- Let her drink or use a pacifier during take off and landing to minimize the pressure changes in the ears. Ear plugs will only muffle the engine noise. - Also let her drink regularly. The cabin air is mostly low in humidity. - Because of the high altitude and reduced atmospheric pressure, oxygen intake is a bit more difficult. Keep an eye on her breathing and (lip) color during flight and the first days after if you know she has/might have respiratory problems. - Some companies offer a special kind of baby seat/basket. Inform yourself well in advance. - Make sure you have as much stuff as you can for taking care of the baby during flight. Organise your carry on in a convenient way. Some medicine is always handy but inform yourself on what's allowed. Also, take into account any delay and bring enough food for her. Air plane food is always spiced or salted above average because the reduced air pressure has an effect on our taste buds. - Bring something to keep her busy. She might get bored rather quick. - Air planes can get cold so bring enough blankets or warm clothing for her on board. Safe trip!
anything you need on the plane in ONE bag, try not to take too much cause lugging it around the airport is the worst part! expressed milk in a bottle was great to have on board just in case she wont feed....
If you can get on the plane first it helps. Ask them. They usually let you if you say you’re super nervous . So don’t be afraid to tell them you’re very nervous, and it’s your first time flying with the baby. That is huge to get on the plane first. Next. Bring anything soothing for the baby. If they let you bring the baby’s seat and put it in the chair next to you. Flip the seat like you do in the car if you can. And download on a tablet any movies or music the baby listens to or watches. That’s how I traveled alone with my baby. Good luck. Be safe
It's all good! I know it feels extremely chaotic to be in your shoes right now but you are DOING IT! That's it! You got this! 🥰I hope you guys recover soon, it's so SO tough when everybody is sick. We are all sick too 😬 Good luck on the flight! As for suggestions, probably giving the baby whatever they need in the moment without any gilt. If you gotta go walk around to help her stop crying then do that. No eye contact with people you KNOW will not understand and lots of eye contact with people that seem kind and get how hard traveling is, they will shower you with smiles. Also every time we go on a flight I try to find other families with kids during boarding and if Mila likes them I often ask to sit closer to them, switch seats if someone agrees (doesn't hurt to ask) or go for "visits" during the flight, other parents will be happy to have company too!
Yes I love the daily vlog idea!! Thank you for all you create and share with us. Love seeing your strength through all the challenges of navigating parenthood
You’re such a wonderful mother!! Being a mother is the hardest, yet most rewarding job you’ll ever have and you are mastering it!! I hope Nick feels better soon❤
julia - i would watch anything no matter how short/long you come out with! i love watching your life and as someone who’s just embarked on her early 20s, it makes me so hopeful for the future! 💗
been watching for years and i’m so happy honor is healthy. you’ve inspired me to start my own channel and i’m sure many others 💓 i hope that you’re doing well and feel so much love as you’re going through new challenges behind the scenes.
You’re such a sweet mom. Traveled solo with my 7month old from London to Chicago and here are a few tips: - download an audiobook and pop her in the carrier. Walk her up and down the aisle and ignore anyone who gives you dirty looks! - if you’re in premium economy or above, put a blanket down on the floor by your feet and let her play with toys - get a travel blackout blind and see how you can set it up once she’s asleep in the travel bassinet - nurse, nurse, nurse if you can. I had to bottle feed - remember it will end. It’s a few hours and it’s hard but very temporary. Breeeeeathe
Mom of two here and I wanted to tell you that your doing great! Being a mom is stressful but being a first time mom is a different kind of stress. It’s okay to be stressed and overwhelmed, that’s all part of it and I know it’s a lot and even heavy at times but I truly say this with all honesty in my body… you really are doing amazing! I am praying for you to feel confident in this and praying for your transitions in life coming up. Hang in there, you’ve got this ❤
Motherhood can get really overwhelming at times Julia, but you are doing a great job mama 👍😁 Honor is beautiful, and she’s so lucky having a mom who can give her hand massages 😍😍 hope your trip is magical ❤❤❤
I love traveling with my daughter! Started when she was young. For a breastfeeding mama, nurse taking off and landing. It helps her ears so she doesn’t get uncomfortable. Bring tactile/sensory toys for her ie busy books, blankets, etc. Au had infant noise cancelling ear phones and we should tolerate them, they helped. You’ll do great! ❤ Sending lots of love to you, Nick and Honor!❤❤❤
Oh Julia, you are such an incredible mother, I just knew you would be. It truly warms my heart to see how much you love Honor, such a beautiful thing to get to see glimpses of. Love this video, congrats again on being the best mom on earth😍🙌🏼🌎
Love the way you speak and your annunciation 🍃 You're doing phenomenal. Any task, like doing dishes, cooking, laundry and taking a shower is 4x harder w a baby. We would love to see your vlogs ❤
It has been such a joy watching your parenting vlogs these last few months. We are living parallel lives right now- I'm a first time mom of a 6 month old in California and we just took our first flight "home" last week. I was so nervous but honestly it went great. My advice: wear baby in the airport and through security. You can gate check a stroller and car seat for free. Southwest let us bring the car seat on the plane because there were empty seats without even buying a ticket, which was incredible. Baby nursed twice and napped twice on the flight and played with toys in between. A vibrating soother toy came in clutch on the way home. We had one blowout 😂 Staff and passengers were all super nice. You got this!!
Life as a parent is about shifting priorities and learning to handle the chaos. There's a lot that comes at you and almost nobody is really prepared. So don't feel too insecure. I have three of those little devils and believe you me: every new child brings new worries. But to watch them growing up, being happy, coming to you when they need comforting, etc... The way that makes you feel can not be put into words. But they will wear you out, make no mistake 😅 enjoy your trip!
Lots of solo flights here! ✈️ Feeding or pacifier on takeoff and landing off her ears. Choose and aisle seat! Lots of airlines will let you take a collapsible pram all the way to the boarding gate. That way you can have your arms/body free before holding bub for a long time. Take minimal bags/carry on. Just the basics for yourself and then a few extra sets of clothes and nappies for bub. Even a smaller zip bag with nappies/wipes and a change of clothes within your bag that is easy to grab so you’re not rummaging through on the plane. A big jumper to roll up and put under your arm to be comfortable when they sleep. A favourite toy, and then maybe something new for her. And embrace the screen time! Also my bubs have loved watching videos and looking at photos of family on my phone. They also love watching themselves. So filming little 10 minute videos of you guys and things she knows before you go can give you a trick up your sleeve! Goodluck!
Lightweight strollers and travel items are great during travel and day to day too. Lightweight schedules makes everything seem easier and less burdensome. Wishing Nick a fast recovery. Enjoy the travelling.
I've been feeling terribly depressed for the last few months, but seeing you with your baby really cheered me up a bit. I would love to be a mom one day but atm I am stuck alone, being an all time single in my twenties and literally sitting at home all day, crying. But that little glimpse of hope that I might be able to hold my own baby in my arms one day (and my troubles being gone) cheers me up a bit rn :) Wishing you the best xx
Hi, I was depressed in my late teens early twenties...when you are in it things can feel hopeless but let me tell you life can turn around for the better quicker than you expect. I am a mom now at 27 and married and even though things are new kind of difficult this is so worth it. Hold on there if you can try to go outside and don't isolate yourself from people when things get hard reach out to close one or professional. Small steps count. Take care ❤. And btw being single is better than sharing your heart with somebody who will not take care of it. Sending love ❤.
I have kind of been where you are now, and now (after many turns) I have my little family. Everything is possible and wishing you all the best for the future 🌼
She is so unbelievably adorable!!! Makes me miss the time when mine were that age…but only a little, lol. You’re doing a great job - it’s a lot to manage - just get through one day at a time, and don’t worry too much about menial chores. Glad she’s feeling better - it’s so hard when they’re sick and can’t tell you what’s wrong ♥️
Normally I don't like vlogs, but this one's actually interesting to me. My dad died when I was five and my sister three years old and my mother never got someone new. For differing reasons my mom is(together with one of my cousins) the only family member I still have semi-regular contact with and I want to understand what she went through in all those years and I feel like this gave me a little glimpse in that direction. It is also beautiful to see how much you care for each other
Travel tips for baby: 1) Leave yourself WAY more time @ the airport than you think you're gonna need. 2) Try to nurse during takeoff & landing, to reduce likelihood of ear discomfort in your baby. 3) Screw fashion- dress you & baby as comfortably as possible. You got this, Mama! 💪💕
Yeah , I think the short candid videos during your travels would be fun and unique. I traveled alone with my first son to Colorado when he was about 6 months old. I was able to hold him "in lap carry" lol and all went well with some books with pictures , a favorite toy or 2 , singing little songs to him if he would start to cry , and surprisingly there were other passengers that started interacting with him to play and make him giggle. Just relax and be confident that if you are there the baby will feel safe . Have a great trip darling!
Notification gang! ❤️❤️ My twins (5 now) were crawling at 6 months and walking by 9 and 9.5 months. For travel, we made sure to bring the iPad, so they could watch whatever would keep them occupied, at whatever time, wherever I was; lots of baby wipes to clean up messes. My boys spit up more when not at home and not on their regular schedule and lots of wipes helped. The rubber bibs that have the pouch that collects food pieces if you're giving her any type of solids; a pacifier clip to keep the pacifier connected and off the floor; a folding travel baby changing mat, so you can pay her down to change her and the back of the mat is the outside of the case and the inside changing pad is soft and waterproof and can be wiped down. A couple favorite books, favorite blankie/stuffed animal; a couple small favorite quiet toys, breast pump and bottles because you can't always keep your nursing schedule or there isn't always a place or the space is being used. I'd say extra onesies, but if you're visiting family, you could do your laundry there, so you don't need to pack extra clothes. In fact, if you CAN do laundry, do it...I actually pack as little clothing as possible, but for a baby, that still includes extra potential outfits/pieces/onesies...but I do laundry almost daily, to keep everything clean and so I'm not bringing home extra chores. I'd love to see you try out a daily vlog...whatever you want to try, it's your channel... we're here for you (and Nick, Honor and kitties)! Also, you sound totally normal when you speak...whoever had to point that out, didn't have to point that out. Bring your baby carrier FOR SURE, diaper bag and a good cross body bag for you, if you don't keep your stuff in the diaper bag. Also, I'd recommend using disposable diapers while you're actually traveling to and from...I mean, its your choice and all, but it's just so much easier to throw everything away...my kids were overwhelmed with travel and the airport and not being on their schedule and in their space, so the shorter I could keep bathroom trips, with the lines and crowding, the happier they were and I was happy to get in and out and not have to deal with cloth diapers and the inners and liners. Love you and yes, I think the lasagna was like a month ago on Instagram! It's ok, we love you no matter what you share or don't share or how hectic your filming schedule is!
We worked overseas for several years and my son’s first flight was at 2 months. I had a packed diaper bag (minus things that had to be in a separate baggie) packed in the carryon. We took the diaper bag out in the plane and kept it at our feet. This way it was one less bag to deal with going through the airport and security. A friend gave me a wristlet diaper bag and that was a game changer on flights. Instead on dealing with an infant and the whole bag is just stick some diapers, cream, wipes, and the diaper trash bags in there. (Also a big freezer bag in case of leaks and I needed to take pjs off). This worked just great! Make sure to pack a ziplock bag for soiled clothes and extra clothes in the outside pocket of the carry on or diaper bag. It was about 50/50 if the kids were going to have a leaky diaper or spill food. Edit: also thin flannel blanket and a binder clip. We’d clip the flannel over the plane bassinet or baby carrier to help kiddo sleep but also stopped people from touching the baby.
When I first traveled with my daughter she was about Honor’s age. I remember teething items and various things for her to hold and put in her mouth were a life saver. I froze a bunch of tethers and kept in an insulated bag and they were still cold on the plane. I bought some new small sensory type toys so she could explore something new. The noises on the plane def helped her to sleep I think. When she got fussy we did some laps back and forth down the aisles and she loved seeing all the new faces. People are mostly friendly and helpful in my experience so hopefully you’ll have that same experience. Safe travels! Love the mini vlog idea, can’t wait ❤
Julia you are the cutest! Thank you so much for your candor in the end of the video. I can totally relate, being self conscious about the way one speaks is a hard one, as this feels so immediate and unfiltered...I've been struggling with it for a long time, in the end coming to the conclusion that - of course - I will never be "perfect" and might as well just try enjoy myself (easier than it sounds)...I didn't watch your videos for a long time now, because honestly, for a single woman with a desire to have children one day it was a bit hard for me, but now I'm in a much better place and really enjoyed seeing you and your sweet baby girl! All the best from Germany. Hugs!
Always look forward to you posting videos. So I say try the whole daily vlog thing if you can 😊 and your daughter is adorable ! My daughter is 3 months behind yours, and it amazes me how fast she’s learning and doing things earlier than she should be as well.
I was reading up on Melanie Martinez's new album and saw that Nick wrote parts of NYMPHOLOGY. This is such a good song! I'm so happy when Nick's name pops up when I look at my favorite songs' credits. Get well soon, Nick. Julia, you're doing so so good.
Nurse her during take off and landing. It will help her ears not to pop. Also when I flew with my son at 5 months I just held him and nursed him the entire flight from ok to nc. He did perfect.
For traveling - nurse, nurse, nurse, nurse & nurse haha.. especially takeoff and landing for her ears. The good news is, planes are loud and it helps lull them to sleep! Also, now that she’s six months, a new snack and a new toy are great options! We allowed my daughter to have yummy pouches for the trip and they were a HIT.
Your voice sounds fine to me! Glad everyone is feeling better. I’d like the small video blogs but more than anything I’m looking forward to more asmr:) I’m sure you’re rolling your eyes lol
I traveled with my 7 month old solo to the west coast for two months then back solo when she was 9 months and I was SO SCARED!! but it went great, you guys will do great. Bring your carrier and strap her in and bounce in the aisle the whole time if you have to that's what I did ◡̈ people will be nice and give you the aisle seat probably. she will probably be soooo curious about everything going on around her since it will be so new that she will be entertained.
Julia! I'd love to see daily vlogs for whatever period of time suits you. It'd be pretty cool seeing a short video of yours, since I always enjoy these longer chiller videos, but sometimes I can struggle with them a bit with my ADHD and being used to watching "faster" content (sometimes a bad habit). And also, I think your voice is soothing and real, it sometimes reminds me of my sister's, who I miss dearly (she lives far away from me). I've never really noticed the vocal fry (especially with your personality being so geniune and I know you wouldn't do it for like style or something), and I've noticed even less if you pronunce words oddly or something. I'm not a native speaker, you see, but basically all the content I watch is in english, and do notice some accents and stuff like that. But the way you speak has always seemed so nice to me. Anyways, I wish you so much luck and success, and I'll be watching your channel as usual!
You are doing so amazing! Great mommy. For flying, give Honor things so suck and "chew" on, like a big piece of beef jerky to help prevent ear pain and try to have her nurse on take off and landing. It's going to be ok, you will see. Enjoy your trip - hope you guys have a magical time. ❤
I don’t know what vocal fry is, but I have never noticed anything wrong with your voice. I love your voice in your vlogs and ASMR videos. It’s very relaxing! Do not be self conscious about your voice. No reason to be!!! ❤
I had 3 daughters and did a lot of plane travel. A little trick is to breast feed her when the plane takes off and when it’s descending as this is when cabin pressure changes and it will help with the pressure in her ears. (We yawn or chew gum). If she’ll wear little headphones that helps to block out sound ( or play soothing sounds). Happy Travels 🤗🤗💕
After having two I can promise you as wonderful and beautiful it is to have a child.. it also requires you to give up a lot of yourself for the child. Just food for thought, if you where to decide to pursue that.
I’ve traveled with my 15 month old at least 10 times since he was 4 weeks so I feel like I’m a pro 😅 My number one tip is to make sure you have a baby carrier! This will save you when getting on/off the flight as well as if she gets fussy during the flight you can just comfort & rock her to sleep by walking up/down the aisle. I normally hang out at the back where the flight attendants are & they are usually are so cool about it. My second tip would be to try to schedule your flight around her nap time but DO NOT try to keep her up if she’s tired because you never know what could happen on the flight to where she’s super upset and you can’t get up to rock her ie. delays It’s easier to entertain a happy baby versus angry & tired If you’re comfortable with giving a little Tylenol before the flight I started doing this when he was 6 months old to help with his ear pain. Hope that helps! 🫶🏻
I had my baby last October, and flew by myself with her in December. The hardest part for me was getting through TSA. They required me to take her out of her stroller/car seat at TSA which I didn't expect. I wish I would have had her in the carrier already (I have the same one as you) and been ready to walk through with the stroller empty. I didn't seem to have enough hands while carrying the baby in my arms through TSA, so carrier will be essential, and try to prep while waiting. Second tip, feed and more importantly change her right before boarding the plane. The changing table in the airplane bathroom is extremely small! Third tip, I did use have her in the carrier while boarding and getting off the plane, which was totally necessary. I checked the stroller at the gate and wore her on the plane which worked very well. You will need your hands getting on and off. Once I was in my seat and buckled in I unclipped the carrier and took her out, but left the carrier around my waist and in my lap. I'm glad I did this because if I had taken it off completely I wouldn't have been able to get it back on while holding her. I was able to easily put her back in to get off the plane. Finally, don't worry if she cries getting on and off the plane, or during the flight. The other passengers were actually very helpful and understanding. Being on the plane mid flight was the easy part. The before and after were the hard parts. Also be alert when people start opening the overhead bin above you if you're in an aisle seat. Things could fall on baby if they have shifted mid flight. Hope this helps! You can do it!
Girl if you pray hard to keep going you will make it be brave and take a break because the pressure is on KEEP GOING YOU WILL MAKE IT! love from Stella
1) I’VE MISSED YOUR VIDEOS! 2) I don’t really hear a vocal fry. For me, your voice is hella soothing. I enjoy it. Don’t let that person get to you or make you feel self conscious about the way you speak. I know I know… easier said than done. But trust me, you’re all Good! 3) YES PLEASE TO DAILY VLOG. Or just, more in general. I’ve always found your videos to be insightful and interesting. I learn about a variety of things through your posts and watching your videos, and the community that you’ve built throughout the years since your DIY to ASMR video says. 4) tips for traveling vlogging - take videos of the things that inspire you, make you feel joy, a moment of happiness. Speak about what you felt in that moment, or what you’d want yourself to remember, or what you’d want someone else to know about that moment/spot you’re visiting, etc.
Best tips I have for traveling by yourself with an infant. Definitely have a comfortable carrier to baby wear, bring a light weight stroller, bring teething toys, also NURSE your baby during take off and landing to help them pressurize their ears.
Lamb lasagna sounds amazing. My mom makes hers with ground Italian sausage and it's 💋👌. Glad you're all feeling better! Sick babies are just the worst.
The burp reminds me of my Marine (0311 aka grunt) friend getting his sister’s crying baby to pass gas and the giggles that ensued from everyone and him looking like “what? He needed to fart. So I helped him fart.” I hope Nick feels better soon!! ❤❤❤
Omg me and my baby brother had the same thing happened to us. This was about 2 months ago. A bug was going around so maybe that is it. A lot of people were getting sick because of it. Hope he gets better soon! Love your videos :)
One of the reasons I watch your videos is that I like your voice, I never noticed your vocal fry much even though I am very interested in phonetics and usually pay attention to pronunciation.
Flying with an infant… definitely take the baby wrap to carry her through airport!! Take a car seat cover and drop off at oversized luggage if you have a layover so you don’t have to carry around layover airport, they allow car seat/strollers for free! Definitely take a bottle for her to drink for takeoff and landing for ears and other than that anything to keep her entertained!
Missed you, Julia. Honor is so precious and has the cutest grin. Glad that Nick got over the crud that's going around. I'm fully vaccinated and I still wear a mask when I have to be in close proximity to others. Thankfully I've only had a cold in the last couple years. I have COPD and had to have a stent put in almost 3 years ago and I'm in my 60s so I'm still anxious about being around people. My life aside, lol, so glad you are doing great. I think your voice is fine but, like you I often don't get enough breath when I'm talking. I talk fast at times and since having copd of course I notice it more. Be conscious of your breath, you can take some breathing cession's online, it does help. As for more videos, I love them especially your ASMR vids so, yes I'd love to see more but you're also a mother now and you are busier now. Go at your own pace , Julia. Whatever feels good for you is fine, we will be here. Don't know how often you hear this but, You are Beautiful, you are Smart, you are Stronger than you know and You are Enough. 😁❤❤❤
I just traveled with my 10 month old two weeks ago and it went way better than I thought. Feed her or give her a pacifier during takeoff. It will will help with her ears popping. Give her a new snack or something she’s never had before. I used dog pee pads for disposable changing pads because airport bathrooms are nasty. You can put her in the stroller up until you get on the plane. You can check her car seat for free or bring it on the plane but you will have to buy a ticket for her. The airline you’re flying will have info too. Don’t hesitate to ask for help either. The flight attendants and customer service are there to help and they were great, for us at least. Flying with my son eased my anxiety about flying and it wasn’t so bad. Also, don’t worry about other people especially if she cries, it’s going to happen. You got this, mama!❤
Flight with babies: Lots of snacks, a few toys (get one or two new ones because that will occupy them longer). Disperse the snacks and toys throughout the flight. I would need a receiving blanket to drape over baby to get her to nap, otherwise she’d be looking all over and struggle to sleep. Soothers, bottles or nurse on landing (to ease ear pressure on descent). Good luck!
We would ❤ daily & travel vlogs! ....."these are the days of our lives that once over and when kids grow up, we miss them so much, the good and the bad days. Embrace them I so miss baby phase and they grow up so fast. Enjoy ! Feel better Nick! Honor is so sweet and your voice is fine;) we love it! Lol
The most important thing when traveling is your own serenity and calm. That rubs off on your child. It looks like the teething is starting now. This is painful for the baby. It is whiny and sometimes there is fever and diarrhea. Stay relaxed even when it's tough. Rescue remedies help me without alcohol. Look on the internet. Maybe you can order them. Take fever suppositories and teething gel. It also helps chewing on hard bread and cucumber cools and vegetables what she likes. Otherwise play a lot and distraction. Have a nice flight and vacation 🥰 All the best 💕
Best tips for flying/traveling with an infant???? Leave them all below, please ⬇⬇⬇and thank you!!
- Let her drink or use a pacifier during take off and landing to minimize the pressure changes in the ears. Ear plugs will only muffle the engine noise.
- Also let her drink regularly. The cabin air is mostly low in humidity.
- Because of the high altitude and reduced atmospheric pressure, oxygen intake is a bit more difficult. Keep an eye on her breathing and (lip) color during flight and the first days after if you know she has/might have respiratory problems.
- Some companies offer a special kind of baby seat/basket. Inform yourself well in advance.
- Make sure you have as much stuff as you can for taking care of the baby during flight. Organise your carry on in a convenient way. Some medicine is always handy but inform yourself on what's allowed. Also, take into account any delay and bring enough food for her. Air plane food is always spiced or salted above average because the reduced air pressure has an effect on our taste buds.
- Bring something to keep her busy. She might get bored rather quick.
- Air planes can get cold so bring enough blankets or warm clothing for her on board.
Safe trip!
@@febapriljuly this is all great advice, thank you so much!!’
@@febapriljulyyes! All of that!
anything you need on the plane in ONE bag, try not to take too much cause lugging it around the airport is the worst part! expressed milk in a bottle was great to have on board just in case she wont feed....
If you can get on the plane first it helps. Ask them. They usually let you if you say you’re super nervous . So don’t be afraid to tell them you’re very nervous, and it’s your first time flying with the baby. That is huge to get on the plane first. Next. Bring anything soothing for the baby. If they let you bring the baby’s seat and put it in the chair next to you. Flip the seat like you do in the car if you can. And download on a tablet any movies or music the baby listens to or watches. That’s how I traveled alone with my baby. Good luck. Be safe
What is this caption girl I thought y’all split up💀
It's all good! I know it feels extremely chaotic to be in your shoes right now but you are DOING IT! That's it! You got this! 🥰I hope you guys recover soon, it's so SO tough when everybody is sick. We are all sick too 😬
Good luck on the flight! As for suggestions, probably giving the baby whatever they need in the moment without any gilt. If you gotta go walk around to help her stop crying then do that. No eye contact with people you KNOW will not understand and lots of eye contact with people that seem kind and get how hard traveling is, they will shower you with smiles. Also every time we go on a flight I try to find other families with kids during boarding and if Mila likes them I often ask to sit closer to them, switch seats if someone agrees (doesn't hurt to ask) or go for "visits" during the flight, other parents will be happy to have company too!
Aw this is so sweet❤
Honor is so beautiful! Motherhood looks great on you Julia! I’ve been watching you since 2019 and it’s nice to see how far you’ve come.
Yes I love the daily vlog idea!! Thank you for all you create and share with us. Love seeing your strength through all the challenges of navigating parenthood
Hi Julia! You’re doing a great job momma. Love watching you and Nick as parents considering I’ve followed you since way way back. Sending you love. 🤍
You’re such a wonderful mother!! Being a mother is the hardest, yet most rewarding job you’ll ever have and you are mastering it!! I hope Nick feels better soon❤
julia - i would watch anything no matter how short/long you come out with! i love watching your life and as someone who’s just embarked on her early 20s, it makes me so hopeful for the future! 💗
been watching for years and i’m so happy honor is healthy. you’ve inspired me to start my own channel and i’m sure many others 💓 i hope that you’re doing well and feel so much love as you’re going through new challenges behind the scenes.
OMG! Honor is so precious 😩 sweetness overload!!! and you are a fantastic mother!
You’re such a sweet mom. Traveled solo with my 7month old from London to Chicago and here are a few tips:
- download an audiobook and pop her in the carrier. Walk her up and down the aisle and ignore anyone who gives you dirty looks!
- if you’re in premium economy or above, put a blanket down on the floor by your feet and let her play with toys
- get a travel blackout blind and see how you can set it up once she’s asleep in the travel bassinet
- nurse, nurse, nurse if you can. I had to bottle feed
- remember it will end. It’s a few hours and it’s hard but very temporary. Breeeeeathe
What a blessing!! She’s so beautiful.
I can see how patient you are, you’re doing an amazing job ❤
Mom of two here and I wanted to tell you that your doing great! Being a mom is stressful but being a first time mom is a different kind of stress. It’s okay to be stressed and overwhelmed, that’s all part of it and I know it’s a lot and even heavy at times but I truly say this with all honesty in my body… you really are doing amazing! I am praying for you to feel confident in this and praying for your transitions in life coming up. Hang in there, you’ve got this ❤
Missed you mama blitz!
Motherhood can get really overwhelming at times Julia, but you are doing a great job mama 👍😁 Honor is beautiful, and she’s so lucky having a mom who can give her hand massages 😍😍 hope your trip is magical ❤❤❤
All of your videos make me so happy!! it just brings me so much joy watching you be an amazing mom ❤
I love traveling with my daughter! Started when she was young. For a breastfeeding mama, nurse taking off and landing. It helps her ears so she doesn’t get uncomfortable. Bring tactile/sensory toys for her ie busy books, blankets, etc. Au had infant noise cancelling ear phones and we should tolerate them, they helped. You’ll do great! ❤
Sending lots of love to you, Nick and Honor!❤❤❤
Oh Julia, you are such an incredible mother, I just knew you would be. It truly warms my heart to see how much you love Honor, such a beautiful thing to get to see glimpses of. Love this video, congrats again on being the best mom on earth😍🙌🏼🌎
Love the way you speak and your annunciation 🍃
You're doing phenomenal. Any task, like doing dishes, cooking, laundry and taking a shower is 4x harder w a baby.
We would love to see your vlogs ❤
Mom of 4 here, just wanted you to hear that you're doing such a great job!!
love baby smiles. honestly one of the best sights ever.
Honor is a sweetheart! Such beautiful eyes and smile. I hope that Nick feels better very soon. 😊 you are doing a great job, Julia
It has been such a joy watching your parenting vlogs these last few months. We are living parallel lives right now- I'm a first time mom of a 6 month old in California and we just took our first flight "home" last week. I was so nervous but honestly it went great.
My advice: wear baby in the airport and through security. You can gate check a stroller and car seat for free. Southwest let us bring the car seat on the plane because there were empty seats without even buying a ticket, which was incredible. Baby nursed twice and napped twice on the flight and played with toys in between. A vibrating soother toy came in clutch on the way home. We had one blowout 😂 Staff and passengers were all super nice. You got this!!
Life as a parent is about shifting priorities and learning to handle the chaos. There's a lot that comes at you and almost nobody is really prepared. So don't feel too insecure. I have three of those little devils and believe you me: every new child brings new worries. But to watch them growing up, being happy, coming to you when they need comforting, etc... The way that makes you feel can not be put into words. But they will wear you out, make no mistake 😅 enjoy your trip!
Lots of solo flights here! ✈️ Feeding or pacifier on takeoff and landing off her ears. Choose and aisle seat! Lots of airlines will let you take a collapsible pram all the way to the boarding gate. That way you can have your arms/body free before holding bub for a long time. Take minimal bags/carry on. Just the basics for yourself and then a few extra sets of clothes and nappies for bub. Even a smaller zip bag with nappies/wipes and a change of clothes within your bag that is easy to grab so you’re not rummaging through on the plane. A big jumper to roll up and put under your arm to be comfortable when they sleep. A favourite toy, and then maybe something new for her. And embrace the screen time! Also my bubs have loved watching videos and looking at photos of family on my phone. They also love watching themselves. So filming little 10 minute videos of you guys and things she knows before you go can give you a trick up your sleeve! Goodluck!
She’s sooo adorable, I’m glad she’s feeling better!
Lightweight strollers and travel items are great during travel and day to day too. Lightweight schedules makes everything seem easier and less burdensome. Wishing Nick a fast recovery. Enjoy the travelling.
You are so dedicated Julia. Well done. And Honor is so lovely ❤
Sending you and your family so much love. Thank you for sharing even the hard parts of life with us 🤍
I've been feeling terribly depressed for the last few months, but seeing you with your baby really cheered me up a bit. I would love to be a mom one day but atm I am stuck alone, being an all time single in my twenties and literally sitting at home all day, crying. But that little glimpse of hope that I might be able to hold my own baby in my arms one day (and my troubles being gone) cheers me up a bit rn :)
Wishing you the best xx
Hi, I was depressed in my late teens early twenties...when you are in it things can feel hopeless but let me tell you life can turn around for the better quicker than you expect. I am a mom now at 27 and married and even though things are new kind of difficult this is so worth it.
Hold on there if you can try to go outside and don't isolate yourself from people when things get hard reach out to close one or professional. Small steps count. Take care ❤.
And btw being single is better than sharing your heart with somebody who will not take care of it.
Sending love ❤.
I have kind of been where you are now, and now (after many turns) I have my little family. Everything is possible and wishing you all the best for the future 🌼
@@daisysofie thank you for your kind words :) I am happy you got out of it! Wishing you and your family all the best 💕
She is so unbelievably adorable!!! Makes me miss the time when mine were that age…but only a little, lol. You’re doing a great job - it’s a lot to manage - just get through one day at a time, and don’t worry too much about menial chores. Glad she’s feeling better - it’s so hard when they’re sick and can’t tell you what’s wrong ♥️
Normally I don't like vlogs, but this one's actually interesting to me. My dad died when I was five and my sister three years old and my mother never got someone new. For differing reasons my mom is(together with one of my cousins) the only family member I still have semi-regular contact with and I want to understand what she went through in all those years and I feel like this gave me a little glimpse in that direction. It is also beautiful to see how much you care for each other
Travel tips for baby: 1) Leave yourself WAY more time @ the airport than you think you're gonna need. 2) Try to nurse during takeoff & landing, to reduce likelihood of ear discomfort in your baby. 3) Screw fashion- dress you & baby as comfortably as possible. You got this, Mama! 💪💕
Yeah , I think the short candid videos during your travels would be fun and unique.
I traveled alone with my first son to Colorado when he was about 6 months old. I was able to hold him "in lap carry" lol and all went well with some books with pictures , a favorite toy or 2 , singing little songs to him if he would start to cry , and surprisingly there were other passengers that started interacting with him to play and make him giggle. Just relax and be confident that if you are there the baby will feel safe . Have a great trip darling!
I find your voice incredible pleasing and soothing to listen to!
Notification gang! ❤️❤️ My twins (5 now) were crawling at 6 months and walking by 9 and 9.5 months. For travel, we made sure to bring the iPad, so they could watch whatever would keep them occupied, at whatever time, wherever I was; lots of baby wipes to clean up messes. My boys spit up more when not at home and not on their regular schedule and lots of wipes helped. The rubber bibs that have the pouch that collects food pieces if you're giving her any type of solids; a pacifier clip to keep the pacifier connected and off the floor; a folding travel baby changing mat, so you can pay her down to change her and the back of the mat is the outside of the case and the inside changing pad is soft and waterproof and can be wiped down. A couple favorite books, favorite blankie/stuffed animal; a couple small favorite quiet toys, breast pump and bottles because you can't always keep your nursing schedule or there isn't always a place or the space is being used. I'd say extra onesies, but if you're visiting family, you could do your laundry there, so you don't need to pack extra clothes. In fact, if you CAN do laundry, do it...I actually pack as little clothing as possible, but for a baby, that still includes extra potential outfits/pieces/onesies...but I do laundry almost daily, to keep everything clean and so I'm not bringing home extra chores. I'd love to see you try out a daily vlog...whatever you want to try, it's your channel... we're here for you (and Nick, Honor and kitties)! Also, you sound totally normal when you speak...whoever had to point that out, didn't have to point that out. Bring your baby carrier FOR SURE, diaper bag and a good cross body bag for you, if you don't keep your stuff in the diaper bag. Also, I'd recommend using disposable diapers while you're actually traveling to and from...I mean, its your choice and all, but it's just so much easier to throw everything away...my kids were overwhelmed with travel and the airport and not being on their schedule and in their space, so the shorter I could keep bathroom trips, with the lines and crowding, the happier they were and I was happy to get in and out and not have to deal with cloth diapers and the inners and liners. Love you and yes, I think the lasagna was like a month ago on Instagram! It's ok, we love you no matter what you share or don't share or how hectic your filming schedule is!
We worked overseas for several years and my son’s first flight was at 2 months. I had a packed diaper bag (minus things that had to be in a separate baggie) packed in the carryon. We took the diaper bag out in the plane and kept it at our feet. This way it was one less bag to deal with going through the airport and security. A friend gave me a wristlet diaper bag and that was a game changer on flights. Instead on dealing with an infant and the whole bag is just stick some diapers, cream, wipes, and the diaper trash bags in there. (Also a big freezer bag in case of leaks and I needed to take pjs off). This worked just great! Make sure to pack a ziplock bag for soiled clothes and extra clothes in the outside pocket of the carry on or diaper bag. It was about 50/50 if the kids were going to have a leaky diaper or spill food.
Edit: also thin flannel blanket and a binder clip. We’d clip the flannel over the plane bassinet or baby carrier to help kiddo sleep but also stopped people from touching the baby.
Your doing great momma!! Sending all the positive vibes your way ❤
Perfect mixture of you two! What a cutie!❤
You have a wonderful, calming voice - I really enjoy how you speak!
When I first traveled with my daughter she was about Honor’s age. I remember teething items and various things for her to hold and put in her mouth were a life saver. I froze a bunch of tethers and kept in an insulated bag and they were still cold on the plane. I bought some new small sensory type toys so she could explore something new. The noises on the plane def helped her to sleep I think. When she got fussy we did some laps back and forth down the aisles and she loved seeing all the new faces. People are mostly friendly and helpful in my experience so hopefully you’ll have that same experience. Safe travels! Love the mini vlog idea, can’t wait ❤
She is so adorable ! You are such a good mom 🥰🥰
I completely understand this video so much 😢 a mom to a 4 month old and it’s been so hard since I just started working again
Julia you are the cutest! Thank you so much for your candor in the end of the video. I can totally relate, being self conscious about the way one speaks is a hard one, as this feels so immediate and unfiltered...I've been struggling with it for a long time, in the end coming to the conclusion that - of course - I will never be "perfect" and might as well just try enjoy myself (easier than it sounds)...I didn't watch your videos for a long time now, because honestly, for a single woman with a desire to have children one day it was a bit hard for me, but now I'm in a much better place and really enjoyed seeing you and your sweet baby girl! All the best from Germany. Hugs!
Always look forward to you posting videos. So I say try the whole daily vlog thing if you can 😊 and your daughter is adorable ! My daughter is 3 months behind yours, and it amazes me how fast she’s learning and doing things earlier than she should be as well.
You’re such an amazing mom. Honor is absolutely beautiful she is such a pretty little baby girl ❤️
I was reading up on Melanie Martinez's new album and saw that Nick wrote parts of NYMPHOLOGY. This is such a good song! I'm so happy when Nick's name pops up when I look at my favorite songs' credits. Get well soon, Nick. Julia, you're doing so so good.
Nurse her during take off and landing. It will help her ears not to pop. Also when I flew with my son at 5 months I just held him and nursed him the entire flight from ok to nc. He did perfect.
Omg she is beautiful! Watching you with her makes me smile, sending love and support
For traveling - nurse, nurse, nurse, nurse & nurse haha.. especially takeoff and landing for her ears. The good news is, planes are loud and it helps lull them to sleep!
Also, now that she’s six months, a new snack and a new toy are great options! We allowed my daughter to have yummy pouches for the trip and they were a HIT.
Your voice sounds fine to me! Glad everyone is feeling better. I’d like the small video blogs but more than anything I’m looking forward to more asmr:) I’m sure you’re rolling your eyes lol
Juilia you're such a great mom. I knew you would be. It is hard but you got this.
❤thabk u
I'm proud of you. You are doing it. And I need to be on your diet STAT! :) Thanks for sharing your life with us, Julia! Your baby is adorable.
" Are you telling me about your day?"....love it!!
I traveled with my 7 month old solo to the west coast for two months then back solo when she was 9 months and I was SO SCARED!! but it went great, you guys will do great. Bring your carrier and strap her in and bounce in the aisle the whole time if you have to that's what I did ◡̈ people will be nice and give you the aisle seat probably. she will probably be soooo curious about everything going on around her since it will be so new that she will be entertained.
i hope yall had a great trip!!
Julia! I'd love to see daily vlogs for whatever period of time suits you. It'd be pretty cool seeing a short video of yours, since I always enjoy these longer chiller videos, but sometimes I can struggle with them a bit with my ADHD and being used to watching "faster" content (sometimes a bad habit). And also, I think your voice is soothing and real, it sometimes reminds me of my sister's, who I miss dearly (she lives far away from me).
I've never really noticed the vocal fry (especially with your personality being so geniune and I know you wouldn't do it for like style or something), and I've noticed even less if you pronunce words oddly or something. I'm not a native speaker, you see, but basically all the content I watch is in english, and do notice some accents and stuff like that. But the way you speak has always seemed so nice to me.
Anyways, I wish you so much luck and success, and I'll be watching your channel as usual!
this makes me broody and i have no business feeling that way. i love how much you are enjoying her and this time. xxx
Lovely to see you Julia and Honor. I’d be happy to have daily vlogs from you, your voice is beautiful and calming ❤
You are doing so amazing! Great mommy. For flying, give Honor things so suck and "chew" on, like a big piece of beef jerky to help prevent ear pain and try to have her nurse on take off and landing. It's going to be ok, you will see. Enjoy your trip - hope you guys have a magical time. ❤
I missed you guys ❤ so glad the routine is still going strong 💪🏽
You are a lovely woman and mom! Thank you for sharing your experience 😊
Julia!!! I love these vlogs. I have an 11 month old ❤ from one mom to the next you are rocking it and doing a great job.
I love your voice! So calming.
You are really eloquent, I've always loved your English 🥺❤️
I don’t know what vocal fry is, but I have never noticed anything wrong with your voice. I love your voice in your vlogs and ASMR videos. It’s very relaxing! Do not be self conscious about your voice. No reason to be!!! ❤
How your speak is fine! So many of us love your voice and your pronunciation!! ❤
I was feeling so downtrodden today and I saw you in my feed instant wholesome vibes serotonin revitalized ❤️... sending positive energy back to u❤️
Hope that nick get better soon 😮 sending love form north africa ❤
i would loveee to watch a daily vlog! they’re so soothing and fun to watch
I had 3 daughters and did a lot of plane travel. A little trick is to breast feed her when the plane takes off and when it’s descending as this is when cabin pressure changes and it will help with the pressure in her ears. (We yawn or chew gum). If she’ll wear little headphones that helps to block out sound ( or play soothing sounds). Happy Travels 🤗🤗💕
I have no business wanting a baby at my age (19) but watching your vlogs always gives me that urge ahah. I hope Nick has a quick recovery 💕💕
😆😆😆 well hey, something to look forward to if/when you decide to take that path in the future! Thank you so much! 💕❤️
it'll pass, i promise
After having two I can promise you as wonderful and beautiful it is to have a child.. it also requires you to give up a lot of yourself for the child. Just food for thought, if you where to decide to pursue that.
Honor is adorable! Baby chaos is the best chaos ❤ Get well soon Nick!
Yes to vlog idea! I always thought you had a relaxing voice. & safe travels to you and Honor!
I’ve traveled with my 15 month old at least 10 times since he was 4 weeks so I feel like I’m a pro 😅
My number one tip is to make sure you have a baby carrier! This will save you when getting on/off the flight as well as if she gets fussy during the flight you can just comfort & rock her to sleep by walking up/down the aisle. I normally hang out at the back where the flight attendants are & they are usually are so cool about it.
My second tip would be to try to schedule your flight around her nap time but DO NOT try to keep her up if she’s tired because you never know what could happen on the flight to where she’s super upset and you can’t get up to rock her ie. delays
It’s easier to entertain a happy baby versus angry & tired
If you’re comfortable with giving a little Tylenol before the flight I started doing this when he was 6 months old to help with his ear pain.
Hope that helps! 🫶🏻
A daily vlog would be great!! I love how your content has evolved over the years 💛
I had my baby last October, and flew by myself with her in December. The hardest part for me was getting through TSA. They required me to take her out of her stroller/car seat at TSA which I didn't expect. I wish I would have had her in the carrier already (I have the same one as you) and been ready to walk through with the stroller empty. I didn't seem to have enough hands while carrying the baby in my arms through TSA, so carrier will be essential, and try to prep while waiting. Second tip, feed and more importantly change her right before boarding the plane. The changing table in the airplane bathroom is extremely small! Third tip, I did use have her in the carrier while boarding and getting off the plane, which was totally necessary. I checked the stroller at the gate and wore her on the plane which worked very well. You will need your hands getting on and off. Once I was in my seat and buckled in I unclipped the carrier and took her out, but left the carrier around my waist and in my lap. I'm glad I did this because if I had taken it off completely I wouldn't have been able to get it back on while holding her. I was able to easily put her back in to get off the plane. Finally, don't worry if she cries getting on and off the plane, or during the flight. The other passengers were actually very helpful and understanding. Being on the plane mid flight was the easy part. The before and after were the hard parts. Also be alert when people start opening the overhead bin above you if you're in an aisle seat. Things could fall on baby if they have shifted mid flight. Hope this helps! You can do it!
Girl if you pray hard to keep going you will make it be brave and take a break because the pressure is on KEEP GOING YOU WILL MAKE IT! love from Stella
This video is so real and you're doing amazing! ❤
1) I’VE MISSED YOUR VIDEOS!
2) I don’t really hear a vocal fry. For me, your voice is hella soothing. I enjoy it. Don’t let that person get to you or make you feel self conscious about the way you speak. I know I know… easier said than done. But trust me, you’re all
Good!
3) YES PLEASE TO DAILY VLOG. Or just, more in general. I’ve always found your videos to be insightful and interesting. I learn about a variety of things through your posts and watching your videos, and the community that you’ve built throughout the years since your DIY to ASMR video says.
4) tips for traveling vlogging - take videos of the things that inspire you, make you feel joy, a moment of happiness. Speak about what you felt in that moment, or what you’d want yourself to remember, or what you’d want someone else to know about that moment/spot you’re visiting, etc.
Gosh I cant believe it's been 6 months already. That Honor is 6 months old!
Love watching you be a mom Julia🩷 so sweet
“But it’s probably good for you…alright bye” you delivering food to Nick 😂
😂😂Sometimes I also tell him this so he will eat leftovers I don't want to eat....usually works 😇
Baby looks wonderful. Hope you all are well. Happy Easter or Passover 🎉😊
Best tips I have for traveling by yourself with an infant. Definitely have a comfortable carrier to baby wear, bring a light weight stroller, bring teething toys, also NURSE your baby during take off and landing to help them pressurize their ears.
A beautiful thing. Nice to see your instincts are spot on.
Lamb lasagna sounds amazing. My mom makes hers with ground Italian sausage and it's 💋👌. Glad you're all feeling better! Sick babies are just the worst.
The burp reminds me of my Marine (0311 aka grunt) friend getting his sister’s crying baby to pass gas and the giggles that ensued from everyone and him looking like “what? He needed to fart. So I helped him fart.”
I hope Nick feels better soon!! ❤❤❤
Omg me and my baby brother had the same thing happened to us. This was about 2 months ago. A bug was going around so maybe that is it. A lot of people were getting sick because of it. Hope he gets better soon! Love your videos :)
One of the reasons I watch your videos is that I like your voice, I never noticed your vocal fry much even though I am very interested in phonetics and usually pay attention to pronunciation.
Flying with an infant… definitely take the baby wrap to carry her through airport!! Take a car seat cover and drop off at oversized luggage if you have a layover so you don’t have to carry around layover airport, they allow car seat/strollers for free! Definitely take a bottle for her to drink for takeoff and landing for ears and other than that anything to keep her entertained!
When I watch your videos I feel comfortable and happy 🥳🎊♥️ I wish to see you always and wish you a happy life my best friend🫂🍡❤️🥰😍😘🍭🌸💖💕🧁.
Missed you, Julia. Honor is so precious and has the cutest grin. Glad that Nick got over the crud that's going around. I'm fully vaccinated and I still wear a mask when I have to be in close proximity to others. Thankfully I've only had a cold in the last couple years. I have COPD and had to have a stent put in almost 3 years ago and I'm in my 60s so I'm still anxious about being around people. My life aside, lol, so glad you are doing great. I think your voice is fine but, like you I often don't get enough breath when I'm talking. I talk fast at times and since having copd of course I notice it more. Be conscious of your breath, you can take some breathing cession's online, it does help.
As for more videos, I love them especially your ASMR vids so, yes I'd love to see more but you're also a mother now and you are busier now. Go at your own pace , Julia. Whatever feels good for you is fine, we will be here.
Don't know how often you hear this but, You are Beautiful, you are Smart, you are Stronger than you know and You are Enough. 😁❤❤❤
The" alright bye "had me on the floor like your leaving the whole house lol
OMG I'm so happy to see you again, the baby's adorable
I just traveled with my 10 month old two weeks ago and it went way better than I thought. Feed her or give her a pacifier during takeoff. It will will help with her ears popping. Give her a new snack or something she’s never had before. I used dog pee pads for disposable changing pads because airport bathrooms are nasty. You can put her in the stroller up until you get on the plane. You can check her car seat for free or bring it on the plane but you will have to buy a ticket for her. The airline you’re flying will have info too. Don’t hesitate to ask for help either. The flight attendants and customer service are there to help and they were great, for us at least. Flying with my son eased my anxiety about flying and it wasn’t so bad. Also, don’t worry about other people especially if she cries, it’s going to happen. You got this, mama!❤
Flight with babies:
Lots of snacks, a few toys (get one or two new ones because that will occupy them longer). Disperse the snacks and toys throughout the flight. I would need a receiving blanket to drape over baby to get her to nap, otherwise she’d be looking all over and struggle to sleep. Soothers, bottles or nurse on landing (to ease ear pressure on descent). Good luck!
We would ❤ daily & travel vlogs!
....."these are the days of our lives that once over and when kids grow up, we miss them so much, the good and the bad days. Embrace them I so miss baby phase and they grow up so fast. Enjoy ! Feel better Nick! Honor is so sweet and your voice is fine;) we love it! Lol
The most important thing when traveling is your own serenity and calm. That rubs off on your child. It looks like the teething is starting now. This is painful for the baby. It is whiny and sometimes there is fever and diarrhea. Stay relaxed even when it's tough. Rescue remedies help me without alcohol. Look on the internet. Maybe you can order them.
Take fever suppositories and teething gel.
It also helps chewing on hard bread and cucumber cools and vegetables what she likes. Otherwise play a lot and distraction. Have a nice flight and vacation 🥰 All the best 💕
Lovely vlog, Honor is sooooo sooo cute can't get over it !
Thank you ^_^ 💕💕💕