Can A Man Successfully Pretend To Be A Woman?

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  • Опубліковано 8 бер 2024
  • Jubilee conducted a social experiment to see if a panel of women can pick out the man among them as they all answer questions about the female experience. Will he be able to fool them, or does he know less about the female psyche than he thinks? Let’s watch!
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  • @Jon7763
    @Jon7763 3 місяці тому +482

    my only question is, why is HE wearing a blindfold, he already knows who the guy is!!!!!!!

    • @wanderlost7707
      @wanderlost7707 3 місяці тому +9

      They should do this without blindfolds altogether, but they won't.

    • @VJP8464
      @VJP8464 2 місяці тому +128

      They don’t make it obvious, but it’s so that he doesn’t take advantage of how the voting system works
      For example, if he wasn’t blindfolded, he could see 2 people vote for him and 2 people vote for someone else, and add his vote to that person so they have 3 votes, and they get out
      Instead, he has to ‘guess’ who else might get votes, in order to add his on

    • @Jon7763
      @Jon7763 2 місяці тому +42

      @@VJP8464 ohhhh, ok, that makes sense... I completely forgot that there is money involved

    • @adam.maqavoy
      @adam.maqavoy 2 місяці тому

      Does he..?

    • @geoffreychauvin1474
      @geoffreychauvin1474 2 місяці тому +4

      I don't feel nervous when I go out and I just find it very hard to believe that women have to be this worried about it all the time. It comes off as self centered main character syndrome when you think someone is always going to bother you when you are out in public alone. Also being alone means no one can vouch for or dispute you...

  • @crak-_-4U
    @crak-_-4U 3 місяці тому +621

    The reason he's so good is because he trained for it and does content on the internet pranking or voice switching while talking with ppl

    • @redacted2275
      @redacted2275 3 місяці тому +39

      Oh, it's Natt! He can only do a (perfectly) woman's voice and wear a wig but other than that, he's quite uncomfortable outside of it. His bit where he changes his voice until he reaches James Charles' fake tone is hilarious...

    • @remypascal4872
      @remypascal4872 3 місяці тому +4

      Men have better voice abilities, most ones. OPERA...

    • @scrapin4mhe
      @scrapin4mhe 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly. He's an actor.

    • @MarieNeco
      @MarieNeco 3 місяці тому

      ​@@redacted2275what do you mean by "uncomfortable "

    • @maureensales8602
      @maureensales8602 3 місяці тому

      So he cheated

  • @simonrioss
    @simonrioss 3 місяці тому +167

    Next time they post this Amala should definitely react to the video while being blindfolded😂😂 I’d wanna see it

  • @gazoontight
    @gazoontight 3 місяці тому +389

    No man would complain about skinny calves unless he was a cattle farmer.

    • @BrettD2013
      @BrettD2013 3 місяці тому +15

      As a man myself, I wouldn’t never even thought of that.

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 3 місяці тому +24

      Guys are ridiculed for their legs. People say things like, "did you skip leg day?" Men just don't care as much about it.

    • @whateverwhatever4026
      @whateverwhatever4026 3 місяці тому +39

      Its actually common. Not for sane normal men. But like bodybuilders and guys who care about building specific muscles. Calves are the number one most difficult to change. Literally yesterday I was watching a random UA-cam video about it (bodybuilders), and they said exactly this....
      Average guys though, couldn't care less and would never think about it.

    • @KattMurr
      @KattMurr 3 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @supermannnblablabla
      @supermannnblablabla 3 місяці тому +22

      Calves are a very common part of the body men discuss. I’m surprised you don’t think so.

  • @gazoontight
    @gazoontight 3 місяці тому +204

    Men (this one at least) don't worry about sexual violence like women do, but we do scan the room to see who looks like trouble. Check to see what the "vibe" is. Don't walk in if you think that you might have to fight your way out.

    • @WobblesWattles
      @WobblesWattles 3 місяці тому +43

      My husband and I were discussing this. Both sexes are (and should be) aware of their surrounding, but we're typically aware for different reasons.

    • @nablamakabama488
      @nablamakabama488 3 місяці тому +8

      It’s more about regular violence, thieves etc. You have to be vigilant.

    • @cristianocapasso5870
      @cristianocapasso5870 3 місяці тому +3

      Dang, I am quite uncomfortable sitting with my back toward a door. I must be a cave dweller

    • @JanizMakudomaru
      @JanizMakudomaru 3 місяці тому

      Or suck

    • @Amaranthine1000
      @Amaranthine1000 2 місяці тому +2

      @@cristianocapasso5870I never sit with my back to the door in an unfamiliar place, I'm always hyper vigilant. I often sit in a corner where I can see the entire room.

  • @2ndstreetmarvel
    @2ndstreetmarvel 3 місяці тому +379

    As a man, the hyper vigilance is always there. Driving in traffic, going into the store, a restaurant, etc. keeping an eye out for everything be it weirdos, or an escape route.

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 3 місяці тому +48

      💯 In this world, EVERYONE needs to be hyper vigilant. Nobody is 100% safe everywhere they go. 😢

    • @edwardhood6252
      @edwardhood6252 3 місяці тому +36

      I learned the hyper vigilance in the military as " situational awareness " that all service members are required to have.

    • @Sneaky_Basket
      @Sneaky_Basket 3 місяці тому +6

      Literally me as long as I remember myself...

    • @Sneaky_Basket
      @Sneaky_Basket 3 місяці тому +4

      @@edwardhood6252 that's actually skills that actully "must have" for everyone but looks like girls with evolution gets d*mmer and d*mmer with every generation and boys get that smart that they actually doesn't need girls anymore (only for reproduction purpose but it's actually the question of "time" when it's not gonna be problem anymore, and yes u already can have "childrends" from lab but for now "human cloning" or "lab reproduction" of humans is iligal in most countries (or there is no such a law and tech ))

    • @edwardhood6252
      @edwardhood6252 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Sneaky_Basket It's unfortunate that you are entirely correct!

  • @yourhope5410
    @yourhope5410 3 місяці тому +125

    As a woman and victim of SA, I am not only hyper vigilant but also very scared of most men- not consciously, and I don’t blame all men for what happened to me, but I instinctually fear them and feel very uncomfortable when talking to them alone. I know that there are good men (my father, for example, is a wonderful and amazing man) but I feel that I am never truly safe around males because I never know when they could harm me (and they are absolutely capable of harming me).

    • @cookiegirl1097
      @cookiegirl1097 3 місяці тому +15

      I hope you are feeling better now ❤️

    • @Patson20
      @Patson20 3 місяці тому +24

      I'm a man who's been SA and raped by two women on seperate occasions and mentally/verbally abused by several women. You need to work on your hatred and insecurities with men. I've gotten over mine for women, mostly because men being afraid/scared/not liking women gets you arrested these days no matter what. Its hard to do but it greatly improves your quality of life and mental health when you break the victim mentality

    • @desireoxurus4208
      @desireoxurus4208 3 місяці тому +14

      As someone who has survived SA, I agree I also do not find certain types of men attractive because of it and it has nothing to do with whether they are good or bad men just that their body type gives me flashbacks and makes me literally nausous.

    • @PeachyPatriot
      @PeachyPatriot 3 місяці тому +17

      I have the same issue after my SA experience and being held at gun point I have a lot of anxiety at night around black men. And I’m told I’m a racist. My coworkers are black and my best friend is from Kenya. It’s specifically at night when I’m walking alone to my car.

    • @desireoxurus4208
      @desireoxurus4208 3 місяці тому +15

      @@PeachyPatriot Nah I totally understand you don't have to be racist just because of your involuntary reaction to what had happened to you let me tell you you ain't racist and f...k anyone you says different next time someone accuses you of that tell them these words verbatim, "YOU DON'T KNOW MY STRUGGLE". And keep on stepping you don't owe anyone an explanation.

  • @LoveFreak18
    @LoveFreak18 3 місяці тому +309

    I'm surprised this can be made today with all the "trans women are women" BS.

    • @juliabuonincontro8617
      @juliabuonincontro8617 3 місяці тому

      That’s why a trans “woman” wasn’t invited

    • @JohnnySplendid
      @JohnnySplendid 3 місяці тому +5

      You're surprised people can just post a UA-cam video? That's how your brain works?

    • @LoveFreak18
      @LoveFreak18 3 місяці тому +29

      @@JohnnySplendid posting of course not, but with all the trans groups and gender lines being blured I'm surprised they thought it was a good idea and that it wouldn't become heated. Or maybe they did and that's why it's here.

    • @RegiekEy
      @RegiekEy 3 місяці тому +19

      no it's just the fact this is a definitely leftist organization and team making these videos. Not just a small indie content group@@JohnnySplendid

    • @Skyesoceaneyes
      @Skyesoceaneyes 3 місяці тому +29

      Yeah, they could have thrown in a few trans women in there as "wrong" answers. Just imagine trying to decide who believed they were pretending to be women and who actually believed they were women but we're actually also just pretending.

  • @jenw1706
    @jenw1706 3 місяці тому +75

    I feel a sense of hyper vigilance, yes, but I do not convey it. I always try to look confident to prevent appearing like an easy target.

    • @MrBashem
      @MrBashem 3 місяці тому +5

      Pretty much this.

    • @timeforanap4268
      @timeforanap4268 2 місяці тому +7

      One of the key things I've heard to do in self defense, is to look like you have a purpose, and somewhere to go.

    • @debora8547
      @debora8547 2 місяці тому +1

      Same. I never walk to much near people in streets and I'm always aware if someone is walking behind me and how fast. I had already been followed by a man before.

  • @willowcrowley5077
    @willowcrowley5077 3 місяці тому +64

    I would ask "can you make a man's voice"?
    😅 I wonder what would happen...

    • @Meowmeowingz
      @Meowmeowingz 2 місяці тому +8

      Checkmate

    • @anneloving8405
      @anneloving8405 2 місяці тому +2

      I can ,frequently mistaken for a man on the phone but I'm a petite woman .lol.😂

  • @tedcole9936
    @tedcole9936 3 місяці тому +93

    As a man, I think I’ve been under-vigilant, and sometimes this got me into dangerous situations. On the other hand, I’ve been aware, or empathic toward women’s fear. Out walking alone at night, I’ve crossed the street when a woman is walking towards me alone, to try to ease her stress.

    • @MeF0r3v3r
      @MeF0r3v3r 3 місяці тому +4

      Ease her stress by increasing your own :p

    • @user-gn7oi3sf5r
      @user-gn7oi3sf5r 3 місяці тому +20

      Hey, as a gal who walks her dog late at night, I know I appreciate it. Thank you for doing that for women.

    • @KoongYe
      @KoongYe 3 місяці тому +13

      Once I was walking towards the same path as a girl in front of me, So I faked talking to my mother on the phone and walked slowly so she can feel safe.

    • @Sneaky_Basket
      @Sneaky_Basket 3 місяці тому +2

      dude, you have a lot more stress than women every day, don't be "cocoldo" and stop doing this!!!
      Being aware of things around is everyone's responsibility and women too!
      If they wanna feel safe then they can buy pepper spray or a gun or go on self-defence classes!!!
      Do not make easy life for womens. they have it even without you and no one gonna give ya any amount of respect for that. don't be delusional!!!
      Also actually if u r a "good guy" than this move when you live a whole street for one girl is actually not making her safer, coz actual criminals don't give a f about her safety but they probably won't risk to attack here if they saw some men around...

    • @Joni-lq3rf
      @Joni-lq3rf 3 місяці тому

      Ist that true? That's so Kind of you ​@@KoongYe

  • @Huggamugger1
    @Huggamugger1 3 місяці тому +154

    As a man who probably looks like they can take care of themselves, I'm still not comfortable walking around at night. If I see a guy approaching me I will still be ready to defend myself or run. So it's not just a woman thing to be concerned.

    • @FannyAdamsGhost
      @FannyAdamsGhost 3 місяці тому +21

      I've wondered if it's worse for men because the expectation of getting into a fight is higher.

    • @ethicscannie5716
      @ethicscannie5716 3 місяці тому +21

      But the consequences would likely be quite different if a confrontation did come about.

    • @getsumeimarson2628
      @getsumeimarson2628 3 місяці тому +6

      What if it was a burly man and he walks up to you and throws out the girl voice

    • @Huggamugger1
      @Huggamugger1 3 місяці тому +14

      @@FannyAdamsGhost Also as someone in healthcare who has to deal with individuals who do become violent, often I find myself not calling for help because I'm embarrassed. As a man you're expected to be able to handle yourself. You feel like people would laugh at you if you ran screaming from a violent threat. Also my backup are usually women and because I've been taught to protect women, I either won't call for backup or I find myself placing myself between my female coworker and the danger so she won't get hurt. I guess nowadays that would be called beneficial misogyny but that's what I was taught to do when growing up.

    • @deb7834
      @deb7834 3 місяці тому +15

      My brother was beaten up by a gang of men. He wasn't doing anything to warrant the attack. Men are in as much danger sometimes.

  • @mrsloi3265
    @mrsloi3265 3 місяці тому +14

    My husband was out of a town working and a friend and her husband had invited me to a party in town. My husband’s friends lived in the same apartment building as us and didn’t want to go out that night but didn’t want me to go walking outside alone. Not only did they go with me, but they stayed beside me and made sure no guys were hitting on me. True gems of men 💗

  • @MrBashem
    @MrBashem 3 місяці тому +31

    It's because men hear women talking about everything but men keep things more to themselves. So women wouldn't know as much about men without close male friends.

  • @dom2178
    @dom2178 3 місяці тому +12

    I legit teared up when they all agreed to thinking about their mom's as a role model. I pray every day that God helps me be the best example for my daughter and I'm so grateful for the unconditionally loving mother I have.

  • @Scimitars-in-sandstone
    @Scimitars-in-sandstone 3 місяці тому +19

    His insecurity answer was top notch! I didn’t catch issues with the voice except his laugh. The horse answer was great and interjecting about it when the other girl brought it up was brilliant. I thought it was so funny how as the conversation went on the women started angling towards each other and subconsciously moving closer together while he stayed right were he was 😂

  • @KattMurr
    @KattMurr 3 місяці тому +67

    He did a great job with the voice...

    • @RT88414
      @RT88414 3 місяці тому +5

      I bet it took a lot of practice. As a male, I couldn’t do it even if I tried.

    • @BasedOverflow
      @BasedOverflow 2 місяці тому

      He still sounds like a dude trying to sound like a woman though, at least to me. It just sounds like his voice is super strained and shaky, but that doesn't mean he isn't doing a great job at it since he still does fool a lot of people, specially other dudes.

    • @winnielewis1749
      @winnielewis1749 2 місяці тому +1

      He does this for a living, he’s a streamer I think? But basically he tricks people I to thinking he’s a woman

  • @acemarvel1564
    @acemarvel1564 3 місяці тому +57

    I'm glad to be rejected by my entire generation during my school years, i wouldn't wish my worst enemy to be trapped into this nonsense

    • @icu3869
      @icu3869 3 місяці тому +1

      Read “ how to Win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnage. A classic book with life- changing cheat codes that have been proven for decades. Once you know the rules, you can navigate and master the game. It can improve ALL your dealings with people. I promise this is the best advice you’ll get.

  • @kellymccaffrey3939
    @kellymccaffrey3939 2 місяці тому +5

    im a nurse and i often see men suddenly become quite low in mood and anxious when they become old/frail/ill as they have a level of vulnerability that is quite new to them when out and aboutin society. obviously this is very generalised but its something ive noticed and helped men through over the last 20 years.

    • @goofygrandlouis6296
      @goofygrandlouis6296 2 місяці тому

      WRONG angle !!
      The real question is *WHY* is American society so violent ?
      Maybe if women stopped voting for Democrats, and started embracing law & order, your cities would be quite a different experience.

    • @user-di4ud4xn5h
      @user-di4ud4xn5h 2 місяці тому

      How did u help them through it

  • @chrisrussell8245
    @chrisrussell8245 3 місяці тому +24

    Okay this guy is a total pro, not fair 😂

    • @jamesestelle7260
      @jamesestelle7260 3 місяці тому +3

      He literally is a pro. He does it as a job. Look his youtube channel up.

    • @monicaz1558
      @monicaz1558 Місяць тому

      Those girls should have noticed when he said he was 6' with a size 9 shoe. 6' means 9 1/2 minimum with wide toes.

  • @Scimitars-in-sandstone
    @Scimitars-in-sandstone 3 місяці тому +14

    I’m a woman. I wouldn’t describe myself as hyper vigilant, but there are feelings of anxiety that come and go. I get very nervous being in unlocked cars, and walking alone in parking lots, even if just for 30 seconds. But I can usually walk by myself most places and feel fine. I think that this is because of the neighborhood I grew up in (super safe) and the fact that I’ve spent most of my life surrounded by powerful good men. Because of that, the few times I’ve met men who have made me feel unsafe I’ve had someone stronger who could and would protect me if things went south. I’m really grateful for that. I know that things would be different if I was alone.

  • @FannyAdamsGhost
    @FannyAdamsGhost 3 місяці тому +10

    As a biological woman I would never try and speak for men but I feel like they would be more hyper vigilant than women because they're not only out there protecting themselves but protecting others, that's just what they do.

  • @snowyy.5275
    @snowyy.5275 3 місяці тому +13

    As a woman, always. When I'm walking anywhere outside of busy public shopping streets or when it's dark, I don't wear headphones and I'm always scanning my surroundings. I tense up and fight the urge to speed up whenever I hear someone walking behind me. I'm spotting dark corners where danger could be hiding and walk in bright areas. Generally speaking, I avoid walking alone after sunset to begin with. I don't even take the trash out behind the apartment after 6pm. Ever since I got sexually assaulted on a train, whenever I have to take crowded public transport, I put my back to a surface and place a bag in front of me. If I'm in an uncomfortable situation that feels like it could escalate (i.e. catcalling), it means placating and looking for an exit

  • @Huggamugger1
    @Huggamugger1 3 місяці тому +30

    Just ask a man what size of panty hose they wear. Most men don't know it's just general sizes like Small, Medium, Large, ect.

    • @milirodriguez8493
      @milirodriguez8493 3 місяці тому +1

      Oh, same with pants. I sometimes forget that our measurements for bottoms are different, as well.

    • @ribbonsofnight
      @ribbonsofnight 3 місяці тому +3

      really easy if they're second or later to answer though. I'd have more trouble inventing a bra size.

    • @trekadouble757
      @trekadouble757 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ribbonsofnight There's an easy way out of this one though: "I don't wear bras"

    • @cookiegirl1097
      @cookiegirl1097 3 місяці тому +1

      @@trekadouble757 As a girl, almost all of us wear bras, and saying you don’t would just add more suspicion. For example, next, someone could randomly ask if you have back pain. If yes, you’d probably get voted out, because the point is that those with big boobs often have back pain. I know there are other conditions, and they probably would ask, but then, your still drawing attention to yourself

    • @Ash_NuggTato
      @Ash_NuggTato 2 місяці тому

      Im a chick and I thought it was only small, medium, and large and that stuff, there's sizes?

  • @Meiiiow
    @Meiiiow 3 місяці тому +11

    Suffer from extreme paranoia after bad situations and try to save others to experiance it but many naive girlies say i victim blame when i only give good advice so they never end up badly.

  • @greenlissy
    @greenlissy 3 місяці тому +12

    Ask about periods. That's a tough one. Eg story of your first period. I wrote that comment too early - and the guy asked it!! :D

  • @KaiLucasZachary
    @KaiLucasZachary 3 місяці тому +30

    As a dude, I once imagined being a “midwife” because I genuinely think childbirth is awesome. Ended up a preschool teacher instead because I’m never gonna be a doctor (although the amount of injury preparedness you have to have as a preschool teacher could probably get me pretty damn close to passing an EMT exam….)

  • @user-kw5tt8vr7s
    @user-kw5tt8vr7s 3 місяці тому +9

    We scan a situation for any and all threats to ourselves and everyone else present, prioritize them, and size them up to decide what our instinctual reaction will be.

  • @GreenPizza577
    @GreenPizza577 3 місяці тому +16

    On vulnerability in public and attentiveness. As a man, I am alert at all times looking for other men who are displaying radical body language and for women who look defensive or on high guard, I try to do my best to not be too standoffish or aggressive. I was robbed on the metro once so the myth that men feel unequally safe in opposition to women is a myth. This is from a 6,3 man who looks like the comic book guy from the Simpsons.

  • @jabarsins
    @jabarsins 3 місяці тому +12

    I'm hypervigilant but that's from Iraq, "Complacency kills", once you learn that you can't unlearn it

    • @cookiegirl1097
      @cookiegirl1097 3 місяці тому +2

      You are from Iraq, or fought in Iraq?

    • @jabarsins
      @jabarsins 3 місяці тому +2

      @@cookiegirl1097 2 tours to Iraq in the Marines

  • @mohammedtv210
    @mohammedtv210 3 місяці тому +7

    I always feel that when im around strangers so it's a human thing but the one difference is men get ready to fight while women get ready to run

  • @WhiteTiger333
    @WhiteTiger333 3 місяці тому +15

    One thing I wish I didn't experience as a woman (and don't anymore, due to age) was the horribly painful and heavy periods. Midol was a joke. I was soooo glad when that monthly cycle started backing off.
    Funny that the women rejected the one for not getting it about the underwire. She probably doesn't wear underwire bras, but as soon as they named it, she still knew what it was.

    • @genalee5211
      @genalee5211 3 місяці тому +2

      Same here don’t miss that at all. I paid my dues for 40 years age 11 to 51 geez despite gaining 10 pounds after menopause I heard could of been worst. I heard some women gain 50+ pounds😮

    • @paige8453
      @paige8453 3 місяці тому +2

      I do still want the ability to get pregnant but would love to just get rid of the bleeding part of a period entirely. it's so annoying to deal with.

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes, I know about underwire but I was thinking maybe there's a specific other word for the wire itself.

    • @vinachamp8270
      @vinachamp8270 2 місяці тому +1

      Whitetiger, SAME HERE with that damn cycle!! So much pain! Had to get a script for ibuprofen in the early days. That was the only thing that worked. After so many years, I can’t take it anymore. Messes with my stomach. I will say, however, you could set your watch to me. 😛 Never a day late without being pregnant. SO GLAD all that is over, now. 😂

  • @pikestance8851
    @pikestance8851 2 місяці тому +4

    One thing I noticed about women out by themselves is the lack of eye contact. Women actively do not make eye contact; typically looking down and away.

    • @sadie_cat
      @sadie_cat 2 місяці тому +1

      I think it's bc if we make eye contact with the wrong person, they'll we're flirting

    • @alexe.8224
      @alexe.8224 Місяць тому

      ​@@sadie_cat definitely.. also a lot of mentally unstable people out here. You don't know what's going on there

  • @emilyl5780
    @emilyl5780 3 місяці тому +18

    You’re awesome Amala ❤

  • @furiousgreg4397
    @furiousgreg4397 3 місяці тому +12

    I tried to explain the male version of the vigilance thing to a couple of women in my life and they just didn't seem to understand that men also keep an eye out when in parking lots, walking alone at night, etc., ask any man and they will tell you we threat assess every man we meet all the time, to the point we're rarely even conscious of it. The truth of it is that the subset of men who are violent or otherwise dangerous are as much a problem for men as they are to women. While we men don't generally worry about sexual violence we do have a lot of concern of getting the shit beat out of us.
    The disconnect where women don't think we understand their fear comes from our instinctual behavior to present ourselves as a potential threat to avoid real threats by other men. You don't need to be hyper-masculine to accomplish this, even nice guys who a woman would never worry about can be quietly and unconsciously, through their posture, or gaze be letting other men know they are a potential threat so don't mess with them. This might not make sense to all women but that's pretty much how it works.
    So yes we get it ladies and that's why men have always taken to the role of "protector" because we know that as bad as it is for us at least we are more physically built for violent confrontation then women are.
    PS. to all the women out there who wear headphones while walking alone: just stop it. Situational awareness is your greatest tool to avoid danger, whether it's hearing an ambulance before you step off a curb or a bad man creeping up on you, if you can't hear you might as well paint a target on your back. You can call this "blaming the victim" but that subset of men who are dangerous don't care about what is or isn't socially acceptable behavior.
    PPS. I realized that I forgot to say that I also can understand that when men present as potentially dangerous to avoid confrontations with other men it's unfortunately probably being seen by women as, well... potentially dangerous to them as well. I really do wish it was different but we humans really are only partially rational animals and while we as a civilization have made enormous gains in reducing the overall levels of interpersonal violence in our societies we still have a ways to go. Keep in mind it's only been 400 or so years since the Enlightenment which really marked the beginning of an understanding of individual rights including the right to personal safety and dignity, which is just a small fraction of our time on Earth. With each generation get a little better so unless we screw it up the future looks bright.

    • @sarahvanbuskirk7432
      @sarahvanbuskirk7432 3 місяці тому +2

      They are probably a bigger problem for a women to handle it if it did go down than if a man were to handle the escalating situation, tho right? Because men have a little bit of estrogen for bone density and fat for their bodies. But women need testosterone to build any type of muscle, strength, or losing like any weight. So women have very little testosterone.
      So you guys are basically made with stronger bones somehow but made of pure muscle materials. We would have more depth in the physical pain we experience. We can tolerate pain better despite this. But we are tiny and easily destroyed with no power to fight back except emotionally or shriek, or tolerate the intense pain we get when we get absolutely demolished. It just seems you would have better odds if caught in a bad problem with a threat.

    • @dorothytucker9305
      @dorothytucker9305 3 місяці тому +4

      I wear headphones.. but I don't listen to anything when I'm outside. That way it would look like I'm busy, and have an idea of who is looking too interested in the fact that I look Busy. 😂

    • @furiousgreg4397
      @furiousgreg4397 2 місяці тому

      I get your reply and I wasn't trying to say your feeling of fear was unfounded. You should have some level of fear and I as a guy can't judge how much you should feel. My point was that us good men (I least I try to be good) do understand and I wanted to let reader's know that we do experience a level fear from those kind of people as well and why.
      Be safe out there.@@sarahvanbuskirk7432

  • @Teddy-bh2hb
    @Teddy-bh2hb 2 місяці тому +3

    As a girl I think I would probably get voted out immediately 😂

  • @NBD_Kiwii
    @NBD_Kiwii 3 місяці тому +7

    Hi Amala, Thank you for making amazing content!!!

  • @carolekelley23
    @carolekelley23 3 місяці тому +14

    My father taught his five girls to know how to defend oneself, and never be a victim.

    • @funkyfranx
      @funkyfranx 2 місяці тому

      What's wrong with being a victim? It's not a dirty word

  • @conchhead1
    @conchhead1 2 місяці тому

    I really related to the discussion on heightened awareness in your surroundings. That brought out my stress level. I could write a book on my avoidance and mental escape plans I go through everyday.

  • @AR-gg2su
    @AR-gg2su 2 місяці тому +1

    My husband (older white hair) just told me his experience this evening (8:30pm) Manhattan. We was cold, walking briskly behind a woman and he was upset she got a bit anxious when he passed her. He thought it was because of society right now. I told him. I always pay attention when a guy is near me. He then understood. It opened his mind that it’s normal for us to be concerned about our surroundings.

  • @TheMSS1977
    @TheMSS1977 3 місяці тому +5

    "what's the correct procedure for dealing with a yeast infection?"
    Not sure he'd be on this one.
    9:05 maybe I was wrong.

    • @milirodriguez8493
      @milirodriguez8493 3 місяці тому +3

      Im a woman, and even I dont know 😭 I would get voted out

    • @TheMSS1977
      @TheMSS1977 3 місяці тому

      @@milirodriguez8493 lol apologies to you madam for being wrong. I thought it could have been a good question.

    • @milirodriguez8493
      @milirodriguez8493 3 місяці тому +3

      @TheMSS1977 Oh no, no, that would still be a good question. I was just stating that even I would get that wrong. Women are definitely more common to get yeast infections so that would still be a good one

  • @SMV95OA
    @SMV95OA 3 місяці тому +3

    I do feel that about the hyper-vigilance; I don't know if it's exclusive to women, but probably a lot more common. My boyfriend actually questioned me about why I always look around at everyone when I go to certain places, and I had to explain that it's because I know there are sketchy people around and I feel the need to be aware of my surroundings.

  • @norandavis856
    @norandavis856 2 місяці тому +2

    I am hyper vigilant whenever I’m with my wife and/or children, but if I’m alone I’m pretty much aloof to what’s going on around me. So, my awareness of what’s going on around me is from a need to protect rather than a place of fear.

  • @birdland85
    @birdland85 3 місяці тому +1

    That question whas so unreal. The most personal question 🤦‍♂️

  • @JohnGramer06
    @JohnGramer06 3 місяці тому +29

    "My pronouns are she/they"
    Everyone else: "welcome aboard!"

  • @shenaejohnson9682
    @shenaejohnson9682 3 місяці тому +3

    I wouldn’t say I feel a sense of fear for my safety but I definitely have hyper vigilance when I go out and pay attention to my surroundings. For example, I never walk to my car staring at my phone, I watch my surroundings as I get in my car and lock the doors before I do anything.

  • @gabeo9474
    @gabeo9474 3 місяці тому

    Amala is too fun! Love this girl

  • @ManFromThePits
    @ManFromThePits Місяць тому +2

    As a man, I avoid unsafe situations. I've been unsafe enough to just not go out alone. There have been times I left a building just because something felt off, like I shouldn't be there. So no, this is not a woman-only thing.

  • @ShawnHinck
    @ShawnHinck 3 місяці тому +9

    Let me get this straight, one of them is so hyper vigilant that they wear their headphones without the sound on a better way to go about. It is just not wearing headphones and presenting yourself as somebody who’s Actually paying attention. Something that would truly be a benefit to the vast majority of people honestly

    • @trishdadish21
      @trishdadish21 3 місяці тому +2

      Just my take and assumption, but I think she was saying to avoid unwanted attention from a random dude, she wears headphones or looks at her phone, to pretend she can’t hear them or that she’s busy on a call, as an excuse to not engage.

    • @ShawnHinck
      @ShawnHinck 2 місяці тому +1

      @@trishdadish21 as someone who dealt with this usually after the fact, I never really got too many calls for assaults from people that were not wearing headphones. More than once did I get them from somebody wearing headphones so that people wouldn’t bother them. I get it. People are annoying and you don’t want to be bothered by them, so wearing headphones may help with that, however, it presents you as a target, especially in certain environments. The reality is, if you are concerned about being assaulted, wearing headphones on or off is one of the absolute last things you want to do.

  • @phantom3093
    @phantom3093 3 місяці тому +3

    As a man, father, and veteran, I'm always situationally aware. I recommend that in today's society, everyone should be situationally aware. It seems young people are less situationally aware. I joined the military at 17 and went to basic between my junior and senior years, so I've been aware of my surroundings, probably even before basic.

  • @garylee2976
    @garylee2976 2 місяці тому

    Great content thank you for the info. God bless you and your family 😇😇.

  • @Skamara
    @Skamara 2 місяці тому +1

    As soon as I heard him speaking, it gave me "Tootsie" vibes. He wouldn't deceive me.

  • @RazorF157
    @RazorF157 3 місяці тому +3

    Assuming I could get my voice that high, I would have struggled with round two as well. I may have been able to float the minstrel stuff but with the SA I would have faltered.

  • @sarahaluzan
    @sarahaluzan 3 місяці тому +4

    I love Natt's content! He does girl voice trolling. So fun seeing you react to a video with him😂

    • @tonytang8662
      @tonytang8662 2 місяці тому

      I think it's easier for a man faking being a girl as there ia an abundance of programmes in media where women talk about their experience and feelings, where as most male fronted programmes talk about things such as sport, cars films etc. Not so much about being male.

    • @sarahaluzan
      @sarahaluzan 2 місяці тому

      @@tonytang8662 true

  • @martynspooner5822
    @martynspooner5822 3 місяці тому

    He was so good, the voice was brilliant.

  • @alediaz67
    @alediaz67 3 місяці тому

    Love it Amala, great job.

  • @kikialeaki1850
    @kikialeaki1850 3 місяці тому +3

    I mean I (woman) am aware of my surroundings generally, more so than others, I would say. But if I were hyper-vigilant, I think I would lose my mind. I don’t live in too dangerous an area so I’m allowed to be more at ease when alone/at night. That keeps my anxiety in check lol.
    Side note: AMALA YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL TODAY. Like obviously you look beautiful everyday but the necklaces worn here are to die for; they complement you so well I kind of want to know where you got them😅. I especially like that they’re more ornamental (the heart one, at least) but coupled with a casual sweater.

  • @MochaValorant
    @MochaValorant 3 місяці тому +3

    love you girl!!

  • @jamiebensson6024
    @jamiebensson6024 2 місяці тому

    Amala, this is really interesting and what a lot of fun it must’ve been - fascinating and highly entertaining 👍🏻😎

  • @simplicity474
    @simplicity474 3 місяці тому +3

    For the hyper vigilant point, I actually try to not be the creep or weirdo if you will. I will either walk slower if behind a female or just cross the street. I will also look towards the ceiling when going up stairs lol

  • @Lp0tr33
    @Lp0tr33 2 місяці тому +9

    A big female trait is to interrupt each other.

  • @Cosette_k
    @Cosette_k 2 місяці тому +1

    “PUT ME IN COACH” gets me every time 😂

  • @colosine
    @colosine 3 місяці тому +2

    Men are just as vigilant alone, the difference is that we are more equipped to deal with danger if it does come

  • @user-tr8fs7lm8r
    @user-tr8fs7lm8r 3 місяці тому +44

    Women are socialized to trust people and not be confrontational. This makes sense.

    • @ethicscannie5716
      @ethicscannie5716 3 місяці тому +17

      Agreed. Did you notice how when a woman revealed something, they all became sort of nurturing, agreeing with her, or sympathising with her?

    • @adam.maqavoy
      @adam.maqavoy 3 місяці тому

      You just realized.. Women Talk?
      Ooof. Skill issue.

    • @BabyGirl-mx4vc
      @BabyGirl-mx4vc 2 місяці тому +1

      I disagree. The minute you disagree with most modern women about something, you then become enemy number one.

    • @ethicscannie5716
      @ethicscannie5716 2 місяці тому +1

      @BabyGirl-mx4vc Oh, that's really sad! 🥺🫤 I hope that your comment in disagreement didn't make you any new enemies!

    • @BabyGirl-mx4vc
      @BabyGirl-mx4vc 2 місяці тому

      @@ethicscannie5716 I could care less if it did. I spoke the truth and women hate the truth.🤷‍♀️

  • @poyzenxgirl
    @poyzenxgirl 3 місяці тому +3

    13:48 i always carry means to protect myself.

  • @worldphoenixpart85
    @worldphoenixpart85 2 місяці тому

    I agree with you and thanks for the Video ♥

  • @ItsMathStatsMe
    @ItsMathStatsMe 2 місяці тому

    I often listen to podcasts with the screen off as I go about my day, but I had to turn the screen back on because I couldn't tell when it was him versus other women talking. Very convincing.

  • @mysticworldwellness345
    @mysticworldwellness345 3 місяці тому +14

    I am a women who is very comfortable being out alone .

    • @nicholas8484
      @nicholas8484 3 місяці тому

      ur so special!!

    • @Joni-lq3rf
      @Joni-lq3rf 3 місяці тому +2

      Do you live in a neighbourhood with 99% of Granddads and Grannys? 😅

    • @mysticworldwellness345
      @mysticworldwellness345 3 місяці тому

      @@Joni-lq3rf No in the center of town.

  • @kassimo2169
    @kassimo2169 3 місяці тому +10

    The reality is that we men know women more than women think we do. That's why trans women are so comfortable to take women's spot but you'll never see lesbian tomboys try to take men's spot and tomboys have been around way longer than trans women (way before all these advance technologies and surgeries).

  • @seanmaddenweb
    @seanmaddenweb 2 місяці тому +2

    The reason why it's so much easier is because the internet is full of the options and insights of women. Couple that with TV advertising which geared towards women.

  • @havanafayre
    @havanafayre 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm not hyper vigilant, but I do practice situational awareness. Knowing what is going on around you not only keeps you safe, but can allow you to keep others around you safe as well.

  • @katarinaroman8392
    @katarinaroman8392 3 місяці тому +6

    I would ask the group to pick a fashion aesthetic (dark academia, cottage core, princesscore, balletcore, etc.) that describe yourself. thats so specific to girl culture.

    • @Leykys
      @Leykys 3 місяці тому

      i would be out, i don't even know what you are talking about D:

  • @diesegeties8918
    @diesegeties8918 3 місяці тому +3

    13:59 Of course we always look around to see if it is safe when we are in a dark place, we make sure that no one is following us or that no one wants to rob us. That's how you do it. This is generally what you do as a human being to be safe., but what you often do as a man is make sure you don't really look anyone in the eyes when you're walking somewhere, because otherwise you'll quickly get punched in the face.😅
    Generally as unprovocative as just walking around, try not to pose a danger or threat to anyone if you know you're in a dangerous place or you're not sure whether it's safe or not.
    😂😅

  • @VulgarTruth
    @VulgarTruth 3 місяці тому +1

    Haha this dude is amazing.. what a great and entertaining vid for the bed time! Cheers from Poland

  • @Grizzlox
    @Grizzlox 2 місяці тому

    Natt's content is HILARIOUS. seriously

  • @Elixir404
    @Elixir404 3 місяці тому +3

    Natt is really good! He has his own UA-cam channel where he voice trolls people on the internet. Even going as far as dressing as a woman😂
    His a pro and master of disguise!😂

  • @katherynemero4118
    @katherynemero4118 3 місяці тому +14

    So, what we're saying here is that women are very simple to figure out. That's sort of alarming actually.

    • @darkmatter1475
      @darkmatter1475 3 місяці тому +4

      To be fair, men are also easy to figure out. No one is really complex.

    • @daniw1319
      @daniw1319 3 місяці тому +4

      I don't think so. Women's issues are way more public, so it's easier to deduce how a woman would react and answer these questions

    • @cmay7429
      @cmay7429 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@darkmatter1475This. Especially at this fairly conversational level.
      Also, the guy dodged and stayed silent on most of the tougher questions. Better to stay silent and let them think he's a man, than speak and let them KNOW he's a man. 🤭

    • @katherynemero4118
      @katherynemero4118 3 місяці тому

      @@daniw1319 the thing is that I don't think "women's issues" are more public. It's a small fragment of issues that certain women view to be issues. And then, those women decide for all of the rest of the women what a woman should care about. And if you don't agree, those women shun you. And women are mean. So, when it comes down to it, sitting around talking about our periods all the time and how we are perpetual victims because men are terrible is a slanted perspective at best. Maybe even modern women are embracing a stereotype of what they think a woman should be. Either way, this is why people have no hope for the women of the future.

  • @yeahdawg5894
    @yeahdawg5894 3 місяці тому

    Love this content

  • @kristenclark82
    @kristenclark82 2 місяці тому

    Depending on my surroundings, my head is definitely on a swivel at times.

  • @ECCastiron
    @ECCastiron 3 місяці тому +20

    are you kidding me ??
    we guys have to be hyper vigilant for not only ourselves but everyone that we care about thats with us.
    we have to keep our heads on a swivel and our backs to a wall and facing the entry (when at a restaurant).
    so yeah were hyper vigilant for not only ourselves but our families too.

    • @ribbonsofnight
      @ribbonsofnight 3 місяці тому +1

      You must live in a very different place to me.

    • @adam.maqavoy
      @adam.maqavoy 3 місяці тому

      Try coming to *Scandinavia* and see how far that will get ya..
      ~ It Didn't help us before
      What makes YOU think it will Now?

  • @titocantarero1330
    @titocantarero1330 3 місяці тому +3

    Given the height I would say insecurity would be the height

  • @AtoZAmericaA
    @AtoZAmericaA 3 місяці тому

    I thought that he did a magnificent job. I thought it was a great panel of people. This was a really good one.

  • @livewire4495
    @livewire4495 2 місяці тому

    Love It!

  • @annarose5152
    @annarose5152 3 місяці тому +8

    I feel being hypervigilant is most definitely a Woman thing. I think 99% of us have been touched inappropriately.

    • @lilicrane5955
      @lilicrane5955 3 місяці тому

      I think woman are hyper vigilant because we are taught to be by our family , school and media. Woman also watch more crime shows than men do , a woman's psyche has been drill to be more afraid at all times so I don't think it's from traumatic experiences. I know more man who been raped and assaulted then woman and they still aren't as hyper vigilant like a woman can be .

  • @nyquil762
    @nyquil762 3 місяці тому +8

    Our civilization does not have long before it ceases to exist.

  • @FairFlower005
    @FairFlower005 3 місяці тому +1

    I am engaged, and a born women. I don’t know if I need to define that or not.
    But yes, I am ESPECIALLY hyper vigilant when climbing out of my vehicle, or if I have to shop at night alone. I really try not to shop at night alone.

  • @CourtneyBStylisteducation
    @CourtneyBStylisteducation 2 місяці тому

    Questions like “What was your first period like?”

  • @shawnm2405
    @shawnm2405 3 місяці тому +5

    Men are always hyper vigilant. We have to be by nature.

  • @Brooklynhernandez
    @Brooklynhernandez 3 місяці тому +7

    Im definitely hypervigilent

    • @treybrannon4964
      @treybrannon4964 2 місяці тому

      That is good, but do you know self defense?

    • @Brooklynhernandez
      @Brooklynhernandez 2 місяці тому

      @treybrannon4964 i know how to use my glock pretty well 🤪. Also self defense say if its a man hes almost always going to over power a woman.

  • @Alan_Edwards
    @Alan_Edwards 2 місяці тому

    I just get a kick out of your responses to these videos. Don't take this wrong coming from a 68 year old man and all, but you are so dang cute. Most certainly you are an intelligent, articulate, confident and beautiful young woman, but it's your sincerity that comes through in this, and so many of your videos. Your responses, especially to some of the earlier responses, just put a smile on my face and I need that so thank you !!

  • @Sintax666
    @Sintax666 3 місяці тому

    when i was young i did not care much since i did feel i could handle my self ,but the older i got i find my self more and more making sure safe since i cant walk good anymore and my body is breaking down

  • @Swimmer1128
    @Swimmer1128 3 місяці тому +5

    They study us. Men actually study us I bet harder than anything in life. Ever found your dudes journal? 😉 yup

    • @WhiteTiger333
      @WhiteTiger333 3 місяці тому +1

      Great point! We women are for sure "complicated" compared to men. Well, our bodies are, our mind works differently. Just as men can be mysterious to us with their more subdued psychic energy, we must be mysterious to them with our hyper energy. (Normal to us, but hyper to them).

    • @gagewesterhouse9558
      @gagewesterhouse9558 3 місяці тому +6

      We men don't keep 'journals'.

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@gagewesterhouse9558Some actually do.

    • @ClementineDaydream
      @ClementineDaydream 3 місяці тому +1

      @@gagewesterhouse9558 LOL

    • @WhiteTiger333
      @WhiteTiger333 3 місяці тому +2

      @@gagewesterhouse9558 That's what she meant. :)

  • @viruspimpc420
    @viruspimpc420 3 місяці тому +3

    Hyperaware not hypervigilance

  • @peterlee9691
    @peterlee9691 2 місяці тому

    The last person who introduce themselves is the mole, it adds value to the flow of the script making a video to reveal the man last to create anticipation.

  • @justinmathis7707
    @justinmathis7707 2 місяці тому

    As a man I’m hyper vigilant in uncertain situations. Like ngl my heart be pounding out my chest when I’m in some places around my state at certain times of the day

  • @yoshimasterleader
    @yoshimasterleader 3 місяці тому

    I'm aware of my surroundings when I go out but I'm not nervous or paranoid.

  • @vae8652
    @vae8652 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m a woman and I definitely am hyper vigilant but I don’t know if its because I’m a woman or just part of my personality. I like to try to keep an eye on everything for possible threats (not just to me) or if someone needs assistance. I wouldn’t say I’m particularly anxious when I’m out on my own, unless of course it’s a super sketchy area. Maybe it helps that I’m 6’1” and so a little tougher to drag off lol

  • @angietrif
    @angietrif 2 місяці тому

    I’m definitely always on guard when I’m on my own somewhere

  • @christinas.8980
    @christinas.8980 2 місяці тому

    I'm hyper-vigilant of my surroundings so that I can be one step ahead of the enemy at all times because that's how I've defeated many attacks. It is not from the place of fear because I'm totally confident I can handle any mere human, they all bleed the same. There are so many other factors involved in winning a fight it doesn't always have to be about physical strength. When two men fight there's always a weaker one, make up for it with endurance, stamina, agility, speed , intelligence, knowing where the weak points are, quick reflexes

  • @ayakhulamthethwa6378
    @ayakhulamthethwa6378 3 місяці тому +1

    Love your work Amala Jesus loves y'all