Q+A | MEET THE BOYFRIEND: Asking Jordy Your Questions about Dating, Divorce, Long Distance + More

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  • Thank you for allowing me to introduce you to Jordy. I am so thankful to hopefully share this next chapter with you!
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  • @HarpreetSingh-id2eb
    @HarpreetSingh-id2eb Рік тому +425

    My favorite thing about this video is how HEALTHY and SOOO non-toxic his answers are. Very happy for you friend! (:

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Рік тому +10

      @@alliea8141 Oh wow, your answers don't indicate any problem with Jordy but they sure do indicate a problem with you. That is the most cynical and arrogant answer I have ever seen. You don't even know this man and you're assigning devious and manipulative motives to him, when he has never shown any signs of it that we have seen and yes, Michel is right, we're only seeing the merest hint of what Jordy as a person is like, but everyone around her loves him. Don't you think Michel's parents would see that and guard her from being around a toxic person like that? Put down your own baggage before you comment in a public forum would be my suggestion to you.

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Рік тому +4

      @@miapoe2501 So men are supposed to pay for everything and that doesn't make you beholden to them? Firstly, you've obviously never heard of the feminist movement and secondly, how did you forget that Jordy has paid for things on several occasions, or haven't you been watching the vlogs? Have you forgotten that Jordy has, in past videos, paid for Michel to do things so they could have remote dates and organised for meal deliveries for Michel when he was away from her? He also bought her the (very expensive) flowery top with the big bows that she had rented because she loved it so much? As far as I can see, he has only ever shown himself to be a super thoughtful, super caring amazing guy. I feel so sorry for the men in your life. You are obviously a taker who doesn't realise that every relationship has to be both ways. One sided never works.

    • @mackenziesmith3412
      @mackenziesmith3412 Рік тому +18

      @@marilynelliott3236 Look up covert narcissism and love bombing. He absolutely has shown signs and Michel should be very careful. Also I don't necessarily think her parents would notice. Many people aren't aware of mental health and more covert forms of manipulation, and her parents aren't mental health professionals/don't appear to have any strong knowledge of mental health in general. So I actually don't think her parents would necessarily know/pick up on this in the honeymoon phase, especially if they're more naive. He showed way too much interest too early. The gifts on the first date, $400 shirt just a couple months into dating for no special occasion (especially when he doesn't even have a particularly high income), watching her videos to study her before they started dating, talking on the phone with her for 8 hours at a time, struggling to come up with a real answer about what he likes about her, eating and drinking things around her that would be harmful for her to ingest and acting flippant about it (the coconut water and also several clearly non-gluten free items in the Hawaii vlog), watching her wedding video with her ex on his own months into the relationship, repeatedly talking about how "kind" he'll be to her because Brook wasn't (kind people don't have to announce or even think about intentionally being kind), not to mention how quickly their relationship progressed--that's not normal, and I could provide so many more examples. This looks way more like love bombing and manipulation to me than it does genuine affection, and anyone who isn't telling her to at least keep her guard a little bit up and be looking for red flags (which honestly anyone should be doing if they're only a few months into a relationship) is giving her terrible advice. He's a walking red flag and like Michel said, we haven't even seen most of it. What we've seen alone should make her veryyyy hesitant with him--I can't imagine how many more of these red flags there are that we haven't seen.

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Рік тому +7

      @@mackenziesmith3412 Wow, looks like I better watch out then, because my boyfriend and I did pretty much the same things Michel and Jordy are doing, because we were in a long distance relationship too. We're now five years in and getting married next year and I am over the moon because he is the man of my dreams and we are crazy about each other. I know what a narc is. My best friend has been going out with a narc for five years and they finally just broke up recently and the red flags were popping up everywhere with him. I do agree with you that narcs are problematic and not everybody can see them, but its the other things that narcs do that are the indicators. To me, Brook was more of a narc than Jordy. The undermining behaviour that slowly sucks your confidence away, the lies and manipulation, the gaslighting. Now that is a narc. And, her parents didn't like Brook, and let Michel know that, so they're not too naïve. We've all encountered them via the vids.. they seem like very thoughtful, deep thinking people to me. You only have to look at Michel herself. Watch some of the earlier videos and you can see how unhappy she was, because she really WAS with a narc then. Even when she was presenting a brave face and pretending everything was peachy keen, you could see it in her face. Her eyes were soooo sad. Now, she is glowing, she is confident, she is happy. You'll say, yes, because she's in the love bomb phase, but narcs don't keep that up.. that's just the hook to get you in. Jordy is not self absorbed or egotistical. He doesn't need all of the attention or for the adoration to be aimed at him, in fact he keeps on moving that focus back to her. If you asked a narc what do you do, he would NEVER answer, I'm just a guy and I date Michel". He would be singing his own praises to the hilt. He would never say something like, "If I do something wrong and I cause you pain then they can come at me because I would deserve it. " Narcs are more like, "It's your fault that they don't like me, because you haven't presented me properly". It's never them that's in the wrong, its you. Where do you see any of that in Jordy? Sometimes a kind man is just a kind man and I get the feeling Jordy is just a guy who really wears his heart on his sleeve. I thought his answers were very thoughtful and he is capable of great introspection.

    • @mackenziesmith3412
      @mackenziesmith3412 Рік тому +10

      @@marilynelliott3236 That's great, I'm very happy for you, congrats! I've been in two relationships with narcissists--one overt and one covert. They both started out the same way Michel's did, with tons of love bombing, and I was over the moon--that phase also lasted for quite a long time (longer than Michel has even known Jordy). People around me liked them at the time too. If you go back a long time ago, you can even see that at one point Brook love bombed Michel too. I also don't think her parents always disliked Brook, I believe they started to dislike him later into their marriage when he began to neglect her. But to be clear, I think Brook may be a narcissist as well, and I'm not saying that Jordy absolutely is one--of course not. I'm saying that this behavior is identical to love bombing and, although not every relationship that starts this way becomes toxic/abusive, many do. People with a history of abusive relationships (like Michel's with Brook) are also more likely to end up in another abusive relationship, so they should be especially vigilant for red flags. All I'm saying is that this behavior is not typical of an early relationship, but it is typical of narcissistic love bombing. Anyone experiencing this should be looking out for signs of narcissistic/toxic behaviors, but ESPECIALLY someone who has been in abusive relationships before. Narcissists begin relationships looking like the person of your dreams--they have idealized you and will do any and everything for you. This is until you reach the devaluing stage, which can happen days, weeks, months, or even years into a relationship (yes, the love bombing stage can and does last for years in some cases). That's when the gaslighting, putdowns, etc. begin--they don't happen at the start of the relationship. And no, your description of how a narcissist would respond is only accurate for overt narcissism (and even then, not necessarily). Covert narcissists actually commonly respond exactly the way Jordy did--by putting themselves down and minimizing themselves. It's typically a tactic to get compliments, other times it can be as a form of manipulation to appear humble. I don't think Jordy would be an overt narcissist, and to be honest, they're not as dangerous because their narcissism is pretty easy to spot. I think that, IF he is a narc, he would be a covert one. Covert narcs are very dangerous because their manipulation is very subtle, they often appear very kind and empathetic, etc. In fact, usually only people very close to covert narcs actually experience or see the abuse. And also because it's so subtle, many of the victims may not even realize it's happening--they often end up believing *they're* the ones at fault. I've spoken with people who were married for 20-30 years before realizing that their partner was a narc and was abusing them. I both have a degree in this and, like I said, was in long term relationships with people who had this illness. I know exactly what it looks like, which is why I'm concerned for Michel

  • @nessness_x
    @nessness_x Рік тому +127

    I love that his favorite thing about you ISN'T that you do his laundry... he seems very sweet and I'm glad you're with someone more aligned with who you are :)

  • @lursipienta
    @lursipienta Рік тому +207

    Through the years I watched all the videos with your ex and I noticed how you spent half the time complementing him and lifting him up and he never did that for you, that irritated me a lot! So just the fact that Jordy has such nice things to say about you lets me breath out finally and feel very hopeful and happy for you! I know you are nervous of our response and judgement and I get it, hope all the friends here have 0 judgment and can be just so happy for you :) I know I am

    • @christaberry3375
      @christaberry3375 Рік тому +11

      So much THIS!!! ✨️

    • @morningmom6
      @morningmom6 Рік тому +14

      Absolutely agree! I always thought she deserves so much more. My husband even said so! ❤️

    • @JP-nb2fv
      @JP-nb2fv Рік тому +5

      Yes!!!

    • @mylene_b
      @mylene_b Рік тому +23

      Yes and it irritated me when he ex said his favorite thing about Michel is coming home and seeing his laundry folded. Ugh. He made it sound like he got himself a maid.

    • @agees924
      @agees924 Рік тому +3

      Agree! In the several videos I have seen of the ex, he just seemed kind of distant and uninterested. Not very warm. Jordy’s conversation clicks so much better with her and it’s adorable.

  • @yasminegibbs-wilson3275
    @yasminegibbs-wilson3275 Рік тому +263

    Jordy is such a breath of fresh air for you. I know if we can see the kindness he shows, his intentionality and his genuine want to make you happy and are giddy for you, I can’t imagine how you must feel, feeling it. You deserve the absolute world, and it’s so awesome to be seeing this amazing relationship come to fruition. I feel like I’m watching a couple that has been together for years, as their younger selves…like looking at your parents as young adults. Enjoy this life God has so purposefully and wonderfully given you…it’s obvious he was saving Jordy for you and anyone before him was just a stepping stone to shape into who you are today, ready to fully receive the man so obviously made for you ❤️

  • @valeriehaviland7132
    @valeriehaviland7132 Рік тому +119

    The way he looks at you and just want to treat you so right with kindness! You deserve it! Sending all the good vibes two you both

  • @saratemp790
    @saratemp790 Рік тому +13

    He seems better than the last one, but that is not hard to beat.

  • @laurengruninger1215
    @laurengruninger1215 Рік тому +215

    I recently ended a relationship with my bf (we actually were in Hawaii a couple months ago too)and it'sbeen hard. Nothing horrible went wrong, I just never got that spark and knew we both deserved true love. When I watched this and saw they way you guys look at each other and interact I was reminded of what I look forward to having again one day :)

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  Рік тому +28

      Sending you big hugs and lots of love 🤍 so thankful for you!

    • @amyxu7221
      @amyxu7221 Рік тому +1

      I feel the same way. It's so good to see

  • @daisyzara
    @daisyzara Рік тому +173

    I loved the talk you had with us before sharing him because it shows how much you’ve grown in the last couple of months. I love the fact that you’re setting boundaries with us, which you definitely should. I love this for you!

  • @swagprincess5722
    @swagprincess5722 Рік тому +191

    I really don’t wanna make a judgement or criticism but I really do appreciate Jordy’s energy and how present in the moment he is. That is a good kind of person to have in your circle 😊 welcome Jordy!

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  Рік тому +13

      Thank you for this 🥰🥹

    • @swagprincess5722
      @swagprincess5722 Рік тому +8

      @@MichelJanse haha I consider Jordy one of my friends now! Is that weird? LOL

  • @KarrenKora
    @KarrenKora Рік тому +43

    this story that is your life has been a joy to witness, thank you

  • @bridgetdunn8065
    @bridgetdunn8065 Рік тому +2

    This was so sweet, thank you for sharing with us. I love to see you so happy!

  • @AK141415
    @AK141415 Рік тому

    Found your channel recently and love how you open yourself up to the community. I have binge watched ALL of your videos and your love and positivity is so wonderful! Thank you for being so vulnerable to us. Jordy is so welcome!! ❤️

  • @cheekyrosetexas4702
    @cheekyrosetexas4702 Рік тому +49

    I don't usually comment but my face hurts from smiling at how sweet and kind you both are!! Praying wonderful things for you both!!

  • @michelegriffin9093
    @michelegriffin9093 Рік тому +60

    I am so impressed with Jordy's thoughtfulness. The lovely gesture of gifting you a book for your birthday in contrast to your ex giving you a workout set in an Amazon box! TEAM JORDY!!!

  • @courtwestmoreland94
    @courtwestmoreland94 Рік тому +1

    So happy to see you happy! I don’t comment on your videos very often, but I’ve followed along since you’ve had about 15k subscribers. I found your channel when I was searching for wedding planning/DIY videos when I first got engaged almost 3 years ago. I happened to stumble across your channel and I have kept watching ever since! It’s amazing to see how much you’ve grown and changed over the last couple of years! I love watching your videos and look forward to many, many more! 💖

  • @asheleychae
    @asheleychae Рік тому

    I CANNOT WAIT FOR THIS ONE!! 🤍

  • @kaiw522
    @kaiw522 Рік тому +4

    Omg this is the energy I've always wanted for you Michel 💖 so darn happy for you!

  • @RulersxRocksx3
    @RulersxRocksx3 Рік тому +13

    He seems so fun and goofy!!! So happy for you Michel ❤️

  • @lanegonzales1
    @lanegonzales1 Рік тому

    I've only watched a couple of videos, enough to know some of the biggest trials you have been through, and it makes me very happy to see you so genuinely joyful with Jordy. This is exactly what your deserve and I hope you continue to experience those feeling indefinitely.

  • @Kayyyla90
    @Kayyyla90 Рік тому

    Thank you for doing this video and introducing us to Jordy!! He seems like such a nice guy and like he genuinely cares about you and is on the same page with how you want your relationship to be. I'm so glad you found each other and I wish you both nothing but the best!!

  • @sillyneedsbilly
    @sillyneedsbilly Рік тому +3

    Watching this with the biggest smile! Seeing everything you have been through it is so lovely how you have come through it and grown! You are an inspiration to your followers about what can happen when you get through the darkness life can throw at you

  • @connorsnana100
    @connorsnana100 Рік тому +3

    Ahhhhh!!! Sooooo sweet! I’m very happy for both of you. I’m one of your biggest cheerleaders guys. Be happy, enjoy each other, and remember God is blessing you with each other. I’ve been waiting for this video.. thanks for introducing Jordy and thanks Jordy for being here and so open with us. God bless you both.

  • @averymccall224
    @averymccall224 Рік тому +1

    You are so full of joy Michel!! I’m so happy to see how you’re growing through all of this!

  • @daniellebaker1918
    @daniellebaker1918 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this Michel - I truly hope that you experience joy and receive only kindness by sharing this part of your life with all of us. I love seeing such an important part of your life right now, and I think you two are just the cutest!

  • @kimwallace7114
    @kimwallace7114 Рік тому +59

    This warms my heart!!! I pray everyday my boys find a young lady like you one day! Y’all are darling…I’m loving you two together! Thank you for sharing this darling relationship with us! TEAM JORDY!!!

  • @maryanntownsend265
    @maryanntownsend265 Рік тому +28

    Your introduction before our meeting Gordy was so honest and real. Upward and onward and keep smiling. The best is yet to come💜

  • @valeriemoutinho5827
    @valeriemoutinho5827 Рік тому

    this just warmed my heart. i've been listening to jordy's music for just about as long as i've been watching your videos. you are both glowing and looking so happy, which just makes me incredibly happy and excited for you!

  • @laurastaples1315
    @laurastaples1315 Рік тому

    Y’all seem so genuinely happy. You deserve all the happiness and love. 💕

  • @insidewittsworld4620
    @insidewittsworld4620 Рік тому +4

    I LOVE this so much! I’m so glad to see you happy and the way you two look at each other is 😚👌 I hope to see Jordy more on the channel as time goes on. He is so well spoken and genuine. I can definitely see how you two connect! Sooo cute! I’m so happy for the both of you!

  • @aapril7939
    @aapril7939 Рік тому +15

    Soo happy for you Michel 💖 you deserve the best. love this for you

  • @stephanienicole8916
    @stephanienicole8916 Рік тому +2

    This was wonderful to watch. I'm so happy to see you happy Michel! You have been through a lot in the last year and to be blessed with a man who checks the important boxes the have been been neglected in the past is huge. Jordy, it was good to learn more about you. Treat our girl right! Which honesty, it seems you have already been doing well😊👏

  • @gorgiabanach7595
    @gorgiabanach7595 Рік тому

    Aw loved this video so much! Jordy seems like such a lovely and beautiful soul. He's so emotionally mature and intentional and we can tell how much care and love he has for you. Ahh so so happy for you lovely girl. Can't wait to continue to follow along with your journey in this new season of your life

  • @savannaward2868
    @savannaward2868 Рік тому +38

    So excited to watch this Michel!! You seem so happy with him and that makes me happy! Already know I’m gonna like him!

  • @lechelerenee4919
    @lechelerenee4919 Рік тому +12

    I’m so proud of you for setting healthy boundaries I can’t wait to see where life takes you! And Jordy!

  • @chrissylee325
    @chrissylee325 Рік тому +1

    So happy for you!! It’s great to see you so happy and with someone who clearly cares and makes an effort. I wish you both the best. Can’t wait to see what the future brings you ❤️🫶🏻

  • @wendyshoup8539
    @wendyshoup8539 Рік тому

    I actually love Jordy's music! I listened to it right away after you first mentioned him and I added him to my Playlist! He's fabulous! I also think the two of you are adorable together and so perfectly matched. He's going to be so good for you!

  • @vanessfiness
    @vanessfiness Рік тому +11

    I just randomly stumbled on your videos a few weeks ago and I love you and your channel! ❤️ Also I'm obsessed with your style, and love that you link everything!! Anywho, cheers to you and Jordy!!!❤️❤️

  • @LBELIZABETH96
    @LBELIZABETH96 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been a fan of Jordy’s for a while now and it makes me so happy to see you guys together!

  • @debbieohalloran8103
    @debbieohalloran8103 Рік тому

    It is soooooo good to see you so happy, Micale - the way you and Jordy interact, and the way you both smile tells it all! May this relation continue to blossom and grow, and may you give each other new found faith and hope in the future! Welcome to the family, Jordy - Glad to meet you!

  • @karsonbarclay
    @karsonbarclay Рік тому

    I'm truly happy to see you authentically happy and free. I have been watching your videos for years now and im proud and happy to see you living your life the way YOU want to.

  • @csparksfly3
    @csparksfly3 Рік тому +7

    So nice "meeting" Jordy! I've been watching you since the divorce and have been cheering you on ever since. I've really enjoyed watching your journey and makes me so happy to see you and Jordy together.

  • @ashliekuntz6410
    @ashliekuntz6410 Рік тому +3

    Okay I officially love Jordy! I love how he treats you and you look so happy🥰 thanks for letting us get to know him as well!

  • @elizabethjean5219
    @elizabethjean5219 Рік тому

    This video is fantastic. The true joy you bring to each other is evident. The way you both speak to each other and about each other is wonderful to see. You both deserve to be happy and it looks as though you have found that in each other ❤️ May your journey together be blessed!

  • @zoeydodge4345
    @zoeydodge4345 Рік тому

    The vibes between you two are amazing! You guys just seem to connect so naturally!🤍 so wonderful to see you being so happy and really becoming the Michel that we all love!!🤍 always advocate for yourself! Me and my husband advacate for ourselves everyday! Communication truly is key!!

  • @melissamcdonald7487
    @melissamcdonald7487 Рік тому +3

    He’s such a sweetheart! Totally won me over! So happy to see you so happy! ❤️

  • @lanyebarnick8410
    @lanyebarnick8410 Рік тому +8

    I was just sitting here with tears in my eyes so happy for you. I cannot wait for my son and hubby to come home so they can wait how cute you 2 are! We are all about it! Keep on keeping on girlfriend!!!!!! love ya!

  • @reganhurley77
    @reganhurley77 Рік тому +2

    He’s adorable and I loved seeing how relaxed y’all were. Michel, you’ve come along way and I’m truly happy for you both!

  • @embodiment_healingarts
    @embodiment_healingarts Рік тому +1

    I love the energy you both share! How beautiful to see you living more authentically and truly feeling more joy and love! So happy for you both 💕

  • @juliafriesen9577
    @juliafriesen9577 Рік тому +3

    Oh this is so great. I just love that he notices your 25 diff laughs. For him to even mention that alone is sweet. This makes me happy. It looks and feels like you guys have been together for longer than you have. This reminds me of my hubby and I and we have been together for 13 years :). We used to have friends that would say to us that we made them sick of how nice we were to each other. There's just a lot of kindness and truth and this makes me smile.

  • @whimsucrossing
    @whimsucrossing Рік тому +4

    When the two of you waved at the end together, it brought such a huge smile to my face! Love to see you happy. :)

  • @makenziebary4346
    @makenziebary4346 Рік тому +2

    This makes me so happy! I love how much the word “kind” was used! No drama just kindness! Congratulations 😊

  • @Sincerley_Jules
    @Sincerley_Jules Рік тому

    Omg Michel the smile on your face says it all. May God bless you two and be with you through this new season in your lives .

  • @cssquared3
    @cssquared3 Рік тому +12

    I just watched your introduction and paused to comment this. Only you know what’s best for you. I dated someone two months after my divorce was finalized. I posted a picture of him on my Facebook and someone commented “what happened to the one you married?” I knew then moving forward I would protect my peace at all costs. Her and her ignorant self were immediately blocked. You don’t owe anyone any kind of explanation for anything. You are VISIBLY over the moon and finally being treated how you deserve to be treated. If someone has anything negative to say about that, that speaks on their character. The real issues lies within those people and their sad lives. I’m proud of you for creating and implementing boundaries to protect what’s special to you.

  • @laurengibson3061
    @laurengibson3061 Рік тому +13

    I’m not crying you’re crying!!! This made my heart so happy. He seems lovely and you guys look so comfortable and happy!

  • @kaylaskaggs9241
    @kaylaskaggs9241 Рік тому

    I am so thankful for your openness to share your life online! It can be extremely vulnerable, but because of your honesty with everything in life, I feel like I know you like a close friend! Michel, I am so so happy for both you and Jordy! I have truly teared up out of joy for you and watching this season of your life unfold. Going from your honest video about the divorce to this - I cannot begin to explain how proud, encouraged, and simply happy for you that I am!! You are truly the most real person online I’ve come to know! 🤍✨ so happy to meet your sweet boyfriend!!

  • @savannahdwyer
    @savannahdwyer Рік тому +2

    He’s wonderful. Thanks for sharing. Can’t wait to see more of Jordy. 🤍

  • @hndeiw11248
    @hndeiw11248 Рік тому +4

    Happiness looks great on you, Michel. ♥️
    I’m praying for you both as you navigate this season of life.

  • @kimberlybauer3284
    @kimberlybauer3284 Рік тому +5

    Jordy is a DELIGHT. I love the lightness and ease between the two of you. Thank you for sharing with us!

  • @Goudie371
    @Goudie371 Рік тому

    This was so good and so sweet!! It’s nice to see you both enjoying each other’s company and just how wonderful this first relationship after your divorce is. He does seem to be so genuine and I love how you both react to each other. I’m just so happy for you both and hope things stay good for you as your future unfolds ❤️
    Wishing you both much happiness wherever this season of life takes you ❤️

  • @sugartub
    @sugartub Рік тому

    Michel, you are GLOWING!!! I'm so happy for you & Jordy♥ We love to see you loved, cherished, and cared for♥♥♥

  • @karenwyand7884
    @karenwyand7884 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for including us in your life. This was so well done. I think we can all see what you see in Jordy … a truly kind person. Two kind souls have found each other. Embrace it.

  • @MegaCj65
    @MegaCj65 Рік тому +3

    Awe..... I love the smiles! Happiness looks great on both of you. Congratulations and best wishes on a happy, healthy and successful relationship. I think Jordy's a keeper!

  • @laurat7324
    @laurat7324 Рік тому +1

    He seems mature and KIND! So happy for you both!

  • @carleyh8898
    @carleyh8898 Рік тому

    The way you look at each other speaks for itself. So much mutual respect. So happy for you!

  • @BrigitteCoffman
    @BrigitteCoffman Рік тому +11

    AWE---This was an "awe moment" for me! For others too, I am sure. I am typing this before reading other's comment. I love the relationship you two are having. Hopefully it continues, because it is so precious! Glad you introduced Jordy's music. It's very good. Most music I fall for, are songs introduced to me by others. So, I am grateful you shared it with us. Love your trips, and how you share them with us. Let's not compare Jordy with past relations. Because, you can't share this in comparison of your past. He is very uniquely a man full of Love and Joy! His last relationship lost a precious soulmate, for sure! Jordy, thank you, for sharing your current life with us. It's a Blessing getting to know you! Brigitte (age 66) in Tulsa Oklahoma who has watched Michel, way before Michel even dated....her past relation. Love you both, dearly!

  • @aliciaa7831
    @aliciaa7831 Рік тому +7

    Wow so fun to finally meet him!!! He seems great and you seem really good together and good for each other! I said it before and I'll say it again, you seem so much more at peace and so much more "real" in a way since you ended your last relationship. I'm happy for you!

  • @helenstratigos4862
    @helenstratigos4862 Рік тому

    Aw, I love you two together. Jordy seems like such a good soul - very honest, respectful, kind, open-hearted, and an intensely great listener. Very talented too. Take good care of each other. I wish you every happiness on this journey...! ❤

  • @WeLoveMrBlobby
    @WeLoveMrBlobby Рік тому

    You guys are ridiculously adorable and the way he talks about wanting to treat you well and make you happy warms my heart💕

  • @karenlozano3618
    @karenlozano3618 Рік тому +6

    Awww! Michel, he seems wonderful! My heart was so happy watching this video! I was smiling the whole time and almost shed tears of joy! I hope God blesses you both with infinite love and wisdom to be successful in all areas of your life. I love you! 💕

  • @lisadavall283
    @lisadavall283 Рік тому +7

    He's like a breath of fresh air! The way he looks at you is just adorable too! I'm so very happy for you and hope to see more of Jordy! Welcome to the "family"!

  • @valzin2012
    @valzin2012 Рік тому

    He is adorable!!! I’m so happy for you! I’m 55 and so struck by the wisdom you both articulated. I wish I had an opportunity to meet someone new online like you all so these days. That could have saved me so much grief!! You two make a not only beautiful couple but he’s so so sweet!!

  • @breealexander3924
    @breealexander3924 Рік тому +1

    Enjoyed seeing your genuine excitement about this relationship and being happy!

  • @bethschultz922
    @bethschultz922 Рік тому +3

    I’m so happy for you! He seems genuinely kind and thoughtful with the right motivations. I hope you continue to your instincts :). You have good sense!

  • @SD-cu6if
    @SD-cu6if Рік тому +7

    I discovered you from your divorce videos as I’m going through the exact same thing. It’s so reassuring to see that you’ve met someone like Jordy. He seems awesome I’m happy for you two!

  • @rollinggstonee
    @rollinggstonee Рік тому

    thank you for being such an amazing example to all the young girls out there and women in general. I’m 34 and learned a lot of things later on in life! i really do believe you will do amazing things for young girls in your lifetime. you already are! ♥️

  • @libbymorehouse4466
    @libbymorehouse4466 Рік тому

    He is so genuinely kind and that just is so evident. I'm so happy for both of you

  • @shelbitioli
    @shelbitioli Рік тому +8

    Oh my God. My insides are lit up for you. I didn't stop smiling. He is so affirming. What a good soul.

  • @sarahreavis2924
    @sarahreavis2924 Рік тому +11

    Oh my gosh, we LOVE him. He seems like such a great for you and a wonderful person in general ❤️

  • @that1kra-zteacher
    @that1kra-zteacher Рік тому +2

    I love seeing you so happy. This q & a was fantastic! Thank you for sharing your life with us! ❤️

  • @liliesofthefield5310
    @liliesofthefield5310 Рік тому +1

    I love this❤️
    the amount of respect and adoration he has for you is so heart-warming and pure, you guys both value each other in such a loving and beautiful way, it's wonderful ❤️

  • @caseycox10
    @caseycox10 Рік тому +18

    I love how he talks about you. Also, I think acts of service is a love language for you. It equates to being taken care of and someone being really kind and wanting to make your day better by helping. Congrats you two!

  • @SiMpLy_ThE_SmItHs
    @SiMpLy_ThE_SmItHs Рік тому +4

    One thing I’ve always appreciated about you is how candid you are. I respect and really love that about him as well! It’s very sweet

  • @msauve5316
    @msauve5316 Рік тому

    Loved this! Was great to hear a Q&A from you two! Looking forward to what the future holds for your relationship.

  • @meganvenegas7632
    @meganvenegas7632 Рік тому

    You look so happy and it's funny how things fall into your lap when unexpected. The eye contact shows the comfort level you have together! Thank you for sharing your life and wishing you both continued happiness!

  • @chrissiedcohen
    @chrissiedcohen Рік тому +7

    This was lovely, you are both lovely together & separately. Michel, your ease, comfort, & joy are apparent. Thank you, Jordy, for being the man she deserves, after the guy she was married to. As someone who has been a subscriber from many apartments ago, thank you for taking us along as you bloom!🌺

  • @katrinaruss8512
    @katrinaruss8512 Рік тому +5

    We love happy and in a healthy relationship Michel! He seems like such a great solid guy. He came off super well intentioned and authentic. Can’t wait for more content and what the future holds for MORDY

  • @zoeannyussman1590
    @zoeannyussman1590 Рік тому +1

    I love how happy you look! The way you both look at each other is sweet. Enjoy this time in your life!!

  • @rheacorrreya2579
    @rheacorrreya2579 Рік тому

    Love your videos ❤️ feels like a long distance big sister haha!! So good to see y'all happy, individually and together. There's so much kindness, patience and understanding in this relationship, it's so good to hear. Sending good vibes and energy to you guys ❤️

  • @marinamachado973
    @marinamachado973 Рік тому +13

    I absolutely love how he looks at you and how he recognizes you for who you are and your kindness. Also, he seems very intentional about you and it shows how much this means to you.
    I hope you two are very happy together and I wish you all the best, because you deserve it

  • @rachaelesque3
    @rachaelesque3 Рік тому +5

    You both look so effortless and happy in each others presence. So natural. I am absolutely thrilled for you and hopeful for myself after my divorce. Your videos have helped me to not become hardened or bitter. Thank you so very much. ❤️

  • @heytheredelilah5927
    @heytheredelilah5927 Рік тому +1

    I love how y’all validate where it’s needed, it’s very sweet and gentle. This is really cute

  • @heatherkelly2290
    @heatherkelly2290 Рік тому +1

    I love your introduction. I love seeing you so happy. I thinks it’s amazing how you live so open hearted. Continue on sweet girl!

  • @honeybluse
    @honeybluse Рік тому +8

    I work from home and immediately stopped everything to watch this video. 😂 You deserve to be happy and with someone who values you! ❤️

  • @corinneburque
    @corinneburque Рік тому +3

    Much love to you and Jordy. I wish you both continued happiness, joy, and lots of laughter.

  • @LA-yt5em
    @LA-yt5em Рік тому

    All the best to the both of you in this next chapter! Glad to see you so happy. Enjoy every moment.

  • @KelsiBlaser
    @KelsiBlaser Рік тому

    SO proud of you for setting that boundary!!! That's exactly what I'm working on right now too and it's so nice to see you growing in that way 💛

  • @prp6728
    @prp6728 Рік тому +6

    He is not shy! I love this for you and your continued growth. I honestly can only see positives here. He gives you space to grow while also being there for you. I also love how realistic and down to earth he is. So nice to see that!

  • @theresa9925
    @theresa9925 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing Jordy with us. Jordy...it was so nice to meet you. :) I love the way you enact with one another. I must admit, I was a little worried when you first started talking about him. However, now that you have both shared how you REALLY feel about each other...I am just happy for you both. Sending you hugs & love. Theresa from Florida

  • @emmalasky4217
    @emmalasky4217 Рік тому

    Jordy is so refreshing and you look incredibly happy and at peace.

  • @l0velyr0cknr0ll
    @l0velyr0cknr0ll Рік тому

    Micheeeeel! You look so happy and Jordy looks like such a kind soul. I am so happy for both of you and look forward to seeing more of your relationship in the future! ❤️