It wasn’t necessarily a weakness. Him taking the time to show the recruit that he to was human was needed for that particular situation and he was able to do so while also still maintaining his role as an authority figure. Having the ability to reach each recruit, tapping into whatever it is that allows that individual to be better within their life has more effect than just shitting on everyone all of the time. The fact that the demoralized, unmotivated soldier stuck around definitely inspired others (be it out of fear or respect).
Wasn’t about weakness. No DI or DS worth his salt believes compassion is weakness. That said, boot camp is hard for a reason and while he broke character for a dude in need he still had a level of intensity to uphold. There were a few moments like this at Parris Island when I was there in 2017 but at no point did we think our superiors were weak or our training any less important because of it. Best advice my senior DI ever gave us was “all it takes to excel in this career and in life is to give a fuck, just a little bit. In world of fuck yous, be a bro.”
@@Nop3.1 The DS/DI’s whole purpose is to bring out the best in each and every recruit they encounter, and the ability to identify what that is isn’t something that they can all do. I couldn’t agree with you more.
@@Nop3.1 I think you're looking too deep into what I said. Drills are supposed to be hard but not cruel. The drill didn't taunt the recruit about the issues and gave him guidance, but also didn't let the other recruits see him being more "normal" (for lack of better words at the moment. He maintained his hard ass persona in front of the other recruits while still helping one in need.
We had one kid in my platoon, our senior drill sergeant found out his step mom was an actual playboy model🤣🤣🤣all the male drill sergeant’s starting making him call them “daddy drill sergeant” and he no longer said “yes drill sergeant”, it was “yes daddy”🤣🤣🤣don’t ask how many time we got smoked for laughing because it was way too many to count
Drill Sargent Bixler did the same for me. After our conversation, I put all of my effort into my training, giving it 120% percent studying everything I was given, working my body overtime to be in peak physical condition. I didn't fail any test, whether it was mental or physical. I was even able to talk a person down from trying to commit suicide. That person is still alive today. Serving in the Army was the best experience of my life, and I will never forget all of the valuable lessons I have learned. Thank you, US Army, for teaching me how to live with honor.
Good stuff man, wholeheartedly agree. My most proud moment of service was me helping one of my soldiers get the mental health help he needed. That friend of mine is still alive today.
Honestly this entire channel is just a psyop. Nothing really wrong with that though. Atleast not compared to the simp farming that certain channels do.
@@schnitzelfritzel6287Yeah there’s a lot wrong with it lmao… manipulating impressionable young people into the military with sleek branding and exaggerated tales of adventure and camaraderie
My DI tore me up for the first two weeks of basic. One night while we were shining boots and cleaning common areas, he called me in his office. He talked to me like a big brother and said, I want you to succeed. For the rest of the training cycle I was more relaxed and focused. At our graduation, he shook my hand and said, I never doubted you could do it, and you did it. Congratulations Private. My dad asked me after graduation, what did you drill say to you in formation. I said, he said he's gonna miss me.
God bless this drill sergeant who showed both compassion and spoke truth to get him out of the attitude so he could move forward. I love our USA Military. Thank you for the sacrifices you make to keep America safe! ❤️🤗🙏🌸🇺🇸🇺🇸
If you can't maintain your composure with someone yelling in your face, you might break down and get people killed in life or death situations. When I was in Boot Camp, we had a chubby dude that pissed on himself when getting dressed down (yelled at). He was gone by week 2. That's not the type of MF you would trust with your life. He couldn't handle stress at all.
@@Fermion. I think the problem is we think mental toughness is being able to take abuse when true toughness is leaving to suffer in silence Again my point is training them foe actual war not yelling in their face petty much 24/7
@@GamePlays_1230 I was in the Navy on sub duty, and if the shipmate next to me can't handle the stress of being yelled at, I don't want that weak MF next to me when we have an emergency 1,500 feet under the ocean. This sh*t is life or death, bro. This isn't the place for your soft type of thinking.
All ive seen is youre damned if you it right and damned if you do it wrong if im gonna end up getting smoked one way or the other why would I even try the shit they say to do just wait to go get smoked its gonna happen anyways
25 years ago I went bct at fort sill Oklahoma. I still remember my drill sergeants and what they taught me. DS Graves and DS Scott thank you and the other drill sergeants that were there at the time . Thank you men for what you have done for me and the others
Can very very specific and special occasions. Let's be fair though, we have what like 400,000 members in the army, out of that like 150,000 are actual combatants, if War ever breaks out those poor bastards are going to be fighting 4 to 20 times their number, and not only are they expected to win they are expected to one sidedly crush their enemy, they need to be about as ready to face the devil as possible. And I'd say drill sergeants are a pretty good Replacement for the old horned bastard.
DIs are hard asses but they aren’t there to destroy someone. They work with what they have and how the can. Out of earshot they do give words of reassurance and offer help (especially in the case of trauma experiences or mental illnesses). No, you will do whatever the unit does and to excel.
That's how they should be. Our military men should be taught to be able to deal with and handle their emotions and their stress and not just bottle it up and ignore it. That's a big reason why so many veterans having breakdowns and unfortunately committing suicide. If you can properly control your emotions and can deal with them at appropriate times and in appropriate ways, you'll be a stronger person for it. Bottling it all up doesn't help anyone.
I’ve had mixed experiences. I cut no cards. I’ve seen DIs straight up palm recruits in the face and order other recruits to be jumped. And this wasn’t even a training platoon. What I learned is every platoon is different and every company is different as far as Marine Corps Recruit Training goes. Saw at leas one guy get his head busted open. Saw the DI that did it i the fleet almost 5 years into my contract. Some DIs were good at instilling fear without being as “hands-on”. And some recruits were just birches 🌳. A DI would tap their palms to their trouser seams and theyd snitch, and it would piss me off because I had seen DIs do waay worse to better recruits. I say, had I not graduated, it would probably be looked back at as a traumatic experience. I’m sure some still do. I’ve only heard one or two videos on UA-cam that covers experiences like this in bootcamp. And you can’t find them now without digging in the crates.
When I’d been hospitalized in the mental ward, the 3 most psychotic drills after I got back when no one was around were some of the most supportive and helpful people I’d ever known
He's your dad. He's not on salary. He had to work his butt off to put a roof over your head feed and cloth you. The drill Sargent gets paid to make a soldier out of you and keep you alive. Your dad kept you alive until the military took over
@@ryanclinton8391 okay, how would you feel if your father didn’t treat you as a human for nearly 2 decades, and it was a random stranger who’s job was to teach you a job where you DIE was the one who showed you actual compassion. Get out of here.
I was never in the military, but I was in NJROTC for all 4 years of high school. I remember getting screamed at by actual Marine DIs when we went to Drill meets or had mini boot camp. It's defenitly scary if you don't know what to expect. However, we also saw the human side of them as well. I remember talking to one and he said that they were technically holding back on us as we were miniors. He then told us that they have to know when to be firm and loud, but then be soft spoken and understanding when certain situations arise. Oh we most certainly got yelled at, but they never put hands on us. The only time they did, was to fix or correct a part of our uniforms. They told us that they can't physically touch us, but they can make us regret some of our choices by other useful means. I learned that even though they are yelling and screaming and getting in your face, it's all being done to help build you up and make you a better person. Then when you have become a better version of yourself, they will be the first to tell you and they will say it with humble pride.
As a Former DS, its our job to get you through basic training. We see something in some individuals that others dont, and will find away to tap into it. When others don't believe in you, when you don't believe in yourself, the DS will believe in you and push you to no limits. #ThisWe'llDefend
@@lcarr5549 There is a way to increase your volume without destroying your vocal chords, and yes; many NCO's get some form of training how. You can't be a good leader if you can't reliably convey orders in a timely manner.
I remember when my Drill Instructor showed me his "human side," lol. I went in the army in 2003 as a 19 Delta. Loved Basic and AIT...as i went to a military school from grades 6-12 so most things about the military life were very easy and simple for me. My overall treatment from the drill instructors was more harsh because when they found out i went to a military school they always expected perfection vs other recruits that had not grown up the way i had. I was the platoon guide 1 week longer then average due to my experience and it was fun but i am human like anyone else. When we had our time training at the repelling tower i had just gotten some bad news concerning family back home...i was very distracted and was acting depressed which was not my usual self...normally i was excited every day and very motivated, always trying to help others succeed thru our daily challenges but those days at the repelling towers i was very off. And the guys in my platoon rallied around me trying to cheer me up but theres only so much they could do. So my platoon drill Sargeant also noticed my change...Drill Sargeant Strow...held me back with him while everyone marched back to the barracks. One instructor had to wait for the person in charge of the tower to lock it all up. So he told me to stand at ease, and then at rest...which means i didnt have to stand at parade rest...where you have your hands behind your back and feet apart and rigid. You could relax a little in your posture. Then he says "fuck this" lol. He says..."stand normal like you are back home." 🤣....i did and felt some relief. Then he offers me a cigarette which wasn't allowed during our training and i used to smokw so i eagerly accepted lol. And then we just stood there a BS'd and talked like 2 men smoking outside a bar. He asked me about my girlfriend back home, how she looked, was she hot lol. Then told me about his wife, that shes hot lol. Then after we finished the cigarettes...he said..."this was your one break to get your mind and composure back, i expect when we get back to the barracks youll be back at your normal 110% self and if you tell the other recruits iblet you smoke ill kick your ass!." 🤣🤣🤣 I replied with "yes drill Sargeant!" And we marched back and when we returned it went bacl to our normal everday grueling hard work. The rest of my training was uneventful except what you would expect for 19 Delta training. Drill instructor was hard on me like he was anyone else but i always remembered in that moment he knew i needed him to not be my drill instructor for just those few minutes and it helped me remember to show that when absolutely needed to the men at my left and right. It really taught me how important it is. Will always remember Drill Sargeant Strow.
My uncle is was a drill seargent for the remainder of his career in the military. Before that, he was in Army aviations, fixing downed aircraft and helicopters in Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, and was inserted with almost every Special Operations Forces, has killed men. Even got to call in fire missions on patrol one time due to his experience, and he sounded like he actually enjoyed looking for fights, and I believe him considering he did a 12 mile ruck in an hour 30 minutes. He is one of the funniest dudes ever, and he loves animals, and he is most definitely human. Some people are mentally weak, some people are mentally strong, some people are easily corrupted by evil, some people stand strong and are proud to be good men and women and learn from their mistakes.
I’ve had these types of convos with my Recruits in private while being a typical Instructor in front of a class. The job of an Instructor is to peel away the layers of doubt in each young Recruit and teach them how to tap into their personal inner strength. Watching them blossom into the man you knew was there all along is like watching your own child succeed in life. If you don’t have that pride in their success you have NO business being an Instructor…Carry on
That DS was a badass!! I got to know my Navy Drill Instructors on a personal level after basic because I was stationed at Great Lakes after completing my job training . I even attended the funeral of my bunk mate with them, and got to see them shed tears over their sailor. Some DS/DI are straight assholes, but many just want to see you succeed and to push good troops out into the military.
I was such a punk before basic training and I found out quick that isn't going to work. What made me change there was me seeing everyone else have to pay for my mistakes. They knew before I knew how broken I was from my past. It was a very long time ago but it took real men to make me a man that could see pass his ego.
It was all a show with Marine Drill Instructors. They really had us believing they were not human. I remember near the end of the cycle when i handed one of my kill hats a medical chit for an MRI there was a very breif look of concern that i was actually hurt that crossed his face and he quickly regained his composure. It was the first time he didnt scream orders at me. He just calmy but firmly told me to go to the deck below and go to our "history class" but to walk and dont run there. That definitely threw me for a loop. They were tough as nails but you can tell most of them actually did care especially later on in the cycle.
Myself, Benning 1992. My son USCG boot camp right now. 1 week in. July 2024. Very proud of him. No pushing at all, ever. 100 % his decision. Again, so proud of him.
My friend told me a story of something adjacent happening to his buddy in Army basic. his drill used to throw dummy grenades into the barracks at random times to sharpen the units alertness. one day, the grenade rolled right to someone's feet, and without thinking, he kicked it right back out the door. So the drill ran in screaming at the top of his lungs, asking who threw it back, and the guy who kicked it owns up. the drill pulls the guy to his office while still yelling at the guy. the door closes, and it gets really quiet in the barracks. later the door opens, and the screaming resumes instantly. later, the guy tells my buddy that once the drill closed the door to his office, he instantly dropped to normal speaking voice and tells the guy that what he did was actually the objectively correct thing to do in that situation but it wasn't the point of the exercise so he isn't actually mad he just needs to reinforce the real point for everyone. then tells the guy to head back and act like he got chewed out. and that was when the drill opened his office door and instantly started screaming again.
There is a reason our military are so loyal to one another. You have to go through the worst, but as a female civilian, I thank you all for your service.
One of the most wonderful, nicest people I've ever known is my brother. He is a Godly man, who goes to church and is raising 4 girls. Girly girls. He was a mean, nasty, scary drill sergeant with the combat badge and airborne wings on his chest. He's never shown me his drill sergeant side, but I can see it in him. When I went to basic training, I kind of knew the process, and was ready for a lot of things coming my way... But my drill sergeant were all scary, mean, nasty badass dudes. When I got out of osut, I found my platoon's senior drill sergeant on Facebook. His profile picture was of him wearing a tiara with his daughter. He was just a normal guy who did his job extremely well. I admire that. Some of the nicest, most wonderful people are also capable of incredible violence and destruction.
Their job is to toughen you as well. If you become a POW during war, then the enemy will do worse. They’re just getting you ready for the basics at the same time.
I could say the same for those monsters that terrorized the Jews back in WW2. Some were great parents and amazing people that had lots of compassion when they are not at their shifts. Drill instructors are sadists
@@gammaarmy9547 did you really just compare someone like my brother to a Nazi? You're an idiot. If you don't understand the difference between giving someone tough love, teaching someone to be a war fighter, and a genocidal monster dragging naked pregnant women into fields and shooting them in the head, you are one of the dumbest people on Earth. You lack historical knowledge, read a book. You lack critical thinking skills, go outside and get a life. You lack common sense, can't help you with that one. Get fucked I guess... Honest to God bro, do you actually think that was a decent comparison?
I'll never forget my drill SFC Gidson,ft Knox KY. 1984.He made the biggest impression on me even having an older brother I idolized as a drill,Thank God I got "stuck" with him
In my life experience, I can somewhat relate. In my town I grew up in, it was almost expected for all men to enlist, despite me not wanting to. But it was in the pre-training that one of the men helped me out. Basically, he asked if I had any possible diagnoses he could use to get me disqualified, and I told him I had minor asthma, so he just wrote that I had "crippling" asthma that made me unfit to serve, so I was not forced into the army, despite the wishes of my parents, friends, and Imam
I had the BEST senior drill instructor and we were his last platoon 3rd bat. Parris Island 3042 I co. Lead series. We had 5 drill hats 4 staff Sgt. And I Sgt. And they cared. TOUGH LOVE WORKS.
DS Roman was an animal. He forced integrity by being in the most unlikely place when you least expected it. He made us think he absolutely hated us while in training but when I went to combat I remembered the lessons he taught.
Just finished basic recently, can confirm DS are lowkey the dads many of the men and women joining never received They will teach and assist you more in life in those 10 weeks than any human being can. And will without question shape you into the best fucking human being you can try to be
As the oldest in the class, I had one that just dumped on me all the time. Last night before we left, he came woke me up and told me, "Pick a battle, you got staff duty runner with me. Of course I picked the biggest POS I hated. I have to suffer, you have to suffer. Anyways, he took us to staff duty, showed us funny YT videos and was really cool. At some point he left and brought back to Dr. Peppers and told us not to tell anyone. Told me he really liked how I pulled a lot of kids along with me and he dumped on me so they didn't feel they were getting picked on. Good man, SFC Jackson.
That's what an NCO/DRILL SGT is supposed to do. These NCOs are preparing America's best to accomplish every mission given, keep his buddy alive, and come back home. The first and most important job for every servicemen in every different branch of our military is to export violence in support of American citizens and its interests abroad. And, that possible transition from attending high school to the battlefield is done by those drills. That TEET needs popped out of his mouth so that he can grow up and learn how to succeed. Most don't understand that those NCO's want him to succeed and to also live. Because, many times you only get one chance. Failure in the American military isn't ever an option, either. War is indescribable and uncontrollable in many cases. You have to work together to try and control the chaos you're around. So, THANKS TO ALL OF YOU DRILLS out there. Mine irritated the hell out of me, but I'll always be grateful to the ones I had.
I remember breaking my Leg in boot (been walking and running on a broken leg for a month at that point) The Drill Instructor didn't yell after seeing the med reports and asked me to call my mom and my recruiter to tell them I wouldn't graduate till I healed it was the first time I broke the this recruit on the phone with my mom letting her know it was going to be ok. At the end I said thank you Sir and he didn't get mad just was trying himself to not be sad, he said go sit on your footlocker and don't strain yourself. Ended picking up with that Training company again after healing and he handed me my EGA and asked was it worth it? I said, "every second SSgt, every damn second". He then said, "you're a good man keep pushing Marine." They are there to build the best they can, and they do that job really well.
Drill Sergeant will usually take their hats off if the can tell you are going through some deep personal shit. My drill sergeant, SFC Benitez, was this kind of drill. I enlisted because I had run out of options, have a wife with Type 1 diabetes, and at the time a 6 month old son. The entirety of basic, i never received a cent of housing allowance. Every week he would have me check my LES to see if I had gotten it. He would constantly pester the finance office, but the finance office at Benning just didn't care. He would also ask privately how my wife and son were doing and if I was atleast getting paid enough to get them by. Of course he was hard on me too, pushing me to my limit and even beyond. I am grateful to have had such a stern, but concerned drill sergeant who genuinely cared about the wellbeing of his trainees and their families.
I could say the same for those monsters that terrorized the Jews back in ww2. Many of them were great family members and had lots of compassion when they are not at their shift
Had a similar experience. I had a 102 fever in 0 week in BMT. I was acared as hell to go talk to my MTI privately. When i finally did, he closed the door, talked to me quietly, and made sure I was ok. He offered to drive me to the ER or wait til the morning sick call. It was actually the most scared id been that far because he was so nice. I told him I'd go in the morning. He told me to come see him or call him immediately if anything got worse. Then he opened his door and yelled, "Now get the hell out of my office, Trainee. You better not let this happen again!"
The senior DS in my company, who was also my platoons DS, was one of the coldest mfs there. His presence was strong. Even the other drill SGTs looked like they were afraid to come across him. We had this one soldier, very scrawny, and couldn’t keep up during drills or pass his pt tests. He wanted to join to be like his dad. He loved being in uniform and would always call us his brothers. One day he became a heat casualty after falling behind during a march. When we got back to the barracks he looked surprised. We asked him what happened, he said they’re sending him home but that he had a talk with our senior DS. He had a look of shock because of how surprised he was about how human this guy sounded one on one. He told him that he gets how bad he wants this, but that it’s not for everyone. He could whatever he wants in life because of how young he is and that the army isn’t the only thing he can do or be a part of. He told him to go live his life. Just wow. Then that night he came in, woke everyone up, kicked our trash can across the floor, dumped our mop water, smoked the shi outta everyone, and we continued on fearing him 😂
Drill Sergeant Slane was the one that had the most impact on me. He was a yeller. He would say some funny shit too. Way later in AIT when we were close to graduation, he actually talked to a couple of us out in the field during a cold night in a tent they had set up with a stove in it. He was totally normal. It was like a totally different person. I actually really enjoyed basic and wanted to stay to be a drill sergeant when I was done. Haha. Instead I went to permanent party and did my service and got out. I had several good drink sergeants. But I was on the right side of the isle. Those who were what called, chewed the fuck up, caught hell and hated life.
Fourth week of basic training, the ladies were sabotaging each other's lockers, and it came down to the squadron commander considering recycling everyone, the guys included. Our instructors drove us hard, and we felt defeated. They had a meeting with us, inspired us, and we left that room feeling like we could take on all challenges. They knew what we needed in that moment. I was very fortunate to have such a strong instructor team and command staff. I wish I could thank them personally for the values they instilled into us, values that I still hold to this day.
I remember going through basic training, to be honest, a good portion of us looked at our Drill Sergeant like he was another father figure by the end of training. To some of us, he actually was the father figure. They're hard, but no where near overbearing. Especially when you understand why they do what they do. They're essentially training the next generation of troops to replace them. Just like how your parents will teach you to be a stronger person better suited for the world, they are going to do the same thing
Damn I had a RDC (Navy's version of a drill sergeant) that was cool and nice but if the Chaplen was in his office at the time I would have most likely stayed, and if my RDC said the same thing I would have just stayed.
The day before we graduated our DI's made us move our bunks from the door of our barracks, take a knee and they knelt down with us like equals explaining to us what we were to expect. After 20 years, that moment is my most prevalent memory.
Saw one of our DI's two years later. By then, I had completed OCS and reached 1st Lieutenant. I called him aside to tell him that the trainees in his platoon spoke very highly of him. He sucked it in and thanked me. I thought he was about to cry.
I had this one drill sergeant that would sometimes talk to guys in our platoon if they had problems and he would always tell us to look out for each other. This same drill sergeant also gave us a work out program on graduation and told us to always work out in our free time as soon as we made it to our first units. He did some other good stuff for us but that’s mostly what I remembered, other than that he was our worse nightmare, he had some funny catch phrases though.
Yes! Totally agree about military being your family. I grew up as an Army “Brat” and definitely (still to this day) feel more at home around military. Think we just get each other on another level ❤️.
Very true. Also an army brat. I feel like growing up in that type lifestyle, or perhaps it's moreso coming through life with a military minded parent definitely sets us apart in ways that others couldn't really understand. And those who try often just end up looking at me with a very questioning blank stare.
A buddy told me about his first day at basic. Said eventually started crying. The drill Sargent brought him into his office and made him do push ups till he calmed down. Didn't yell or scream at him. Once he was calm he said go join the others in a soft tone. That was all he needed. Didn't have that issue again.
My drill looked so unapproachable and always mad. Yet she was sweet as pie when she saw my kid at graduation and the other drill we had was a infantry dude and the platoon got him emotional when we got him stuff for his newborn baby. Basic training is there to put your civilian mentality in a corner and militarize you.
My Sergeant's were men i will never forget, they promised me that, and I haven't. They were really great men and yes, human. Thank you drill sergeants, Bateman, Greene, and DuBoise! Thank you and God Bless You. 🫵👍😎💪🇺🇸🙏
The military made breaking down and then building up people an art, and this is why people feel like it is a second family, well that along with fighting right next to someone for your lives. It's not about patriotism while you are in battle it's about survival and helping each other survive, that is truly what makes it feel like family!
I ran into one of my DI's my last year in the Corps at an NCO Club on Okinawa. Drill Instructor Sgt. Culverhouse...bought him a beer and chilled a little.
A drill sergeant or DI must always be taken seriously. A recruit or as in the army we call em “trainees” cannot be allowed to think for a second their drill sergeant is their friend. But that’s not what this drill sergeant was either. No. He was the EPITOME of what a Drill Sergeant really is at his/her heart. A guide and mentor there to lead you and craft you into a soldier, a marine, a sailor, a Coastie or an airmen.
Some people need dicipline drilled into them, some need encouragement and humanity. But if you show both sides openly people will see it as a doublestandard and become resentful. Rather than explain, he gave the appearance of a single approach while privately helping everyone be the best marine they could be.
The only regret I have about the military is that I didn’t enlist sooner, I mean I enlisted in my mid 20’s. I served for 15 years and I miss the Navy so much, sometimes I cry and regret not staying for life.
They have an ON/OFF switch😂 They are the ones that bring you into the Family. That introduction makes sure you know the standards for the REST OF YOUR LIFE❤😂😂😂
Remembers me to my Drill Sergeants and later on Soldiers of higher ranks. If you have a real problem they are there for you on and off duty. I'll always miss this and will always remember the words of my CO: "S. if you want to talk to a comrade about your problem, instead of your family, just call me, I'll be there for you." Great man, I'll never forget this Officer
I told my recruiter I was nervous about basic (im 165lb and not exactly athletic) and the dude told me the drill instructor are gonna be hard on you but at the end of the day they’re there to make you a soldier so just don’t take nothing personal and do your best and you’ll pass basic
Basic Training was the first time I was really away from home. About 3 weeks into Basic, I get called to the Company Office over the PA, I was freaked...They tell me I had a phone call from home. It was my Mom, she told me that my Grandma had died...I lost it. That was it, I wanted out. My DS, who I am still in contact with (and it's been over 40 years) dropped the DS persona and was like a big brother..He allowed me into the Cadre room right outside our platoon bay...He gave me the afternoon to grieve. He spoke to me like a big brother, not like my DS. Between him and the Bn Chaplain, I got through it. I will never forget his kindness I owe part of the person I am today to my DS Thank you DS Fred L
Still miss the Army. Lost my great grandpa during basic and couldn't go home as he wasn't immediate family. My drills took care of me. Not that they went easy on me, but they took care of me.
In 1975 I graduated basic training and my mom and dad came to see me graduate. I introduced my platoon Drill Sgt to my dad. My dad; "I always knew he had it in him, he's a true survivor" My Drill Sgt. "He's one of the best soldiers in the company." I literally was looking behind me. It was like they were talking about somebody else. They laughed at my reaction thinking I was kidding. I was trying not to cry. One of the best days of my life.
My Command Master Chief was such a hard ass. Everyone hated him. A few years after I got out, I sent him an email, curious if he was the same person as I'd remembered. Since he knew I was no longer enlisted, his attitude was completely different. I saw a beat down guy who wondered why he was still doing it. That single email taught me a lot about how heavy the crown was. As a head manager now, I get it. The strength that we have to project is exhausting. There's ways to do it and ways not to, but some people only speak the language of aggression. I hate wearing that hat. I think of my old CMC whenever I have to yell, because it's the only language some people understand.
@@gened9632 I was sad to see your exemplary; (having worth or merit or value; being honorable or admirable. Being or serving as an illustration of a type. “an action exemplary of his conduct”, so low on the feed), as I feel what you said, extremely important! I looked to see if your name was listed as an example in the definition of the word. I took a picture of your comment. I just admire you so much. Weird for me cuz I don't know you, but my heart really feels respect and admiration. I'm thankful for you. I appreciate every step you take. Thank you for keeping America strong! May God bless and protect you and yours Sir! ❤️🫡🇺🇸❤️
During the sunset months of my service we received a new platoon daddy. He was in the 82nd for like 14 years, fell on drill orders and was now coming to do his PSG time so he could pick up his 8 and retire after like 6+ deployments, the man has combat stripes up to his elbow. When he got to us there was a few months where he had to come out of drill mode and holy shit man did I feel bad for the new privates we got. They didn't escape basic.
I had a drill that had my entire class convinced he slept standing up in his wall locker
Id believe that shit too
Literally coming out of the alcoves like the borg XD
Like the TV show Small Wonder.
actually funny as fuck
Don’t let Gunnery Sargent dracula catch you out of your rack at night unless you have some garlic handy
Showed compassion for an individual without allowing the rest to see it as weakness.
It wasn’t necessarily a weakness. Him taking the time to show the recruit that he to was human was needed for that particular situation and he was able to do so while also still maintaining his role as an authority figure. Having the ability to reach each recruit, tapping into whatever it is that allows that individual to be better within their life has more effect than just shitting on everyone all of the time. The fact that the demoralized, unmotivated soldier stuck around definitely inspired others (be it out of fear or respect).
Wasn’t about weakness. No DI or DS worth his salt believes compassion is weakness. That said, boot camp is hard for a reason and while he broke character for a dude in need he still had a level of intensity to uphold. There were a few moments like this at Parris Island when I was there in 2017 but at no point did we think our superiors were weak or our training any less important because of it. Best advice my senior DI ever gave us was “all it takes to excel in this career and in life is to give a fuck, just a little bit. In world of fuck yous, be a bro.”
@@Nop3.1 The DS/DI’s whole purpose is to bring out the best in each and every recruit they encounter, and the ability to identify what that is isn’t something that they can all do. I couldn’t agree with you more.
@@Nop3.1 I think you're looking too deep into what I said.
Drills are supposed to be hard but not cruel.
The drill didn't taunt the recruit about the issues and gave him guidance, but also didn't let the other recruits see him being more "normal" (for lack of better words at the moment.
He maintained his hard ass persona in front of the other recruits while still helping one in need.
@CheifDegenerate people like make me sick. You Don't understand the military but got shot to say. Join bad add or stfu
I remember in Army Basic, the drill seargeants said I am your daddy. I am your momma.
We got the ole, “I am your papa! Liberty is your mama! &never forget you fight for Uncle Sam!” HOOAH
I still don’t recommend you call them daddy
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When did you go to basic training? Today that could be seen as sexual harassment! I am also an army vet....
We had one kid in my platoon, our senior drill sergeant found out his step mom was an actual playboy model🤣🤣🤣all the male drill sergeant’s starting making him call them “daddy drill sergeant” and he no longer said “yes drill sergeant”, it was “yes daddy”🤣🤣🤣don’t ask how many time we got smoked for laughing because it was way too many to count
Drill Sargent Bixler did the same for me. After our conversation, I put all of my effort into my training, giving it 120% percent studying everything I was given, working my body overtime to be in peak physical condition. I didn't fail any test, whether it was mental or physical. I was even able to talk a person down from trying to commit suicide. That person is still alive today. Serving in the Army was the best experience of my life, and I will never forget all of the valuable lessons I have learned. Thank you, US Army, for teaching me how to live with honor.
If you don't mind me asking, what did you do to convince your suicidal comrade?
Good stuff man, wholeheartedly agree. My most proud moment of service was me helping one of my soldiers get the mental health help he needed. That friend of mine is still alive today.
Yooooo, I had an Engineer Sgt. Bixler, that went Drill. Fit AF white dude, blond hair, blue eyes. Do you remember his prior MOS by chance?
@@justablackdude5423 my man described the most generic white man.
@ssss-fj2su lol that's the best way to describe him lol. That and trying to narrow down his prior MOS
"He said calmly"
Lmfao! 😂
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NOTHING is scarier than a DI saying something calmly or telling you "It's OK."
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This should be the new recruitment ad bro, seriously.
Real
Truth be told. I'd fight some battles with brothers with a drill sergeant like that.
Yeah this fake asf
Honestly this entire channel is just a psyop. Nothing really wrong with that though. Atleast not compared to the simp farming that certain channels do.
@@schnitzelfritzel6287Yeah there’s a lot wrong with it lmao… manipulating impressionable young people into the military with sleek branding and exaggerated tales of adventure and camaraderie
My DI tore me up for the first two weeks of basic. One night while we were shining boots and cleaning common areas, he called me in his office. He talked to me like a big brother and said, I want you to succeed. For the rest of the training cycle I was more relaxed and focused. At our graduation, he shook my hand and said, I never doubted you could do it, and you did it. Congratulations Private. My dad asked me after graduation, what did you drill say to you in formation. I said, he said he's gonna miss me.
yeah ok.
@@Donner906sounds liked you kissed his ass
@@Donner906Fun fact:
Reality is weirder than fiction. Go outside.
@@Donner906you're the type of person to think that the soldiers are just robots trained to kill
For the love of god. If you’re gonna write a fiction story at least add quotation marks when a person speaks.
God bless this drill sergeant who showed both compassion and spoke truth to get him out of the attitude so he could move forward. I love our USA Military. Thank you for the sacrifices you make to keep America safe! ❤️🤗🙏🌸🇺🇸🇺🇸
They're hard on you because they have to be. It's what makes a soldier, but they are still your brother in arms. That's what keeps a soldier going.
If you can't maintain your composure with someone yelling in your face, you might break down and get people killed in life or death situations.
When I was in Boot Camp, we had a chubby dude that pissed on himself when getting dressed down (yelled at). He was gone by week 2. That's not the type of MF you would trust with your life. He couldn't handle stress at all.
@Fermion. Yep, if you can't handle strong language directed at you, you won't be able to handle gunfire coming at you.
@@Fermion. I think the problem is we think mental toughness is being able to take abuse when true toughness is leaving to suffer in silence
Again my point is training them foe actual war not yelling in their face petty much 24/7
@@GamePlays_1230 I was in the Navy on sub duty, and if the shipmate next to me can't handle the stress of being yelled at, I don't want that weak MF next to me when we have an emergency 1,500 feet under the ocean.
This sh*t is life or death, bro. This isn't the place for your soft type of thinking.
All ive seen is youre damned if you it right and damned if you do it wrong if im gonna end up getting smoked one way or the other why would I even try the shit they say to do just wait to go get smoked its gonna happen anyways
25 years ago I went bct at fort sill Oklahoma. I still remember my drill sergeants and what they taught me. DS Graves and DS Scott thank you and the other drill sergeants that were there at the time . Thank you men for what you have done for me and the others
The first thing my DS's taught me at Ft. Sill, OK was we never use names when talking of DS's.
Especially in public forums such as this.
Short answer, sometimes 😂
Can very very specific and special occasions.
Let's be fair though, we have what like 400,000 members in the army, out of that like 150,000 are actual combatants, if War ever breaks out those poor bastards are going to be fighting 4 to 20 times their number, and not only are they expected to win they are expected to one sidedly crush their enemy, they need to be about as ready to face the devil as possible.
And I'd say drill sergeants are a pretty good Replacement for the old horned bastard.
@@anarchyandempires5452 Never pray for a 12" prick . You'll get a 12" Drill Sergeant ; Hup two three four , Hup two three four . 😅
@@anarchyandempires5452good thing they reinstated the draft😂150 is gonna be bumped up by hundreds of thousands more
@@anarchyandempires5452 that’s a fair point
Mabey
Respect is never given but always earned.
Respect is given and only given
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DIs are hard asses but they aren’t there to destroy someone. They work with what they have and how the can. Out of earshot they do give words of reassurance and offer help (especially in the case of trauma experiences or mental illnesses). No, you will do whatever the unit does and to excel.
I think this is how it's supposed to be, not all Drill Sargents are like that, but many are
That's how they should be. Our military men should be taught to be able to deal with and handle their emotions and their stress and not just bottle it up and ignore it. That's a big reason why so many veterans having breakdowns and unfortunately committing suicide. If you can properly control your emotions and can deal with them at appropriate times and in appropriate ways, you'll be a stronger person for it. Bottling it all up doesn't help anyone.
They are often there to sexually assault recruits.
I’ve had mixed experiences. I cut no cards. I’ve seen DIs straight up palm recruits in the face and order other recruits to be jumped. And this wasn’t even a training platoon. What I learned is every platoon is different and every company is different as far as Marine Corps Recruit Training goes. Saw at leas one guy get his head busted open. Saw the DI that did it i the fleet almost 5 years into my contract. Some DIs were good at instilling fear without being as “hands-on”. And some recruits were just birches 🌳. A DI would tap their palms to their trouser seams and theyd snitch, and it would piss me off because I had seen DIs do waay worse to better recruits. I say, had I not graduated, it would probably be looked back at as a traumatic experience. I’m sure some still do. I’ve only heard one or two videos on UA-cam that covers experiences like this in bootcamp. And you can’t find them now without digging in the crates.
This is not the case in The Navy. They are all A holes.
When I’d been hospitalized in the mental ward, the 3 most psychotic drills after I got back when no one was around were some of the most supportive and helpful people I’d ever known
What happened?
I've seen it, not personally.. that mfer hated me but the squad leader said he talks to him normally one on one.
didn’t hate you. just your sl was liked
That DI has more humanity in him than my father towards me my entire life.
He's your dad. He's not on salary. He had to work his butt off to put a roof over your head feed and cloth you. The drill Sargent gets paid to make a soldier out of you and keep you alive.
Your dad kept you alive until the military took over
Cry about it
Are you actually for real?.. I just wanna know sincerely
Well DS I presume in this case
@@ryanclinton8391 okay, how would you feel if your father didn’t treat you as a human for nearly 2 decades, and it was a random stranger who’s job was to teach you a job where you DIE was the one who showed you actual compassion. Get out of here.
I was never in the military, but I was in NJROTC for all 4 years of high school. I remember getting screamed at by actual Marine DIs when we went to Drill meets or had mini boot camp. It's defenitly scary if you don't know what to expect.
However, we also saw the human side of them as well. I remember talking to one and he said that they were technically holding back on us as we were miniors. He then told us that they have to know when to be firm and loud, but then be soft spoken and understanding when certain situations arise.
Oh we most certainly got yelled at, but they never put hands on us. The only time they did, was to fix or correct a part of our uniforms. They told us that they can't physically touch us, but they can make us regret some of our choices by other useful means.
I learned that even though they are yelling and screaming and getting in your face, it's all being done to help build you up and make you a better person. Then when you have become a better version of yourself, they will be the first to tell you and they will say it with humble pride.
As a Former DS, its our job to get you through basic training. We see something in some individuals that others dont, and will find away to tap into it. When others don't believe in you, when you don't believe in yourself, the DS will believe in you and push you to no limits. #ThisWe'llDefend
Explain why so many dirtbags pass basic then. We believe in you!!! Like a hallmark channel special. Wow that explains a lot.
Are you trained to shout? 😂
@0veX93 it's not shouting....it's speaking in a manner to be heard and understood by many to follow very specific instructions 😀
@@lcarr5549you are a wise hero
@@lcarr5549 There is a way to increase your volume without destroying your vocal chords, and yes; many NCO's get some form of training how.
You can't be a good leader if you can't reliably convey orders in a timely manner.
I remember when my Drill Instructor showed me his "human side," lol. I went in the army in 2003 as a 19 Delta.
Loved Basic and AIT...as i went to a military school from grades 6-12 so most things about the military life were very easy and simple for me. My overall treatment from the drill instructors was more harsh because when they found out i went to a military school they always expected perfection vs other recruits that had not grown up the way i had. I was the platoon guide 1 week longer then average due to my experience and it was fun but i am human like anyone else.
When we had our time training at the repelling tower i had just gotten some bad news concerning family back home...i was very distracted and was acting depressed which was not my usual self...normally i was excited every day and very motivated, always trying to help others succeed thru our daily challenges but those days at the repelling towers i was very off. And the guys in my platoon rallied around me trying to cheer me up but theres only so much they could do. So my platoon drill Sargeant also noticed my change...Drill Sargeant Strow...held me back with him while everyone marched back to the barracks. One instructor had to wait for the person in charge of the tower to lock it all up. So he told me to stand at ease, and then at rest...which means i didnt have to stand at parade rest...where you have your hands behind your back and feet apart and rigid. You could relax a little in your posture. Then he says "fuck this" lol. He says..."stand normal like you are back home." 🤣....i did and felt some relief. Then he offers me a cigarette which wasn't allowed during our training and i used to smokw so i eagerly accepted lol. And then we just stood there a BS'd and talked like 2 men smoking outside a bar. He asked me about my girlfriend back home, how she looked, was she hot lol. Then told me about his wife, that shes hot lol. Then after we finished the cigarettes...he said..."this was your one break to get your mind and composure back, i expect when we get back to the barracks youll be back at your normal 110% self and if you tell the other recruits iblet you smoke ill kick your ass!."
🤣🤣🤣
I replied with "yes drill Sargeant!"
And we marched back and when we returned it went bacl to our normal everday grueling hard work. The rest of my training was uneventful except what you would expect for 19 Delta training. Drill instructor was hard on me like he was anyone else but i always remembered in that moment he knew i needed him to not be my drill instructor for just those few minutes and it helped me remember to show that when absolutely needed to the men at my left and right. It really taught me how important it is.
Will always remember Drill Sargeant Strow.
My uncle is was a drill seargent for the remainder of his career in the military. Before that, he was in Army aviations, fixing downed aircraft and helicopters in Bosnia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Somalia, and was inserted with almost every Special Operations Forces, has killed men. Even got to call in fire missions on patrol one time due to his experience, and he sounded like he actually enjoyed looking for fights, and I believe him considering he did a 12 mile ruck in an hour 30 minutes.
He is one of the funniest dudes ever, and he loves animals, and he is most definitely human.
Some people are mentally weak, some people are mentally strong, some people are easily corrupted by evil, some people stand strong and are proud to be good men and women and learn from their mistakes.
Once again, I am proud to be army. It is stories like this that makes us brothers-in-arms....
Not the sniper shacking his head when he said “can a drill sergeant be an actual human” 😂
79-85 I still miss my brother's. The bond you form in the service is beyond family.
I’ve had these types of convos with my Recruits in private while being a typical Instructor in front of a class. The job of an Instructor is to peel away the layers of doubt in each young Recruit and teach them how to tap into their personal inner strength. Watching them blossom into the man you knew was there all along is like watching your own child succeed in life. If you don’t have that pride in their success you have NO business being an Instructor…Carry on
These are the stories that need to be told. Young people need to know the army is a family and no one fucks with family
That DS was a badass!!
I got to know my Navy Drill Instructors on a personal level after basic because I was stationed at Great Lakes after completing my job training . I even attended the funeral of my bunk mate with them, and got to see them shed tears over their sailor. Some DS/DI are straight assholes, but many just want to see you succeed and to push good troops out into the military.
Even DIs are human. Love brotherhood. Thanks Sarge.
Sometimes your first and only real family...
I was such a punk before basic training and I found out quick that isn't going to work. What made me change there was me seeing everyone else have to pay for my mistakes. They knew before I knew how broken I was from my past. It was a very long time ago but it took real men to make me a man that could see pass his ego.
My grandpa was a drill Sargent when he was in the army, it’s very surprising considering how calm and nice he is
The best DI story I have ever heard... Shoot, I may do formations and I never joined any military.
It was all a show with Marine Drill Instructors. They really had us believing they were not human. I remember near the end of the cycle when i handed one of my kill hats a medical chit for an MRI there was a very breif look of concern that i was actually hurt that crossed his face and he quickly regained his composure. It was the first time he didnt scream orders at me. He just calmy but firmly told me to go to the deck below and go to our "history class" but to walk and dont run there. That definitely threw me for a loop. They were tough as nails but you can tell most of them actually did care especially later on in the cycle.
Myself, Benning 1992. My son USCG boot camp right now. 1 week in. July 2024. Very proud of him. No pushing at all, ever. 100 % his decision. Again, so proud of him.
It's the Drills that makes the person a SOLDIER ! France 66-67 Germany 67-68 Vietnam 68-69 !
My friend told me a story of something adjacent happening to his buddy in Army basic.
his drill used to throw dummy grenades into the barracks at random times to sharpen the units alertness. one day, the grenade rolled right to someone's feet, and without thinking, he kicked it right back out the door. So the drill ran in screaming at the top of his lungs, asking who threw it back, and the guy who kicked it owns up. the drill pulls the guy to his office while still yelling at the guy. the door closes, and it gets really quiet in the barracks. later the door opens, and the screaming resumes instantly. later, the guy tells my buddy that once the drill closed the door to his office, he instantly dropped to normal speaking voice and tells the guy that what he did was actually the objectively correct thing to do in that situation but it wasn't the point of the exercise so he isn't actually mad he just needs to reinforce the real point for everyone. then tells the guy to head back and act like he got chewed out. and that was when the drill opened his office door and instantly started screaming again.
There is a reason our military are so loyal to one another. You have to go through the worst, but as a female civilian, I thank you all for your service.
One of the most wonderful, nicest people I've ever known is my brother. He is a Godly man, who goes to church and is raising 4 girls. Girly girls.
He was a mean, nasty, scary drill sergeant with the combat badge and airborne wings on his chest.
He's never shown me his drill sergeant side, but I can see it in him.
When I went to basic training, I kind of knew the process, and was ready for a lot of things coming my way...
But my drill sergeant were all scary, mean, nasty badass dudes.
When I got out of osut, I found my platoon's senior drill sergeant on Facebook. His profile picture was of him wearing a tiara with his daughter. He was just a normal guy who did his job extremely well. I admire that. Some of the nicest, most wonderful people are also capable of incredible violence and destruction.
Their job is to toughen you as well. If you become a POW during war, then the enemy will do worse. They’re just getting you ready for the basics at the same time.
@@MilitaryTalks-d5c absolutely aware of that, and appreciative of it
@@g-manjams same.
I could say the same for those monsters that terrorized the Jews back in WW2. Some were great parents and amazing people that had lots of compassion when they are not at their shifts. Drill instructors are sadists
@@gammaarmy9547 did you really just compare someone like my brother to a Nazi?
You're an idiot. If you don't understand the difference between giving someone tough love, teaching someone to be a war fighter, and a genocidal monster dragging naked pregnant women into fields and shooting them in the head, you are one of the dumbest people on Earth. You lack historical knowledge, read a book.
You lack critical thinking skills, go outside and get a life.
You lack common sense, can't help you with that one. Get fucked I guess...
Honest to God bro, do you actually think that was a decent comparison?
My drill instructor and my navy seal instructor both made me cry and cuss them at the same time but I never quit 😊
I'll never forget my drill SFC Gidson,ft Knox KY. 1984.He made the biggest impression on me even having an older brother I idolized as a drill,Thank God I got "stuck" with him
In my life experience, I can somewhat relate. In my town I grew up in, it was almost expected for all men to enlist, despite me not wanting to. But it was in the pre-training that one of the men helped me out. Basically, he asked if I had any possible diagnoses he could use to get me disqualified, and I told him I had minor asthma, so he just wrote that I had "crippling" asthma that made me unfit to serve, so I was not forced into the army, despite the wishes of my parents, friends, and Imam
I had the BEST senior drill instructor and we were his last platoon 3rd bat. Parris Island 3042 I co. Lead series. We had 5 drill hats 4 staff Sgt. And I Sgt. And they cared. TOUGH LOVE WORKS.
DS Roman was an animal. He forced integrity by being in the most unlikely place when you least expected it. He made us think he absolutely hated us while in training but when I went to combat I remembered the lessons he taught.
Basic as damn near nothing to do with combat.
@@Donner906 maybe if you can’t see all the little lessons they taught you.
Just finished basic recently, can confirm DS are lowkey the dads many of the men and women joining never received
They will teach and assist you more in life in those 10 weeks than any human being can. And will without question shape you into the best fucking human being you can try to be
Or abuse you, if you have what it takes, they will terrorize you. If they know you are too weak, they prey upon your weakness. Total sadists confirmed
As the oldest in the class, I had one that just dumped on me all the time. Last night before we left, he came woke me up and told me, "Pick a battle, you got staff duty runner with me. Of course I picked the biggest POS I hated. I have to suffer, you have to suffer. Anyways, he took us to staff duty, showed us funny YT videos and was really cool. At some point he left and brought back to Dr. Peppers and told us not to tell anyone.
Told me he really liked how I pulled a lot of kids along with me and he dumped on me so they didn't feel they were getting picked on.
Good man, SFC Jackson.
That's what an NCO/DRILL SGT is supposed to do. These NCOs are preparing America's best to accomplish every mission given, keep his buddy alive, and come back home. The first and most important job for every servicemen in every different branch of our military is to export violence in support of American citizens and its interests abroad. And, that possible transition from attending high school to the battlefield is done by those drills. That TEET needs popped out of his mouth so that he can grow up and learn how to succeed. Most don't understand that those NCO's want him to succeed and to also live. Because, many times you only get one chance. Failure in the American military isn't ever an option, either. War is indescribable and uncontrollable in many cases. You have to work together to try and control the chaos you're around. So, THANKS TO ALL OF YOU DRILLS out there. Mine irritated the hell out of me, but I'll always be grateful to the ones I had.
I remember breaking my Leg in boot (been walking and running on a broken leg for a month at that point) The Drill Instructor didn't yell after seeing the med reports and asked me to call my mom and my recruiter to tell them I wouldn't graduate till I healed it was the first time I broke the this recruit on the phone with my mom letting her know it was going to be ok. At the end I said thank you Sir and he didn't get mad just was trying himself to not be sad, he said go sit on your footlocker and don't strain yourself. Ended picking up with that Training company again after healing and he handed me my EGA and asked was it worth it? I said, "every second SSgt, every damn second". He then said, "you're a good man keep pushing Marine." They are there to build the best they can, and they do that job really well.
That’s my DS Jackson. Extremely humble guy. He has passion for history, his classes were the best.
Drill Sergeant will usually take their hats off if the can tell you are going through some deep personal shit. My drill sergeant, SFC Benitez, was this kind of drill. I enlisted because I had run out of options, have a wife with Type 1 diabetes, and at the time a 6 month old son. The entirety of basic, i never received a cent of housing allowance. Every week he would have me check my LES to see if I had gotten it. He would constantly pester the finance office, but the finance office at Benning just didn't care. He would also ask privately how my wife and son were doing and if I was atleast getting paid enough to get them by. Of course he was hard on me too, pushing me to my limit and even beyond. I am grateful to have had such a stern, but concerned drill sergeant who genuinely cared about the wellbeing of his trainees and their families.
All my marine corps DIs were sweethearts, I mean at first they didn’t seem like it but they really are good people!
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I could say the same for those monsters that terrorized the Jews back in ww2. Many of them were great family members and had lots of compassion when they are not at their shift
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Had a similar experience. I had a 102 fever in 0 week in BMT. I was acared as hell to go talk to my MTI privately. When i finally did, he closed the door, talked to me quietly, and made sure I was ok. He offered to drive me to the ER or wait til the morning sick call. It was actually the most scared id been that far because he was so nice. I told him I'd go in the morning. He told me to come see him or call him immediately if anything got worse. Then he opened his door and yelled, "Now get the hell out of my office, Trainee. You better not let this happen again!"
Heros without capes
The senior DS in my company, who was also my platoons DS, was one of the coldest mfs there. His presence was strong. Even the other drill SGTs looked like they were afraid to come across him. We had this one soldier, very scrawny, and couldn’t keep up during drills or pass his pt tests. He wanted to join to be like his dad. He loved being in uniform and would always call us his brothers. One day he became a heat casualty after falling behind during a march. When we got back to the barracks he looked surprised. We asked him what happened, he said they’re sending him home but that he had a talk with our senior DS. He had a look of shock because of how surprised he was about how human this guy sounded one on one. He told him that he gets how bad he wants this, but that it’s not for everyone. He could whatever he wants in life because of how young he is and that the army isn’t the only thing he can do or be a part of. He told him to go live his life. Just wow. Then that night he came in, woke everyone up, kicked our trash can across the floor, dumped our mop water, smoked the shi outta everyone, and we continued on fearing him 😂
First rule of leadership is listening
Drill Sergeant Slane was the one that had the most impact on me. He was a yeller. He would say some funny shit too. Way later in AIT when we were close to graduation, he actually talked to a couple of us out in the field during a cold night in a tent they had set up with a stove in it. He was totally normal. It was like a totally different person. I actually really enjoyed basic and wanted to stay to be a drill sergeant when I was done. Haha. Instead I went to permanent party and did my service and got out. I had several good drink sergeants. But I was on the right side of the isle. Those who were what called, chewed the fuck up, caught hell and hated life.
Fourth week of basic training, the ladies were sabotaging each other's lockers, and it came down to the squadron commander considering recycling everyone, the guys included. Our instructors drove us hard, and we felt defeated. They had a meeting with us, inspired us, and we left that room feeling like we could take on all challenges. They knew what we needed in that moment. I was very fortunate to have such a strong instructor team and command staff. I wish I could thank them personally for the values they instilled into us, values that I still hold to this day.
I remember going through basic training, to be honest, a good portion of us looked at our Drill Sergeant like he was another father figure by the end of training. To some of us, he actually was the father figure. They're hard, but no where near overbearing. Especially when you understand why they do what they do. They're essentially training the next generation of troops to replace them. Just like how your parents will teach you to be a stronger person better suited for the world, they are going to do the same thing
Damn I had a RDC (Navy's version of a drill sergeant) that was cool and nice but if the Chaplen was in his office at the time I would have most likely stayed, and if my RDC said the same thing I would have just stayed.
Why did you leave dude? Don’t like exercise and yelling? Puss puss
The day before we graduated our DI's made us move our bunks from the door of our barracks, take a knee and they knelt down with us like equals explaining to us what we were to expect. After 20 years, that moment is my most prevalent memory.
My experience with even all the hard times my fellow soldiers are my family. They are my brothers.
Saw one of our DI's two years later. By then, I had completed OCS and reached 1st Lieutenant. I called him aside to tell him that the trainees in his platoon spoke very highly of him. He sucked it in and thanked me. I thought he was about to cry.
Haha holy shit! I know the E6 at around the 11 second mark!
I had this one drill sergeant that would sometimes talk to guys in our platoon if they had problems and he would always tell us to look out for each other. This same drill sergeant also gave us a work out program on graduation and told us to always work out in our free time as soon as we made it to our first units. He did some other good stuff for us but that’s mostly what I remembered, other than that he was our worse nightmare, he had some funny catch phrases though.
I also forgot about the fitness slash nutrition class he gave us.
Last part sometimes The military isnt your second family its your first
Brother's in arms. I love you. 1st generation to last.
Yes! Totally agree about military being your family.
I grew up as an Army “Brat” and definitely (still to this day) feel more at home around military. Think we just get each other on another level ❤️.
Very true.
Also an army brat.
I feel like growing up in that type lifestyle, or perhaps it's moreso coming through life with a military minded parent definitely sets us apart in ways that others couldn't really understand. And those who try often just end up looking at me with a very questioning blank stare.
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A buddy told me about his first day at basic. Said eventually started crying. The drill Sargent brought him into his office and made him do push ups till he calmed down. Didn't yell or scream at him. Once he was calm he said go join the others in a soft tone. That was all he needed. Didn't have that issue again.
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My drill looked so unapproachable and always mad. Yet she was sweet as pie when she saw my kid at graduation and the other drill we had was a infantry dude and the platoon got him emotional when we got him stuff for his newborn baby. Basic training is there to put your civilian mentality in a corner and militarize you.
God bless and protect our military.
True, the Army shaped me to be a better upgrade of myself., Thanks AMERICA and the U.S. Army.❤️🇺🇲❤️
Yep. Taught me organizational skills I still use 45 years later
They probably also worked with Pfizer to do experiments on you unaware. if you don’t know, now, you know.
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If he replies I’ll probably join the marines
If he replies instead of the marines you join the air force. Thank me later
If he replies, ignore that guy and join the marines, thank me later.
@@baconflakes3345 what why
@@baconflakes3345 I have just as much of a right to join as you do
@@Notingness I’m not smart enough for that
I my sons a drill instructor. I like to think that I taught him well since all I hear about him is good things, even from strangers
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Softies. We had a DI in MCRD SD that would make you cry then wipe one tear away and whisper. Now I have your soul. Once he broke you it was over. 😢
Hehe
DI are some pretty awesome individuals. They tough love ya but its for your own good. 😁👍I seen many DIs like that.
Served a draft. Hated every minute of it
If I were drafted I would have also hated my service
My Sergeant's were men i will never forget, they promised me that, and I haven't. They were really great men and yes, human. Thank you drill sergeants, Bateman, Greene, and DuBoise! Thank you and God Bless You. 🫵👍😎💪🇺🇸🙏
I had a good one like that. Moon. Great guy. Lung cancer in his 30s. Still missed. Sand Hill 92.
Yes. I was in boot camp for Marine Corps. There was 1 DI that was so nice that we actually felt bad when we misbehave or dissapoint him.
The military made breaking down and then building up people an art, and this is why people feel like it is a second family, well that along with fighting right next to someone for your lives.
It's not about patriotism while you are in battle it's about survival and helping each other survive, that is truly what makes it feel like family!
I ran into one of my DI's my last year in the Corps at an NCO Club on Okinawa. Drill Instructor Sgt. Culverhouse...bought him a beer and chilled a little.
I believe every man should go through this this would be able to tell him where he stands it would be invaluable for the rest of his life
My sincerest respect and I give thanks to every member of our United States Military Respectfully as well as the Military of our Allies,
A drill sergeant or DI must always be taken seriously. A recruit or as in the army we call em “trainees” cannot be allowed to think for a second their drill sergeant is their friend. But that’s not what this drill sergeant was either. No. He was the EPITOME of what a Drill Sergeant really is at his/her heart. A guide and mentor there to lead you and craft you into a soldier, a marine, a sailor, a Coastie or an airmen.
Thousands of our boys become men in the military. The Marine Corps DI's made a huge impact on my oldest son. So very proud of him.
Some people need dicipline drilled into them, some need encouragement and humanity. But if you show both sides openly people will see it as a doublestandard and become resentful. Rather than explain, he gave the appearance of a single approach while privately helping everyone be the best marine they could be.
The only regret I have about the military is that I didn’t enlist sooner, I mean I enlisted in my mid 20’s. I served for 15 years and I miss the Navy so much, sometimes I cry and regret not staying for life.
They have an ON/OFF switch😂 They are the ones that bring you into the Family. That introduction makes sure you know the standards for the REST OF YOUR LIFE❤😂😂😂
Remembers me to my Drill Sergeants and later on Soldiers of higher ranks. If you have a real problem they are there for you on and off duty. I'll always miss this and will always remember the words of my CO: "S. if you want to talk to a comrade about your problem, instead of your family, just call me, I'll be there for you." Great man, I'll never forget this Officer
I told my recruiter I was nervous about basic (im 165lb and not exactly athletic) and the dude told me the drill instructor are gonna be hard on you but at the end of the day they’re there to make you a soldier so just don’t take nothing personal and do your best and you’ll pass basic
A drill is supposed to be like your father figure/mentor, tough and serious when needed, but also somebody you can go and talk to, who will listen
Basic Training was the first time I was really away from home. About 3 weeks into Basic, I get called to the Company Office over the PA, I was freaked...They tell me I had a phone call from home. It was my Mom, she told me that my Grandma had died...I lost it. That was it, I wanted out. My DS, who I am still in contact with (and it's been over 40 years) dropped the DS persona and was like a big brother..He allowed me into the Cadre room right outside our platoon bay...He gave me the afternoon to grieve. He spoke to me like a big brother, not like my DS. Between him and the Bn Chaplain, I got through it. I will never forget his kindness I owe part of the person I am today to my DS Thank you DS Fred L
Still miss the Army. Lost my great grandpa during basic and couldn't go home as he wasn't immediate family. My drills took care of me. Not that they went easy on me, but they took care of me.
In 1975 I graduated basic training and my mom and dad came to see me graduate. I introduced my platoon Drill Sgt to my dad.
My dad; "I always knew he had it in him, he's a true survivor"
My Drill Sgt. "He's one of the best soldiers in the company."
I literally was looking behind me.
It was like they were talking about somebody else. They laughed at my reaction thinking I was kidding. I was trying not to cry. One of the best days of my life.
First they fight for the country, then country fights with them! Our soldiers live difficult life! ❤
Yeah I can see that playing out in The Marines. 😂
My Command Master Chief was such a hard ass. Everyone hated him. A few years after I got out, I sent him an email, curious if he was the same person as I'd remembered. Since he knew I was no longer enlisted, his attitude was completely different. I saw a beat down guy who wondered why he was still doing it. That single email taught me a lot about how heavy the crown was. As a head manager now, I get it. The strength that we have to project is exhausting. There's ways to do it and ways not to, but some people only speak the language of aggression. I hate wearing that hat. I think of my old CMC whenever I have to yell, because it's the only language some people understand.
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I was sad to see your exemplary;
(having worth or merit or value; being honorable or admirable. Being or serving as an illustration of a type. “an action exemplary of his conduct”, so low on the feed), as I feel what you said, extremely important!
I looked to see if your name was listed as an example in the definition of the word.
I took a picture of your comment. I just admire you so much. Weird for me cuz I don't know you, but my heart really feels respect and admiration. I'm thankful for you. I appreciate every step you take. Thank you for keeping America strong!
May God bless and protect you and yours Sir! ❤️🫡🇺🇸❤️
During the sunset months of my service we received a new platoon daddy. He was in the 82nd for like 14 years, fell on drill orders and was now coming to do his PSG time so he could pick up his 8 and retire after like 6+ deployments, the man has combat stripes up to his elbow.
When he got to us there was a few months where he had to come out of drill mode and holy shit man did I feel bad for the new privates we got. They didn't escape basic.
U S Army right after High School. Best thing I ever did, it saved my life.