'Princess' Beats Up Boyfriend and Gets What She Deserves (satisfying)
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I loooove how she says she "JUST" graduated high school 3 years ago. Sooo, you are 21. A grown ass adult. Welcome to the consequences of your actions.
Come on man 🙄 She’s just a kid she just graduated from middle school 8 years ago 😭 …. Also yea I thought that 3 years out from high school was a crazy line 😂😂 like what does that even mean!
I think that was in reference to her ID being expired and not valid, you get a new ID at 21 as the 18 year old ID is different to denote no sale on tobacco and alcohol.
@@loganbaileysfunwithtrains606 cops can read. 🤷🏻♀️
Hahahahaha, yeah I thought the same thing too. “I just graduated high school…” Ok she gonna say a few weeks ago or last month “…3 years ago.” Pffffft! What!?!
Queue up the existential dread, realizing my last year of hs was in 2006 😂
That is not 'beat up by a girl' that's called 'being assaulted by a violent individual' that's possibly mentally unstable. That poor guy, I hope he finds someone better who appreciates him
Exactly!!!!!!! 😑 ugh.. that officer needs to be called in for more training dealing with male civilians.. probably females too. He’s obviously not very intelligent in the communication aspect, etc.
I agree. Yet a part of me wants to say all that poor guy is thinking is " so no mad sex later?" That is why he tried to intervene 😂
I guarantee he is not an upstanding citizen himself. If you would date a woman like that you have some issues....
A violent individual is not a description. He was assaulted by a white female in her early twenties dressed in…
So he was essentially beat up by a woman…
Yeah, that kinda viewpoint is exactly why men usually don't report DV by women. Also why women have way less inhibition to lay hands on their SO.
That man or cop, is the reason why men do not speak up when this happens. Leon is right, this man may not have ever reported this incident at all. That woman is straight-up crazy.
He would not have reported it because he is afraid of his girlfriend. He is not afraid that he will look bad or people will think he is a wuss. She is straight up a psychotic bitch and any normal person would be afraid of that thing turning on them.
The man had no real obligation to report it. He had every right to do it. The cop threatening him illegally is more the reason why people don't speak up. All that either of them had to say is that the marks are accidental and the cop legally would have had to let them go.
Leon is WRONG on this one. The guy was NOT committing a crime by not giving his name. And SO WHAT if the cops are going to find out his name anyway? It is not that man's responsibility to help the police in their investigation.
He knew if he said anything, they would automatically assume he was the abuser and arrest him. Especially since most women will lie and play the victim in that situation and the system always believes them. As a man youre guilty until proven innocent, which is extremely difficult without having recorded evidence. Even then its still hard, not to mention time consuming and expensive. Then afterward they still have to clear their name to all their peers, family and friends. False abuse accusation on men are far more prevalent than most people know bc it goes undocumented and there is no system in law enforcement to record statistics for female on male abuse.
@justaskin8523 as the victim, it actually is his responsibility.
I was put in the hospital by a woman. My ex jumped me outside of my gym, broke my foot, and sent me to the ER. I'm a 6'5, 230lb man, and I chose not to fight back. Violence happens to everybody.
Did she rape you?
If you had defended yourself you could have been arrested as the abuser. Men can't break even, much less win, no matter what they do.
@@shannonp1656What makes you say that? Aren't you a woman?
Have you noticed how every single one of these completely insane people demand their mommy when they are met with real-life consequences?
As a mother, I find that insulting. I have raised my children to know how to behave and there is no chance they would whine to me about consequences.
@heianwoman You've done a good job, then. I question what these people were taught that makes them think demanding their mother will have an effect.
My Mom and dad are the last people I want to see if I get arrested. I'm much more afraid of them then anything the state can do.
@@heianwomanOk? If you raised your kids right then they aren’t talking about you…
@@dolorousjohn5499my mom would call my dad and I’d ask the officer if he could just take me to prison until my dad dies😂
Speaking from experience : dude was probably scared he’d be the one arrested for the situation
The man being arrested happens far too often .
Lol even though they knew he was the victim they still threatened to arrest him within 30 seconds anyway. Even after they confirmed that he was the reported as the victim.. scumbag police just make every situation worse.
Yeah this specific officer is a fine example of a scumbag.@@xEvilNeverDiesx
@@xEvilNeverDiesx What a terrible read of the situation, they didnt threaten him once, and yes its a crime to not identify yourself with a crime reported and matched description, how do you not know this by now? Yeah they confirmed that he was the alleged victim, yet they havent made contact with the female yet.
They both should have said that they were just having rough sex earlier and they had no idea what fight anyone was talking about.
@@0nlyRemainingremember the Nuremberg trials? “Just following orders” is the bitch of all bitch excuses
Can we PLEASE normalise that men also get violated by women. Protect mens mental and physical health ❤
agreed but stop normalizing the word normalize
Amen
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probably got beat up by some chick...
Right? Wth
That cop was infuriating. The guy said it all "I dont want to be a victim". We need to normalize men reporting women for abuse.
this cop emasculated him on top of being emasculated by his girlfriend. when in reality WHAT IS THIS DUDE SUPPOSED TO DO, BEAT THE SHIT OUTTA HER????
yes
@@D44RK_Iced_Yogs "equal rights, equal lefts" is what I think you meant?
Yeah, what about women who don’t want to give any information up when a man is beating them up? When their partner is beating them up? Neither one is right and the cop should’ve handled it better but all the dudes crying in the comment section about the emasculation…..It’s kind of sad.
@@ryanmcclosky3312equal rights equal fights
Exactly. I called the cops once because the guy was being stalked by this other guy he claimed raped him. The cop was so unhelpful. Seemed to be encouraging the guy to not report it.
What's even more irritating is that most of the time it's not getting beaten up by a girl, but allowing to being beaten up by a girl because the whole world knows what happens the second the guy defends himself.
This. The cop made it sound like he wqs incapable of defending himself when most likely he refused to
Yes!! He says “got beat up by a girl” like the dude should be ashamed of himself for that when the alternative is to NOT get beat up by a girl and defend himself and go to jail?!? Wtaf?!? Terrible rapport building skills…way to shame the guy for being a victim of abuse! 🎉Smdh 🤦🏼♀️
@@detrafranks9325Yeah and then go to jail and get the fuck beat of you because now you're a woman beater lol
Exactly! That was my first thought because I was in that situation at age 20, I was never beaten up by her! I was attacked by her and I could of knocked her out anytime but you love the person for starters and then they're so much weaker, it would be like being the bully in school picking on weak lads. Lastly if you let your anger get the better of you and react then you're the one who's going to jail with everyone you know hating you.
Exactly bro.
That first cop needs serious sensitivity training. That was terrible management of the potential victim saying he got a call about him “getting beat up by a girl” is the WORST way he could have handled that
That clown needs training, like most US cops. Bro just came up and instantly was being demeaning and also violated his rights
@owlhuman8312 Not hard, just swing your little d around and terrorize the general public during a power trip
@owlhuman8312how the fuck is that relevant to what they’re saying, they’re making a point that officer douche canoe needs some sort of training to deal with shit like this better.
@owlhuman8312 hell yeah throat that boot man
yeah and then he cried over his sunglasses when she kicked him in his face
The police’s Response to the victim is scary because the things that he said to him is the exact reason why the abused didn’t wanna say anything at all. Disgusting through and through.
He came in super hot on mockery and that's just a gross way to talk to the victim of assault.
No, it wasn't! If he was beaten up by someone in a clown costume, he'd have said that, too! It's for identification of the perpetrator.
Grow a pair. Or marginalize so you can claim “victim” status.
No just say your name man...lol sorry your as bad as the girls in this one !!I agree the cops a dick
@@GTGibbs Grow up ''GTGibbs''
Her "cheating wife" insults are probably a reflection of the type of shit she says to her own man when she gets upset.
Wouldn’t be surprised if he got beat up for mentioning her cheating (which she forsure does)
Oh definitely
The way the cop treated that guy is exactly why men don’t come forward or even discuss their mental health issues.
If she starts hitting, defend yourself
This happens much too often,the are told to always arrest the mango matter What,there are true women that suffer from violence but it evidently works both ways men don't report they have been abusedbecause of the last back
Men Do abuse women, but a man Can't defend themselves in this situation even when a woman hits first unless they're complete strangers, it's in public and there are witnesses. Otherwise the default is almost always that the man must be the primary abuser. The best thing a man can do in this situation is Immediately leave and move out while she's gone.
@@brigitteschultz1552 and go to jail. Many cases where guys who dont even defend themselves being charged. As a society we still default the th "man is the aggressor/moman is the victim" mindset.
@@shirleyrusaw5181 ive never heard of a 'mango matter' being arrested. lol
Man i feel bad for the guy he looks so defeated and doesn't even want to get in more trouble either from her or from the cops.
Also, that stupid cop is a douche.
The problem there is that the cop was abusing his power over the man who doesn't know the laws. I'm not perfect but no cop just say show me id unless they suspect you are related to the crime as in you committed it. The cop said he was a victim so there for can't be charged for a crime. An yes cops try that scam a lot and many have be found guilty of that crime but not nearly enough of them.
The man was looking and acting like idubbbz
As much as y’all think she deserves it, I think she’s unmedicated with Bipolar. Hope she gets the help she needs
My gf abuses my schlong every night
Mocking him for being attacked by a girl but if the man fights back he will get thrown in jail. This is fucked up.
"I just graduated Highschool 3 years ago"
I feel like that sentence says a lot about how she views herself. She's really holding on to the past and does not want to move on and be responsible for herself
She knows her "dictionary stuff", she is clearly set for life. 😹 Hell that's probably the highest syllable word she could conjure at the time in an effort to look like she's somehow intelligent or at all present of mind.
When she said “I just graduated hs” I was like, oh ok makes se..
“3 years ago”.
Oh.
I know time is a construct, but “ I just did xyz” the implication is it was very recent. Definitely not 3 years later. What in the name of Sponge Bob timelines…
...yeah, i just graduated 31 years ago so i know some stuff about things and stuff...im looking forward to having graduated 32 years ago...what an accomplishment...!!!
"just" "3 years ago"
delusional
Psycho woman...avoid at all costs!
“Idk why it’s so hard for you to give me your name”
Bc he’s a victim of DV. A million things are going through his head atm. He’s upset, he’s scared, he hates her but loves her, he’s ashamed, he wants it to end but doesn’t think he can live without her. I’ve been there. A little empathy goes a long way. Not “I could take you to jail” Jfc
Yeah; I don’t know what actual law applies here, but the police could have been a little more sensitive. The young man wasn’t being rude or combative.
💯 Agreed
In addition to all that, I think that it is a 4th amendment violation for that cop to demand the victim's name and threaten to arrest him if he doesn't identify himself. There are a few circumstances in which the cop is allowed to demand ID, but I seriously don't think this is one of those circumstances. This cop is like a lot of others...he is on some kind of power trip.
@@susanhopemasonthe cop violated multiple rights and at least one law in this video. A cop can't legally demand identification from anyone outside of a traffic stop without reasonable articulable suspicion of a crime.
If I had a nickel for every cop that doesn't know the basic standards of being able to legally identify someone then my entire family and I could all retire early.
ty! this cop was a straight up asshole
I don't normally say this but I feel like the cop that said you got beat up by a chick needs some sort of write up cause it is extremely under reported
Yep as a 55 year old white guy, who I know I fit the profile of toxic male. That was my first though the cop needs to be reprimanded for how he handled things with the abused
He didn't get beat up...He was chill af with a half smile on his face.
I guess he figures ,"Well she's wild in bed so I can deal with a few scratches".
Beat up is black eye ,bloody lip and a few broken ribs.
Of course it is always extremely difficult going with a borderline personality chick ,especially when they start yowling by a lamp post at 4AM.
@@thomasshipley4516 he only acted like that because it was a guy who got beat up. If it was a woman, he'd be rather different I'm sure.
@@Mr.MermanPrince Maybe. Female victims are still treated like garbage half the time.
exactly. that cop didn't establish and kind rapport with the supposed victim. the cop has toxic masculinity and made the situation worse by escalating the whole thing.
It just amazes me how they can scream so loud for so long but they “Can’t Breathe”! Make it make sense.
Set up for the lawsuit
Instead of saying “he got beat up by a girl” and laughing, let’s say “he held himself back” and commend him. One of the only ways to fight double standards
Why should we commend him for taking a beating
@@anon2427because "she's a girl" and even if he defended himself, rightfully, he'd still be punished because "men can't hit women".
@@anon2427because it is a moral thing to not hurt women intentionally as a man but it should have an exception for when being attacked. Can’t let psycho women abuse the morality and think they can just attack men without getting fucked up
When she kicked him in the face and destroyed his sunglasses, I hope he realized how stupid he looked... bet he didn't find that funny...
@@anon2427because he restrained himself and did not hit back, even though he could have legally defended himself.
Many men just take the violence and never say a thing because they won't be believed, they will be mocked or looked as less than.
That officer is sooo condescending and demeaning. You said it perfectly, it makes men feel like shit so they’re less likely to call in for help because they got beat up by a girl. Men are victims of domestic violence too. Not all women are innocent and men should feel comfortable to come forward and seek help. This officer is a wanker
To be honest I don’t see that as the cop trying to demean the guy, I think he said it because he’s saying he fit the description of a guy getting beat up by a girl…
@@Austin.Kilgore he repeated it for no reason other then to demean him in my opinion. If that guy was getting battered by that bird day in and day out he needs to be made to feel comforted and supported by the police to seek help and all that officer did was act cold and horrible towards him
What is condensing?
I think he meant condom sending.
The officers could had been more respectful but I can also see from their perspective. Having to work on a case where a man is getting beat up by a woman is a bit comical.
Her behaviour is actually typical of an abuser. This is exactly how they switch from being nice to being a complete nightmare and then nice again. My ex would physically attack me and then be on her knees begging for forgiveness the next second. She'd then get up and compliment me, touch me, and initiate sex. If I rejected her she'd go back to apologizing and then act like the victim in the situation if I don't react the way she wants me to. It's an insane set of manipulative skills.
@MaeRose26therapy
@MaeRose26 I think he's just saying that was really really dark and a lot to unload in a comment section to strangers so he's hoping that you're getting help. That's traumatic, so you know make sure you're getting help.
So in my own experience, going through years & years of therapy was what helped me actually be able to verbally state what trauma I was put through to literal strangers without being affected by it anymore. Just because a victim shares what happened to them does not by any means say whether or not they went thru therapy. Do you not understand that they actually lived that?? I'm absolutely sure she knew just how dark it is smfh & most people with common sense DO seek help for these types of trauma's. That being said, I'm sorry that happened to you & I commend you for getting help & being able to share your experience with other's. Knowing what the red flags are beforehand is the first way to educate others to not stay and/or tolerate those same behaviors in other situations. When survivors can tell there stories then others can see the common behavior's in abuser's.
Sounds like BPD. (I could be wrong, not a doc.) I had a girlfriend that acted the same way. Foreplay for her was initiating terrible arguments over stupid stuff. And she was always the "innocent victim".
That's not a sign of BPD. BPD often coexists with crazy but it just amplifies whatever other personality disorder they have.@@7judas77
To call her immature is an insult to preschool children. Completely unhinged. What is happening to people?
This cop imidiately decides to demean the dude. Just really incredible stuff
To be honest I don’t see that as the cop trying to demean the guy, I think he said it because he’s saying he fit the description of a guy getting beat up by a girl…
@@Austin.Kilgore yeah man, because that's exactly how you should address the situation. Not
"hello sir, I'm here investigating a domestic violence call and you match the description of a possible victim"
Put the shoe on the other foot
"Hello mam, you match the description of a chick that got beat up by a dude"
Real professional, yeah?
@@ExtremelyToxic didn’t say it was “professional”… maybe it wasn’t exactly professional but I still don’t see it as him being demeaning or disrespectful
@Austin.Kilgore congratulations, you literally confirmed what the comment said in the first place.... 😅 are you shelter? A bit on the slow side? Cuz what the cop said is literally playground teasing 101
@@anti-roxas850???? How?? Please tell me
She’s mentally unstable and he has definitely dealt with this way too often to be as calm as he was. I feel sorry for him
He yelled at the cops to “not treat his girl like that” and seemed pretty ready af to defend her 🤷🏼♀️
It appears like he likes playing her games by his actions. Him being calm in front of the police at first is not necessarily an indication of innocence on his part.
Although the officer was pretty rude to him.
Woman make everything difficult since Adam and Eve. Man relax woman we got crazy big little things bigger than what they need to be
@@sweetums8148weak dudes get hypnotized and brainwashed by toxic females too
That's no excuse. She's not mentally she's a cu@t.
Leon hit the nail on the head. These people live their whole lives as victims, batting the puppy eyes and getting let off. She has absolutely zero experience with conflict resolution, its just astonishing how fast it shows.
I’ve heard it called “pretty privilege”
@@lisabernard5734ehh, i wouldnt call that this. Pretty privilege would be folk being friendly to you off rip and holding your opinion at a higher value then anotger opinion of someone less attractuve to you. Pretty privilege is never having to worry about being alone cause folk are always in your dm's ready and willing to date and fuck around with you.
This, this is more like what the og comment abd leon are saying, this is a woman who grew up a spoiled brat who has never learned how to handle being told no or her not getting exactly what she wants cause she aleays got what she wanted, so now like a child she lashes out physically whenever she doesnt get her way.
@@lisabernard5734I've seen it happen with the ugly ones too
God I'm old. While she was cuffed on the ground, all I was thinking about was how great that grass looked.
Should've also been charged with attempting to bribe an officer when she asked him how much money it would take to get her out of custody of the law.
The cop really didnt approach the situation well especially when saying "we got a call about a guy getting beat up by a chick". Really sad the way male DV victims are treated :(
Yeah that cop didn’t have to keep saying “a guy getting beat up by a girl”.
Physically assaulted.
Attacked.
Maybe using different words that dont make him look like a little bitch might help get him onside
He even said some dude getting beat up by a girl in a pink shirt
girl was wording not even adult women " girl ". That's the problem I see.
Theres actually a pretty specific way to say it. When I was K9 we had pretty specific verbiage that followed the legal terminology. "We have gotten a report of a female assaulting a male, and the description of the male matches you. Are you okay?" Also, that cop was full of shit when he said he can arrest him for not giving his identity. Thats basic constitutional rights. Literally Day One academy shit. So if he did actually arrest him the officer in this video would have likely been sued at the least and fired at worst. This officer handled the situation fucking horribly.
❤ dam right
She doesn’t need a judge. She needs an exorcist.
I said the same thing.
You REALLY believe that will work? I'm thinking more along the lines of sending her back to the underworld
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I hate that she's kinda bad though🥺
The number of "adults" in America who IMMEDIATELY throw a TANTRUM when they don't get their own way is EMBARRASSING!!
The way she stood up stickin her ass out trying to flirt with the cop, I actually shrieked 🤣🤣😭
God that was the thing i noticed as well. Its so obvious. Yet so seductive.
And she has her boyfriend she just assaulted
Omg, I died dead!!!!😂😂😂❤❤
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@@reanukeevesau 18:32
The difference in how they treated him, compared to how they would treat a woman in the same situation, is ridiculous.
I am a woman... I too was yelled at/threatened by cops when someone called in domestic abuse on my behalf. Luckily for me, I was in my apartment and able to refuse them entry, so I felt safer than this guy must have.
Point being, I think most people wouldn't be ignorant enough to treat this guy this way. So many cops just have no humanity left in them.
I was thinking the same thing. They treated him like the suspect and her like the victim.
@@J_Lynnconsidering cops are more likely than civilians to be domestic abusers I'm not surprised that some of them act like that
@@J_Lynn Did the police laugh and mockingly ask if you were "beat up by a boy"? Was your abuse treated as a joke?
@@OnnarashiBad faith police officer will ask you what you did to have him beat you up / blame you for not leaving/ tell you to stop triggering your bf to beat you up. At some point you all need to stop fighting over who's the biggest victim between woman and man and maybe, just maybe, focus on the fact that there are some people out there, some police officers and whatever else, who victim blame and don't face consequences for it. We need to start blaming those who cause harm instead of fighting over a victim status.
I appreciate you pointing out how the police man kind of shamed the man the way he said that a guy was getting beat up by a girl. That’s IS a big reason why many men don’t want to seek help. I felt so bad for him
“I cant breathe” has become gen z’s trademark safe word 😂
What? 90% of the bodycam videos are not even gen z people. They’re mostly millennial or gen x. Could this analysis be more lazy? 😂
You're exactly right on how the cop acted. So demeaning. Thats exactly why men don't report. When they do its even worse. Its absolute BS.
Cop could have just said: assaulted by a female. Beat up by a girl sounds like he is incapable of defending himself when most likely he refused to defend himself in fear of charges
Jesus no he wasn't, they were all super respectful and professional. His tone wasn't mocking, he had no intention of insulting him.
He was absolutely demeaning. He repeatedly hit him with the "beat up by a girl" and then threatened him with jail time for not giving his name.
@river7874 that's literally what happened though, he was beat up by a girl. That phrase just has so many negative connotations attached to it, that it's hard to say it without people assuming you're being demeaning. I don't think that was his intention though. And a cop can arrest you if you refuse to provide your name as a suspect.
@@chrisortiz8077you wouldnt use that phrasing if it was two men
18:32 the way she stood up just there, and thought she was so smooth and sexy after committing domestic abuse, resisting arrest, and assault on law enforcement was insane.
She is insane.
Yup
Sociopath
Seems to work on her boyfriend(s), or else the current one would have left her. She learned that somehow.
I feel for the guy initially being so awkward with the cop. It's never taken seriously and seen as a joke if a guy is hit or beat by a woman. So he probably took it as emasculating embarrassing to be known as that. Just wanted to brush it off and move on. But overall any abuse man or woman should be taken seriously.
this
Yeah for real. I bet the cops were being condescending because they just straight up beat their wives when they have issues
The cop didn't help by telling the dude "bro, you got beat up by a woman" lolol Tbh I like the cop, he was no BS and responded well, but the way he kept reiterating to this kid "we know you got beat up by a woman" was hilarious. Maybe he was trying to bait the kid into lashing out and admitting it but still it was hilariously harsh XD
He didn't handle it right if he wanted to go. The words he needed to use was "my name is xyz and I am, beyond that information exercising my right to remain silent. I have no story to tell." Can't charge him for not speaking at that point.
@@brianm.595 yeah but I imagine the demeaning manner of the cop made him feel uncomfortable and emasculated. It's easy to say that in hindsight, when you aren't feeling disrespected.
The way that officer talked to that man is gross 😳 he is talking to a suspected victim of domestic violence and treating him like he is the issue
Absolutely not!
She has the right to remain silent, she just doesn’t have the ability.
Aight there Mr. White
Just wanted to reply that I like your picture! 😸
@@howardkreienhop6457 thank you. That’s my 16 year old boy. And he is a great cat! 😀
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Her banging on every thing in her vicinity when she gets emotional just shows one how violent she can be.
Like a little kid who falls on the floor kicking and screaming.
Typical entitled cow.
And then getting up as seductive as possible 18:34
@@Dargonethong i thought i was the only 1 who noticed 😂😂
I would argue that she wants some more physical attention.
"i dont even have a wife, would be hard for her to cheat on me" 💀
lmfao that's perfect.
I’ve never heard of an argument described as “extravagant” before.
Yeah, she sure knows her "dictionary stuff!" 🤣🤣🤣
I absolutely love when she's like "I'll go to jail right now for that" and immediately gets arrested
And on top of that start resisting arrest
I have issues with this cop treating this victim like a suspect
It's called victim blaming and they're professionals at it
Same. A fine example of why some people don't report abuse, especially men. No one wants to get mocked and treated like the abuser after they've already been smacked and kicked around.
Duluth model
Police in a nutshell
Being a suspect is not a problem, if you are innocent you go through the process, comply and it's all good. You are taking this as if it is personal, it's procedure and rules.
According to the Supreme Court, you do not have to identify if you have not committed a crime. Being a victim of a crime does not require you to identify.
Exactly. Cops are shit. And don’t know the law
Thank you! Came here to say exactly that!
Yeah, that cop was bullshitting.
@@Podus81 they all bullshit
CORRECT. And the dam cop knew before he got there, that the victim was the man.
The woman was the one accused of a crime, if she matched the description then only she would be required to identify.
They better not have dropped any charges on her.
The cop was gross for treating the guy like that. I hope that the guy who was going through this is doing better.
Not really, the cop was following police guidelines, he asked valid questions. The guy was innocent, but didn’t comply to the questions right away
@@frumpleskilstonanimations2409 for me it was how he was basically making fun of the situation basically mocking the assault because it was a woman hitting a man.
@@frumpleskilstonanimations2409 ok bootlicker
STFU the cop clearly belittled him@@frumpleskilstonanimations2409
@@blueladybug4767I disagree. He didn't have much bedside manner but was in fact very upfront. Mocking and being upfront are not the same.
The way she stood up before offering the haircut was hilarious. It was like "look how sexy I am, even though I look like I have been dragged through a hedge backwards" ha ha
ong why di she stand up like that
The treatment of this guy sickens me. He deserves respect and empathy after being attacked! Horrible.... I'm sad for him.
Empathy sure,respect no,he chooses to stay with it for a dank hole
The problem is some men do what some women do regarding DV (I know because I stupidly did it myself) they defend the perpetrator,and make them the victim,
It’s sad for humanity. People who get the short end of the stick usually lash out
“I’ll go to jail right now on that.”
OK…cuff on and cussing starts
I know I shouldn't. And besides hating the yelling part: I think I fell in love. Maybe she's a little nuts, but she's so sweet🥰 and got some Canadian fire💓
I can’t stand how that cop was basically making fun of the guy for getting abused by a woman
That cop was an actual man and understood what was happening. That guy (including you and your other commenter) were a spaghetti arm little guy. Nothing to stand on. He let this happen.
@spencerson7516 yeah, he let it happen just like how you let yourself be born by your mother. If he so much as put his hand up to block a shot by her his butt would be in the car getting arrested. Also he should have kept walking and said nothing to these pitiful excuse for cops.
@statesminds I found that particularly offensive..
It shows he doesn't respect the victim for having "been beat up by a chick", and doesn't like women by referring to them as "chicks". The US needs much higher standards for their police officers to achieve.
@spencerson7516 don't be ridiculous, there's no excuse for violence, the guy was a victim, the cop was being highly unprofessional. That's not being an "actual man", that's being a 🍆
@@elizabethgrogan8553huge reach. Lol just because he says “chick” doesn’t mean he doesn’t like women lol wtf?
The amount of screaming she does in hopes of someone coming to help her against the police.
Happens everytime
I don't know if it's just her craziness or her political hate of the police - maybe a bit of both?
@@ARescueToaster probably both
@@ARescueToasterno, it's cuz she's a woman xd
@@tedtheodore5715 :P I think the women who are in my life would be even more disgusted with this. I'll have to show them this and see what they say!
That's so fucked up. Guy gets physically abused by his gf, "haha, you got beat up by a girl." If he had defended himself, he's the bad guy. And then he tries to stand up and not press charges and gets threatened with arrest. Lose/lose/lose because she's a psycho. Real nice.
Lose lose lose because HE is a wimpy pussy
It was simple! All he , the boyfriend, had to do is identify himself, that’s it. What he did is passive resistance, impeding an investigation into the situation. So, actually he didn’t leave the officers much of a choice, but in the end, the officers released him
@@Lea941legally he didn’t and forcing him to is a violation of his 4th amendment right.
I found the clown @@Lea941
How big are your shoes?
She assumed the police would only act if it was a man who was hitting a woman. You could tell with how she was so quick to say it was just her going crazy. She never expected to be arrested for DV, being a female abuser. If she acts this way to police, she must be insane with her boyfriend and loved ones.
If that cop would have just said "A man matching your description was assaulted" instead of "You just got beat up by a girl" it would have went much smoother. No reason to be so unprofessional.
He got beat up by a girl because he was a Man and didn't hit back. She's getting away with abuse so she continues.
@@susanalexander6721And if he had retaliated, he would have been the one in jail, not the girl. The girl would be dating the cop!
Agree. But it easy to arm chair policing.
That's what I don't understand about those US police bros and dudes, acting with complete strangers they met, like they're their frat house friends. Have some respect for others and act professionally.
Its really sad he felt like he had to hide it. Whether it's out of fear or embarrassment, no victim should have to feel like they can't seek help. You can't control someone deciding to put their hands on you but there is no shame in a man getting hit by a woman and deciding to not fight her back. Poor guy.
That is the harsh reality as a man though. Unless its the internet, if you're a man and you got beat by a women everyone will make fun of you. Women will laugh and men will laugh. If you stand up for yourself and defend yourself, you run the risk of hurting the bully. If that happens you will be judged for beating a woman. Lose lose situation so its best to just hide it and pretend all is good.
@@torment6369There is only 1 thing in thing in this world more cowardly then a man hitting a woman... That 1 thing is a woman hitting a man knowing he cant protect himself back
Women have a VERY tiny % chance to defend themselves out of a phyical altercation but a man has 0% and its because even putting your hands up or u try extending your arms to get them off God forbid they fall over or even get a scratch off your nails YOU ARE 100% going to jail
felony domestic abuse charge + criminal record = Life over
@@torment6369 Thats what we are trying to change, it shouldn't be that way. It makes some women feel like they can put their hands on people without consequences when absolutely no one should be able to do that. Try not to look at it so pessimisticly though, not every abuse situation is black and white and there's no shame in seeking help and safety. Id personally rather be laughed at than stay in a bad situation. Always take care of yourself first because I promise you there is a support system for abused men even if its smaller than it should be. 🖤
"If you're getting arrested with a spit hood and you're hog tied, "that's a whole 'nother level of arrested." PREACH LEON. 😂
“suck your soul out through your prolapsed cornhole.”
Man that took a long time to write since I was giggling so hard. Beautifully narrated video.
He said, "We got a call, about a guy, that got beat up by a girl.".
But, what he meant was, " We got a call, about a guy, that wouldn't beat the shit out of his girlfriend, even though she was beating on him.".
Her initial interaction with the officer shows that she doesn't think she should face any consequence for attacking another person.
She's been doing it her whole life
So typical woman then...
@unbearifiedbear1885 na, there are well adjusted adult women. They just don't tend to end up on the internet in viral videos 🤣
The internet has magnified the loudest, most ignorant and the worse of us.
@@CrashHeadroomIt’s that you were neglected as a child and need therapy but just got get therapy. No need to publicly show us.
@@ThatAtheist No, I just have a brain :( and have a family who haven't divorced etc. I mean i don't even need to give examples anymore I just need to let you look out the window on how much your gender has f***ed everything up for its own amusement / stupidity.
Bullied by his girlfriend, now bullied by the cops.
"Isn't it terrible how many men dont report it, because they are embarrassed" is what everyone says.
No, I think you can all see why men dont call cops. Its not cuz a girl embarrassed us.
Its cuz we would rather not be tazed and/or arrested just cuz a cop feels like it.
The cop is not handling this correctly with the guy. It’s people like him that stops men from coming forward about domestic violence.
Many cops just don't give a shit.
Thank you so much Leon for talking about this. I fucking hate that men who are abused are often ignored or laughed at because they were “beat up by a chick” fucking disgusting. Abuse knows no gender.
Also please take care of yourself-covering these back to back must do a number on your mental health.
Very well spoken. I don't think folks realize how strong some women actually are... yes they are anomalies, but they do in fact exist.
Yeah that comment was insensitive and disgusting coming from a officer.
worst part is men often get arrested for defending themselves
Heres the probable reality. He didnt "get beat up by a chic" he probably "stood there and let the chic beat on him" cause we all know what happens if you even think of trying to stop a girl like that.
Yeah you get accused of rape and beating
You hit the nail.
Exactly, women have no consequences for their bullshit, it would soon stop if men fought back, and believe me if I get attacked by a male or a female im defending my self the same way.
Awwe yes been there lol
She acts so much like my husbands best friends girlfriend it’s actually scary. We’re trying to help him realize how toxic she is but he’s too far trapped in the abuse cycle :(
Sorry he's just more than likely pussy whipped lol find him a new girl
Maybe he is just afraid to be alone and doesn’t think he is good enough to find a nice partner.
@@katwaugh1686THIS right here. It is beyond likely that she also destroyed his self esteem to the point he feels he would never be able to find someone else and would be forever alone.
Also as someone who went through the abuse cycle and escaped myself I suggest taking it in stages. He is currently trauma bonded. It is classified as a form of addiction to the toxic relationships and should be handled as such. It’s something you crave and don’t ever wish to leave you’ll make every excuse for why it isn’t possible when it is. It’s why most people when they do leave go back over and over again cause they can’t help themselves. When you leave and stay away it feels like you’re going through withdrawal. For me I felt like my insides were being cooked alive and I could barely breathe. My skin was crawling and I kept freaking out a bunch but I would always remind myself of what it meant to go back. Just be mindful that it is a process and can end up being a long one if the person can’t come to terms with it.
@@katwaugh1686 its a fact, we all know she will find a new hubby by end of the week, and hes still gonna be recovering 3 years later, and in entire 3 years no woman is gonna be interested in casually dating.
I love the turn of phrase "from spit hood to goody good" love it
I'm glad you talked about the attitude of the cop at the beginning Leon. There's already so much shame and embarrassment associated with domestic violence against men that it's incredibly difficult for men to press charges against their partners and, that cop came across as belittling and trivialising the incident. Guys if you're dating someone like this, run. Run far far away and don't look back. Do it before kids and other things make it harder to get away. The old adage, "hit me once shame on you, hit me twice, shame on me" holds true. Obviously the same advice holds true for women with violent partners but, sadly It's often much more difficult for women to escape it.
I hope that young woman gets help.
It’s fool, not hit
@@TriStar44 lt may be fool in your version but, l've only ever heard it as 'hit'.
It is fool but it fits in this scenario
Love how every person being arrested these days now claims "I cant breathe! sometime during the arrest.
If they can scream constantly that they can't breathe, they most certainly can breathe. 😂
Be better than this. Shameful.
Ever had a 250lb man put his entire weight on the back of your spine, collapsing your rib cage and preventing your lungs from expanding fully? I didn't think so. And moron, when they say they cant breathe, they mean its tremendously hard to and its scary.
They're mimicking st. George floyd
@@beacon-313if you can yell that you can't breathe than you can breathe. As a ju jitsu and mma fighter I can attest to this. You literally can't even whisper if you're truly in a hold that you can't breathe. You're the moron
Thank you Leon for bringing awareness to the abuse of men, as a man whom also has lived through an abusive relationship with a woman, it gets hard to be taken seriously. Got told I needed to “man up” and just take it multiple times. Seeing this just helps spread that ANYONE can be abusive, male, female, etc.
You ARE a MAN, so no, you never have to 'Man Up' because you are already man enough. Its not like you can magically get to some anime level or tier level of 'Man'.
You are a Man, nothing can or will ever add, take away nor change that. I hope you know this but if not please, PLEASE, believe me. I've been an ER RN for 12 years... I've seen some pretty crazy sh!t and a man actually leveling up has never been one of them.
My own brother was in a DV relationship for 4 years bc he was terrified of leaving. She shot him with an air gun, stabbing him with a pencil (I had to come remove a .04in piece of lead out his leg), she'd beat the sh!t out of him, but if he tried calling for help she'd bash her face off the door frame and threaten to say he did it. She was tiny so of course he'd fet arrested.
She finally put him in the hospital when she chocked him with the strings from their window blinds. She cane up behind him and wrapped them around his neck. Supposedly they got tangled and knotted so he couldn't get them off. She called 911 and tried saying it 2as attempted suicide. He survived.
I beat her her a$$. I didn't care anymore. I lost it when my colleague from the ER called me. My mom went to the ER I went to their house. I got her laughing confession on video and beat her. I told her if she reported me Id turn in the video and get ger for attempted murder.
After a Month (enough time for her face to heal) we turned in the video anyways. She got 2 years probation for assault...that was it.
You all deserve the same respect and the same justice as everyone else.
Been there. It's more annoying and mentally draining than anything. It doesn't really hurt or anything, but you can't protect yourself, and no one takes it seriously, so you just take it and try not to snap. Late nights when they won't just shut up and let you sleep is the worst.
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660thank you
Agree. Crappy ppl are not gender specific at all, great comment altogether. I wish you the best, another survivor here.
I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope you are now living a happier and safer life with the chance to talk and work through that trauma ♥️
"pain anguish, and trauma of her life" on full display.
Lost souls and broken people, is what your videos are about, and it is heart breaking.
“I’ll go to jail for that” smartest thing to come out of her mouth followed immediately by the dumbest actions!
The way she got out of that chair gave me second hand embarrassment 😭
The pushing her butt and breasts out while standing up looked so natural tho
I went to jail for hitting my ex. I had to go through anger management, and it wasn't until then, that someone made me recognize that I was the abuser. For so long I felt justified for taking my anger out, however, being seen for the abuser I was, was life changing. I have not put my hands on another since. It's been 19 years.
I mean this with the utmost respect and I'm not trying to be a dick, but it sounds like you might have been some kind of narcissist (the medical sense) that's why you had to realise how OTHER PEOPLE viewed YOU and your actions instead of empathising with your victim.
Yeah because that's what abusers do. They change.
@@Piss_PistoffersonNeuroplasticity is a thing, even if it doesn’t get utilized nearly enough.
Well you evolved and became better.
That's a big deal. Like, a really big deal. It's incredibly difficult to change ingrained patterns. But it isn't impossible. 🎉 Congrats on that!
Agree 💯. The officers tone is definitely derogatory
“I just graduated high school about 3 years ago”… That’s almost enough time to graduate a second time.
No! He is NOT obligated to ID himself unless he has been arrested for a crime. Failure to ID is a secondary charge. They need an initial criminal charge.
say you're white without saying you're white.
You are absolutely wrong. Arrest comes after investigation. You are required to ID the moment you are detained. All they need is a reasonable suspicion that you were involved in a crime. Then the investigate and decide whether to charge you.
It's no wonder so very, very many criminals have no clue how their rights or detainment or arrests work, they seem to be a pretty accurate representation of society as far as I can see online.
@@justforever96 Nope. You are only required to produce ID if you are suspected of committing a crime, in the process of committing a crime or about to commit a crime. In this case the man did not need to produce ID because he did not fall under any of three required conditions. Being a victim of a crime is NOT a crime.
@dct581 facts
Yes, you have to produce id if police have stopped you or been called. It is the law. You do not have to be arrested.
It's the narcissist toolbox she's going through. If acting nice doesn't get you off scot-free, get crazy. If that doesn't work, try personal attacks. If that doesn't work, turn on the water works. If that doesn't work, start flirting. If that doesn't work, act cute. And on and on and on.
That's pretty accurate actually
Maybe just act like a decent person
@@ChristiColonel Narcissists are incapable of that when things don't go their way.
they can't
@@ChristiColonel
He was dispatched to arrest the one who committed the crime. He has no lawful reason to ID the victim & threaten him with jail
The way she stood up out of the chair at the hospital... slowly, with her back arched... she was trying to use her sexuality against the cop, after everything she did up until that point? The F'ing nerve.
😂
Yep 🤣
Honestly made me laugh hard
My mom abused physically and mentall my dad (and mentally my whole family for that matter) for years and he never told anyone. One time she chased him down the driveway punching him in the face till he pushed her to get her off and then she came inside crying and acting like the victim and expecting us kids to console her while she’s trying to convince us what a “piece of shit” our dad is and how she’s gonna divorce him and take everything and not let us see him (yeah she really said that and that’s what happened) she divorced out saint of a father who put up with her shit for years took the house half his shit and tried her hardest to never let us see him. Some women are EXTREMELY abusive and manipulative because honestly they think they can get away with it because they are women. We need to change that. If my dad did a quarter of the things my mom did he’d be in jail for life.
That's eerily similar to my mom and dad.
Mom got into drugs and dad was always the straight man.
He let her know that her usage wasn't a good thing and she made his life hell. It wasn't the drugs, that was her personality in general.
She beat him up, accused him of putting hands on her, kicked him out of the house, divorced him, threatened to call the cops or have some of their mutual friends beat dad up if he ever came around to see me, etc.
I didn't see my dad for a few years because of her.
One day we were able to reconnect. She hated it and treated me even worse than she already did because of it. She knew she could no longer manipulate the situation because of course I would see and report the truth of it all.
But she never stopped trying to convince me he was evil and didn't care about me. The complete irony.
You should report your mum if you love ur dad.He needs justice. Stop letting human beings like this get away with it.
All women are some just can't get away with it.
I've never net a non abusive woman in 25 years be it mentally or physically.
We wouldn't have this issue if men around the age of kf 50-60 had some testosterone and didn't let them get like this couple of decades ago.
my ex hit me once. I told her I would put her in the hospital if she ever hit me again. she said she would have me arrested. I told her that "that won't unkick your @$$". she never touched me again.
@@Michael-p9m1d😂 that's a perfect response.
I was psychologically abused by a spouse for years, the day she started to physically attack me I left and never looked back. It’s a really deeply messed up situation when the person who’s supposed to have your back is actually the worst person in your life
Glad you left. ❤
@@ThatAtheist how you doing? giggity giggity
It seems the cop is the personification of why men don't report abuse by women.
Shame on the cop for his attitude.
When someone screams like their village just burned down for getting cuffed after fighting police, you know they havent taken accountability a day in their life.
This girl is so use to abusing people and getting by with it that she can’t comprehend someone stopped her for it!!!
the way the officer says "beat up by a girl" is horrible, he needs victim training
Beat up by a crazy unhinged bi*ch is more like it, with long nails!
Can’t handle the truth aye need to baby it down for you sweetheart? Welcome to the real world aye lol
He needs another job if it’s this hard to help victims.
@@loveusexyI can tell by Ur comment u r a man and that u have issues with Ur masculinity and you feel like "men need to be men" burp, beer , football lol 😂 grow up . Men can be victims and the police absolutely needed to use more tact and not word it like that because it absolutely demeaned him
@@loveusexy good to be straightforward, i agree, but in this sorta situation, i think rephrasing it could lead to better odds of cooperation, but yeah most peeps in the comments are overreacting. if you put all your effort into 'soft skills', you get a bunch of morons who don't have any 'hard skills'.
I feel for the guy. He was simply more afraid of the girl than the cops.
Yeah the cop is completely wrong, he isn't suspected of a crime, he is suspected of being the victim of a crime
He doesn't need to give anything and he's under no legal obligation to assist with the investigation
He is actually part of the investigation because he is the victim so they do actually need to gather evidence like pictures and such to document for court
@@CarnageUndoneno they don’t, if he doesn’t press charges they don’t need his information. 5th amendment
I stand corrected, it is not an appropriate use of 5th amendment. I stand by the sentiment that it is wrong.
This cop is so so wrong! Clearly isn’t gonna arrest him just throwing out empty threats
@@CarnageUndone they have no right to any of that
Victims don't need to cooperate at all
Domestic violence has a different set of rules. The state is the victim that way neither party can hold the other accountable.
The cop is a huge reason why man don’t want them to know they’re victims of Domestic
It depends on the "Victims" attitude. I'd tell them it's none of their business. It's our business how we spend our free time. Maybe that we will be a little quieter.
There is nothing to tell them.
That really was a demeaning way that he explained it to him. I feel so bad for men who feel shame at the situation, thus fail to report it.
Yea, didn’t even try and catch himself. Lousy.
The way this woman acts is quite common today. This all needs to be exposed so that the laws change.
A good friends sister wrote her college thesis on domestic violence on men. Her boyfriend was a police officer that was a victim of it. His wife beat him and he as a man ,thought he should just take it. There is an insane amount of evidence that shows men are 80% of the time, the victims of domestic violence. This video explains why.
A lot of the time men will just take it because if they say or do anything to try to defend themselves, they know it can easily be turned around and portrayed he's the aggressor the abuser. And if it ever went to court they'd be inclined to believe her over him. So like this guy, they just take it grit their teeth and try to "move on".
You are saying that in only 20% of the times women are the victims?
I did mine on Intimate Partner Violence and I put in my paper how middle school age kids need to know about it (@ 14 a bf who never hit me was super controlling tried to end me when I broke up with him) and also how men are largely unreported victims because of how they get mocked or risk ending up in jail, and not the abuser.
80%? LMAOOOO
@@daddy_murdoc That's what the OP wrote. @ElbowDeepx raised that number to 95%, lowering the women victimhood to 5%
Amber Heard is her role model.
I remember there were girls who behaved like this in 7th grade. And they really thought they were the cocks of the walk, or something that they felt made them socially exalted.
By 10th grade they seem to have all vanished.
I came across the younger brother of one of them, who was a lovely person. I asked why his sister, and her friends were just...gone. He rolled his eyes and said "they went into private schools. Their parents accused the public schools of being responsible for their daughters' terrible grades, and so put them in expensive private schools, where the schools don't give a shit what they did, as long as the fees are paid. The schools give them good report cards, but they get terrible scores on state or national exams, so they're going to 2 year "husband catcher colleges". No other colleges will touch them." He said most of them had coke and alcohol problems too.
The way he said “got beat up by a girl” pisses me off, cause you know she was beating on him and he was following that “you can never hit a girl” mess. If she can put hands on you, do what you gotta do to stop it.
She sold out her bf while he did everything to not rat her out.
The disgrace.
Love how the cop tries to pretend that he's "not being a douche", while continuously saying the dude got "beat up by a girl" and threatening the domestic abuse victim with jail time. Can't help but feel like he deserved to get kicked in the face. 😒
She did something right 😅
That was just so horrible! Threating the victim with jail time. No cop would treat a female victim of abuse like that. It's not a crime to not give your name when THERE IS NO REASON to do so.
@@leonieperreault2895 oh dont be so sure of that. Theres a video of a cop body slamming a woman for not "cooperating" with cops after being abused. grated he was fired for it but still.
This one hits home for me. My 'mother' is abusive and controlling of my dad and he has never once stood up to her, even defending her actions when she does get arrested. Which is fairly frequent in the last few years. My sis and I learned to be better people for it, to NOT turn out like her, but we both know people who were in similar situations and repeated the stuff they grew up around. Male victims of DV is a serious issue, one that gets far too little attention.
You should make a diary and everytime your mum abuses your dad write it down with a time and date, if your mum ever decided to accuse your dad that would help him massively in court
It’s because of his trauma bond unfortunately. It is something that causes withdrawal that has been compared to like when you try to withdraw off of drugs. It’s a form of addiction to the toxic relationship where you feel you can’t leave. Also, the reason I know this is cause I went through it when I escaped my abusive family and I had to go through many stages where it felt like I was being burned alive from the inside and such.
Your father is a weakling and your sister and you have to help him because of that. Ignore her, hurt her by showing no love at all, put her on the spot.
@@cleopatra1633 I completely disagree with saying it’s because he is weak. You are really invalidating his pain and trauma by basically saying he didn’t leave cause he is weak. I am offended on behalf of him because that is the best way to make it to where a victim of DV shuts down and may spiral to a worse place. You saying he is weak is the equivalency of saying you’re depressed because you aren’t thinking happy thoughts. It is much more complicated and difficult than that. Did you know for DV survivors it’s said that the majority of them will go back 7 times before they’re finally able to break free? It’s like an addiction you can’t shake and follows you like a shadow. Everyday it’s whispering all the reasons to fall back into it and why it’s better to give in. This is something that requires patience, time, and support to truly shake off and work towards healing from. People who are trauma bonded need to be treated the same way as an addict. They are addicted to the highs and lows, to the chaos and turmoil, they’re addicted to intensity of it. They begin to crave the moments when they’re love bombed after the horrific abuse. Also, depending on what mental illness (likely personality disorder) the mother has ignoring her would escalate the abuse IMMENSELY. The moment you try to ignore people like this they do worse and worse things to regain the control and attention they feel they have lost. The best way to deal with them is to gray rock them especially people who are narcissistic or NPD. “React” to them by being unresponsive and emotionless to all the shit the pull. Basically be polite but emotionally unavailable in ever respect. They do these things because they want the reaction and attention so when they don’t get it they will lash out in worse and harsher ways. You can attempt to ignore but know that it will make the abuse worse and potentially more dangerous as it continues to escalate. I know Al of this because my entire family is full of abuse narcissistic people and both of my parents have NPD. Please be mindful and aware of what information to put out especially for such delicate and dangerous situations like abuse. If given the wrong advice or information it really can lead to tragedy like murder or suicide. /:
Being offended, delicate and emotional is not getting you any good life. All that mental illness excuses and the alfabet diagnoses (ADHD, NPD, PTS, blablabla) are starting to get on my nerves.@@ScarletAngleGaara
This is a perfect "if the roles were reversed" situation. I'm hoping the best for him and SO happy Leon posted this reaction for more awareness on this subject!
Minus his dumb ass comment about how the cop shouldn’t “touch her like that”
@@BigBoss-sh2jx Totally! Overall toxic relationship.
@@bayylayyy2075 horribly toxic. They’re both terrible people but he’s a little better for sure. The cop also sucks. Overall a garbage situation and this girl needs a mental hospital
Her bf is a genius. He agreed to give his name if the cops spoke to her, knowing once she pulled her crazy shit they wouldn’t even care about his name.