How to Stop Being TOO Nice | 10 Easy Changes! | Nice Girls Finish Last Pt 2

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  • @jeweloholic
    @jeweloholic 8 місяців тому +111

    A giver has to have boundaries because a taker never does.

    • @octaviashane_
      @octaviashane_ 3 місяці тому

      Comment of the year!!!!❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Zvwry
    @Zvwry Рік тому +235

    My friend did something slimy to me once and I was so hurt, I told her I always put her first and look out for her and think about her and she hit me with the “I never asked you to do that” now I’m on this video.

    • @EbonyKASMR
      @EbonyKASMR 11 місяців тому +61

      She’s not your friend.

    • @lilyofthelabyrinth
      @lilyofthelabyrinth 10 місяців тому +28

      here from my spouse doing the same thing. People like that don't deserve our time

    • @SinhaShambhawi
      @SinhaShambhawi 9 місяців тому +17

      Stop doing things for her and making her your priority. She'll realize and if not her loss.

    • @HumbleBeauty679
      @HumbleBeauty679 8 місяців тому +6

      Damn that's messed up. Yea she is NOT your friend. God will bless you with true friends

    • @Subplaylist1111
      @Subplaylist1111 8 місяців тому +3

      She’ll realize how such a great friend you were. She’s down bad for saying something like that bc friends and family need each other.

  • @theonistar5077
    @theonistar5077 Рік тому +150

    It's not about rejecting anyone.
    It's all about choosing yourself.

  • @gemglosoneats
    @gemglosoneats Рік тому +187

    "My behavior is not a rejection of you, it's preservation of myself. " love this quote ❤❤

  • @crumbs22
    @crumbs22 Рік тому +186

    7:45 “be the person that people want to be picked by instead of the one hoping and praying to be picked” A WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lillierose5304
    @lillierose5304 4 місяці тому +22

    I smile too much at people! Sometimes they don't even smile back. I also laugh when I don't even think they're funny, just to validate them. I need to stop this.

    • @Angie.GiGi.Ari.86
      @Angie.GiGi.Ari.86 Місяць тому +1

      Selfreflection and being honest with ourself is powerful. I am glad you admit to doing that, most people don't, not even in comments.

  • @jesspk9515
    @jesspk9515 Рік тому +154

    I used to be nice to my parents but now I am actively trying to be kind. I think that the difference between being nice and being kind is that kindness comes from the heart and niceness usually comes from another emotion like responsibility. As a child I tried to please my parents because they were my parents so I thought I had to be their perfect child so I did things like get good grades or avoid any conflicts. Now I try to do things like make them a card or a sticky note with carefully thought out words to encourage them and to give them complements throughout the day, not because they are my parents but because I love my parents.

    • @crolleserre8382
      @crolleserre8382 Рік тому +10

      Thank you for your comment. I agree with you « kindness comes from the heart and niceness comes from another emotion »

    • @joanstacyyy
      @joanstacyyy Рік тому +8

      I love this comment. I'm also struggling with being a kind child instead of being a nice perfectionist child

    • @career5690
      @career5690 Рік тому +1

      Nicely said

    • @purpleviolet9046
      @purpleviolet9046 Рік тому +1

      Learning this now

    • @SaidaAbdulaziiz
      @SaidaAbdulaziiz Рік тому

      How amazing ❤

  • @bettyausten9533
    @bettyausten9533 11 місяців тому +19

    I dated a guy who always made me feel I needed to do more to keep him and I did ....most times he tells it to my face that I wasn't up to the kind of girls he dated in the past, he always made me feel so little and ugly about myself. I was just too deep to leave...I ended up leaving him after 5 years of relationship but it was so hard.
    Thank you so much for these videos ❤they are really helping me alot.

  • @avenriamorivalitorre
    @avenriamorivalitorre Рік тому +28

    Being nice is doing what other people want you to. Being kind is doing what’s best for other people

  • @user-xk6xt1gp5s
    @user-xk6xt1gp5s Рік тому +113

    This video is perfect for me! I’ve been thinking lately that I’ve been way too nice when most of the time people don’t reciprocate the energy to me. I love being a nice person, but i’m tired of being afraid to say no or stand up for myself and get stepped on.

  • @ShesaDiva822
    @ShesaDiva822 Рік тому +56

    Another great post. I am innately nice person. It’s just how I’m wired. I’ve had to learn the hard way that people love to mistake “kindness” for “weakness”. And more than once people have had to find out that I’m not the one. Setting boundaries is a wonderful thing for your mental health and I’m glad you’ve touched on it. When talking about borrowing money, I thought of my husband who has stopped giving money to people on more than one occasion. He’ll send a screenshot of the last time they asked him for money and politely tell them, he can’t do it because they never paid him back from the last time, and goes on with his day. 😂

  • @jccn1728
    @jccn1728 Рік тому +18

    I need to work on my friendliness. Everyone is not my friend especially men. As a married woman, I’ve let this boundary be too loose

    • @shayduncan8324
      @shayduncan8324 8 місяців тому +4

      I'm struggling with the same thing too,

  • @kimadiggs237
    @kimadiggs237 Рік тому +15

    “When you put yourself first, you’re not depending on the help or reciprocation of others. If someone ends up being a disappointment ( didn’t reciprocate the sacrifices you made for him/her), at least you already did what you need to do for you. 😢😢😢😢😢“ Some of us, if not most, didn’t understand this concept far too long. Because of that we are being slapped in the face; we have had a rude awakening! But thank God the awareness keeps getting stronger. Now we have the choice to be kind to ourselves.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @annieganim1057
    @annieganim1057 9 місяців тому +5

    This is some of the most insightful wisdom I’ve ever heard. I’ve been called “too nice” since I was a kid and it’s followed me into adulthood. Your insight is a gift. What is life if you’re not able to turn painful experiences into something purposeful? You did that and your words resonate with me. I don’t know your story but I thank you for your vulnerability, wisdom, and loving heart.

  • @cherissewilliams8748
    @cherissewilliams8748 Рік тому +71

    While I don't consider myself overly nice, this was great advice for not being taken advantage of while still being a nice person. I loved the parts about changing relationships gradually and being willing to flip the switch! I'm looking forward to hearing more about the ben franklin effect and setting boundaries! Thanks, sis! Always learning here❤❤

  • @Solov_d444
    @Solov_d444 Рік тому +7

    My behavior isn’t a rejection of u but protection of myself ❤

  • @moniquejohnson59
    @moniquejohnson59 Рік тому +20

    That part about change being gradual - that's EVERYTHING. So realistic! Yes to a boundaries video.

  • @trulybianca
    @trulybianca Рік тому +158

    This my favorite channel 💓💗💓💗

    • @Lindamorena
      @Lindamorena Рік тому +5

      Yes girl me too

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 Рік тому +3

      Our favorite channel 💕🩷💗

    • @bintokiria5338
      @bintokiria5338 Рік тому +7

      Me too..She is the reason am leveling up in my femininity and career .
      Am growing to love myself more every day and supporting other ladies around me too ❤❤

    • @tiashadae1143
      @tiashadae1143 Рік тому +3

      Def one of my faves as well 😃

    • @ucy8057
      @ucy8057 Рік тому +2

      Mine tooooooo 🎉❤

  • @lenoralovell3761
    @lenoralovell3761 11 місяців тому +10

    You have no idea what youvideos have been doing for my life. I gotta thank you. You cover such basic topics but so vital and essential. I have so much childhood trauma that has made my self esteem and confidence so low, also I had a stroke in 2015 so these videos have literally helped my progress and process mentally and physically grow and become human again. I thank you so much sis. You are truly a blessing 🥰

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  11 місяців тому +1

      I'm so glad I can help, love! Cheers to continued health and continuing to become the absolute best version of yourself 🥂💕

  • @angelmd43
    @angelmd43 11 місяців тому +3

    You have the definition of nice and kind perfectly! My son thinks I am mean or hateful because I don't agree with him more times than not but when he is hurting I am there for him. God bless you!!

  • @ernasheree01
    @ernasheree01 Рік тому +24

    I appreciate this video. So much advice currently about boundaries is about how to be closed, how to cut people off, protecting your peace only. But I love that you also talk about ways that we can be kind and remain open, because some of us do really enjoy it. And so much practical advice, it’s much appreciated. I hope you had a great day 😊

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack Рік тому +6

    I LOVE the saying: "hitting the switch." Yasss. Definitely adding this to my vernacular!

  • @karmen977
    @karmen977 Рік тому +8

    Yes please, boundaries.. That's my biggest issue. Thank you to the moon and back for your excellent advices in all your content. They are perfect not only for young women but also for us women over 50, whom learning now to live for ourselves since we where thought to live first for our family. Send you much gratitude and love dear sister 🫶🫶

  • @clipsbycoko
    @clipsbycoko Рік тому +8

    You are literally a blessing to women and I’m so glad that I found your content. Keep it up sis, I’m rooting for you❤❤❤

  • @mikaelalopez4173
    @mikaelalopez4173 Рік тому +10

    Please do a video on boundaries and how to be assertive in a kind way ( with out being angry )! Thank you love your videos❤.

  • @devildiamond68
    @devildiamond68 Рік тому +7

    It's about self-respect and confidence. Thanks for sharing this with the ladies, darling ❤

  • @jasevelyn4864
    @jasevelyn4864 Рік тому +17

    Love this video! I feel like the collective is learning how to implement boundaries, me included

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому

      Glad you enjoyed it, love! I totally agree. We are learning _and_ applying 💕

  • @kittinn7957
    @kittinn7957 Рік тому +9

    Boundaries!!! I'm so fortunate to have found your channel. You have been such an incredible force of deep change in my life ❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому

      Wow! I'm so happy you're here and so happy I can help, darling 💕

  • @lexiewalters6866
    @lexiewalters6866 Рік тому +52

    Thank you for breaking this down, being the “nice girl” can be so exhausting because you’re not being authentically yourself, and honoring what you want. It’s a constant thing where you’re putting other people before you, which can lead to resentment and frustration. I’m still learning to work through this. It’s a process but I know I’ll get through it. Thank you for providing so much valuable content to us ! 🤍

  • @Silversiren-d1b
    @Silversiren-d1b Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this video. The difference between being too nice and being kind is important to recognize. Being too nice can lead to people taking advantage of your kindness. Kindness, on the other hand, is more selfless and involves understanding the other person's needs and providing support in a respectful way. Kindness is also less likely to be taken advantage of and can help build strong relationships. Being too nice often comes from a place of wanting to please others and gain their approval, while kindness is more about being genuinely caring and understanding. Being too nice can lead to people expecting too much from you and can often be seen as insincere, while kindness is more likely to be appreciated and reciprocated. Kindness is a two-way street and can lead to greater trust and understanding between people, something that being too nice often fails to achieve. However, there are also benefits to being too nice. For example, people who are too nice are often seen as more trustworthy and reliable. Additionally, being too nice can sometimes defuse difficult situations and help to build bridges between people. As Socrates once said: “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

  • @ginab5070
    @ginab5070 Рік тому +1

    Wow this is awesome
    I just learnt how to choose myself first and give the treat to myself first before attending to others.....at a point I felt, this was actually for me cos I have lived my life trying to always please people instead of myself and get myself hurt and frustrated most times...thank you for this inspiration

  • @sholaaare8641
    @sholaaare8641 Рік тому +5

    Starting my self love journey and this will always be my daily video to keep me in check🌹❤️ thank you

  • @Firefly-ht9fp
    @Firefly-ht9fp Рік тому +11

    Yes, I was too nice and trusting, and that deceitful man betrayed my trust. And, I have to take some blame, because I did not set boundaries when dealing with this vapid individual. My fault, I caused this!

    • @deenadream
      @deenadream 8 місяців тому +2

      You didnt cause it. He did. Stop blaming yourself

    • @Firefly-ht9fp
      @Firefly-ht9fp 8 місяців тому +4

      @@deenadream - Thank you for your kind words. It took a very long time for me to move on, but I have finally stopped blaming myself for an evil person wrongdoing. I feel happy now and I made peace with myself. No way, am I ever letting that jerk back in!

  • @adventuresblissconnection4198
    @adventuresblissconnection4198 Рік тому +3

    I re/listen to your videos multiple times in a week. They are simple, sometimes chin-checking, and very applicable. Thank you. Keep doing what you’re doing!

  • @rachel28514
    @rachel28514 4 місяці тому +1

    I can literally like the videos before I even have watched it, this content is so consistently good!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  4 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad the content is steadily useful for you, Rachel! Happy to have you here 😊

  • @Daisy_518
    @Daisy_518 Рік тому +3

    BOUNDARIES.
    Yes we need a video on building and reinforcing boundaries. I would also like to take this opportunity to thank you for giving such wise advice. Your videos are a tremendous help. Keep up the good work.

  • @finestgrowth
    @finestgrowth Рік тому +3

    My favorite part of the video is the nice vs kind part. I always say being nice & kind are not the same thing. Being kind means having boundaries you won't let people cross & being nice is like being a walking mat letting people walk all over you.

  • @istudysuccess
    @istudysuccess Рік тому +8

    Thank you for this, Sis! ❤
    As always, this video is beautiful and impactful.
    Personally, I have been transitioning from nice to kind and setting boundaries as a goal this year. It’s been very different, but I appreciate the peace I am experiencing. 🌺

  • @felicefinesse7621
    @felicefinesse7621 Рік тому +2

    I do agree that being overly nice is bad. I try to keep a fine line between nice and too nice in my day to day. You spoke the absolute truth on a lot of points. I’ll try to keep them in mind when I am placed in situation where a coworker is trying to take advantage of my kindness. Thank you for another post. I’ll be waiting for the next one. ❤

  • @charmaine920
    @charmaine920 Рік тому +5

    I can’t express how much I adore your channel, and all the realistic and helpful advise you give. It’s really refreshing! Thank you❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому

      You are so welcome, love! I appreciate this heartfelt comment 😘

  • @barbarahJ.
    @barbarahJ. Рік тому +5

    As always very good advice. One of the points that is most difficult for me is learning to receive and give thanks (I tend to think that I don't deserve it or that it's too much) but I'm working on it. Thanks for the video💖

  • @AngelekaL
    @AngelekaL 4 місяці тому

    I am always told how nice and kind I am, I think learning boundaries keeps me that way ❤

  • @antisocial_socialite
    @antisocial_socialite 9 місяців тому +4

    Someone got into the habit of asking me for money...I had to hit that switch real quick lol.

  • @soundbiteswithBlessie
    @soundbiteswithBlessie 5 місяців тому

    I like how you have broken down each of these steps with carious videos. Thank you so much. You have had a true impact in my life.

  • @drea0795
    @drea0795 Рік тому +5

    This is phenomenal-so well done!!! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    I’ve improved so much over the years in this area, but I’ve found myself regressing a bit lately, so this was so relevant, timely, and skillfully informative-as ALWAYS!! Thank you again for your service/ministry. 🙏🏾

  • @JessicaMorsman
    @JessicaMorsman 10 місяців тому

    I loved what you had to say. I have helped many people over the years. Usually only one way. What you said and how you said it hit home. It took this old lady over 50 years to figure that out. I agree with givers have to set boundaries because takers do not have any. Keep up the good work and I look forward to listening to the rest of these. You have a lot of wisdom. Thank you for sharing.

  • @slayfaee
    @slayfaee Рік тому +5

    This is life saving, thank you so much for this!

  • @JULIETNAKANGU-mb5zs
    @JULIETNAKANGU-mb5zs Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much ….you inspire me so much and I have made a lot of changes in my life ….This feminine journey is really the best….I love you❤❤❤

  • @lindaweedmark6025
    @lindaweedmark6025 Рік тому +7

    Boundaries please and thank you for today's video! 💗

  • @courtnayedgerton3009
    @courtnayedgerton3009 Рік тому +1

    I love this so much!! I am currently trying to stop being too nice so instead I was being cold which left a lot of people confused by my new behavior. Thank you for showing me what to do instead!!

  • @achieveandglow
    @achieveandglow Рік тому +1

    Thank you sooo much for the content!! Beautiful, simple and effective tips! Boundaries were nonexistent in my life, I was never taught to put me first. Thank you again!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому +1

      You're welcome, love! I'm so glad this was helpful. Without exaggeration, boundaries will seriously improve your relationship with yourself and others. As well as your quality of life. You've got this!

    • @achieveandglow
      @achieveandglow Рік тому

      @@TheFeminineUniverse thanks so much for the reply, I appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sharronandrews9260
    @sharronandrews9260 Рік тому +3

    Boundaries❤ I just love and appreciate your videos, from the time I found your channel, I have been able to look inward and start working on myself. You have helped me understand some of my personality traits and much more. Love your voice, love your channel💕

  • @kimadiggs237
    @kimadiggs237 Рік тому +5

    The one about working on being a woman that people want to be picked by, instead of hoping and praying to be the one to be picked really hit home! These tips are rare gems and can transform a woman from merely existing to living fully. God bless your endeavors 💎✊✊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @imternizamccartney3739
    @imternizamccartney3739 Рік тому +5

    BOUNDARIES

  • @lindsaypeek63
    @lindsaypeek63 Рік тому +2

    I really love love love your advice about being gradual and even offering suggestions and seeing how people react. This is def a feminine way to approach life

  • @TianaLadybug
    @TianaLadybug Рік тому +6

    I have a huge problem with accepting to the point I go to a nail spa where they offer margaritas and I’ll say no thank you instead of just taking it, I’m going to say yes next time

  • @epiccoconut5995
    @epiccoconut5995 Рік тому +2

    "My behavior is preservation of myself..." ....it took a LONG time to come to this conclusion. Once I applied it, "relationships" required boundaries. It's God first, then ME and you last. It's self respect.

  • @sunflowerbird8232
    @sunflowerbird8232 Рік тому +1

    This is hands down the best femininity channel. You're the best!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому +1

      You're so kind! I'm so happy you're here and benefitting from the content 💕

  • @fantasia243645
    @fantasia243645 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for all the editing, research and time that you havd put into making this awesomely actionable video. 💛 I greatly appreciate your polished work.

  • @esthercazeau6464
    @esthercazeau6464 Рік тому +2

    My favorite channel, thank you for helping us growing in this feminine journey.

  • @opulentgoddess
    @opulentgoddess Рік тому +5

    Another thing that could help, just because you do something for someone doesn't mean they owe you anything. So don't do something for someone expecting a favor in return.

    • @cynthiapereira8403
      @cynthiapereira8403 6 місяців тому +1

      They do owe you some gratitude if they asked for it.

  • @noirbeautyambassador
    @noirbeautyambassador Рік тому +7

    Boundaries! I want to know how to set them without having to go off... I usually give people several opportunities to but some people dont know when to stop and know when I mean it. my daughter believes that I am too nice, its just that I ignore plenty of things people do unless it will directly affect me or my children wellbeing... I really appreciate your advice.

  • @missfavoured
    @missfavoured Рік тому +2

    I have my own definition of ‘nice’ which focuses on having respect towards people, even if I don’t like them.

  • @kgalaletsoncube7507
    @kgalaletsoncube7507 Рік тому +2

    Boundaries
    I love this channel ❤

  • @elizabethstea
    @elizabethstea Рік тому +2

    Boundaries please! Another brilliant episode!

  • @i_strawberri_judi9225
    @i_strawberri_judi9225 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this. Very apt and succinct!

  • @Visual_Ministry1
    @Visual_Ministry1 Рік тому +1

    boundaries. I'm learning about boundaries.

  • @suzykeleher2484
    @suzykeleher2484 Рік тому

    I love the depth of the topic. Each and every episode !

  • @tymcrae486
    @tymcrae486 Рік тому +1

    Yes it has arrived getting comfy to soak this in

  • @adejareayobami1672
    @adejareayobami1672 Рік тому

    Nice to have you, I've checked for the umpteenth time, thanks for all you do, we love you!

  • @QueenAmour8888
    @QueenAmour8888 Рік тому +1

    Im happy to be your first viewer!!!!!❤❤❤❤ love you so much

  • @nakibirangosylvia8550
    @nakibirangosylvia8550 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for helping us safe guard our selves. I believe am the best version of me now Not a people pleaser.

  • @Subplaylist1111
    @Subplaylist1111 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for making this video, my cousin and her bf had gotten into a breakup and her bf kept blowing up my phone venting to me for support and help. My cousin also did the same thing. I keep getting used by people and I had to realize I’m letting it happen to myself bc I’m too kind.

  • @stwalker121
    @stwalker121 Рік тому

    Boundaries
    I love everything about your channel! Thank you so much for all you do!

  • @allyroberts9153
    @allyroberts9153 Рік тому

    I absolutely needed these videos! Thank you for making videos that are relatable, short and to the point 👍🏽👍🏽

  • @myrahouse2368
    @myrahouse2368 9 місяців тому

    BOUNDRIES are essential…
    Great information x

  • @missmeme5184
    @missmeme5184 Рік тому

    I stopped telling my kids to be nice, and I now tell them to be kind. It’s been a few months now, and I can see even my 3 year old now uses the word kind.

  • @alexb9022
    @alexb9022 Рік тому

    This is one of your best vids so far. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @tinakileo2781
    @tinakileo2781 Рік тому

    BOUNDARIES
    The excitement I get when I see your new uploads 🔥

  • @zalbilly7159
    @zalbilly7159 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this...I needed exactly this

  • @giamia.meditationen
    @giamia.meditationen Рік тому

    I love all your videos, thank you so much! It's the advice I never had and always needed. Also here for the boundarie video!

  • @ucy8057
    @ucy8057 Рік тому +1

    Boundaries! Thank you dearest 💓

  • @aysenur4867
    @aysenur4867 Рік тому +1

    Boundaries 🥰 A big thank you ⚘⚘

  • @TweetyMarie012
    @TweetyMarie012 Рік тому

    I really enjoy your channel. We definitely need that boundaries video. 💕💕💕

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Рік тому

      Boundaries video is up now! Glad you're enjoying the content love 💕💕

  • @halcyondays8945
    @halcyondays8945 Рік тому +2

    Boundaries. Thank you

  • @theona3726
    @theona3726 8 місяців тому

    I give up after my unplanned pregnancy 9 weeks but I am ready to accept that I put myself in this situation.

  • @happygilmore2778
    @happygilmore2778 Рік тому +3

    Boundaries!

  • @vmsmith35
    @vmsmith35 Рік тому +2

    Girl, when is your website gonna be ready. I need to know. The waiting is killing me.

  • @zoheret15
    @zoheret15 Рік тому

    Boundaries. Love this video as well. Always lots of simple yet helpful tips.

  • @henyaperez
    @henyaperez Рік тому +2

    BOUNDARIES!!!

  • @nicoleblake2700
    @nicoleblake2700 Рік тому +5

    Boundaries

  • @alannabennett8238
    @alannabennett8238 Рік тому +1

    Boundaries please! I love your channel.

  • @stacijones6108
    @stacijones6108 Рік тому

    I was waiting on this. Part 1 was great!❤Love it!!!❤️

  • @zothilemkhize8523
    @zothilemkhize8523 Рік тому +1

    Thank u sis, I've been waiting for this one so bad😊😊

  • @anniesanders3139
    @anniesanders3139 Рік тому +1

    Yes, could there be a segment on boundaries and when it’s necessary to block someone? ❤ BOUNDARIES

  • @christinaradford941
    @christinaradford941 11 місяців тому

    I'm very grateful for this positive opportunity to reinvent myself ❤❤❤

  • @VeronicaEstevez-zf6td
    @VeronicaEstevez-zf6td Рік тому

    Thank you ! Needed this 👑❤️🙏😊

  • @lalovelylenea
    @lalovelylenea Рік тому

    Thanks for the video, I always look forward to theses. (Boundaries 💗)

  • @TheTiscali1
    @TheTiscali1 Рік тому +2

    Being too nice attracts more takers than givers. Be
    selectively nice to people who you know don't take advantage those are the considerate and respectful people.

  • @FutureFendiFsnista
    @FutureFendiFsnista Рік тому

    These tips are great! Thank you so much!!!💛💛💛