking down, who is leaving your life?
When things are going poorly in life, who secretly enjoys your woes?
Depleted woes to share, do not entertain
They leave no more conversations to be had
Only Statements
"At least I'm not like him"
Recognize that - ignored and dumbed down - is your Success apprehended
Recognize that there is no longer a sense of relating to them
My ex through my sons ashes onto my Rv floor and because I cried he grabbed me and punched me to the floor for showing grief! This week I finally left him but feel beyond afraid n exhausted! Watching these videos feels like you have my back in spirit thank you
I’m changing the blade on my lawn mower and also the mulch trap door!! It’s refreshing as heck!!!
Thank you brother for all the reassuring words have a blessed day
Thanks so much 🙏 Im really working on myself so i can feel indifferent as i eventually face this coward in divorce court soon. Ive been in self isolation & healing for 5 months. You help Empower me & im grateful 🙏
That potato story is awesome..reminds me of the contentious women/rooftop verse..yes I'll take my peace..have your contention..
Ive always said the shine in my spit. Im going to use pimple on my arse from now on its much funnier 😅🎉😂
💯 Thank you❤
I’m cool if I see you eating your potatoes by hand. However, if I see you eating under the table I’m going to tell you to stand up because I really need a hug. ❤
Us as empathys we bring a calm to the crazy!! An ease the universe!!
That's why they are thirsty for our attention.
Thank you for sharing..
J, we are able to respect people's cultures and appreciate differences. Enjoy your papitas mine is using tortillas as a spoon and seeing the expression on others face. 🎉 thanks coach
Thank you ❤
I found I was just going through the motions with my Hobbies/ Exercises
I was running on muscle memory and was able too still fret about the narcissistic while I was Mountain biking and Snowboarding . I had too do what Jesse says too dontake up something You haven’t done much of or none of change your routine evn if it’s a Coffee shop? Go too a diffrent one. Change your perspectives and you will have e to be more mindful which= Healing time. Now I’ve done that for past year and have learned what a Narcissist is and what Gaslights areand Flying Monkeys do/ look like I’m able to now Mountain bike,Hike,Snowboard and my mind isn’t wandering or focused on the Narcissistic.
Jesse I've been listening to you for 4 years off and on.
I got it again from a narcissist snared.
But I may seeing it sooner now. Everytime I come back to you to listen to you to help me get back on my feet again
Thank you so much.
Athe narc said he can feel my energy good and bad... I need to learn how to hide it
😭😭😭 “I used to eat my dinner under the table”…
I used to go out to the varanda ( porch) and turn my little radio on as I was doing homework or reading something. Because my parents would smoke so much in the living room and not open the windows.
My parents would put us in their truck with the windows both up and both smoke and when we would cough because we couldn't breath ,they would laugh,and of course it got me addicted at an early age and I smoked most of my life, I'm lucky to still be alive, I have guit now after 65 yrs thanks to God !
You are a good coach. My opinion we both lived in similar homes as children. Maybe that is why we try to help so many people. We do not want anyone else to go what we went through. We are partly strong as steel and some days soft hearted as marshmellows. The other person needs to decide what day it is and proceed with caution. BIG SMILE
God Bless And All The Best 🇳🇿
Yes Absolute truth !
Never was mine to fix, thankful to have this knowledge. Not trying gave it to God the greatest and miracle worker. Thanks for sharing your life Jesse.
Coach Jesse and survivors the narcissist getting with another one is a match made in 🔥that's combustion a explosion in the works I would sit grab my popcorn watch the fire works 😂🤣.
Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that one hit the hardest out of everything you have said. 4:15
I spend my days doing what I’m good at and think I’ll sharpen my skill which is 50/50 true but the times I am not is because of what you said because of that comfort. I started playing sim flying games and learning about cars and playing other car games to learn about new and different things and I’m starting to feel that rumination stuff go away but the second I do what I used to I’m back in it.
Thank you Jesse..
Coach thank you so much!! You touched on somethings I went through!! You hit the hammer on the nail!! Get the where we're you!! I call and got no answer!! I need you help!! When I'm not there!! It's been crazy since you were not here!
The gig is definitely 😂😂😂
I'd sit right there and eat the potato with relish, and eat it in silent contentment and totally understand without saying a word ‼️💪
Good!!!!!
Yup true words spoken
9 Years of Prue Hell 👹
Great information. Thank you Coach!!!
Thank you for this… 🙏🏼
YES HE DID WEAPONIZE US JESS FOR THAT VERY REASON ,AND HERE IS THE SCRIPTURE, THAT PROVES THAT ? HIS WARNING TO THE NARCISSIST, NOT TO MESS WITH HIS CHOSEN ONES ?
( PSALMS 105:15 )
Jesse I love your potato story, I have done the same. 😀
I had my fair share as a kid. But you had it worse. Sorry Chico
I ate peas and potatoes and DUCK under the table lol
Yup
I love it 🫡🙏🏿
DAmbassadors 🎉 its gonna be a party. 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
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Solitaire here
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lol😂😂😂