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There isn't "Too Much Competition" for You to Succeed
Just kicking back with some Black Ops 3 Zombies while reflecting on life.
It’s easy to look at all the people chasing the same goals as you and think, “There’s no way I can stand out.” But here’s the truth: competition isn’t the thing holding you back. In this video, I’m breaking down why the idea of “too much competition” is just an excuse, and how your unique perspective, skills, and approach are more valuable than you think.
Along the way we play some classic COD Zombies. Let’s talk about it, because your success isn’t limited by anyone else’s.
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Nobody Has it All Figured Out
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Just kicking back with some Black Ops 2 Zombies while reflecting on life Let’s be real, no one actually has life all figured out, no matter how it looks from the outside. We’re all just kinda winging it, and honestly, that’s normal. In this video, I’m talking about why it’s okay to not have all the answers and why you’re not the only one feeling this way. All while running around in some classi...
Has Christmas Changed?... or Are We Just Growing Up?
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Just kicking back with some Black Ops 3 Zombies while reflecting on life. Christmas used to feel so magical, so why does it sometimes feel like it's lost its spark? At its core, Christmas isn't about the biggest tree or the most expensive gifts; it's about giving. Whether it's a thoughtful present, your time, or just being there for someone who needs you, giving is what keeps the magic alive. B...
You Don’t Need to Take on Everything Yourself
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Just kicking back with some Black Ops 3 Zombies while reflecting on life. Sometimes, life feels overwhelming, and it's easy to convince yourself that you have to face it all on your own. In this video, I talk about why it's okay and even brave to ask for help when you need it. Whether it's reaching out to a friend, family member, or even a stranger, support is out there, and you don't have to c...
Why Does Life Lose Its Magic After Childhood?
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Just kicking back with some Black Ops 3 Zombies while reflecting on life. I talk about what it felt like growing up, the magic of being a kid, and how things seem to change as you get older. Nostalgia hits hard sometimes, and it's wild to think about how life shifts over the years. Let's chill, kill some zombies, and chat about the stuff we all think about but don't always say out loud.
Why You Should Make More Friends
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In this episode of Fallout 4 and Life we discuss the people, relationships and friendships, investing in new friends, making new memories and opportunities, and why people are everything. Along the way we make first contact with the minutemen of the commonwealth, (or at least what remains of them.)
Stop Spending Time with Toxic People
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Toxic people can drain your energy, hold you back, and stop you from reaching your potential. In this episode, we’ll dive into how to identify and handle toxic relationships, why it’s crucial to cut them off, and how freeing yourself from negativity can transform your life. Along the way we begin our initiation to the Theieves guild. Navigating the secretive underworld of Skyrim, the parallels ...
You Need to Let Go of the Past
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In this episode of Fallout 4 and Life we discuss the past, regrets, letting go, mistakes, recapitulation, and the recollection of your personal history as an exercise of improving your present and future. Along the way we continue our new adventure through the story of Fallout 4 and through the commonwealth, making our way into sanctuary and headed further along into the new and wild wastes.
Hustle Culture is Killing You
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In this episode of the Fallout 4 and Life series we discuss the ideas of hustle culture, the upsides, the downsides, and finding the balance. Along the way we begin a brand-new adventure, starting us off in the world of Fallout 4, and in the wasteland of the commonwealth. What trials await? What fun will we have? What things will we learn? Only one way to find out!
Your Problems Won't Change if You Don't
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In this episode we talk about catalysts, change, giving yourself what you need to face life's challenges and get ahead of your suffering, death as an advisor, and how to change for the better. Along the way we fight two dragons, as we head to Kynesgrove and catch our arch nemesis Alduin reviving one of his homies from the dead.
How Gratitude Can Make Life Better
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In this episode we discuss gratitude, what you can do in the worst of times, how you stay grateful, and how that transforms your world for the better. Along the way we begin our adventure towards Kynesgrove, after meeting Delphine and retrieving the Horn of Jurgen Wind caller, we are one step further along in our journey through Skyrim.
Why Being Humble Matters So Much
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In this episode we talk about humility, why it's so important, how it affects relationships and arguments, and how the ego plays into all of this. Along the way we begin our initiation into the thieves guild, helping Brynjolf with one of his schemes. Continuing our quest through the world and wonders of the Elder Scrolls V Skyrim.
How Dreaming Big Can Change Your Life
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In this episode we talk about dreams, having a vision, having something you're working towards that can help you, and ground you in the day. We discuss premeditation, awareness and forethought, and the distractions that get in the way. Why you should let yourself dream big and how that can be intrinsically very motivating. Along the way we travel to Riften, kill our first giant (kind of) and co...
It's Not Just You, Everyone is Lonely
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In this episode we discuss loneliness, genuine relationships, fake friends, differences among cultures, para social relationships, and the loneliness epidemic consuming the youth in western society. Along the way we journey the depths of Ustengrav, on an assignment from the greybeards, headed in search of the horn of Urgan Wind Caller. One step further in our quest through the world and wisdom ...
Why You Have to Stay Adaptable
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In this episode we talk about adaptability, fluidity, and going with the flow, why it's important to maintain an open mind and always be looking for new opportunities. Along the way we fight three Ice trolls and stumble into the labyrinthian of Skyrim.
Stop Worrying About the Future
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Stop Worrying About the Future
Why I Sold Everything I Owned and Left my Country
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Why I Sold Everything I Owned and Left my Country
The Mindset You Need to Start Making Progress
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The Mindset You Need to Start Making Progress
Be the Good You Wish to See in the World
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Be the Good You Wish to See in the World
Why You Should Care How You're Feeling
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Why You Should Care How You're Feeling
Stop Holding on to Negativity
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Stop Holding on to Negativity
Your Past Does Not Define You
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Your Past Does Not Define You
How to Break Free from Old Patterns
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How to Break Free from Old Patterns
What Makes Life Worth Living
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What Makes Life Worth Living
Stop Living on Autopilot
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Stop Living on Autopilot
The Only Way Out is Through
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The Only Way Out is Through
Be the Light in People's Lives
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Be the Light in People's Lives
Prioritize Your Own Peace
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Prioritize Your Own Peace
Having a Team is Important
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Having a Team is Important
How to Find Self Acceptance
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How to Find Self Acceptance

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @RyZeEsportsOfficial
    @RyZeEsportsOfficial 2 години тому

    Love this

  • @EVDVMusic
    @EVDVMusic 5 годин тому

    An honest video with a relatable topic. I've just entered high school and have all my career choices figured out. I'm pursuing music and sound design with my goal being to get an associate's degree from Digipen in Redmond. Even though it seems that my future is so set in cement, I really don't know what's going to happen. People affect me more than I do myself in my life, so who knows what happens with them? Who knows if I pursue something different? I don't even know what to do for taxes or anything adulthood at all! I'm just trying my best to find out, and hopefully break out of my laziness... but until then, I suppose I'll take this last year of bliss for all I can take it for, and enjoy just another high-round of Bo2 Zombies. -EV. A weird enby child with a good taste in Call of Duty: Zombies.

  • @dravencold
    @dravencold 10 годин тому

    I am 20, will be 21 in March. I moved from West Virginia to Los Angeles when I was 18 and it was hard. I have gotten to do some grip work on a couple of movies, but I still haven't achieved of what I set out to do in making feature films myself - but I am working on it almost every day, I'll say that much. I want our generation to succeed, and with time, we will.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 9 годин тому

      @@dravencold I love that. Feels like everyone hates on the younger generation who are still figuring it out. But really we’re all ignorant and unaware of some things, we each only see a part of the puzzle. What’s important is humility, recognizing all that you don’t know and moving ahead regardless.

  • @travisscott3050
    @travisscott3050 12 годин тому

    Thought this video was gonna be about not understaning the complicated ass lore of zombies

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 12 годин тому

      @@travisscott3050 smh, ahhh, the difficulty of these style of video. Glad you enjoyed regardless.

  • @urbansniperr9158
    @urbansniperr9158 13 годин тому

    Genuinely best piece of content I’ve seen in a while just turned 16 and feels like I’m supposed to have everything figured out know what career I want everything this gave me a bit of a new preservative

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 13 годин тому

      @@urbansniperr9158 really honored to hear that, and glad you enjoyed or it reached you.

  • @guksungan1267
    @guksungan1267 14 годин тому

    Gives new lens on Robert Frost's quote of road less traveled.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 14 годин тому

      @@guksungan1267 hmmm 🤔 yeah facts, interesting perspective.

  • @a.a.o.t-1213
    @a.a.o.t-1213 14 годин тому

    very relatable. I'm pretty young too and I still receive those same unknowing feeling of whatever the future holds. btw nice background gameplay choice. I'm a huge cod zombies fan and I imagine that's why this vid is in my algorithm lol

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 14 годин тому

      @@a.a.o.t-1213 hahaha, well, glad you liked it. Hope you like what’s more to come!

  • @Jushi2nd
    @Jushi2nd 15 годин тому

    taxes inflation technology and a combination of other things have changed what we view as important and not important just do what u feel is right ur gonna die no matter what in the end bro

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 15 годин тому

      Facts, it’s so true man. More people need to realize their own mortality.

  • @themagnus2919
    @themagnus2919 День тому

    Thought I'd figure out what I'm supposed to be doing in my 20's. I'm 32 now, still have no answers.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming День тому

      @@themagnus2919 yeah… that’s fair, feels like the world is constantly asking that question. But like some kind of test in school there isn’t some clear cut “correct” answer.

    • @natearmenta2952
      @natearmenta2952 16 годин тому

      I’ve been winging it since 17 man, went from working at Walmart to welding with no schooling or anything. Take risks and jump on opportunities is the only thing I can tell you. So many missed opportunities I can think of that would’ve changed my life and I’m only 23. There’s no answer to life because no two people live the same life. There’s homeless people happier than the lavish.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 16 годин тому

      @ so true, you’re totally right man

  • @Bobubiklyjoe
    @Bobubiklyjoe 2 дні тому

    I mean with more responsibility and understanding of the world we have no choice but to allocate more emotion to the rest of our lives. I really like these videos! I really appreciate this style, if you need someone to play zombies with lmk!

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 2 дні тому

      @@Bobubiklyjoe Yeah great point. Glad you enjoy the videos. Fs join the discord and I’d be down to play zombies sometime.

  • @Slats1
    @Slats1 3 дні тому

    I haven't felt the Christmas magic for a couple years now. I definitely know what you mean by giving gifts, it does reignite that spark a bit. I think I miss the hype of the month of December. Haven't felt that in a long time. Great video!

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      Thanks man, glad you can relate. Totally feel that way. No holidays hit the same anymore, but I think it’s about the transition of finding new ways to enjoy and experience the holidays. I can’t eat candy due to certain dietary concerns, so Halloween is a bust, but next year I’d like to try to do something special for the trick or treaters.

  • @Chickeneater5000
    @Chickeneater5000 3 дні тому

    when you play zombies but then you become an adult 😔

  • @danielowens9934
    @danielowens9934 3 дні тому

    I’m 28 now man you just gotta keep finding things you like to do. I have multiple small hobbies to go with my big ones so that when I don’t have the time or money I can at least have something to do that I enjoy

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @@danielowens9934 yeah, that’s actually really solid advice. Everyone needs hobbies. All of the most unhappy people I know are the ones with nothing they enjoy doing on the side.

    • @danielowens9934
      @danielowens9934 3 дні тому

      @ keep your head up bro

  • @SeanGifford-o3b
    @SeanGifford-o3b 3 дні тому

    I love this video style dude!! Keep doing COD this is cool

  • @SuperBloopie
    @SuperBloopie 3 дні тому

    I mean games have gotten progressively worse, passion has left all AAA and it’s now just a money printing machine. Everything is about money and making more money. Seems like nobody does stuff for fun anymore.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @@SuperBloopie No fr, back in the day most games were probably indie, the standards didn’t require a massive team to make a good game. Nowadays it’s like it requires millions of dollars, a massive corporation behind it, and the soul is gone because it’s run like a business now.

  • @snapper8531
    @snapper8531 3 дні тому

    I was born 2004 and a lot of what you said I can compare to myself directly. I think the point you make on novelty being the crux of this is a good one. My two cents and the conclusion I’ve come to in my own life is to get that novelty from people. Everytime I’m saddest in life i realized it was when I feel like I had no one. It wasn’t just that something bad happened, something bad happened and I had no one to fall back on. I believe humans are inherently social creatures, and I feel like out of all the things that have made me happy in life, the things that have gotten the most unforgettable highest highs always come from interactions with people. Sure the Christmas morning getting my Wii then my Nintendo Switch felt unmatched, but what about the time I finally kissed my crush after being friends with her for years. When I get home from my semester of college and get to finally have the first fire of the season with my dad because it’s finally cold enough and we shoot the shit. When me and my best friend get too drunk and start yapping about whatever tf we’re going through in a way we never have before and wake up feeling like brothers. At the end of the day, everyone wants to be happy. Just genuinely wanting the best for everyone, being nice and open to meeting and interacting with new people will lead you to people who do the same. And those people who genuinely care about people, who care about you, is who gives you the energy that fuels you through dark times. Imo.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @@snapper8531 dude it’s so true. In my darkest moments, the worst parts of my life. I’ve found there were still good days, bright spots. And it was always with people. Maybe I had a friend hit me up at 2 am to hang out, maybe I just had a good chat with someone at the fuel pump while I waited for my car to fill up. When you are really struggling the tiniest little bits of human interaction and kindness can make such a massive impact. It really fills you with hope for the future, in your own life, and our species at large. Like there’s a lot of awful people out there, but I have a lot of faith in the average person. I genuinely think all anyone wants is what’s best for everyone. It’s just these outliers that distort our perception of what people are really like, and get us to feel nihilistic at times. We’re a social species, all that really matters at the end of the day is memories made with people we love. Such a valuable perspective, thanks for sharing.

  • @CarsonKing2002
    @CarsonKing2002 3 дні тому

    Man this kinda how I’ve been for a while now. I have Chs which is caused from smoking weed too much then my body will shut itself down and I’ll throw up constantly for 2 weeks damn near leaving me on the edge of death if I don’t get medical attention. Basically I just have to quit smoking but it’s hard with how long I was doing it. Dang near 5 years. I’ve quit smoking a few times and just kept relapsing and getting sick and I’m sober again now but it’s just hard. I struggle daily but it’s like who do I talk to I’ve already talked to everyone about it but don’t tell them how much it stresses me out cuz I don’t want my problems to be on them or have them constantly worry. I just don’t know I guess I’m at a confusing spot in my life cuz like why did I get this disease and no one else I even know has it. I just have to cut out one of my favorite things I’ve done for so long. It just feels unfair but who even put this on me. No one did it’s just me getting unlucky. You could say Im lucky because it’s making me quit and it’s better for me and blah blah blah I’ve heard it a million times and told myself that plenty of times but I just don’t know. It’s not even the stress of not being able to smoke it’s the overly stressing about everything that happens now and overthinking everything and just a lot of pain that I keep inside cuz Im trying to stay strong. Idk I’ll be good but just In a weird spot. But we still gonna ball

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @@CarsonKing2002 wow dude, I can relate to that so much. Not in the specifics but I’ve felt those exact emotions you are describing. I was literally 15, going on 16 when I got health issues. I had to drop out of high school, i felt so terrible it was hard to sleep and I practically became nocturnal, no social life, nothing worth the suffering I went through. I found myself just angry at first, upset that I alone had to suffer like that, and at such a young age. I kind of just pitied myself for the longest time, I felt like I didn’t deserve to suffer with what I was going through, and that somehow I had been treated unfairly. With enough time I realized that pitying myself did no good, that the world genuinely didn’t care, and nothing was fair. And all I could do was all I could do. So I decided to push ahead full force, try out different diets, drop all of my addictions (including weed at the time,) and live stoically. I’m not joking or exaggerating or being unserious at all when I say I’ve resorted to a strict Carnivore diet. For six months all I’ve eaten is unseasoned ground beef, steaks, and water. THATS IT. And guess what, surprisingly, it’s helped. I’ve tried many diets and none of them made much of a difference, but I knew I had to keep my head up and hold onto faith and keep just doing whatever I could. And now I think I’ve found some things that work, I’ve found myself in a better place. I’ve had to sacrifice a lot of what everyone else takes for granted to get here, but it’s worth it to feel healthy. Around the holidays, like thanksgiving and Christmas it’s felt hard. Like I’m an outlier while everyone eats cake and food, I eat my unseasoned steak (which is still pretty gas.) But what I’ve had to realize is that, while letting go of all pleasures and indulgences in some ways has made my life feel purposeless. Now there are no distractions, all that matters is what I’m really called to and care about on a deeper level than bodily satisfaction, and that’s helping people. With this channel, with my book, with anything and everything I can do. Try and find what that is for you, if you can, I hope everyone can find their own burning bush, their reason to be alive and fight this battle to the end. I hope everyone has a dream they hold close that makes this life worth living to its fullest. Best of luck with your healing journey, and your battles with the physical body 🙏.

  • @danielmcnicholl5488
    @danielmcnicholl5488 3 дні тому

    23, life continues to grow and change you will always have the choice to take control of your own actions and experiences. The awesome and scary thing about life is that it is physically impossible to take in everything this big rock has to offer in one “playthrough”. Even one days you are experiencing something you have before there is always a possibility to do something different to experience change. Don’t up hope brother we’ve all been where you are but all so differently. It will pass

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @@danielmcnicholl5488 wow, that’s a really powerful perspective. It’s so true, we really only get so much out of our time on this rock. That play through analogy is perfect. When you think about it like that, if you were playing a game and knew you would only get to play it this specific way 1 single time, you would play it totally differently with that mindset. Perhaps we should all treat life that way.

    • @danielmcnicholl5488
      @danielmcnicholl5488 3 дні тому

      ( on a less serious note Btw for games, you don’t have to watch the videos hahaha stay present in the moment if you have the pleasure of playing with friends play the game to enjoy it you don’t always have to chance 100% completion or every Easter egg, do what they were intended for and just have fun in the moment with people you care about)

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @ so true man, you’re so right. I enjoy zombies less when I’m pushing myself to like complete the BO3 super Easter egg or something.

  • @PeoplecallmeLucifer
    @PeoplecallmeLucifer 3 дні тому

    I love this worldview. Like my fam always put something like a Nutell a under the tree every ear just because but it's more about putting up the tree for us. when have this 4 wooden horse decoration one for mea and each of my siblings. and it's a family tradition for each of us to put up their horse for me that's the most impactful part of christmasss

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 3 дні тому

      @PeoplecallmeLucifer wow, family traditions like that are so powerful and awesome. That’s really how you keep the magic alive.

  • @kryloxe
    @kryloxe 4 дні тому

    im 19, from greece, grew up with bo1,bo2 , i dont enjoy games or even life the same way i used to do before, everything is gray, feels so dull. My life state is good, i have money, im jacked af, i have a loving family and girlfriend, but i cant feel happy or excited about something the same way i used to do. Right now im just praying that my mental state gets better.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      Yeah man, that’s valid. I think that joy and happiness is still possible as an adult, it’s just different, it comes in different ways and doesn’t feel the same. I think you kinda have to work for the right perspective and for joy as an adult, whereas children just have it innately within them. What’s made my life meaningful was perusing the specific things I care about with everything I have. That’s all that matters to me anymore. I really want to be an author, write books, help people. I think even just being in the process of getting there makes me happy. Maybe as a kid I was happy was just being stuck in place, but as an adult I only feel happy if I’m making forward progress. Idk, it’s a weird conundrum, maybe something I need to work at and find a way to solve.

  • @amymcauliffe3610
    @amymcauliffe3610 4 дні тому

    The feeling of nothing good happening anymore can be self-fullfilling. You kind of realise you have to practice being happy about what you have and find things to get excited about like new technology, new ideas, new ways of thinking. You're missing exciting details about your future, because you're basing it on your past and what you expect your future to be. There's thousands of details in every frame of your day. When depressed or apathetic, you tend to let all the little details get missed. Exciting times ahead.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      It’s true, I think as a kid we naturally see the light and the bright parts of reality. But as we get older we tend to just see things more as they are. I think it takes practice to try and give yourself joy and positivity and fight for it. But I do believe it’s possible, and at times in my life I’ve proven to myself that there are things so immensely fulfilling they make me happy to be alive. It’s just hard when you feel like you are caught in the riptides, like your emotions are turbulent and changing and seemingly out of your control at times. I think what I need is to just focus less on the darkness, and the negativity in the world. I know it isn’t good for me but I spend so much time looking into global politics, scary and awful parts of this reality, like life in North Korea, wars in the Middle East, the absolute worst aspects of humanity. It isn’t fair though to focus so much on the bad, because you are right that there’s so much good too. Thank you immensely for your comment.

  • @Tacodawgg
    @Tacodawgg 4 дні тому

    I used to think this way until I realized I had the same nostalgia about MW2019, which I played for hours and hours during covid lockdowns only a few years ago. I used to miss prime Minecraft days on my buddy's server and think that it was only because I was a kid that I look back at those times so fondly but now I realized that doesn't have to be the case. It made me realize that you never know you're in the good times until they've passed. so the best you can do is never say no to an opportunity to make a memory and enjoy the ride because someday 10 years from now you're gonna be reminiscing about tomorrow if you live the day to its full potential.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      Wow, this is an incredible comment, you are actually completely right. It’s not as if we stop making nostalgic memories at a certain point. I have nostalgia for things just a year ago. So in a way why not try to make the present, this period of your life now, something you look back at with nostalgia. That’s super interesting man, thanks for sharing your perspective.

  • @DerGesellschaftskritiker
    @DerGesellschaftskritiker 4 дні тому

    Black Ops 1 was magical for me and it is it to this day. The titels after BO1 have been going down hill.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      I can kind of agree with you, in terms of overall quality BO2 is unbeatable. Although in terms of just zombies I think BO3 did it best.

  • @notZephx
    @notZephx 4 дні тому

    I see you've been thinking about life. I find it very interesting how you perceive your surroundings and how it developed into something less enjoyable overtime. I think you just need to be open to learn new things. Maybe find joy in learning things or doing specific tasks and challenges. Try travelling or physical activities. I do agree with you to some degree but you shouldnt let this fading "magic" concern you further. Embrace life and find yourself. ❤❤❤

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      Appreciate the thoughtful words. And you’re so right. Staying open to new experiences and finding joy in little things can really shift your perspective. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @chiccaraki
    @chiccaraki 4 дні тому

    One stresses people more by not sharing. They are more perceptive than one thinks. They may just be waiting for one to open up to them. Asking for help requires overcoming one's stubbornness and being vulnerable. Vulnerable means being confident enough to express oneself, to put oneself out there. It doesn't mean showing weakness. Some people are literally trained to avoid asking for help by awful parents. Sharing one's problems does help minimize the perceived weight of the situation. One can easily increase the weight by focusing on the festering rot. Sharing, at the very least, allows one to process things. People are more appreciative when one asks for help and it builds interpersonal relations.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      @@chiccaraki Totally agree, It’s crazy how hard it can be to open up, but it really does help so much. Being vulnerable takes a lot of strength, but it’s worth it to have people you can depend on.

    • @chiccaraki
      @chiccaraki 4 дні тому

      @@RawLensGaming It's a skill one can practice. Also determines on whom one can rely.

  • @TheTwizProject
    @TheTwizProject 4 дні тому

    Hey man I just want you to know youre not alone in feeling that way Its totally normal to miss the magic you felt as a kid when everything was new and exciting and to feel a little empty once you realize the world isnt as simple as it seemed back then The fact that you can recognize and put words to these feelings already shows a lot of self-awareness and thats a big deal! With Black Ops 3's Chronicles and all the epic DLC it included, it feels like we've really reached peak Zombies, you know? But when the hype dies down, relying on developers to constantly wow us can leave you feeling empty. I was so disappointed after Alpha Omega released, and that's when I realized: I can't just wait for Treyarch to release new cards to keep me happy. So I forced myself to evolve. I got into sports, and now every game - especially the stupidest ones between Al Hilal and Al Nasser - is like Christmas to me! I feel that same spark of excitement without having to wait months (or years) for another DLC. It gets a lot better if you keep actively seeking out new experiences (like trying skiing). Truth is, we never really do run out of things we haven’t tried; it’s just finding the darn things. Just keep finding moments that surprise you, make you laugh, or remind you that there’s something worth looking forward to- and they’ll carry you a long, long way. Keep making stuff-like your UA-cam videos-or find other creative outlets. Pretty remarkable some of the places meaning and excitement can enter your life if you’re working on a project, however small or imperfect it may be. And if ever you feel really stuck and overwhelmed, remember that having a conversation with someone-a friend, a family member, or even a counselor-can really help you begin to see things from a different angle. You’re only 18. There is still much left to surprise you in the best of ways: new places, new foods, new hobbies, new people. Nostalgia has a lot of seductive power, but do not for a minute ever believe it all is or was the greatest quotient that life has to offer. Truly, there is so much more waiting for you. Take it one step at a time and keep your heart open to the possibility, but don’t forget that you matter just by being you. Sending you positive vibes, and hope you keep sharing your journey. You’re definitely not alone.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      @@TheTwizProject Wow, this comment really hit home thank you so much for taking the time to share this. You’ve captured something so real about nostalgia and that feeling of longing for the magic we felt when things were new and exciting. But you’re right, growth comes from learning to find joy in new moments and not just waiting around for something external to spark it again. Your perspective on evolving and seeking out fresh experiences, even in places we might not expect, is honestly so inspiring. It’s a reminder that there’s still so much out there waiting to surprise us if we stay open to it. I really appreciate you being so open and thoughtful here it means a lot, and I’m sure others reading this will feel it too. Thanks again, seriously.

  • @ario9907
    @ario9907 5 днів тому

    22 and my life has never been better and every year that goes on I am thriving, if this isn’t your life you’re living wrong. Have goals and dreams and work hard to achieve them everyday. Dropping video games was the best thing I’ve ever done.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      @@ario9907 thank you for sharing your perspective 🙏

    • @joef.8371
      @joef.8371 4 дні тому

      Same exact situation, funny enough. I’ll still jump on to play a round of zeds from time to time; but the world has moved on, and so have I. Life is genuinely something beautiful, and if you can perceive the little things- the interactions between everyday people, you get the same glee. Making someone else’s day begins to make your day. Best wishes to this creator.

  • @EdwardGiannone
    @EdwardGiannone 5 днів тому

    I really love the gameplay with the music, its really sick. And you're so right, there are really good and loving people out there. I struggle myself with reaching out to people when I need some help, because of negative experiences that happened to me when I tried to ask for help the wrong people in my life, but I'm working on it

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 5 днів тому

      @@EdwardGiannone yeah man, it takes a lot of humility to come to that conclusion at all, nonetheless act on it. I’m glad you’ve realized that, it’s something some people never do, and I struggled to for a while. Also glad you enjoy the music, I got a subscription to this website for royalty free music. Also also glad that you enjoy cod zombies gameplay. I get scared I’ll isolate some of my audience by constantly switching games but I genuinely would just rather play what I’m most passionate about at any given moment.

    • @EdwardGiannone
      @EdwardGiannone 4 дні тому

      @@RawLensGaming thanks dude. It's kinda ironic that I'm now in a lot of physical pain (I wasn't when I was writing the og comment) because you mentioned in this video that you struggle with an auto immune condition. I hope things are going to get better for you health wise (and for me as well xD) And the cod gameplay is really awesome, I love the variety of games on your channel. But yeah, it's kinda tough for me writing a comment right now, because your physical wellbeing impacts your mental wellbeing and vice versa. Do you have any tips how to deal with physical pain mentally, of course if it is not a too personal topic for you

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      @ that’s a tough one. I think I found that just trying to keep as distracted as possible made a big difference. But more than that learning to just accept it for what it was and not pity myself, or not cast judgement on it. Like when I broke my wrists, or got my wisdom teeth removed, or certain hospital visits. All of the most painful things I had experienced I noticed the less mental energy I gave to them the less they seemed to affect me. Sure the pain is still there just as much. But when you obsessively focus on what you are feeling it is amplified. I found that lots of warm baths, and alone time, and nostalgic shows and games helped me somewhat. Just go easy on yourself, give yourself some time where you have no expectations, and you are focused on nothing but healing, or just pushing forward one step at a time, as best you can. Idk if any of this is a consolation for how you’re feeling but I am wishing you the best and hope in some small way I can help.

    • @EdwardGiannone
      @EdwardGiannone 4 дні тому

      @@RawLensGaming thank you so much! The advice makes so much sense, I was already distracting myself from the pain and trying to relax. The pain I have right now will probably go in a couple of days, but still this advice is super helpful, so thanks again! :)

  • @CristianLopez-sh8vx
    @CristianLopez-sh8vx 5 днів тому

    I don't know why UA-cam recommended this video to me but glad it did

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 5 днів тому

      @@CristianLopez-sh8vx happy to hear that 🙏.

  • @arcticeagle342
    @arcticeagle342 5 днів тому

    My inability to keep up with more than 4 people disagrees

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 5 днів тому

      Hahaha, no I totally feel that I feel like I can only handle a couple of real, deep friendships. I'm talking more along the lines of like casual friends, school friends, or work friends, type of thing.

  • @pronoob-i7k
    @pronoob-i7k 5 днів тому

    5 days without skibid tolient be like:

  • @trademark4537
    @trademark4537 5 днів тому

    I understand the sentiment. Life may not have magic anymore, but it does have joy. The difference that makes it not magic is you have to create it when your an adult, because that magic was the direct result of your parents providing it for you. Hence the privilege you mentioned. Find what your passion is, and pursue it. Connect with others in your community and help solve some of the world's problems. Honestly consider therapy, I'm not a therapist but it sounds like your depressed. What your feeling is a very normal thing for an 18 year old to feel. I'm 29 and I felt like this for a lot of my early 20's, as I struggled with my own depression, and economic struggles that made life lose its color. But I ended up saving more money and invested time into deepening my friendships, trying new activities, working to make change in areas that I cared about in the world, and focusing less on myself and more on others. Now I don't feel the way you do anymore. Most days I feel fulfillment, passion, and joy.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 5 днів тому

      @@trademark4537 Wow, thank you for sharing this. It’s honestly so reassuring to hear that these feelings are normal and that things can change with time and effort. I really appreciate your perspective on creating joy as an adult, it’s something I’ve been trying to figure out myself. Your story gives me a lot of hope. Wishing you all the best, and thanks again for such a thoughtful reply.

    • @kenseids3456
      @kenseids3456 5 днів тому

      @@RawLensGaming find someone trusted to talk to, pls dont go to therapy because your sense of noticing that things are off about the world are normal and good. therapy will only be writing it down as depression or other symptons and youll be prescribed drugs to help these (in your case non existing problems). and take your time off from work or school for a few days from time to time to reflect on what makes you happy or not and where you want to be life.

    • @trademark4537
      @trademark4537 5 днів тому

      @kenseids3456 I don't know what kind of therapy you've been too but if you go to a psychologist you cannot be prescribed drugs

  • @knightofglory9718
    @knightofglory9718 6 днів тому

    The special part about this is how much i share the interest in black ops zombies. Maybe we think the same too idk

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      Haha could be, love me some zombies.

    • @knightofglory9718
      @knightofglory9718 4 дні тому

      @ i dreamt today of playing a BO zombie map!! It wasn’t a real map its made up in the dream so i was solving the map and it had a machine that pushed me to round 1,500!! I started looking for a way to to get back to normal rounds but it seemed like i was able to kill zombies. There are more stuff but thats a brief

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 4 дні тому

      @@knightofglory9718 wow, crazy story, interesting.

  • @nbalongboi9738
    @nbalongboi9738 6 днів тому

    2012-2016 was a much better time in general, also bo3 you could run on walls and have abilities now cod is just non stop mw 2019 clones

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @@nbalongboi9738 fr, I don’t like the new cod games, can’t explain it but black ops 6 just feels way too fast, and soulless.

  • @Rayhanstime
    @Rayhanstime 6 днів тому

    This is very underrated i relate to the zombie chronicles story😂

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @@Rayhanstime hahahaha I’m glad you had that experience too.

  • @ITMenterprises
    @ITMenterprises 6 днів тому

    Lost it's magic when I realised life just isn't fair and being a good person doesn't mean good things happen to you. Pessimistic I know, but every time I get optimism and motivation, I either fail despite trying, not get what I want, or get shut down in some way, or something just reminds you why I can't just be happy. Reality isn't fun because reality isn't always good, but man, reality could and should've been so much better, didn't have to be this rough compared to how it was 30 years ago for people who had alotta hope and motivation. It's not like I don't know what would make me happy in life, it's fulfillment, that's what I want, I just wanna do my hobbies in peace while having a wife and kids, an okay house nothing fancy, and treated as well as I treat others with new experiences. If I had all that (and I've tried), I'd actually be happy and could go on living with anything that came at me. Yet it feels like there's such an imbalance that all that is unobtainable now, it's hard to have hope, so most people just regress into escapism now more than ever...just surviving...and sometimes I wish I was never born, not siucidal, just wish I didn't have to exist with all the heartache and dread in my stomach with nothing good left at the day What do you do when you've tried your best over and over and it didn't work?

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @ITMenterprises Hey, I just wanted to say I really felt every word you wrote. It’s exhausting when you keep trying your best and life still feels like it’s fighting you at every step. Reality can be harsh, and it’s okay to feel the way you do your feelings are valid. Sometimes the little things, like hobbies or fleeting moments of peace, are all we have to hold onto, and that’s okay too. I hope you find some light, even if it’s just one small thing at a time. You deserve peace and happiness, even if the path there feels unclear right now. Take care, and know you’re not alone.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @ITMenterprises As for what you said at the end there. That’s such a tough question, and I don’t think there’s one perfect answer. But sometimes, when you’ve tried your best and things still don’t work out, the next step might be to pause, breathe, and let yourself rest. It’s okay to step back and just exist for a while without pushing so hard. Small steps, tiny wins, or even just finding one thing each day that brings a moment of peace can slowly build into something more. And sometimes, reaching out to someone you trust whether it’s a friend, family member, or even a professional can lighten the weight a little. You’re not alone in this, and your effort matters more than you know.

  • @themagnus2919
    @themagnus2919 6 днів тому

    Never befriend coworkers, especially the ones with a criminal record... I've got stories.

  • @themagnus2919
    @themagnus2919 6 днів тому

    For the sake of my mental health, I will need to make friends eventually, but I just don't trust people.

  • @theminecraftbro661
    @theminecraftbro661 6 днів тому

    "There's another person to befriend. Here, I'll mark it on your map."

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @@theminecraftbro661 Hahhaha love that

  • @Racers03
    @Racers03 7 днів тому

    I agree with the fact that getting to know more friends will lead you to a higher chance to get opportunities you wouldn't have gotten by yourself Though I guess the one major part that's kept me from making new friends (in university at least) is because of the (often justified) fear I have that people are going to take advantage of my friendship purely for their own personal gain.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 7 днів тому

      @@Racers03 yeah it’s true, I have totally felt the same way. And a lot of people will take advantage and hurt you if you are vulnerable. It’s a hard balance.

    • @Goddessღ
      @Goddessღ 6 днів тому

      I get that people see other people as a way to get opportunities but I just don't feel comfortable with that. When I make friends it's not because I see them as a potential stepping stone but I see them as a person and I enjoy their company. I get though the whole opportunities thing but I haven't gotten any job because I knew a friend. If I did get a job that way it was because I had worked with them. And that's only been managers. But getting into the job itself, it has always been because of my own initiative and my ability to pass that interview and my own merit. Though I'm told constantly I'm going to have to learn how to ask people for jobs that I'm friends with. Not sure how I'm going to do that but I guess some day I will.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @ don’t make friends BECAUSE of those opportunities. But I guess the point I was trying to make was more so just that we’re a social species and the more people you know, the more apart you are of the world and the greater a social framework you have the further you can get in life in some ways. I think even just making the effort to be more social, getting out of your comfort zone and meeting new people, can really enhance quality of life.

    • @Goddessღ
      @Goddessღ 6 днів тому

      @@RawLensGaming I guess so. I won't stop making friends though. I like having friends to hang out with and enjoy the present moment with.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 6 днів тому

      @@Goddessღ good, friends are great!

  • @lumi55315
    @lumi55315 7 днів тому

    Im 19, i still get excited for Christmas cause my mom still does a lot for it. I'll admit, im not the happiest person at most times in my life but I wouldnt go as far as saying that life has lost all of its magic, simply people expect you to grow up so you ditch things that are fun and exciting for things that are bland and boring. Personally, I dont do that, I still do "childish" things like play the same games I used to because I still find them fun, I still build lego because I still find it fun, amongst other things. I suppose it's just the question of, has life really lost it's magic or are you just doing things people say you should be doing so you seem normal in their eyes? Do what makes you happy. The magic will make its way back eventually. You'll never have that innocence back from when we were kids. Trust me when I say I want that back more than anything. But if you look hard enough, the magic is still there, the world isn't just a dark depressing place. Even in the darkest corners the light always finds a way to shine through.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 7 днів тому

      @@lumi55315 yeah, so true, awesome comment. I think you really nailed it down.

  • @chiccaraki
    @chiccaraki 7 днів тому

    Can confirm, being asked to be a friend is weird. One thing, is that sometimes it is necessary to leave people behind. And, sometimes one is the one left behind. In either case, your advice is apt.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 7 днів тому

      @@chiccaraki yeah, and what I’ve realized is the difference between brand new friends, or friends you’ve had for a while. Isn’t quite as big as we might imagine. Some of my friends I met them and they were instantly my best friend I swear.

    • @chiccaraki
      @chiccaraki 7 днів тому

      @@RawLensGaming yes, we need to bring the good people with us, if they choose to accompany, while finding new ones with which to journey.

  • @irvinsandison
    @irvinsandison 8 днів тому

    Great advice, but the real question is, HOW can we make more friends? 🤔

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 7 днів тому

      Not sure, I’ll look into it and report back 😂🤔.

    • @themagnus2919
      @themagnus2919 6 днів тому

      Alcohol 🍸

    • @irvinsandison
      @irvinsandison 6 днів тому

      @@themagnus2919I don't drink though 😢

  • @rafarafa3604
    @rafarafa3604 8 днів тому

    Second chaces are a good thing you know. But there is a thing about them, they are never someone's right, they are your gift to them, and it's up to you to decide if you want to give them or not. Some people needany mistakes but are worthy them, because there is more to their guilt and confession than saying "sorry" and moving on. Others will tell you flowery excuses and declarstions of how terrible they feel just so you can go back to how things used to be. Be careful to who you give another chance. The older they get, the harder it becomes for some people to change, for better or worse. But what they are getting better quite easily is pretending they've changed. You're to not be a martyr, but never feel obliged to be a savior. Some people are strong enough to keep their parasites happy and remain so themselves, but even they discard them. It is not your job to make the weak, cowards and liars alike to feel good by sacreficing yourself. It is their job to get better, life is hard, it is not simple, it is demanding, and every idiot can just go easy route. You, and most poeole, they don't deserve to be surroinded by those fools. Second chance is second chace, it is worthy anything only if you still have the guts to say "No, you don't deserve now and will never deserve it". They want your kindness to be worthless so they can take it for granted, but you know your worth, don't you?

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 8 днів тому

      You bring up some really important points about second chances. They truly are a gift, not a right, and it takes wisdom and strength to decide who deserves one. I really resonate with the idea that second chances only hold value when we recognize our own worth and set boundaries when needed. Life is demanding, and not everyone is willing to do the hard work to truly change. It’s up to each of us to protect our energy and surround ourselves with people who respect and value us. Thank you for sharing this perspective it’s a powerful reminder to choose wisely and never compromise on self-respect.

  • @matteokmp
    @matteokmp 9 днів тому

    Thanks man❤

  • @OXY187
    @OXY187 9 днів тому

    how about a pro tip: stop giving a shit about people

  • @lakkakka
    @lakkakka 9 днів тому

    the problem is everyone can be considered toxic. And if you start to become trigger happy you might even kick people away that weren't toxic, simply critical.

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 9 днів тому

      @@lakkakka yeah the word toxic is pretty loose, I tried to outline in depth the sort of people I was referring to. It’s easy to start cutting people away if you put them in boxes, but not everyone is bad to have around in small doses. I think for most friendships it’s about balance and boundaries. Some people genuinely you would be better off without though, and it takes time to realize who they are. Often people we are closest to, or those friendships that are the hardest to let go of, even though they are bad for us.

  • @roberthollar3409
    @roberthollar3409 9 днів тому

    It’s hard trying to be a parent like that But it’s possible I haven’t apologized every time but every time I’ve apologized to my kids we have grown together and become stronger as a family Takes a lot to accept the mistakes of yourself and acknowledge your own role in those mistakes Good video!

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 9 днів тому

      @@roberthollar3409 wow, that honestly takes a lot from a parent and I respect that you are able to do that. Takes a lot of humility especially in a position of authority like that. Much respect, you are a parent to look up to.

  • @BlazingOwnager
    @BlazingOwnager 11 днів тому

    It's important to remind everyone DISAGREEING WITH YOU, even politically, is not "toxic."

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 10 днів тому

      That’s so true, I do dislike in general the word toxic because I think certain people use it so broadly for anyone they don’t like or that disagrees with them.

  • @doppelminds1040
    @doppelminds1040 11 днів тому

    I needed this vid, I feel so stupid and guilty about allowing shitty people to enter my life for so many years and just realizing it in these last two years

    • @RawLensGaming
      @RawLensGaming 10 днів тому

      Fr, it’s like we don’t realize someone is bad for us until it’s too late and they’ve already gotten too comfortable treating us badly.