Can Her Dad Choose the Perfect Date?
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
- Happy Friday! Today we’re going to blind react to a video of a dad choosing a date for his daughter from a pool of 20 guys. Will his dating standards match hers enough to make her happy, or will this be a disaster? Ladies, would you let your dad do this for you? Fellas, do you think you could pass the dad test? Let’s get into it!
Original video: • Dad Swipes 20 Guys For...
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busted out laughing when he gave them each a hug while rejecting them, that’s so sweet & wholesome🥹❤️
Ridiculous too.
Yeah, morality, imagine that.
I get he means well but 🤦♀️
Amala Ekpunobi Just a quick note,my young friend..I was just watching a Vid with Glenn Loury and John McWhorter. The Black American Academics,def worth listening& from ur POV u might enjoy talking to these two Gents!
In the first round, everyone Dad rejected guy was short. The 2nd round was pretty shallow too. Glad to see Dad wasn't being superficial. Oh, no. 🙂 This was such a "reality show" I coldn't watch anymore.
When I was in a relationship with the person before my now husband my father was talking to a group of guys on the way back from a Christian men's conference and he looked my now husband in the eyes and said. "I know the perfect guy for her, he just hasn't made a move yet. . ."
😂 we're married now
Dean said our dad’s a good wing man too. For both of you.
"The surprise is that he's black!" WOW Taylor lmao
I busted out laughing at that part 😂
@@VioletRaven. Same🤣💖
He was right 😆
I said it before he did lol
We were were all thinking it 😂
Hahaha my grandfather was a firefighter. He was one of my favorite people in the world. My husband is a third generation firefighter, and this year we are married 10 years. He is the best husband I could ever ask for and best father in the world to our 3 kids! ❤
❤
I wouldn’t want to go out with anyone who tried to cosy up to my dad like some of those boys did - like telling him he had nice eyes, smells of desperation!
@@karinarossavik But complimenting his eyes is weird!
It's hard for men to dish out compliments to fellow men hence.. the eyes compliment 😂
Mildly offended wholesome Christian family man and fireman here! 😂
Me currently dedicating my life to becoming a firefighter: 😭
Thank you for your dedication
I guess it's a good thing to know that people think that about your profession. Don't want to be blindsided by people's biases.
I would a 100% date a firefighter! Especially if you wear that sexy uniform. 🔥🥵
Edit-typo
If I were a dad, Firefighter is top tier. Could totally protect my daughter, has tons of virsitial experience, usually the kindest, most compassionate, hard-working people ever.
Plus they're usually hot,
Appreciate your hard work... 🙌
Yup, she's absolutely not into the chosen one
¨he seems like a nice guy...¨ yeah she's not touching that guy
She just said this so the rejection wouldn't stung too much. Like every other woman on the planet who ever said that to a man.
He definitely sounds like a great person and Dad. What a sweet man.
Yeah, he has great vibes.
Loved this concept but the awkward dancing at the end of the video hurt my soul 😂😭
I sorta blame the clarinetist. As a fellow musician, I can do that! Play something with a beat for dancing! 😂
Part of me thinks I would never EVER let my dad pick a date for me, but my curious side would pay for front row seat tickets to watch him try, and see what he comes up with 😊
Who knows? He might know me better than I think, and I could be pleasantly surprised.
When I was young I said never to paramedics, police, farmers, anyone who was on call. I married a paramedic in the end, 30 years ago and still happy.
What a heartwarming story! 👍
Makes sense because they are in the business of "serving" the public and marriage is about service to each other.
🤦♂️ 😂
My husband is the only man my dad ever vouched for. All the other men i had been with were tolerated but not missed by my father when we inevitably broke up. I am so happy i listened to my dad because my husband is truly the love of my life. ❤
I would never WANT my dad to do this, and he would never do this. BUT, I know that my dad would pick a good match for me, he knows me very well. 🥰
Then he should do it haha
So you know he would pick well but would still pass on him doing that?
Too late, I found my match already 😂
🐟 27. MARRIAGE & THE FAMILY:
Matrimony is the contractual union of a man with one or more women, primarily for the purpose of PROCREATION and child-rearing.
The couple should be brought together by their respective parents, and if practical, some sort of nuptial ceremony performed. Once a couple has been engaged to be married, they should not break the agreement, unless one party has been proven to have lost his or her virginity with a third party. OBVIOUSLY, after the wedding, the marriage contract cannot be broken, unless one or both parties has committed adultery, or one party has chosen to no longer carry out his or her marital duties (for instance, if the husband refuses to materially-support his wife/wives, or the wife refuses to perform domestic chores for her master, both of which are legitimate grounds for divorce).
A RESPONSIBLE father will objectively evaluate the unique characteristics, virtues, idiosyncrasies, and shortcomings of his child from a relatively early age, and thereafter, seek a compatible spouse from the available pool of persons in his social circles. Unless his nation faces extinction, the potential match should not be any closer to his child than a cousin. If a prospective couple do not belong to the same clan (and thereby do not share the same family name), it is probable that their genetic code is sufficiently divergent to create healthy offspring. As implied above, incestuous marriage should only be condoned if the human race is in danger of extermination, or possibly in the instance where an entire race or nation is on the verge of annihilation.
If one’s parents fail in their duty to select a suitable mate, one should very carefully choose a COMPATIBLE spouse. The recommended criteria used to evaluate marital compatibility are as follows: physical characteristics (such as relative height and sexual attractiveness), personality type, intelligence, emotional temperament, diet, cultural similarities, political ideology, religious affiliation, and life goals.
One of the major causes of conjugal breakdown in recent decades has been due to the couple selecting each other based solely (or at least predominantly) on sexual attraction and/or amorous attachments, with little consideration given to the other guiding principles, listed above.
Romance rarely lasts more than a couple of years. Marriage is an institution based largely on PRACTICAL considerations, not on lustful feelings or on fleeting sentimentality. Without firm, practical reasons for a couple remaining conjugally-bound, they are susceptible to marital divorce.
Generally speaking, women have the potent desire to raise children, and require a man with which to mate, and then protect and support her and the offspring, during the fifteen-plus years (for EACH child) of child-rearing. Most men also desire to have a family, and additionally, possess a very powerful libido, which, if not channelled in a legitimate fashion, can cause a great deal of social misbehaviour (e.g. rape, etc.).
There is no such thing as a nun in the eyes of God. Therefore, unless a woman is seriously disabled, either physically or psychologically, or else a lesbian, she is lawfully OBLIGATED to marry the man preselected by her parents (or if her parents are deceased, by her extant master, whether that be her grandfather, an uncle, or an adult nephew). Ideally, women ought to be betrothed as soon as they reach adulthood, to avoid a childless existence. Quite understandably, very few men have aspirations to mate with a post-menopausal female.
Marriage is mandatory for men too, apart from missionary priests, those unfortunate males who are unable to support a family for reasons of mental or physical incapacity, men who are simply passed-over by hypergamous females due to being perceived as low-value suitors, homosexuals (meaning, men who are not at all attracted to the opposite gender. Bisexuals are not exempt from marriage), and men who reside in jurisdictions where ILLEGITIMATE feministic governments enact so-called “laws” which abrogate the lawful rights of married men.
In my particular case, despite being a model husband and father, my first wife, with the support of the dirty, demonic, democratic Australian government, literally kidnapped my three precious children, whilst my second wife, with the assistance of the equally-wicked, violent, corrupt, murderous Filipino government, stole my presbytery (the house of a priest).
The recent exodus of men in Western countries from the dating pool (or at least from formal marriage) is more than understandable.
The man should be approximately ten to twenty years OLDER than his wife/wives. Some of the reasons for this are:
It is natural for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. There is a good evolutionary reason why women reach their sexual peak between the ages of about fifteen to twenty-five and why a man's sexual market value peaks in his thirties to fifties. The female matures earlier (physically and socially), so if she mates with a man of similar age, she may find her spouse to be emotionally immature. The husband is almost a substitute for the woman's father figure, so the husband’s age gives him added authority as head of the family. Also, it gives the man extra time to establish his career, a house and home for his wife and forthcoming progeny.
The main duties of the HUSBAND are to teach his wife/wives and sons whatever beneficial lessons he has learnt from his own masters, protect his family from harm, and supply their necessities of life (that is, food, clothing, and shelter) as well as desired luxuries, if practicable. The English noun “husband” comes from the Old Norse word “hûsbôndi”, meaning “master of the house”.
Marriage is not a democracy. Any so-called man who compromises with his subordinates, whether they be his wife/wives or his offspring, is surely doomed to failure. Feminized western men, in particular, are guilty of such uxoriousness. Such emasculated “men” are not true men, and desperately need to regain their dignity as the head of their homes.
The main daily duties of the WIFE are to execute domestic chores such as to cook, clean, sew, take care of the children, and to keep the husband sexually satisfied so he doesn't look at other women.
The wife should submit to the will of her husband. She should fully respect him as her master, and should address him accordingly.
Whilst conversing, the wife should focus her attention completely on her husband. She should listen carefully to what he says, learn what he is saying, answer him, and obey his instructions. A man should never be alone with any female, apart from his wife, of course.
POLYGAMY has been taught by all the major religions. Unfortunately, the “westernized” religious cults seem to have done away with the practice for unbeknown reasons. The reason for polygamy is simply due to the fact that every woman needs a husband. Also, a certain proportion of men are destined to die as bachelors due to female hypergamy, which is a natural trait of women (even if it may seem unfair).
When a woman marries, she LITERALLY joins the family of her husband.
She takes her master's family name, and the husband's parents become her parents, which is why they are called “father/mother-in-law”, that is, “father/mother according to the law” (the one and only law of God, or more accurately, the Universal Law, as propounded in Chapter 12).
Cont...
@@rickimanasseh Ask your dad if he would have picked him out of 20.
I literally only dated guys I could see as a future husband. And now I have a wonderful husband of almost 10 years and still going strong.
As a father you don’t want to get it wrong if you play this game - you’d better teach your girl beforehand how to wisely pick her life partner.
🐟 27. MARRIAGE & THE FAMILY:
Matrimony is the contractual union of a man with one or more women, primarily for the purpose of PROCREATION and child-rearing.
The couple should be brought together by their respective parents, and if practical, some sort of nuptial ceremony performed. Once a couple has been engaged to be married, they should not break the agreement, unless one party has been proven to have lost his or her virginity with a third party. OBVIOUSLY, after the wedding, the marriage contract cannot be broken, unless one or both parties has committed adultery, or one party has chosen to no longer carry out his or her marital duties (for instance, if the husband refuses to materially-support his wife/wives, or the wife refuses to perform domestic chores for her master, both of which are legitimate grounds for divorce).
A RESPONSIBLE father will objectively evaluate the unique characteristics, virtues, idiosyncrasies, and shortcomings of his child from a relatively early age, and thereafter, seek a compatible spouse from the available pool of persons in his social circles. Unless his nation faces extinction, the potential match should not be any closer to his child than a cousin. If a prospective couple do not belong to the same clan (and thereby do not share the same family name), it is probable that their genetic code is sufficiently divergent to create healthy offspring. As implied above, incestuous marriage should only be condoned if the human race is in danger of extermination, or possibly in the instance where an entire race or nation is on the verge of annihilation.
If one’s parents fail in their duty to select a suitable mate, one should very carefully choose a COMPATIBLE spouse. The recommended criteria used to evaluate marital compatibility are as follows: physical characteristics (such as relative height and sexual attractiveness), personality type, intelligence, emotional temperament, diet, cultural similarities, political ideology, religious affiliation, and life goals.
One of the major causes of conjugal breakdown in recent decades has been due to the couple selecting each other based solely (or at least predominantly) on sexual attraction and/or amorous attachments, with little consideration given to the other guiding principles, listed above.
Romance rarely lasts more than a couple of years. Marriage is an institution based largely on PRACTICAL considerations, not on lustful feelings or on fleeting sentimentality. Without firm, practical reasons for a couple remaining conjugally-bound, they are susceptible to marital divorce.
Generally speaking, women have the potent desire to raise children, and require a man with which to mate, and then protect and support her and the offspring, during the fifteen-plus years (for EACH child) of child-rearing. Most men also desire to have a family, and additionally, possess a very powerful libido, which, if not channelled in a legitimate fashion, can cause a great deal of social misbehaviour (e.g. rape, etc.).
There is no such thing as a nun in the eyes of God. Therefore, unless a woman is seriously disabled, either physically or psychologically, or else a lesbian, she is lawfully OBLIGATED to marry the man preselected by her parents (or if her parents are deceased, by her extant master, whether that be her grandfather, an uncle, or an adult nephew). Ideally, women ought to be betrothed as soon as they reach adulthood, to avoid a childless existence. Quite understandably, very few men have aspirations to mate with a post-menopausal female.
Marriage is mandatory for men too, apart from missionary priests, those unfortunate males who are unable to support a family for reasons of mental or physical incapacity, men who are simply passed-over by hypergamous females due to being perceived as low-value suitors, homosexuals (meaning, men who are not at all attracted to the opposite gender. Bisexuals are not exempt from marriage), and men who reside in jurisdictions where ILLEGITIMATE feministic governments enact so-called “laws” which abrogate the lawful rights of married men.
In my particular case, despite being a model husband and father, my first wife, with the support of the dirty, demonic, democratic Australian government, literally kidnapped my three precious children, whilst my second wife, with the assistance of the equally-wicked, violent, corrupt, murderous Filipino government, stole my presbytery (the house of a priest).
The recent exodus of men in Western countries from the dating pool (or at least from formal marriage) is more than understandable.
The man should be approximately ten to twenty years OLDER than his wife/wives. Some of the reasons for this are:
It is natural for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. There is a good evolutionary reason why women reach their sexual peak between the ages of about fifteen to twenty-five and why a man's sexual market value peaks in his thirties to fifties. The female matures earlier (physically and socially), so if she mates with a man of similar age, she may find her spouse to be emotionally immature. The husband is almost a substitute for the woman's father figure, so the husband’s age gives him added authority as head of the family. Also, it gives the man extra time to establish his career, a house and home for his wife and forthcoming progeny.
The main duties of the HUSBAND are to teach his wife/wives and sons whatever beneficial lessons he has learnt from his own masters, protect his family from harm, and supply their necessities of life (that is, food, clothing, and shelter) as well as desired luxuries, if practicable. The English noun “husband” comes from the Old Norse word “hûsbôndi”, meaning “master of the house”.
Marriage is not a democracy. Any so-called man who compromises with his subordinates, whether they be his wife/wives or his offspring, is surely doomed to failure. Feminized western men, in particular, are guilty of such uxoriousness. Such emasculated “men” are not true men, and desperately need to regain their dignity as the head of their homes.
The main daily duties of the WIFE are to execute domestic chores such as to cook, clean, sew, take care of the children, and to keep the husband sexually satisfied so he doesn't look at other women.
The wife should submit to the will of her husband. She should fully respect him as her master, and should address him accordingly.
Whilst conversing, the wife should focus her attention completely on her husband. She should listen carefully to what he says, learn what he is saying, answer him, and obey his instructions. A man should never be alone with any female, apart from his wife, of course.
POLYGAMY has been taught by all the major religions. Unfortunately, the “westernized” religious cults seem to have done away with the practice for unbeknown reasons. The reason for polygamy is simply due to the fact that every woman needs a husband. Also, a certain proportion of men are destined to die as bachelors due to female hypergamy, which is a natural trait of women (even if it may seem unfair).
When a woman marries, she LITERALLY joins the family of her husband.
She takes her master's family name, and the husband's parents become her parents, which is why they are called “father/mother-in-law”, that is, “father/mother according to the law” (the one and only law of God, or more accurately, the Universal Law, as propounded in Chapter 12).
Cont...
Tbf I would never give anyone my phone number until I know them a little more. For me it doesn't indicate interest or otherwise. I just think having my phone number is a little too personal in the "I just met you stage"
i feel you. i have no social media so it sucks for me in the department i kind of have to give my number first and just hope for the best 😅
What was the weirdest shit at the end. 😂. Imagine playing some depressing ass music to the girl you will never have and the guy that beat you.
Ikr 😭🤣
Different times for sure😂
Depression scene built different lmao.
I knew it was gonna be that guy! 😂 I think they should've chosen a bunch of Christian men that she was physically attracted to for the dad to choose from. Then it would've been a match!
For me its safety and time. Like regardless of the cheating, some professions keep you far from the family or you have to go with them (military)
I want my dad to do this! It would be so interesting to see what he’d say, because we don’t really talk about relationships.
🐟 27. MARRIAGE & THE FAMILY:
Matrimony is the contractual union of a man with one or more women, primarily for the purpose of PROCREATION and child-rearing.
The couple should be brought together by their respective parents, and if practical, some sort of nuptial ceremony performed. Once a couple has been engaged to be married, they should not break the agreement, unless one party has been proven to have lost his or her virginity with a third party. OBVIOUSLY, after the wedding, the marriage contract cannot be broken, unless one or both parties has committed adultery, or one party has chosen to no longer carry out his or her marital duties (for instance, if the husband refuses to materially-support his wife/wives, or the wife refuses to perform domestic chores for her master, both of which are legitimate grounds for divorce).
A RESPONSIBLE father will objectively evaluate the unique characteristics, virtues, idiosyncrasies, and shortcomings of his child from a relatively early age, and thereafter, seek a compatible spouse from the available pool of persons in his social circles. Unless his nation faces extinction, the potential match should not be any closer to his child than a cousin. If a prospective couple do not belong to the same clan (and thereby do not share the same family name), it is probable that their genetic code is sufficiently divergent to create healthy offspring. As implied above, incestuous marriage should only be condoned if the human race is in danger of extermination, or possibly in the instance where an entire race or nation is on the verge of annihilation.
If one’s parents fail in their duty to select a suitable mate, one should very carefully choose a COMPATIBLE spouse. The recommended criteria used to evaluate marital compatibility are as follows: physical characteristics (such as relative height and sexual attractiveness), personality type, intelligence, emotional temperament, diet, cultural similarities, political ideology, religious affiliation, and life goals.
One of the major causes of conjugal breakdown in recent decades has been due to the couple selecting each other based solely (or at least predominantly) on sexual attraction and/or amorous attachments, with little consideration given to the other guiding principles, listed above.
Romance rarely lasts more than a couple of years. Marriage is an institution based largely on PRACTICAL considerations, not on lustful feelings or on fleeting sentimentality. Without firm, practical reasons for a couple remaining conjugally-bound, they are susceptible to marital divorce.
Generally speaking, women have the potent desire to raise children, and require a man with which to mate, and then protect and support her and the offspring, during the fifteen-plus years (for EACH child) of child-rearing. Most men also desire to have a family, and additionally, possess a very powerful libido, which, if not channelled in a legitimate fashion, can cause a great deal of social misbehaviour (e.g. rape, etc.).
There is no such thing as a nun in the eyes of God. Therefore, unless a woman is seriously disabled, either physically or psychologically, or else a lesbian, she is lawfully OBLIGATED to marry the man preselected by her parents (or if her parents are deceased, by her extant master, whether that be her grandfather, an uncle, or an adult nephew). Ideally, women ought to be betrothed as soon as they reach adulthood, to avoid a childless existence. Quite understandably, very few men have aspirations to mate with a post-menopausal female.
Marriage is mandatory for men too, apart from missionary priests, those unfortunate males who are unable to support a family for reasons of mental or physical incapacity, men who are simply passed-over by hypergamous females due to being perceived as low-value suitors, homosexuals (meaning, men who are not at all attracted to the opposite gender. Bisexuals are not exempt from marriage), and men who reside in jurisdictions where ILLEGITIMATE feministic governments enact so-called “laws” which abrogate the lawful rights of married men.
In my particular case, despite being a model husband and father, my first wife, with the support of the dirty, demonic, democratic Australian government, literally kidnapped my three precious children, whilst my second wife, with the assistance of the equally-wicked, violent, corrupt, murderous Filipino government, stole my presbytery (the house of a priest).
The recent exodus of men in Western countries from the dating pool (or at least from formal marriage) is more than understandable.
The man should be approximately ten to twenty years OLDER than his wife/wives. Some of the reasons for this are:
It is natural for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. There is a good evolutionary reason why women reach their sexual peak between the ages of about fifteen to twenty-five and why a man's sexual market value peaks in his thirties to fifties. The female matures earlier (physically and socially), so if she mates with a man of similar age, she may find her spouse to be emotionally immature. The husband is almost a substitute for the woman's father figure, so the husband’s age gives him added authority as head of the family. Also, it gives the man extra time to establish his career, a house and home for his wife and forthcoming progeny.
The main duties of the HUSBAND are to teach his wife/wives and sons whatever beneficial lessons he has learnt from his own masters, protect his family from harm, and supply their necessities of life (that is, food, clothing, and shelter) as well as desired luxuries, if practicable. The English noun “husband” comes from the Old Norse word “hûsbôndi”, meaning “master of the house”.
Marriage is not a democracy. Any so-called man who compromises with his subordinates, whether they be his wife/wives or his offspring, is surely doomed to failure. Feminized western men, in particular, are guilty of such uxoriousness. Such emasculated “men” are not true men, and desperately need to regain their dignity as the head of their homes.
The main daily duties of the WIFE are to execute domestic chores such as to cook, clean, sew, take care of the children, and to keep the husband sexually satisfied so he doesn't look at other women.
The wife should submit to the will of her husband. She should fully respect him as her master, and should address him accordingly.
Whilst conversing, the wife should focus her attention completely on her husband. She should listen carefully to what he says, learn what he is saying, answer him, and obey his instructions. A man should never be alone with any female, apart from his wife, of course.
POLYGAMY has been taught by all the major religions. Unfortunately, the “westernized” religious cults seem to have done away with the practice for unbeknown reasons. The reason for polygamy is simply due to the fact that every woman needs a husband. Also, a certain proportion of men are destined to die as bachelors due to female hypergamy, which is a natural trait of women (even if it may seem unfair).
When a woman marries, she LITERALLY joins the family of her husband.
She takes her master's family name, and the husband's parents become her parents, which is why they are called “father/mother-in-law”, that is, “father/mother according to the law” (the one and only law of God, or more accurately, the Universal Law, as propounded in Chapter 12).
Cont...
As a nurse who knows about firefighters and EMTs, Amala is 100% correct! 😂 There is a saying "policemen are beaters and firefighters are cheaters" in regards to their relationships...
I appreciate that the guy who said he was there for self promotion was at least being honest. I think with segments like this they are all there for the contest, not because they want the specific girl.
Lol I'd tell the truth. My father is a good person, but not the best dad/husband. I saw my parents' relationship and I decided since elementary school that I don't want to marry anyone that's around him, or just people like him in general
My dad is a good person and husband. But he's not what I look for and I don't think he really knows.
Just an FYI, you wind up marrying a person just like your parent, just saying
@@sonoftherepublic7737that’s not true 🤦🏻♀️
@@wiozak8459 from my personal perspective it’s what I have witnessed
This is so true for me also
i love saying "Taylor in nashville!!" along with Amala
Only problem is I don’t think my Dad would choose anyone
I come from a family of firefighters and police officers. To me, that would be a NO because, it is so incredibly dangerous, especially in current times. The person makes a lot of sacrifices and has a lot of time away from family, but the pay is not enough. I'm saying this from the perspective of an urban police force and fire department, which is the experience I have with my family and my family's associates.
One of my wholesome family man uncles is a fireman and the only one of his son’s who isn’t a fireman is an EMT. All my dad’s other brothers are wholesome family man pilots. 😂 that being said, while I’ve never heard of the fire man stereotype (I thought you were gonna take issue with the crazy hours) my uncles do complain about the infidelity issues in the flight industry and how prolific it is.
Question is to what degree the people there are worse vs. just having a lot more opportunities.
It's not a virtue to stay faithful if you never get tempted.
@@ViolosD2I I agree with the first part. The stereotype says more about the environment than the people who enter that environment. However I'd say it's also not virtuous to seek out temptation so that you can shun it. Temptation will always come, you don't have to go out looking for it. If by some miracle you are never tempted to be unfaithful, you shouldn't try to seek out a reason to be unfaithful. Keep doing the right thing, when it's easy and when its hard. the point is not how difficult the path is, it's that the path is right.
God bless you and your work young lady ❤❤❤ respect from Croatia 💜💜💜
Taaaylor!! You got a point my friend! Although I'm not one to give anyone I'm not interested in my number or IG, I can confirm that Amala is right. A lot of women do IG if not interested.. however, depending on how active you are on IG, giving social media info may not be the wisest idea if the dude wants to stalk 😅
My uncle is a retired fire fighter. His entire life he’s been fit and took good care of himself. When he retired at 65 he looked like he was 35. And as far as I know he was faithful to his wife and kids his entire life.
I do NOT have a great relationship with my dad but I do think he would have the ability to choose a good guy for me. My husband is the only boyfriend my dad ever got along with and genuinely likes. My dad was correct about the others 😄
This was better than I expected. I think dad knows best when it comes to better candidates 😅 for his daughter
You're right about pilots, Amala, for sure! Haha
I’ve heard that about flights attendants more so than pilots. Also, male flight attendants aren’t very masculine usually even if they’re actually straight. lol
@@jessicab1272 pilots are well paid, have a status, are constantly away from home sleeping at hotels and are litteraly a woman’s fantasy 😂
"are constantly away from home sleeping at hotels" is the important part I'd imagine.@@mary-gael7633
@@mary-gael7633Yeah, that’s what I thought. I’ve heard flights attendants tend to have casual flings frequently, especially on travel-that’s not to say they’re all like that though, but I’ve only heard positive things that about pilots.
I was thinking that Firefighting EMTs are selfless
1-2% ruin it for all of us
Yeah, I’ve never heard the stereotype that they’re cheaters before. I have heard about veterans though. Not sure whether it’s true or not. I know stereotypes exist for a reason, but honestly I have a lot of respect for men, and women, who risk their lives as part of their occupation. I wouldn’t eliminate them based solely on that personally.
My fiance (getting married in June) is the only man my dad was enthusiastic about me dating. He never really liked the guys I had dated previously. Which is fair. I had really bad self esteem and chose guys who weren't super positive infulences for me.
I have always been a daddy's girl, he's been my best friend since birth - but I'd never ever let him do this!
It isn't that he doesn't know _me,_ it's that his character meter is way off, no discernment whatsoever when it comes to good or bad people - he thinks everyone is good at heart.
It's the most annoying & my favorite feature about him, he's so naive but in an old-fashioned, Leave it to Beaver, endearing kind of way. 😂
🐟 27. MARRIAGE & THE FAMILY:
Matrimony is the contractual union of a man with one or more women, primarily for the purpose of PROCREATION and child-rearing.
The couple should be brought together by their respective parents, and if practical, some sort of nuptial ceremony performed. Once a couple has been engaged to be married, they should not break the agreement, unless one party has been proven to have lost his or her virginity with a third party. OBVIOUSLY, after the wedding, the marriage contract cannot be broken, unless one or both parties has committed adultery, or one party has chosen to no longer carry out his or her marital duties (for instance, if the husband refuses to materially-support his wife/wives, or the wife refuses to perform domestic chores for her master, both of which are legitimate grounds for divorce).
A RESPONSIBLE father will objectively evaluate the unique characteristics, virtues, idiosyncrasies, and shortcomings of his child from a relatively early age, and thereafter, seek a compatible spouse from the available pool of persons in his social circles. Unless his nation faces extinction, the potential match should not be any closer to his child than a cousin. If a prospective couple do not belong to the same clan (and thereby do not share the same family name), it is probable that their genetic code is sufficiently divergent to create healthy offspring. As implied above, incestuous marriage should only be condoned if the human race is in danger of extermination, or possibly in the instance where an entire race or nation is on the verge of annihilation.
If one’s parents fail in their duty to select a suitable mate, one should very carefully choose a COMPATIBLE spouse. The recommended criteria used to evaluate marital compatibility are as follows: physical characteristics (such as relative height and sexual attractiveness), personality type, intelligence, emotional temperament, diet, cultural similarities, political ideology, religious affiliation, and life goals.
One of the major causes of conjugal breakdown in recent decades has been due to the couple selecting each other based solely (or at least predominantly) on sexual attraction and/or amorous attachments, with little consideration given to the other guiding principles, listed above.
Romance rarely lasts more than a couple of years. Marriage is an institution based largely on PRACTICAL considerations, not on lustful feelings or on fleeting sentimentality. Without firm, practical reasons for a couple remaining conjugally-bound, they are susceptible to marital divorce.
Generally speaking, women have the potent desire to raise children, and require a man with which to mate, and then protect and support her and the offspring, during the fifteen-plus years (for EACH child) of child-rearing. Most men also desire to have a family, and additionally, possess a very powerful libido, which, if not channelled in a legitimate fashion, can cause a great deal of social misbehaviour (e.g. rape, etc.).
There is no such thing as a nun in the eyes of God. Therefore, unless a woman is seriously disabled, either physically or psychologically, or else a lesbian, she is lawfully OBLIGATED to marry the man preselected by her parents (or if her parents are deceased, by her extant master, whether that be her grandfather, an uncle, or an adult nephew). Ideally, women ought to be betrothed as soon as they reach adulthood, to avoid a childless existence. Quite understandably, very few men have aspirations to mate with a post-menopausal female.
Marriage is mandatory for men too, apart from missionary priests, those unfortunate males who are unable to support a family for reasons of mental or physical incapacity, men who are simply passed-over by hypergamous females due to being perceived as low-value suitors, homosexuals (meaning, men who are not at all attracted to the opposite gender. Bisexuals are not exempt from marriage), and men who reside in jurisdictions where ILLEGITIMATE feministic governments enact so-called “laws” which abrogate the lawful rights of married men.
In my particular case, despite being a model husband and father, my first wife, with the support of the dirty, demonic, democratic Australian government, literally kidnapped my three precious children, whilst my second wife, with the assistance of the equally-wicked, violent, corrupt, murderous Filipino government, stole my presbytery (the house of a priest).
The recent exodus of men in Western countries from the dating pool (or at least from formal marriage) is more than understandable.
The man should be approximately ten to twenty years OLDER than his wife/wives. Some of the reasons for this are:
It is natural for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. There is a good evolutionary reason why women reach their sexual peak between the ages of about fifteen to twenty-five and why a man's sexual market value peaks in his thirties to fifties. The female matures earlier (physically and socially), so if she mates with a man of similar age, she may find her spouse to be emotionally immature. The husband is almost a substitute for the woman's father figure, so the husband’s age gives him added authority as head of the family. Also, it gives the man extra time to establish his career, a house and home for his wife and forthcoming progeny.
The main duties of the HUSBAND are to teach his wife/wives and sons whatever beneficial lessons he has learnt from his own masters, protect his family from harm, and supply their necessities of life (that is, food, clothing, and shelter) as well as desired luxuries, if practicable. The English noun “husband” comes from the Old Norse word “hûsbôndi”, meaning “master of the house”.
Marriage is not a democracy. Any so-called man who compromises with his subordinates, whether they be his wife/wives or his offspring, is surely doomed to failure. Feminized western men, in particular, are guilty of such uxoriousness. Such emasculated “men” are not true men, and desperately need to regain their dignity as the head of their homes.
The main daily duties of the WIFE are to execute domestic chores such as to cook, clean, sew, take care of the children, and to keep the husband sexually satisfied so he doesn't look at other women.
The wife should submit to the will of her husband. She should fully respect him as her master, and should address him accordingly.
Whilst conversing, the wife should focus her attention completely on her husband. She should listen carefully to what he says, learn what he is saying, answer him, and obey his instructions. A man should never be alone with any female, apart from his wife, of course.
POLYGAMY has been taught by all the major religions. Unfortunately, the “westernized” religious cults seem to have done away with the practice for unbeknown reasons. The reason for polygamy is simply due to the fact that every woman needs a husband. Also, a certain proportion of men are destined to die as bachelors due to female hypergamy, which is a natural trait of women (even if it may seem unfair).
When a woman marries, she LITERALLY joins the family of her husband.
She takes her master's family name, and the husband's parents become her parents, which is why they are called “father/mother-in-law”, that is, “father/mother according to the law” (the one and only law of God, or more accurately, the Universal Law, as propounded in Chapter 12).
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@@SpiritualPsychotherapyServices The Bible does not in any way say a father has to choose the husband for his daughter. It is historically spoken about in the Bible, yes, but it is NOT moral or civil law.
@@angiew2324, search the Stanford University Encyclopedia of Philosophy or Wikipedia (both are online encyclopedia) for "LOGICAL FALLACIES".
Then, return to this comment thread and inform me which LOGICAL FALLACY you have just used, Slave.
@@SpiritualPsychotherapyServices🙄
Contributing factor to why I married my husband is he was the only boyfriend my dad ever actually liked 😂 I broke up with the ones he didn't like because I believe he could see what I couldn't, even though he never explicitly said so, I could just tell
If I was the dad, I will have her choose the guys that she likes, then I’ll eliminate base on my vetting process.
Loving the format of this video. Like a live stream but without an hour of superchats. Love it!
This video needed a ranch dad from Texas to be more interesting 😂 it would have ended so much quicker
10:37 it's firefighters and military guys. 😂😂😂😂
Was def going to put up military!😂
@@LetitiaMarieHarris Except from what I remember, military people are in a LOT more trouble when caught.
O. M. Gosh. That last bit was unwatchable. I’m glad you stopped it and sparred me 😵💫
When I was single, I would absolutely have trusted my dad to pick a guy for me. (Not that I ever had 20 dudes lining up to date me.)
But my dad is a real man. He would have been more focused on doing what was best for his daughter, not worrying about whether everyone was “named, known, seen, and loved”. 🤮 When he said “I’m an includer” I think I actually gagged. You aren’t their mother; you’re supposed to be *her* dad.
The thing is not about height/elevation of the hand for "whoever is on top", it's about the turn. The dominant male will grab overhand and a less dominant man will can towards underhand. Two dominant men will both go in overhand, meet thumb crevice to thumb crevice, and create a perfect up and down handshake. That's what the "hard" handshakes used to be about. Men feeling the need to assert themselves and they'd be positioning for the overhand. Don't ask why I know this.
I've had men do this to me and it hurts. Always when I've been their client in a professional setting. It does NOT leave a good impression. Neither does the limp fish or the fingertip shake, but "I'm going to dominate you" gets my hackles up!
@jenniferpearce1052 yeah, that ain't the way to be in a professional setting. I try to keep it pretty even nowadays. I cater to who I'm shaking hands with. A big dude like me, I will give a hearty handshake to. Smaller men, women, etc, I'll ease up some. Never go weak though. Just no need to be rough. I don't need to assert dominance. I make an impression all on my own. Lol
@@FloridaManT-Rex Yeah! Warm and hearty is good for both handshakes and personality.
I think it starts with the kind of friends you have before dating. That way you will be looking in the right direction, like the Dad said. As has been said many times, show me your 5 or 10 closest friends and I can tell the direction in which you are headed.
For these types of episodes, they really should go back after the final choice and replay all the segments of just that guy-it’d be much more interesting, and the analysis would be better too. I mean Jubilee, but even if they didn’t then Amala/Taylor could do it…
Ouch as a firefighter it hurts
Don't worry buddy, some of us girls actually love fire fighters😉meAUW🐱
Handshake should always be the precursor.
No fire fighters for me either. I know everyone is an individual, but at a convention a married fire fighter tried to get me to go to his room and the following day I found out he had asked all three of my friends. Disgusting.
There a many ways to do the shake, but it comes down to balance and harmony. If coming to aggressive or to passive it is a bye.
As a woman, my thoughts on giving my insta are totally different. First, I like how you can get an overall view of someone's life; what they post and how often can tell you a lot. It also creates more opportunities for conversations, and you can send other cute and funny posts back and forth. Texting through a number right off the bat has the potential to go stale imo. And I do think that a potential suitor should start with that same access as everyone else, and eventually earn that direct line through trust and building up the relationship. Phone number right out of the gate feels too personal and anxiety-inducing to me.
This is actually so wholesome and funny 😆
Daddy was too afraid to bring up Israel vs Palestine 😂
Lol what I was thinking.
I don't think war is the best convo for a "first date"
@destinyhntr It wasn't a first date, and he asked about a war anyway. It's just funny that he picked that one instead of the one currently in headlines.
That Asian kid was raised in true fashion. Gotta compliment the dad. There were a few that impressed 100% .
The dude with the longer black hair is a red flag. He keeps staring at the camera. 🫤
Dad nixed the cute Asian guy because he didn't know about the war. Honestly, there was a lean toward the dad's home college. I kinda had a feeling he was going to choose one of those 2
1:11: Haha, I always watch non-music videos at 2x, too! Saves a lot of time. But that made that part 4x for me, and I didn't catch a word she said! Anyway, I'm glad to see I'm in good company.
Married to a firefighter, been together 11 years ❤
I totally agree with your past dating questions. They are the most important ones to ask!
My dad is a firefighter and you are 100% correct. My dad literally used 4 year old me to pick up women. Luckily one of them saw us out as a family and came to my mom and told her everything. So yeah at least in my experience stay away from firefighters.
Omg really! 😮
Is that because he was a firefighter, or because he was a human with character flaws? 🤔
The awkward ending! 😆🤨
When she kept her hand on his shoulder for a moment when the chosen guy came out made me think of dad’s “hug rejection.” I want to be nice, but I’m not interested. “
Phone is so much more personal. Easy to block off of instagram.
What was that?! The end of a Wes Anderson film?!
I would probably find this hilarious because this is my kind of humor, but unfortunately I don’t know the reference… 😂
clyde's score of correct
round 1: 15/20
I dated (and then married) the guy my parents wanted me to date. It was the best decision, my parents were spot on ❤
Not only are firefighters cheaters but a lot of them have psychological issues to some degree. They get vetted of course however if any firefighter ever develops a trauma or sees a psychologist once they have been a firefighter for a while most of the information is not private because…they need to be deemed as stable and from what I hear if they even as remotely have anything brought up in therapy it is used against them and they can lose their job or be benched. So firefighters know this so they never seek psychological help for anything for fear of losing their jobs. It’s like a horrible catch 22.
Oh *100%* I _died_ when she said he could have her Insta 🤣 I was like Awh sorry bro, she ain’t that into you!
But totally, there are just a few reasons a girl will give a guy her insta instead of her number:
1. She’s just not that into him
2. She’s had bad experiences with stalker-ish dudes who will call and text 24/7 and throw a fit if she doesn’t respond asap (so safety, essentially)
3. She wants to also scope his insta to see what _he’s_ about, so this way both parties can peep at what each other is about before they get too involved.
That was a sweet dad. I do wish the decision wasn’t mostly based on faith and school though. Plenty of other people may have been open and willing to learning further about their faith, and the Maryland part just doesn’t have any bearing. Honestly, neither did the handshakes. If you’re saying no to someone right off the bat simply based on height and religious beliefs/politics or global events outlook, you really could be missing out.
While we want for our kids someone who is strong in their convictions and knowledgeable and _ALSO_ falls in line with what we think and believe, not everyone has a particular stance on everything. And that can be a good thing. Plenty of people are able to be “converted” into any which way of thinking and believing because they are open minded.
So I think you’d be potentially missing out on someone by saying no just on the basis of them not identifying themselves as Christian, but holding typical Christian beliefs. You just never know.
As a mother of a teenage girl, I too want her to always date for longevity- but at the same time, you learn so much about yourself and relationships by experiencing those crappy, short, whirlwind encounters over the course of your dating life. And those can really mold your entire outlook on partnership. 🤷🏻♀️
(I actually really liked Cade- I think he would have been a good, fun match for Sage. Plus like, Cade&Sage?? How cute is that…!?)
Thats what I thought too... fire fighters. But I ended up with one and he is golden!
Considering that my father tried to set me up with an engaged man, no! Granted, he thought they had split up and the guy was completely unaware of what Dad was trying to do. I have never been so embarrassed in my life.
Honestly I don’t think I’d trust my Dad to choose my type- I think he’d just choose someone Christian. I want a Christian man, but I want him to be attractive, gives princess treatment, etc.
Handshaking should be taught in school . Men firm ladies gentle and there are rules. Surprisingly complicated
You had the video speed up and SO DID I it was so funny, for me they were talking like x4 speed
This man is totally my husband with my future daughter hahahaha so cute.
I was also hardcore rooting for Melvin, he just oozes good vibes.
I’m way too proud that I called the dad’s choice 🤣
You can tell by the way she hugged him she was being polite.
But who knows?! 🤷♀️ Things could change as she gets to know him.
As a sufferer of hyperhidrosis which includes palmer your discussions at 7:50 have been present in my life since childhood... funny how there are some disabilities people still feel OK to mock and confirm are gross. Glad my husband was able to see beyond that.
He judged one by height, he's prolly the one with the best character otta all of em.
That ending 😭 💀 am dying
No way I’d let my dad pick my man. He’d just pick the person most like him. I’d rather have my mom pick.
0:06 You didn't even finish your first question and the answer was already NO.
For context- my dad is a hypocrite and is fine with certain behaviors that I do not tolerate. Like staged incompetence and "teasing/joking" (which its actually relentless picking on you and then calling you dramatic if you get hurt by it and ask them to stop.)
I could NEVER trust my father's opinion on men- NO WAY! I would end up married to a covert abuser!!
Good for you for protecting yourself from him.
@@melchiorlise2466 I'm not really doing much.. I'm still stuck in the same house as him. He suddenly started acting nicer but I don't know if its real... I know his opinions haven't changed so probably not. Yet I keep trying to get myself to forgive him. It only makes me hate myself. Can't stand up for myself, can't run away and can't even get over it.
“You’re in”
“Alright yes”
“Bring. It. In”
💖 Adore this. Clyde, be my dad!🥰😝
My dad once told me, " You can marry one of three guys you know." He then listed off the three guys' names he approved of. I'm married to one of them. 13 years. I'd highly suggest listening to your father.
I did know that about socials. Because I also don't give guys my number unless I'm planning on staying in very close contact with them
I had no idea about the instagram vs number thing. You totally blew my mind
It's an interesting phenomenon, men can walk into a room and pick out the obnoxious jerks in a few seconds ... and decide they don't need the hassle. Women will see the same obnoxious jerks and come onto them.
I confirm, I'd rather give my insta than my number to people I don't feel or want to feel close to
what the fuck was that at the end
i don’t have a dad 🙏🏽😞
My dad left my mom when I was like 5. 2005 was the last time I saw him.
I always look forward to watching your videos thank you
Clyde is well dressed and looks professional and respectable.
This would make an interesting tv show
4:36 Amala is all about that rich CEO aesthetic 😂. Typical.
It would be funny see Matt Walsh be the dad
My problem with dating is that parents tend to like me more than the daughter does.
I would not want my father to pick out a date/man for me. His idea and mine, totally different…and that father really was looking out for a son in law to hang out with…the Asian guy was some one who peaked her interest…
Loved that. Gosh, maybe it IS a good idea to ask your dad after all when you date a guy what HE thinks of him. The problem with firefighters (no offense, guys! ) I see is that they have to be literally working day and night. It is hard for a good family life. If you want to get married and have kids, dad will not be around a lot. The one who studies chemistry sounds interesting, this is a prmising field. And musicians often are not really a lot steady with earing- that might cause a problem when it comes to financing a family later on... But I will really tell my kids, especially my daughter, to ask her dad for his opinion on the guys she will go out with, it seems a great idea, it is just so sad that no one tells you that.... The blonde guy was taller than the girl, I guess I would have gone for him...
My dad did set me up with 2 guys. The first was a great guy but we were in different places at the time. The second guy was also great but he was in an accident and passed away. I would say my dad knows me well.
Knew that the black guy would win. Being a Christian would be a key deciding factor
He was the only Christian, and worldview matters a lot in relationships. They should have had more actual Christians in the group.