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INTJs are just fine. We all have weaknesses. I was a musician for many years. It was difficult to get on stage. INTJs can be extroverted when the time calls. People are actually drawn to you when you are shy
I'm an INTJ, but not very introverted. I've played guitar since age 12. I don't mind being on stage, but I never did well with band dynamics, or teamwork. I'm a jam session, I can't wait for it to end. It's overwhelming. I still like playing at home.
Very good advice, you are speaking what I could never explain out loud. not only that, I recently (3 weeks ago) found out that I am INTJ and I had this searching for more intentions and I read book, watch videos and i knew there was good advices in them, I tried to implement them but always failing. I need the why behind actions and how I can do it by understanding myself. And knowing my personality gave me that missing connection between all the right points. And videos and podcasts like these are making me understand that there are people with my experience and it gave me the right advices to develop my weak spots. Thank you
Holy shit this hit a chord!!! Everything from not living up to expectations to realizing the emotion has to come first. Literally had this conversation with my wife this morning.
👌 INTJ saying how he was [only] able to feel part of a social group, or, be comfortable in being social -whatever, something like that about social- only when he was drunk (“only when I was engaging in unhealthy behaviors”)… feeling like an ESFP.
Thank you Joel and Antonia for creating this space for such great and insightful content. I’ve been waiting for the INTJ video for this type interview series. Thank you Mike for being such an open book with your life story. I resonate well with a lot of what you said (also an INTJ, myself). Especially the key points (for me) of: 1. Consumption of alcohol for social settings and dependence, in a way. 2. Resilience and the overall notion that things did come a little bit easier in childhood, which led to an assumption that things will be just as easy in adulthood. Of course, life teaches us otherwise. Thank you guys again. Lolo from Australia ✌🏾
This interview with Mike is truly inspiring. Thank you for letting him do this one! I am an INTJ, just turned 26, and there have been a lot of life lessons I have learned that helped me quickly resonated with Mike so much. What I've been currently working on is needing to hone in some more spontaneity in some aspects of life that needed it. I do like to plan ahead and make sure every box is checked in a certain order to call any activity a productive success. Staying present and awake does help me to look out for opportunities to be quick to respond within work and relationships. It's a work in progress.
Myself as an intj I totally get what he's saying with a need for alcohol to stimulate better open conversation. For me I feel like it helps open a barrier from mental to verbal even with people I'm totally close to and open with such as my wife who is an entp.
I can relate to this….for me it was smoking cigarettes. If I didn’t smoke I was sort of empty and numb not real long feeling like I needed to reach outside of myself for interactions-was content in this but when I smoked I instantly wanted to be social and interact with folks and was more open to it. Like an invisible barrier or wall came down with the addition of substances and I was more attuned or aware of others around me and socializing. I must come from a line of introverts because there is a lot of substance abuse in the family line….my dad sounds just like this guy in his explanation of why he drank
Thank you Mike, for sharing! Loved every minute! And thank you personality hacker. I discovered you and myself, an INFJ, when I was very sick with cancer. You helped me so much that I am now happier than I’ve ever been, living the life that makes me and my kids proud. Then I met the first male intj and I am happier than ever! We both love our alone time lol. I love you both like my own kids, whom I shared your program with. Keep it up. You are doing amazing work!
Wow I’m a INTJ and in 2018 I developed a sports team rating system for my sports betting. But I got distracted and stopped doing it. Maybe I should get back at it 🤔
Typical INTJ owning the room and making the main interviewers the audience lol. Its astonishing how lonely we are with no friends despite our chatty inspiring personalities. Were a very intense voice though- I think people are terrified to contradict us. As they should lmao. I notice the most popular personalities are dumb passive types with outgoing chatty personalities. I wouldn't trade my complex mind for anything in the world including popularity. All the dumb ones can keep their minions!... oops. Too judgy? As intense and knowledgeable as our personalities can be (we talk with fact and conviction) we are also very curious people who aren't afraid to ask people for answers and input about subjects they haven't come to conclusions on. GIVE US A CHANCE!
He's the most non INTJ "INTJ" I listened to, my bestfriend is INTJ, and I watched some stereotypical INTJs on YT, some of them I suspect are ENTPs accessing their shadows. The social alcohol part and limiting belief about working in coworking vs at home sounded like NeFe for the first part, and Si for the latter. How he talked sounded very NeTi, Si to me. I understand the disclaimer Joel said in the beginning about non stereotypical, but I became sceptical about "INTJ"s because some of them (when they speak, which reveals their thought process) are not
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INTJs are just fine. We all have weaknesses. I was a musician for many years. It was difficult to get on stage. INTJs can be extroverted when the time calls. People are actually drawn to you when you are shy
I'm an INTJ, but not very introverted. I've played guitar since age 12. I don't mind being on stage, but I never did well with band dynamics, or teamwork. I'm a jam session, I can't wait for it to end. It's overwhelming. I still like playing at home.
Why are people drawn to shy people?
Very good advice, you are speaking what I could never explain out loud. not only that, I recently (3 weeks ago) found out that I am INTJ and I had this searching for more intentions and I read book, watch videos and i knew there was good advices in them, I tried to implement them but always failing. I need the why behind actions and how I can do it by understanding myself. And knowing my personality gave me that missing connection between all the right points. And videos and podcasts like these are making me understand that there are people with my experience and it gave me the right advices to develop my weak spots. Thank you
Thank you for watching and sharing. Happy you found INTJ as your best fit personality type. ~ Joel
Holy shit this hit a chord!!! Everything from not living up to expectations to realizing the emotion has to come first. Literally had this conversation with my wife this morning.
👌 INTJ saying how he was [only] able to feel part of a social group, or, be comfortable in being social -whatever, something like that about social- only when he was drunk (“only when I was engaging in unhealthy behaviors”)… feeling like an ESFP.
Thank you Joel and Antonia for creating this space for such great and insightful content. I’ve been waiting for the INTJ video for this type interview series.
Thank you Mike for being such an open book with your life story. I resonate well with a lot of what you said (also an INTJ, myself). Especially the key points (for me) of:
1. Consumption of alcohol for social settings and dependence, in a way.
2. Resilience and the overall notion that things did come a little bit easier in childhood, which led to an assumption that things will be just as easy in adulthood. Of course, life teaches us otherwise.
Thank you guys again.
Lolo from Australia ✌🏾
This interview with Mike is truly inspiring. Thank you for letting him do this one! I am an INTJ, just turned 26, and there have been a lot of life lessons I have learned that helped me quickly resonated with Mike so much. What I've been currently working on is needing to hone in some more spontaneity in some aspects of life that needed it. I do like to plan ahead and make sure every box is checked in a certain order to call any activity a productive success. Staying present and awake does help me to look out for opportunities to be quick to respond within work and relationships. It's a work in progress.
4.5 years sober and an intj... could not relate more.
Myself as an intj I totally get what he's saying with a need for alcohol to stimulate better open conversation. For me I feel like it helps open a barrier from mental to verbal even with people I'm totally close to and open with such as my wife who is an entp.
I can relate to this….for me it was smoking cigarettes. If I didn’t smoke I was sort of empty and numb not real long feeling like I needed to reach outside of myself for interactions-was content in this but when I smoked I instantly wanted to be social and interact with folks and was more open to it. Like an invisible barrier or wall came down with the addition of substances and I was more attuned or aware of others around me and socializing. I must come from a line of introverts because there is a lot of substance abuse in the family line….my dad sounds just like this guy in his explanation of why he drank
Thank you Mike, for sharing! Loved every minute! And thank you personality hacker. I discovered you and myself, an INFJ, when I was very sick with cancer. You helped me so much that I am now happier than I’ve ever been, living the life that makes me and my kids proud. Then I met the first male intj and I am happier than ever! We both love our alone time lol. I love you both like my own kids, whom I shared your program with. Keep it up. You are doing amazing work!
Deeply relatable. Thanks for sharing this.
Anyone have info about a connection between ptsd, adhd, autism and intj personality type? Prevalence of substance abuse among the type?
It’s really informative video
Wow I’m a INTJ and in 2018 I developed a sports team rating system for my sports betting. But I got distracted and stopped doing it. Maybe I should get back at it 🤔
I am
An intj and have a very public job. I’m super shy it’s a struggle. Are you going to share his habit sheet?
Typical INTJ owning the room and making the main interviewers the audience lol. Its astonishing how lonely we are with no friends despite our chatty inspiring personalities. Were a very intense voice though- I think people are terrified to contradict us. As they should lmao. I notice the most popular personalities are dumb passive types with outgoing chatty personalities. I wouldn't trade my complex mind for anything in the world including popularity. All the dumb ones can keep their minions!... oops. Too judgy? As intense and knowledgeable as our personalities can be (we talk with fact and conviction) we are also very curious people who aren't afraid to ask people for answers and input about subjects they haven't come to conclusions on. GIVE US A CHANCE!
The one a big chunk of the subscribers were waiting for. My guess
Trauma causes an INTJ to constantly act like an ESFP subconscious or ENTP unconscious.
Introverts often use alcohol as confidence.
He's the most non INTJ "INTJ" I listened to, my bestfriend is INTJ, and I watched some stereotypical INTJs on YT, some of them I suspect are ENTPs accessing their shadows. The social alcohol part and limiting belief about working in coworking vs at home sounded like NeFe for the first part, and Si for the latter. How he talked sounded very NeTi, Si to me. I understand the disclaimer Joel said in the beginning about non stereotypical, but I became sceptical about "INTJ"s because some of them (when they speak, which reveals their thought process) are not
He talks to much for an INTJ.
That's dumb what do you think intj? Stop relying on stereotypes.