Her mom's excuses are sickening. Sexually abusing your child isn't enough to leave, but him throwing a remote at your face was the final straw?! I hate that kids have to deal with situations like this smh. I pray for this young lady's healing and peace.
@johncena04101 Right. To a certain extent, I was being understanding (with the showering together). I understand people go through their own trauma too that results in them making certain excuses and whatnot, but come on. All this happened and she was only 10/11. God I wish children were more protected.
Literally was just about to comment this I hope she cuts this pathetic person out of her life I think the only reason she doesn't she probably feels like she has no one
Gracie is unbelievably articulate and self-reflective. Check out the way she holds her composure - and that reading at the beginning shows some real insight. Shes an inspiration, honestly. I wish her the best and all the best in the world. Blessings from VA
Yes, that was Powerful!!.. I think she's really heading toward Happiness!-- She's really been working through her feelings & memories to a brighter day!- Just wish she would expand any Christian roots in that regard!!- :)
"He threw a remote at her head and that's what finally made her leave" Heart breaking. I'm so sorry no one protected you the way they should have. I hope you continue to heal x
It's mind boggling how she was able to go through all that trauma and not be on heavy drugs. I listen to these true childhood nightmares and think damn compared to them my childhood was easy street. Nobody should have to endure all this kind of pain and chaos. I'm so proud of her for being so strong and resilient. She's also very smart, intellectual and articulate.
I agree. My psychologist said that to me many years ago. He was surprised I wasn't addicted to anything, booze or drugs due to my childhood. I still don't really understand that statement ten years later...
As someone that went through a lot of childhood trauma, I too never turned to drugs and it's because I loved and still love myself way too much to ever hurt myself more than I've already been hurt. I just couldn't forgive myself for hurting myself after already going through it for decades. Doing drugs would've only given me problems and more trauma so no thanks.
Prayers for this young lady. She is bright enough and smart enough to live a better life. I believe that this may be the first time in her life that she has been able to open up and talk about her life and the trauma she experienced and suffered. I wish her much success and happiness
Gracie you can speak three hours and I would listen to every word you have to say. Thank you for sharing your story. My jaw dropped at your only being 22. I wish you every success in your life! The best is yet to come.
Throughout this interview I couldn’t help but think how relieved she must feel to say all these things out loud. Being so young and knowing you’re being treated badly must’ve made her feel so unheard and trapped. Thank you mark for giving these people an outlet to tell their story, we’re all listening!!
How the heck do people get through stuff like this - so much violation on so many levels - and not turn into raving lunatics, addicts, abusers, etc. I have had an easy line compared to this woman and am still all messed up over things that happened in the past. This is very inspiring.
I believe in these processes very much, but wonder how much brain anatomy - something you’re just born with - can play a part in being able to live with this.
I didn’t hear any intense therapy here? I didn’t hear any type of professional treatment or diagnoses? All I heard are a lot of mixed messages. Someone who is still pretty lost… listen closely…
This video broke my heart. 💔 As a victim of childhood trauma myself, her story hit home deep. She is so strong to be able to share her story. I am impressed with her amazing ability to articulate her inner reflections into words. She is a beautiful soul and I will definitely pray to God for her healing and continued personal growth. 🙏🏼 I LOVE THIS VIDEO! ❤
I’m just blown away! A smartie, avid reader and just a sweet and strong Soul! Thank you for sharing this story, it’s just sickening to listen to. Be safe and well always, little one. You are in my prayers, brave one!
What an amazing young lady. So in tune with her feelings. So emotionally intelligent and so courageous for powering through to a place where she can find forgiveness.
True! 🤔Her mother was just as traumatized as Gracie. Her mother sounds like a covert narcissist. They are unable to take any blame or accountability because being in denial protects her false self image from shame. 😞
@@robm8067 you hit this spot on 💯 these parents are the worst smh...I wish all the best for her because she is such a strong young lady ❤ after all she went thru
WOW when Gracie said she’s 22 i couldn’t believe it 😳,in the sense of everything she’s been through and come through is equatable to a 40 year old for me,such a beautiful (inward and outward) young woman and i wish you well on your journey through life,thanks for sharing 🙂.
Wow. Just wow. I am simultaneously so sorry to hear her story and so honored that she shared this with the world. She is so well spoken and amazingly aware and well thought out. Very inspiring and thought provoking. Wishing her and all survivors peace and healing.
You did great Gracie! You are such an inspiration....At 22 years old you have come farther in your trauma than I have in over 3 decades. Keep shining girl...
Thanks. I needed that. I am a survivor of family abuse and have been in treatment counseling for a month now. I can identify with the pain. We are the ones who see life for what it's worth despite our broken lives. Thanks for the inspiration.
I am utterly amazed by her existence. Going through such trauma and being so self-aware, making the right choices for her future is so impressive. RESPECT.
Gracie, you are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish I could give you a big hug. What happened to you, in your childhood, was not your fault and it should have never happened to you. It is amazing that you are not letting it define you.
I know that all this wisdom came from the mouth of a very badly abused 22 year old because I watched this...but it "felt" like the words of a much much older person. Gracie has somehow squirmed her way through life-long abuse and misery and come up for air with knowledge we could all learn so much from! At the age of 22!! She Must become a teacher! It's her calling! She's amazing!
Throughout all of the bad there is good!! What an incredible interview. Gracie is so well spoken and so very self aware. I hope you have her back for a follow up. Such a tragic childhood with all of the sexual abuse :( I wish her all the best for a very bright future ahead!
I never cease to be impressed by many of the people on this channel but Gracie is beyond impressive. At only 22yo she has experienced horrific things but has definitely put in the work to overcome the trauma. I have always been interested in Buddhism and meditation and definitely think it’s a very helpful practice. Gracie you are beautiful inside and out and I wish you the most amazing future!
There are so many people in my family that need to hear what that book said. Love is the best perspective. Thanks for the eye opening interview. I wish the best for you Gracie. And thank you so much Mark for taking the time to do all that you do. Big hugs from Oregon! 🐿
The human spirit is resilient. In order to survive, and or thrive, most people compartmentalize to carry on. Thank you, Gracie, you have gone beyond managing your past traumas by facing them and sharing with us all❤️ Some people, like myself, crave honest conversations, but bec of shame (other factors) they can be hard to come by. Than you, Mark🙏
Gracie, thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a smart woman and I want you to know that none of that evil in your young life was your fault. You’re gonna do great things
I have watched you for many years now and never subscribed until now...... this video has spoken to me on so many levels.... I am here in LA...... San Gabriel Valley.... If I can ever be of any help please let me know..... thank you so much for the work you do.... you are seen by many who may be silent.... much like me.
What I think is great is that she is able to have conversations with her mom about this stuff; I have trauma from my childhood and my mom is very much a denier and doesn't want to talk about it, which I understand as she raised us the best she could and wasn't malicious but it would still be good to be able to talk about how I felt and how things changed me in ways I only comprehend now. Hope for all the best things for you ahead Gracie! ❤
I found this interview not only eye-opening and informative, but very beautiful in a way as well. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Gracie! Lots of love and peace. 🫶🏾
The brightest side to situations like yours is at the age of 22 you are so wise. And you’ll continue to grow at that accelerated rate bc of that trauma. Pain is the greatest teacher. I connect deeply with your story. Of course all stories are different. When I went to alcohol treatment at the age of 21 I was with adults who were in their 40s-70s. I deeply connected with my group and they connected and saw me too. I’d always get comments that I was beyond my years of experience and knowledge and because of that it would launch me far in my recovery, not of just substance but life. I hope you take care and life shows you the opportunities you so deserve. Much love ❤️
Your level of awareness is truly beautiful and profound. I loved the way you opened up with the book. I couldn’t agree more with what you touched on when reading it. I purchased it immediately. Continue to seek your truth 🤍🦋 lovely interview.
Warrior woman. I wish the very best for her. Her intelligence and will is one in a million. She can take those qualities in infinite positive directions.
Her story sounds so similar to mine... I thought it was all normal until the school called the cops for the third time after seeing us covered in bruises multiple times. And somehow both my sister and I were sexually abused as well by different people at different times. Her story resonates with me, because music was my escape as well. Unfortunately though, I had to hide my cd player because when my stepmother realized how important music was to me, then I was no longer allowed to listen to music, and I was pulled out of choir and band classes. And to make sure I didn't break the rules and listen to music, my bedroom door was removed so I never had privacy, even when changing. Unfortunately we all cope in different ways, but many truly abused people either think it's normal, or blame themselves...
Gracie is inspiring, insightful, thoughtful, tragic, has patience, is funny, analytical , has perspective loves learning . The practical study of meditation, yoga and Tibetan Buddhism, is and will be so helpful to you…. as you go through life and particularly as you peel the onion layers off your significant childhood trauma and sexual abuse….without attachment. You are such a beautiful wise soul. I hope your life is full of enriching and enjoyable experiences and you come home to a safe secure home to nest in. I hope you travel and further broaden your intellect. Please come back on SWU for updates.
What a remarkable young lady who definitely comes across as a wise old soul beyond 22 years old. I wish you all the happiness and joy and great things in life you so so much deserve! You go girl! Super proud!
Gracie's childhood scars have left a lasting impact on her life, but through healing and growth, she has been able to turn her pain into strength. Thu=is kind of story should be featured on OTR!
This is one of the most powerful videos I’ve seen thus far on soft white underbelly! She has changed my view on life with her experience! Protect her and those like her at all cost!!!🙏🏾🏆💯✅
The way she spoke about sugaring was eerily exactly how I felt… it feels good to hear someone else talk about going through similar things and having similar feelings … thank you for sharing
Omg this human is incredible. Having gone through all they have only to not let it harden their heart or wipe them of their ability to have empathy is unreal. I truly wish Gracie the absolute best in every aspect of their life.
Gracie, you are a very bright and self aware young woman. I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. None of it is your fault. Wishing you all the best. You deserve to be happy and free from the chains of trauma.
So self-aware and so inspiring! I’m really sorry for the trauma you experienced and had to endure during your childhood. I really love your energy and vibe and how everything you’ve been through you’re able to forgive and continue spread that positive light. Thank you for sharing Gracie, really appreciate listening to this one!
Gracie you are AMAZING, I wish we could be friends because you were telling your story and I just resonated so much. Going through all of that and still wanting to be self aware and learn and navigate this world in a hopeful way is soooooo much.
I love your soul Gracie. Your intelligence has carried you through your trauma and your heart is helping you heal. Your experiences, good and bad, are molding who you are, and who you are is AMAZING and Beautiful through and through.
I started watching these videos and thought I had a normal, dull, life. I was wrong, my life has been a miraculous. I appreciate the perspective. I'm very grateful and won't take it for granted....
Wow, what an incredible human! I hung on every word. Through it all, she seemed to have a really big heart. That was eye opening. And now I see her name is Grace. How appropriate. Thank you Grace. You are amazing.
I GIVE GRACE MUCH CREDIT FOR LIFTING HERSELF UP, LEARNING & TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR HERSELF. HER LOVE OF READING SURE HELPED. YES, A WISE 22 YEAR OLD INDEED. HUGZ TO YOU GRACIE. 🥰🥰🥰
It’s so crazy to me how this generation of children is so much more aware, and willing to spare the feelings of others then our parents. Our parents didn’t care about how we felt but we strive every day to make sure that we are saving their feelings. we don’t want to hurt them like they did us.
Such compassionate strength and understanding of the human spirit ! time and time again, what inadequate, damaging females can do to the innocence of children- is heartbreaking. "It was what I thought was just normal, as a child" really hit home. I wish you all the love in the world... x x the hardest thing on the planet is questioning a mother as an adult. They know when something isn't right. X
Congratulations on your sobriety. It gets better and better. You are a very wise young woman. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you joy, love and peace.
What a smart, vulnerable young woman. I can see her having a bright future and not attracting ugliness into her life. Good luck to you Gracie! You deserve the best life ❤
Her story 💔 Please continue to keep her close, God. I wish this story could be heard by sooooo many more. I have a 6yr old Daughter and this story is beyond helpful to make sure I keep her close and stay aware.
Oh dear sweet young woman….what an intelligent positive vibe I feel from you regarding your life and awful experiences from those you loved and trusted. As a school social worker in upstate NY, I’d have loved to have been the one you were able to tell or let see some of the signs of your turmoil. I send nothing but the best thoughts for you now and in your future.
Very intelligent really sensitive and empathetic,she is still young still finding herself,She would make an amazing therapist,I hope she really goes into mental health profession ,wise soul.
this has to be one of the purest hearts ive seen from one empath to another. just love her energy and spirit. would love to have this person in my life as a decent human
To go through all of this and forgive those responsible is a truly monumental feat - beyond me and so many other people. I'm not even sure you should have forgiven them, but if doing so has been a part of your recovery and somehow turning these events to your own purpose and growth, I don't think anyone can gainsay that. Another staggering interview with a remarkable person. Thank you both for your work here.
forgiveness is divine our part is to choose as an act of our will to forgive, then the Lord does the rest, the bible says if we dont forgive others God wont forgive us 🙂✝️🙏🏻💙
Gracie, I'm only at 1:58 seconds. If you can feel those words, you're gonna be more than fine! Thank you for reading this to all of us, and keep those concepts close.
Thank you Gracie for your vulnerability, another piece of my life story lived by another person... Thank you Mark for your amazing work, there's a good chance that I wouldn't be here today if I didn't come across your channel about a year and a half ago, I am forever grateful. Wishing everyone who still suffers in silence to find the strength reach out for help, because it's never too late. ❤❤❤
Her mom's excuses are sickening. Sexually abusing your child isn't enough to leave, but him throwing a remote at your face was the final straw?! I hate that kids have to deal with situations like this smh. I pray for this young lady's healing and peace.
Thats what I was thinking! The mom can't even take accountability for her negligence!
@johncena04101 Right. To a certain extent, I was being understanding (with the showering together). I understand people go through their own trauma too that results in them making certain excuses and whatnot, but come on. All this happened and she was only 10/11. God I wish children were more protected.
Literally was just about to comment this I hope she cuts this pathetic person out of her life I think the only reason she doesn't she probably feels like she has no one
Easy AF to judge from outside of her skin, mang.
Actions are infinitely more valuable than impotent prayers.
Gracie is unbelievably articulate and self-reflective. Check out the way she holds her composure - and that reading at the beginning shows some real insight. Shes an inspiration, honestly. I wish her the best and all the best in the world. Blessings from VA
So we’ll spoken! I hope she does well…❤️
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Gracie you are a Starseed
VA here too!! Hampton Roads/Tidewater area (Suffolk specifically but most people haven't heard of it so I usually just say I'm an hour from VA Beach😅)
Her ability to forgive is amazing and I commend her strength
Yes, that was Powerful!!.. I think she's really heading toward Happiness!--
She's really been working through her feelings & memories to a brighter day!-
Just wish she would expand any Christian roots in that regard!!- :)
"He threw a remote at her head and that's what finally made her leave" Heart breaking.
I'm so sorry no one protected you the way they should have. I hope you continue to heal x
It's mind boggling how she was able to go through all that trauma and not be on heavy drugs. I listen to these true childhood nightmares and think damn compared to them my childhood was easy street. Nobody should have to endure all this kind of pain and chaos. I'm so proud of her for being so strong and resilient. She's also very smart, intellectual and articulate.
I agree. My psychologist said that to me many years ago. He was surprised I wasn't addicted to anything, booze or drugs due to my childhood. I still don't really understand that statement ten years later...
As someone that went through a lot of childhood trauma, I too never turned to drugs and it's because I loved and still love myself way too much to ever hurt myself more than I've already been hurt. I just couldn't forgive myself for hurting myself after already going through it for decades. Doing drugs would've only given me problems and more trauma so no thanks.
I hope her Mother watches this and really listens to her child’s story.
These kind of mothers will never understand: it's never their fault and "it's all in our heads and we made it up"
@@janeyun4128And were crazy...
I agree that everyone should take a gap year after high school. She is such an eloquent and strong woman. It was such an inspirational interview!!!
@jeanc.65 i wish I had taken one! My fam kinda forced me to go right after high school and I sooo wasn't ready!
Her mother knew about everything and didn't do anything for years. I don't think hearing it again would make a difference.
She’s an extremely wise old soul. You should look into motivational speaking. Love this interview.
She is a GREAT Speaker with a sultry voice and a Sweet Soul
agree
Prayers for this young lady. She is bright enough and smart enough to live a better life. I believe that this may be the first time in her life that she has been able to open up and talk about her life and the trauma she experienced and suffered. I wish her much success and happiness
U believe? Alright opal
@@icetraythegang5873 I said what I said
Wishes and prayers are both equally useless. Get involved with the people who call out.
That intro was so profound. I was glued from the very beginning because of it and how she’s telling her story 🥹
Gracie you can speak three hours and I would listen to every word you have to say.
Thank you for sharing your story. My jaw dropped at your only being 22.
I wish you every success in your life!
The best is yet to come.
Throughout this interview I couldn’t help but think how relieved she must feel to say all these things out loud. Being so young and knowing you’re being treated badly must’ve made her feel so unheard and trapped. Thank you mark for giving these people an outlet to tell their story, we’re all listening!!
How the heck do people get through stuff like this - so much violation on so many levels - and not turn into raving lunatics, addicts, abusers, etc. I have had an easy line compared to this woman and am still all messed up over things that happened in the past. This is very inspiring.
Through intense therapy and tons of research on psychology/self-reflection.
I believe in these processes very much, but wonder how much brain anatomy - something you’re just born with - can play a part in being able to live with this.
We are incredibly resilient creatures. Our power to heal ourselves is immense. I love books by Dr. Gabor Mate.
@@luciannebeans6679 oh yes - thank you for reminding me Dr. Mate's work is out there to light the way...
I didn’t hear any intense therapy here? I didn’t hear any type of professional treatment or diagnoses? All I heard are a lot of mixed messages. Someone who is still pretty lost… listen closely…
This video broke my heart. 💔 As a victim of childhood trauma myself, her story hit home deep. She is so strong to be able to share her story. I am impressed with her amazing ability to articulate her inner reflections into words. She is a beautiful soul and I will definitely pray to God for her healing and continued personal growth. 🙏🏼 I LOVE THIS VIDEO! ❤
I’m just blown away! A smartie, avid reader and just a sweet and strong Soul! Thank you for sharing this story, it’s just sickening to listen to. Be safe and well always, little one. You are in my prayers, brave one!
What a beautiful, intelligent and wonderful human! The world needs more Gracies ❤
I feel truly Blessed to be alive, well, and present to see and witness that a person like you EXISTS! You're an amazing soul Gracie! 💯
Yes! Same.
She has beautiful captivating voice. I was listening to her while I was driving. Sad to hear her childhood life and the abuse she endured.
What an amazing young lady. So in tune with her feelings. So emotionally intelligent and so courageous for powering through to a place where she can find forgiveness.
Suga baby who whores herself out to married men, oh ya, such an amazing young lady...
She is a good Storyteller for sure. Really would like to hear from her Mother WTF she thought about her Role in this.
There are millions of parents like that 😭
True! 🤔Her mother was just as traumatized as Gracie. Her mother sounds like a covert narcissist. They are unable to take any blame or accountability because being in denial protects her false self image from shame. 😞
@@robm8067 you hit this spot on 💯 these parents are the worst smh...I wish all the best for her because she is such a strong young lady ❤ after all she went thru
Exaclty
WOW when Gracie said she’s 22 i couldn’t believe it 😳,in the sense of everything she’s been through and come through is equatable to a 40 year old for me,such a beautiful (inward and outward) young woman and i wish you well on your journey through life,thanks for sharing 🙂.
22 years old. Wow. What a load of experiences in such a short lifetime.
She could be a good therapist. Very well spoken, educated and could help others like her.
Smartest 22 year old ever! I could listen to her all day! You'll go far babygurl!
Wow. Just wow. I am simultaneously so sorry to hear her story and so honored that she shared this with the world. She is so well spoken and amazingly aware and well thought out. Very inspiring and thought provoking. Wishing her and all survivors peace and healing.
You did great Gracie! You are such an inspiration....At 22 years old you have come farther in your trauma than I have in over 3 decades. Keep shining girl...
Thanks. I needed that. I am a survivor of family abuse and have been in treatment counseling for a month now. I can identify with the pain. We are the ones who see life for what it's worth despite our broken lives. Thanks for the inspiration.
Don’t be sorry you took so long. I could listen to you for another hour! What a beautiful soul!
I am utterly amazed by her existence. Going through such trauma and being so self-aware, making the right choices for her future is so impressive. RESPECT.
I hope she remains sober and continues her life as a journey she’s very intelligent best wishes
Gracie, you are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish I could give you a big hug. What happened to you, in your childhood, was not your fault and it should have never happened to you. It is amazing that you are not letting it define you.
Gracie you are SO STRONG and such an INSPIRATION to everyone! Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story with the world!
I know that all this wisdom came from the mouth of a very badly abused 22 year old because I watched this...but it "felt" like the words of a much much older person. Gracie has somehow squirmed her way through life-long abuse and misery and come up for air with knowledge we could all learn so much from! At the age of 22!! She Must become a teacher! It's her calling! She's amazing!
Throughout all of the bad there is good!! What an incredible interview. Gracie is so well spoken and so very self aware. I hope you have her back for a follow up. Such a tragic childhood with all of the sexual abuse :( I wish her all the best for a very bright future ahead!
I never cease to be impressed by many of the people on this channel but Gracie is beyond impressive. At only 22yo she has experienced horrific things but has definitely put in the work to overcome the trauma. I have always been interested in Buddhism and meditation and definitely think it’s a very helpful practice. Gracie you are beautiful inside and out and I wish you the most amazing future!
Sending love and support. Sweet Gracie, you have a soothing voice. Your story is powerful. Thank you for sharing with us.
What a compelling, insightful young woman. Anyone would be lucky to have her as a friend.
There are so many people in my family that need to hear what that book said. Love is the best perspective. Thanks for the eye opening interview. I wish the best for you Gracie. And thank you so much Mark for taking the time to do all that you do. Big hugs from Oregon! 🐿
My heart hurts, when I watch how much pain these people go through. I want to hug them. God bless you for sharing their stories. ❤️🙏🏽❤️
22!!!! What a fascinating human being you are Gracie. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. May you reach enlightenment ❤
The human spirit is resilient. In order to survive, and or thrive, most people compartmentalize to carry on. Thank you, Gracie, you have gone beyond managing your past traumas by facing them and sharing with us all❤️
Some people, like myself, crave honest conversations, but bec of shame (other factors) they can be hard to come by.
Than you, Mark🙏
She had one betrayal on top of another it takes a lot to work through that
I know what she's saying , God bless her❤
Gracie, thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a smart woman and I want you to know that none of that evil in your young life was your fault. You’re gonna do great things
I want to give her a hug. What a wonderful woman she is. Such a knowledgeable, beautiful, and talented human.
I have watched you for many years now and never subscribed until now...... this video has spoken to me on so many levels.... I am here in LA...... San Gabriel Valley.... If I can ever be of any help please let me know..... thank you so much for the work you do.... you are seen by many who may be silent.... much like me.
What I think is great is that she is able to have conversations with her mom about this stuff; I have trauma from my childhood and my mom is very much a denier and doesn't want to talk about it, which I understand as she raised us the best she could and wasn't malicious but it would still be good to be able to talk about how I felt and how things changed me in ways I only comprehend now. Hope for all the best things for you ahead Gracie! ❤
Thank you for the interview Gracie and SWU
I found this interview not only eye-opening and informative, but very beautiful in a way as well. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Gracie! Lots of love and peace. 🫶🏾
The brightest side to situations like yours is at the age of 22 you are so wise. And you’ll continue to grow at that accelerated rate bc of that trauma. Pain is the greatest teacher. I connect deeply with your story. Of course all stories are different. When I went to alcohol treatment at the age of 21 I was with adults who were in their 40s-70s. I deeply connected with my group and they connected and saw me too. I’d always get comments that I was beyond my years of experience and knowledge and because of that it would launch me far in my recovery, not of just substance but life.
I hope you take care and life shows you the opportunities you so deserve. Much love ❤️
Your level of awareness is truly beautiful and profound. I loved the way you opened up with the book. I couldn’t agree more with what you touched on when reading it. I purchased it immediately. Continue to seek your truth 🤍🦋 lovely interview.
Warrior woman. I wish the very best for her. Her intelligence and will is one in a million. She can take those qualities in infinite positive directions.
Her story sounds so similar to mine... I thought it was all normal until the school called the cops for the third time after seeing us covered in bruises multiple times. And somehow both my sister and I were sexually abused as well by different people at different times. Her story resonates with me, because music was my escape as well. Unfortunately though, I had to hide my cd player because when my stepmother realized how important music was to me, then I was no longer allowed to listen to music, and I was pulled out of choir and band classes. And to make sure I didn't break the rules and listen to music, my bedroom door was removed so I never had privacy, even when changing. Unfortunately we all cope in different ways, but many truly abused people either think it's normal, or blame themselves...
I wrote my first comment before I heard her say she had her bedroom door removed...
I’m so terribly sorry for what you had to endure. Take very good care of yourself.
Great interview Mark. Gracie you are a beautiful soul. Thanks for this.
Gracie is inspiring, insightful, thoughtful, tragic, has patience, is funny, analytical , has perspective loves learning . The practical study of meditation, yoga and Tibetan Buddhism, is and will be so helpful to you…. as you go through life and particularly as you peel the onion layers off your significant childhood trauma and sexual abuse….without attachment. You are such a beautiful wise soul. I hope your life is full of enriching and enjoyable experiences and you come home to a safe secure home to nest in. I hope you travel and further broaden your intellect. Please come back on SWU for updates.
What a remarkable young lady who definitely comes across as a wise old soul beyond 22 years old. I wish you all the happiness and joy and great things in life you so so much deserve! You go girl! Super proud!
This has been the most impactful and profound interview for me. thank you Gracie 🖤
Gracie's childhood scars have left a lasting impact on her life, but through healing and growth, she has been able to turn her pain into strength. Thu=is kind of story should be featured on OTR!
When words fail, music speaks.
If only all of us could be this tuned in. Much love and respect❤
Don’t ever be sorry, Gracie. You’re an Angel and a 🌟 😊
This is one of the most powerful videos I’ve seen thus far on soft white underbelly! She has changed my view on life with her experience! Protect her and those like her at all cost!!!🙏🏾🏆💯✅
The way she spoke about sugaring was eerily exactly how I felt… it feels good to hear someone else talk about going through similar things and having similar feelings … thank you for sharing
I’m from Utica! Gracie you are SO strong. Thank you for telling your story
Omg this human is incredible. Having gone through all they have only to not let it harden their heart or wipe them of their ability to have empathy is unreal. I truly wish Gracie the absolute best in every aspect of their life.
Gracie, you are a very bright and self aware young woman. I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. None of it is your fault. Wishing you all the best. You deserve to be happy and free from the chains of trauma.
So self-aware and so inspiring! I’m really sorry for the trauma you experienced and had to endure during your childhood. I really love your energy and vibe and how everything you’ve been through you’re able to forgive and continue spread that positive light. Thank you for sharing Gracie, really appreciate listening to this one!
An intelligent young lady, she needs to realize some people don’t have her best interest at heart, I wish her the best💕
What an amazing person with so much life experience, I absolutely loved her attitude throughout the video, she is a lovely soul
Gracie you are AMAZING, I wish we could be friends because you were telling your story and I just resonated so much. Going through all of that and still wanting to be self aware and learn and navigate this world in a hopeful way is soooooo much.
Thanks for being so open & honest about your life so far Gracie. I hope you'll do a (follow up) video. ❤ from 🇬🇧
Follow up ❤
Interviews like this one are some of my favorites because you can see the growth and it's inspiring
I love your soul Gracie. Your intelligence has carried you through your trauma and your heart is helping you heal. Your experiences, good and bad, are molding who you are, and who you are is AMAZING and Beautiful through and through.
Absolutely inspiring her strength! Such a healthy insight and perspective. Thank you so much
I started watching these videos and thought I had a normal, dull, life. I was wrong, my life has been a miraculous. I appreciate the perspective. I'm very grateful and won't take it for granted....
Most powerful interview ❤
Best heart felt.
What a beautiful, strong, resilient, and kind. Sending you so much love!
So humbling listening to this generous young soul.
The mum is absolutely complicit.
This young woman is wise beyond her years. One of the best SWU I have watched. Thank you Gracie. You are a survivor. ❤
Wow, what an incredible human! I hung on every word. Through it all, she seemed to have a really big heart. That was eye opening. And now I see her name is Grace. How appropriate. Thank you Grace. You are amazing.
I GIVE GRACE MUCH CREDIT FOR LIFTING HERSELF UP, LEARNING & TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR HERSELF. HER LOVE OF READING SURE HELPED. YES, A WISE 22 YEAR OLD INDEED. HUGZ TO YOU GRACIE. 🥰🥰🥰
WHY ARE WE YELLING?
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It may be a visual problem. 'jus sayin'
Thanks you Gracie! You may have childhood scars (like so many of us) YET you went from Scars tp Stars , I am so proud of you!
It’s so crazy to me how this generation of children is so much more aware, and willing to spare the feelings of others then our parents. Our parents didn’t care about how we felt but we strive every day to make sure that we are saving their feelings. we don’t want to hurt them like they did us.
Such compassionate strength and understanding of the human spirit ! time and time again, what inadequate, damaging females can do to the innocence of children- is heartbreaking. "It was what I thought was just normal, as a child" really hit home. I wish you all the love in the world... x x the hardest thing on the planet is questioning a mother as an adult. They know when something isn't right. X
Congratulations on your sobriety. It gets better and better. You are a very wise young woman. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you joy, love and peace.
This has to be the best video I’ve watched. This girl is incredible. I admire her so so much.
What a smart, vulnerable young woman. I can see her having a bright future and not attracting ugliness into her life. Good luck to you Gracie! You deserve the best life ❤
Thank you Gracie for gracing us with your experiences. :)
Her story 💔
Please continue to keep her close, God. I wish this story could be heard by sooooo many more. I have a 6yr old Daughter and this story is beyond helpful to make sure I keep her close and stay aware.
What an amazing human soul she is!
Oh dear sweet young woman….what an intelligent positive vibe I feel from you regarding your life and awful experiences from those you loved and trusted. As a school social worker in upstate NY, I’d have loved to have been the one you were able to tell or let see some of the signs of your turmoil. I send nothing but the best thoughts for you now and in your future.
Wow amazing she is so poised and rational given what she has been through.
I hope she finds the peace she deserves
Very intelligent really sensitive and empathetic,she is still young still finding herself,She would make an amazing therapist,I hope she really goes into mental health profession ,wise soul.
this has to be one of the purest hearts ive seen from one empath to another. just love her energy and spirit. would love to have this person in my life as a decent human
To go through all of this and forgive those responsible is a truly monumental feat - beyond me and so many other people. I'm not even sure you should have forgiven them, but if doing so has been a part of your recovery and somehow turning these events to your own purpose and growth, I don't think anyone can gainsay that.
Another staggering interview with a remarkable person. Thank you both for your work here.
forgiveness is divine our part is to choose as an act of our will to forgive, then the Lord does the rest, the bible says if we dont forgive others God wont forgive us 🙂✝️🙏🏻💙
Pure honesty, introspection & vulnerability. Beautiful yet painful ❤
Wow what a sweet soul. I pray that the best is yet to come, for her. Wonderful interview 🙏
I am 32 minutes in and I am amazed she hasn't broken down and cried. Wild.
She's so well spoken. So much trauma 😢 best wishes for her future
Beautiful articulate soul. Bless her and protect her always God. She is mighty and stronger than most adults.
Gracie, I'm only at 1:58 seconds. If you can feel those words, you're gonna be more than fine! Thank you for reading this to all of us, and keep those concepts close.
Thank you Gracie for your vulnerability, another piece of my life story lived by another person...
Thank you Mark for your amazing work, there's a good chance that I wouldn't be here today if I didn't come across your channel about a year and a half ago, I am forever grateful.
Wishing everyone who still suffers in silence to find the strength reach out for help, because it's never too late. ❤❤❤
This interview was fantastic. This woman will help SO many people including her life, most importantly she is helping herself. ❤