Things Only Children Are Sick Of Hearing
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- “Wow, you don’t seem like an only child."
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I'm an only child and I hate when people assume I'm lonely....
I just got used to being by my self and I like it that way
Charlie Charls Dupei YES. Like bruh I'm not lonely
Charlie Charls Dupei ikr it's so annoying
Yeah it sucks... So I have a pet
Fluffykins 1297 same!
I was so annoyed of hearing all of those things growing up 🙄 especially "you must be spoiled huh?"
you don't realize how spoiled you are until you're not spoiled anymore
Funny thing is only child doesn't automatically mean they were spoiled. I think that depends on the parents. If anything my parents had too much time to worry about every little thing I did and no other siblings to take the heat off. I actually probably got punished more because I had no one else to blame things on lol.
Cat Woman I HATED THAT lol having no one else to blame :((
So true!! I was never spoiled. I feel like people only view us that way since we are the only ones getting things cause of no siblings, so it just looks like we have a lot. When in reality it is a normal amount of stuff, if not less for some people.
lovecandy555 RIGHT!! At times I'd see some of my friends who had siblings actually have more toys and all than I did I was like wtf 😂
the worst is “why didn’t your parents have any more kids?” like chill out it’s their decision and not everyone is able to 🤷♀️
My parents tried again when I was 7 but sadly lost the baby. Then they got divorced a few years later
@@radioactive_baby oh so sorry
I know, not everyone wants to have lots kids or can have lots. I really felt offended by that one.
Me: cause infertility .... maybe don’t ask personal questions next time Felicia
It's also my wish if I want any siblings or not everything is not only parents discussion.... My mom had abortion because I didn't want any sibs!!
No I didn't have imaginary friends
No my parents don't spoil me, not at all rly lol
And I am aware that having no siblings is boring and I don't have great social skills no need to remind me :)
With a month late reply: One of the best comments I've seen here. Honest. True. Relatable.
I have an active imagination
Imaginary friends
Im not spoiled
I don't get the best presents
You don't want to be an only child because it's lonely
And nothing was wrong with my parents
i had imaginary friends growing up....
Hailey Carroll yeah that’s true. One of my friends who has siblings told me that I’m lucky that I’m an only child because he thought that meant I got more gifts. But in reality I wanted siblings.
I am definately not spoiled. Actually my mom wants me to be good so she is very strict with me
I have a great imagination. Even if i just get 5 mins of daydreaming time a whole story is formed in my mind.
And i am an introvert so i definately dont have those social skills but is love being alone.
But i never wanted any siblings
this is to relatable. I am an only child and I always hate it when people say "wow you are so lucky that you are an only child!" um.....not true
RL Pictures ikr
Ugh I hate that so much
RL Pictures ikrr
Agreed. I hate it.......
Ikr 🙄
"Oh so you were spoiled" is a classic as well
Yess
hipp ly yep
I just say yes because I can't lie haha
hipp ly yessssass
Yess
*_Thought they meant “only children” as directed to children only_*
Z A Me too smh.
Z A me to
Same
Z A same
me too
I am an only child and let me tell you. This is so true... especially the one about people saying they wished they were an only child xD
Scarlett Escorza omg especially when people are like: you're an only child? That makes sense. Like what does that even mean??😂
Jazmyn Grandison When people say they have siblings I'm just going to be like "Oh yeah, that makes sense."
Scarlett Escorza and when they say you r lucky you can get everything you want alone and you don't have to share your food, room , clothes
Scarlett Escorza well here's something you'll love to hear. I'm not an only child and I don't want to be one😂
I have 6 siblings... I wish I only had 1 or 2 at the most.
Literally everyday people say that they want to be an only child because they think that being an only child means getting whatever you want from ur parents
(I just want to live without my annoying little sister that messes up our room, snores and insults me all the time)
elaine hobbs I don't think that's the main reason xD Usually it's because their other sibling is really annoying or something like that.
elaine hobbs literally... no my mom is not going to get me what ever I want... I have to earn it...also I was really close with my cousins so
You don't get ANYTHING
The undertale Surface friends yeah they don’t understand,
I'm an only child and when I hear these ESPECIALLY "You are spoiled" and "Can't your parents have anymore kids?" actually means "Please punch me in the face as hard as you can"
The number 1 thing that I hear when people find out I'm an only child is:
"Your parents must have spoiled you so much!"
And number 2 is:
"Your so lucky!"
Um, really?
M. S My parents spoil me or my family but it's not so much.. People assume that our lives are easy as only children.
Exactly omg
People assume that we're spoiled little brats even though we aren't.
Madeeha Saher I always hated that “you’re so lucky” my mom was carrying twins when I was three and had a miscarriage I don’t see anything lucky about that. I hated when ppl would ask about siblings I’d change the subject
Everyone thinks only childs are being spoiled lmao
I'm so dun! at the disco The funny thing is that it's not really that we're spoiled, we get the exact love and attention all children should have. Studies have shown that only children are more well adjusted and that probably why.
They do get spoiled.
469ka37 preach
I'm so dun! at the disco I am lol
Carrie Tafoya big round of applause to this lady everyone for generalizing every only child in the universe
I have literally heard all of these.
Bria Mayo same
Sameee 😂😂
Bria Mayo same
Same expecilay i wish i was an only child whenever i complain about being an only child
Miss Music Lady expecilay
Their not mental patients, just because you don't have siblings doesn't mean your insane.....
I'd actually probably be more sane if I was an only child
Littlemissbasketcase same
Littlemissbasketcase People literally act like I can't socialize because I don't have siblings. There's a thing called school that I go to every day, and I interact with people there. I know, it's a shocker. I also have these things called friends that I hang out with outside of school. I know, it's crazy.
Littlemissbasketcase Same! I also hate how they said they can't make friends but all of the only children I've met have so many friends! And I'm the eldest child and I have like 1 or 2 XD
When i want to play bored games by myself I act like the other players i sound crazy lol 😂
Alice Bandera I'm an only child and I do that too don't worry lol 😂😂..
Yep we are all mentally insane
Same
Same here, my cousin mostly just look at me weird but hey at least i’m having fun
Samee🤣, I play w my stuffed animals lol
"why didn't your parents want anymore kids" because they saw me and realized they made a mistake and learned from it.
KamiltheCamel d.aaa
KamiltheCamel or in my case medical issue
One time my co-worker asked me that. And i answered "my mother had miscarriage on both of what could've been my 2 young brothers. It was tough and she kept trying to have another sibling for me but her health condition made it impossible" and he regreted he ever asked me that. I hate nosy people.
They realized I'm the best they could get
Mia that is an optimistic way of viewing it.
This is so true!!! I hear this all the time, when people find out I'm the only child or whenever. It's so annoying!
Moon Shine you are probably the only perso. Who had an actual comment on the video
This vid is so true
Moon Shine Same. 😕
Moon Shine legit I could feel my self slowly get more and more annoyed as I watched this, I get that I'm an only child but does that really say that much about my personality?
Thanks for making a video that shines light on this BuzzFeed
Same. When it comes to sharing I'm better than my dad who grew up with two older siblings and I have non. So yer only kids are better kids
Only child squad?
Paper Flower present!
Ima here
Right here
Paper Flower Here!!
Count me in!
Almost all of these are true especially the "you're lucky to have 0 siblings" and "your parents probably spoil you right?" Those are definitely the most common ones for me. And here's the response to these:
I wasn't lucky. I would have loved a sibling. When I was little, I'd beg my parents to adopt one just so I'd have a playmate 24/7. Today, I still wish I had one.
When I was little, as in 2-6, I was with toys. Now not so much. I just get what I need and that's it
They assume your rich enough to get everything when that's not the case for some only children, some have to appreciate what they have while others are spoilt rotten.
As an only child, watching this video made me cringe.
Me too girl. I'm an only child too.
@@frankuduma5264 same
@@strawberry.aesthetic489 We're on the same boat! In your opinion how does it feel to be an only child?
Same l
@@frankuduma5264 Idk what it feels like 😂 it's nothing too bad , but when i was a child i ALWAYS wanted a sibling because it did get kinda lonely at home .
You see, all of the things that they said apply differently when you're asian.
Instead of being bombarded with gifts, you're bombarded by math homework, piano, and violin.
Danklomaniac so true #Asian
yeh, but are you doctor yet?
*ALL OF THE ABOVE*
Danklomaniac LMAO
As an only child of an Asian family, I can say that this is true.
I'm an only child and I didn't have any imaginary friends growing up
I tried because I saw it on TV or something, but I knew they weren't there so I got bored 😂👍🏻
Chloe Van Kam OMG ME TOO
Some people think us only children had imaginary friends when we younger because we had nobody else to play with, other than our friends, which some people question how we make friends. I have friends BTW
Me neither, I thought that was messed up.
I have an imaginary friend....until now...
Anybody ever hear the:'I bet you can't share anything' one??
Belladona Bella lol omg yes. Funny thing is I've always found only children to be more generous than those with siblings because they never had to compete or hide things from anyone.
Yes 👐👐
SalemElectro7 thank you for saying this. My grandma always says I’m good at sharing stuff with my friends and I’m an only child.
Im good at sharing though. My relatives always praise me for how good im at sharing everying with everyone. And how their kids dont share despite of having siblings.
When ppl say “OMG ur sooo lucky you don’t have siblings” but they forgot about the crippling loneliness
FR like bro i am literally lonely asf
Why loneliness is bad?
@@Etherion956 because you go crazy at some point well that's my reason also at 6AM I cry myself too sleep
@@SN.T.V gay
@@Etherion956 thanks
You know the feeling when your classmates around you arguing about having a good or bad sister when you're an only child
Fr
I hate it when people say I wish I was an only child, because it gets boring
Griffin Tierney Same. I always answer something along 'Trust me, no you don't' but they are so sure that a world without their siblings is wonderful..
Griffin Tierney make some friends.
victoria hale lmao. That's what I was thinking.
victoria hale I have friends. But what do you do when you can't hang with them? 👂👂 Exactly
Griffin Tierney yeah but sometimes siblings aren't worth having when they're abusive af
"only children are the devil's children" ..wut
ikr lol
Rainy Day I have a feeling the devil has many children, so that phrase doesn’t add up to me.
As an only child myself, that was the only one I liked
Rainy Day Ikr like wtf
Rainy Day yeah seriously where did that come from...
I cringed so much at this because I'm an only child and it's too accurate
Emma Paige I know right
I can relate
Emma Paige LUCKY
One of my classmates said this to me
"Your so lucky you don't have to share anything."
Dude, I have to do TONS of chores and no one helps me.
Cousins be like
Yea that's true cousin and frds told me also
When people tell me “you seem/ don’t seem like an only child” I always ask why. Then they start to stutter and get awkward
I'mma do that lmao
probably because you are an extroverted person
ugh i hate when people tell me this stuff!!!
our world to over populated anyway so the parents of only children are doing us a favor
Tweety Dog or adopting children
violet blossom yeah!!! bc many poor children grow up without love or a family plus adopting children is great bc sometimes in orphanages children are treated badly Or not cared for so yeah great idea 💡
It's fine to have other children just not like ten *no offense to people with 9 siblings*
Nope nopity nope.
So true
I remember when I was around 10 I didn't speak English very well and a woman told me I must be spoiled because I am an only child. And I was so offended because I thought she meant rotten/broken.
Wtf
"You're so lucky being an only child" LIKE NO, STOP. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW BADLY I WANTED A SIBLING.
Same
I know right right ? Especially at younger age getting a sibling was like a dream for me .
I know right-
I hate hearing ..."Can you drive?""No...we have food at home""Fix your face!""You are getting on my last nerves! ""Ask your dad""Ask your mom""Stop asking or else the answer is no""I know you see me on the phone!""Better fix those grade or you ain't goin anywhere"I hate hearing those things from my parents ...
"I wish I was an only child!"
LMAO NO YOU DON'T
True all my friends say I'm SO lucky, and I'm like ok sure if being lonely and bored all day is lucky...
Hazelst well I'm lucky, I'm the only child and it's fun SO STOP COMPLAINING;!!!!!!
Lmao imagine having siblings tho, bluergh.. gotta thank god for being an only child.
You are always the one who gets in trouble
Yup being bored lonely and sad is SOOOOO lucky-😐
I'm so TRIGGERED! IM NOT A DEVIL CHILD
Lillypad ;D IKR!
Hahahaha i cant....
Honestly though, I *LOVE* being an only child. Both of my parents have siblings, and their sibling relationships are...dysfunctional to say the least.
ilovesparky13 same
ilovesparky13 See, this dysfunctional sibling relationship, I never understood. My brother and I, no matter how much we've ever fought (and hoo boy have we fought), could never lastingly dislike each other. We were raised with the mindset that it was us against the world, and intrinsically trust each other.
Then again, my parents are from the Bahamas and raised us with the village mentality, so maybe this is me not understanding the American mentality as much.
How is it that one's own blood can mean less than water, I've always wondered? And it's not just your parents and their siblings. I unfortunately know more families with siblings who actively dislike each other and don't talk at all, than siblings who are thick as theives, like my brother and myself. I don't get it.
ilovesparky13 SAME.
ilovesparky13 same except for my dad's side. I'm amazed they get along when there's four of them lol
1:08. no not really because i am an only child and my parents are divorced and everyone is like, "oh well you are so lucky to not have to share your parents." i will make up my own freaking mind about whether or not i am lucky to always have my parents undivided attention and always get in trouble no matter what i do causeim their testing dummy for parenting.
People who are an only child: I wish I have siblings.
People with siblings: **Here, take mine.**
Do "Things Siblings Are Tired of Hearing" next
Cheese Burger y'all have enough videos. We need more only child appreciation videos 😂
Cheese Burger siblings are the norm tho ?? there are more siblings than only children a video on siblings wouldnt make sense unless its like "things eldest/middle/youngest siblings are tired of hearing" now that could work
Why aren't you more like your brother/sister?
Cheese Burger or like things twins r tired of hearing
Bridgette Morris So true 😂
"Only children are the devils children"
WHAT 😂😂😂😂
I'm an only child;-;
Censored Cutie same
Same sad lyf
Same, but i'm happy as ever. :D
I have a friend who's an only child and he's the most disciplined child I've ever met
Fr
When your an only child and they're like OMG YOU'RE SOOOO LUCKY YOU MUST LOVE IT I'm so sick of hearing that
I laughed because I'm an only child and my parents ARE my best friends
Vivian Tanner literally me 😂
I'm an only child and I never even bothered asking my parents why they only decided on having one............ Yeah, I don't wanna know.
Andrea Bea my parents didn’t really decide it’s just that my mom got extremely ill for several years and couldn’t have any more.
My parents just thought one was enough
"I wish I was an only child." Do people realize that they just said they wish that their sibling(s) wouldn't exist? Do people realize how lucky they are?
I wished, begged and prayed for a sibling since I was maybe 4 years old and even now I still feel like I failed and should have begged more. Especially because my parents also regret it. I wouldn't say just because I'm a failure but that may also be one of the reasons.
I get that I'm their only chance but I'm also just only human and can't be perfect.
I cry so often at night because I'm so scared of being alone.
I am really disappointed sometimes. I know I'll never be able to change it but I wish there would be a way.
I know in your teenager times it's hard with siblings but guys you should be so grateful. You don't know yet what a gift they are and how much they are the reason you are who you are.
Hearing all of these makes me so frustrated
Edit: When they say this to me, I feel the need to correct them but nooo I'm too shy
LyricsByA Lynx same
“Oh... you’re an only child? You must be spoiled”.
JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE SIBLINGS DOESN’T MEAN YOU’RE SPOILT.
Only child here.
*i can't share.*
The only thing I'm willing to share is *Chores*....
They're all pawned on me.
I'm physically incapable of sharing
get your own
That's the only thing in this video that applies to me
As an 11 year old, this quite relatable
you are so young - stay strong x
It's 6 year now
Then u must be 17
Bah are u still lonely?
I am 16 gonna be 17 this year
And then one year to go and college days will start
A new life is waiting
If I work hard now I am sure I will be able to get admission to a better one
Who else is an only child here?
KamiltheCamel I was for 11 almost 12 years
Me
KamiltheCamel Lol not me I have 6 siblings 😜
Heyyy
KamiltheCamel me
Everyone says "that explains a lot" cuz I'm introverted and yah
"Your to old for thoose stuffed animals tho.."
Me : okay get me siblings and take the stuffed animals.
I hate being an only child!!😢
Aaliyah Gosal same :/ I miss my brother
Albio x wait you used to have a brother?
Aaliyah
Same I would’ve had a sister but..
You hate.... But i don't ...
Toycats Bread -
When I tell people I’m an only child they always say “oh is it because your parents couldn’t have more kids?” Like no some parents only want one child. Why is it so hard to understand?!?
WE ONLY CHILDREN ARE STILL SOCIAL AND OUTGOING AND WE ARE NOT THE CENTER OF ATTENTION WITH OUR PARENTS. I LIVE WITH MY MOM AND I BARELY TALK TO HER😑😑.
LIKE WHAT,JUST BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE A NOTHER HUMAN IN THE HOUSE,DOESNT MEAN I DONT HAVE FRIENDS I CAN ASK TO COME OVER OR HAVE COUSINS!!....(p.s army)
Izabella V I am an only child.. and whenever I feel bored.. I am on UA-cam... I feel like I can learn so much there... science videos, news, comedy.. the world is at our fingertips now.. better than chatting with a person in ur room all day though.. and when I want to study, I do...when I want to watch TV, I do... I have no one to watch me or nag me anyway.. p.s. whenever I am bored, I usually check out BTS skits and interviews... and clean the house by putting BTS music on loud.. as I am alone most of the time...so I have no one to judge me... hey ARMY!
The thing that always offends when people say is "As a single child, you are good at sharing"
Like only child actually shares a lot because I see everyone as a sibling.
I, myself, am a only child and proud🙋🏼
I am an only child only because I got rid of anyone else who dared ruin that 😈.
KamiltheCamel that's fucked
Dude I should have done that!!! Too late now tho now I'm stuck with 3 younger siblings 😒😒
Laurie Bernard I'm stuck with 3 OLDER siblings 😂😂
Me: Oh I’m an only-child
Pretty much everybody in my class: LUCKY
That elementary life bruh
who else is an only child?
Ian Lambert I was for almost 12 years
Me
Ian Lambert here
Ian Lambert meeeee!!!
The people who are only children are lucky
*t h a t ' s w h a t c a t s a r e f o r*
update: oh hey 👋 I've made s video with my cat k that's cool
Celina Tabbi truuuuuu
I'm an only child and animal lover
If I had a cat, I would say "hey, wanna despise humanity together?"
Anna Robles Y E S
Especially now-a-days
Celina Tabbi YES
The worst is when ur friends with a sibling/s say “I wish I was a only child”
You really don’t…🥲😐it’s very lonely when ur friends are doing something else so u have nobody to talk to-
And also when people say that only children are spoiled not all are-
I’m an only child and I have to admit that I love it! I also admit that I do live up to some people’s expectations of only children, considering I’ve always had my parents’ love and attention and always got what I want (I’m not that greedy or demanding though, so it’s okay). I often wonder what life would have been like with a sibling but I’ve never felt a genuine need for (or even wanted) one as I have great friends, a large extended family and enjoy being on my own from time to time. And I have a great imagination as well.
I grew up thinking it was called a "Lonely child" not an "only child"..... now i realise that i kinda was a lonely child anyway ;-;
I'm lucky to be an only child.
SuperEddie Gaming you are
SuperEddie Gaming you are not
SuperEddie Gaming no, you're not
This was mental torture. I hear this every time I meet someone I don't know very well.
I've dated many, many women. Six of these women I dated were only children, and one I was briefly married to. All six of them had problems with sharing and dividing tasks, believed their value was more than mine (without contributing), always had to get their way, would just do as they please and thought I had to bend backwards for them, and even had significant issues doing simple tasks. Half of them didn't have jobs or make money and still expected this! They expected me as the breadwinner to clean and cook for them, buy them gifts, and also give them a ton of attention while they contributed nothing. They literally could not see anything wrong with this.
In all the cases their parents literally did everything for them. Their parents didn't make them do chores or cook and clean or do anything else, and so they would expect their boyfriends to do this, even as they didn't have jobs! If you didn't agree with them then they didn't see any issues running over you to do what they want.
I grew up in a house with many siblings, and while we could run into issues like this, we had a general idea atleast of dividing and sharing. In defense of the only child, they tend to be ultra confident and pretty flexible. Just very limited social understanding of group dynamics and how to be equal in a relationship.
If I had a dime for every time I heard “Your so lucky being an only child!” I would have enough to give every only child 1 million bucks.
Thought they meant "Only Children" as it is only directed towards children. 😂
“I’m so lonely I have nobody for my own”
Most of these, I don't mind but the questions "Why didn't your parents want more kids?" or "What's wrong with your parents?" gets on my nerves. It's too personal to be asking. That's common sense.
I hate how people say wow you must have been spoiled.
I do get tired of hearing such like this
me tooo
lolaveragegirl24 Love But they aren't questions that they are actually asking... They're just saying them
“You’re so lucky”
“I bet you had imaginary friends”
“Nerd much?”
“You can have mine”
*cries myself to sleep because of loneliness*
SAME HERE ILL CRY WITH YOU
@@hearts4melaniemartini YAS
@@woah.z SAD ONLY CHILDREN UNITE
YES BUZZFEED COME THROUGH.
You know how when you meet someone new most people assume they have siblings... I usually forget most people do have siblings
People say me, ohhh you are so lucky you don't have any siblings.
I'm an only child and I really really do love being alone as an adult lol
It's every day bro with no Disney channel flow.....
Mo Money you said England is my city. Comment only once so people's comments will not drown in the comments section
And I just drop some new merch and they are selling like a God church
I'm a only child
Orangeyocolot same
Bubbly Puppy are you sick of hearing these things
ikr I hate hearing I wish I was only child and are you lonely
Orangeyocolot yes it's really annoying but I've gotten used to it
Avalon Pancakes same
I hate when people say Im lucky like bro Id rather have a annoying ass brother or something then horrible social skills and loneliness
Another one is:
“I HATE my siblings”
Please, please, PLEASE , cherish them. Even if they’re the most annoying person on earth. They’re all you’ve got at the end of the day
This is so true. Ugh.
Infinite Anime true dat
Finally something I can relate to
1:10 I'm a Christian please don't say that it is so rude
the "it makes sense now" IS SO TRUE so when i ask people for the explanation they always say that its cuz im not good with sharing and quit self centered which i started noticing recently 😭
You know what's weird? Being an only child then suddenly being thrown into having step siblings. Changes everything.
Im an only child
So i have a cousin
Also cousin is your sibling 2.0
I'm glad my parents gave me my sister!😂💕
Finally someone's grateful about it.
THAT IS SOOOOOOOOO TRUE!!!!
The one thing I’m tired of is people saying that I’m lucky to be an only child. People don’t realise it’s the other way around.
Literally every single one of my friends told me "I wish I was an only child" and it makes me so pissed like I would LOVE to have siblings and you aren't even thankful for having siblings
I'm a only child but my cousins are like my 'siblings
same bruh
Ughh I hear these every day 😂😂
I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.... Who else *isn't* an only child?
Stranger: "Why didn't you have more then one child?"
Mother: "Plastic is more durable now."
Stranger: "Why didn't you have more than one child?"
Mother: "Birth control."
People : "you are an only child OMG you are soo lucky, you will get all your parents love, I wish I was an only child. Don't u get bored? Don't u hate it"
*I don't understand why ppl think it's lucky to be an only child, I mean sure u won't have to share your stuff with others and no fighting but what about the lonliness.*
*My parents never treated me any different from other kids, also I am almost always home alone sooo...*
*U don't know what being only child is like, that's the reason u want to be one..*
*Only childs have their own way of entertaining themselves, so they aren't always bored.*
*Sometimes I wish I had siblings but that doesn't mean I hate being an only child*