How I've Stayed with my House Girl for 13 Years: What Has Worked for Us

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  • @tendaigapare4806
    @tendaigapare4806 3 роки тому +6

    Martha may God bless u for doing that! I can relate to your story. I've lived with the guy who tends to my house yard for 23 years. He was single when he became part
    Of our famliy, now he's married and a father of 3, the oldest is getting for his university. We're forever grateful for having him.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      You are both blessings to each other. May God continue to bless you and your families.

  • @ajwk1000
    @ajwk1000 3 роки тому +5

    I concur with you Martha! It is essential to treat your nanny as family. We have been with ours for the last 26 years and I thank God everyday for sending her our way

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому +1

      26 years? Wow!!!

    • @ajwk1000
      @ajwk1000 3 роки тому +1

      @@mummytales Yes! Time flies. We thank God for her.

  • @Veronica-mf2wt
    @Veronica-mf2wt 5 років тому +6

    Wow...13 years is no joke! Have learnt a few tips, thanks Martha for sharing your story. Thanks mummytales for also sharing this video, I have realised it's doable as long as mnaelewana.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  4 роки тому

      Kuelewana na kuwa on the same page. It's a daily work in progress, you both have to make the effort. Kweli 13 years sio mchezo.

  • @namaembawafula8905
    @namaembawafula8905 5 років тому +8

    This is encouraging. For hardworking and respectful housies It's always good to appreciate them and treat them well. Thanks for sharing

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching Namaemba and for your helpful insights. Such nannies are gems that we truly appreciate.

  • @nelliewamalwa3244
    @nelliewamalwa3244 3 роки тому +8

    I stayed with my nanny 18 years when my boys wanted to marry 15 years later he insisted she the nanny must be part of the entourage to the bride's home.a year later she passed on the boys she had taken care of buried her with full honors

  • @nindakangethe423
    @nindakangethe423 5 років тому +5

    Great tips! This is so encouraging for those who do not think it is possible. The biggest take away is to be patient, kind and take control of your household. Thanks Martha and Mummy Tales!

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  4 роки тому

      For sure it is possible. Patience is so key!

  • @joanwairimu2223
    @joanwairimu2223 5 років тому +5

    Thats nice martha i worked as a house girl for only five years and i was treated the same way.now iam a mother of three and i do have a house and i like to treat them the way i was treated too ,when iam at home on weekend she goes for off ,i cook for my self too

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  5 років тому

      Hi Joan, please share with me your contacts on maryanne@mummytales.com Thanks.

    • @joeynjesh2041
      @joeynjesh2041 2 роки тому

      I have worked for this lady as a house help this my 3rd year i don't go for offs she doesn't help not even washing the utensils leave alone cooking and when i told her to add the salary for me she told me she has limits mind you ata hiyo salary haijafika 10k na si ati hana job poa she earns like 100k and the hubby earns more than 1m.

  • @joymwangi8547
    @joymwangi8547 5 років тому +6

    Thats a great way to live. But reality is that good hearted housegirls nowadays are hard to come by.She is fortunate

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  4 роки тому

      Martha is fortunate for sure. And so is her nanny. They are both fortunate.

  • @fiveart3070
    @fiveart3070 5 років тому +5

    God will bless you doubly. Please help teach Africans how to treat their house helps.

  • @sarahgachagua8134
    @sarahgachagua8134 4 роки тому +4

    Wow. 13yrs isn't a joke... The longest time I had a househelp we stayed for 3yrs

  • @JRooijakkers76
    @JRooijakkers76 5 років тому +6

    Thanks for sharing your story Martha! Treating your help as family, respecting one another, giving each other space if need be is the key..
    Cheers🍷

  • @marywairimuburugu7386
    @marywairimuburugu7386 3 роки тому +4

    Wao! Martha and Mary compensating one another.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      They are blessings to each other for sure.

  • @rosekadzokadzo1401
    @rosekadzokadzo1401 3 роки тому +4

    Yeah this really intresting treating your Nanny in a petiance way..i.love this... Me to will.treat mine like this.. Its a good lesson to me.. Thanks❤️❤️

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому +1

      I'm glad Ruth's experience has been of benefit. Yes, when your time comes, I'm sure you'll treat her well from the lessons learned from the two ladies.

  • @nancywanjiru5468
    @nancywanjiru5468 3 роки тому

    Martha is doing gd to her children she's molding thm for future. Kudos mama. GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS U FOREVER

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Amen and God bless you too.

  • @mercynjeri4892
    @mercynjeri4892 3 роки тому +4

    Am happy to hear this is so encouraging 🥰 to me because I am a house girl

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Mercy yes her story is indeed encouraging. Thanks for watching.

  • @marywairimuburugu7386
    @marywairimuburugu7386 3 роки тому +3

    Martha you're a precious mom

  • @MwariwaMukurino
    @MwariwaMukurino 3 роки тому +4

    I Love The Host,,we us house girls u motivate us by bringing such nice stories

    • @clarewekesa5881
      @clarewekesa5881 3 роки тому

      Lpppp

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Glad that you have been motivated. I'll keep telling such stories. Thank you for watching.

  • @annabar6603
    @annabar6603 3 роки тому +3

    MARTHA YOU ARE WISE KIND PERSON GOD BLESS YOU

  • @mulagoinvestments5182
    @mulagoinvestments5182 5 років тому +6

    That's very good for Martha, but the challenge I have is that she is a full time mother yet many mothers are working from Monday to Saturday so releasing a housegirl to attend to many of her issues becomes a challenge.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  4 роки тому

      It's true, working moms face quite a number of challenges. It's not easy.

  • @monicahnjogu5835
    @monicahnjogu5835 3 роки тому

    Keep the spirit burning mary because where you go let God protects your way

  • @floramumbua2301
    @floramumbua2301 3 роки тому +1

    Good job Martha , may God bless you my lovely sister in law

  • @NaturalktedyEdna
    @NaturalktedyEdna 5 років тому +2

    Wow. So inspirational ❤

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching 🙂

  • @graciousnekesa5199
    @graciousnekesa5199 3 роки тому +1

    Woow God bless you mum,hopin to find a good boss like you
    You luk so jovial,haukai kuboeka rahisi.

  • @josephineonyango5472
    @josephineonyango5472 3 роки тому

    Good Employee.. My God bless you so much

  • @jemmyshiko3527
    @jemmyshiko3527 3 роки тому +2

    I love the host na Martha God bless her.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Thank you and God bless you too 🙏

  • @stevek8318
    @stevek8318 5 років тому +3

    How can you talk about somebody for that long and can't show her clearly yet it is for Honor and positive story? Good story though

    • @dorothyalele8074
      @dorothyalele8074 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @kwambydee187
      @kwambydee187 3 роки тому +1

      Do you understand privacy and maybe its her choice not to be filmed.Doesyour employee puy you on media without you consent.Think🤔🤔
      Personal privacy, choices and data protection.

  • @dianaanyova4026
    @dianaanyova4026 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks Martha,you sound to be a good boss...Baraka...

  • @TheWaithera
    @TheWaithera 5 років тому +4

    Ohhh MaryAnne, you are so awesome and you inspire me loads 💕💕

    • @stevek8318
      @stevek8318 5 років тому

      Inspired by what? House gal story? Men!!, you can be inspired by just about anything

  • @magdalenemukandah1252
    @magdalenemukandah1252 3 роки тому +3

    Wololo Martha Martha i wish I worked with you, your so good.

  • @margaretkahunguka8198
    @margaretkahunguka8198 3 роки тому +2

    Wow what a good boss, may god bless you, I wish all bosses be like you

  • @agnesmunai1576
    @agnesmunai1576 3 роки тому +4

    Congratulation you're the best mum ever seen may God bless you 💯 watching all the way from Euroupe.merci.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching and for your feedback Agnes.

  • @truthandlove9883
    @truthandlove9883 2 роки тому

    What do you do when your house help feels bad when corrected and chose to insult the mistress and Master arongantly.... because we need someone and still decides to keep her... advice

  • @aminajalia1556
    @aminajalia1556 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for having a good heart

  • @bettykarugitv
    @bettykarugitv 3 роки тому +1

    Hero mother , God bless you

  • @careenkemuntojelimo9151
    @careenkemuntojelimo9151 3 роки тому +1

    Actually you are a good boss

  • @phanicealivitsa5285
    @phanicealivitsa5285 3 роки тому +3

    Waaaaoooh congratulation may God bless u

  • @khakasaannet8108
    @khakasaannet8108 3 роки тому +3

    May God bless you Mary's bosse

  • @njerimuathe8493
    @njerimuathe8493 5 років тому +1

    Well done Martha

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      She's a good example of an employer who we can learn from...

  • @brendahmulongo5494
    @brendahmulongo5494 3 роки тому +2

    wooow ijst luv the both of you martha aki mungu abless

  • @joycegesare1571
    @joycegesare1571 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for ur good encouragements

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Glad you found the video helpful.

  • @fridahmudave8818
    @fridahmudave8818 3 роки тому +2

    Woou good mum God bless you 🙏

  • @mercynanglie5674
    @mercynanglie5674 3 роки тому +1

    Oooh 😋 l like this story

  • @dipoleloshirley4407
    @dipoleloshirley4407 3 роки тому

    Good mother...lov u

  • @faithkavete2967
    @faithkavete2967 3 роки тому +5

    You're a good boss.

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      We've learned at least from her...

  • @agathabobo3244
    @agathabobo3244 2 роки тому

    I just wish I get a good boss like here at 😥😥currently am a housegirl but the way am been treated acha tu

  • @kerrykerry602
    @kerrykerry602 3 роки тому +1

    Waw this is great

  • @hillaryphilip4323
    @hillaryphilip4323 3 роки тому

    God bless you Abundantly

  • @winniemwash8075
    @winniemwash8075 3 роки тому +3

    Wonderfull

  • @dakawangu4490
    @dakawangu4490 5 років тому

    Did u gve her gratitude

  • @pennytusiime368
    @pennytusiime368 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you 🙏🙏

    • @mummytales
      @mummytales  3 роки тому

      Blessings to you too Penny.

  • @lydiakariuki6400
    @lydiakariuki6400 3 роки тому

    After 10yrs it’s good but don’t support where not start a business

  • @clarewekesa5881
    @clarewekesa5881 3 роки тому

    Please
    Lll