You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You. (DEF 06)

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  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 Рік тому +62

    “Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.”
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @MichaelJames707
    @MichaelJames707 Рік тому +13

    One of the best UA-cam channels, years running, no factor - infinite gratitude on deck, bless ~

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Yeah. But beware. Just learning more will not change your life.

  • @ryannelson5287
    @ryannelson5287 Рік тому +35

    Jocko: "You think Buds was hard that's nothing compared to trying to use a printer!"

    • @ExtraRice365
      @ExtraRice365 Рік тому +7

      You can't control a printer, you can only control you.

    • @dericmederos1514
      @dericmederos1514 Рік тому +4

      as someone who works in IT, that is correct

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil Рік тому +10

    00:43 🤯 Excuses and blame often stem from ego protection, avoiding the admission of personal failure.
    01:58 🍩 Blaming inanimate objects for personal shortcomings is comical and counterproductive.
    03:41 🗣 Blaming others is a lie; you can't control people's actions or decisions.
    05:00 🧠 "Free your mind" means opening your mind to new ideas and perspectives.
    06:11 🤔 Changing your life involves making small decisions, taking control, and focusing on personal improvement.
    10:31 🛠 The analogy of prisoners making a rock hammer to escape emphasizes the power of small, consistent actions over time.
    11:09 📅 Daily action, self-control, and strategic vision are essential for discipline and personal growth.

  • @Sommyie
    @Sommyie Рік тому +24

    My alarm didn't wake me up today.... Because i woke it up.

    • @ilizama726
      @ilizama726 Рік тому +2

      I honestly needed this rn. Thank you

    • @TBWBWNMWG
      @TBWBWNMWG 11 місяців тому

      So it was you😑

  • @briankelm
    @briankelm Рік тому +5

    Replay! Great truthbombs to live by and practice daily.

  • @darksidehotel1
    @darksidehotel1 Рік тому +6

    Open your mind. Free your life. Inspire others.
    I think Jocko's willing to grow. Others are too afraid to.
    We all have excuses.

    • @ScottLRoyal
      @ScottLRoyal Рік тому +1

      Being a student of life, is a wonderful way to go through life.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

    It's in our moments of decision, that our destiny is shaped.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      (In other words) What we do right now is what will shape our destiny.

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu Рік тому +3

    everyone including me thinks jocko is a mountain but he is just like everyone he bleeds the same he experiences hardships and defeat like everyone else but how he chooses to repond how he chooses to frame his situation is special and helpful he shares how he got over the last hill and how he is getting over the next obstacle

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      The difference in people's life's, are the difference in their standards.

  • @michaelpetrus19
    @michaelpetrus19 Рік тому +1

    We only know what we know & if we don't have an open mind then that's all we will ever know. Certainly, not a place I would want to find myself. And yes always be working towards a better way in everything you do as a daily habit 💪💪💪

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      For there's always someone else with more knowledge and experience.

  • @gsgmclovin3526
    @gsgmclovin3526 Рік тому

    Been living this shit for some time. You have to plant the seeds sometimes the birds get them but while your about walking don’t forget to pick your crop

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Reminds me of what Jesus Christ talked about in Matthew chapter 13.

  • @MarlonByron
    @MarlonByron 6 місяців тому

    This cranked me up at the beginning

  • @douglashowe5775
    @douglashowe5775 Рік тому +1

    love this, thank you

  • @marykukulski4679
    @marykukulski4679 11 місяців тому +3

    I have narcolepsy so when I say I can't get out of bed...it's a physical truth...but then I learned to wiggle...I wiggle to the edge of my bed and fall off of it. If I fall asleep on the floor okay but at least I finished the job of getting out of bed. I refuse to be narcolepsy 's bitch!

  • @greendragonok
    @greendragonok 7 місяців тому

    taking accountability is important be careful though of those waiting to shift blame.

  • @maxdavies5776
    @maxdavies5776 2 місяці тому

    Cheers.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

    We may not be able to reach our destination over night, but we can change our direction over night.

  • @devriestown
    @devriestown Рік тому

    Spot on .
    I work in construction and just walk away from people who just want to have conversations that they want to just agree with them on.
    It's time wasting time i dont have to waste 😂

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      And if we spend all our time with people who can't pay us, we will be someone who can't pay.

  • @paulbhager
    @paulbhager Рік тому +1

    Hell yeah 😎 💪

  • @HunterDH92
    @HunterDH92 Рік тому +4

    Just when I was about to take a rest day. Perfect timing, thank you sir 💪🏼

  • @danepane527
    @danepane527 Рік тому +5

    Man overslept again.. this hits hard, truth

  • @samboooka
    @samboooka Рік тому +1

    CGA - LEGEND

  • @chefmatseg634
    @chefmatseg634 6 місяців тому

    Those damn sneaky donuts!

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

    We may not be able to control other people, but we can influence them.

    • @austin9374
      @austin9374 11 днів тому

      Look what that’s done

  • @JulietActual
    @JulietActual Рік тому

    Lfg. Needed this today

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

    To get out of bed, our mind needs to be more powerful than our emotions. Because our emotions keep us in bed, and our mind that gets us out of bed.

  • @shrekscousin1389
    @shrekscousin1389 10 місяців тому +1

    Not everything is your fault, but everything is your responsibility no matter what.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      "It is your duty to God and your bloodline for your life to mean something.' Andrew Tate

  • @geloo90
    @geloo90 2 місяці тому

    Jocko "You can't control other people"
    Sheldon Cooper "No, YOU can't control other people "

  • @deanjackson625
    @deanjackson625 Рік тому

    Jocko, Accountability and responsibility you owe it to yourself and how will someone believe in you, then you benefit from your positive attitude and actions plus achievements of accomplishments in life.
    From diet, mental, health, marriage, community and character of a person.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 Рік тому

    We're all gonna make it brahs
    💪

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

    And if we don't protect our time and energy, then other people will waste our time and energy.

  • @denlen5706
    @denlen5706 Рік тому

    Tnx

  • @chrisaguirre6604
    @chrisaguirre6604 Рік тому

    🔥💪🏾🔥 Great subjec

  • @Jeff_Thomas
    @Jeff_Thomas Рік тому +1

    🔥VIDEO

  • @MrDanielvass
    @MrDanielvass Рік тому +1

    Easily the most common one I hear, and the one where people will die on this Hill; I’m 33 BMI, but I’m not obese, because bmi doesn’t apply to me, because I’ve got these special things, called ‘muscles’”.

    • @MrDanielvass
      @MrDanielvass 11 місяців тому +1

      @@thomasenderson893 what you’ve said isn’t completely invalid, but I always counter the argument that “bmi isn’t useful” by pointing out that if you get your body fat down and get your waist to 32” or less, 99% of people will fall within the “healthy” bmi range. It’s the guys with 44” waists saying “bmi is bs because I’ve got muscles” that I tire of.

  • @zigzag9133
    @zigzag9133 Рік тому +4

    Nothing gets a Narcissist more excited than controlling people. Getting them to do things they don’t want to, excites them the most.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Don't let them mistake your kindness for weakness.

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu Рік тому +1

    jocko sometimes looks like a Mangalor from the fifth element

  • @fredmalito9869
    @fredmalito9869 Рік тому

    Hey now, in all fairness, I set a series of alarms to make sure that I don’t oversleep and shirk my responsibilities, and over the past two months I have noticed that my phone has indeed been deactivating my alarms for some unknown reason on occasion. I would set the alarms, look at the alarms, verify that I had the correct time of day (a.m. or p.m.), and then I would do the exact same thing on my tablet and verify both were set identically.
    Next morning my tablet is going off and rouses me from my bunk in the truck. I look to the phone and it has turned off my first alarm. Five minutes later I check again, and the second alarm has turned off.
    So, that shit really happens. Sometimes it’s a valid explanation.
    Carry-on.

    • @timangar9771
      @timangar9771 Рік тому +1

      Yeah sure it happens, but I think the point is to say "I should have been prepared for that", in a way that moves the responsibility to something that you can control.

    • @fredmalito9869
      @fredmalito9869 Рік тому

      Oh I certainly understand that, I just felt like lightning the mood a bit.
      I’ll tell you though, after two decades in my field and never being late for any reason that could be attributed to anything other than mechanical failure or inclement weather, it was very disheartening to suddenly think that I was aging to the point that I couldn’t remember to set an alarm in the morning. I was feeling pretty bad about it until I caught it in the act.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Everything has expiration dates, including smartphones.

  • @lwelk273
    @lwelk273 Рік тому +1

    this reminded me of my father......when alive he would always advise me....... "Excuses are like assholes......everyone has one!"

  • @greendragonok
    @greendragonok 7 місяців тому

    accountability and excuses sound very similar

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace Рік тому

    Yikes...i want to get my jobback and not able to get in touch with the presdient.....what do i do...keep trying or give up...he needs to hear my side of the story.. I am not chopped liver....
    Also, i cannot afford where I am living. Its winter...and I need help...why wont anyone help me?

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Because God sends His strongest soldiers through Hell to get to Heaven.

  • @samboooka
    @samboooka Рік тому

    CGA speaking nothing but the truth

  • @amirsafwan4013
    @amirsafwan4013 Рік тому

    @Jocko thanks for elaborate on the discipline manuals section . This series helps a lot 🫡

  • @windbuddy1560
    @windbuddy1560 Рік тому

    It do be like

  • @EkayLaive
    @EkayLaive 11 місяців тому +1

    mhm

  • @MissJen-78
    @MissJen-78 11 місяців тому +1

    My friends, what excuse(s) do you make? I’ll go first: I slept like shit, I deserve to sleep in.

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace Рік тому +1

    Free your mind....really saying be open to new ideas ..etc...

  • @FrostyX38
    @FrostyX38 Рік тому +1

    👍😂

  • @majedahmedkhan
    @majedahmedkhan 11 місяців тому

    👍🏻

  • @gent_swag
    @gent_swag Рік тому +1

    We even blame our environment and habitat. Which is BS! LOL

  • @davidrandell2224
    @davidrandell2224 Рік тому

    7 billion brains literally don’t know up from down.All down gravity-Aristotle, Newton, LeSage, Einstein,Mach, Wheeler, Zee, Penrose etc-wrong. Up gravity- McCutcheon (Expansion Theory)- correct. “The Final Theory: Rethinking Our Scientific Legacy “, Mark McCutcheon for proper physics, including the CAUSE of gravity. Start at start.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      If you check the world population clock online, it now says there are over 8.1 Billion people in this world and growing everyday.

    • @davidrandell2224
      @davidrandell2224 14 днів тому

      @ 100,000 years and 20 billion brains later one brain- McCutcheon- discovered/published the CAUSE of gravity and this is your “take- away “. The human brain is so sad.

  • @sfairborneinfantry.godsmen
    @sfairborneinfantry.godsmen 2 місяці тому

    Blah blah blah blah blah 😂😂😂

  • @pereklada4ua
    @pereklada4ua Рік тому

    +

  • @Spartan-Of-Truth
    @Spartan-Of-Truth Рік тому +1

    I’m going to be honest, when you always expect others to do what YOU do… you’re going to get a ton of the blame and responsibility involved with that person. Just because YOU never chill out and relax from time to time doesn’t mean others shouldn’t. If everybody ran around trying to conquer and control everything, you’d have chaos. So relax… tired of hearing about all this ‘you should be this way and that way’. How about let people just be present sometimes…

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Which is why there are so many rules in society now, because without them there would be havoc.

  • @maxdavies5776
    @maxdavies5776 2 місяці тому

    If biden can lead the world i can have CBD.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      Why would just want CBD, that only makes you feel relaxed?

  • @TEM1
    @TEM1 11 місяців тому

    You owe your life for the death of Kindra Nelson.

    • @theotherside1159
      @theotherside1159 11 місяців тому +2

      Stop doing drugs

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 14 днів тому

      @@theotherside1159 "It's not a war on drugs, it's a war on personal Freedom." Bill Hicks

  • @pacovillanueva9156
    @pacovillanueva9156 Рік тому +2

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