Healthy Masculine Men Qualities
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- Опубліковано 28 жов 2022
- Want to date a healthy masculine man? These 5 qualities are green flags 💚
Q&A begins at 13:28, a few questions asked:
- "can your partner have friends of the opposite gender or be friends with their ex?"
- "how do you release control and get into your feminine energy?"
- "how do you connect to your light feminine energy?"
- "what do you do when your man lies about his age?"
- "is healing your inner child related to being in your feminine energy?"
- "how do you balance both feminine and masculine energy?"
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Tags: feminine energy, light feminine energy, divine feminine, women in masculine energy, relationship, relationship polarity, attraction, masculine energy, feminine energy tips, feminine energy for dating, how to get a man to chase you, how to get back into your feminine energy, green flags
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Very important missed green flag: Does he make you feel safe in every way? I feel that healthy masculine men will be protective in a healthy manner and will do whatever it takes to make a woman feel safe emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.
Men aren't therapists.
Feeling safe starts with yourself and looking for this could be very trauma informed. Even a healthy relationship with your soulmate will trigger. Especially if you both feel safe to also share the ugly. Of course he will do everything to make you feel safe emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually but he's not perfect and neither are you.
@@reizendeziel906 yeah of course, I agree that you need to be able to stand up on your own two feet and not rely on the man. But I still believe that he needs to create that safe space WITH YOU to be able to flourish together. When you flourish together you can heal and grow together. ✅
@@seekeroftruth45 they never said that? They didn’t even suggest that. Making someone feel safe is absolutely not equivalent with being a therapist.
@@tophat7735 She said "whatever it takes".
Also how they treat other women in their lives is HUGE. It’s a major red flag if they’re disrespectful to their sisters, mothers, even exes because I guarantee they’ll eventually disrespect you the same way!
YESSS, i agree 100%
Ex-incel here, taking notes :)
Really trying to escape the manosphere, wish me luck
Good on you for seeing it for what it really is. Toxic just like the radical feminists. Stay clear of any ideologies with cult-like following with less than noble intentions that classes other human beings as less than to be used (which is ironic since redpill losers cry & complain about women using men and yet are spreading advice as to how to do the same thing to use other women simply for being born female). Focus on healthy mindset advice where both sexes honor & build each other up (not tear each other down or manipulate). Respect to you for trying to better yourself.
The desire to do better is half the battle! You'll do great.
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This queen is so on point! Younger ladies… listen up these tips are well put together and important!
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you are not lying about his friends! I learned this the hard way. lol.
The part about the sun & the moon being the perfect distance away says it all! :)
This is absolutely wonderful! I also appreciate that you are also a Christian woman.
Amazing advice. The man I’m seeing does all of this 🥰. My only fear is that it’s too good to be true because I’ve faced lovebombing in the past. But this does feel different…
i was in the same situation. my es ended up being one of the worst human beings, a hypocrite and a cheater.
Just found your channel! Your so radiant ❤
I love this video so much! Good guidelines. Thank you for sharing
Healthy Masculine men don't control. They protect
Love the video
Thank you for these
I busted out laughing when you told us to ask our man what has helped shaped him into the man he is today ! 😂 ong I’ve never thought of that. I’m going to ask
I just found you and I love everything about this. You are so beautiful inside and out🤍🤍
Hello love 🤗 Thank you so much
The big bang theory is not opposed to a belief in God. I believe Science and religion are one and the same. God always provides and He provides existence itself.
The spirituality tip is huge even if you are not very religious - im not, but i do have a foundation of Christianity and am very spiritual. Religion typically shapes our values and morals. In my experience, trying to make things work with someone who is not religious at all or has no morals...it's like talking to a brick wall. It has been the number one thing that causes issues in my relationships bc when we bring things up that bother us, it stems from our morals, which they don't comprehend.
Whos your fav religious scholar?
Very very nice video.
Everything I heard I agreed with, I watched some but not all
Thank you ❤
I wish I watched her videos when this year began 😞 would have prevented a lot from happening and I think I’d be a lot happier if I noticed some of these things
Thank you for making this video it's very knowledgeable
And that is great that we have men watching as well and wanting to better oneself and the quality of there relationship with there self and lady
I completely agree! You’re so welcome love ♥️
Men like me who are watching this are doing so to learn what to look for in a healthy feminine woman, and how to support her with being that by knowing what kind of issues she faces, how she thinks, how it all works, and what she needs
Basically trying to understand everything about feminine energy and what she needs me to do and be
beleive me girls i been met many bad guys who ask me for 50/50 or fwb, relationship go no where.... i was in a group of girls we check guys in the city if he were a bad guy....( f around guy)...
i found my bf who listen to Bethoven to sleep, watch Cnn news, watch Britain prime minister candidates debate, watch titanic lego game... Took me to a nice Japan restaurant for first date and still treating me well.... he is so gentle and indredible i still cant beleive there is such a guy like him after met many f boy...
he said cannot be fb if you wanna settle down.... be fb not good should focus on family ^^
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My man helped me to tap more into my feminine energy i was unable to express my emotions and didnt used to cry and hold back myself to much so he decided to kinda make me jealous to make me feel my emotions he is A GENIUS FOR doing it but he had to drink to do it confidently but he felt little sad with himself for doing it i mistook him im a twinflame ! Because of his actions i cried , i started behaving like a little kid throwing tanturams , im so glad he made me cry after many years and made me feel my emotions
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Agree on a lot here: I definitely judge my man by his friends- I knew a guy that was great to me (or it seemed),but all his mates were players and immature boys. In that relationship the happiness lasted maybe 4 months before the games started.
Next one, I was hesitant on the man who kept on saying he wanted to marry me, yet none of his friends were married. They all had girlfriends for 5-6 years. Those men were in their forties. Somehow as well he was proud of never being married as well, being in his 40ties. I left him on the 10 month mark as he was running away from any conversation about making this relationship secure for me as well. He was surprised I did not wanted to be a girlfriend at all and expected wife treatment from me. Great guy other than that,but I could see that gilfriend trap coming and I want a family.
Sooo proud of your boundaries my girl. Your man is coming ♥️🙌🏽
16:49 soo soo happy for that
24:57 "What ever happens in life whoever stays whoever goes...what I can do is be the [greatest] version of myself really connect to my [feminine/masculine] energy and whoever stays and remains in my life, that is who is meant for me.
28:53 A masculine man who is able to provide that safe space is also A BIG KEY.
Absolutely loving this series!!! What do you use to film please (Camera, mic and lighting) ? It’s amazing!!!!! X
Thanks girl! I use a Canon Rebel t6i, I don't use any microphone, and sit in front of a window
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What about when you find the man that does all of that but then you lose him because you were the one that was not in the healthy feminine energy? 😔🤦🏾♀️
Don’t chase him and heal yourself ! ❤
@@anaztazya7512 perfect response.
You being aware of your patterns and flaws is the first step! I'm not saying you should have "toxic behaviors", but if you want to be more aware and to grow and to be a healthy partner for your future lover it's important to have patience and compassion towards yourself. You got this!
You already are deserving of love and a healthy fulfilling relationship, everyone is ❤
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I appreciate this video and the insights it brings, however there is something that I don't agree with and I think it brings a disservice to women (and men) - we know that men and women are different and one of those differences (on a hormonal and cognitive level) is how we talk and express our inner worlds. Many times women expect men to demonstrate the same signs of "doing the inner work" by talking about feelings, asking questions to evoke deep, subconscious (sometimes heavy) information in order to bond. While this is a normal feminine trait, men are more often than not incapable of matching this emotional language and that's NOT a red flag. Men statistically don't have the level of emotional intelligence women do and it's unfair to expect them to match that. Even if the man loves you deeply and wants to match your emotionality, he might feel inadequate and shut off due to his inability to find the right emotional vocabulary or paint his experiences with the emotional brush. By forcing men to do this (and if they're not masculine enough to put boundaries around you), you're literally feeding into his feminine energy and with time, you mind lose respect for him.
He might need your help in developing his feminine, but keep in mind that his masculine is why you're drawn to him - don't expect him to be like you in order to love him. Love him precisely because he is NOT like you.
@@Heyu7her3 women ARE naturally more emotionally intelligent. While men can learn to be a bit more emotionally intelligent, they will not be able to match our capacity (especially if we’ve romanticised it like it’s portrayed in this video), the same way we can learn but not entirely match their capacity for risk-taking, dominance, logical thinking. Its called being reasonable.
How do we meet these single or divorced/ widowed guys who tick all the boxes? As we get older men tend to fall out of interest with dating if they are focusing on themselves and self-devloping, or they hate women because they have been hurt so much and don't care about doing inner work, or they just focus on work and maybe some family and friends but no time or real interesting in dating even if they are already healthy. The ones interested in and seeking women for the most part are looking for short term pleasure and flings especially with younger women (but not always younger).
So how do we meet healthy like-minded single or divorced men open to dating?
How do you heal exactly? Like what things do you do to heal completely
Shadow work, inner child healing, childhood trauma healing, therapy and self help books
Keeping a journal to write your thoughts
Where they at... Not in Kentucky
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Hello! Are there any podcasts or books you recommend for men?
Jay Shetty’s “On Purpose”, Lewis Howes “The School of Greatness” and Danny Morel’s “The Higher Self” are great!
@@awwlexis thank you!
Defining a traditional man.
My husband didn’t mark one in this quiz 😢
What do you think about a man (34 years old) who was in relationship for 10 years and now is single for one year.... He told me it was tough for him because He really Loved her but He now he is over that and wants to start new.... Do you think it is even possible for him to Love again and to be really healed?
Iam 27 years old and never had a Boyfriend and honestly i feel so insecure :( i dont want to bei number two or only His alternative forever :(
Other than that he seems Like a good man and treats me good...
Dealing with a similar situation 😅
Gosh I am also in the same situation currently. Age gap, context, never been in a relationship, everything. Like literally the same.
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oh no :( my partner is almost none of these. 🙁
What do we do if we go on our first date or second and they say they left their wallet?
If you feel he made a genuine mistake that’s understandable. Observe to see if it becomes a habit. If it is, I’d let him know I lose attraction to irresponsibility
Hi, I have fall in in love with a man and I told me to let him what I feel about him so since that he not reply my texts. So I suspended texting him in a month. I just started text him again last week but him not reply what should I do?
Don't text him anymore. Let go. Not so that he can come back to you but because he does not care as much as you do.
don't text him ever again girl........
You truly need to do a toxic feminity video.
How would you draw the line between your version of hyping a female up and placing her on a pedestal? AMS said not to validate women and you should only throw them a bone every so often.
How would you feel a woman treating you the way same way you would treat her? Have basic respect for another human being, be observant, don't fall for her face, listen to what she says. I mean, if your intention is just to have sex, use & discard people, then I have no words for you, but if you're looking for a wife, I guess you'd like to have her talk highly of you, and you would do the same. Love, faithfulness, companionship. You're not going to learn that on the red pill community. But, be observant. There's a lot of bad women and men out there.
@@kenasssss This was great input so thank you. This is similar to a video I just watched last night, here's the time stamp to skip to 1:26:30 ua-cam.com/video/D5X0tAecfF4/v-deo.html
@@jonyD143 I did start only from the time you pointed, but it was very valuable. Thank you.
My man seldom to give me apreciation n sometimes he make me feel down. Although I work on my mental health n self worth three years..he told me i am unqualified/loser at my office but my parents very like him because he has a lot of money. Any suggestion?
Dump him. No amount of money can make up for being married to a guy who doesn't respect, love, & adore you. HE is the one who sounds like an insecure loser, putting you down for your job? Please, no truly confident decent self-respecting man does this, this screams insecurity & lack of respect for you. What healthy man puts a woman down for her job?? You deserve better. True man who loves you builds you up, wants to provide for you, respects you. There are other men out who are both financially competent & respectful of you who want to cherish, honor, and adore you. Know your worth, don't settle for less. You can do this ❤
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Why if he is all of these but projects takes things out on you
It is great he has most of these qualities. Try to create a safe space between you two where it’s encouraged to discuss triggers and projections and find where they’re coming from. A commitment to growing & being self aware = really great
im a male and i didnt watch this video but i am my own loving parent with gentleness humor love respect selfcompassion and healthy boundaries and integrity to my inner child - Men come in all shapes and sizes and some can be a lot more connected to their feelings than a woman, it will all depend, if theyve done the healing work, but putting people in a box is an issue, and labeling genders or stereotyping because as i said men come with different qualities and shapes and sizes im grateful to God and my attuning work to have done , my healing work from a narc family system, am an empath that tries to be gentle on myself keep healthy boundaries and choose safe enough people, men or women, for my circle who can love and be responsible for them selves, women can be toxic too by theway. It isnt cool to stereotype a gender ! Either way. But i see more stereotyping from women to be honest and its good to reject misandry firmlyyyyy!!!! The vast Majority of men aren't abusers truth be told :=)) And you. canhave women abusers too truth be told.... We dont tell young girls though , that the future is male, because there would be instant outrage and mayhem, so there you go, lets highlight these societal contradictions and double standards.... for a fair chance and equity and opportunity justice and healthy empathy for all...... A healthy empath with boundaries knows how to put their oxygen mask on first in a healthy way, with gentleness humor love and respect, and undesrtands that only with healthy levels of selfcare selfcompassion boundaries integrity to the inner child and healthy connection is it a good place to give. A empath whos done his or her healing work knows how to see redflags super quick :) God speed we keep healing peace outt with gentleness humor love and respect and selfcompassion healthy boundaries and integrity to the inner child, and safe enough relational healing !!!!!!!!!!!!
@@Heyu7her3 great so womens pain is the only valid one , ok then , sure.. good lluck with that mindset longterm, it wont get you anywhere, or get you any healthy andd emotionally mature and self respecting sober partners.. bye.
It is weird to me that you are smiling the whole video even while you're talking Like you're putting on an act And trying to come across warm and fuzzy. Feels like you're trying to sell something
No shit. She's running a business.
Maybe she’s actually just genuinely happy. Stop being rude
😆@@seekeroftruth45
What do we do if we go on our first date or second and they say they left their wallet?
Make sure they pay u back!!!😆
It shows irresponsibility, do not pay for the date..even if you do pay for the date, never go out with that person again
@@marthafernandez5612 oops I forgot to add that but yep! pay & make sure they pay you back, then never go out with them again!
Pay it and run!!
incredibly unattractive, men are providers