Thank you for watching guys! You can get some great desk clocks at rb.gy/pdd1iy and sculpture rb.gy/5pr9xa and penholders rb.gy/g2w5dm and vases rb.gy/xgzkzm and laundry baskets rb.gy/dzmre6 Have a wonderful day lovelies!
I used to be so friendly to my helpers,most took advantage, to a point of stealing... I am trying to be a friendly boss again,it is just hard this time. Sometimes when you too kind they take advantage
Sue, thank you for starting this channel. Every video you do has changed my perspective a whole lot. This one is the best. How you explain each mistake, in such a motherly voice (don't ask me how) felt like it's my mum explaining all this. Now, when I got my child, I'd never had a nanny, I dint know how to be around another lady in my house. (Raised with boys). My first nanny, God bless her... Taught me patience, she'd speak like you are now. She'd calm me down when I get angry.. yaani she contained hasira zangu za Mkisii.🤣🤣 When her season ended I let her go start her family and hope she gets a good nanny as she was to me. Bless you for this channel, you are changing lives.
Very valid points Suzy! I can count the number of hsehelps i had till my daughter got to a good age to be in boarding at 15. Pay them well,respect each other. Treat them like humans.
some of them even if you be nice they take advantage. I always made sure i do the deep cleaning cooking and always gave space. She ended up kunitusi ...
I am all ears. I am on house girl number 5 with an 18 months old and 3 weeks old. God help me. Each time a help leaves most times the following day I am left crying and asking my hubby did I make the wrong Decision to let them go. Thanks for sharing. I am learning and relearning.
Oh my! Hugs girl! Reminds me of when my twins were born! Such difficult times! But things do get better, trust me. God will bring you the right person.
👏🏽This info is so on point...i love the part of treating them like Gods children and having conversations with them. I have had mine for 6 plus years and i pray God keep us together longer.
I have never helped a nanny with housework EVER! So with Covid, I decided since I'm home, we can work together. Wueeeee!! That idea took a big bite on my ass. After 2 months of this, nanny started seeing me as her equal. The day I have left the house and done no house work, she SULKSSSSS! She started even leavng some of her duties for me. Suzzie i STOPPED! I only assist when I feel like it. But mambo ya "Cook and I'll wash the house", hapanaa.
😂😂😂 Pole sana mami... Some nannies will initially respond like this, depending on their level of maturity. I would have a chat with her and explain that I still expect work to be done at the end of the day. I would let her know that when I am at home I would help, but if I am not at home she should make sure everything gets done. Hapa ndio leadership skills zinatokelezea 😂😂 That's how I would handle such a help. She should know that it's still her job at the end of the day.
I am used to a spotless kitchen on Sunday as it is her day off,So one day I left two thermos not washed but soaked.Upon her return she was like"Na hizi thermos zinafanya nini hapa."Phew🙄😬
I used to work for this family where by I start at 5am to 10pm even on weekends and I did not have leave at all I left and God blessed me with the new family I have been with them for 11yrs not working on weekends and also I have a total of 1month leave days I thank God
Thanks so much Suzy.Its my first time with house help and this video has really been helpful.Am your subscriber especially for the batch cooking, detergent and hand wash videos, home yoghurt, peanut butter among others. Continue being blessed with your family.
Hi suzzy I truly appreciate this platform , Im a househelp and I'm in a dire situation with my boss currently ... I really need someone to talk to , just to give me strength .... Someone to uplift me so I can stay focused on my goals
Then if the no. one mistake is to go bye, then I don't need one because Her JD is purely house chores and the kids when I am out there looking for money. Imagine coming home late because of the nature of your work and you find her literally waiting for you to help??? Unless I review down her salary, because i normally do her JD and i make sure I compensate her adequately. You can only help her of you know you are paying her poorly. I have had one whom I treated soo well that my 9yr daughter questioned me why are you soo nice to aunty and she is mistreating us when you are not there?? She one day took a video of her shouting and punching his younger brothers in the dining and the part of her threatening them from telling me what happened. She used to blackmail them that if you tell your mother I will tell her how you frustrate me and I will leave this job and you know your mum will not get any house help to come and help her. So the kids were confused should they tell mum or we endure the mistreatment for the sake of her staying around to help mum with work??? That video shocked me and I just paid her earned salary the next day and we parted ways without telling her what happened.
I'm a week old in this channel and I'm wondering where I have been.. super amazing content here, yaani I'm learning so so much watching your content back to back.. wow Suzy you are such a blessing and a wonderful soul too.
All Househelps should sign a Contract on how long employment is needed if from 6 months to 12 months if Househelp breaks contract all payments should be withheld and notify Househelp of breach of contract. ALL HOUSEHELP MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS WHEN A CONTRACT IS BROKEN.
😆i think for someone to decide to terminate a contract which they happily signed there is always an issue. so get to the bottom of the matter and if the issue is beyond mending let her go in peace.
On this one I can tell women, do you. It feels like the women are being oppressed in a way as compared to men in running homes. There's no way mtaingia nyumbani nyinyi wawili and then I rush to the kitchen to cook so as to help the help, don't get me wrong but let her panga her time well and do her job. Treat her well, but let her do her job. If you are the type ya kutandikiwa kitanda, do it, if you want to cook,well, but don't neglect yourself while at it
Thanks so much Suzy and other bosses can embarrass their house helps in front of the children and children also take that advantage to disrespect the househelps
Heeh!! Gosh! I disagree with almost everything you've said but maybe it's just me. A nanny should know what is expected of her from day 1. You train her and she continues on her own. You are her employer and she is an employee. That's it. There should be a clear boundary. If you start doing her work, she will stop working hard and always expect you to help. If you can't help her because you have other things to do, she will start feeling over worked and start walking around like she is a victim. I am a working mom. At work, my boss tells me what to do and I do it. He doesn't tell me what to do and then he grabs a chair, sits beside me and helps me to do it. Kila mtu na kazi yake! Also, when am I expected to relax. I work and I come home to work some more 🤣🤣 I think society expects too much from women especially mothers. LADIES, LEARN TO RELAX! You deserve it. Leave her with the kids and go and drink some tea with friends. You can even go to your room and watch a movie. Take a break. Nannies get Sunday off. When will you as a wife and mom take a break? With a relaxed and well rested mind, you'll be better wives, mothers and workers. House work is not a priority in my house. My husband and kids are. All you have pointed out seems like more work to me. That part where you are saying that we should talk to them also is a big mistake. Nannies have issues like everyone else but if they tell you they expect you to go above and beyond to help them and to be super understanding when they keep asking for time off. Even if you talk to her. She will still go and talk to other nannies out there probably about you. I had a nanny we treated her really well. We helped her and uplifted her and her family. After a year, she started feeling like she was better than the job. She ended up giving me a notice to try and increase her salary. Her husband tried to conn me. She left our house very bitter. A week later she was trying to come back but I can never take back a nanny. I was exhausted. My personal advice is don't involve yourself in the lives of your nannies. They will leave you, without warning and you will feel drained. Focus on your families. She is an employee, she has family and friends of her own that she can confide in.
Wow! Angela! I appreciate the passion and dedication that it took to write all that! You clearly feel very strongly about this topic. Thank you for taking the time to watch and leave a comment. Much appreciated! 👏🏾👏🏾💐💐
@@suzyshomestead Hehehe!! Aki I tried to keep it brief but I just can't. Anyway, I have learned these lessons the hard way I tell you. In fact, we just let go of a nanny. She just couldn't get along with my kids. I gave her a month and she didn't improve so onto the next. I learned not to get invested so I don't get affected either. Let me stop there before I chuck another book. Thanks Suzy.
@@Angela-sn5tb u r so very right, I have learnt the hard way too n I hope I can be tough coz even your boss at work doesjt come to help, they expect work done in time wether you didn't sleep, slept hungry or tires or you came to work on food is never their concern, so house helps should not be exceptional, i treat them well but they take advantage...
Reminds me of one woman who used to tell me not to sit in the sitting room because the hubby will see me forgetting that she used to go places leaving the kids and the husband in my hands 🤔
I think you speak about serious isuses and all and are interesting to listen to and smile when you need to. Can you imagine smiling all through the videos yaani the jaws will be aching in less than 5minutesb🖤🤍🖤🤍
I had my help for 3yrs but after listening to you I think I could have done better at creating rapport.Our was purely employee-employer relationship but it didn't help that she was introverted.I hope to do better with my next help.
I always use those rules coz that's my nature n they turn into mistake n it's like I give my power away in the process, I don't stop even when I keep being warned to stop being too nice, of course they the helps all claim am too good person but they disappoint alot coz they take advantage and even start seeing me as their equal n disobedience n disrespects comes in there, but most always want to come back but I only need one when hv just given birth or when am working but it's better to just raise your kids on your own...they are of big help but most betray your kindness aki...
And how do you "politely" get rid of a non performing house help who doesn't want to leave?She is comfortable to continue staying yet her job is just OK. She does the bare minimum of her duties, doesn't go out of her way to improve and has to be reminded every time to do things correctly.
I wish she answered this question cz am going through the same. I've to keep reminding her and pointing out her shoddy job. It makes it difficult to even socialize or relate with her. Most times am just pissed at her
It's better to let her go, I am a patient person too it only gets worse n she will eventually leave n leave u with regrets why u never let her go earlier...someone will to stay should be willing to do their best ..so don't make the same mistakes that I make
Me whenever am home I do most of work then these house helps get used and sometimes goes to bed leaving me hustling yet am helping ha.whn she is not sick
This is what attracted me to your channel. You being yourself, I can tell you're not phony. Me personally I don't think you need to smile more. You're alright with me.😊❤
Suzi,do you despise house helps? We forget that they're also human beings,it's not good to overwork them coz they're being paid,sometimes let's put ourselves in their shoes.I was once a house help but could cope with my boss.Kid's (rude,disrespectful, messy) from that day,I preferred working g for old parents.
Mums working from home do your nannies feel uncomfortable? I work from home and I'm always in my bedroom but i feel like they feel like hawana freedom. I tried helping her with house chores like cooking which ended up that it's my job. The other day she told me " na rushiu ugaturugira pilau"...yaaniii
😂😂 I feel you Susan! I'm home a lot too, but I try to balance between giving my nanny her space and also building rapport with her. And also taking away the kids from her for a while so she can get her work done. It's a fine balance, but doable. All the best! Na upikie watu pilau.. 🤣🤣🤣
Waaah GOD bless you.... imagine nimekaa na mtu for 3 yrs ata off siendi namwongoja hadi apewe leave ndio naenda home and she dsnt even appreciate now have decided to go
Thanks for this topic! Such perspective especially the part for helping so that you know what’s Happening in your house…I have a newborn and currently on my third Househelp in 2 months haha weeeeeeeeeeeeeh character development
Haha I asked my friend if I'm the one in the wrong... Kumbe... Never hold on to the house helps. Blessed is the coming house help.... She's going to find the best employer
For me this a no I tried I ended up doing all the work while she was on phone this went on for like one week and that's how I realised I do not need her I can actually do it on my own and that how I got rid of her got a cleaning lady who comes once a week we thorough clean and am happy
My first time watching you. A recommendation from my hubby. Such a lovely to hear this. 👍🏾 To answer your question about you smiling ☺️, yes you are. I’m interested in learning more about househelps and Kenyan employers.
Do a video on a questionnaire you use when recruiting househelps. What are the tale tell signs that she will not stay or she is not a good fit/match for your family.
Thank you for the tips Suzy, I absolutely love you and your content. Also, you're a wonderful human being. May God bless you and your family❣️❣️ Yes, you smile in your videos, it's just that it's a little on the inside😅😅
All the best Sarah! There are still some good ones out there, but I totally feel you when you say you have reached "that point". More grace to you girl. It gets better. You can do this! 🙌🏾👏🏾
Amen you are such a nice person,may all employers and employees watch this video,but everything you've said I have passed through in 3 houses I was employed until I am hating to be employed .
Am a house help seven years now in this house ,bat she has never helped me .aki sio kumchomea bat she do not help ata kidogo .and recently her husband complained that kusha tsho zake za job zimepotea and they r needed guess niliambiwa nimeziiba forgetting that there is a relative of his also living with us .he had already called the police not to know that his brother had actually taken them .manze sio rahisi am planning to leave soon
Thank you for watching guys! You can get some great desk clocks at rb.gy/pdd1iy and sculpture rb.gy/5pr9xa and penholders rb.gy/g2w5dm and vases rb.gy/xgzkzm and laundry baskets rb.gy/dzmre6 Have a wonderful day lovelies!
I used to be so friendly to my helpers,most took advantage, to a point of stealing... I am trying to be a friendly boss again,it is just hard this time. Sometimes when you too kind they take advantage
True.... I pray that we get to strike this balance
This happens to me too friendly, kind and helping them too but they exploit it n become too disobedient
Thankyou
Dealing with one right naw,,she drives me crazy😔
@@margaretwamaitha2766 same yea
Where have I been? The best channel ever learning very credible lessons. Have been watching all your videos since 8pm.
Aaw Ann! So glad you like it! 🌻🌻
latest lesson i've learnt its ok to let her go if things dont work out, dont hold onto her because she's good with house work or your kids.
Exactly!
This video is for me. I am watching the whole playlist. I loved that last bit....we check our hearts and attitude towards our home managers.
🤗🤗🤗
Sue, thank you for starting this channel. Every video you do has changed my perspective a whole lot. This one is the best. How you explain each mistake, in such a motherly voice (don't ask me how) felt like it's my mum explaining all this. Now, when I got my child, I'd never had a nanny, I dint know how to be around another lady in my house. (Raised with boys). My first nanny, God bless her... Taught me patience, she'd speak like you are now. She'd calm me down when I get angry.. yaani she contained hasira zangu za Mkisii.🤣🤣 When her season ended I let her go start her family and hope she gets a good nanny as she was to me. Bless you for this channel, you are changing lives.
Thank you girl!! You're too kind! I'm so glad you are finding value here. 🌻✨
Very valid points Suzy! I can count the number of hsehelps i had till my daughter got to a good age to be in boarding at 15. Pay them well,respect each other. Treat them like humans.
God bless you
some of them even if you be nice they take advantage. I always made sure i do the deep cleaning cooking and always gave space. She ended up kunitusi ...
You are always serious but I really love your content I started being motivated after I watch how you do your chores and work too
😂😂😂 thanks Rose..
I am all ears. I am on house girl number 5 with an 18 months old and 3 weeks old. God help me. Each time a help leaves most times the following day I am left crying and asking my hubby did I make the wrong Decision to let them go. Thanks for sharing. I am learning and relearning.
Oh my! Hugs girl! Reminds me of when my twins were born! Such difficult times! But things do get better, trust me. God will bring you the right person.
👏🏽This info is so on point...i love the part of treating them like Gods children and having conversations with them. I have had mine for 6 plus years and i pray God keep us together longer.
6 years!! Wow! What a blessing! Clearly you are doing something right. Keep it up girl! 💯👍🏾
Please help me?
I love your intonations... they're making me smile 😃 ☺ it's like we're having a one on one over tea and croissants lol 😆
💐💐💐 Chai + croissants = dream combination 😋😋😋
Exactly ,I have a dream of travelling to Kenya just to give her a hug😍😍
I agree totally! I feel with my first househelp I had left everything for her to handle but I am now more involved in my house chores. Good sfuff
Thank you! 🎉🎉
I have never helped a nanny with housework EVER! So with Covid, I decided since I'm home, we can work together. Wueeeee!! That idea took a big bite on my ass. After 2 months of this, nanny started seeing me as her equal. The day I have left the house and done no house work, she SULKSSSSS! She started even leavng some of her duties for me. Suzzie i STOPPED! I only assist when I feel like it. But mambo ya "Cook and I'll wash the house", hapanaa.
😂😂😂 Pole sana mami... Some nannies will initially respond like this, depending on their level of maturity. I would have a chat with her and explain that I still expect work to be done at the end of the day. I would let her know that when I am at home I would help, but if I am not at home she should make sure everything gets done. Hapa ndio leadership skills zinatokelezea 😂😂 That's how I would handle such a help. She should know that it's still her job at the end of the day.
@@suzyshomestead true
I am used to a spotless kitchen on Sunday as it is her day off,So one day I left two thermos not washed but soaked.Upon her return she was like"Na hizi thermos zinafanya nini hapa."Phew🙄😬
exactly,the moment you start helping them they even assume some of their duties
Yes hapo ni ukweli akikuzoe ni basi the same happened to me so ilimbidi nimemtoa
Woow! I used to ask my self what's wrong but I've just discovered I was the problem.
I used to work for this family where by I start at 5am to 10pm even on weekends and I did not have leave at all I left and God blessed me with the new family I have been with them for 11yrs not working on weekends and also I have a total of 1month leave days I thank God
Wow blessings
Thanks so much Suzy.Its my first time with house help and this video has really been helpful.Am your subscriber especially for the batch cooking, detergent and hand wash videos, home yoghurt, peanut butter among others. Continue being blessed with your family.
This happens to me too friendly, kind and helping them too but they exploit it, take advantage n become disobedient too...
Yes I agree pay well so they become loyal and don’t need to take anything also to gain thankfulness and respect from househelper
Thank you for this.. very helpful to new mothers
Best advice ever .. this will help us also manage our house and our helps too
Thank you Mary!💐
You deserve an award
Aaaww! Thank you! 🤗💐
Woooow!!! This is just what I needed. Thanks
So glad I could help! 💐
Hi suzzy I truly appreciate this platform , Im a househelp and I'm in a dire situation with my boss currently ... I really need someone to talk to , just to give me strength .... Someone to uplift me so I can stay focused on my goals
No worries girl. Just inbox me on FB or IG. Hang in there! 💐
Then if the no. one mistake is to go bye, then I don't need one because Her JD is purely house chores and the kids when I am out there looking for money. Imagine coming home late because of the nature of your work and you find her literally waiting for you to help??? Unless I review down her salary, because i normally do her JD and i make sure I compensate her adequately. You can only help her of you know you are paying her poorly. I have had one whom I treated soo well that my 9yr daughter questioned me why are you soo nice to aunty and she is mistreating us when you are not there?? She one day took a video of her shouting and punching his younger brothers in the dining and the part of her threatening them from telling me what happened. She used to blackmail them that if you tell your mother I will tell her how you frustrate me and I will leave this job and you know your mum will not get any house help to come and help her. So the kids were confused should they tell mum or we endure the mistreatment for the sake of her staying around to help mum with work??? That video shocked me and I just paid her earned salary the next day and we parted ways without telling her what happened.
I'm a week old in this channel and I'm wondering where I have been.. super amazing content here, yaani I'm learning so so much watching your content back to back.. wow Suzy you are such a blessing and a wonderful soul too.
Thank you Gloria!! 🌼🌻
Sue, you are the bomb. Had to jot down the points. I've never had help but I'm looking for the first time ever. Good stuff.
Welcome to the "employers club" 😜 Wishing you all the best!
Same wazzup!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I have learnt alot from your channel. Much love
You are welcome Lydia!😊
All Househelps should sign a Contract on how long employment is needed if from 6 months to 12 months if Househelp breaks contract all payments should be withheld and notify Househelp of breach of contract. ALL HOUSEHELP MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS WHEN A CONTRACT IS BROKEN.
Thanks for your comment Cynthia! ☺️☺️
😆i think for someone to decide to terminate a contract which they happily signed there is always an issue. so get to the bottom of the matter and if the issue is beyond mending let her go in peace.
I've been learning so much on this channel..
On this one I can tell women, do you. It feels like the women are being oppressed in a way as compared to men in running homes. There's no way mtaingia nyumbani nyinyi wawili and then I rush to the kitchen to cook so as to help the help, don't get me wrong but let her panga her time well and do her job. Treat her well, but let her do her job.
If you are the type ya kutandikiwa kitanda, do it, if you want to cook,well, but don't neglect yourself while at it
Good points Wambui. 👏🏾👏🏾
Pls can you translate the vernacular to English,🙏🙏
Very very vererrrrrrrryyyyyy TRUE!!
Thanks so much Suzy and other bosses can embarrass their house helps in front of the children and children also take that advantage to disrespect the househelps
True my sister
Heeh!! Gosh! I disagree with almost everything you've said but maybe it's just me. A nanny should know what is expected of her from day 1. You train her and she continues on her own. You are her employer and she is an employee. That's it. There should be a clear boundary. If you start doing her work, she will stop working hard and always expect you to help. If you can't help her because you have other things to do, she will start feeling over worked and start walking around like she is a victim. I am a working mom. At work, my boss tells me what to do and I do it. He doesn't tell me what to do and then he grabs a chair, sits beside me and helps me to do it. Kila mtu na kazi yake! Also, when am I expected to relax. I work and I come home to work some more 🤣🤣 I think society expects too much from women especially mothers. LADIES, LEARN TO RELAX! You deserve it. Leave her with the kids and go and drink some tea with friends. You can even go to your room and watch a movie. Take a break. Nannies get Sunday off. When will you as a wife and mom take a break? With a relaxed and well rested mind, you'll be better wives, mothers and workers. House work is not a priority in my house. My husband and kids are. All you have pointed out seems like more work to me. That part where you are saying that we should talk to them also is a big mistake. Nannies have issues like everyone else but if they tell you they expect you to go above and beyond to help them and to be super understanding when they keep asking for time off. Even if you talk to her. She will still go and talk to other nannies out there probably about you. I had a nanny we treated her really well. We helped her and uplifted her and her family. After a year, she started feeling like she was better than the job. She ended up giving me a notice to try and increase her salary. Her husband tried to conn me. She left our house very bitter. A week later she was trying to come back but I can never take back a nanny. I was exhausted. My personal advice is don't involve yourself in the lives of your nannies. They will leave you, without warning and you will feel drained. Focus on your families. She is an employee, she has family and friends of her own that she can confide in.
Wow! Angela! I appreciate the passion and dedication that it took to write all that! You clearly feel very strongly about this topic. Thank you for taking the time to watch and leave a comment. Much appreciated! 👏🏾👏🏾💐💐
@@suzyshomestead Hehehe!! Aki I tried to keep it brief but I just can't. Anyway, I have learned these lessons the hard way I tell you. In fact, we just let go of a nanny. She just couldn't get along with my kids. I gave her a month and she didn't improve so onto the next. I learned not to get invested so I don't get affected either. Let me stop there before I chuck another book. Thanks Suzy.
Oh my...I totally agree. Women need time for themselves. Don't get invested. You're right your boss at work gives you work and expects it done.
@@Angela-sn5tb u r so very right, I have learnt the hard way too n I hope I can be tough coz even your boss at work doesjt come to help, they expect work done in time wether you didn't sleep, slept hungry or tires or you came to work on food is never their concern, so house helps should not be exceptional, i treat them well but they take advantage...
Good
Reminds me of one woman who used to tell me not to sit in the sitting room because the hubby will see me forgetting that she used to go places leaving the kids and the husband in my hands 🤔
😅😅😅
Haaaaa
Hahaha
Many employers are lazy all the know complain , complain ,
Sweet heart I have one here that's her job
I have recently just discovered your channel. And I Love it. So much to learn from. Well done Suzy and awesome video :)
Thanks Hattie! So glad you're here! 👍🏾👍🏾
The points are well generated and can be used especially in young mom forums and work.
I'm so glad you think so!
I think you speak about serious isuses and all and are interesting to listen to and smile when you need to. Can you imagine smiling all through the videos yaani the jaws will be aching in less than 5minutesb🖤🤍🖤🤍
Hahaha!! That's a great perspective!! I agree kabisa!!
Such invaluable advice. Shared with others. Mistake No. 1 is so me 🙈
Thanks for watching girl. We all make these mistakes yaani!
Smile for the camera sweety 😁
This is an awesome video!
:-)
I had my help for 3yrs but after listening to you I think I could have done better at creating rapport.Our was purely employee-employer relationship but it didn't help that she was introverted.I hope to do better with my next help.
Thanks Eve! Every day we learn and make progress. 🌺🌷
I always use those rules coz that's my nature n they turn into mistake n it's like I give my power away in the process, I don't stop even when I keep being warned to stop being too nice, of course they the helps all claim am too good person but they disappoint alot coz they take advantage and even start seeing me as their equal n disobedience n disrespects comes in there, but most always want to come back but I only need one when hv just given birth or when am working but it's better to just raise your kids on your own...they are of big help but most betray your kindness aki...
And how do you "politely" get rid of a non performing house help who doesn't want to leave?She is comfortable to continue staying yet her job is just OK.
She does the bare minimum of her duties, doesn't go out of her way to improve and has to be reminded every time to do things correctly.
Am also hoping to be assisted in this
Same here
I wish she answered this question cz am going through the same. I've to keep reminding her and pointing out her shoddy job. It makes it difficult to even socialize or relate with her. Most times am just pissed at her
It's better to let her go, I am a patient person too it only gets worse n she will eventually leave n leave u with regrets why u never let her go earlier...someone will to stay should be willing to do their best ..so don't make the same mistakes that I make
Hi Mercy! Here is a video I did on how to fire a househelp... ua-cam.com/video/mvVFECjeFdI/v-deo.htmlsi=20UJRutd7SL_RVTr
Beautiful advice right there 👌. Thanks alot. Let's treat them with the fear of The Lord 💞.
Absolutely!!
I love your videos, since jana I discovered your Channel am just glued hear.💕❤️
Thanks Rehema! You're so kind! 🌼🌼
Me whenever am home I do most of work then these house helps get used and sometimes goes to bed leaving me hustling yet am helping ha.whn she is not sick
Sometimes they finish the housework by 10:00am and spend the rest of the day on afrosinema till you arrive .
How intelligent!l have learnt alot,God bless you.
Thanks Eunice! God bless you too! 💐💐
This was very informative .thank you
Sue this one is the bomb!!! You are hilarious🤣🤣🤣
Thanks girl! I had so much fun making it!
I remember a neighbour whose baby Was more used to the househelp than the mother .
So sad! 😟😟
This is what attracted me to your channel. You being yourself, I can tell you're not phony. Me personally I don't think you need to smile more. You're alright with me.😊❤
Thank you Tanneka!🤗
May God bless you and your family
Thanks Jennifer! You too!! 🌻👍🏾
Suzi,do you despise house helps? We forget that they're also human beings,it's not good to overwork them coz they're being paid,sometimes let's put ourselves in their shoes.I was once a house help but could cope with my boss.Kid's (rude,disrespectful, messy) from that day,I preferred working g for old parents.
Hey Esther! Keep up the good work! I appreciate househelps. They are a vital part of our community. Thanks for watching! 👊🏿
Mums working from home do your nannies feel uncomfortable? I work from home and I'm always in my bedroom but i feel like they feel like hawana freedom. I tried helping her with house chores like cooking which ended up that it's my job. The other day she told me " na rushiu ugaturugira pilau"...yaaniii
😂😂 I feel you Susan! I'm home a lot too, but I try to balance between giving my nanny her space and also building rapport with her. And also taking away the kids from her for a while so she can get her work done. It's a fine balance, but doable. All the best! Na upikie watu pilau.. 🤣🤣🤣
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New on this channel, really good info considering my household is reporting on Monday
Welcome to the family Wacuka! 😊
I am entertained and educated at the same time.Thank you Suzy!
Most welcome dear!
Hello thts great advice I would like you to guide me on something.
Lots of love here from Uganda Mbarara city
Wow this is absolutely great.
Thanks Victoria 💐
Waaah GOD bless you.... imagine nimekaa na mtu for 3 yrs ata off siendi namwongoja hadi apewe leave ndio naenda home and she dsnt even appreciate now have decided to go
Oh Hellen! Pole Sana! Have you had a chat with her about it? 3 years is a long time. May God bless the work of your hands. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She is talking to me rudely like have told you before ukichoka you let me know waah
@@hellenaluoch8234 waaah! That's very rude of her!
Mungu anamwona...
Sweet be blessed your so patient
🤣🤣 Do I smile in my videos... I ended up smiling. Good job Suzy
Thanks Christine! 😁😁😁
Thanks for this topic! Such perspective especially the part for helping so that you know what’s Happening in your house…I have a newborn and currently on my third Househelp in 2 months haha weeeeeeeeeeeeeh character development
Hi! You are welcome. You are doing well girl!
Insightful Suzy
Thank you
Thanks a lot!
Now I know how to treat myself 😜.... Thanks for the content Suzy👏
Hahahaha!! Nice one!!
Haha I asked my friend if I'm the one in the wrong... Kumbe... Never hold on to the house helps.
Blessed is the coming house help.... She's going to find the best employer
Amen!!! Love it! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
For me this a no I tried I ended up doing all the work while she was on phone this went on for like one week and that's how I realised I do not need her I can actually do it on my own and that how I got rid of her got a cleaning lady who comes once a week we thorough clean and am happy
So glad you found a system that works for you Ruth! 🙌🏾👊🏾
The story of my life n recently it was a 36yr old grown up yet I had a Cs wound to heal...nkt
Thank you Suzy for this very helpful.
Most welcome Grace. And thanks for watching!
This, is awesome. Thank you.
Most welcome Flo! 🎉🎉
Thanks for this points so helpful
It's a bit difficult to smile while talking. I think you do, but you can do it more...we're smiling right back at you ☺
Aaaawww!! You're the sweetest! 🤗🤗🤗
I only cook occasionally ,i dont correct her errors,i point them out and she corrects them,its only that i cant be bathed!!
Wow wow wow ! I like this information... thankyou
Thank you too! 🌺🌺
Really enjoying this information.Already shared it out to my WhatsApp groups.Valuable!
Aaaww!! You're such a darling! Thanks dear.
My first time watching you. A recommendation from my hubby. Such a lovely to hear this. 👍🏾
To answer your question about you smiling ☺️, yes you are.
I’m interested in learning more about househelps and Kenyan employers.
Am loving this suzy
Thank you Selline! 😊
Woooow happy to know that we are fellowship members. NLC
Woohoo!! Awesome!!
Mostly you blame helper but you employers are a promblem , laizy,laizy laizy ,laiz yooooo
Good one!
Thanks!
Do a video on a questionnaire you use when recruiting househelps. What are the tale tell signs that she will not stay or she is not a good fit/match for your family.
Very good idea girl!! Working on it! Thanks!
Yes you smile and honestly your sooooo lovely and you feel with what you say
It's well dear
Thanks Moureen. You're so kind! 🌼🌼
Learnt a lot , thanks
Most welcome Lucia! 🌻🌻
Good informative content.....thumbs up
Thank you Grace! 🎊🎊
like this Hot topic which i too have learnt alot and its a broad topic that mummies personally learn as they raise their children.
Thanks girl!
Wacha nikunywe chai juu ya hiyo stori had me cracked up!
Househelp is helpless 😂😂😂. I love your videos
Thanks for the kind words Lynne! Merry Christmas! 🎄🎄
Lovely
Thank you Tatiana!💐
Beautiful content
Thanks Ida! 💐💐
Wow thanks for this,am here looking for one can't believe the one I had left after all I did for her it hurts!
Pole Sana Monicah! It shall be well. 😢😢😢
Hugs
Hugs the same happened to me i let her go coz the ungratefulness n the disrespect was too much despite being a siz to her
Great content...!
Thanks a lot!
Have liked you so much but some have no privacy in their house
Thank you for the tips Suzy, I absolutely love you and your content.
Also, you're a wonderful human being. May God bless you and your family❣️❣️
Yes, you smile in your videos, it's just that it's a little on the inside😅😅
Thanks a lot Verah! 💐💐
Mimi I gave up 🤣🤣.I will have a househelp when my lastborn is 5 years .For now reke nemwo😭😭
My dear house wengine ukiwatreat vizuri wanaanza madharau🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@rytahkyalo1644 very true aki
All the best Sarah! There are still some good ones out there, but I totally feel you when you say you have reached "that point". More grace to you girl. It gets better. You can do this! 🙌🏾👏🏾
Susie, very few of us could afford this minimum wage
Amen you are such a nice person,may all employers and employees watch this video,but everything you've said I have passed through in 3 houses I was employed until I am hating to be employed .
Am a house help seven years now in this house ,bat she has never helped me .aki sio kumchomea bat she do not help ata kidogo .and recently her husband complained that kusha tsho zake za job zimepotea and they r needed guess niliambiwa nimeziiba forgetting that there is a relative of his also living with us .he had already called the police not to know that his brother had actually taken them .manze sio rahisi am planning to leave soon
Pole Sana Alice! I pray everything works out well for you. 💐💐
I agree totally
Thanks Cindy!
Thank you Sue.
Most welcome!
i have been in this house for 3 yrs but am suffering, better saudia
Pole Kristina! 🌻💐
mine ukimkalisha chini atakuambia ye amezoea hivo😂
Amen
Amen!
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