Is Brunch a Bad First Date? Matthew Hussey Explains | Elvis Duran Show
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- Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
- Dating Guru Matthew Hussey answers your toughest questions! Is brunch a bad first date? What do I do if I get ghosted? How do i not give too much too fast? We also learn how to get a complimentary chapter of Matthew's book!
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''People do what's comfortable for them not what's right for you’’ very very true
Matthew is a genius. I just love how clever Elvis is.
WOW his conversation with that caller Pam was so epic
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What are these people talking about with breakfast being a cheap date? I've seen some bougie breakfast places.
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Great interview! I loved it! Matthew, it's great to see you on the Elvis Duran show again.
Patrick Dempsey's megaromantic lost twin 😛
100% agree about the authenticity. I started calling people out on their behaviour and received nice messages back from guys who admitted being flaky and blase because everyone else is and they justify their behaviour by having experienced the shitty behaviour from girls. But i though if more people are holding people to their standards it would change.
andrew's impression was brilliant
It's crazy how women dont realize their worth and tolerate these flaky behavior from men. If a guy called me 20 mins before our date to cancel he better be in the hospital lol, but seriously, why are women even entertaining dates with men that are not planned at least a day in advance on location and time?? If a guy said he will tell you midday on the same day of the date, politely decline and say you have other plans. C'mon ladies!
Yeah that's definitely messed up but this behavior happens to Men as well. Two wrongs don't make a right but............
@@Rhyming4E so the same question goes to you, why are men willing to accept this shitty behaviour as well and don't call it out? I have only met one guy who told me about one of his previous dates and that he found the courage to stand up for himself and leave the date due to rude behaviour. Others seem just to accept it for getting laid.
That favor move is a good idea. I need to try that
I rejected getting to know a guy completely when he cancelled on me 30 mins before a date because (he gave many excuses about his car and him helping a friend). I said; I see. Alright, then have a good evening. He asked to meet up again next day and I said I can't imagine anything with him to be honest, because it simply spoiled the mood and didn't give me a good impression. I can't imagine having a good time with someone like that. To cancel a day before would have been fine and respectful of my time, it doesn't matter if I'm still a stranger. I don't want an inconsiderate guy who makes promises he can't keep and is selfish enough to wait to the last minute... I have little tolerance for that. I know Matt's more lineant on first dates, but I think there's a limit to how inconsiderate one should be allowed to be to strangers. It says something about their character.
@Animatt thanks for the reply Animatt. I did not decide against it because I thought he was lying. Him cancelling was to me a spur of the moment decision on his part. He could have told his friend he had a date but decided to carry on by helping in his friend's shisha bar (because he told me he's not the type of guy who can easily say no) and the other reason he gave me was him not having had the chance to buy the car he wanted today-which I found to be a weird statement- (plus we're in a city where there are trams and trains everywhere and accordning to his messages he wasn't more than 30 minutes away). I may judge too soon, but there were a lot of points I didn't like and he sounded to me like a bullshitter. I was also turned off by him having to mention how he was buying a car (unnecessary information to a strange woman) which is to me common with guys trying to find out if that would impress you, I'm generally not a fan of guys who brag in that way, because they tend to have a generally bad picture of women aka. every woman is a gold digger. There is a chance I could be wrong about all of that, but it was enough information for me not to want to find out. Even if I was wrong about him. I'm ok with saying no based on that alone, rather than accept something that angers me because he might have been the right one. There will be many other right ones who won't anger me with the first messages. It's the dilemma of online dating. Sorry for the long reply
@@thunabs7759 agree with you. Sounds like a bulls hitter. If anything he should have been more apologetic and proactive to reschedule rather than chasing you the next day. That sounds to me as if the date the night before didn't go to plan and he kept you as his 2nd option.
Wow that breakfast caller sounds like a snob! 😂
Yes!! More more more
I'm in love 😍
Breakfast is not romantic. What women wants to do hair and makeup and be somewhere for a date in the morning! I wouldn't do it. We like to dress up and look great in candlelight on the first date. Go to breakfast on the third date.
You're boring and have a bad attitude. Mimosas, Bellinis and french toast at my house will any normal red blooded woman feel like she's on vacation. That mood often leads to afternoon delight.
@@NeighborTom Ok, that sounds good! Although I would want to share that with someone who is kind.
I did have someone ask me out to breakfast, and it turned out he was engaged and that time was when his fiance was at work. So yeah, it could be sketch. But at the same time, a breakfast date sounds fun to me, if it's actually just a breakfast date and not a sketch situation.
Warmer is a good point. or decide that no matter what you need to try and talk to 3 people today. Or just be bold and tell them they look hot! Hello also works, lol. But compliments are usually easiest.
Sooo good. Great great advice.
Nice to c u live n enjoying
Wow, Andrew is really cute
A $3.99 breakfast is a little 'cheap'. I just took a first date to a restaurant in Malibu for a $225.00 brunch!
I would feel like someone was trying to buy me. Possibly.
Expecting a guy to spend a significant amount of money on a date with you when they don't even know you yet is so rude. You don't even know if it's going to lead anywhere. Just meet up and get to know each other and then you can go on to doing more classic dates if you like each other. (Also us women better pay for some dates as well, we're looking for a partner and not a sugar daddy. Show some respect to the other person, it's supposed to be a team effort.)
The entire idea of a guy having to pay for the date is super strange as it is, but refusing to go on the date unless it's expensive? Clearly you don't really care about seeing him at all, but rather about getting invited somewhere. That makes you someone he definitely shouldn't spend money on for a date, it's clearly wasted. And if you don't want to go out with him cause you're not into him that's also fine, you don't owe it to anyone, but don't make it about money, that's not cool.
I’d be super comfortable with a breakfast date.
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😠he is wonderful
he is Camila's Cabello ex boyfriend, right?
No 💩💩
A woman should never ask a man that she has not been in bed with to hold her coat/purse etc.
How this breakfast girl even got a date
Andrew sounds like Louie Spence trying to do Matthew. Nowhere close.
"He wants to have brunch" women see this as code for " he's cheap. I want him to spend money on me so I get a free expensive dinner"