She treated her husband 'like a king' by cheating with a co-worker. I know for a fact I could never touch my woman again if she cheated... even if it happened 20 years ago.
Wholeheartedly agree with you all. Expecting your husband to be ok with it is bad enough but to do your husband when you've had another guy whitewash your insides is the lowest of the low except her giving AP a BJ then kissing husband. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I feel exactly the same way. It was disgusting that she came home to her husband and gave him sloppy seconds. If my woman cheated on me, I'd never touch her again either. I'd want nothing to do with another man's cum dump.
@@jjsmither5256 I wish I had been able to, but unlike some guys, I couldn't put my kids through hell, so I waited until they were old enough to understand why I didn't love their mommy anymore, then I had her served at the bank where she worked. Believe me, that was one pissed off little gal, claiming she thought I had got over it. She never suspected that I knew she had been cheating the whole time with multiple guys...Surprise!
He was weak & pathetic beforehand though... there's a reason why she thought it was a "1 in a million chance" that he would leave her & couldn't even imagine what he did do. THAT has to be the absolute first & only option in her mind to have any chance of her acting right... a woman cheating is the end product of a man failing for an extended period of time to have her in check.
@nationalsocialism3504 Unfortunately too many take kindness for weakness. He put her on a pedestal and she wasn't concerned about the consequences as she didn't expect what he would do what he did
It's amazing how delusional this woman is. She really thought she could offload her guilt onto him, get a few tut-tuts and a disappointed look, and then everything would eventually blow over? The fact that she also calls her husband a "cold monster" for simply giving her the consequences of her own actions is beyond telling.
"Oh, my wife committed adultery. I'm so upset. But I'm so lucky to have her back now. She's so precious and I hope she never goes anywhere ever ever again!"
Sadly, OP was delusional in this instance, however, one of the primary reasons for women cheating is because most men give the wife a second chance or more! I heard that it’s 70% or more. Such a high percentage makes it worth the risk for cheaters.
@@dalecowart1826 Yeah, but what happens then is the husband is never able to get past her infidelity. The marriage limps on like a wounded animal, with the cucked husband typically just staying "for the kids". I've lost count of the amount of times I've read that a betrayed husband served his cheating wife with divorce papers as soon as the last kid goes to college.
@@malificajones7674 No doubt, you're correct, and I don't believe there are as many successful reconciliations as reported. Still, there are too many men willing to reconcile so that, even in countries where the death penalty exists, infidelity on the part of women is worth the risk to them because of men granting them a second chance. Let that sink in.
@@dalecowart1826 Yeah, I agree that's it's sickening how many men have no self-esteem. I've seen varying statistics on this, but even when the husband attempts a reconciliation, there's a high chance that they will still divorce anyway... just years later. That's why I firmly believe you should never even attempt to reconcile if the wife cheats. Women are only unfaithful when they have no respect for their husband, and forgiving her just makes her lose even more respect. then it's just a matter of time before she cheats again.
"I feel horrible about what happened to Percy. He was a great employee with a bright future...." What about your husband that you betrayed?! She is still showing that she cares for this piece of trash. Her and Pearcy both deserve each other. Straight garbage.
Percy is a Chad, she feels horrible what happened to him, because now she dont have chance to cheat with him again. Whats other reason for her to have his number, and he hers number? She didnt end it with him after trip, just put him on shelf with clear mind to contact when shes in his town again on "business trip"
@@scaredpaul540he wasnt a chad because he p' sied out when she threaten to tell his fiancee. A real chad also doesnt go after ruining relationships; especially married women. They can get it on their own.
So he wasn't a "Nice Guy" He wad a good guy. He had zero problem showing love and affection to his wife, and treating her like a queen... provided she treated him like a king. The moment she stepped out and showed she was not worthy of it, he booted her out. He dusted the remains of the marriage and trashed all the photos of them. He went scorched earth. He then went and warned the AP's fiancee, then annihilated their worlds. When you cross a King, be prepared to face the headsman.
If betrayed spouses would consistently go nuclear on cheaters, we’d have a lot less people cheating after a while. Not none, but a considerable reduction.
You didn't owe her that last visit either. Hope your living your best life. You should forgive her. Not for her as she's already passed away but rather for your own mental health. Better to let the hate go and live happy.
Being able to live Happy doesn't require forgiving a CHEATER,for their own redemption ! Their own guilt or remorse is solely the cheater's problem !@@GSP-76
No need to forgive. And perhaps its easier to consider them ded for one's peace of mind. Also, as long as one doesnt keep the hate alive, then thats enough.
@@KENZIIE_lol we came home a week early from deployment. Was not pretty. Took a lot for my command to keep it in house and me out of the brig. Had a great CO and a even better Master Chief.
"Love bombing" could be one of the tell-tale signs, but I think more common is the sudden coldness and distance, both in the lack of friendship and in the bedroom. That's what I experienced when my ex started an affair.
@@Syrin23at least alone together. Probably why we should highly encourage same sex trips only or with opp sex have at least 2-4 extra witnesses and not all be all men / women but a mix of both.
To the idiots saying he's childish. Look at it this way, he did his best to provide for her. Be faithful to her and turn others down. Since being betrayed he wants to kill her. Keep that in mind. If a man give up all other women to be a good husband, only to have her bone and do all kind of nasty stuff with the coworker, the best he can do is get her up out of his life. Otherwise she will be dead, and he will be in prison.
She didn't tell hubs for hubs' sake, i.e., she didn't tell him to give him agency over his own decisions - whether or not he wanted to be married to someone like who she truly was. She only told him to relieve HER guilt/bad feelings. It wasn't for him, it was for her. In these situations, I say that the betrayer should suck it up and live with the guilt FOREVER. Never tell, let it eat away at you, because while it relieves YOUR guilt, hubs will be DEVASTATED, exactly the reverse of how emotions should be assigned. SHE was wrong, she deserves the bad feels, he did nothing wrong, so he doesn't deserve to be devastated. All this "logic" is only because/if she wants to stay together.
@@williamclayton9566 Oh, God, no. No matter how devastated he feels, he needs to know he's sleeping with the enemy, so he can move on and possibly find somebody worth finding, or at the very least stop supporting a demon.
@@dannysneddon8284 Sorry dude, that's not the way it works. She will test you until the day you die. It's in their nature, and you need to maintain your frame.
What these women fail understand is, once a woman opens her legs up to another man, her husband, fiance, boyfriend or whatever will NEVER get that image out of their heads. The relationship is over, there's no coming back from that. The only move is break up and move on. There will only be resentment and anger towards that person and the relationship will never heal.
You are right but it's more than that. Men put women into two categories. Wife material and hoes. Once a woman does enough things to cross over from wife material to hoe, there is NO GOING BACK! It's a one way path. It's why reconciliation NEVER works, and men end up divorcing years later even a decade later. They NEVER see their wife as wife material whether it's conscious or subconsciously.
Yup Also why having multiple partners is also a huge turn off / deal breaker for most guys "Francine i see your face and lips moving but all i can see are all the guys and you taking more poundings than omaha beach on d day" -stan smith; american dad
"Yes I deserved punishment, but not like this." Look at her trying to dictate the terms of her punishment. Honestly sounds like this relationship was doomed from the start as she doesn't respect him.
My parents, when I fucked up, used to ask me "what do you think we should do?" or "what do you think your punishment should be?". Bad idea. I think many other parents of my generation did the same, and this is the result. You don't get to choose your punishment
If you ever ask a man, would you rather take a beating, or be cheated on, almost every man will take the beating. She REALLY doesn't get how bad what she did was.
If he would’ve forgave her within six months, she would’ve lost total respect for him. In two years she’d be cheating again. Why because she got away with it the first time. Once a cheater always a cheater.
So, I got this: 'I only confessed because I thought he was a complete pushover and would let me get away with it', from her story. She's acting like what he's doing is insane, making him out to be a 'cruel, heartless monster'. All he's doing is basic how to deal with a cheater 101. He's being far more cordial than he could be, and handled this with with a great deal of grace and morals.
Have you ever noticed how people in that situation always say the wouldn’t have told their partner and never say they wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. That tells you everything about them.
Most women are completely deluded about how men view infidelity. You can see that by the excuses they always use: "It didn't mean anything, it was just sex." "It was just physical, I didn't love him." They say crap like this because women care about the emotions. To find out her husband loves another woman would be devastating to her, but a lot of women will forgive an incident of "just sex" infidelity. For men, they view their wife as belonging to him. Her having an affair is basically her saying: "I was more attracted to this guy than you. I wanted to F this guy more than you." Which is of course, absolutely devastating to any guy.
@@malificajones7674nail on the head. Probably why guys can also semi forgive emotional affairs Do you like / love him? A little Did you f him? What no Okay just dont and ignore him or else we're through. For a woman cheating is the guy having a casual business dinner date with a co worker. On par with a guy cheating is if his girl f'd another dude on a business trip.
From what I’ve noticed, over the years, is that women will rationalise and justify their behaviour, even though consequences lie just around the corner)
Notice how they always feel bad after being buss open 😂 I also notice they get buss open with coworkers and on girls trips most often….yet wonder why men don’t want them out 🤷♂️
For all those who believe in continuing to hide the deceitful act, you are just as vile as this woman. She had the agency without any coercion to cheat and did it twice. Then she gives her husband her lovers sloppy seconds. He did what all those betrayed should always do - nuke the marriage. There was no remorse for her, and she disrespected her man and marriage. Ghost and move on no one cares, lady.
@@scrcrwninja it's a shaming tactic to get them to talk to them and keep their attention and make him lose control. It's also to get their shame reduced as if they are the victim
Yeah but if her outcome was to stay married for the next 40yrs she should have buried it under 100tons of concrete. She should have found another job, and buried it. It's all about outcome at the end of day. We don't need this woman out there ruining anymore lives.
Facts. The best way to get over a betrayal like this is to inflict as much emotional damage on the cheating wife and her AP as possible. That way you no longer feel like a victim, and you can make them both bitterly regret the affair. I can guarantee that the husband felt some grim satisfaction at getting Percy fired and destroying his engagement to the fiancee.
@@malificajones7674 Exactly! To heII with all the 'working it out in therapy' crap. Nothing will work it out faster than the knowledge that your wife and her AP will have a shiver run down their spine when they remember or recount what you did to them after the discovery of their affair. The best therapy is making them forever realize that you are the one they should not have f**ked with.
@@malificajones7674 More than the emotional damage I feel the point of exposing everything to all parties is to ensure consequences are meted out. No cheater or AP will change their MO and stop hurting others in the future if they don't suffer severe, life altering consequences. I couldn't give less of a crap about a cheating spouse or their AP I would only want to know that they'd never be capable of hurting anyone the same again and that would give me the solace needed to finally move on.
Cheater believes her husband will eventually forgive her if she 'fesses up'. She tries to baby trap him. The level of manipulation and deceit here are all major red flags. You can't make a wife out of a carousel rider. She showed who and what she was.
If the wife or husband is your “soulmate” you’re not going to cheat. Otherwise, they’re not your “soulmate” and if you cheat, you’re not worthy of your spouse.
I love it when the "nice guy" kicks the gal to the curb. This whole "it was the alcohol" and "one thing lead to another" excuse mentality is ridiculous. It only PROVES these gals can't be trusted, and need someone watching them all the time. They all think their marriage or relationship can endure because THEY didn't get betrayed. They have no clue what their betrayed partner is feeling.
“it was the alcohol” …. Is never an acceptable excuse. Why are you drinking with a man that’s not your husband? You should’ve known drinking with another man is a terrible idea.
@@TexasLonghornRanch Drinking provides the scapegoat. It's the means to the end. A woman will rationalize her cheating as "I'm not doing it to hurt my husband, but just for my selfish needs. I have no plans of replacing my husband with this man." Doing it with a married or engaged man provides her the "logic", if you will, to be unable to see this man as her husband's replacement. It makes sense at the time. It's only when caught, she's begging and pleading for forgiveness, and stressing how there was no emotions involved. That's her way of saying to her husband, "I had no plans of gaining any further attraction to him and replacing you". Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. This saying is real because a woman believes if her guy is cheating on her... he's found her replacement. She's PROJECTING how she views cheating and thinks he views it the same way. Hence, if she finds out the other gal is prettier, better body, nicer boobs... why would he want HER? He's replacing her with a better model. It makes it kind of comical how, in most of these stories, the OTHER MAN is some short, bald, dumpy dude. Again, she adores the ATTENTION from the other man and will rationalize her cheating by possibly not wanting to leave her better-looking husband for HIM.
First, this is so right. Subconsciously, she "had the measure" of her husband as the forgiving type. This is deep in the calculation of both the act and the confession. She miscalculated. Secondly, that lady that has been lying to her husband for a couple of decades is a reason to never get married. The thought of being that guy is bone-chilling.
@@aetank_yyteawu3436Hopefully when the worthless tramp is aged and unable to take care of herself. For the crime of stealing a man’s entire life from him she can live her “golden years” alone and miserable.
@@aetank_yyteawu3436 Yeah, like one of my teachers way back in junior high. She cheated on her husband with another teacher at our school (it was an open secret, even the students were aware of it) for over 10 years. Shortly after her kids (twins) went off to college, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, only to find that her "nice guy" husband with the expansive health insurance....had taken her off his insurance the year before (when he found out about the affair). So, she had to deal with a cancer battle....and a divorce at the same time. He had already tested the kids to ensure they were his and they had already been briefed on the happenings, so they weren't too supportive of their whoremom either. Ten years of built up karma jaw-jacked her. Think about it. No husband, no insurance (insurers won't take you on while you're dealing with a potentially terminal illness - that's not good business), and potentially millions of dollars of medical debt. Mr. Richards (the BS) then sued her AP for alienation of affection, not to get money, but to drain Mr Proehl's finances dry. I should probably mention that Mr. Richards' attorney was his sister-in-law (brother's wife) so she did it all pro bono. He got a settlement of some kind (or so I heard) about a year after his ex-wife died in 2008.
Percy made huge mistakes to have affair with married women and cause his engagement called off. He is going live regrets on how he messed up his own mistake and has to start over again.
True, but he asked his OP to lie to his fiancee and then chewed her out when she said she wouldn't. He's a dishonest person who will likely blame others for his problems. Not sure if he'll learn anything from this.
Percy and OP are both trash...people like this shouldnt be married, not even in any sort of relationship...streets are their playground and it should stay that forever
Whenever a guy does not answer to women's tantrums, they call him childish. Guys, when a woman call you childish for not engaging in their BS, know that you won.
"(The affair partner) meant nothing!!" Is that supposed to make him feel better? That's the ultimate insult, because the affair proves the husband meant even less.
When she was called into HR, what if the roles were reversed? If OP was the one who misused company funds, and Percy did not, I'll bet he would have gotten the boot anyway.
@@dannysneddon8284lol, the boss know. The boss kick the AP out. When company wants u out, even the slightest mistake would be used against u. The boss is the hero here. He punish AP for his wrong doing. And didnt kick WW out to prevent big alimony.
@@eleethtahgra7182 OP stated that the she and the HR manager were friends. That is why she wasn’t terminated. I don’t applaud her company at all. The HR manager was simply looking out for her friend, and I wouldn’t be surprised if that sort of conduct is accepted unless you get publicly outed like this OP and force the company to issue some sort of reprimand to save face.
Total respect to Deegan. He did the right thing and hopefully wasn’t exposed to the other guy’s body fluids. OP claiming to have fought to save the marriage is laughable - that’s like a murderer trying to resuscitate the victim. At least OP confessed on her own accord. This is a sad story.
He was exposed to Percy's spooge though. Cheating wives always go bareback with their lovers. She then came back and screwed the husband the next day... and sperm stays active inside a woman for 5 days after ejaculation.
@@eleethtahgra7182 Unlike other stories, OP does have a conscience and confessed. To me, that means she isn’t totally bad or evil and that is what I find to be sad. Maybe if she hadn’t gone on that trip, they might still be happily married ? Regardless, glad he had the strength to do what had to be done.
Her husband did what every man should do when he find out that his girl, wife, fiance, cheat is get the hell out and move on. It's always good to ghost a cheater that way they get no closer.
I was walking down the street when out of nowhere I tripped and fell asleep in my neighbors bed! I thought I was struggling to get up, in reality I was engaged in consensual relations! IT JUST HAPPENED!! 😅 HE DIDN'T LET ME EXPLAIN!!!😮😮
@@Syrin23 I didn't bother to find out as I had enough to deal with bringing up the three children we had as well as working as no state was bothered helping me. Infact anything I tried to get as help was blocked every which way. Unlike with women who seem to get everything. Anyway I eventually met an Asian woman and my goodness 1000% difference loyal, faithful and good hard workers. She puts western women to complete and utter shame. We had to live in UK as I had everything here but after living in PH for a few years we are going back there for good shortly and I will never come back to the west to this Evil culture. The west is finished, the fems and Elites have seen to that. This is why they are trying to rule over every country with their Evil plans through W.H.O. So they can destroy everywhere.
@@dannysneddon8284 Yes but I wasn't Red Pilled then it was pure pain that caused me to react the way I did and after going through a number of situation with girl friens before that I really had had enough of the crap from women. So it woke me up to how Evil they are. Yes we know some men are absolute Evil as well but women are worse in far bigger numbers. Now knowing what I know I would just laugh and walk away. As I would be quite happy to spend my life alone.
the way she was acting all shocked by his reaction, like she was expecting him to be "oh ok honey it's not a big deal, next time should i sit on a chair and watch like a good boy", it was sickening, like his emotions where not so important to her.
She thought he was weak. She never knew who her husband really was. She deserved to destroy his life with a player. The way women think baffles me. If he took her back she would be trying to go on the next business trip with Percy.
Her “shock” was probably why she felt comfortable cheating. She didn’t respect her husband’s grit and strength, and thought he’d eventually forgive her. Her incredulity demonstrates just how immature and entitled OP is.
@@richardcharles4126 Sadly, the RP community knows the score. Women don't respect weak guys, but they don't respect nice guys either. If you are kind and thoughtful with your woman, she appreciates it for a fleeting moment, but it doesn't count for anything in the long-term. That's why they love chasing the bad boys so much. Chad honestly doesn't give a shit about them, so they bend over backwards trying to get his attention and validation. Her husband was a super nice guy, very kind and thoughtful. In the end it did absolutely nothing to prevent her from cheating with the co-worker. If Deegan had said (and meant it): "I love you, but I don't share my toys. If you cheat on me, we're done." It would have had a far greater impact on this woman. If she was terrified that her husband would dump her instantly if she cheated, she might have actually thought twice about being unfaithful.
@@malificajones7674and shed cheat n shut her mouth. Bad boys just dont care if she cheat...since they are also a cheater. So, if a woman marry bad boy...shed get cheated.
@@ahmadyusof2480 that's true. But at the same time it's also would have pushed the needle against cheating in her mind. Not sure if she would have not cheated, but at least the chance of cheating would have been significantly reduced.
Also open one sided relationships or booty calls as some magical fixing device. You didn't get in a relationship with your AP through it You BROKE your current relationship with your spouse because of it And Now you wanna fix it by having them boinking other women or opening your already opened legs wider hoping you can suck him back in?!? 😂
People often make the mistake that men who are nice guys don't have balls. It's a terrible mistake. Men who are in love with a woman will treat her like a queen, as we were told to do, as we want to. Imagine our suprise when the queen of our lives betrays us. It's devastating !!!!! But we move on !!!
that they do. So many are shocked when they find out that they can't walk over me that I will get in their face and do just like he did and burn the bridge I am standing on to show just how serious I am. Still doesn't stop so many from thinking I take shit because I do so much for others, I do for others because I choose to and they are grateful for it, if they showed any level of disrespect, they would get nothing from me. My neighbor found that out the hard way, she had a yard guy coming by from the church that was trying to pipe her years ago came by every weekend planting fresh, full sun flowers in her no sun front yard. Guy kept parking in front of my house preventing me from doing so when I needed to, it came to a head when I had a bunch of dirt and stones to unload from my truck for the front yard and I couldn't park in front of my house next to my front yard because he was there. So me and him got into a verbal altercation, cops ended up getting called and the neighbor basically sided with the guy trying to pipe her saying that I threatened the guy and getting in his face when the guy walked around his trailer and got in my face and I told him to take a swing and see what happens which is not a threat in any sense as he was making a threatening move himself. Well after that happened next day, she gave a sob story when I was getting in my truck to go about how she was sorry and her heart hurts to lie like she did about me to the cop and I just simply said to her "sure what ever". That was 15 years ago, and I hadn't said a word to her since then. When she moved in, I told her up front I am easy to get along with and I don't mind helping her but be warned I am not someone you want to cross. She didn't heed my advice and now she lost out on any of the help she was getting from me before she accused me of a crime that I never did. I used to look at her car if it was doing something, I also used to bring her garbage in as she would get in from work around 8 pm and I got home around 5:30 - 6:30. Now she has to deal with all that and guess what that guy from the church trying to pipe her, I hadn't seen him in 14 years which means he either piped her and then disappeared on her or he just gave up because she wasn't catching onto his advances. Whatever the cause she is a single woman pushing 50 now that spends 90% of her time away from home at work, hope she enjoys the bed she made cause the neighbors on the other side of her are renters and they couldn't care less about helping her, then there's me that she burned that bridge telling lies that could have gotten me arrested that wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire. Just like the woman I thought I was in a relationship back in 2012, she got pregnant then I realized the conception date was some 3 weeks after the last time me and her were together so the kid wasnt mine no matter how you cut it, I called her up on the phone instantly and called her out on it she said we would talk about it tomorrow. that never happened and never heard from her again, the 304 ran and disappeared instead of facing the music for what she had done.
They has a misunderstanding of what nice is. They think it's weak because the guy is viewed as having to be nice. In order to be nice you need to have the capacity of the opposite but you choose to be nice.
That poor man. He is going to have trust issues for the rest of his life. How do you ever trust a woman after that happens to you? She was loving, treating him like a king, doing everything for him to make him happy then drops that bomb on him. Forever after that he will see a woman treating him well and wonder if she is trying to make up for something she did. That scare will never go away, best he can hope for is that it doesn't ruin his relationship with whoever he loves next.
Always use both the carrot and the stick when dealing with children and women. Reward positive behaviors and punish negative behaviors. Even then women have a difficult time understanding potential outcomes when they partake in bad behavior. They always count on being a woman to save them from the most harsh punishments and quite frankly it works more often than not. Hence the problems we have today.
She stated "I was happily married and he was engaged to be married." Their actions indicate otherwise. Actions are a language, and their actions speak volumes. 🤔
12:05 Make it up to him in many ways and earlier she said she was treating him extra special because he deserved it. It’s absolutely disgusting that she only treats him good and feels he deserves it when she’s wracked by intense guilt. We really need sort of control or consequence to women’s bad behavior. This stuff is theft, and psychological torture.
Yeah it’s always confusing when they say “make it up to him” to try and absolve their guilty cuz it’s not doing shit if he doesn’t know the specific reason for her change in behavior, which means the extra treatment is meaningless in nature
@@royce6166 I agree, and I feel it’s even worse. I’ve heard enough stories from the husbands perspective. They think everything is great, he has no complaints and thinks his wife loves him and he feels lucky. To put a man on top of a mountain and immediately drop him into the deepest darkest hole is nothing short of traumatic.
She never treated him like a King, she treated him like an errand boy and the proof is she cheated and the fact that she said he treated her like a Queen first!
Geez, why do they always claim it "Was a Mistake"? No, butt dialing someone is a mistake, jumping into bed with someone other than your spouse is a cold, calculated, evil risk. This "Lady" is just so torn up that her faithful, loving, caring man, DID care about her screwing another guy. She broke him, and she deserves everything she gets. The friend that she couldn't believe she would do that to her, didn't dally with a married man, that was all her doing as well. I hope it was worth it for a 24 hour fling.
I will never understand why wm have seggs with bf/husb right after they have been with the other. SAME DAY, It stays there for weeks. Must be total guilt.
Found out about my first wife cheating, took me a good three days to collect my thoughts. I talked to my dad, he was the most level headed guy I knew, he said I know you want children do you think you would ever be able to trust her again. I thanked my dad went home and said I want a divorce, what followed will haunt me for the rest of my life, she screened and cried and begged me to stay. I just quietly walk away. I remarried my now wife about 2 years later, raised 2 very successful children and we have a wonderful grandchild. Getting old now we are nearing our 40 th anniversary.
Only a woman could say she treats her husband like a king while in the same breath say she cheated on him. Like a typical 304, she just glosses over how she wound up cheating and focuses on everything afterwards. They're all scum. This woman thought she married a nice guy/white knight. She absolutely did NOT. She married a devoted guy who treated his wife like a queen but his principles were equally as important. There aren't a lot of guys that like this. Either their pushover nice guys who get used by women or their very tough take charge types. She had a guy that had embodied the best of both worlds... literally one in a million probably. She thinks he became a monster. No honey, he's still the same great guy he always was. He's just not that to you anymore. That new girl he's with is now getting the awesome treatment he gave you before you stepped out on him. Adios.
@@Syrin23 I'm skeptical about that. Women will always get wet for the bad boys and this story just proves how they will destroy everything good in their lives for some fleeting moments of pleasure.
@@ContrarianCorner BUT, if the beta men of the world never took these women in or kept them after their bad behavior, they would have no relationships since Chad will never commit.
@@ContrarianCorner her husband was obvioulsy WAY more of a badboy than Percy. he obliterated the guys life with absolutely no mercy.... he also obliterated his wayward wife
Props to the woman who faked a mental breakdown because she respected her marriage. She is a real one. She didnt change him, she just find out how nice he was.
Cheating is high treason. Doing it twice, is two times high treason pluss a chunk extra for it beeing repeated. There is no chance whatsoever i would take back a partner after that. In any scenario that happens in normal life.
Most men are the “nice guy” or “simp” before being betrayed. Strength is almost always a matter of necessity. No one wants to face serious trauma, but when pushed, even a spineless man can evolve into an alpha.
She knows she should have talked to Percy before she confessed to her husband because her promise to Percy was more important than her wedding vows. Got it!
The guy handled it like a total boss. Hopefully, he is now born-again hard and will never again be the bIue-piIIed "nice guy" who put women on pedestals.
The husband's reaction is perfect The kind of entitlement she has shows exactly why she did what she did Cause she never expected him to have the balls to stand up for himself
@@pethrosuriahson6156 Yup he did But he was also a nice guy Not the a hole type I think that's how men should be Nice and loving but Tough and uncompromising at the sign of slightest disrespect or anything fishy
this having to be an asshole to keep her attracted to you dynamic is the definition of toxic. you dont want to be that person nor do you want to be in a relationship that forces you to be that person. it is a constant toxic, artificial and stupid power struggle that will leave you with no peace at home. @@Phoenix-King-ozai
@@pethrosuriahson6156 Totally With some people You have to be an a hole to get fair treatment That's not worth it Changing yourself for worse for someone Its better to dump those low value people and try to be with high value/ people with integrity Be they be friends or family or spouse
@@pethrosuriahson6156Unfortunately, as toxic and gross as it is, its also reality. "Nice guys finish last" isnt some catchy anecdote. Its wisdom based on centuries of female behavior.
WHAT? "Rationalized?" No, it was a CHOICE by HABIT because a MORAL person would KNOW what is wrong it is wrong, and pursuing it will bring CONSEQUENCES.
Wow, did she really say she deserved to sleep with someone else other than her husband because she was stressed from work? If that's her mentality she doesn't deserved to be married. The thing that people don't understand is, we were created to confess our sins, whether it is right away or later on. But you will eventually.
I've never understood how their marriage is perfect, husband is perfect, their life is perfect, blah blah blah yet they still cheat. If everything is "perfect" cheating wouldn't even enter your mind. I'm guessing a mental issue or you just have no morals.
Perfection is boring to women (nothing to complain about). Women thrive on chaos and drama. So it makes perfect sense. The issue is that you look at it from a male point of view. Women are vastly different then men in that regard. We love peace, women love emotional highs and lows.
I heard a quote on another relationship video: "God gives women beauty, they cover it with makeup. God gives women eyebrows, they pluck them out and draw on new ones. God gives women breasts, they get implants. If God himself cannot make a woman happy, how can you?"
Everyone is capable of cheating if the situation presents itself, even the morally righteous ones. The trick is not put yourself in a tempting situation. People just don't know how to behave in a working environment. Being overly friendly or talking about personal stuff with your coworkers is all inappropriate.
I had to listen to this twice it was so freaking good. Deegan is a freaking champ! He proved that he wasn't a SIMP, but a freaking man! Damn this was a feel good story!
It's too bad if you are a naturaklly nice guy with a backbone and self respect and being yourself but then your wife, or gf thinks you are weak or she takes you for granted. A man should be able to be himself, even a nice man. I think men like this must make it clear that infidelity of any kind will lead to a breakup or divorce. But then if this lady knew that I doubt she would tell him the truth.
But if she knew from beggining that outcome for cheating is breakup for sure, she will "maybe" think twice...women are in two groups, those who cheat and those who dont, BUT remember, that every single woman have ability to cheat, when conditions are right...result? never ever trust your woman 100% percent, trust as much as your logic is allowing you, but verify and dont ignore your guts and her red flags
36:21 Just because you've never been at the mercy of my displeasure do not assume it doesn't exist. There are two relatively old sayings that teach this simple fact "don't mistake kindness for weakness" and "don't pull on Superman's cape" from her view she says the man has changed but I don't think so I just think she was so used to his kindness she thought him incapable of being decisive.
I tell people I work with professionally ALL the time not to mistake kindness for weakness as people invariably end up trying to take advantage of my kindness and then act shocked when I replace them with someone else. I will never change the way I treat people, but I will change the people who receive the kindness to those who appreciate it for what it actually is.
She's ready for almost anything she says. The thing she wasn't ready for happened. She didn't have a nice guy, she had a good man. A quiet man. Pray you never see the anger of a quiet man.
As I told my wife on our second date over 30 years ago, never mistake kindness and love for weakness. She witnessed what that statement meant not long after we got married. A man disrespected her and he paid the for it. She has never underestimated my manhood or the consequences of betraying me.
For a lot of modern women, when faced with the choice of using their sexuality (sleeping their way to the top if you will) to get ahead at work, or staying loyal to hubby, it seems the first option is the one these modern gals are choosing most of the time. Cheating with work Chad or boss is becoming an epidemic.
They have been married for two years and she cheated already,the marriage is beyond saving.
She treated her husband 'like a king' by cheating with a co-worker. I know for a fact I could never touch my woman again if she cheated... even if it happened 20 years ago.
Let's call it what it is. It's not "cheating", it's adultery.
Wholeheartedly agree with you all. Expecting your husband to be ok with it is bad enough but to do your husband when you've had another guy whitewash your insides is the lowest of the low except her giving AP a BJ then kissing husband. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@@MichaelEllisYT Precisely. What did the ancients do to an adulteress? She was stoned to.....
I feel exactly the same way.
It was disgusting that she came home to her husband and gave him sloppy seconds.
If my woman cheated on me, I'd never touch her again either. I'd want nothing to do with another man's cum dump.
@@MichaelEllisYT It's both isn't it Michael? It's also infidelity.
That dude was a true example.
No f*cking simping, no bullcrap.
Just the wish to actually be happy.
He is a hero. Really. Handled way better than I did, and I thought I was pretty tough.
@@jjsmither5256
I wish I had been able to, but unlike some guys, I couldn't put my kids through hell, so I waited until they were old enough to understand why I didn't love their mommy anymore, then I had her served at the bank where she worked.
Believe me, that was one pissed off little gal, claiming she thought I had got over it.
She never suspected that I knew she had been cheating the whole time with multiple guys...Surprise!
Fuckin' a right he is!
He was weak & pathetic beforehand though... there's a reason why she thought it was a "1 in a million chance" that he would leave her & couldn't even imagine what he did do. THAT has to be the absolute first & only option in her mind to have any chance of her acting right... a woman cheating is the end product of a man failing for an extended period of time to have her in check.
@nationalsocialism3504 Unfortunately too many take kindness for weakness. He put her on a pedestal and she wasn't concerned about the consequences as she didn't expect what he would do what he did
Oh! So she'll love him forever NOW, but she couldn't love him for the 24 hours during which she committed adultery.
DAAAWWWWW ! YABUT THASS STILL LUV, AINIT ? AHUCK ! Tweedle dee, tweedle DUMB!
More like 48 hours because they did it twice
Yes indeed! Untrustworthy is untrustworthy always.
@@deanfisher5017 It was a simple business trip..n..fall. Should I tell him?
Yeah, I love him and treat him like a King....but cheats on him...Boy, if that is love...I want no part of it.
It's amazing how delusional this woman is. She really thought she could offload her guilt onto him, get a few tut-tuts and a disappointed look, and then everything would eventually blow over?
The fact that she also calls her husband a "cold monster" for simply giving her the consequences of her own actions is beyond telling.
"Oh, my wife committed adultery. I'm so upset. But I'm so lucky to have her back now. She's so precious and I hope she never goes anywhere ever ever again!"
Sadly, OP was delusional in this instance, however, one of the primary reasons for women cheating is because most men give the wife a second chance or more! I heard that it’s 70% or more. Such a high percentage makes it worth the risk for cheaters.
@@dalecowart1826 Yeah, but what happens then is the husband is never able to get past her infidelity.
The marriage limps on like a wounded animal, with the cucked husband typically just staying "for the kids".
I've lost count of the amount of times I've read that a betrayed husband served his cheating wife with divorce papers as soon as the last kid goes to college.
@@malificajones7674 No doubt, you're correct, and I don't believe there are as many successful reconciliations as reported. Still, there are too many men willing to reconcile so that, even in countries where the death penalty exists, infidelity on the part of women is worth the risk to them because of men granting them a second chance. Let that sink in.
@@dalecowart1826 Yeah, I agree that's it's sickening how many men have no self-esteem.
I've seen varying statistics on this, but even when the husband attempts a reconciliation, there's a high chance that they will still divorce anyway... just years later.
That's why I firmly believe you should never even attempt to reconcile if the wife cheats. Women are only unfaithful when they have no respect for their husband, and forgiving her just makes her lose even more respect. then it's just a matter of time before she cheats again.
"I feel horrible about what happened to Percy. He was a great employee with a bright future...." What about your husband that you betrayed?! She is still showing that she cares for this piece of trash. Her and Pearcy both deserve each other. Straight garbage.
Percy is a Chad, she feels horrible what happened to him, because now she dont have chance to cheat with him again. Whats other reason for her to have his number, and he hers number? She didnt end it with him after trip, just put him on shelf with clear mind to contact when shes in his town again on "business trip"
@@scaredpaul540 They never do.
Skanks gonna skank
@@scaredpaul540he wasnt a chad because he p' sied out when she threaten to tell his fiancee.
A real chad also doesnt go after ruining relationships; especially married women. They can get it on their own.
But she LOOVVVVEEESSS Her Husband So much....She said it so many times,
Woman: cheats and experiences consequences
Woman: shocked pikachu face
So he wasn't a "Nice Guy"
He wad a good guy.
He had zero problem showing love and affection to his wife, and treating her like a queen... provided she treated him like a king.
The moment she stepped out and showed she was not worthy of it, he booted her out. He dusted the remains of the marriage and trashed all the photos of them. He went scorched earth. He then went and warned the AP's fiancee, then annihilated their worlds.
When you cross a King, be prepared to face the headsman.
Oof, that last line is nice.
Well....crossing a king means...treason...and treason means ax on head or gallows.
Well said good sir, very well said! 💪
Problem is she thought he was weak until he showed her why he was a nice guy.
True. Many men women call nice guys are simply good guys and we don’t take s*it once were betrayed. We’re not as weak as they like to think we are.
Nice guy gaining spine and going scorched earth feels so good to heart.
If betrayed spouses would consistently go nuclear on cheaters, we’d have a lot less people cheating after a while. Not none, but a considerable reduction.
Exactly
OP husband could sue OP's work
It's a beautiful thing to see a beta-maIe become a born-again AIpha.
That's true he could have
I never spoke to my ex again until the day she died. I have still not forgiven her and never will.
You didn't owe her that last visit either. Hope your living your best life. You should forgive her. Not for her as she's already passed away but rather for your own mental health. Better to let the hate go and live happy.
Being able to live Happy doesn't require forgiving a CHEATER,for their own redemption ! Their own guilt or remorse is solely the cheater's problem !@@GSP-76
No need to forgive. And perhaps its easier to consider them ded for one's peace of mind.
Also, as long as one doesnt keep the hate alive, then thats enough.
@navy
Dude how did you catch her?
@@KENZIIE_lol we came home a week early from deployment. Was not pretty. Took a lot for my command to keep it in house and me out of the brig. Had a great CO and a even better Master Chief.
Deegan is a boss. Excellent story.
After her confession, she should have started referring to him as Negan.
@@ABQSentinelBoom!! Lol
"Love bombing" could be one of the tell-tale signs, but I think more common is the sudden coldness and distance, both in the lack of friendship and in the bedroom. That's what I experienced when my ex started an affair.
It’s always the coworker. Listen to all the cheaters advise her to hide the truth.
Or boss/supervisor, old fling, exs, fwbs, etc.
Not just that, pretty much any road trip with an opposite sex co-worker means a bad outcome
@@Syrin23at least alone together.
Probably why we should highly encourage same sex trips only or with opp sex have at least 2-4 extra witnesses and not all be all men / women but a mix of both.
Whatever is done in the dark always comes out into the light
Or the husbands so called best friends.
To the idiots saying he's childish. Look at it this way, he did his best to provide for her. Be faithful to her and turn others down. Since being betrayed he wants to kill her. Keep that in mind. If a man give up all other women to be a good husband, only to have her bone and do all kind of nasty stuff with the coworker, the best he can do is get her up out of his life. Otherwise she will be dead, and he will be in prison.
Stated very well!
The only take-away that the cheaters got was "I shouldn't have said anything" rather than "I shouldn't have cheated." Truly remarkable.
She didn't tell hubs for hubs' sake, i.e., she didn't tell him to give him agency over his own decisions - whether or not he wanted to be married to someone like who she truly was. She only told him to relieve HER guilt/bad feelings. It wasn't for him, it was for her. In these situations, I say that the betrayer should suck it up and live with the guilt FOREVER. Never tell, let it eat away at you, because while it relieves YOUR guilt, hubs will be DEVASTATED, exactly the reverse of how emotions should be assigned. SHE was wrong, she deserves the bad feels, he did nothing wrong, so he doesn't deserve to be devastated. All this "logic" is only because/if she wants to stay together.
I know,right? I mean, what exactly is supposed to be the moral of this story?
That is her true regret !
@@williamclayton9566 Oh, God, no. No matter how devastated he feels, he needs to know he's sleeping with the enemy, so he can move on and possibly find somebody worth finding, or at the very least stop supporting a demon.
She confused good guy with nice guy.
He husband is a good guy.
EXACTLY! I was wanting to make this sentiment to someone else but couldn't think of how to phrase it. That's EXACTLY it
A good man should NOT have to continually prove his masculinity to his effing Wife!!
@@dannysneddon8284 Sorry dude, that's not the way it works. She will test you until the day you die. It's in their nature, and you need to maintain your frame.
@@Syrin23 _"She will test you until the day you die. It's in their nature, and you need to maintain your frame."_
I agree with you 100% on that.
@@dannysneddon8284The Scorpion and the Toad.
What these women fail understand is, once a woman opens her legs up to another man, her husband, fiance, boyfriend or whatever will NEVER get that image out of their heads. The relationship is over, there's no coming back from that. The only move is break up and move on. There will only be resentment and anger towards that person and the relationship will never heal.
You are right but it's more than that. Men put women into two categories. Wife material and hoes. Once a woman does enough things to cross over from wife material to hoe, there is NO GOING BACK! It's a one way path. It's why reconciliation NEVER works, and men end up divorcing years later even a decade later. They NEVER see their wife as wife material whether it's conscious or subconsciously.
Absolutely. Men treasure loyalty above everything else. Giving her body to a stranger and in a snap says a lot about her toxic personality.
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Yup
Also why having multiple partners is also a huge turn off / deal breaker for most guys
"Francine i see your face and lips moving but all i can see are all the guys and you taking more poundings than omaha beach on d day"
-stan smith; american dad
You cannot love or see your wife the same way after an affair. The love died slowly and sometimes instantly.
"Yes I deserved punishment, but not like this."
Look at her trying to dictate the terms of her punishment. Honestly sounds like this relationship was doomed from the start as she doesn't respect him.
She *deserves* far *worse*
She doesn’t understand! Her Adultry is the lowest thing she could do to Her marrage! It kills a. And trust and. Pride so sad!!😢😢😢😢😢😢
My parents, when I fucked up, used to ask me "what do you think we should do?" or "what do you think your punishment should be?". Bad idea. I think many other parents of my generation did the same, and this is the result. You don't get to choose your punishment
If I had taken you back I would have humilated you for the rest of your life.Treated you like a slave & punished you often
If you ever ask a man, would you rather take a beating, or be cheated on, almost every man will take the beating.
She REALLY doesn't get how bad what she did was.
I have been married over 40 years, if I found out that my wife had cheated during that time, I would leave her immediately. Scorched earth.
If he would’ve forgave her within six months, she would’ve lost total respect for him. In two years she’d be cheating again. Why because she got away with it the first time. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Exactly
Yep, it would trigger in her mind that she can get away with cheating and will continue to do so
So, I got this: 'I only confessed because I thought he was a complete pushover and would let me get away with it', from her story. She's acting like what he's doing is insane, making him out to be a 'cruel, heartless monster'. All he's doing is basic how to deal with a cheater 101. He's being far more cordial than he could be, and handled this with with a great deal of grace and morals.
She is insane, selfish, and stupid with how she reacts to her husband being pissed about the affair.
Have you ever noticed how people in that situation always say the wouldn’t have told their partner and never say they wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. That tells you everything about them.
She doesn't have a very high opinion of Deegan if she really thought he would take her back after cheating.
Yep, she seriously fuc..d up in that respect lol, she obviously totally underestimated her hubby lol..
Most women are completely deluded about how men view infidelity.
You can see that by the excuses they always use:
"It didn't mean anything, it was just sex."
"It was just physical, I didn't love him."
They say crap like this because women care about the emotions. To find out her husband loves another woman would be devastating to her, but a lot of women will forgive an incident of "just sex" infidelity.
For men, they view their wife as belonging to him. Her having an affair is basically her saying: "I was more attracted to this guy than you. I wanted to F this guy more than you."
Which is of course, absolutely devastating to any guy.
You are so right to me she goes to the Street and d as m deserving👌👌👌😭👀tramp
@@malificajones7674nail on the head.
Probably why guys can also semi forgive emotional affairs
Do you like / love him?
A little
Did you f him?
What no
Okay just dont and ignore him or else we're through.
For a woman cheating is the guy having a casual business dinner date with a co worker. On par with a guy cheating is if his girl f'd another dude on a business trip.
From what I’ve noticed, over the years, is that women will rationalise and justify their behaviour, even though consequences lie just around the corner)
Notice how they always feel bad after being buss open 😂 I also notice they get buss open with coworkers and on girls trips most often….yet wonder why men don’t want them out 🤷♂️
For all those who believe in continuing to hide the deceitful act, you are just as vile as this woman. She had the agency without any coercion to cheat and did it twice. Then she gives her husband her lovers sloppy seconds. He did what all those betrayed should always do - nuke the marriage. There was no remorse for her, and she disrespected her man and marriage. Ghost and move on no one cares, lady.
Yeah, she couldn't be bothered to wait until deegan leftovers washed out. So gross!!!
Why do women always say when guys stop talking to them after major betrayel its childish when they do it to guys for leaving the toilet seat up?
@@scrcrwninja it's a shaming tactic to get them to talk to them and keep their attention and make him lose control. It's also to get their shame reduced as if they are the victim
@@scrcrwninja This. And those commenters that sided with OP and called Deegan names are equally disgusting.
Yeah but if her outcome was to stay married for the next 40yrs she should have buried it under 100tons of concrete. She should have found another job, and buried it. It's all about outcome at the end of day. We don't need this woman out there ruining anymore lives.
When dealing with betrayal the nuclear option is the only option in my opinion.
100% agree! I hate it when the betrayed blows up their wayward spouse, but then let's the AP off, scott-free.
Scorched earth, the only way to roll.
Facts.
The best way to get over a betrayal like this is to inflict as much emotional damage on the cheating wife and her AP as possible.
That way you no longer feel like a victim, and you can make them both bitterly regret the affair.
I can guarantee that the husband felt some grim satisfaction at getting Percy fired and destroying his engagement to the fiancee.
@@malificajones7674 Exactly! To heII with all the 'working it out in therapy' crap. Nothing will work it out faster than the knowledge that your wife and her AP will have a shiver run down their spine when they remember or recount what you did to them after the discovery of their affair. The best therapy is making them forever realize that you are the one they should not have f**ked with.
@@malificajones7674 More than the emotional damage I feel the point of exposing everything to all parties is to ensure consequences are meted out. No cheater or AP will change their MO and stop hurting others in the future if they don't suffer severe, life altering consequences. I couldn't give less of a crap about a cheating spouse or their AP I would only want to know that they'd never be capable of hurting anyone the same again and that would give me the solace needed to finally move on.
Cheater believes her husband will eventually forgive her if she 'fesses up'. She tries to baby trap him. The level of manipulation and deceit here are all major red flags. You can't make a wife out of a carousel rider. She showed who and what she was.
If you're gonna tell your spouse in the morning that you've been cheating; don't make plans for the afternoon.
If the wife or husband is your “soulmate” you’re not going to cheat. Otherwise, they’re not your “soulmate” and if you cheat, you’re not worthy of your spouse.
I love it when the "nice guy" kicks the gal to the curb. This whole "it was the alcohol" and "one thing lead to another" excuse mentality is ridiculous. It only PROVES these gals can't be trusted, and need someone watching them all the time. They all think their marriage or relationship can endure because THEY didn't get betrayed. They have no clue what their betrayed partner is feeling.
“it was the alcohol” …. Is never an acceptable excuse. Why are you drinking with a man that’s not your husband? You should’ve known drinking with another man is a terrible idea.
@@TexasLonghornRanch Drinking provides the scapegoat. It's the means to the end. A woman will rationalize her cheating as "I'm not doing it to hurt my husband, but just for my selfish needs. I have no plans of replacing my husband with this man." Doing it with a married or engaged man provides her the "logic", if you will, to be unable to see this man as her husband's replacement. It makes sense at the time. It's only when caught, she's begging and pleading for forgiveness, and stressing how there was no emotions involved. That's her way of saying to her husband, "I had no plans of gaining any further attraction to him and replacing you".
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. This saying is real because a woman believes if her guy is cheating on her... he's found her replacement. She's PROJECTING how she views cheating and thinks he views it the same way. Hence, if she finds out the other gal is prettier, better body, nicer boobs... why would he want HER? He's replacing her with a better model. It makes it kind of comical how, in most of these stories, the OTHER MAN is some short, bald, dumpy dude. Again, she adores the ATTENTION from the other man and will rationalize her cheating by possibly not wanting to leave her better-looking husband for HIM.
@@LH-lv4zs you make some good points.
I came home, my undies were soggy, and smelled like tunafish! Degan approached me with 2 slices of bread. Should I tell him???
First, this is so right. Subconsciously, she "had the measure" of her husband as the forgiving type. This is deep in the calculation of both the act and the confession. She miscalculated.
Secondly, that lady that has been lying to her husband for a couple of decades is a reason to never get married. The thought of being that guy is bone-chilling.
ALL CHEATERS need to be outed, whenever possible ! No matter what the consequences ! P E E R I O D !
She’s happy for the moment. If karma takes its sweet time, when it hits it is usually devastating. It’s better to get hit earlier than later.
@@aetank_yyteawu3436Hopefully when the worthless tramp is aged and unable to take care of herself. For the crime of stealing a man’s entire life from him she can live her “golden years” alone and miserable.
Agreed, there's more than an even chance that one, or all, if those kids aren't his, since she went out of way to say how much like him they are!
@@aetank_yyteawu3436 Yeah, like one of my teachers way back in junior high. She cheated on her husband with another teacher at our school (it was an open secret, even the students were aware of it) for over 10 years. Shortly after her kids (twins) went off to college, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, only to find that her "nice guy" husband with the expansive health insurance....had taken her off his insurance the year before (when he found out about the affair). So, she had to deal with a cancer battle....and a divorce at the same time. He had already tested the kids to ensure they were his and they had already been briefed on the happenings, so they weren't too supportive of their whoremom either. Ten years of built up karma jaw-jacked her. Think about it. No husband, no insurance (insurers won't take you on while you're dealing with a potentially terminal illness - that's not good business), and potentially millions of dollars of medical debt. Mr. Richards (the BS) then sued her AP for alienation of affection, not to get money, but to drain Mr Proehl's finances dry. I should probably mention that Mr. Richards' attorney was his sister-in-law (brother's wife) so she did it all pro bono. He got a settlement of some kind (or so I heard) about a year after his ex-wife died in 2008.
Deegan was serious in love with his wife and she crushed his heart by blindsiding him...I know how this feels. He did the right thing.
Percy made huge mistakes to have affair with married women and cause his engagement called off. He is going live regrets on how he messed up his own mistake and has to start over again.
True, but he asked his OP to lie to his fiancee and then chewed her out when she said she wouldn't. He's a dishonest person who will likely blame others for his problems. Not sure if he'll learn anything from this.
Percy and OP are both trash...people like this shouldnt be married, not even in any sort of relationship...streets are their playground and it should stay that forever
@@ContrarianCornercommon theme between them? They are both narcissist.
This woman and Percy deserve each other. They’re both self absorbed, narcissistic scumbags.
Facts. Screw Percy
''Babe, if you ever read this, I want you to know I'm truly sorry and will love you forever'' - Even my bullshit detector finds this bullshit.
He is already dating someone she knows lol, she will not hesitate to look for more dic...lol
" . . . forever" with fingers crossed behind her back, thinking," except for those 30 hours I was cheating with Percy."
She's probably being truthful about that. Chances are, though, she would've cheated again if he would've stayed with her
@@Kyle-gb9dqYou don’t betray someone that you love. She doesn’t love him. She only loved what he provided her.
Whenever a guy does not answer to women's tantrums, they call him childish.
Guys, when a woman call you childish for not engaging in their BS, know that you won.
"(The affair partner) meant nothing!!" Is that supposed to make him feel better? That's the ultimate insult, because the affair proves the husband meant even less.
This...
When she was called into HR, what if the roles were reversed? If OP was the one who misused company funds, and Percy did not, I'll bet he would have gotten the boot anyway.
True, but better for hubby if she still works, better division of assets.
@@dannysneddon8284lol, the boss know.
The boss kick the AP out. When company wants u out, even the slightest mistake would be used against u.
The boss is the hero here. He punish AP for his wrong doing. And didnt kick WW out to prevent big alimony.
@@eleethtahgra7182 OP stated that the she and the HR manager were friends. That is why she wasn’t terminated. I don’t applaud her company at all. The HR manager was simply looking out for her friend, and I wouldn’t be surprised if that sort of conduct is accepted unless you get publicly outed like this OP and force the company to issue some sort of reprimand to save face.
Oh regret after the fact. Not bothered about her husband, only about herself.
Absolutely! and if enough time passed without consequence, would definately be repeated.. this strong man dodged a bullet...
Alcohol used as an excuse and she "deserved to cheat"? Thank you for a well written post. Husband went from beta to alpha.
Obviously, he was never a beta to begin with. She misjudged him completely.
I’m always surprised about that rationalization “I deserve this”, so it’s not cheating.
lol, her casual friend and former neighbor is now dating her ex. Women never understand they have rivals not friends.
Unless it comes to hating and destroying me. Then theyre suddenly on the same team.
Total respect to Deegan. He did the right thing and hopefully wasn’t exposed to the other guy’s body fluids. OP claiming to have fought to save the marriage is laughable - that’s like a murderer trying to resuscitate the victim. At least OP confessed on her own accord. This is a sad story.
I like that analogy. Putting stitches on a murdered victim. The damage is irreversible.
He was exposed to Percy's spooge though.
Cheating wives always go bareback with their lovers.
She then came back and screwed the husband the next day... and sperm stays active inside a woman for 5 days after ejaculation.
Disgusting 🤢, I hope deegan gets STD/STI tested
Nope. Happy story. The bad guys lose. The good guy win.
@@eleethtahgra7182 Unlike other stories, OP does have a conscience and confessed. To me, that means she isn’t totally bad or evil and that is what I find to be sad. Maybe if she hadn’t gone on that trip, they might still be happily married ? Regardless, glad he had the strength to do what had to be done.
Her husband did what every man should do when he find out that his girl, wife, fiance, cheat is get the hell out and move on. It's always good to ghost a cheater that way they get no closer.
Don't forget to let everyone know too, that way she can't spin the story
@@TheKnightofAwesomeness that is so true cuz she will try to spin it in her favor.
The best part is he went grey rock which drives women CRAZY as they never get the closure they think they "deserve"
@@Syrin23 she do not deserve any closure
@Syrin23 I'm 53 and I swear I don't recall hearing the word "deserve" as much as I hear it today.
“Beware The Fury Of A Patient Man” - John Dryden
I was walking down the street when out of nowhere I tripped and fell asleep in my neighbors bed! I thought I was struggling to get up, in reality I was engaged in consensual relations! IT JUST HAPPENED!! 😅 HE DIDN'T LET ME EXPLAIN!!!😮😮
This happened to me and I did the same as this guy did and 20 plus years later I forgave her but will never ever speak to her again
And you shouldn't. How did her life turn out?
That's the way to deal with it! life is too short, move on and live your best life....
They always lie about their past, and will usually have no trouble sinking their hooks into some other unsuspecting fewel !@@Syrin23
@@Syrin23 I didn't bother to find out as I had enough to deal with bringing up the three children we had as well as working as no state was bothered helping me. Infact anything I tried to get as help was blocked every which way. Unlike with women who seem to get everything. Anyway I eventually met an Asian woman and my goodness 1000% difference loyal, faithful and good hard workers. She puts western women to complete and utter shame. We had to live in UK as I had everything here but after living in PH for a few years we are going back there for good shortly and I will never come back to the west to this Evil culture. The west is finished, the fems and Elites have seen to that. This is why they are trying to rule over every country with their Evil plans through W.H.O. So they can destroy everywhere.
@@dannysneddon8284 Yes but I wasn't Red Pilled then it was pure pain that caused me to react the way I did and after going through a number of situation with girl friens before that I really had had enough of the crap from women. So it woke me up to how Evil they are. Yes we know some men are absolute Evil as well but women are worse in far bigger numbers. Now knowing what I know I would just laugh and walk away. As I would be quite happy to spend my life alone.
the way she was acting all shocked by his reaction, like she was expecting him to be "oh ok honey it's not a big deal, next time should i sit on a chair and watch like a good boy", it was sickening, like his emotions where not so important to her.
It isnt. Its all about her.
She’s your typical self absorbed narcissist.
She says she loved and missed her husband sooo much.Just not enough to get her back smashed...GOT IT!
She thought he was weak. She never knew who her husband really was. She deserved to destroy his life with a player. The way women think baffles me. If he took her back she would be trying to go on the next business trip with Percy.
Her “shock” was probably why she felt comfortable cheating. She didn’t respect her husband’s grit and strength, and thought he’d eventually forgive her. Her incredulity demonstrates just how immature and entitled OP is.
@@richardcharles4126 Sadly, the RP community knows the score.
Women don't respect weak guys, but they don't respect nice guys either.
If you are kind and thoughtful with your woman, she appreciates it for a fleeting moment, but it doesn't count for anything in the long-term.
That's why they love chasing the bad boys so much. Chad honestly doesn't give a shit about them, so they bend over backwards trying to get his attention and validation.
Her husband was a super nice guy, very kind and thoughtful. In the end it did absolutely nothing to prevent her from cheating with the co-worker.
If Deegan had said (and meant it): "I love you, but I don't share my toys. If you cheat on me, we're done."
It would have had a far greater impact on this woman. If she was terrified that her husband would dump her instantly if she cheated, she might have actually thought twice about being unfaithful.
@@malificajones7674and shed cheat n shut her mouth.
Bad boys just dont care if she cheat...since they are also a cheater.
So, if a woman marry bad boy...shed get cheated.
@@malificajones7674if he said that, then she wouldnt had confessed in the first place.
@@ahmadyusof2480 that's true. But at the same time it's also would have pushed the needle against cheating in her mind. Not sure if she would have not cheated, but at least the chance of cheating would have been significantly reduced.
Scorched earth is always a appropriate response to wrong doers
Deegan handled this perfectly. It's funny how she felt entitled until the very end, and probably still does to this day.
Deegan went straight Barbarian on her 😂😂😂😂😂
What makes these women who behave like this think they can worm their way back into a relationship. They equate giving, love, and caring with weakness
Also open one sided relationships or booty calls as some magical fixing device.
You didn't get in a relationship with your AP through it
You BROKE your current relationship with your spouse because of it
And
Now you wanna fix it by having them boinking other women or opening your already opened legs wider hoping you can suck him back in?!?
😂
They have gotten everything they wanted so far in life. Don't see a limit
People often make the mistake that men who are nice guys don't have balls. It's a terrible mistake. Men who are in love with a woman will treat her like a queen, as we were told to do, as we want to. Imagine our suprise when the queen of our lives betrays us. It's devastating !!!!! But we move on !!!
that they do. So many are shocked when they find out that they can't walk over me that I will get in their face and do just like he did and burn the bridge I am standing on to show just how serious I am. Still doesn't stop so many from thinking I take shit because I do so much for others, I do for others because I choose to and they are grateful for it, if they showed any level of disrespect, they would get nothing from me.
My neighbor found that out the hard way, she had a yard guy coming by from the church that was trying to pipe her years ago came by every weekend planting fresh, full sun flowers in her no sun front yard. Guy kept parking in front of my house preventing me from doing so when I needed to, it came to a head when I had a bunch of dirt and stones to unload from my truck for the front yard and I couldn't park in front of my house next to my front yard because he was there. So me and him got into a verbal altercation, cops ended up getting called and the neighbor basically sided with the guy trying to pipe her saying that I threatened the guy and getting in his face when the guy walked around his trailer and got in my face and I told him to take a swing and see what happens which is not a threat in any sense as he was making a threatening move himself. Well after that happened next day, she gave a sob story when I was getting in my truck to go about how she was sorry and her heart hurts to lie like she did about me to the cop and I just simply said to her "sure what ever". That was 15 years ago, and I hadn't said a word to her since then.
When she moved in, I told her up front I am easy to get along with and I don't mind helping her but be warned I am not someone you want to cross. She didn't heed my advice and now she lost out on any of the help she was getting from me before she accused me of a crime that I never did. I used to look at her car if it was doing something, I also used to bring her garbage in as she would get in from work around 8 pm and I got home around 5:30 - 6:30. Now she has to deal with all that and guess what that guy from the church trying to pipe her, I hadn't seen him in 14 years which means he either piped her and then disappeared on her or he just gave up because she wasn't catching onto his advances. Whatever the cause she is a single woman pushing 50 now that spends 90% of her time away from home at work, hope she enjoys the bed she made cause the neighbors on the other side of her are renters and they couldn't care less about helping her, then there's me that she burned that bridge telling lies that could have gotten me arrested that wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire.
Just like the woman I thought I was in a relationship back in 2012, she got pregnant then I realized the conception date was some 3 weeks after the last time me and her were together so the kid wasnt mine no matter how you cut it, I called her up on the phone instantly and called her out on it she said we would talk about it tomorrow. that never happened and never heard from her again, the 304 ran and disappeared instead of facing the music for what she had done.
They has a misunderstanding of what nice is. They think it's weak because the guy is viewed as having to be nice. In order to be nice you need to have the capacity of the opposite but you choose to be nice.
That poor man. He is going to have trust issues for the rest of his life. How do you ever trust a woman after that happens to you? She was loving, treating him like a king, doing everything for him to make him happy then drops that bomb on him. Forever after that he will see a woman treating him well and wonder if she is trying to make up for something she did. That scare will never go away, best he can hope for is that it doesn't ruin his relationship with whoever he loves next.
you have to be strong in this life
There is no safe place.
Always use both the carrot and the stick when dealing with children and women. Reward positive behaviors and punish negative behaviors. Even then women have a difficult time understanding potential outcomes when they partake in bad behavior. They always count on being a woman to save them from the most harsh punishments and quite frankly it works more often than not. Hence the problems we have today.
They find a way to rationalize that they are a victim of the consequences of their own actions.
Exactly bruh
She stated "I was happily married and he was engaged to be married." Their actions indicate otherwise. Actions are a language, and their actions speak volumes. 🤔
12:05 Make it up to him in many ways and earlier she said she was treating him extra special because he deserved it. It’s absolutely disgusting that she only treats him good and feels he deserves it when she’s wracked by intense guilt. We really need sort of control or consequence to women’s bad behavior. This stuff is theft, and psychological torture.
Yeah it’s always confusing when they say “make it up to him” to try and absolve their guilty cuz it’s not doing shit if he doesn’t know the specific reason for her change in behavior, which means the extra treatment is meaningless in nature
@@royce6166 I agree, and I feel it’s even worse. I’ve heard enough stories from the husbands perspective. They think everything is great, he has no complaints and thinks his wife loves him and he feels lucky. To put a man on top of a mountain and immediately drop him into the deepest darkest hole is nothing short of traumatic.
Never takes a man's kindness for weakness! She thought he was so kind that he would accept her infidelity!
For a women it’s always emotional because they are attention seeking they get off on the attention.
She never treated him like a King, she treated him like an errand boy and the proof is she cheated and the fact that she said he treated her like a Queen first!
Geez, why do they always claim it "Was a Mistake"?
No, butt dialing someone is a mistake, jumping into bed with someone other than your spouse is a cold, calculated, evil risk.
This "Lady" is just so torn up that her faithful, loving, caring man, DID care about her screwing another guy.
She broke him, and she deserves everything she gets.
The friend that she couldn't believe she would do that to her, didn't dally with a married man, that was all her doing as well.
I hope it was worth it for a 24 hour fling.
I will never understand why wm have seggs with bf/husb right after they have been with the other. SAME DAY, It stays there for weeks. Must be total guilt.
Never "stay for the kids"!
Yet so many people wonder why so many men don't want to get married. Do everything right for a woman and she'll still fool around.
Found out about my first wife cheating, took me a good three days to collect my thoughts. I talked to my dad, he was the most level headed guy I knew, he said I know you want children do you think you would ever be able to trust her again. I thanked my dad went home and said I want a divorce, what followed will haunt me for the rest of my life, she screened and cried and begged me to stay. I just quietly walk away. I remarried my now wife about 2 years later, raised 2 very successful children and we have a wonderful grandchild. Getting old now we are nearing our 40 th anniversary.
She thinks Degan is a doormat
Get a std test then contact divorce attorney. She cheated before.
Another case of a woman confusing niceness for weakness. Its pretty sad that the nicer a guy is the worse he’s treated
One can argue that there’s a difference between niceness and kindness.
Only a woman could say she treats her husband like a king while in the same breath say she cheated on him.
Like a typical 304, she just glosses over how she wound up cheating and focuses on everything afterwards. They're all scum. This woman thought she married a nice guy/white knight. She absolutely did NOT. She married a devoted guy who treated his wife like a queen but his principles were equally as important. There aren't a lot of guys that like this. Either their pushover nice guys who get used by women or their very tough take charge types. She had a guy that had embodied the best of both worlds... literally one in a million probably. She thinks he became a monster. No honey, he's still the same great guy he always was. He's just not that to you anymore. That new girl he's with is now getting the awesome treatment he gave you before you stepped out on him. Adios.
And if the beta simps of the world understood this, ALL women would change overnight
@@Syrin23 I'm skeptical about that. Women will always get wet for the bad boys and this story just proves how they will destroy everything good in their lives for some fleeting moments of pleasure.
@@ContrarianCorner BUT, if the beta men of the world never took these women in or kept them after their bad behavior, they would have no relationships since Chad will never commit.
@@ContrarianCorner her husband was obvioulsy WAY more of a badboy than Percy. he obliterated the guys life with absolutely no mercy.... he also obliterated his wayward wife
Props to the woman who faked a mental breakdown because she respected her marriage. She is a real one. She didnt change him, she just find out how nice he was.
Deegan is now the standard for 304 wife response. WWDD is the FYA motto from now on!
Spot on fella!
Cheating is high treason. Doing it twice, is two times high treason pluss a chunk extra for it beeing repeated. There is no chance whatsoever i would take back a partner after that. In any scenario that happens in normal life.
Most men are the “nice guy” or “simp” before being betrayed. Strength is almost always a matter of necessity. No one wants to face serious trauma, but when pushed, even a spineless man can evolve into an alpha.
Men care more about physical affair over emotional affairs.
Her husband was a good guy not a nice guy bro done deleted her from his life lol
She knows she should have talked to Percy before she confessed to her husband because her promise to Percy was more important than her wedding vows.
Got it!
It's kind of weird how she put more value in what this rando from work she had sex with thinks then her devoted husband she cheated on.
In my eyes he gained my respect he is not emotionally week.
I don't think he was a nice guy. He was a good man. Nice guys have no self-respect. He had plenty.
The dude acted appropriately. She cheated without a thought of her husband. She would have done it again. Glad he divorced her.
The guy handled it like a total boss. Hopefully, he is now born-again hard and will never again be the bIue-piIIed "nice guy" who put women on pedestals.
The husband's reaction is perfect
The kind of entitlement she has shows exactly why she did what she did
Cause she never expected him to have the balls to stand up for himself
he had balls of steel.
@@pethrosuriahson6156 Yup he did
But he was also a nice guy
Not the a hole type
I think that's how men should be
Nice and loving but Tough and uncompromising at the sign of slightest disrespect or anything fishy
this having to be an asshole to keep her attracted to you dynamic is the definition of toxic. you dont want to be that person nor do you want to be in a relationship that forces you to be that person. it is a constant toxic, artificial and stupid power struggle that will leave you with no peace at home. @@Phoenix-King-ozai
@@pethrosuriahson6156 Totally
With some people
You have to be an a hole to get fair treatment
That's not worth it
Changing yourself for worse for someone
Its better to dump those low value people and try to be with high value/ people with integrity
Be they be friends or family or spouse
@@pethrosuriahson6156Unfortunately, as toxic and gross as it is, its also reality. "Nice guys finish last" isnt some catchy anecdote. Its wisdom based on centuries of female behavior.
WHAT? "Rationalized?" No, it was a CHOICE by HABIT because a MORAL person would KNOW what is wrong it is wrong, and pursuing it will bring CONSEQUENCES.
Wow, did she really say she deserved to sleep with someone else other than her husband because she was stressed from work? If that's her mentality she doesn't deserved to be married. The thing that people don't understand is, we were created to confess our sins, whether it is right away or later on. But you will eventually.
I've never understood how their marriage is perfect, husband is perfect, their life is perfect, blah blah blah yet they still cheat. If everything is "perfect" cheating wouldn't even enter your mind. I'm guessing a mental issue or you just have no morals.
Perfection is boring to women (nothing to complain about). Women thrive on chaos and drama. So it makes perfect sense. The issue is that you look at it from a male point of view. Women are vastly different then men in that regard. We love peace, women love emotional highs and lows.
I heard a quote on another relationship video:
"God gives women beauty, they cover it with makeup. God gives women eyebrows, they pluck them out and draw on new ones. God gives women breasts, they get implants. If God himself cannot make a woman happy, how can you?"
Perfect on paper but doesn't generate the excitement in her pants. Over time, pants always beats paper.
Everyone is capable of cheating if the situation presents itself, even the morally righteous ones. The trick is not put yourself in a tempting situation. People just don't know how to behave in a working environment. Being overly friendly or talking about personal stuff with your coworkers is all inappropriate.
@@Damen178 ain’t that the freaking truth
The guy said if he had to do it all over again he wouldn't tell his wife, how about if you had to do it all over again you wouldn't cheat 🤬 narcissist
Total respect for the husband. If anyone treats you with contempt then you are free to teach them a lesson, legally of course..
That box of flowers bit is a brilliant way of serving someone lol love it.
"I read that the wayward should give the betrayed space" *Texts him every minute*
I had to listen to this twice it was so freaking good. Deegan is a freaking champ! He proved that he wasn't a SIMP, but a freaking man! Damn this was a feel good story!
It's too bad if you are a naturaklly nice guy with a backbone and self respect and being yourself but then your wife, or gf thinks you are weak or she takes you for granted. A man should be able to be himself, even a nice man. I think men like this must make it clear that infidelity of any kind will lead to a breakup or divorce. But then if this lady knew that I doubt she would tell him the truth.
But if she knew from beggining that outcome for cheating is breakup for sure, she will "maybe" think twice...women are in two groups, those who cheat and those who dont, BUT remember, that every single woman have ability to cheat, when conditions are right...result? never ever trust your woman 100% percent, trust as much as your logic is allowing you, but verify and dont ignore your guts and her red flags
" I am prepared for just about anything" lol!! she was over confident alright!!
36:21 Just because you've never been at the mercy of my displeasure do not assume it doesn't exist. There are two relatively old sayings that teach this simple fact "don't mistake kindness for weakness" and "don't pull on Superman's cape" from her view she says the man has changed but I don't think so I just think she was so used to his kindness she thought him incapable of being decisive.
"Don't poke the bear."
I tell people I work with professionally ALL the time not to mistake kindness for weakness as people invariably end up trying to take advantage of my kindness and then act shocked when I replace them with someone else. I will never change the way I treat people, but I will change the people who receive the kindness to those who appreciate it for what it actually is.
She's ready for almost anything she says. The thing she wasn't ready for happened.
She didn't have a nice guy, she had a good man. A quiet man. Pray you never see the anger of a quiet man.
He handled it perfectly.
I didn't know how much I needed to hear about cheaters getting their lives ruined until I found your channel. It's cathartic.
As I told my wife on our second date over 30 years ago, never mistake kindness and love for weakness. She witnessed what that statement meant not long after we got married. A man disrespected her and he paid the for it. She has never underestimated my manhood or the consequences of betraying me.
She felt horrible for AP…wow….The husband should get std check…
For a lot of modern women, when faced with the choice of using their sexuality (sleeping their way to the top if you will) to get ahead at work, or staying loyal to hubby, it seems the first option is the one these modern gals are choosing most of the time. Cheating with work Chad or boss is becoming an epidemic.
I am a woman, I would do the same thing he did, cheating is unforgivable. everyone criticising him is freaking nuts