A Guide To Selecting Your Spouse - Mufti Menk
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2015
- Marriage is one of the most highly recommended acts in Islam. The Prophet (pbuh) says “The person who marries, safeguards half of his religion.” Let’s look at some factors relating to marriage.
Im a christian woman and i met an Islam man ..then unexpectedly we fall inlove to each other..but their parents wants him to marry her cousin.i converted into muslim few weeks ago not because he want to but because it's my heart's desire..*alhamdullilah*whatever will be the ending of our love story..i know allah knows best...
Welcome to the religion of Islam sister, iwill pray to Allah to give you more knowledge about Islam.
May Allah grant you the highest level of paradise.
Alhamdulillah! Welcome sister!
well you seem such a sage wise spirited woman , you're blessed to find the Creator's path , it's kinda of hard for a non muslim i guess , remember that muslim sometimes act in a very non islamic way so be better than us ! you'll appreciate piety and sagacity more than us ! and can enter heaven before us if we will ^^ you can visit the parents and try to win their hearts , all the love
geneveve Pescuela yes keep the faith in god not people . i wish u the best .
geneveve Pescuela subhanallah may the best come in your way! aamiin!
I love watching his videos although I'm a Catholic. What he's saying doesn't apply to only one religion but to others also. I can humbly say that Islam is a unique religion.
+Kristianne Mendoza that's because we believe that Islam is for ALL of mankind, not just people who are born Muslims or something. A Muslim is someone who has submitted to God. That can include loads of people :)
+Anne Mendoza that's nice of you to say :) As many people have pointed out before, extremists exist in all walks of life, it's not the religion that turns you into one, it's how a person chooses to practise or interpret it. May we see a day where people of all faiths can coexist as one, and, as you said, respect each other's principles!
+hufsaspatronus Yes, in God's time.
+Anne Mendoza I advise you to watch Dr zakir naik. And insha'a Allah you will benefit from this scholar
+Abdo Alaa Thank you on your advice. I appreciate it. And yes, I will watch his videos.
I will convert
Poetic.emulation my heart smiles and cries at the same time always when I hear those words. I pray your heart always be open, Allah swt keep u safe🌺😊
Poetic.emulation inshallah that is the reality of life. May Allah guide us Ameen
Assalam Alekum bro
Asalamualaikum congrats brother welcome to this beautiful religion
Its called revert not convert. Initially we all are born muslims, thats why in islam when a child dies he or she is granted jannah.
Im a new muslima and I married my husband not keeping in mind this ... and now I'm paying the heavy price of my choice... left alone pregnant as if i'm an animal.... Sisters please choose your future husband based on his iman first, his fear of Allah swt and then look at the rest... Wallahi is so important!
and my wife left me for someone.. took away my baby...
Sister may Allah bless you with a better spouse ameen, inshaAllah if you want to contact me and need someone to talk to, I'm here
Peace be upon you and blessings of Allah
Another sister of Islam, Niaz :)
niazbibi Jazaaki-llaahu khayran sister
please for me for nikah.. am really lookin for taqwa guy
thanks siz for your advice may Allah swt guide and bless you with patience ameen
I am a Non-Muslim, But his advice is universal i believe , he speaks practically , and this advice does not apply to only one Religion race creed or gender but is indeed a thing we all can follow
if u study islam am sure u will be amazed by its wisdom and truth.i suggest u and urge u to study islam deeply and read koran with an open heart and also make alot of prayers to GOD to guide u.wish u good luck man
bcoz Islam is naturall religion
CommonSense Reloaded I agree. thanks for being open minded.
And that my friend... is Islam, it applies to everyone.
It is ONLY ABOUT MUSLIMS. Nothing else since this came form a MUSLIM TO MUSLIM. Dont take those advices from the prophet of Allah tala as granted
I am a Christian, but agree with much of what he said.
+Morris Wilburn
May Allah SWT open ur heart even more and lead you to the right path of success
+Morris Wilburn You do know that Jesus pbuh can't possibly be called a God right :)
If God would physically enter our universe, our universe would explode and all the laws of physics would go out of the window. The children of Israel were definitely not worth thát much.
Grim Reaper Don't kid yourself, you know how incredibly awesome my statement was.
so y dnt u think to study Islam..n convert to Islam...if u convinced that Islam is the ryt religion.. n if u convinced that Allah is the one God who made us...n mohammed sala llah alihi waslam..is prophet of Allah..
..I suggest u study...n am giving u the granty tht u I'll NY regret..
inshallah u I'll do
He is talking about the relationship aspects, not Islam. They are universal points about who you pick as a spouse.
May Allah help us finding spouses with pure hearts and kind soul Aamiin
wati forever89 I m ready to live with u.if u r ready then I will be ready contact on this 9797787460
wati forever89.Aminn
Ameen🤲🏻
Pure hearts and true faith is the only kind to look for
So lovely your comment. .pure heart is all of the níce and Wonderful for a good person to have. .
Ameem Ameem Ameem 🌹
This man gives me shivers when he speaks such truth.
i am a Christian,and i do really agree with all . great 👏
I'm Christian but these advises are very very good.I'm almost want to cry.
If you knew every teaching or even few more of the Prophet peace be upon him believe me that would make you more amazed at the mercy and love that Allah has sent down to him and us. Islam is amazing so try to find the truth by reading your Creators words the Quran and see if you feel content. Ive got instagram @pathofpious and im happy to help anytime
May Allah guide you to Islam my friend we really hope you become Muslim my brother
this dude...what a blessing to hear him speak. God bless you Mufti
...Mosssttt welcome in Most beautiful Way....in the peace Islamic Life
I just want a man who is kind, pious, caring, open minded, and a man who supports my dreams and goals. It doesn't matter if he's rich or not. I want a good fearing man inshallah. Make dua for me.
God bless you
Where are you from
May Allah Soubhana watalah give a good man that can you and you als him. Amine ya rabbih
Aameen!
Aoa
may Allah Grant me the righteous Spouse aamiin
mgtow
shita destya I m ready to get married with u
Aameen
ameen :)
shita destya like it
I love your video, I am Christian and will share this!
thanks for the kind words ^^
that is true 100%, may allah reward you Jannah.alhamdulilah for
The blessing of Islam.
May Allah grant us all jannah til fardoos Ameen
insha allah my brothers and sisters, whoever intends to find someone like this, you will. dont under estimate the power of tahajjud. see you in sujood at midnight, in an effort to find the right man/woman. i am in,anyone else?
+Shaheed Shaikh I'll wait for mine in the next life Im sure mine is not in this life. people are to superficial now days
+Passer Angel As-salamualaikum dear brother or sister. Please don't say such a thing, because you can never be sure of anything in this life except death. Allah SWT is AR Rahman... don't forget that in surah Noor (24:26) Allah said clean women are for clean men and clean men are for clean women...
You have to seriously work on yourself to have the qualities you seek in a spouse. Like our brother Mufti Menk said, deen is the most important factor in marriage. We know marriage completes our deen, so uphold your part in this world by being a true Muslim and have tawakul (sincere trust) in Allah that he will grant you a righteous spouse that will help you attain jannah, Insha'Allah.
Take care my bro/sis in Islam...I have have that Allah has already chosen your spouse and will bring you both together when it's the right time Insha'Allah:)
+abrahamgoesmoo *I have faith
great in shaa Allah.
Praying on it inshallah
Am sending my father this video. He needs to hear this
I hope he's a somali father 🤣🤣
in sha Allah i hope i'll find a good muslim husband
Ayah KH contact me
Ayi Kh inshallah
I chose a great woman for her imaan, taqwa, haya and knowledge of the religion. She is educated, well mannered, caring and respectful to all and God fearing. But my family is refusing to take my proposal to her parents because they are from a different ethnic/racial background and poor in wealth. I'm under tremendous stress all the time since I feel as if they are doing me a great injustice and an causing irreparable damage to my life..
May Allah grant you the spouse you want. Ameen
maybe if you marry her your family start to torture her. you should ask this to an Islamic scholar.May Allah solve your problem and bless you brother
That must be very painful for you my brother. May Allah help you.
akh, tell them its u marrying her not them. in the end of the day u are going to spend ur life with her not them.
she could be not good for you in future...trust to Allah..
Ya Allah grant me with a spouse..who is best in character,conduct, deen, emaan, loving, faithful,punctual in namaz,guide me what is right and wrong, and also love my parents say Aameen..😙😇🙄⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘
Mashah Allah!!
please remember me in your prayers that may Allah help me to get rid of my worries!!
why worry?
I love his preachings ve learnt a lot from him may ALLAh bless him abundantly
just WOW .... this person makes so many lives beautiful , so many thoughts clear. THANKYOU!!!
may allah bless you.
ameen ♥
Thank you for this beautiful advice! Would love to hear more on this topic! :)
This video should go viral. Fantastic advice, thank you!
May Allah increase your knowledge sheik. You're the best speaker I ever see
Your words touch my heart..!!
May Allah be pleased with you..!!
Mufti is a. Brilliant person and he is always special in his speech . And this speech will give lightning to the young ones.
Alhamdulillah.......the extremely powerful lecture that I ever heard.
I love watching his lectures mash’allah. May Allah bless us all inshallah ❤️
Amazing video, extremely clear and concise in the way the message was conveyed. Normally when I watch these types of videos it becomes very long winded and a definitive answer is not really given, I understand things like this will never be black and white, but thank you for making this as simple and straightforward as possible.
mufti menk is my favourite speaker.. awesome speech as always.. may Allah reward you... and guide us all.. aameen
Jazakallah alkhair mufti menk. Your words of wisdom are truly from of Allah subhanawata Allah. Before I revert I always listen to you. It gave me more courage to embrace this religion. Subhanallah.
Mashaallah... Beautiful lecture
I need this lecture so much. I am in such same situation described here.
May Allah ease us to live happily here and grant all of us jannah...
MashaAllah great advice!
this is a very good lecture, masha'Allah!
Great lesson . Thanks. God bless you sir
This is best lecture for me. I was looking for this advice.kazakallaha
It's very practical. Mashallah. May Allah keep you always happy.
A true inspiration while he says it as it is. That my friends is called being humble.
maa shaa Allaah very good topic. Being a fan of comments i like reading comments it always gives me a broad understanding of human nature you might be in situations which you think are unfriendly & like the world is unfair yet millions of others out there are are experiencing something similar or even worse...
Everyday of my life... I must listens to Mufti Ismail.... MassaAllah ,,
Your speeches wl help the people to come out from darkness to light... You are really amazing.... Waiting for more and more videos sheikh....
Such wisdom in his words
Ma Sha Allah 🙂 great advice.
Beautifully Said!!!!!!!!!!! MAHSHALLAH!
Impressive and inspirational. JazakAllah
Mashallah love this sheikh!
Mufti menk is a very good role model and inspiration
Your voice and your speach give me sukoon thank you
I'm proud of him.He helped to bring alot of change in my life. Direct to the point!
Ma sha Allah..u r the best speaker...
WOOWWW mashaAllah mashaAllah mufti Menk is amazing... simply brilliant no words to describe his wisdom or knowledge subhanAllah
May Allah bless you Malam Mufti
Thankyou 'Ismael Menk' for making us understand the true criteria for looking our life partners!
I'm from UK spouse is from Tunisia south... I am.a single parent of 4 ..youngest is 16 .
My husband is an amazing beautiful pious man ..i was brought to islam by our creator my father was Muslim my mother catholic neither of them pushed religion on thier children..
I always felt close to Allah ..after a choas life..and so many lessons , masha Allah ..I feel I am now where I should have always been ...Allah is my soul provider ...pray my husband can join me soon in UK ..and we can start our beautiful life together ..Allah has given me the best of the best
..even the hard tines were always rewarded I. One way or other wisdom knowledge alhamdulilla...perseverance , belief focus guidance to succeed in this game is a plan ....pray dnt stop ever its a gift best gift you will ever receive in this life Ameen
Mashallah jazakallah hu khair May Allah give you success in both the worlds.
Ameen 😊 😍
Mashaallah I am proud being Muslim. Islam is the perfect religion. Jazakallahu khayran Ustadz Mufti Menk
What A wise and wisdom message from a wise and wisdom man
Sukran mufti Menk
Now Adays the problem is 85% cause by the parents
Thanks a lot my dear Dr Menk..good message 🌼🌼🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
May Allah give you success in both lives.
Ameen
Jazak Allahu khaira 💟
Ma sha Allah...may Allah bless us with the best!
Yes our Mufut has talked the truth.may Allah Grant u Jannah.
Mashallah muft Meka may ALLAH provide u w JANNAH yarabbi
masha allah , he is my favourite scholar, i love listening to him
thnx for the advice bro
All I can say he is different from other religious speaker...
he is excellenT
God bless your words for they are true and with much respect. I’m so happy that you have spoken this and shared for all to see. May couples going forward accept your thoughts and learn the way of love and marriage. 🌹 The truth will set them free of the old ways of yesterday.
Beautiful advice
Jazakallahu khairan
Thank you so much for giving islamic knowledge with goodness,,, 💕💯👍
Mashallah. May Allah bless this man
Dedication is key1!
Make dua for me please. I’m 20 years old & want a halal engagement & inshallah married in 2 years. I found a very righteous Muslim girl who will be perfect for me. But my father denies her because of her family. He told me too look elsewhere but she’s all I looked for in a wife. Please make dua for when I ask my father again to accept.
How did it go, brother?
Thank you mufti menk, if only my mom understand this video. The pain and the suffering im going through is unbearable but allahamdullilah im still fighting i will not give up to satan.
are u female?
may Allah help you , patience honey , patience :)
Awesome
I always like to listen mufti sab
mash ALLAH!
well spoken..
jazakallah Khair after listening to this now I feel like the person who dumped me in past was not a right person for me.
and the right person should have iman more than looks or beauty.
Jazak Allahu fiddeeni khaira.
great video
Jazakallahu khairan Sheikh 👐👐
Thank you my dear teacher, as you mentioned, some girls are generally looking for wealthy men, but I would like to make a comment on men.. a great majority of men are looking for beautiful women, they dont care about the woman's piety, religiousness..such a hard time to find a religious, righteous and muhlaseen man..May Allah let all who want to have a religious ,peaceful, and loving marriage get..
Masha ALLAH ,really love you sheikh because making us proud .love you sheikh
may ALLAH continue to guide you. Jazakallahu khair
Amazing brother
JazakAllah
May Allah continue to bless you and increase you in knowledge and understanding.Ameen, thank you Mufti
And us Ameen
great job 👍 ..my fvrt speaker😊😍
I thought I was stupid, until I watched this video. Thank you for confirming that my choices aren’t wrong. Thank you for making me realise that I’m on the right path.
Amen and Amen am not Muslim but u teaches Truth and righteousness meaning to B edifid 1 to anther 👏👍am a born again B still being a born again cannot save me am not a Christian am a believer in Christ and a follower continue ur walk with God ,god bless
I hate the annoying music when the sheikh is speaking on important points
U mean the background noise (wind)?
Jazakallah !!
Alhamdulillah I am watching this before marriage :)
Allah bless you mufti menk
And alhumdulillah I'm lucky enough to have yoonaf as my husband he is such a pious soul m blessed shukraan alhumdulillah......Masha Allah
Mufti Menk is awesome.
Your wisdom and knowledge
Ma.Shaa.Allah great thoughts just look at the person with whOm ur daughter is going too marry,not his money family home wealth never!!
Assalamu AlaikumI like to watching mufti menks video the videos are easy to understand .when he speaking the flowers are falling down his mouth . Mashallah God gives us to hidayat Aameennnnn.
Worth listening..👍👍
U r right
.. MashaAllah
...u r the Best scholar..