FALLING FOR YOUR BEST FRIEND & FINDING OUT YOU’RE QUEER AT 30 🌈👩🏻🤝👩🏼 // our story + q&a
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- Опубліковано 5 чер 2024
- Our most requested video!! We really hope you love this one 🫶🏻
01:47 - our love story18:09 - how did you know you were gay?
22:32 - what was it like coming out later in life?
24:50 - did you struggle with comphet?
27:20 - how did you accept your sexuality, i’m having trouble finding the rigbt label?
31:18 - top 3 things about being in a relationship with a girl?
33:02 - how did you overcome the fear of telling your best friend you were in love with her?
34:13 - what were your first impressions of eachother?
35:16 - how do you handle arguments?
39:53 - what’s your favourite silly little quirk about the other?
41:00 - our proposal story
46:31 - what was the moment you realised you found your forever girl?
"What am I i gonna do now? Hang out with my actal boyfriend?" Had me rolling, love Camila's sense of humor 😂😂😂😂
😭😂 she’s such a character, isn’t she
That bit, then 'it will be so weird when you bring your boyfriend [to your family parties] instead of be' "why would I EVER do that"
😂
was gonna coment the exact same thing haha
@@helennappand that “EVER” was almost guttural 😂
hilarious!!!
The way y’all manage to seamlessly tell stories even when you’re APART wow this video is an absolute delight!
Except it's Dad's Summer party vs FWB party lol...
Excellent editing Julie ❤🎉
@@haliesjewelryandcrafts two different events❤️
@@cd2290 thank you😭🫶🏻
@@julieandcamillacould you guys do a vidio in Norwegian it World be so fun
Julie this editing is a freakin FEAT. It must have taken so long but it came out seamless and perfect. Thank you for going to the effort because this is a gorgeous video.
I was thinking the SAME thing! This took some dedication!
Listening to your story makes even more clear to me that love is beyond one’s sexuality. It’s simply love. I hope in my lifetime I am able to live in a world that doesn’t have all of these labels.
I'm 19 and recently found out that I'm a lesbian. I live in Iran and as you may or may not know, being queer (or even looking queer) is considered a grave sin and so, capital punishment would be given to us. I cant possibly emphasis how great our suffering is. you guys are living the life I dream of. I love you and thank you for being a major part of my journey, giving me the courage to accept who I am and to be confident in my own skin. I hope I can get out of here safely and start my own family with the woman that I love like you guys. ♡
EDIT: i hope that one day i can update this comment and say that I've made it. :) that i got out, am safe and hopefully, even in love. thank you for all of your kind messages. they give me strength. I love all of you angels. mwahhh
I hope you get out of there safely and live the life you deserve! I wish you all the best ❤
Gosh that is so sad. I hope you find a way to live the life you were meant to live. Wishing you love and peace in your journey.
I'm so sorry that being LGBT is so hard in Iran and that there is persecution for it. I hope it will change some day 💔
You will get out. You’ll move somewhere where you are accepted and you can love whoever you want.❤
I feel you, sister. Please be brave and please don't give up. Best wishes for you to live and love freely one day. I'm too a lesbian living in a country that's conservative and homophobic, though my situation is certainly not as hostile as in Iran, I just want you to know that you are not in this fight alone. Stay strong ❤❤❤
I am straight and I just love you all together. I can't imagine not seeing/knowing you two together. You were meant for each other and to be Sunnys Mamas ❤❤❤
This is such a lovely comment, thank you so so much❤️
I feel exactly the same!! I am straight and found my forever love later in life (well, we found each other in late teens/early 20’s, but then lost each other for about 20 years and then found each other again) and now we are happily married and have the kind of relationship that I only dreamed of in the past! Obviously we aren’t perfect, but I think y’all would definitely understand, that when you find your person, all of a sudden, “perfect” just means how you are together, as a union and a partnership that you just know is going to last a lifetime and fulfill every need/want that you will ever experience…wow, sorry, I’m rambling…but the way that Camilla spoke about Julie in that one segment particularly, just made me tear up and my heart absolutely melt bc y’all are really the most beautiful couple that I think I’ve ever had the pleasure of “knowing” in my whole life! And I just feel so lucky and grateful to both of you for allowing all of us to share this huge piece of your lives and relationship! I’m sure it can be a sacrifice in many different ways and probably even a burden at times, but I honestly think that y’all make a difference in the lives of MANY and truly touch a lot of people who desperately need it in some way or another! I know you’ve helped me through some dark days and I will forever be excited to see a new short pop up from y’all’s account; it literally makes my day every time!! Anyway, sorry for the novel!😂 I wish y’all ALL of the happiness and love that you can handle and then some!!! I will forever follow y’all and send good vibes to your happy little family!🩵💙
OH!! One more thing that I can’t believe I almost forgot!! I do sometimes experience a little confusion when either of y’all wink…I thought it was just Camilla’s wink at first, but nope, it’s definitely both of y’all! I absolutely LOVE it!!😉😍🤤😂
I love how many romance tropes are in your story:D best, friends, co workers, roommates, one bed …
YES! it feels like a romance book haha :D
The ‘one bedroom’ had me like “y’all were hooking up for sure”
Camilla's outlook on coming out "late" and not labelling herself etc is honestly just so beautiful and says so much about what an amazing person she is, inside and out. I loved every second of this video. Thank you guys for sharing your stories!
i kept sniffeling through the video, but when julie said "its just you and me" i started ugly crying so hard. i can relate to so many things in this video and THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for making it. you really are in inspiration and represantation and i love your energry and love together.
i figured out i wasnt straight during a (then) 5year-heterosexual relationship and it was sooo hard. it took my bf to ask me why i am so queit to say out loud that i am struggeling with my sexuality. and recently when i *said* out loud for the first time that i am queer he said "me too, but i dont need a label" and we had a long talk about it and it was so beautiful.
That moment got me ugly crying too!! Omgggg❤
I am straight and in a committed relationship with my man but every time I watch you guys,I believe in love all over again. You guys are each other’s soulmates and seeing you guys get married, have Sunny and building your life makes me so happy. I was ugly crying in the end of the video where you answered the last question, your love is so real and so precious 🤍
I couldn't have said it better myself.
i’m SO excited for this video!! i’m a 17 year old lesbian who recently got her first gf and you two inspire me so much ☺️ thank you for being so positive and amazing
good luck to you and your gf! ❤
@@hanna_mariatysm❤️
Congratulations! ❤
Honey, I hope you were able to tell your parents. It helps and matters so much. And I sure hope they are supportive of your choices. My daughter is married to a lovely woman. I adore her. My daughter came out to me at 17, but I knew from a young age she was a lesbian. She's my baby and I love her more than life. Take you're time and don't be in a rush. Good luck in your relatuonship. 😊❤
@@ashsgirlthank you!!❤
I really appreciate Camilla’s perspective. Sometimes it’s discouraging when all you hear is “I’ve always known I was gay”, but sometimes it truly never crosses your mind. It’s especially discouraging when you come out and people are like “it’s about time”, or “yeah, I always knew”. Because how do others know you better than you know yourself!!? It’s hard to trust yourself in those moments. I appreciate you talking about it.
This is couples goals, gay or hetro. Your story is wonderful. Been with my husband for 33 years, not been easy, but he is the one. I still look at him and to me he will be forever gorgeous to me. We are me 61 and him 68. We still hold hands and have fought for our marriage in tough times.. the journey has been wonderful and I would do it again.
I felt such a wave of relief when you both touched on the ‘tough’ parts, how it’s messy, chaotic, and isn’t sunshine and rainbows all the time. I deeply admire how authentic and vulnerable you both were in this.❤️
So glad you were wise to go to couples therapy.
I’m absolutely in love with the editing on this
If they would've used a green screen, no-one would ever know they're apart while filming ❤😂
I love how what you love about the other is (among other things) how they take up space, like for instance Julie liking that Camilla was loud and dancing everywhere, Camilla liking that Julie was clumsy. It’s so wholesome to find people who don’t consider taking space as a negative thing, so refreshing to have this representation of two great women who love the fact that the other doesn’t conform to societal expectations of women not being supposed to be loud, take up space, etc.
Editing the two sides together like this really makes it feel like a love story in a movie. So cinematic and romantic
Julie, I was that little girl you kept creating content for. You were doing it for your younger self but you were also doing it for me and I’m sure many other teens or young adults who needed it. You guys have no freaking idea how much you helped me come to terms with my identity. Labels are something I struggle with often, and knowing that I’m not the only one is such a relief. Thank you so much for all you do. You are so loved. Keep being you. ❤️🌈
I was that little girl too! This channel was actually exactly the right kind of representation I needed to start accepting myself and stop being scared of what my future might hold.
Thanks so much, Julie and Camilla. As a lesbian myself, being in a homophobic country where I cannot marry my girlfriend and cannot have kids with her, LGBTQ+ representation REALLY MATTERS. This is by far the most honest, genuine, heartfelt, warmest video about lesbian relationship I've ever watched. Thank you for your bravery, kindness, visibility and honesty.❤❤❤
Julie: "im not gonna cry, im not gonna cry"
meanwhile me, in my bedroom, bawling my eyes out because you two are so amazing 💌
I am little Julie. seeing another blonde with blue eyes living my dream life with her dream girl is so inspiring. her talking about being a young teen questioning her sexuality because she never related to others in those ways hit me. I do need to see that you can be gay and have a family and a happy life. I’m so grateful for you two, you are my ray of sunshine every time I need it. thank you for putting yourselves out there and sharing your stories. 🌈❤️
i’m 14 and i came out as a lesbian in 2023. ofc, i’m still young so this might change, but as far as i can tell RIGHT NOW, i’m a lesbian. growing up in a homophobic household, it’s very hard for me to accept it and very few people know i am.
on the other side, a friend of mine (unlabeled but prefers girls) grew up in an accepting household and found it very easy despite not knowing what label is right for her.
i just wish people didn’t think about sexuality so deeply. we all like what we like, accept it and move on ❤️
well said!
They brainwashed the children and left nothing behind. Otherwise, they will ruin them in this life. Go back to your normal self, don’t be like this.
@@triple_k333she is herself. Don’t be homophobic. This is completely natural in every way. In all species of animals including humans.
this is so true - i live in a conservative household and my bsf lives in a liberal household and our journeys have been so different. ik it’s hard but stay strong - u will make it out so soon and be able to be whoever u want to be 🫶
@@seajay2157 These animals are without mind, and yet most of them do not do so because that is common sense. Your minds have been washed. You must be anti-homosexual because God commanded you to do so, and this is in the story of the people of Lot.
Julie recalling their wedding at the end really did it for me❤
RIGHT 😭😭❤❤❤❤
fr 😭😭😭
yup, that is exactly when i started crying 😭
yeah, I cried sooo much
I'm a lifelong heterosexual and can tell you this about the disadvantages of being in a relationship with a man - they're not constructed in a way to be there for you emotionally. That is the biggest thing I've missed, and wished could be there. Whereas with close women friends, they're incredible about being there for you. To have that in a relationship would be amazing.
I was just thinking this myself. The emotional availability in women is so different.
I'm a straight woman as well and I know that there are emotionally available men out there. It has nothing to do with them being "wired" differently, they just never learn to be like that. Don't ever let a man tell you, that he's not able to be like that, cause that's bullshit. They do exist, but they are rare, in my experience.
camilla's pov is so so so relatable its shocking to me. she just explained me so well
Just realized, that I'm currently have common points in your story: living in Russia and processing a loving relationship is HARD. Thank you for your experience, thank you for sharing this with me, with us. I'm gay, my partner was straight all the way. And we are in love. Complicated.
Thank you for some kinda confidence: love conquers all.
omg this is so cute i love the overlaping of your perspectives!!!! sunny’s sleep regression, altough probably tiresome for you, really helped in crafting a very unique video! love that for you
‘Since she’s a woman, that makes me gay’ - YES!! I love that.
It’s a very pansexual way of looking at it, not really caring what the person is but just knowing that they have something you can’t seem to live without.
although i understand what you mean, she expressed not wanting to label herself, so we shouldnt do that to her, . again i understand what you meant! just be mindful
“I need to be representation for my inner child. For little Julie who needed that representation. I know there’s some little girl out there who needs to see that you can be gay and have a family, you can be gay and have kids, you can be gay and live a really happy life. It’s possible!”
Honestly, you guys ARE healing my inner child and my now… I’m pansexual but I had never thought about how my wedding with a woman might actually look until I saw your beautiful wedding videos. Same with your birth story video… I watched those and was like, holy cow, I want my soulmate… I want my Julie or Camilla ❤
This video is like a whole other level of cute. It's gonna cause an explosion of cuteness. We should all be taking cover.
🙀INCOMING!!!💥🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ CUTENESS OVERLOAAAAD!!!
😂😉
There should be a warning for that 😭 my heart literally exploded out of cuteness 😭
I love love love how you guys respect and protect sunny's privacy. I wish all people would be as considerate as you guys are! you really seem to be such loving, supportive and caring moms! also thank you so very much for the subtitles I can't even begin to imagine how much time and effort goes into these (& they aren't even delayed or sth honestly idk how you guy do it but yeah thanks a lot, its really really appreciated
Your biggest flex as a couple is that you are each others biggest flex. That is so beautiful. I love that we get to see strong, healthy, realistic couples like you, gay or not, represented more and more on social media. Gives me hope :) Thank you guys, you really are amazing.
I'm in my first ever queer relationship and first relationship period and hearing you guys talk about your ups and downs has really reassured me. I struggle with a lot of internalized homophobia still which makes it difficult since I am bi, but hearing about comphet for the first time really helped. I also liked how messy your story is because it gives me hope for my relationship, especially the part where you argued so much bc I'm going through that right now. I just love seeing you guys on my socials and you give me so much hope for my future with my lovely partner. 💙💙
28:29 im at this point and i want to say to everyone who’s struggling with labels etc, i’ve heard loads of stories of people who are only lesbian because of one person and are still attracted to men but they dont think they can call themselves bi because theyve only ever liked one girl and with this i agree with julie. Its fluid, labels are defining but theres no definition with love ❤
💯 Labels are for jars, not people. 🌈
@@Kristina_617 ahh i love that!!
@@Kristina_617what if im a jar
Actually bisexuality can be bi plus as well, because the thought of only being attracted to two sexes is exluding trans* and intersex people, so bi plus simply means attraction to more gender than to one's own ❤ (still don't understand what the difference to pan is, but I guess that's a personal definition). its more inclusive and affirmative this way. Hope this helps someone struggling 🙃
@@not-a-ghost2206 people that are pansexual they fall in love regardless of the gender
Late bloomer lesbian here also figured it out at 30. This video is so validating. Thank you for continuing to be vulnerable and representing queer love. I especially resonated when Camilla was talking about the notebook scene. I still work really hard on reconstructing my vision of a future with a woman. Representation really does matter. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story. My 9yr old daughter has just come out as gay and I feel so lucky for her that she is growing up now in a world where there is so much more representation. She loves your channels and looooves Heartstopper and so many other shows and books, gosh what a different world for her! Thank you again ❤
I never would have thought that you struggled in your relationship. Or that you even argue. I always put your relationship on a podest for being perfect. It's nice to hear, that you also have your ups and downs and that you still think only positive of your future together.
A good lesson to learn is to not take what others want you to see as the whole reality.
I was married at 20 6 months pregnant. Had my daughter and then a year later I left my abusive husband. A while later and I moved to Brighton in the uk. Met a woman at work who was gay and she started to make advances towards me. We dates for a while and I was conflicted then we lived together. She ended up taking drugs and wasn't very maternal so I decided to get myself and my child out of the situation. I felt heartbroken so I dated men again. But it was similar for me when camilla was talking about her feelings in the beginning. But you two really are made for each other. Anyone can feel that through the screen. Happy days for you and I wish you all the very best ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 hugs from the rainy UK loves xxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
25:35 Oh My God Julie, this speech made me cry. 25:56 had me sobbing because that is me. I know for a fact that if it wasn't social media and your channel I would struggle soooo much about accepting myself. And for me it is not about loving a girl. That is okay for me and I have accepted it but the idea of having a family and being able to live a dream romance WITH A GIRL is what really makes me struggle because, as you said, our society is so heteronormative that I grew up dreaming with a mariage and a family that I will never have simply because I will not be happy with a man. And it scares me to know that i will never have a "normal" family but seeing you and your relationship work is the living proof that I can still live my dream, even if not exactly how I dreamt it.
You two are one of my biggest inspirations.
Thank you for making videos and showing your life. It helps me and thousands of other girls who struggle with these things.
❤❤
I burst into tears seeing Julie get so passionate about representation. It just makes so much sense and I’m so happy that she still was able to find her truth but omg having representation and if society was way more accepting (even today!!) i think it would change the lives of so many people. 😢
This is quite a little thing, but I just wanted to say thank you for putting the subtitles on your videos. I am really hard of hearing and these subtitles make it a lot easier for me to enjoy these videos. Keep being you, you are amazing❤
I feel so seen by Camila and how she sees the world. She puts into words so many of my thoughts. Thank you 🫶
as someone who only ever honestly considered being bi in her late 20s and ended up in a commited relationship with a man (that i do not wish to end hopefully ever) a year later, this video was so helpful, because i still struggle with those feelings/labels/not knowing whats right for me and if i am even allowed to see myself as bi. This video helped me a lot especially with camilla talking about her struggles and how she navigated them. this is so so so so so great! thank you so much for sharing
also: i remember you telling the story more detailed in the past and i have to say, its so much more helpful the way you did it here. all the juicy/messy details just cloud the perception because everyone has opinions/pictures in their head/supposedly similar experiences that merge with what you're describing. But in this video you explored the feelings more than the events and that helped so much because feelings are pretty universal. this is why, i think, i especially connected with this video
I think the way you guys are discussing this is incredibly wonderful and helpful to so many people out here who are feeling insecure about themselves.
It’s beautiful that you’ve the hearts to give to the world in this way.
This is the story we were waiting for, don't lie.
this made me cry, you guys are so inspiring and make me feel normal. i'm currently 18 and i found out i was not straight when i was 12
i thought i was dead and started living a different life. after watching your videos i started to feel like who i am. i wouldn't believe that a youtube channel would made me understand who i am. thank you from the bottom of my heart.
girls i'm crying you are literally the most honest and amazing lovely couple i've seen on the internet and you make me believe in love every time i see your videos. thank you for sharing that story, we cherish you🌸✨
i love you guys, it literally feels like you're my really cool aunts just chatting and telling me all your stories and it just feels like a warm hug, like everything is gonna be okay. Thank you so much for all you do, you are really amazing
the end got me tearing up a little, you're so beautiful together 🫶🫶
The end made me cry so badd
The silence and the video of the wedding was just so beautiful ! Thank you girls to talk about all those things lgbtq+ can relate to.
Your most recent longer videos where you’ve explained so much about your work and daily lives, and oh my gosh blessed us with the tale of your journey into love, have been such a gift.
Regardless of what kind of relationship with respect to straight, gay, bi, whatever, your story is one of fear and anxiety, excitement and joy, pain and beauty, that all kinds of relationships can relate to.
I am cleaning and unpacking as I completely start over my life and had you’re video playing as I hung the shower curtain and scrubbed tiles and so forth, and found myself running back over to the phone if I missed a minute or two bc I did want to miss a thing.
Thanks for sharing this. You’ve no idea how many people do relate and how many people it does help when they hear someone else’s crazy, chaotic, scary and exciting love story. ❤
I loooove that you told us the long messy version of your story. Sometime on the shortform tiktoks it can all seam picture perfect and II think it's so amazing that you were brave enough to show us that you are human and imperfect sometimes. Lots of love to the 3 of you!!!
I cried sooo much watching this video
PMS might be involved but also GOD it's something
I find myself in the same situation, completely in love with my best friend, she's supposedly straight, or at least never loved a woman before
But watching you talk about your love for each other, it's devastating because I feel like we are the same
Anyway, lot of tears, but also much joy from seeing happy queer couple like you ❤
good luck girl, happens to the best of us 😭 whether its with your friend, or maybe someone you havent even met yet, you deserve happiness!
hi, i dont want to be imposing but if there's a way for you two to talk about it, i just would like to say:
i understand you completely and i was in the same situation, until after my friend got generally distant even as a friend, i found out that id always wanted more but it was too late for like, a year? two? with my understanding myself and confessing, and i was so heartbroken because i had seen something mutual happening years ago but never believed it could be the right time to try because i feared ruining the friendship or finding out im making it all up.
and i now know that i regret being too afraid more than i thought i would, and i wish i wasnt as scared and i wish i confessed not 9 years into it but earlier, because now its worse cause im too used to things being how they were and i think i could be happied if i'd jumped. If only one of us acted first, it would all have beed different, but we were both scared and confused
i just want to maybe help someone else avoid the same heartbreak, and say that if you'd ever like a sign to act and at least try a little question, this is one.
id hate to say the wrong thing or wrong advice, but all people know life's so confusing and complicated that maybe if it doesnt work out for you two you can either get hurt but stop pining earlier and look somewhere else (the earlier the less it hurts) and stay friends or, you know, get together
if your friend is really your good friend youre gonna figure it out in any case... i really wish you well and if this was an unwanted traumadumping comment, forgive me
@@sornak1723 lmao that's actually so fun that you comment this rn
Few days ago I felt like something was off, again, and like she didn't love me that much
Aaand she finally confessed I actually wasn't that much of a close friend to her, and that she lied, to herself and to me, in all of our deep conversations about anything, and those about how much we loved each other, and she said other terrible things
And well, meh, not a good moment, i was just a delusional clown, and her a massive liar
But ur right, more boldness, no regrets, and telling the truth way before (even though here, I couldn't do it in her place, but I could've broke the illusion sooner anyway)
Sorry the mood completely changed xD but thanks for ur comment anyway, dw
Now I shifted to sassy bitch energy and I'll just wait until I meet my Julie (I was born the same day as Camilla, that's an actual flex)
Thank you so much for this video and the representation - it really does matter and make a difference to other lgbtq+ people's life! I literally paused this video because my roommate came home and we always catch up when she visited her family over the weekend, and so we were chatting and somehow my past situationship came up and I told her that she was a girl too, and all my roomie cared about was how things ended and all the gossip about that situationship - I am just so relieved that my coming out to her went this well! Thank you again for being visible, it is something that gives me the strength and confidence to show the world who I am and that being gay is beautiful! ❤🌈
I cried. I honestly did. You make love seem almost effortless, and makes me want to continue to wait for THAT person that makes me feel this way. I'm glad it worked out for you both.❤
Listening to this story, I started crying because it's so nice for you guys to recap your life story and relive it again. The barriers you guys have overcome is absolutely incredible and where you were to where you are now is amazing.
not me here sobbing over your beautiful perfectly imperfect love story. thank you for sharing it and contributing to queer representation
I’m amazed how well spoken both of you are - given that it’s not your first language! You articulate feelings and emotions so very well. Loved this video so much. x
Do you know what their ethnicity is ?
@@Lina-kg2wg They are Norwegian!
And while Julie and Camilla had a friends to lovers story with an happy ending unfortunately not every story ends like theirs and if anyone feels sad or disappointed while watching this just know ur person is somewhere existing now + u can be perfectly happy if u love urself enough
not me crying throughout this entire video 😭❤ you two are just so precious and your love for each other is so beautiful
The way you guys love each other is just so beautiful. It's so clear in all of your content, but especially this video, how much you guys love each other. It's such amazing positivity to be spreading. And I love that you guys continue to show what it means to choose each other over and over, no matter what you are going through. Truthfully this video made me sob my eyes out, I'm just so happy for you!! I really hope I can find a love like this someday 🫶🫶🫶 I think we all deserve to have a person in our corner like you have been for each other ❤
What an incredible story! I loved how you two even apart told the same story, speaks a lot about how in tune you two are. It’s beautiful ❤
My story is similar to Camilla’s, it’s such a relief to hear someone experience coming out late the same way as I do. I really resonate with not wanting a label, and you make me realise I don’t actually need one. Your content is highly appreciated and it gives me permission to silence my internalised homophobia. Love you both, you’re a true inspiration ❤
Awwwwww this is seriously the representation we all need. Such incredible people ❤️ thank you for creating the content that supports so many
I am straight and in a committed relationship with my man but every time I watch you guys,I believe in love all over again. You guys are each other’s soulmates and seeing you guys get married, have Sunny and building your life makes me so happy. I was ugly crying in the end of the video where you answered the last question, your love is so real and so precious 🤍
I loved hearing Camilla’s side of the story. It’s so relatable to hear someone talk about labeling yourself outside of a relationship. She’s so brave for sharing that perspective ❤
I couldn’t stop smiling. You two just speak so beautifully about eachother & it’s just so lovely to see. I hope everyone gets the opportunity to find a love like yours ❤❤
Camilla u are such a badass, going through all of that inner homophobia, then accepting urself for who u are is just amazing, YOU ARE SEEN and your feelings are valid. Also, Julie the edit is seamless and perfect. Love you both❤
I can already tell this is going to be the cutest story ever ❤️❤️
I feel so validated, thank you. I spent the entire video crying, imagining how emotional this must have been for you both.
As someone who has come out a little later in life, I can relate so much to this video ❤️ Thank you for always sharing your story
as someone who came out in their mid 20s and struggeling, this video was so comforting! It just felt like a hug and good conversation with a friend. So thank you :)
Your love gives me such joy. And maybe that is such a silly thing to say, but you bring so much light to the world, I don’t think you will ever fully understand. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing even just pieces of your hearts with so many of us. You have changed my life for the better, and for that I am so very thankful 🤍
What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL messy story you have had. 🤍 The struggles, the realizations, the live in the moments , to your gorgeous wedding and now little Sunny. It’s a story all your own, and it has been an absolute joy to share in this precious journey of yours. Thank you for doing an amazing job of co anchoring it, for all of us that love all 3 of you! 🤍🇨🇦
It's so nice hearing about a real queer romantic relationship. With all that can come with it, in an honest way, without glamourizing or on the opposite end just hearing of all the bad things being gay can entail. Just a romantic relationship. It's beautiful. Thank you
im 18 and have been struggling with knowing I’m gay for about 5 years. thank you for sharing this, I love hearing positive stories :)
i am so thankful for representation like this! it's so amazing to see relationships that evolve over time, are invested in, and are QUEER!!! y'all have such a healthy dynamic and the way you talk about each other helps me believe in love after feeling like ill never find someone i really click with. thank you for making this content! please make more!!! ❤❤❤
I absolutely loved listening to your story! Loved your perspectives on labels and the fluid nature of humanity. There is literally a special take away for everyone in your story. I am 60 years into my human experience and I totally related to so many parts of your story. Also, I did not think your love confession was “messy”, just really honest. Thank you for sharing your story with such honesty. ❤❤❤
awe! the perfect example of soulmates. your souls knew they needed each other ❤️
I started crying during the proposal story, your story and the love you have for each other is so beautiful 🖤
I honestly did to ..
You are truly my two favorite people on the internet right now! Your love is so beautiful and pure and the end made me cry ❤
I’m crying from the happiness, joy, love & raw honesty in this video! Thank you so much for sharing!♥️
You ladies are the best example of real genuine love. Wedding story was amazing and thank you for sharing cuz you really do reach the world out their❤❤❤
This is actually my favourite UA-cam video I have ever seen. 💗 It was just, beautiful.. The editing, the story, the pictures, YOU TWO. Absolutely beautiful. Loved every second of it.
This is the most honest and beautiful relationship story. It is raw and I dont know just touches your heart, and I especially love that it shows love can overcome so many obstacles BUT you also need to put in the work and be honest with eachother. You two are beautiful strong women, and I love seeing new videos you post about your beautiful and growing family. ♡
this video is so heartwarming, the things you guys said about the labels, just made SO much sense to me, i can relate so much, I've been struggling with this thing, and right now I'm just trying to let it be and start thinking it's totally okay to not have a label, and honestly, seeing such a strong and beautiful relationship like yours, and knowing that camilla doesn't have an label, makes me so relieved, like it's almost something that tells me "you can be happy and find someone even if you "don't know" what you are" you know, it's just so good to know that this can happen. thank you guys so much to tell your story, it really has an impact in our lives, love you guys ❤️❤️
literally tearing up so bad by the end oh my gosh. you guys are such an inspiration and it makes me so hopeful for my own relationship with my girlfriend. thank you so much for all you do
I love these types of long vids! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST! Sunny is really lucky to have mommas like these! ❤❤
Hello fellow Swiftie!
I’m WEEPING! Thank you for sharing your story! Representation is so, so important and I’m so grateful you both share your lives and show the world that pure love and happiness can be found in a relationship other than hetero-normative!
i've had such a busy week so i didn't have the time to sit down for real and watch until now, but thank you so much for a wonderful video
This is the most vulnerable and beautiful gay love story 🥹😢
I just want you both to know how remarkable the story is. I know I can say that my past was very messy and I wouldn't change a thing. So I'm sure you both would never change the past because look at where it brought you both and look at what you both have today. You have each other and your son, you are both so beautiful and I couldn't not, not be friends with you both because you are both so magnificent. You bring a smile to my face every time I watch your videos. I wish I had friends like you in my life, but I've had a lot of health issues and I just lost my daughter last year November 11th 2023 so it's been really hard. But watching you guys really does help and I just want you to know that I think your love story is beautiful and so precious. May God keep you under his wing and bless you all. Love to you all and have a great weekend 💞💗💞
P. S. Please remember not all people are as ignorant as some are. You both made me realize how precious every person is in this world Thank you for that ❤
I so deeply appreciate how vulnerable and open you two are about your experiences and journey through your own sexuality. I’m a similar age and I can so relate to not having any representation in media or really any aspect of my life. I grew up in a small town (I live in a different small town now with my wife and we’re collectively known as the lesbians, I think mostly with affection, we’re privileged enough to live in a country where it’s very safe to be gay).
Representation is so important and I’m sure your channel has helped hundreds if not thousands of young people through their own struggles.
Camilla's story was so relatable and refreshing. Every point brought up hit me in my core. Thank you ❤
I looove the editing as ADHDer ❤️ 50 minutes and I never got distracted but the credit mostly goes to your story telling! I love happy endings 🥺 Love all the good you're doing on the internet how you keep it real and your approach towards labels
as a 16y old girl who’s figuring out my sexuality and currently feeling very lost and confused, this is the video I needed to see. thank you so much I love you both loads 💕🫶
Thanks both of you for your story, its so healing for me personally to hear Camilla's struggle with her identity and questioning everything in her past, because that's exactly what I'm going thrpugh right now. I really needed to hear that I can just accept it and treat this like I'm getting to know myself again, reconnect with myself. Thank you so much Camilla!
So glad you shared your story in a more detailed way, I loved this video, you were amazing storytellers and as someone who hasn't still figured out what I want or like and who has struggled to put on a label of what I am, thank you so much for saying that we don't need labels, I'm 100% sure I'm gay but an specific label is not for me right now, you have no idea how much your content has helped me not only in this aspect but also in the body acceptance one, really appreciate your content ❤
this editing is amazing!! thank you guys so much for you work🩷🩷
omg I love the "friends to lovers" trope, this is beautiful!! 😍❤
I relate to Camilla so much. Not knowing a label but just knowing I’m in love with my wife & also worrying about everyone else’s thoughts in public. Thank you for shedding light on these topics!