You Matter to Others
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
- In this episode we discuss the sensitive subjects of love, feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness, and just how valuable we really are to those around us. In the process we continue construction on our new Minecraft library, enchanting tools for the very first time.
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I saw this video’s thumbnail and instantly teared up- my last relationship ended in the words “You weren’t enough”- and boy am I glad to see it today. Thank you for showing up on my timeline homie, have a good day
@@omegastarmania3199 sorry you went through that. That’s awful and nobody should ever say that to anyone. Glad this video reached you.
Thanks bro. I stumbled on this channel randomly. Much respect. 👋
@@HappyFunGuy1234 glad you stumbled upon this channel and enjoyed my content!
this video made me cry. i used to struggle with depression back then and i often had thoughts that nobody loved/liked me. thank you for this video
Life is hard.
Im happy that youre here! o7
@@labelusss that’s awful, I’m sorry you were in such a low place. And I’m incredibly glad that you are in a better one now 🫂.
Today I had a moment of overwhelming emotions, i started to spiral and thought that no one loves me. I saw this video and honestly helped me. Thank you
@@numha that’s awful and I’m sorry you went through that. I’m glad that in some small way this video was able to help you.
It's easy to say kind, meaningful, loving, _true_ things to others, but it's a whole different, more difficult story when turning that energy inwards. So, RawLens, I want you to know that you matter, too. You are loved, too. What you're doing on this channel is so brave, so wonderful, so kind and important, and I need you to know you are loved, you are cared about, you matter, and what you do is appreciated.
I honestly appreciate you saying that a lot, I'm a big believer in the butterfly effect. And I think that by making this channel, and trying to help people, I can help make the world a better place in my own way. Thats what this channel is about and that's all that should matter to me with making videos. I appreciate your support.
I have seven very tiny fish. They look very, very alike. Some days I struggle to tell them apart. But they all seven have names. If I look closely, I can see the difference in their behavior. I can see the dots along their back, or the shimmer in their gold scales. They’re about the size of a dime. But I love them. I greet them by name, day after day, and they’ve learned their names. If one single one was missing, if one died, I’d be devastated. And I’ve had so, so many fish over my lifetime. They all have graves in my back yard. Even the one I had for about 18 hours had a name, and I cared for him until he quietly passed away. And I wept for that tiny life. I wept because he had no idea how much I cared about him.
I don’t care if you’re religious or not, I’m not trying to convert anyone. But you’ve got to hear this. The God if the Bible is described as knowing the name of ever star, and calling them out to their place by name. He cares for the little sparrows, those little tiny house sparrows that are everywhere. Their little bodies are about the size of a clementine orange, or a roll of scotch tape. He takes note of when a single bird falls from the sky, and holds it in His care until it passes. He owns the insects in the hillside grass. He looks at the flowers of the field and clothes each one of them with unique beauty, despite the fact they usually last a day or so at most.
He left the flock of 99 sheep in desperate search of the single one who’d wandered away.
Who are humans, in the grand scheme of the galaxy? The billions of stars and galaxies, the great whales in the deep, the earthquakes and the solar eclipses- yet, we are loved. Above all the other wonders of our world. We are loved.
Jesus knows who you are. He knows all about you. What your favorite color is, what makes you laugh. What makes you cry. Who has made you cry. Every thought, every moment matters to Him. You are LOVED. You are adored. You are beloved.
Have you ever written a story? Or painted a picture? What detail, what character, was given life that you didn’t pen yourself? Why then do you hesitate to believe… every detail of You was handcrafted and adored? ❤️❤️❤️ that you are worth dying for? That you are loved, time out of mind?
@@ruthiewitter569 beautifully written, really hit me in the feels. Thanks for this.
This is beautiful. Thank you.
@@Goose_Dudefr
I actualy love you. Thank you, for your contribution to making the world more loving and wholesome.
@@captntargaryen I appreciate that so much honestly, I’m just glad I am able to make a positive impact on people. I get comments all day about how I’ve helped people and it’s just incredibly gratifying. I feel like my life’s mission is to make the world better, even just the tiniest bit.
Today was super rough for me. I'm glad there's people like you out there makin the world a better place :)
You make a difference ❤
@@Phoomlikesstuff I appreciate that ♥️ I try to make a difference if I can
Thanks man... I needes this at the very moment. I agree, most people only express their love only when it's too late 😢❤
@@stillsnow8720 I know yeah, it’s kind of tragic
Screw body positive, workout channel, this is the best motivation channel I have ever seen.
@@LePereNarbasse thanks, I love that
thank you for making this video. i've been dealing with mental illness for a very long time, and it's really easy for me to spiral into depression and feelings of worthlessness whenever something goes wrong. even though deep down most of do know that people care, it's so easy to forget it, and we all need to be reminded every now and then. and it seems, that reminder can even come in the form of a minecraft video.
Well I’m glad that this time, in some way, I was able to remind you 🙏♥️
I have never seen your channel until now, but after watching this I hope to see more of these videos, this hit so hard. I really hope your videos reach larger audiences because this was so nicely worded and well put together. This is so impactful bro please keep it up and continue talking about the things you want to talk about. :)
@@llavyx I will continue and keep up with it no matter what. It would be cool if it reached a larger audience but even now I am helping people and that’s what matters. Glad you enjoyed.
Your channel got randomly recommended to me when I was going through a really low spot. Thank you
@@kawadwthe2nd138 Glad you found my channel and it managed to help you
Very important topic, I appreciate you so much for talking about this. You are loved! Amazing video !
@@mrthick6450 thanks! I’m glad you enjoyed the video.
Thank you so much for this video
I'm glad it managed to help in some small way
This summer I almost died in an accident. If it had not been for the amazing people around me, I surely would not have been here. After my near death experience I learned that people are amazing.
@@carlekelin9605 wow, that’s a crazy experience to have gone through. I’m just glad it has instilled you with a better perspective on things.
very coincidentally, this video showed up in my recommended feed after an experience that caused me to do terrible things to myself, in tears, worst i've felt in a while.
teared up seeing the video just...there.
also, this was a nice listen.
thank you.
thank you...
Oh my gosh that’s so awful. Genuinely feel for you, life is hard and it can get so bleak at times and we can feel so alone or awful about ourselves. I’m sorry you are struggling with these issues, and whatever else is happening in your life. I wish you the best and hope that in some way my videos can continue to inspire or help you, even just a little. More than anything I want you to know that you do matter, and you are incredible, just the way you are. Look at all of human history, every individual living their own unique experiences, speaking different languages, connected to different people, making different choices. And then there’s you, right now, just past the turn of a new millennia. A brand new chapter of human experience and evolution, a whole thousand years just began and we are at the start of that, we decide how it goes. Two thousand years ago the Roman Republic fell apart. Barely 50 years ago humans first landed a person on the moon. You are an incredible person, born at an incredible time, and with a great potential. Whatever anyone else says, however you might feel about yourself in those darkest of moments. I want you to remember that. EVERYONE can change the world, EVERYONE can make the world a better place. It just starts with you, so love yourself, because you really are just that special and significant ♥️.
Idk who you are, but I love you 🩷
Your vibe is just incredible and this video has truly changed my mind about a few things
Off topic but I loved how you were trying to build the enchanting set-up! It's a shame it didn't work :(
The building as a whole is also great, hits the vibe perfectly 👌
@@QueenGreenflame hahaha yeah, I was super bummed when I realize it wasn’t gonna work. But that’s life right? Sometimes you try things that don’t work. All we can do is learn from it.
i love that you replied to every comment, no matter how simple it was, this vid is amazing, wish it was recommended to me earlier
@@user-qw5wy1ng8e of course, I love interacting with viewers!
This has nothing to do with the topic, but you can put lighting underneath carpets to light up an area.
@@ambriasaunders1869 good idea
9:50 carpets block the bookshelves
@@Masked_One_1316 yeah, i ended up removing them.
Wholesome stuff, homie. Good message. I hope you feel it about yourself too.
@@UliTroyo I definitely try to, somedays obviously it’s hard to feel it fully, but I do most of the time.
Really needed this, thank you.. ❤
@@JustLori of course ♥️
Thank you for making this video, ive been doing SH for 2 years now and i js needed to hear it
@@aceryguyy I’m glad you found it then, everyone needs to hear that they are loved
Nice! more chill minecraft music throughout please
@@MrPieguyDaBoss yeah for sure
yo just found this, what a good channel
@@damonhe585 thanks
Needed this. Thank you man.
Of course!
I didn't need it today but its still nice to hear tnx
@@ollie8261 well, either way I’m glad you found this video
Thank you.
Of course🫡
You only realise how much you love something, when it is no longer with you.
@@d1scocubes very true
I'm glad I watched this
@@sashinka6860 I’m glad you watched this too
God bless you.
and you as well
I feel so luck to meet this girl. I love her sm. I just don’t know if she loves me.
i needed to hear this
@@bluecrystal_7843 glad you found it then
thank you
@@madmaddyenby8242 of course ♥️
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
The shader look good
@@Leeamos1 I agree, good shader
Your videos brought me back to minecraft 😭 World looking really nice!
@@assi9353 thanks, I don’t really like the interior to the library, it’s kind of frustrating me so I have some work to do for that. But otherwise I’m happy with it.
@@RawLens5 Best of luck! There are some real talented builders on youtube that you can take inspiration from to help you
Hearing these kinds of platitudes you encourage really made me feel awful whenever I went through the very struggles you're trying to address, to an extent that I'd say that they're vaguely triggering to me. They made me feel more isolated, because seemingly almost everyone on the planet had such a hard time imagining an existence without love that they simply refute the idea that anyone could actually be experiencing that. They made me feel more worthless, because I was being told life truly isn't valuable without others appreciating me, because all anyone would ever say to me feeling unloved was "you are loved" instead of "that's okay". Please don't assume everyone has lives like yours. Please don't assume everyone has family and friends to turn to. Please just listen to people and be mindful of projecting your experiences onto others. You don't know what their lives are like. Even if you don't believe what they say, try to take them at their word and spend a lot of time listening to them before trying to offer other perspectives. You'll avoid hurting a lot of people that way, and hopefully end up giving someone something nice that they won't find elsewhere. You can help encourage people to love themselves and live for their own reasons, and perhaps to continue trying to find community and love if they feel they haven't or wont.
Thank you for your time writing this message. I read every single comment that is left on my channel, because my intention is purely to do what I can to give people what I always needed. You’re correct that I don’t have what everyone needs and this is simply my own perspective from my short life’s experience. Take only what resonates and I hope that you find something of value in my words. Know that you are truly special in your own right and perfect in your own way. You can forgive yourself and accept yourself right now the way you are and know you are worthy of your own love.
underrated youtuber
@@supremeteddybear thanks 🙏
I would like you to know that I am your 500th subscriber. Remember me when you are famous.
@@TheGiftofTime I will 🫡
@@RawLens5 :D
the thing i am sad about is that i am not abble to play minecraft using such beautiful shaders, like dang my pc really is a potato
thanks for reminding me tho,now its time that we remind you, RawLens,you too shall be loved, you too shall be important to others....to us......
btw you got a free seat on your playthrough?
It depends on your pc but I think that if you can run Minecraft there is some shader pack out there that your computer will be able to run. A lot of them are well optimized for bad PC’s and don’t requiere much more than the base game. Idk I’m not an expert or anything but I would look into it before writing it off as an option.
I really appreciate that, ♥️ I love my whole community, everyone is incredibly supportive and welcoming and it’s awesome, thank you.
I’m not sure exactly what you mean, but I do have a community discord and I am planning on involving subscribers in future episodes in different ways. So if you would like to be more involved that is always an option!
@@RawLens5 well,i just wanna vibe while playing Minecraft together,also the only version of the game i can run without optimization mods are 1.12.2 and below,the rest always give me weird lag spikes,i can tollerate low frame rate,but not 1 frame rate
So i don't think i can play with shaders,but thanks for the info tho,might be handy once i get a new rig/setup
@@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008 yeah join the discord, at some point I will be playing with subscribers if you wanted
@@RawLens5 now thats my wavelength
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i love your videos
@@seedlleaf9547 happy to hear that!
needed this. i hope to see more of your content!! 💕
@@caliesayago glad you enjoyed
❤❤❤
@@nael.222 ♥️
Don’t give up. You matter
Great message
Hi there, I've recently started a world with my friends and its really thriving. I listen to your videos in between this and find your videos, as well as the statements within, incredibly cool, helpful, inspiring and grounding. I'm a digital artist and editor, if there's any pursuit for more that you may need help with to learn or do, I'd be well happy to help.
@@cannabishappy5003 that’s awesome, I super appreciate the support and I’m glad that you enjoy my videos. At some point I definitely will want some help to try and improve my videos in different ways. I just don’t even know where to begin with that, all of this is a bit overwhelming since I just started. But I’m gonna make a discord server soon, you should join and we could talk more about it some time.
W video
@@bread_step thanks
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but i dont matter to myself
That's really tragic, im sorry to hear that. I think everyone is worthy of love, and we need to start by loving ourselves. I hope someday you can find a way to matter to yourself.
@@RawLens5 thx also great video goodluck growing my dude
:)
@@a_no_lifer 😎
Also random video
Thats cool, just stumbled across this randomly?