I alway wanted to be a novelist but I felt it was too late for me. I wrote my first book at the age of 48. Got a novel published at 51. Been publishing books since. Sure, I still get rejected but I’m doing it. Have another novel coming out next month. It’s never too late. Mel speaks the truth.
Hi Mel!Love your podcast! Its so true, this video is came up on the right time for me, Im in dillema to apply for a higher position or not, because i know there is better trained people then me.But after hearing this Im going for it, thanks ❤
Amazing video thank you , I will be looking into what this is bc it's true , your right I we have to keep pushing there are days when it seems impossible but the key is to keep going the best you can, wow an enemy of our own selves is blowing me away with that fact , each time we do move forward it gets closer this video I will watch over and over it's good to know this and understand this thank you and God bless you mel
Love you Mel! You’ve helped me so much!! ❤ how you feel about David Higgins I feel about you! I needed to listen to your wisdom and then this video popped up
Try to find a known chiropractor who has a track record of helping people status post failed back surgery. They are out there. Also, Med Beds are coming. Keep the faith.
My dad had 7 back surgeries and would get up and walk as soon as the doctor said it was Ok. He kept his weight within normal range because extra weight especially in the mid section puts a lot of pressure on the back. Maybe you could research the top rated surgeons for your condition. Even if you have to go to another state it would be worth it if you could get better. If another surgery is not an option then there are pain devices that can be used. Pain devices can be outside the body or inserted through procedures. Some people get relief from a back brace too. Use a combination of methods to get the most relief you can. Unfortunately most of us live with some pain whether it be from arthritis, injury, or a million other reasons. I've actually thought of moving to an area with very little barometric changes because my body can feel when the rain chances are high without listening to the forecast. I hope some of these suggestions help. I'll say a prayer for you.
Only thing I heard was you have to know what you want. He knew he wanted to be a SEAL. Most of the time it starts as a child no matter the upbringing. Every adult who is rich knew as a child what they wanted. It's hard as an adult.
I love these short videos, because it's more plausible we can watch a video, that is 18 minutes long, than them for more than 1 hour. Who has almost 2 hours? Lol. Thanks Mel, you're awesome. Keep changing the world. You got this.
Yes! David Goggins and Andrew Huberman are both men I admire. Both men, but David in particular, focus on 'action' and 'consistency.' Those two attributes; action and consistency, are not only the answer to achieving goals, but also apply to relationships with ourselves and others. Actions speak louder than words, and consistency builds trust. Amazing messages.
You are a true inspiration Mel. Im walking a similar path and been sober for more than a year now and battling myself every damn day. But Ive decided to go online a nd be authentic and put myself out there to inspire and to SERVE. God bless you ❤
Hey! Mel, I don't kno if you read comments or not, but as you disclosed the fact, that it's always our past self with whom we rage a war with, & the moment we fail to take actions because we don't feel like doing, that victim past self wins, tears rolled down my cheek & I cried silently, after this realization of my life.💞🌸 A big Thankyou to you for sharing this & a big Thankyou to David goggins too.
I LOVE HER. There is something about Mel's energy, even if I had heard it from someone else, it wouldn't have had the same impact...I feel very connected to her.
I cannot thank you enough for introducing David Goggins to your audience. As a DV survivor I am often asked how I got through the hard times and I will say my friends Goggins, Jocko and Mel helped me every step of the way. I live in Boston and it would be such an honor to meet you someday. Keep up the amazing work.
I agree we have to take action. But I am unsure about the constant fighting with oneself. It is just tiring at some point. It helped to get started but for me does not work for sustainable movement. Far better I think is "you and you together" not "you against you". Like a well meaning grandmother who knows what is best and determined but lovingly says "come on, I know you don't like it, but we have to do this, trust me - you will feel better after".
You fight the version of you that was conditioned and made by your parents. You fight the wrong version of you. Now you need to find the real version that is hidden inside and be happy.
Hi northstar. It's so true, thank you. My father let me down, disinherited me too. Gave it all to my sister, who never worked and hung around the house. . Everything I thought we had was a lie. My greatest challenge will be getting away from this hurt and betrayal. I still hear him telling me what to do in my head.
HELL YEAH!!!... David Goggins is FUCKING LIMITLESS!!!... as am I ... I can honestly and painfully say that I grew up in an environment and with a Father VERY similar to the way he did and how his Dad was... The beatings and everything... I was in the Army National Guard... And in Boot Camp they singled me out but because of My Physical Training (well conditioned) and I had a mouth on me... Lol... I'm saying this because I as well had PTSD from my childhood growing up and didn't even realize it until couple years ago... And I'm now 42... I have listened to his audiobook "Can't Hurt Me" a total of 7 times in the last year or so and just started his second audiobook book "Never Finished" for the second time... Check it these books they are a FUCKING Life changer #PUSHYOURSELF #MindControl #BeFuckingLimitless😎
Oh Mel!!! I just had an AHA moment.. You just have this wonderful hability, to guide us; to identify the sh.. that's stopping us. It's cristal clear like never before. Discovering the Troyan horse(our old version that never left) The enemy's inside.. Thank you I treasure your wisdom..
Hmm...but there is also space for thoughts and mindset. Once you heal your traumas, actions become more doable and you don't have to be consistently fighting yourself.
I like David Goggins, but, he doesn’t seem so happy with life. He’s very disciplined. Probably the best. But all his interviews, he never mentions any life experience, or having fun. He’s always suffering, and punishing himself? Mabeye a happy medium?
So much Respect for him but I couldn’t get through the first chapter of his book. the audiobook was excruciating with the constant cursing. A little, I get it, do it myself and I’m not offended by it, but it’s constant, too much and unnecessary. It really takes away from the story and just over the top.
Honestly yes I do I've been working out everyday Non-Stop 48 years that I've been going through this crap roller heartbreaks mistakes f-ups Builds body's I would show you but people trip out seeing nude they say oh my gosh how disgusting not I see what he means looks good
Can somebody explain? Ive thinking a lot negative thoughts back in the past. Yet i didnt always attract what i was thinking. So does this attracting excists?
Hello i am from Iraq and I trying to learning English but my problems i can not to find anyont to talk English with him. Ana i do not know how distinguish between he american and british accent.
I have an old voice that likes to hang up on me and say " Your gonna end up fat, frustrated and broke like your mother!". I've been speaking back to that voice MANY times a week. I don't even have to do it in the mirror anymore. " There's no room in me for failure ideas, being fat, lazy, having run-away little girl energy!" I say it to myself strongly. Then I listen to Mel Robbins, Joe Dispenza, Esther Hicks, Louise Hay, and others. Exercise and running to funky music. Fight the Power is a great song!
Just searched Kendall's single Pass Time and found it on youtube, LOVED IT!!!! Can't to see it blow up on all the socials! Thanks for this talk, so glad I was lead to this exactly what i needed today!
May the Lord always be with you my beautiful and divine sister Evangelist Sarah for your inspiring prayers and your wonderful words of wisdom! 🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🎉🎉🎉
OMG!! I love this message as well and learned this the hard way many years ago. In the Creed movies Rocky takes Creed over to full length mirror and tells him it's you against you. One step at a time one punch at a time one round a time you it's you against you punch the guy in the mirror out of the mirror to be the champion you want to be.
Hey Mel, this was exactly what I needed to hear at the right time. I own a home services buisnes and got into a funk this winter. I feel like video this helped me snap out of it. Thank you!
I just stopped and listened to Pass Time. It's very good. Young Kendall ought to enable comments. I'm sure the positives will greatly outnumber the negatives.
Oh girl! This was really powerful for me! I love this message and you presented it in a beautifully strong and empowering way! Thank you for this! 💪🏼🙌🏼🔥♥️🔊
Yes! When it comes to believing in yourself with me it ALWAYLS comes the moment I start to do things. So simple and I hate myself that on and on I have to fight it even thought I know:) The worst is just thinking and thinking and being stuck in my mind. The simpliest and the hardest thing is JUST DOING. Thank you for this video💜
Man oh man 😮 I rarely leave comments, but this one really got me. When you talked about your story and how you were battling the fourth grade you. I realized I'm also battling the third grade me. Except it went on much longer on as much more severe. 😢 Not that it discounts your story at all! Thank you for this video. Now I know who I'm battling. Now I can win ❤
Just what I needed to break me out of my funk n fear @MelRobins !! THANKYOU for what you do for all of us! It's soo easy to get trapped and bogged down rendering us physically unable to take that simple action. When I heard you say, "ask yourself who you are batteling?" OMG and then reminding us of the 5,4,3,2,1 a switch went off in me in that moment and I'm not so scared of doing what I need to today! THANKYOU!! ❤🎉 You're THE BEST!!
There is certainly a past that holds me back. However, I often believe that I was better in the past, that I was better and that my best performance phase might be behind me. I'm 22 and I know that's simply not true. This video brought tears which just means it's true and there is something there. Thank you so much for this Video! And talking about this dark mostly silent wars inside us.
Hey, it's ur friend Ev, . . . Life wanted me to convey a msg 2 u all . . . . "I don't have to be hard, in fact, I can be easy 4 u, if u allow me 2 be" 👍👍💪💪☝️☝️👁️
OMG!! Mel I just listened to Kendall song past time what awesome and great song I even screen shot the lyrics to the song. I love the song. High 5 to you and your daughter 🖐😁👍🌷✝️🦅❤️❤️
I love listening to David Goggins also, Mel, and I read his book and he has overcome horrendous problems by taking action again and again and again. The Bible says that faith without works is dead, and this is a prime example. just wishing or hoping or blaming, or avoiding, will never bring the positive changes. In one of your prior podcasts, you mentioned how confidence is built every time you take action. You may not have been born with it, but as you build little victories, or as David would say “cookies in your cookie jar”, you were able to rise higher and overcome obstacles This is what I needed to hear today Mel. thank you!
I just love the way how Mel put it all together and she is also funny. It might sound rough about idea you are "battling" yourself but it is true.. we dont have just one personality, otherwise we would be the same every day with same mood same habits.. Thank you for your authentic podcasts and for sharing your self with us. You are truly braving the Wilderness in you❤
Wow, the old version of yourself holding you back is actually really powerful. I had to stop and re listen to that a few times. I think it would be a good excercise to write down what future me looks,thinks,feels like and then recognise when I'm holding myself back
I can relate but I was much much younger and he was much much older. I actually told my living parent about that and was told I was wrong. However, my older sister told me I was right because he did the same to her.
Where did the notion that you have to “serve others” come from?! Yes, from our hearts, we choose when and how to share and give, but there is no inherent obligation. And the biggest and most important takeaway from what Mail has shared here is for parents and adults who care for children. Take great care that you do not do things either subtly or overly to make them feel responsible for the feelings of adults around them - or for anyone in their lives! - as this is one of the seeds of the formation of a people-pleasing, or codependent, adult
Action Action Action, Just do it.
I alway wanted to be a novelist but I felt it was too late for me. I wrote my first book at the age of 48. Got a novel published at 51. Been publishing books since. Sure, I still get rejected but I’m doing it. Have another novel coming out next month. It’s never too late. Mel speaks the truth.
At almost 46 thus is especially motivating for me - THANK YOU 🙏🏾
this "you against you" clarification is major. ❤
Amen ❤
Loved this, it got me to finish moving on my 4 mile bike ride🚴♀️❤
Hi Mel!Love your podcast!
Its so true, this video is came up on the right time for me, Im in dillema to apply for a higher position or not, because i know there is better trained people then me.But after hearing this Im going for it, thanks ❤
Oh Mel you are the light of my days!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Blessed with baby girl
I heard that same interview. Powerful. Insightful. Authentic. Great interview.
Great video, very helpful😊🙌🏻
Amazing video thank you , I will be looking into what this is bc it's true , your right I we have to keep pushing there are days when it seems impossible but the key is to keep going the best you can, wow an enemy of our own selves is blowing me away with that fact , each time we do move forward it gets closer this video I will watch over and over it's good to know this and understand this thank you and God bless you mel
Love you Mel! You’ve helped me so much!! ❤ how you feel about David Higgins I feel about you!
I needed to listen to your wisdom and then this video popped up
I am applying to school 🙏🏻
Does anyone know about scholarships for single moms ?
I love Goggins❤
Paul mort is brilliant if you ever come across his stuff
New subscriber ❤
Mel,I'm excited to find you!! I need to know how you get up and go,I've got 2 failed back surgeries. Please someone tell me how to make me better
Try to find a known chiropractor who has a track record of helping people status post failed back surgery. They are out there. Also, Med Beds are coming. Keep the faith.
My dad had 7 back surgeries and would get up and walk as soon as the doctor said it was Ok. He kept his weight within normal range because extra weight especially in the mid section puts a lot of pressure on the back. Maybe you could research the top rated surgeons for your condition. Even if you have to go to another state it would be worth it if you could get better. If another surgery is not an option then there are pain devices that can be used. Pain devices can be outside the body or inserted through procedures. Some people get relief from a back brace too. Use a combination of methods to get the most relief you can. Unfortunately most of us live with some pain whether it be from arthritis, injury, or a million other reasons. I've actually thought of moving to an area with very little barometric changes because my body can feel when the rain chances are high without listening to the forecast.
I hope some of these suggestions help. I'll say a prayer for you.
Try hyperbaric oxygen therapy.
It’ll get better. My condolences to you.
Act ...but act what..what is that one thing to act...how to choose
Not today!! 😂
Only thing I heard was you have to know what you want. He knew he wanted to be a SEAL. Most of the time it starts as a child no matter the upbringing. Every adult who is rich knew as a child what they wanted. It's hard as an adult.
I love these short videos, because it's more plausible we can watch a video, that is 18 minutes long, than them for more than 1 hour. Who has almost 2 hours? Lol. Thanks Mel, you're awesome. Keep changing the world. You got this.
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How do you know which event in your life you're battling?
@@shellslarson1476 What do you mean? Ain't sure I understand your question.
@@shellslarson1476 you could start the time you felt insecure or a failure that makes you doubt you now
The action comes before the belief.
"It's no joke when you feel like there's something more". True story!
Yes! David Goggins and Andrew Huberman are both men I admire. Both men, but David in particular, focus on 'action' and 'consistency.' Those two attributes; action and consistency, are not only the answer to achieving goals, but also apply to relationships with ourselves and others. Actions speak louder than words, and consistency builds trust. Amazing messages.
Vision without action is merely a dream. ...
but can't this battle get you tired????
You are a true inspiration Mel. Im walking a similar path and been sober for more than a year now and battling myself every damn day. But Ive decided to go online a nd be authentic and put myself out there to inspire and to SERVE. God bless you ❤
Hey! Mel, I don't kno if you read comments or not, but as you disclosed the fact, that it's always our past self with whom we rage a war with, & the moment we fail to take actions because we don't feel like doing, that victim past self wins, tears rolled down my cheek & I cried silently, after this realization of my life.💞🌸
A big Thankyou to you for sharing this & a big Thankyou to David goggins too.
@happyheart1111 so true, thanks for writing this out!! appreciate it
Mel. This touched me very deeply. I appreciate your work and dedication. With Gratitude. ❤ 👍
I LOVE HER. There is something about Mel's energy, even if I had heard it from someone else, it wouldn't have had the same impact...I feel very connected to her.
This is going to be my morning must listen video for next 30 days to get my self pumped in the morning
Very powerful, Thank you for what you do. We shine brighter together 💪❤️💪
I cannot thank you enough for introducing David Goggins to your audience. As a DV survivor I am often asked how I got through the hard times and I will say my friends Goggins, Jocko and Mel helped me every step of the way. I live in Boston and it would be such an honor to meet you someday. Keep up the amazing work.
I agree we have to take action. But I am unsure about the constant fighting with oneself. It is just tiring at some point. It helped to get started but for me does not work for sustainable movement. Far better I think is "you and you together" not "you against you". Like a well meaning grandmother who knows what is best and determined but lovingly says "come on, I know you don't like it, but we have to do this, trust me - you will feel better after".
You fight the version of you that was conditioned and made by your parents. You fight the wrong version of you. Now you need to find the real version that is hidden inside and be happy.
Hi northstar. It's so true, thank you. My father let me down, disinherited me too. Gave it all to my sister, who never worked and hung around the house. . Everything I thought we had was a lie. My greatest challenge will be getting away from this hurt and betrayal. I still hear him telling me what to do in my head.
I can so relate with this
true
Thank you
HELL YEAH!!!... David Goggins is FUCKING LIMITLESS!!!... as am I ... I can honestly and painfully say that I grew up in an environment and with a Father VERY similar to the way he did and how his Dad was... The beatings and everything... I was in the Army National Guard... And in Boot Camp they singled me out but because of My Physical Training (well conditioned) and I had a mouth on me... Lol... I'm saying this because I as well had PTSD from my childhood growing up and didn't even realize it until couple years ago... And I'm now 42... I have listened to his audiobook "Can't Hurt Me" a total of 7 times in the last year or so and just started his second audiobook book "Never Finished" for the second time... Check it these books they are a FUCKING Life changer
#PUSHYOURSELF
#MindControl
#BeFuckingLimitless😎
Thank you for this ! So needed this today❤
This is right on time. Love this message
Oh Mel!!! I just had an AHA moment.. You just have this wonderful hability, to guide us; to identify the sh.. that's stopping us. It's cristal clear like never before. Discovering the Troyan horse(our old version that never left) The enemy's inside..
Thank you
I treasure your wisdom..
Wonderful video Mel. I do follow David Goggins.
❤❤
David Goggins is amazing!❤️❤️❤️
I would like to see Mel and David on a podcast ❤
~Can you kindly share his link!! …Thanks Mel!! Love Ya!! ❤
I want to make a dollar ,just one dollar online. Teach me that. Then I will know how to make ten dollars, 100,1000,.....
Yeah man. You gotta take action BEFORE you can feel it! You gotta drink a couple of shots before you can feel the buzz!
Hmm...but there is also space for thoughts and mindset. Once you heal your traumas, actions become more doable and you don't have to be consistently fighting yourself.
How do you heal past trauma s😢
I love love love David Goggins and this was such an amazing video, truly freeing and so helpful.
I like David Goggins, but, he doesn’t seem so happy with life. He’s very disciplined. Probably the best. But all his interviews, he never mentions any life experience, or having fun. He’s always suffering, and punishing himself? Mabeye a happy medium?
#STAYHARD 🦾
So much Respect for him but I couldn’t get through the first chapter of his book. the audiobook was excruciating with the constant cursing. A little, I get it, do it myself and I’m not offended by it, but it’s constant, too much and unnecessary. It really takes away from the story and just over the top.
Honestly yes I do I've been working out everyday Non-Stop 48 years that I've been going through this crap roller heartbreaks mistakes f-ups Builds body's I would show you but people trip out seeing nude they say oh my gosh how disgusting not I see what he means looks good
I loved the way you started, talking about David Goggins because I am reading his book. And now I'm loving your videos/podcasts
The progress is painfully slow. Yet people don't handle sudden drastic change well.
Can somebody explain? Ive thinking a lot negative thoughts back in the past. Yet i didnt always attract what i was thinking. So does this attracting excists?
Hello i am from Iraq and I trying to learning English but my problems i can not to find anyont to talk English with him. Ana i do not know how distinguish between he american and british accent.
I have an old voice that likes to hang up on me and say " Your gonna end up fat, frustrated and broke like your mother!". I've been speaking back to that voice MANY times a week. I don't even have to do it in the mirror anymore. " There's no room in me for failure ideas, being fat, lazy, having run-away little girl energy!" I say it to myself strongly. Then I listen to Mel Robbins, Joe Dispenza, Esther Hicks, Louise Hay, and others. Exercise and running to funky music. Fight the Power is a great song!
What is I'm not exactly sure what I'm supposed to do with my life.. ?
Which Jay Goggins book I’m referring to❓
Just searched Kendall's single Pass Time and found it on youtube, LOVED IT!!!! Can't to see it blow up on all the socials! Thanks for this talk, so glad I was lead to this exactly what i needed today!
I went and found it on Spotify. It's on my main playlist now. :D
yeaaa...i did the same ....it is so good dude
First time listening and this podcast was right on point with where I am right now. Thank you for telling it like it is!!❤
Oops! Andrew Huberman! 😮
Thank you for your vulnerability, Mel.
And thank you so much for your motivation!!!!!
They don't know me son! - David Goggins
Jeez Mel wow I love this message thank you so much!!
May the Lord always be with you my beautiful and divine sister Evangelist Sarah for your inspiring prayers and your wonderful words of wisdom! 🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🎉🎉🎉
I like the “cure is one day at a time”. Reminds me of look how far you would be if you started when you say you were going to.
OMG!! I love this message as well and learned this the hard way many years ago.
In the Creed movies Rocky takes Creed over to full length mirror and tells him it's you against you. One step at a time one punch at a time one round a time you it's you against you punch the guy in the mirror out of the mirror to be the champion you want to be.
Those old belief patterns. mind renewal is important
Hey Mel, this was exactly what I needed to hear at the right time. I own a home services buisnes and got into a funk this winter. I feel like video this helped me snap out of it. Thank you!
Every word you speak has great power 🎉
Thank you so much for this Mel ❤
It sure as hell will be too i can see the signs of it too
😎
Goggins sucks, unsubbed
YES YES HELL YES!!
I just stopped and listened to Pass Time. It's very good. Young Kendall ought to enable comments. I'm sure the positives will greatly outnumber the negatives.
Thank You!!!!
This is truth
Thank you Mel
New to your channel
Love from Australia
Oh girl! This was really powerful for me! I love this message and you presented it in a beautifully strong and empowering way! Thank you for this! 💪🏼🙌🏼🔥♥️🔊
Seriously though, when did Mel Robbins become a softer, more beautiful Andy Frisella?
Yes! When it comes to believing in yourself with me it ALWAYLS comes the moment I start to do things. So simple and I hate myself that on and on I have to fight it even thought I know:)
The worst is just thinking and thinking and being stuck in my mind.
The simpliest and the hardest thing is JUST DOING. Thank you for this video💜
Man oh man 😮 I rarely leave comments, but this one really got me. When you talked about your story and how you were battling the fourth grade you. I realized I'm also battling the third grade me. Except it went on much longer on as much more severe. 😢 Not that it discounts your story at all! Thank you for this video. Now I know who I'm battling. Now I can win ❤
Just what I needed to break me out of my funk n fear @MelRobins !! THANKYOU for what you do for all of us! It's soo easy to get trapped and bogged down rendering us physically unable to take that simple action. When I heard you say, "ask yourself who you are batteling?" OMG and then reminding us of the 5,4,3,2,1 a switch went off in me in that moment and I'm not so scared of doing what I need to today! THANKYOU!! ❤🎉 You're THE BEST!!
There is certainly a past that holds me back. However, I often believe that I was better in the past, that I was better and that my best performance phase might be behind me. I'm 22 and I know that's simply not true. This video brought tears which just means it's true and there is something there.
Thank you so much for this Video! And talking about this dark mostly silent wars inside us.
Hey, it's ur friend Ev, . . . Life wanted me to convey a msg 2 u all . . . . "I don't have to be hard, in fact, I can be easy 4 u, if u allow me 2 be" 👍👍💪💪☝️☝️👁️
Mel I read your book "The 5 second rule" and I must say it's best. I changed my life alot by implementing. Thank you. ❤
OMG!! Mel I just listened to Kendall song past time what awesome and great song I even screen shot the lyrics to the song. I love the song.
High 5 to you and your daughter
🖐😁👍🌷✝️🦅❤️❤️
This video was awesome. Really helped me put a face to some of the struggle I am working through. Battling high school me. Keep after it everybody!
I love listening to David Goggins also, Mel, and I read his book and he has overcome horrendous problems by taking action again and again and again.
The Bible says that faith without works is dead, and this is a prime example. just wishing or hoping or blaming, or avoiding, will never bring the positive changes.
In one of your prior podcasts, you mentioned how confidence is built every time you take action. You may not have been born with it, but as you build little victories, or as David would say “cookies in your cookie jar”, you were able to rise higher and overcome obstacles
This is what I needed to hear today Mel. thank you!
I just love the way how Mel put it all together and she is also funny. It might sound rough about idea you are "battling" yourself but it is true.. we dont have just one personality, otherwise we would be the same every day with same mood same habits.. Thank you for your authentic podcasts and for sharing your self with us. You are truly braving the Wilderness in you❤
? ❤Mel! Can we pre order Kendall’s song! And can I order some for Christmas present and my nursing home guest? ❤xo
Thanks
oh yeah.. btw .. i believe the whole world must have look at this.. i believe its a powerfull cure for everybody on this planet.
Wow, the old version of yourself holding you back is actually really powerful. I had to stop and re listen to that a few times. I think it would be a good excercise to write down what future me looks,thinks,feels like and then recognise when I'm holding myself back
the like button was pressed within 3 seconds because you said David Goggins.
I just started an 8-5 and Mel Robbin’s gets me out of bed at 4:30 every morning🫶
I can relate but I was much much younger and he was much much older. I actually told my living parent about that and was told I was wrong. However, my older sister told me I was right because he did the same to her.
Mel you always come through with the synchronized posts for us! Thank you 🥲♥️
One of the best podcasts in this field. What a great episode Mel!
Where did the notion that you have to “serve others” come from?! Yes, from our hearts, we choose when and how to share and give, but there is no inherent obligation.
And the biggest and most important takeaway from what Mail has shared here is for parents and adults who care for children. Take great care that you do not do things either subtly or overly to make them feel responsible for the feelings of adults around them - or for anyone in their lives! - as this is one of the seeds of the formation of a people-pleasing, or codependent, adult
Thank you soooo much for this Mel!!🙏🏽 Needed this !!
😍hh