I believe EVY was chosen for the position she had in the Secret Service because of her personality was that,she wasn’t looking for power, she wasn’t trying to outshine everybody else, she didn’t want it. What better person to have it.
But remember though, eventually they're going to have to see the truth Another thing to remember is on Judgement day, we're all going to stand before God
Look at muslims, they being manipulated to erase people from the Earth surface, they don't understand this is so wrong. So yes, you can make people do what they don't want themselves.
I love Evy. I’ve watched her on several podcasts. It seems like they all pull the same info, ask the same questions differently. I’m 24 minutes into this interview and have already learned new things from her. The magic of Mel Robbins, y’all. Looking forward to the rest of this discussion and will be saving to watch again ❤
Evy's ethos of mental armour has helped me to get out of a toxic working relationship and think of what is my intention rather than fall at the insults. I've live up to my aim without her power hungry behaviour throwing me off. Cos I wont be part of that game and do whatever to protect myself (my own president). I've had to be my own protector too. And I love the resilience and learning about it. Also love when Evy said she wanted to get into the force had had to go for what she wanted cos she has to live with thr decision everyone else will eventually come around like parents. And better to not have regrets. That really empowered me to close my heart to a bad job. But I'm hopefully now I will find better x
I saw Evy on a Diary of a CEO. Evy is fierce. And Mel - thank you for showcasing your authenticity. I love the way I can see my favorite people from your perspective, from what inspires you.
Yes she definitely has shown that she admires or looks up to in awe to people who appear to have strength and confidence. For me, it's not necessarily confidence that I am seeing displayed with this guest. What I see is someone who is convinced or confident in what it is that she's saying. She's confident in the information that she's providing. I wouldn't suggest reading so much into someone's personality based upon one interview.
I have adopted this mantra of “handle your shit” since in my early 20s. While it has been challenging to see it, clean it up and move on, it has propelled me through things I didn’t think otherwise I could move on from. Thank you for the reminder Evy and Mel.
I live by a similar ethos. I used to whine and moan about stupid shit while not doing much to better myself. I was doing more talking (more like indulging in self-pity) than doing. It's fine to talk about problems as they arise, but you have to take action and move on.
I observed that often we behave and act like we are on edge even if there is no reason for it... a habit of anxious mind. Confident mind looks for information not for a confirmation of itself being confident.
This interview is packed full of solid information, but most importantly, incredibly validating. Thank you! I come from a family full of deceitful, manipulative liars to marrying into one in 1988. Enough years to know my gut has been right all along. Thank you! I will be watching this interview again to boost my confidence.
Great video! I have met people who make me feel uncomfortable by yawing, while I’m talking. This to me is so rude. It makes me think… am I boring?! I quickly end the conversation. People who look away often is another sign to exit. Thanks !😄
I have a daughter in-law that is compulsive lier and i also have a ability to read people not always but i look at the eyes and body not only her a lot of people but i am gullible
20:15 Gut instinct, being able to read a room and non-verbal cues/micro expressions in the first 10-20 seconds is a great predictor of overall behavior & mannerisms. I love Evy's advice on: feel the energy in the room, pay attention and don't call a person out just read the cues.
And when they talk, don't interrupt. Give them plenty of slack like with a fishing pole when you hook a fish. Because for whatever reason, people love talking and telling on themselves thinking it will impress you how they broke the law. Or did something wrong (and didn't get caught). People rarely brag about "doing something right". ("I've been a devoted husband for 5 years". (boring) Instead it's: "I went to this bachelor party in Vegas and whoa boy! Luckily my wife never found out. Shhh.") 99% of all crimes not on video tape are figured out because someone "talked". The truth always comes out. It's whether you happen to be there or not when it happens. People love telling about the things they have done wrong in the world. So let them. And you my good friend, keep them lips buttoned up! lol
I felt like I got permission to rely upon my observations, I would dismiss what I saw for what I heard. Powerful interview I got ALOT out of this thank you!
I learned not to call people out. My sister on the other hand can call me out anytime and I can with her. Makes us more self-aware of our behaviors and actions. Thank goodness for sisters (close ones anyway)
I love that beautiful, bright and brazen Athena did not have to shoot anyone! Thank you for broadening the notion of what a beauty can be: divine feminine who loves so deeply she protects what she values, holding her own, now nurturing via sharing wisdom gained. bless you
She has made me realize that my confidence means more than I ever thought it would. I am unsure most of the time. I always hid behind the ugly skinny shy person I thought I was.
After watching this I felt like it was my mother I never had guiding me to do anything that I want with my life I'm not saying my mother doesn't do that😅 I love you Mom❤.... Best video I watched today, absolutely loved it 🎉❤
So much truth, even just about halfway through it. Politicians do that thing where they don't answer the question but speechify for a few minutes about distantly related accomplishments they want accolades for. And I love the advice to just pull out of the relationship without announcing it and without calling out the person. No need for that drama. Just go on and be happy. You don't owe them that, and they don't owe you whatever satisfaction you would get from calling them out.
Evy is remarkably thoughtful, which I hadn’t expected given the little bit of backstory I’d read before listening to this and this first time I’m encountering her work. Remarkable because there are many larger truths and lessons we can glean from our everyday lives, but it’s so focus intensive and mental vigor to get those from our everyday lives, especially because it’s easy to rest on the initial or heuristic way we manage the normal. Evy is, to me, sort of heroic in the discipline she has in keeping herself open to radical shifts in perception, in noticing what others don’t and what others won’t. Lies are motivated deceptions, and that motivation is secondary to any revelation or detection of deception. Evy can see all of that at once, which is extraordinary but also deeply invested, kind even. Great episode
Omg this lady is amazing, I learned so much from this session about myself and how to deal with people and myself in the process. Oh god this was so hard to hear but so true to how it resonated with me .. Thank you, I will handle my stuff.. I could hug you😢😢Thank you Mel you are such an inspiration.
First time I've seen your show. Wow you are amazing! A great interviewer, authentic and so well spoken. You trust what you want to know is also what your audience wants to know. I already knew Eve P. and learn so much every time she speaks. Thank you and thanks to Eve.
I really love Evy's personalities: calm and empathetic but strong when needed. If I could only have 5% of her, my life would be much positively different. Her appearance is great but her personalities are greater. I'm a new fan of hers.
One of the best interviews I have ever watched. Very useful.. I have things I can practically apply in being in better communicator and living a better life. A bug thank you to Mel and Ewy!
One of the best guests ever! This episode saved my sanity at such a critical time and got my spirit back on track! Thanks to both Mel & Evy for a life enhancing 80 min of such worthwhile information!
Evy has been my hero and inspiration for years! I love listening to her and learning from her. I am quite the opposite of her but I do have an “inner Evy.” Lol My bucket list definitely consists of one day meeting her and attending some of her classes. She is so real and so smart not to mention absolutely beautiful…inside and out. Great guest Mel! ❤️👏👏👏
That’s where people lose their confidence by being with the wrong people (family,friends or strangers)We so into others opinions that we forget that we have a say about our life.We more care about losing people from our life then losing own life to others..Fascinating talk .Thank you .❤
Wow just came across Evy only yesterday. Amazing woman! Human behaviour and nature is so important and so much to learn! Thank you for this interview Mel.
Mel thank you so much for having Evy on your podcast. I have Inattentive ADHD and have similar struggles to what Mel experiences and it was nice to hear the advice she got from Evy.
I found out about Evy just several days ago and I enjoy listening to her in all the video interviews I could find with her as the guest. She is so consistent and she narrates very well. This was also made possible by having good interviewers like Mel. I always feel that Evy is verbalizing everything in my mind. Often, I feel that she is me.😊 Thanks for this .
My finding these brilliant women wasn’t an accident. I needed their messages to penetrate my hard head. It’s amazing how one’s own mind can get stuck in “idle” or even “reverse” mode maybe because it feels easier. NO. Keep an open mind always, the more stuck I am the more I need to change things up. Thanks to ALL the smart women on UA-cam 🥰
Love Evy, I'm following her for couple of years. This episode has something.... I'm beyond inspired, filled with positive energy and most important empowered. Much love from Balkan (Europe) ❤
I freakin love this woman! I found her on another podcast and listened to them back to back. I’m going to order her book as well. So much of what she’s about resonated so much with me. It’s so funny Mel said she’s speaking directly to her because I felt the exact same way! Two amazing women!
I love watching interviews with Evy. She is such an interesting person and a serious female role model. Sometimes I think, What would Evy do? And it gives me confidence. Also, love to Mel!
Now this is a pure example of two, strong, intelligent, charismatic LEADERS who would make an incredible United States Presidential ticket for the next eight years! I wouldn't blame you for having no personal interest in that thought! LOL! Thank you so much for your brutal honesty and incredible way of teaching us some very important life lessons and invaluable interpersonal tips. Wishing you both joy and continued success in your life journeys. Love, JR
Mel, Mel, Mel! Thank you in so many ways for you being you! Thank you, Evy, for sharing your knowledge and expertise. Now to be brave enough! Is this the sign of our times? Those that we may never actually meet are the most important to our well-being?
No cubilce! ❤🎉my dad was a marine in Korea and a NYCF. The last 5 yrs of his career, Rescue 4. His nickname was "the incredible bul." I still remember he would always sit with his arms crossed, the back and forth jokes, however, he was a tough SOB. Thank you for serving & sharing. 🎉
Mel you and Evy are amazing communicators and I literally sat on the edge of my chair watching and listening and rewatching and sharing. I loved it when you said you have been watching all of Evy’s interviews “like a stalker” because I am the same. I now give her book to my friends and family for all occasions especially graduation or house warming gifts. Mel keep up the great job you are doing! ❤
Some people are shy,because growing up they were always being told off for stupid stuff. Shy people can from time to time break eye contact,like look at the wall or the floor.
Wow and wow!! I was riveted to this podcast from beginning to end. Evy is great. Mel, you're great. This helped me tremendously and I'm glad I listened to what you had to say at the end. I will share this with others!
Great interview. I love your honesty and vulnerability, Mel, especially when you shared that Evy came to talk directly to you. It's not our gut that we need to listen to most of the time, but rather, we need to risk not being liked by the decisions we make. We don't like to go through emotional pain or discomfort, so we ignore our conclusions and hope things improve without risking disapproval. Alternatively, we seek validation of our intel from others to shift the burden onto them, avoiding responsibility. So, what should we do? Trust our conclusions. If we make a mistake, we can always apologize. Risk not being liked in the moment. We won’t die, and the relationship probably won't either. Relationships are built on conflict.
Thank you for sharing this conversation. I loved every bit of this. Listening to Evy's words about steadiness in behavior, speech, and emotion resonated with me deeply. We create our own path and learn every step of the way, and confidence is earned by taking the road less traveled. Remembering that you are 50% of the equation in any interaction reminds me of the saying "you attract more bees with honey instead of vinegar." Thank you both for this enlightening video.
Incredible conversation.... helped me self reflect to see where I am also out of congruence in my own life- and how I can live more authentically and lean into trusting myself more. Thank you xo 💜
I loved that quote Evy gave. One of my favorite quotes is..."Whatever is in a man's heart, will come out of their mouth."(Bible) So, listen, look, and watch.
Love her book which I'm reading now Bullet Proof...she's humble and a go-getter. Her main take to me is this: she believes in herself and works her ass off❤
I’m reading Evy’s book too. I was in tears within the first few pages. She’s not reached where she has without a LOT of loss, trauma, fear, bloody hard work and experience from growing up to within her field of work. Incredibly strong, intelligent, brave and gutsy woman. I have the upmost respect for her 🙏❤️
Great interview. She has great wisdom I feel. And… all my life I have been called ‘so confident’ … oh so untrue… But ‘brave’, yes! And what is bravery.. doing the thing that must be done although you feel afraid and scared.
Hi, I listened to her on a different site yesterday and she said she started in the New York police dept., so how is it she has not had a criminal justice class.??? Doesn't make sense. She is very intelligent for sure. Truths and errors , very interesting . Can learn a lot from her.!!!
Love Evy, seen her on several shows and eventually bought her book. If you have serious life experience, good instincts and antennas, able to read the room, guts and disipline I guess a lot of what she describes would be applicable to complete a good foundation to master your surroundings. On top of that obviously comes brilliant training.
Wow - I was leaned in the entire time. Life changing to "handle your shit". Life changing to move from people who don't. Thanks again Mel for another amazing podcast !!
I believe EVY was chosen for the position she had in the Secret Service because of her personality was that,she wasn’t looking for power, she wasn’t trying to outshine everybody else, she didn’t want it. What better person to have it.
but she got dem crazy eyes tho🤣
@@sandygrungerson1177 yes! The eyes! They are flat. Like no soul lives there. Good trait for a spy!
She is amazing! This interview was full of great life lessons!!
❤ Exactly, she's amazing!¡! ❤
Her mind is so sharp
Best start with not trusting or believing anyone. Time and observation will eventually reveal their character.
It’s definitely about removing that emotional judgement to it too you know
To me, being more neutral is helpful. As the person reveals who they are, you can begin to form your attitude about them.
@@angel794 Trust no one but God.
My Mother was so wise. She said " you can't make people do, think, or feel what they don't want to."
Yep, You can inspire but you can't make people do what they don't want to do.
Good advice for women who are dating.
But remember though, eventually they're going to have to see the truth
Another thing to remember is on Judgement day, we're all going to stand before God
Look at muslims, they being manipulated to erase people from the Earth surface, they don't understand this is so wrong.
So yes, you can make people do what they don't want themselves.
Unfortunately, you can 100% it's called propaganda
I love Evy. I’ve watched her on several podcasts. It seems like they all pull the same info, ask the same questions differently. I’m 24 minutes into this interview and have already learned new things from her. The magic of Mel Robbins, y’all. Looking forward to the rest of this discussion and will be saving to watch again ❤
Agree love them both 😍 so empowering 👸🏼
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How do I find Evy on other Podcasts? If it's ok to share it in Mel's comments.
Lol just search her name @PuzzleVibesAndFeathers
Evy's ethos of mental armour has helped me to get out of a toxic working relationship and think of what is my intention rather than fall at the insults. I've live up to my aim without her power hungry behaviour throwing me off. Cos I wont be part of that game and do whatever to protect myself (my own president). I've had to be my own protector too. And I love the resilience and learning about it. Also love when Evy said she wanted to get into the force had had to go for what she wanted cos she has to live with thr decision everyone else will eventually come around like parents. And better to not have regrets. That really empowered me to close my heart to a bad job. But I'm hopefully now I will find better x
I saw Evy on a Diary of a CEO. Evy is fierce. And Mel - thank you for showcasing your authenticity. I love the way I can see my favorite people from your perspective, from what inspires you.
Yes she definitely has shown that she admires or looks up to in awe to people who appear to have strength and confidence. For me, it's not necessarily confidence that I am seeing displayed with this guest. What I see is someone who is convinced or confident in what it is that she's saying. She's confident in the information that she's providing. I wouldn't suggest reading so much into someone's personality based upon one interview.
I saw Evy on the Diary of a CEO, it’s a pleasure to see her here as well ❤
Thanks for this reference.
@@EveMarieGaudreau avec plaisir 😊
I saw here there first too!
Same here I am here to hear her again
When she speaks she says everything thats aligned with what i learned about energy. Her energetic boundaries are impeccable.
Oooh what did you learn about her energy? I love her energy and composure.
I have adopted this mantra of “handle your shit” since in my early 20s. While it has been challenging to see it, clean it up and move on, it has propelled me through things I didn’t think otherwise I could move on from. Thank you for the reminder Evy and Mel.
I live by a similar ethos. I used to whine and moan about stupid shit while not doing much to better myself. I was doing more talking (more like indulging in self-pity) than doing. It's fine to talk about problems as they arise, but you have to take action and move on.
I concur. When you listen to your enemies, they tell you what their real fears are and it aint even you
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There is not a minute of this interview that isn’t useful. This woman is incredible!!
Non verbal communication interpretation is more art than science.
I observed that often we behave and act like we are on edge even if there is no reason for it... a habit of anxious mind. Confident mind looks for information not for a confirmation of itself being confident.
Yes. Very insightful!
Good point
Trauma from past issues never addressed is why.
These two women are not just smart and personable, but wise. Thank you for this interview.
So real
Evy is amazing…I’ve watched multiple interviews & learn something new each time!
I’ve watched her a few times. A tough and beautiful woman. I wonder how tall she I? 5’5’ to 5’7”let me add very intelligent too.
Yes - a true gift!
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Being Greek Evy might be short in stature but she’s a giant in character. See those stilettos she’s wearing?
I need this woman to give me a makeup tutorial. For real.
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Agreed! :)
This interview is packed full of solid information, but most importantly, incredibly validating. Thank you! I come from a family full of deceitful, manipulative liars to marrying into one in 1988. Enough years to know my gut has been right all along. Thank you! I will be watching this interview again to boost my confidence.
Both Mel and Evy are incredible. Such inspirational women. Thank you!
Agreed
Great video! I have met people who make me feel uncomfortable by yawing, while I’m talking. This to me is so rude. It makes me think… am I boring?! I quickly end the conversation. People who look away often is another sign to exit. Thanks !😄
I didn’t think you could help yawning. I always just say I’m sorry…
@@GlitterSparkleJacquei think it’s more about knowing the manners + respect to cover your yawn gracefully vs overtly yawning like you’re alone
I have a daughter in-law that is compulsive lier and i also have a ability to read people not always but i look at the eyes and body not only her a lot of people but i am gullible
What can I do and i leave it somtimes cause it tires me out
What a phenomenal guest, I’m hooked!
20:15 Gut instinct, being able to read a room and non-verbal cues/micro expressions in the first 10-20 seconds is a great predictor of overall behavior & mannerisms. I love Evy's advice on: feel the energy in the room, pay attention and don't call a person out just read the cues.
And when they talk, don't interrupt. Give them plenty of slack like with a fishing pole when you hook a fish. Because for whatever reason, people love talking and telling on themselves thinking it will impress you how they broke the law. Or did something wrong (and didn't get caught). People rarely brag about "doing something right". ("I've been a devoted husband for 5 years". (boring) Instead it's: "I went to this bachelor party in Vegas and whoa boy! Luckily my wife never found out. Shhh.") 99% of all crimes not on video tape are figured out because someone "talked". The truth always comes out. It's whether you happen to be there or not when it happens. People love telling about the things they have done wrong in the world. So let them. And you my good friend, keep them lips buttoned up! lol
My dad use to say….”Get your shit together!!!!” Another way of saying “Handle your shit!!” And it worked! Happy healthy whole at 63!!!!!!
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Now that's funny! My son has his first child at 43 years . When my grandson would cry uncontrollably. My son would say HE HAS LOST HIS SHIT!😂
@@tucky2297 in the 60's, we used to say "get your shit together!"…I still say it
This was better than having a personal session with a life coach! Great interview! A+
So grateful for both of you for this content!!
I felt like I got permission to rely upon my observations, I would dismiss what I saw for what I heard. Powerful interview I got ALOT out of this thank you!
I learned not to call people out. My sister on the other hand can call me out anytime and I can with her. Makes us more self-aware of our behaviors and actions. Thank goodness for sisters (close ones anyway)
I have this relationship with my sister too I thank God every day for it, its life’s biggest blessing x
I love that beautiful, bright and brazen Athena did not have to shoot anyone! Thank you for broadening the notion of what a beauty can be: divine feminine who loves so deeply she protects what she values, holding her own, now nurturing via sharing wisdom gained. bless you
She has made me realize that my confidence means more than I ever thought it would. I am unsure most of the time. I always hid behind the ugly skinny shy person I thought I was.
After watching this I felt like it was my mother I never had guiding me to do anything that I want with my life I'm not saying my mother doesn't do that😅 I love you Mom❤.... Best video I watched today, absolutely loved it 🎉❤
I love to hear you interview people Mel, you are so respectful and you don’t keep interrupting them!
Refreshing to see a real woman full of courage, expertise, charisma, intelligence, and above average confidence👏
Great interview 👍🥇
I admire her❤
I could listen to this lady all day. She makes sense. ❤
Really needed that pep talk on bravery & confidence! Action first. You don’t learn from winning you ultimately learn from your losses 🙏
So much truth, even just about halfway through it. Politicians do that thing where they don't answer the question but speechify for a few minutes about distantly related accomplishments they want accolades for. And I love the advice to just pull out of the relationship without announcing it and without calling out the person. No need for that drama. Just go on and be happy. You don't owe them that, and they don't owe you whatever satisfaction you would get from calling them out.
Your last line is spot on!!
So just ghost people?
I thought the same - politicians came to mind first
Totally agree 💯
Evy is remarkably thoughtful, which I hadn’t expected given the little bit of backstory I’d read before listening to this and this first time I’m encountering her work. Remarkable because there are many larger truths and lessons we can glean from our everyday lives, but it’s so focus intensive and mental vigor to get those from our everyday lives, especially because it’s easy to rest on the initial or heuristic way we manage the normal. Evy is, to me, sort of heroic in the discipline she has in keeping herself open to radical shifts in perception, in noticing what others don’t and what others won’t. Lies are motivated deceptions, and that motivation is secondary to any revelation or detection of deception. Evy can see all of that at once, which is extraordinary but also deeply invested, kind even. Great episode
Omg this lady is amazing, I learned so much from this session about myself and how to deal with people and myself in the process. Oh god this was so hard to hear but so true to how it resonated with me .. Thank you, I will handle my stuff.. I could hug you😢😢Thank you Mel you are such an inspiration.
First time I've seen your show. Wow you are amazing! A great interviewer, authentic and so well spoken. You trust what you want to know is also what your audience wants to know. I already knew Eve P. and learn so much every time she speaks. Thank you and thanks to Eve.
I really love Evy's personalities: calm and empathetic but strong when needed. If I could only have 5% of her, my life would be much positively different. Her appearance is great but her personalities are greater. I'm a new fan of hers.
One of the best interviews I have ever watched. Very useful.. I have things I can practically apply in being in better communicator and living a better life. A bug thank you to Mel and Ewy!
One of the best guests ever! This episode saved my sanity at such a critical time and got my spirit back on track! Thanks to both Mel & Evy for a life enhancing 80 min of such worthwhile information!
I need this as I have been in an abusive marriage … should have done this many years ago! Thank you both!
Evy has been my hero and inspiration for years!
I love listening to her and learning from her.
I am quite the opposite of her but I do have an “inner Evy.” Lol
My bucket list definitely consists of one day meeting her and attending some of her classes.
She is so real and so smart not to mention absolutely beautiful…inside and out.
Great guest Mel! ❤️👏👏👏
This is the best one yet. Evy is fantastic.
That’s where people lose their confidence by being with the wrong people (family,friends or strangers)We so into others opinions that we forget that we have a say about our life.We more care about losing people from our life then losing own life to others..Fascinating talk .Thank you .❤
She is so spot on with advice.
I honestly cannot say just how powerful this episode was…just WOWWWWWW!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Wow just came across Evy only yesterday. Amazing woman! Human behaviour and nature is so important and so much to learn! Thank you for this interview Mel.
Mel thank you so much for having Evy on your podcast. I have Inattentive ADHD and have similar struggles to what Mel experiences and it was nice to hear the advice she got from Evy.
Wow! Amazing podcast. So much for me to learn. By my age, 60+, I thought I would know more than I do! Thank you.
I found out about Evy just several days ago and I enjoy listening to her in all the video interviews I could find with her as the guest. She is so consistent and she narrates very well. This was also made possible by having good interviewers like Mel. I always feel that Evy is verbalizing everything in my mind. Often, I feel that she is me.😊 Thanks for this .
Watching Evy speak encourages me to perform in my relationships at work and in my personal life. Thank you for all of the wisdom.
Thank you Mel......great choice for a guest.
I love listening to her, that clear confidence is very attractive.
Something I heard once and it stuck with me ever since: "If being hard on yourself worked, it would have worked by now."
Love Evy watched her on like tons of podcasts she's so honest ❤
My finding these brilliant women wasn’t an accident. I needed their messages to penetrate my hard head. It’s amazing how one’s own mind can get stuck in “idle” or even “reverse” mode maybe because it feels easier. NO. Keep an open mind always, the more stuck I am the more I need to change things up. Thanks to ALL the smart women on UA-cam 🥰
Love Evy, I'm following her for couple of years. This episode has something.... I'm beyond inspired, filled with positive energy and most important empowered. Much love from Balkan (Europe) ❤
wow! incredible interview so much clarity...🤯🤯🤯 thank you ladies!
Evy is aaaamaaaazing!! I thought I was really good at reading ppl but she’s taught me some things!! 💛🙏😊 She’s a treasure.
Wowwwww, two of my faves together. What an impactful episode! This is everything I needed today.
Mel and team, I love all your podcasts. This was one, for me, was outstanding! Powerful in so many ways. Thank you!
I LOVE EVY, I'm reading her book becoming bulletproof right now.
I freakin love this woman! I found her on another podcast and listened to them back to back. I’m going to order her book as well. So much of what she’s about resonated so much with me. It’s so funny Mel said she’s speaking directly to her because I felt the exact same way! Two amazing women!
Great conversation - a good investment of my focus and time. Thank you Ms. Mel & Ms. Evy.
What a pleasant voice on top of her fantastic delivery of interesting information 😊
First time I've heard of Evy. Wow! Fascinating podcast! Now, off now to purchase Evy's book. Thank you, Mel and Evy. 🤩
I love watching interviews with Evy. She is such an interesting person and a serious female role model. Sometimes I think, What would Evy do? And it gives me confidence. Also, love to Mel!
Now this is a pure example of two, strong, intelligent, charismatic LEADERS who would make an incredible United States Presidential ticket for the next eight years! I wouldn't blame you for having no personal interest in that thought! LOL! Thank you so much for your brutal honesty and incredible way of teaching us some very important life lessons and invaluable interpersonal tips. Wishing you both joy and continued success in your life journeys. Love, JR
Mel, Mel, Mel! Thank you in so many ways for you being you!
Thank you, Evy, for sharing your knowledge and expertise.
Now to be brave enough!
Is this the sign of our times? Those that we may never actually meet are the most important to our well-being?
No cubilce! ❤🎉my dad was a marine in Korea and a NYCF. The last 5 yrs of his career, Rescue 4. His nickname was "the incredible bul." I still remember he would always sit with his arms crossed, the back and forth jokes, however, he was a tough SOB. Thank you for serving & sharing. 🎉
I LOVE Evy and rly look up to her. Ty for having her on!
This podcasts was with most genuine, authentic presence from both parties! It was a pleasure watching it. Great job
Mel you and Evy are amazing communicators and I literally sat on the edge of my chair watching and listening and rewatching and sharing. I loved it when you said you have been watching all of Evy’s interviews “like a stalker” because I am the same. I now give her book to my friends and family for all occasions especially graduation or house warming gifts. Mel keep up the great job you are doing! ❤
I need this woman to give me a makeup tutorial. For real.
@@HH-gv8mx me too!
So much wisdom ❤Great podcast
Some people are shy,because growing up they were always being told off for stupid stuff. Shy people can from time to time break eye contact,like look at the wall or the floor.
Such a remarkable and educational interview. Immediately actionable tips. Fantastic!
This is spot on! I’m sharing it with my whole tribe!!
Wow and wow!! I was riveted to this podcast from beginning to end. Evy is great. Mel, you're great. This helped me tremendously and I'm glad I listened to what you had to say at the end. I will share this with others!
Great interview. I love your honesty and vulnerability, Mel, especially when you shared that Evy came to talk directly to you.
It's not our gut that we need to listen to most of the time, but rather, we need to risk not being liked by the decisions we make. We don't like to go through emotional pain or discomfort, so we ignore our conclusions and hope things improve without risking disapproval. Alternatively, we seek validation of our intel from others to shift the burden onto them, avoiding responsibility. So, what should we do? Trust our conclusions. If we make a mistake, we can always apologize. Risk not being liked in the moment. We won’t die, and the relationship probably won't either. Relationships are built on conflict.
Thank you for sharing this conversation. I loved every bit of this. Listening to Evy's words about steadiness in behavior, speech, and emotion resonated with me deeply. We create our own path and learn every step of the way, and confidence is earned by taking the road less traveled. Remembering that you are 50% of the equation in any interaction reminds me of the saying "you attract more bees with honey instead of vinegar." Thank you both for this enlightening video.
Incredible conversation.... helped me self reflect to see where I am also out of congruence in my own life- and how I can live more authentically and lean into trusting myself more. Thank you xo 💜
I loved that quote Evy gave. One of my favorite quotes is..."Whatever is in a man's heart, will come out of their mouth."(Bible) So, listen, look, and watch.
This is the best episode so far, one of my most favourites.
Love her book which I'm reading now Bullet Proof...she's humble and a go-getter. Her main take to me is this: she believes in herself and works her ass off❤
I’m reading Evy’s book too. I was in tears within the first few pages. She’s not reached where she has without a LOT of loss, trauma, fear, bloody hard work and experience from growing up to within her field of work. Incredibly strong, intelligent, brave and gutsy woman. I have the upmost respect for her 🙏❤️
More people need to hear this!
Doing creates bravery and not the overway around.
Great interview. She has great wisdom I feel. And… all my life I have been called ‘so confident’ … oh so untrue… But ‘brave’, yes! And what is bravery.. doing the thing that must be done although you feel afraid and scared.
O U T S T A N D I N G guest and interview. Thank you, Mel, for bringing top talent to feed your audience. I appreciate you.
I love Evy! I get lost in listening to her interviews.
Very powerful!
I love both of these ladies. I learn so much from them. Great conversation/podcast.
Hi, I listened to her on a different site yesterday and she said she started in the New York police dept., so how is it she has not had a criminal justice class.??? Doesn't make sense. She is very intelligent for sure. Truths and errors , very interesting . Can learn a lot from her.!!!
I truly wonder if you have to meditate a lot having this steady and clear attitude❤
I can’t express how much I wished for this collaboration to happen 😍💪
Mel-thanks for another amazing guest. I love everything about her. So intelligent and so inspirational. Off to get this book!!
I truly needed to hear this today.
Thank you so much.
Love Evy, seen her on several shows and eventually bought her book. If you have serious life experience, good instincts and antennas, able to read the room, guts and disipline I guess a lot of what she describes would be applicable to complete a good foundation to master your surroundings. On top of that obviously comes brilliant training.
This is amazing & helpful in so many ways.
oh my gosh. Love this! Thank you for explaining how challenging body language is to read
Wow - I was leaned in the entire time. Life changing to "handle your shit". Life changing to move from people who don't. Thanks again Mel for another amazing podcast !!
Very powerful! Thank you both for this helpful and inspiring information.
Terrific guest Mel. Very informative. Thank you!
Omg I love love Evy just found her out few days ago and I’m so hook on her. She is amazing
This was absolutely interesting, I learned so much, it's actually had a positive impact 👍