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@@JoshuaOtusanya if the person has more knowledge like better grades than you but disrespects you from time to time without apologizing Then what would you recommend in this situation.
I dont have a problem with always Bing a yes person as long as that person on the opposite side of her gate is nice as well even hen it comes to strangers.
My husband and I are too nice, he says Sorry all the time in the grocery store just walking by a person, it gives us so much anxiety & draining, yeah trying these will be a Challenge for us. But I just want us to feel more stress free & less burdened by others, & we're doing it to ourselves. 😩
"hey is that the gun" "what?" "when you point at someone with a gun, they're more likely to give in to your commands" "ah, you got me, but how did you know?" "i fo-" *_BANG!_*
I hated how I learned this much later in life when I really needed this advice back then, I'd notice now that I was being used for my kindness before. Saying "no" more really helped me a lot in the long run, great advice
Ooh thanks for this vid!! 😊 My favorite bid is when it went like this: “Hey Gertrude!” “Hey josh!” Mind of josh: _Ugh I’m such a loser_ Mind of Gertrude: *He’s so scrumptious!*
Got a few more for you: No Not sorry Dont associate with disrespectful people Stop asking permission Stop seeking for approval Have your boundaries Stop smiling too much Say what you mean Be about your grind, don't be living off a lady
This is my problem of being too nice but yet i question myself why don't they also help me. It's actually hard for me to say "no" or deny any request for someone, classmate, friends..
Yess, thank youu!!! Finally!!! I've been asking people to give me advice on how to be less nice since its maladive at this point, but my dumb@ss of a ex BFF, keeps telling me that I'm good the way I am, that I shouldn't change and that I should stop thinking, like wtf?!! Is she gonna think for me that a$$hole?!!! Anyway, I've been trying not to say sorry every time, since seriously I literally apologise for being sick, like that's my fault lol??!! Imma try saying no more often I really need it, and you're definitely right about the people who disrespect me, I noticed I had no self respect, and it was shocking, I always put them before my own needs but not anymore. Thank you Josh!
I got good results from this way thank you man. I have been suffered from other people betraying me and got me so worked because I'm too nice now I'm okay after following your way for just one week
guys remember even if you want to be confident dont ever be too confident its gonna become a habit. remember always to be as polite as you can to your elders and family.
Like professor Jordan petersons if you are agreeable person try to negotiate more for what you want and advocate your needs. The same goes for if you are disagreeable person try to do something for others.
Trying to be bad or trying to be someone we're not, changing ourselves superficially for another person or the prefered sex, is like putting on a mask, being toxic and inauthentic. Im a nice guy and i treat women nice, because that is me. If i were born a bad guy, maybe i would have a different life, but i learn to appreciate myself the way I am. So I encourage you to be nice or whatever way you are. The right person will appreciate you in the way you are, after you appreciate yourself the way you are. All this "Don't be too nice to women." is false indoctrination to hurt women. Please dont. You are only weak if you hurt others and not strong.
Oh, I needed this message about 55 years ago, but I'd get beaten some more if I told psycho mother 'no, quit hurting me'. Which is also why, even as an old lady, I am always saying sorry to people (trying to keep any unexpected rages from happening?). But, I am trying to get better at this, as you are absolutely right.
I stop myself from being too nice has only one way: 1. Buy a drink that's a box thingy 2. Sit down and cross your legs 3. Lean to the front, put your elbow on you knee 4. keep a cool and calm expression 5. Drink the drink 6. Done! My friend said I look charmistic and I look cool after seeing me do that lol Hope this helps!
What is your favorite color?
Red. Always red :) Although I never wear it for some reason
Green
Blue
yellow
Wait, that was smooth. you commented a question too get more replies causing UA-cam to recommend this!
"Hello son"
"You're a killer"
"You're right, but how'd you know?"
"I follow Josh Otusanya, mwuaha."
LMFAO
Lol
*Mwehaha
That was smooth by the way!
@@lqpop Explain yourself
"Don't say sorry for 24 hours"
Canadians: *sweating*
😂
It's physically impossible for a Canadian to not say sorry.
I can't go a day without saying sorry sorry for wasting your time
There's even a low if I am right, that prohibits saying sorry.
Saying sorry for saying sorry too much 🤣
"Hey dad"
"Isn't that Josh Otusanya?"
"Yes, but how'd y'know?"
"I follow Josh Otusanya mwahah"
Hey Reiner, have you proposed to historia yet?
I did that to my mom
You are such a sympathic guy! Really appreciate your tips. You helped me very often to get a better charisma! You are great!
Thank you for the kind words! Happy to be of assistance
@@JoshuaOtusanya if the person has more knowledge like better grades than you but disrespects you from time to time without apologizing
Then what would you recommend in this situation.
Me saying no to my Asian parents : Intense sweating 💀
Africans can relate
@@Lord_SubmissiveYes
But why to your parents tho
Just respect this simple rule:
"If he is nice to you, be nice to him"
Why does no one respect this rule
fr💯
what if he also thinks that way, then no one tales the inniciative
@@_b4ne I'd always take the initiative, if in three days it doesn't progress to be better I'd stop being nice and do just like the guy did to me.
I dont have a problem with always Bing a yes person as long as that person on the opposite side of her gate is nice as well even hen it comes to strangers.
My husband and I are too nice, he says Sorry all the time in the grocery store just walking by a person, it gives us so much anxiety & draining, yeah trying these will be a Challenge for us. But I just want us to feel more stress free & less burdened by others, & we're doing it to ourselves. 😩
Another video that describes what i do wrong. Thanks lad for helping me and other people to get better.
No problem at all my friend
"hey is that the gun"
"what?"
"when you point at someone with a gun, they're more likely to give in to your commands"
"ah, you got me, but how did you know?"
"i fo-"
*_BANG!_*
O-O
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Me, a people pleaser: “impossible”
I hated how I learned this much later in life when I really needed this advice back then, I'd notice now that I was being used for my kindness before. Saying "no" more really helped me a lot in the long run, great advice
“Start saying no more often”
“No”
“Wait, that’s illegal”
This man's whole channel really be helping people way more then their own parents
Thanks but i love being nice, it make me feel calm
Channels as informative & smart as yours are really hard to find these days. Appreciate you content sir.
Thank you so much 🙏🏿
"Start staying no more often."
Me: "No."
Your cackle makes me truly ALIVE
"U hit my son son of a bitc"
"It was an accident im s-(remembers
this video) im so happy about it"
*Rams somebody with a bike*
“Hey what the hell man?!”
“No”
It rly helped me a lot... Thnks Josh...
alternate title: how to lose all your friends in one day
I approve
Get better friends then.
This clip is a life saver for me. Thanks @Josh Otusanya
Heh-
The first one I ain’t even gonna try, I’d fail at it in 3 hours-
Gives helpful advice makes me smile with the best laugh ever
The real question is the physchology Behind that outro laugh
Lmaooooo
I really need more of this
Hey how are josh
I have a question
Can you make a video about how to make people take you more seriously
Idk why but people feel like I am a joke 😔
Added to the list :) Excellent suggestion!
@@JoshuaOtusanya thanks man :)
This man really tryna convince me into thinking I’m too nice.
Ooh thanks for this vid!! 😊
My favorite bid is when it went like this:
“Hey Gertrude!”
“Hey josh!”
Mind of josh: _Ugh I’m such a loser_
Mind of Gertrude: *He’s so scrumptious!*
I hate how agreeable I am...but I've been learning how to make myself more decisive and assertive.
“Congrats to everyone who is early and who found this comment”
hi
You are a legend
Stop farming subs by commenting on every video.
Simplest rule: have boundaries. Respect your personal space and time. That’s it. That’s literally it
his laugh is everything :)
Yeah I needed this
Man thank you make my Day better
Got a few more for you:
No
Not sorry
Dont associate with disrespectful people
Stop asking permission
Stop seeking for approval
Have your boundaries
Stop smiling too much
Say what you mean
Be about your grind, don't be living off a lady
I really love the way you laugh Josh Otusanya 🤣🤣. Thank you
Thanks Josh, you really do helped me a lot with your tips... Thanks man
Thank u soo much I really needed videos on this topic/content
This is my problem of being too nice but yet i question myself why don't they also help me. It's actually hard for me to say "no" or deny any request for someone, classmate, friends..
The laugh. Is iconic!
Yess, thank youu!!! Finally!!!
I've been asking people to give me advice on how to be less nice since its maladive at this point, but my dumb@ss of a ex BFF, keeps telling me that I'm good the way I am, that I shouldn't change and that I should stop thinking, like wtf?!!
Is she gonna think for me that a$$hole?!!!
Anyway, I've been trying not to say sorry every time, since seriously I literally apologise for being sick, like that's my fault lol??!!
Imma try saying no more often I really need it, and you're definitely right about the people who disrespect me, I noticed I had no self respect, and it was shocking, I always put them before my own needs but not anymore.
Thank you Josh!
Thank you! I needed that!
Watching this man i get confidence
you see that laugh at the end, that why I love you 💖
As a very nice person packed with positivity, I approve this is true.
I got good results from this way
thank you man. I have been suffered from other people betraying me and got me so worked because I'm too nice now I'm okay after following your way for just one week
Me, a Canadian: the first one might be tough 😂😂
The laugh at the end😂😂 i wasn't waiting for it
The laugh all ways gets me lol
"I blocked you" is a complete sentence.
Thanks I needed this
You have no idea how helpful you have been
"Say no, more often"
Me when someone breathes: "no u"
these few seconds will probably change my life
Your laugh at the end of your videos us always my favorite part :)
Have a good day
Thank you. You too!
Great videos Josh
Thank you so much!
That laugh always gets me
“Try to go a whole day without saying sorry”
Canadians: “wait that’s possible?” 💀💀
I dont know your time zone.. But to me its perfect timing..as I wake up to your videos!!!
Amazing! That's great to hear
I love the laugh at the end🤩🤩
That laugh at the end! LOL
Ty!!
Thank u for the tips😁
guys remember even if you want to be confident dont ever be too confident its gonna become a habit. remember always to be as polite as you can to your elders and family.
4. Do an evil laugh after any joke.
Mwuuahaha 😂
I needed this man god thank you
Thank you so much sir 😊 I found thsi useful
* Stop "paying for compliments." You don't owe anyone anything for being nice to you.
my dumbass:
"should this statement be provoked as a forfeit-based victory?"
I really needed this video.
Like professor Jordan petersons if you are agreeable person try to negotiate more for what you want and advocate your needs. The same goes for if you are disagreeable person try to do something for others.
*I started saying "no" more often to ppl and I found those "no's" coming back from ppl*
"Why Do You Never Say Sorry?"
"Because I Followed Josh Otusanya"
**starts the laugh**
Thank you I need this
I challenged myself awhile ago to not say sorry for as long as possible..
It was a big McSteak, because apparently now I think apologizing is pathetic
Thank you!
I really really needed to hear this Josh
Trying to be bad or trying to be someone we're not, changing ourselves superficially for another person or the prefered sex, is like putting on a mask, being toxic and inauthentic. Im a nice guy and i treat women nice, because that is me. If i were born a bad guy, maybe i would have a different life, but i learn to appreciate myself the way I am. So I encourage you to be nice or whatever way you are. The right person will appreciate you in the way you are, after you appreciate yourself the way you are. All this "Don't be too nice to women." is false indoctrination to hurt women. Please dont. You are only weak if you hurt others and not strong.
A person told me he's choking today and he asked me to help him, I said no, this shit works, thanks josh
The problem is when the people who don't respect you and exploit you are in your family.
I say sorry in like every sentence and I say yes to everything I can because I feel bad
You are about to win the award Josh.
I Just know it.
I say sorry when I am unable to hear anything and I hear too loud so it's kinda difficult for me 😂
"Go threw a day without saying sorry"
Me:starts to sweat
"Did you kill that person?"
"No"
"Are you sorry?"
"No, I'm not blorry."
Oh, I needed this message about 55 years ago, but I'd get beaten some more if I told psycho mother 'no, quit hurting me'. Which is also why, even as an old lady, I am always saying sorry to people (trying to keep any unexpected rages from happening?). But, I am trying to get better at this, as you are absolutely right.
that waluigi laugh tho lmao
I say sorry for things that are out of my control and my friend has to remind me about that sometimes
Dont say sorry for 24hrs
Canadians:
*am I a joke to you*
Me who doesn't do any of these: my goals are beyond your understanding
You helped me a lot with ur vids, you just earned another subscriber :D
How to treat a person that has talked shit behind your back and you know it, but he/she doesn’t know it?
I love your laugh man
Exacly what i needed
When someone asks me how I am I'll just tell them NO... and then I'll be labeled as having a lack of confidence...
I stop myself from being too nice has only one way:
1. Buy a drink that's a box thingy
2. Sit down and cross your legs
3. Lean to the front, put your elbow on you knee
4. keep a cool and calm expression
5. Drink the drink
6. Done!
My friend said I look charmistic and I look cool after seeing me do that lol
Hope this helps!
I needed this im to nice for my own good
Fr
All these points are excellent especially for women!!!