If You're Afraid To Fail, WATCH THIS | Mel Robbins
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If you’re holding yourself back because you’re terrified of failing, this video is for you.
Failure doesn’t make you give up. It happens when you give up. If you’re still trying, you haven’t failed.
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I read an article this very day, where a great female sprinter (battling injury and depression) said: “I never ‘fail’ - I either win, or learn”.
FruScarpia - What a great perspective!!! ❤️
Yes.
Words of wisdom that I totally agree with.
I believe that’s from Nelson Mandela. Great perspective!!
Now THAT is the mindset we women really need!!!❤
fear of failure gives me an obscene amount of anxiety when it came to starting something new. so aggravating but anytime I do push through something i'm beyond proud of myself afterwards
That's me.
This is exactly me, when I get put Trough new things I didn't planned or don't feel like do but have to do it it gives me such a big amount of anxiety it paralyzes me but once I gain courage and do it I feel like I'm in the top of the world
I went through this today for my regulation exam. While answering the questions I started to feel anxious and a bit fearful of the uncertainty of the outcome of my results..
Courage doesn’t come from doing something without fear. Courage comes from the person who is fearful, but does it anyways.
"You can't fail your dreams, because they're meant to be pursued, not achieved"
I honestly think this is so poignant, and it punched me in the gut. I've never thought of it that way
I learned that the fear of failure is what kept me back from doing many things in life. Overcoming the fear of failure wasn't easy but it's so much better on the other side, doing new things and trying to achieve goals you've been dreaming about!
How did you overcome it?
Go preach your garbage ideology to every single prisoner (all prisoners are prisoners of war) especially those with no possibility of parole.
Go look them in the eye and tell them NEVER to give up trying to get out of prison.
Okay.
Thank you for the encouragement.
Sounds like you're going ahead nicely.
Good work. 👍🏻👍🏻
"In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity." ~ Albert Einstein This quote has gotten me through SO much in my life when I wanted to give up.
This is me, and that's why I procrastinate!!!🤦♀️😫😕
Exactly how I feel like you
@joud9482 same...
I am afraid of both failures n success ..When I succeed I doubt myself that do I deserve it
I think that it is called impostor syndrome...it really sucks. When you finally get over the fear of failing and succeed at something, you have to constantly remind yourself that you deserve to be in that position. It is the feeling of not being good enough that holds us back.
That's caused by devil agenda to harm yourself,be careful always.
The simple answer is your just fucking lazy
@@gricosandrinotereno2960 nope that's you for assuming so
Me too... and when people cheer me i always think.. oh anyone could have done this I just got lucky. I never appreciate my self and my work and I work hard for my plans, i put my soul in it.
4:07: "When you fail once, you double your chances of success." Thanks Mel.😁❤💯
Everything we ever want is on the other side of fear
Always felt as a failure due to what my mother told me through out my life. But she’s gone now. I just launched my own blog and business 2 weeks ago at age 59. Mel you are the reason I tried this. I hope it’s a hit. Thank You Mel!
I hope wherever she is now she's looking at how well you're doing and kicking herself. 👍
Not good enough, been told this my whole life! Raised by abusive parents so nothing I ever did was going to be, despite whatever I did, it was not ever going to be good enough for anything and anyone! I'm seemingly stuck in a dead-end, low paying job that I truly despise and ALL I want to do is follow my dreams. It takes so much effort just for me to get to this job, to stay at this job, to pretend to be OK there. I'm dying inside from this current life and this horrible job! I have to try doing whatever I loved to do years ago, I need to get that creative spark back and try to move forward in some small way.
It's not too late to follow your dreams, good luck 😋
F.A.I.L. = First Attempt I Learn, meaning, if you fail, you have actually learned what not to do in order to succeed next time
Love this
Thank you good quotation.🗝️🙏
Sometime you have to try several Times...
I like that too true !
First Attempt I Leave, in my case
Failure to Succeed. Yes, I don’t feel good enough, always someone else to compete with.
Karen Kurves Stippey whatever you do you are good enough as long as you take action to achieve it
KatyDBusinessCoach thank you. Yes!
Only compete with yourself! Be better everyday, forgive your learning processes, rid your life of anyone who holds your failures against you, they are small minded and need to go so you can achieve your goals.
You either win from an experience of learn and grow from an experience. It's all a matter of perspective. Every failure is a learning experience. Once we decide to feel the fear and do it anyway we learn that every 'failure' is a gain because it shows we are chasing our dreams and learning along the way rather than waiting for the perfect moment (which never comes about). Remember you are one failure closer to success. Keep going, anything is possible!
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"your dreams are meant to be pursued and not achieved" wow this quote has changed me a lot and I think we all guys have to change our attitude towards failure cuz once you pursued your dream once you've put an effort and strived for your dream there is no regret regardless of the outcome
You’ve saved me so many times. I remember I was so scared of flying and your videos pushed me outside of that fear bubble. Now I am intensely scared of failing and your words are such a great comfort. Thank you!
I needed this. Mel, thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Hi its me your sister , victoria justice your twin sister😮😮😮
I dont afraid to fail when it comes to learning but when money joins in it gaves me the chills maan
This video hit me hard. I had a teacher a few years ago that destroyed my confidence by yelling at me a lot and telling me that I was wrong. This helped a lot.
Everything we attempt starts in ignorance. Failure only comes when you give up. Keep trying and eventually you become the EXPERT. There are no short cuts - the more you try the better you become. All world champions do this!
The only way we really fail is failing to try. We get so caught up in comparison and self-defeating thinking that we forget that everyone starts somewhere. We can't compare our beginning to someone's end product. We need to take that first step forward and keep taking baby steps. We will get there eventually! We also can't hold ourselves up to impossible standards! Sometimes "done" is better than "perfect." :) Have an amazing day, everyone! We're all in this together!
Currently in my second year of med school, realizing I want to be a general surgeon after convincing myself that I didn’t want it in my first year. Now I’m setting up meetings and making baby steps towards preparing my application
All true. Mel, you are genuine and kind, thank you.
From the first few minutes of the video, I started crying because it HIT ME. Thank you Mel, you’re wonderful ❤️🥺 . I will try . fuck the failing, I am trying and I will go through it!! F the fears and the thoughts that make me feel so little. I am doing it 💪🏻💪🏻😊
I was 'let go' at work 2yrs ago after the company I worked for was bought out. Shocking after being there 17yrs.
I managed to build my own business over the last 18mths, yet I almost had a panic attack after doing an elevator speech at a networking event.
Exactly what you said..... saying out loud to an audience was what induced the sheer panic afterwards.
Well done you!
You are so awesome, Mel! I loved your TV show...don't give up. We need you!!!
I m trying to pass my finals and this was exactly what i needed. Thankyou!
Mel you always find ways to inspire me when I start to doubt myself.
Mel Thank you soooo much... I needed this in the most crucial moment in my life...it's now or never!
Mel you make things look so easy & you give ways and means to achieve it .. I feel indebted to you . Thank you dear..
This is all I need right now, thank you for those words to make me/us realize that failure is just okay just needed to push it through just needed to make it happen for the sake our goals and dreams in our life.
Thank you for your video, the way you put things makes a lot of sense.
Love you Mel. ❤️❤️❤️
We're the same age, but you are the mother to my inner child giving me the courage to try. I'm gonna do this thing. And I will learn.
YES! I have always wanted to use my voice in a creative way, either singing, or doing voice over work. When I am alone, I can do crazy voices and accents, feeling free in myself. I recently took a voice over class through college continuing ed. I was in a class full of naturals, felt awful about myself, and left the animation class early...:( I inhibit myself in the presence of other talented folks :(. I had an email from the instructor after the class to find out if I was ok. I am not feeling comfortable to go back to the last class, but I will, just to commit to myself and to not run away (which has been a pattern for me...)
If it helps, try posting it online where there's no comment section (a freelance site like fiverr, or selling songs on itunes) and see if you got traction. UA-cam is great too if you don't mind some comments. Most of the times, what you think as "awful" is actually "wow this is amazing" to a group of people - you just have to find your own group of people. I mean 50 shades of gray and twilight got fans...
Blood Majesty 🙏 I do have voice demos and songs up on SoundCloud.com and posted a bit on UA-cam😉💖. Thank you so much for your suggestions...
So strong you💜
Fascinating about how your dreams and goals led you to something else. Thank you.
4:18: “All I ever want you to do is try.”
Thanks Mel💫 It helped to hear this today🙏
Thank you ❤ it’s actually ridiculous to feel that way! It was my family of origin that made me feel that way! It’s BS! We are fabulous!!!
Your video just answer a big question that I had. I couldn't see the answer until now.
Thanks for your words!
Thank you mel I needed to hear this.
Thank You so much this was a eye opener to life.
Perfect timing thank you Mel
Mel & Friends, aren’t failures a given towards achievements? Of course we aim to avoid devastating failures, but all success stories are loaded with some failures... in my assessment of all successes, there seem to be three real forms of failure. Failure to start, failure to learn from failures and failure to get back up, dust yourself off, and get going again. Les Brown days, “Shoot for the moon, land on the stars”.... if we don’t start/launch, we’re stuck holding our fears, looking up at the stars. Let’s shoot and land among them! Thank you Mel for all you do! You’re a stars in my book! Best to all!
this makes me feel real better , thankyou!
Thank you . I just had my long breathe after watching this video
Such a valid point one thing often leads to something even better
If we are afraid of failure we project the failure and it happens. I love to think that the failure is just showing me that this solution will not work and I am encouraged to give it a try from another angle :)
Awesome message! Thanks Mel!
Really encouraging Mel, thank you 🌸
There is no aspect of life that you can't inspire us on Mel! Great video with such great advice.
Thanks Mel. Bless you.
I really needed this, I love you Thank You so much !!
I perform music on stage weekly (guitar player) and I suffer from severe performance anxiety due to my deep fears of failure.
Imagine taking off on a blistering guitar solo only to lose focus, hit the wrong notes, or just go blank momentarily. These are my deepest fears when I perform…
However, I have learned to use these awful anxieties and fears of failure to motivate me to practice so much that I know my muscle memory will overcome the nerves and anxieties of performing in front of hundreds of people. I see my fears of failure as a blessing!
I love what I do and no way will I ever allow my relentless anxieties and fears stop me from performing on stage.
Practice, practice, and practice is my solution to this horrible problem.
Tomorrow morning, it all starts again but I’m ready, I’m prepared, and I’m going to do awesome! 🎸😊🎶
I've been wanting to sing in public sometimes but I feel scared of looking stupid and others would laugh at me and say the same (eg Divz is stupid for trying). Inner critics come too
Thanks, this video helps me a lot when I feel demotivated when I can't understand something, I just play and play again this video and keeps me moving forward toward my goals.
Thank u so much mel!
Thanks. I needed this.
Fear of failure is bad if it is stopping u from taking action but good if it make u work hard
The worst part is when you do try and you put 110% and you still fail. I love a challenge and I love trying new things. Yes, it is an experience and I'm not starting from square one. Thank you ❤
Mel..you are the truth! Love your content and your message, I needed this! 💯🔥
Thank you so much for giving me this motivation
Spot on as always. 💡 lightbulb moment
Aww this video makes me sad 😔 sorry about the show mel. Love ya ❤
You are an incredible personality thank you!
Thank you so much 💓
Thank you. This was so helpful.
There is no failure...just stepping stones to what we want. Love this video!
I really needed to hear this ... I started posting singing videos recently, and I've been so self-critical, I take days to film one cover because I keep playing the same song again and again until my fingers hurt from playing the ukulele.
Even after posting, I still think in my mind "ugh, I could have done better"... I honestly feel scared and embarrassed at the same time, like how could I ever be as good as other great singers.
This video really helped to make me understand that it's okay to feel afraid, embarrassed, scared to fail, because all of that just means I'm actually trying and putting in the work to get somewhere.
Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for this video 💛
This is SUCH a nice video, thanks so much - am a freelancer unused to having to look for work and guess what am terrified! Am finding that even taking small steps make me feel better, something every day or at least most days.
Thanks Mel! Love you! 💯👑🔑🙌🏾
This is so amazing! I have always had such great grades in school. I’ve always been really good at math and we’ve started to do thing that I just don’t understand. I’m feeling the pressure of I can’t fail, but this really helps!
Thank you this video was very helpful.
Stop putting yourself down if you make a mistake it's normal to make mistakes so we learning from them
There is lots of wisdom in this video!
I really needed this
She is incredible
Thank you im feeling motivated now to get a job while having social anxiety
I love this and needed this. Thanks Mel!!!!
ArdelleVision me as well. 🌼
Karen Kurves Stippey 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you for this video 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Absolutely true!
Thank you!
dont let failure hold you back.
This was so motivating & powerful! Thank You Mel !!!! 💥💥💥💕
Love this video I watched it a couple times already and want all my kids to see it!
Well, the fact that so many people still struggle with this makes me feel like the problem hasn’t been solved…
Just exactly what I needed 👍😎 thank you
This was really helpful. Really.
Wow.
Thank you.
I shall try tomorrow
2:48, i can literally understand how it feels to be afraid of failure... I can relate with her honestly ....
Thx I really needed it this time
I’m so here for it🔥❤️💯
I love her. I pray she is genuine thru and thru because she helps me get out of my headspace♥️
Why pray she's true? The inspiration feels true, your heart knows, follow that🙏🌿
This was sooo good Mel! I hope this inspires people who are crippled by the fear of failure to go forward with their dreams.
Yes!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Awesome! Thanks for sharing Mel! :)
Thankful
“You live and learn. At some point of your life, you live.”
Thank you so much
Thank you Mel!