Dealing with Mom Guilt 😣 | Having Only One Child

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2023
  • Hey friends,
    Today I'm talking about something that I have been dealing with for quite some time and I have been too ashamed to talk about. In this video I open up about my struggles with comparison and feelings of guilt for just have one child and not 2, 3, or 5 like many other moms. I hope you enjoy and share your thoughts on having children and how many you currently have or you may want to have in the future. Enjoy!
    Cynthia
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 9

  • @YourBeautifulBirth
    @YourBeautifulBirth 10 днів тому

    I appreciate the honesty and that God is in the video. Thank u.

  • @mw9037
    @mw9037 8 місяців тому +11

    I had my son at 34 years old, I suffered from postpartum depression for many months after birth it was very difficult time. My husband and I both have very time consuming jobs. For a few years I felt guilty for only having one child because I always picture myself with two kids but now I’m at peace with my decision is what works in my family ❤

  • @rahmatoullahbah5230
    @rahmatoullahbah5230 6 місяців тому +5

    1 son is enough for me all praise to God ❤
    don’t feel guilty for your blessings love!

  • @seasonsofwonder
    @seasonsofwonder Рік тому +10

    I have only one child. She is truly my joy and our family feels complete with her. Sometimes I do feel that mom guilt you talk about. I am so tired and go through the same struggles all moms go through, but when it comes to speaking about this I feel unqualified. But I think I am at a stage I have made peace with it. Thank you for sharing this! 🙏☺️

    • @DOTHANSDA
      @DOTHANSDA Рік тому

      I am so happy to share in your journey. God has truly blessed us with great kids.

  • @lylky
    @lylky Місяць тому +1

    Wow , can’t thank you enough for sharing this. It is very interesting we are both from different backgrounds , faiths , lifes .. but share the exact same emotions and ideas. such a relief to hear it from someone other than my own head

  • @archie73in
    @archie73in 3 місяці тому +3

    I go through this all the time. I loved my pregnancy and birth with my first. No post partum depression. I savored everyday post the sleepless nights and difficult breastfeeding phase. But i also felt overwhelmed in the love and care I was giving my child. It felt so sufficient and enough back then. Now that he’s 11 I am missing having another one - a sibling for him to speak to and play with. A daughter to share with. When my son gives us a hard time eating his meal I wonder if my second would have balanced that out by being a good eater? I see everyone around me with 2 kids and I feel so left out. I feel I am
    Missing something big. i feel this mom guilt all the time and I am looking for a solution. Its not too late for me to have a child since Im 42 but I don’t want to regret the decision. I wish I had just followed the template and had another one right after 3 or 4 years of my first. Endless thoughts and questions…

  • @YourBeautifulBirth
    @YourBeautifulBirth 10 днів тому

    We have one child. A daughter, who is just perfect for us. I think I am complete with her but I have this guilt that 'oh what if.. what if, what if I am destined to have more and I'm rejecting my own children'. I fins it hard ro make a choice because of this thought. Is this thought legitimate?

  • @auci3358
    @auci3358 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m going though this Mum guilt 🥹 my Son just turned 2 but he had a very complicated life since he was born. he had many surgeries and still recovering, we are not doing well financially and we have decided to have one child since we’ve been through a lot and also my pregnancy was not easy I had some complications too. so far I’m just here and there changing my mind but when I think of how my past pregnancy went it just scares me to have an other child and makes be grateful that me and my child are alive, healthy and getting better. cause I feel like pregnancy changed my body so much and the work that comes with it plus finances. it’s not easy