Gender reveal parties in Spain: -the doctor tells the gender to the expecting couple -the expecting couple says the gender to the parents (soon to be grandparents) -the parents tell the gender of their grandchild to all the family and neighbours in town in less than an hour Less grandiose, much more efective
Hahaha...brilliant post. Same thing in Greece. The Greek neighbourhood grapevine is quicker than Twitter...sometimes the neighbours find out before the parents! 😂😂😂
Fun fact, the blog post that popularised the idea of gender reveals was quite literally just a cake with a layer of pink icing inside. It was purposefully low-key because the woman had suffered a number of miscarriages beforehand and I think this was the first pregnancy that lasted long enough for them to be able to determine the gender. The reveal was as much celebrating that the pregnancy had lasted as much as the reveal itself.
I personally loved my gender "reveal". My husband and sons had colds, so I found out the gender without them. I brought home pink balloons and surprised them. I then took photos with the pink balloons and two very excited boys holding the ultrasound photos, and sent the photo to family and friends. It was the best!
That’s a great idea! I might do something like that, since I’ll be at my scan by myself. Would be cute to surprise my almost 4 year old with a sister or brother balloon or something. Though she’s already INSISTING that I’m growing a sister in here, haha! We’ll see.
Was your baby bump a girl or boy? How does big sister feel these days? Congratulations btw. Too cute. Reminds me of me as a kid and how I acted and felt when my mom was pregnant with my little sister and when she was born etc. ❤️
I am vehemently opposed to elaborate gender reveals. The couple that had one here in CA that started a huge fire, took the life of a firefighter. Keep it at cakes and balloons.
The three things this video teaches us... 1. Stupid people shouldn't breed 2. Never use the black balloons 3. Never let kids have any part of these dangerous and stupid acts
My gender reveal was just the ultrasound tech saying “Looks like a girl”, and me and my husband smiling and giving each other a kiss. Like, calm down folks, these parties are overkill.
They're seriously just another way for couples to have a party, get attention, and maybe get presents. If I have children, I won't subject my friends and family to this lol
I always had the most surprising gender reveals: I found it out when my babies were born. Best thing about it: You are so happy the baby is finally there and healthy, you don’t care about it’s gender at all❤️
Yeah, I can’t say I like gender reveal parties at all. The baby shower is good enough, you know, for the first baby. This was way cringey ; I loved it!
I've always tried to help esp on baby showers for families of lesser means, I think it's reasonable to have a shower for each baby in a lot of cases. Subsequent babies need fewer large ticket items bc they get them handed down. Other special but common circumstances come to mind such as multiples on the way, or a special needs child, or just a single parent without a whole lot of help pulling it all off. ❤️
Come on, they usually "only" had: - engagement party - bachelorette/bachelor party (maybe plus girls weekend) - wedding ceremony plus reception - pregnancy announcement - baby shower They NEED another party that is all about them. Some people just can't get enough. (unmarried couples obviously didn't have the wedding-related ones)
@@Nico6th🤣That’s right! And why stop there! Second,third, fourth, fifth kid showers and gender reveals for all! And then, first night of sleeping the whole way through, first word, first tooth(but why stop at the first tooth? Have a party for every tooth!).
Anyone else just not a fan of gender reveal parties? Seems to me just an excuse to get more people to bring you gifts. Gender reveal, diaper party, baby shower, how many parties do you need to throw before the baby even shows up?
Yup. Though in their defense, I think some people do them as a way to include the fathers since baby showers are historically more of a ladies only thing. Personally I have just begun organizing coed baby showers so that everyone can celebrate! But yeah, too many parties.
Oh god, in my country, there are exactly zero parties. There can be gifts, though - but in the way that relatives visit (separately) after the baby is born and bring something for the baby, like a toy. In my aunt's family it was normal to give some golden jewelry for the children of close relatives, but it's otherwise quite unusual to give such expensive gifts.
Usually gender reveals don't require a gift - just saying & diaper parties are for the Dads & his friends while showers are typically for the Women. I think as many parties as the couple, their friends, & Family wanna give is quite alright. Just don't go.
You don't bring gifts to the reveal. They supply snacks and a cake. Or meals. Gender reveals shouldn't be gifts bc no one knows the gender until the reveal
My gender reveals were the old fashioned way. At birth. And it was so special that way. The excitement building for 9 months. When my daughter was born my husband was there. He glanced down as she was being born and shouted “it’s a boy!” then proceeded to make the touchdown position with hands 🙌🏻 raised straight up! So excited, his hearts delight finally realized! Then I heard the doctor say, “Son, you need an anatomy lesson. That was the umbilical cord you saw on the baby’s belly. You have a baby girl! “ Oh the embarrassment! 😂😂😂 She was the love of his life!
Our oldest and his wife for both reveals had her sister take photos of their hands on her belly, slowly pulling away to reveal the color of the hand prints underneath. Then they made it into a video and shared it. No huge party, no smoke, pins or injuries. Perfect.
I seriously dislike gender reveal parties….it’s a trend that, thankfully, is waining. The new trend is NOT to find out. Funny how things circle back around😂
I agree, I did my own post in the comments here ranting about it, lol. It feels like people want to squeeze out as much attention as they can for everything.
@@richardvinsen2385 I know it was longer than that but suffice to say I used that term or phrase just for example. Geez. I am proving a point that until the mid to late 20th century that finding out what the baby was going to be was not a thing yet. And for the ages of known or documented history people had to wait until the baby was born to know if it was a boy or girl.
I am so glad to read so many posts declaring how much others also dislike gender reveal parties. What an absolutely ridiculous concept...particularly when you accidently set fire to an entire STATE! 😣😣😣
I personally dont really get the hate? Unless one of the parents is expecting a certain gender and is dissapointed after the reveal, why not make a party? It's a fun way for everyone to find out and you can have a nice party. Doesnt necessarily mean that that kid has to identify as a boy or girl later or dress and act a certain way. But yeah of course, you shouldnt overdo it and maybe not set an entire state on fire. The only one I was actually mad at was the GoT one (if I understood it right) where one of them was upset that it wasnt a boy.
@@Shyress They do in fact reinforce gender stereotypes. It's limiting them and pigeonholing. but that's not the worst part. People are doing more elaborate and dangerous stunts that have directly contributed to deaths and injuries - not to mention the forest fires. It's literally the most stupid thing in the world
@@Shyress I have no problem with the party, it’s the litter that irritates me. What’s with the chemicals and fireworks and confetti and wildlife killing balloons? Does a sea turtle really have to die because pink/blue cake batter isn’t showbiz enough for your kid?
In the video you can clearly see the mother takes it out of her hand to do it herself and the little girl screams because she wanted to do it. The mother tries to give her one more chance to try and pop it, thats when the little girl tried to Throw it at the guests instead. She didnt have to do it the mother was prepared to take over but the little girl got angry when the focus was off her and was on the mother and the balloon. I think the lityle girl just ruined what was supposed to be a happy moment between family and frends. This is why the parents should just do it themselves and not let the kids do it. 9 times out of ten the kids ruin it. I love kids but that little girl diserved to be scolded in the end. She threw a dart intending to hit a family member or friend. They were lucky nobody was close to where the little girl threw the dart or it could have been a hospital run instead.
Saw the 'I'm not a girl, I'm a boy' baby, made cute agression noises and was very very pleased to see Charlotte do the exact same thing immediately after!!
Same thing kind of happened with my cousin, no gender reveal party was involved, but the ultrasound clearly showed a boy. A girl was born and my cousin had to keep looking in the diaper area because she had fully prepped for a boy
My niece and her husband had a very nice "gender reveal" party several years ago. No bombs or exploding balloons. Her MIL and SIL knew the gender and created a riddle that had to be solved by opening a series of presents. I don't remember exactly what the gifts were, but it was something like the first present was one item like one "onesie." The second was two items like two booties. The third was three items like 3 pacifiers. The fourth gift was a piece of ivy. And the answer to the riddle? A boy. Why? Because if they ever had a boy he would be named for his great-grandfather(Sr.), his grandfather (Jr.), and his father (III).. He would be "IV." "IV"= "ivy." Get it? It was great fun.
My sister in law, for her second child, did a gender reveal with a cake. The cake had one piece of colored cake in the middle of a chocolate cake, and she let her oldest daughter, about 1 at the time, dig into the cake to find the color. I thought it was so cute and a much better way to reveal the gender than confetti, cannons, and dangerous stuff haha
lol even when canadians roast someone when they are hurt they sound polite. "oh, not ganna have anymore kids now, are ya? That looked like it hurt alot, ay bud?" lmao
My favorite thing you’ve said in quite a long time: “…if there’s kids involved, the gender reveal will probably go wrong.” *Flashback to the baby boy who’s not a girl*
YES to being excited about girls. It's so fun to have a little girl. Mine is a girly girl with typical kid interests, so you'll find her digging up "dinosaur bones" in the backyard wearing a princess costume. It's fun and I was extremely pumped to find out I was having a little miss.
The old ways are sometimes best: Decorate the nursery in primary colors, as they are most eye-engaging for the infant. Allow the doctor to announce the infant's gender at the moment of delivery.
Unfortunately in my family there's a hereditary blood disease on the X chromosome, so any babies me or my sister have with only one X chromosome will need to be monitored much more closely... So we're kinda forced to find out as soon as we can. I'd still just not tell other people. Who cares, a baby is a baby.
It was disturbing to see those parents screeming at their daughter who didn't want to participate. The little girl was clearly stressed and she got scolded instead of support.
Ya no the little girl threw a dart and could have hurt some one. Her being upset about a sibling is a separate issue. You don’t get to get away with potential maiming someone because your upset.
Ok and the mother took the dart out of her hand to do it herself and take that pressure off the little girl. When the mother went to do it the daughter screamed and the mother gave her another chance to do it herself when she went ballistic and threw the dart at the people instead. In the end she ruined everything. If i was that girls mother i would have been scolding her too. There was Absolutly no reason for that little girl to be so upset to throw a dart at people, let alone ruin what was supposed to be a proud moment for the close friends and family. This is why i will never let my kids do it they can watch while mommy and daddy pop the balloon.
@@santanamariedarjes7363 oh yeah, if I thought my daughter wasn't her own person who may not like to be the center of attention and has anxiety in front of people and just an extension of myself I'd scold her to because that would definitely fix things. Because having a picture perfect moment in front of friends and family is more important than my actual family. How the heck is revealing my child's genital a proud moment at all??
@@lawrencelopez9839 im talking about a little girl with the attitude a mile long because the focas was not on her. Im not talking about the babies genitals at all.?? Im litterally saying i would scold her for throwing a dart at the guests. 🤦🤦🤦
@@lawrencelopez9839 Dude, the kid wasn't scolded because she "may not like to be the center of attention." She was scolded because she could have genuinely injured someone. Disciplining a child isn't bad as long as it's done in the right way. If the kid grows up being able to literally throw pointed projectiles at people with no repercussions, I fear for the neighborhood. Kids need to learn right from wrong, and while I don't think a kid should be forced to partake in something as stupid as gender reveals, that kid needed to learn that it's not okay to throw a damn tantrum which could hurt someone.
I wish people were like that. My mil threw a tantrum because we were having a boy! A few months later we actually found out we were having a girl and she was so happy that she took us to dinner and started talking about the baby when months prior she didn’t do any of that. I went into a depression soon after as I felt that if I had a boy he wouldn’t have been loved.
Oh dude same, my neighbors had a big one during the height of the pandemic in their backyard where they did an egg toss or something with dyed eggs. We're in a global pandemic, better ask 30+ family members to come stand in your yard so you can throw an egg back and forth and find out what genitals your baby has.
Exactly! That's what I said for most of these that didn't have a colour. I basically just quoted Del Boy. "It's a b-b-b-b.... BABY!" I'd prefer a velociraptor but y'know. We're not quite there yet.
I'm sorry but that little girl who lost it and threw something was getting yelled at by a whole party of people. That would be so overwhelming and probably scary. I can't blame her for reacting poorly
seriously, poor girl looked scared to be so close to the balloon that was going to pop but was being forced to be that close anyway. why force your kid to do something they're obviously terrified of doing for the sake of a gender reveal party?
Haha yes. Gender reveals pop up frequently on my ig and there’s always some fool in the comments going “Oh, a balloon. How original.” I’m like did they already forget why people had to dial it back in the first place? 😄
Same here…. I also feel that if people are so dumb to cause harm to themselves and the environment JUST to reveal a gender, then I feel bad for that baby and hope the best for it.
I think that gender reveals should just be the parents finding out then calling family and friends and just tell them what they are having, that's what my brother did when he had his 3 kids.
My friends had a gender reveal and it was so sweet! We were told not to bring a gift (as most gender reveals don’t involve gift exchanges) and we just had a fun day of snacks, games and just hanging out! Was a fun way to just be excited for the couple ^^
I'm pregnant with my 4th. First 3 I did no gender reveal.... for my last one, I found out myself during dna testing, and I did a black balloon with blue confetti for just my children to find out. Especially because all 3 kids, my girls and my son wanted a boy... and when I found out it was indeed a boy, I wanted to surprise them... but I could never see myself planning a whole party to announce it... I don't think anyone is that invested in me and my crotch goblins to attend a party announcing their genitals.... my kids on the other hand, were very invested. So the surprise was for them alone.
Exactly, I understand people who have a party, and I don't think they are silly or anything like that. I just personally wouldn't invest that much time into something that could be announced in a txt.
@@peps1943 how they film the car in slow mo while the people continued at normal speed. DUH!! They were power braking the car. That is why it moved so slow. Plus it takes a while to pop and/or catch a tire on fire.
@@peps1943 get glasses. Also only an idiot would think a tire would catch fire after only a few seconds of spinning. Because for that to be slo-mo it would have only been a few seconds long at normal speed. Use common sense.
When they started, gender reveals were just another reason to get excited about the coming baby and eat cake. My brother and SIL did a simple one for their first daughter, but we’re put off what they had come to represent by the time they had their second. The families got together, played some guessing games, they cut a cake, saw it was pink, and everybody cheered. Nobody actually cared if it was a boy or girl; it was just a reason for a party. But holy everything, some of them are crazy toxic!
Rules for a successful Gender Reveal: 1) absolutely no fire or explosives 2) if using balloons DO NOT fill them with helium 3) if using a popper DO NOT aim at a person and aim it up and not towards the ground 4) Make sure the person setting up the reveal knows the difference between Male and Female 5) Remember that gender determined thru a Sonogram is not always 100% accurate.
there is a video where the couple did purple and green because it was a halloween theme. purple for girl, green for boy i think. i would probably do something similar if i were to go that route, since i actually don't like the color pink lol.
In Scouts (Scouts in Canada has been co-ed for many years) we (the scouters/leaders of the teenage groups - Venturers & Rovers) had a saying girls are red, boys are blue - no making purple!!!!!
@@sofie1724 I'm Swedish too, but a bit older. Haven't heard about it and this makes me sad to hear that people do this now. It's so stupid and ridiculous. 😒
@@sofie1724 Denmark actually so we're close. Never heard of anyone having a gender reveal here. I'm 40 though so things might have changed from when I was young. I don't know a lot of people having children these days. Husband's sister just had one but she sure as hell isn't one to jump on those types of trends.
Same. No one is doing this shit is just so unnecessary, not to mention where I live is a unspoken that people will not come/like when there so many gifts to give. We understand one but that is, everyone has family, not to mention things got so expensive.
Why does everyone choose such messy reveals? For my youngest, my twins revealed the gender by wearing "It's a girl!" t-shirts. We ate cake, I didn't have to clean anything up, it was great!
@@lynncrosby9175 🤣🤣 Could have been dangerous! There was cake involved... and you've seen those wedding videos with Smush face (thanks Caspy!) with cake!! ua-cam.com/users/shortsbEnvT4KeJvQ?feature=share
Not just at her but straight to her face! Could have really done permanent damage to her eyes. Confetti can be surprisingly sharp especially with force
Baseball dad looked like he was more thrilled with having a daughter than a son. And my basketball skills are so terrible that i could be standing a few inches away and still miss lol
I have been to a few gender reveals and they've all been like normal little get-togethers where someone cuts a cake or opens a box with balloons tied to the inside and that's it. Not one of them "went wrong" and it was really cool for everyone to find out together. Idk why people can't just do it like that. It should be more about finding out together than making a cool video for attention from strangers on the internet 🤷 but maybe that's just me..
When we had my children we had a select few at the gender reveal. There was my wife at the time, me, the midwife, a nurse…. in those boomer days we called gender reveals 'giving birth'.
The car reveal had special tires on it that produces blue smoke. They can do other colors too. So pink/red was also possible. They are mainly for burnout competition. No more flammable than normal tires. Which will catch on fire doing a long burnout like that one.
A lot of people choose to overlook that in order to idolize the relationship that existed between them instead I believe that's probably what that is....... I looked it up to verify because I actually don't like game of thrones but they were actually intimate with each other and considered a relationship at one point. How on Earth you can idolize a relationship between related person's is beyond me but here we are............
At around the 7:50 mark -- I felt so sorry for that little girl who seem very afraid of popping a big balloon while her (I'm assuming) parents try to bully her into into it...and when she has an emotional break-down and tosses the pointed dart that was to pop the balloon, she got her hands slapped for it. :( And...although not shown, I am pretty sure given how the parents treated her for not 'complying' to their demands to do something the girl was obviously afraid of doing...that little girl was probably blamed for the balloon escaping and she got into even more trouble, or even spanked. Little kids are often afraid of loud popping sounds, and in seeing balloons break. Instead of the treatments she got from those 2 self centered assholes, she should have been given a hug and told she didn't need to expose herself to popping the balloon and the resulting explosion of sound, and the chaos of the balloon coming apart along with anything in it that would have spilled out of it. I'm 57 and think it's ridiculous to have a gender reveal party...to me it's just another scam to try to get people to bring gifts. It use to be there was a bridal shower, then later a baby shower...now there are all kinds of bullshit 'events' to waste time and other people's money to celebrate the self entitled bridezillas and couples out there who are either getting married and/or having a baby. .
It could also be that the little girl didn't like being the center of attention and felt uncomfortable with that too. Parents should leave their other children out of these ridiculous "reveals."
I was thinking this same thing. I personally get anxiety when balloons are around because I'm scared they'll pop. I can't imagine being scared and being bullied by my parents to pop a balloon on purpose. :(
@Mina L From what I've been told it started as a positive thing for people who had fertility issues .They would celebrate reaching this milestone in their pregnancy. Then it became commonplace as baby showers.
I'm sorry. Maybe I'm too old (?) but I just don't see the point. Like so many other made up special occasions, the big winner is the industry behind these contraptions. We routinely see weddings that cost more than my first house because it's so important to outdo your sister or best friend, and now we have gender reveal parties that more often than not go wrong, sometimes terribly (massive wildfires anyone?). Is it worth having to replace a car or even a house because you left the planning to someone with no inkling of how lethal some chemical reactions can be? Geez. If you absolutely must have a reveal, just stick some pink or blue candles on a cake, and no one will have to take a direct hit to their nuts 🤪.
With my first 3, i just told my/his parents on the phone. For the last one, I went for scan. bought a teddy in the gift shop that said "its a boy!" gave it to my parents in the car. job done. On all four occasions, anybody with an ounce of interest knew within the hour. Never had a baby shower either. If anybody wanted to buy the baby a gift, I welcomed any and all efforts. After suffering several miscarriages, my only real interest was whether my children survived to term and came out in full working order. Gender is unimportant.
Used to be like that in Canada too, when i had my kids... and now they tell u again, because people would sue if the gender was the opposite, as they would think its a boy and buy boy stuff, but then u have a girl. SUE, SUE, SUE
@@ardise768 That is crazy! One of my mother's friends was supposed to give birth to a girl, but had a boy instead. They just dressed baby boy up in his pink bunny suit and took him home. To sue over that is ridiculous.
@@ardise768 why would you sue? Like its not the doctor that's having the baby its you if anything you can only blame yourself. Besides its not that big a deal. Babies are just babies they can wear any color
@@ardise768 crazy to sue a doctor over this. Just buy few clothes neutral colors, and when baby is there, buy everything else. That's what we did both times we had our kids.
Definitely remember the El Dorado fire as I live right near there. As a mom, just stick with a dang cake. It's not worth it and everyone ends up happier 👶🏻👶🏼👶🏽👶🏾👶🏿
This gender reveal thing got out of control here in Brazil 😒 it's so silly the whole pink or blue thing... so I'm 8 months pregnant now and I refuse to tell anyone the gender of my baby, only my husband and I knows. Just because I'm annoyed with the whole gender expectations haha my family wants to kill us 😅
8:41 was hilarious. The poor guy that got hit in the gonads though. Man down moment. Charlotte reacting to babies is easily the most adorable thing I have ever seen! Have a great Saturday everybody, and enjoy the rest of your weekend!
We waited until birth for babies #3-5. When #4 was born, we thought that the baby would be a girl since we already had three but it was a lovely surprise to find out we had our first boy. I loved not knowing because I wasn’t stressed out about making sure I was buying girl or boy specific items.
I have five heathens and my youngest daughter (7 at the time) REALLY enjoyed being the “baby”… until the 5th came along. Her exact response when we told them it was a boy was “kill it” completely straight faced and dead pan. … she became his best baby helper but they still go head to head for the baby title 🤣🤣🤣
I genuinely don't know when or why gender reveal parties became a thing. Seriously, who cares enough about a baby's gender (especially if it's not their own baby) that they'd want to do/go to one of these things?
A woman who kept having miscarriages created the first gender reveal because it was the furthest she got in a pregnancy and wanted to mark it. Their kid ended up coming out as nonbinary and now the mom of the kid who created the gender reveal speaks out against them, saying they've p much gone too far.
@@coraqu1n772 did the kid come out as nonbinary? I'm just seeing that she enjoys wearing suits and not falling into "norms." That led the mom to realize that placing too much emphasis on gender at an early age can be harmful to children that don't want to "follow the gender 'rules'" and it's just unhealthy at times
The only gender reveal parties I went to are always with close family members, as in people who will actually be involved in the child’s life lol. It’s fun because, well, why not enjoy some exciting news with cake and music? Obviously the more elaborate parties are just too much, especially the ones that litter the planet (or burn it 🤦♀️). Otherwise, I think they’re fun and really just an excuse to gather loved ones for a great time :))
"Based on news articles I'm cross referencing, everyone was OK, but the car wasn't." That's good to hear. I was getting concerned because, since it's a gender reveal party, there's a pregnant lady involved, and that much smoke can't be good for the baby boy.
Back in my day the gender reveal was at the 5-6 month ultrasound and ONLY IF the baby cooperated! Fortunately all 3 of my babies were spread eagle at the get-go, there wouldn't have been a way for it to be a surprise even if I wanted it to be!
When my daughter was coming I didn't want to know. The doctor knew, but I went all the way into the delivery not knowing. I wanted a son really bad, and I guess that's why I didn't want to know. But OMG, watching my daughter come into the world and then looking at those cute little eyes staring up at me she had me wrapped around her little pinky immediately.
Sorry, I can’t even watch this. Gender reveal parties make me SO angry. One near me started a massive forest fire that killed a firefighter and caused lots of damage to a place I love. (Gosh, who knew smoke bombs were incendiary? Apparently everybody but YOU.) Not to mention the one also near me that killed a pilot.
My hubby just put your video on the TV, I've subjected him to you a lot, and you have totally won him over!! Hurrah! He says plus she is Canadian, my sisters are Canucks, rest of family lives in BC. Lots of love! ♥️♥️
I've only ever seen one gender reveal go right. It was my Aunt and uncle's, since their calm and normal people who just put pink colouring inside a cake🤣
I want to see IQ reveal parties...parents first. Edit: Although, the more I think about it I think my choice would be a whoopie cushion filled with dyed baby powder. Edit of the Edit: Better idea; something that harmlessly dyes the urine of those who drink it. "You'll find out later."
"You'll find out later." 🤣 If it was me, they'd be pissing red, blue, and every shade of purple in between so I could tell them that my future crotch goblin is omnigender. Makes it sound like I'm popping out a wizard, so I can get some excellent baby swag from some very mystified people. 😈
My son and daughter in law knew so they did the cutest thing. She put on a white shirt and he dipped his hands in pink paint and stood behind her and made a heart on her tummy. Gender reveal and keepsake all in one.☺️💜
My sister didn’t do anything like this when she was pregnant but for her 3rd pregnancy she had a friend make a small Christmas tree decorated with the gender color on it. On Christmas morning, with both sides of the family there, they opened the box and revealed it was a girl with a really cute green Christmas tree decorated in pink. I think the reveal should be something like that, because now my sister uses that tree every year
I remember an ex-close friend's gender reveal; it was in her backyard with a balloon, simple but cute and I got to watch as she stood next to the baby daddy she told mid-pregnancy she was no longer "in love with" because she just wanted a baby and awkwardly pop the balloon then scramble around scooping up the confetti because her dog chose that moment to reveal it has Pica...Fun times.
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Gender reveal parties in Spain:
-the doctor tells the gender to the expecting couple
-the expecting couple says the gender to the parents (soon to be grandparents)
-the parents tell the gender of their grandchild to all the family and neighbours in town in less than an hour
Less grandiose, much more efective
Same in India. It gets broadcast on the family channel, then neighborhood channel, then ...
Same in Mexico.
Yeah, that's Spain 🤣💜
Hahaha...brilliant post. Same thing in Greece. The Greek neighbourhood grapevine is quicker than Twitter...sometimes the neighbours find out before the parents! 😂😂😂
Hahaha same in Chile, grandparents do all the work
I think the biggest gender reveal gone wrong was the one that caused that huge wild fire.
Yeah need to take away the kid from the parents
I think we've had two big fires from gender reveals in the US. The California one and I'm pretty sure there was one in Arizona.
@@Magnamaster The couple has been charged with 30 counts one of them being manslaughter
I don't think it's a wildfire when someone made it
@@ponzi_bunny tell that to the news sites because almost everyone referred to it as a wildfire.
Fun fact, the blog post that popularised the idea of gender reveals was quite literally just a cake with a layer of pink icing inside.
It was purposefully low-key because the woman had suffered a number of miscarriages beforehand and I think this was the first pregnancy that lasted long enough for them to be able to determine the gender. The reveal was as much celebrating that the pregnancy had lasted as much as the reveal itself.
Didn't that baby also grow up to be non binary?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that lady doesn't like what gender reveals have become or regretted starting the trend.
I personally loved my gender "reveal". My husband and sons had colds, so I found out the gender without them. I brought home pink balloons and surprised them. I then took photos with the pink balloons and two very excited boys holding the ultrasound photos, and sent the photo to family and friends. It was the best!
That’s a great idea! I might do something like that, since I’ll be at my scan by myself. Would be cute to surprise my almost 4 year old with a sister or brother balloon or something. Though she’s already INSISTING that I’m growing a sister in here, haha! We’ll see.
Was your baby bump a girl or boy? How does big sister feel these days? Congratulations btw. Too cute. Reminds me of me as a kid and how I acted and felt when my mom was pregnant with my little sister and when she was born etc. ❤️
That's very sweet
I am vehemently opposed to elaborate gender reveals. The couple that had one here in CA that started a huge fire, took the life of a firefighter. Keep it at cakes and balloons.
That was that idiot Gavin Newsom's fault. Failure to maintain the forest floor.
Or just tell people by speaking, less to go wrong and cost effective too.
@@veritasaequitas9875 wrong try to research and use less MSM
@@veritasaequitas9875 I don’t know whether you’re joking or being serious.
@@veritasaequitas9875 oh, honey
The three things this video teaches us...
1. Stupid people shouldn't breed
2. Never use the black balloons
3. Never let kids have any part of these dangerous and stupid acts
And this comment teaches us Math 🤔
@@scarletspidernz ...... Bad math.......🤔
if you use balloons, do not use helium.
But... The three
Also, maybe point 1. is applicable to me.
My gender reveal was just the ultrasound tech saying “Looks like a girl”, and me and my husband smiling and giving each other a kiss. Like, calm down folks, these parties are overkill.
They're seriously just another way for couples to have a party, get attention, and maybe get presents. If I have children, I won't subject my friends and family to this lol
Well said. That was mine, too.
These people are attention idiots, and also too I've seen where people get really bad injuries from malfunctioning gender reveal gadget engineering..
Your reveal sounds PERFECT
My gender reveal was my parents waiting for me to be born 💀
I always had the most surprising gender reveals: I found it out when my babies were born.
Best thing about it: You are so happy the baby is finally there and healthy, you don’t care about it’s gender at all❤️
Yeah, I can’t say I like gender reveal parties at all. The baby shower is good enough, you know, for the first baby. This was way cringey ; I loved it!
I outright loathe gender reveals
I've always tried to help esp on baby showers for families of lesser means, I think it's reasonable to have a shower for each baby in a lot of cases. Subsequent babies need fewer large ticket items bc they get them handed down.
Other special but common circumstances come to mind such as multiples on the way, or a special needs child, or just a single parent without a whole lot of help pulling it all off. ❤️
Come on, they usually "only" had:
- engagement party
- bachelorette/bachelor party (maybe plus girls weekend)
- wedding ceremony plus reception
- pregnancy announcement
- baby shower
They NEED another party that is all about them.
Some people just can't get enough.
(unmarried couples obviously didn't have the wedding-related ones)
@@Nico6th🤣That’s right! And why stop there! Second,third, fourth, fifth kid showers and gender reveals for all! And then, first night of sleeping the whole way through, first word, first tooth(but why stop at the first tooth? Have a party for every tooth!).
I feel it's a cry for extra gifts...
Anyone else just not a fan of gender reveal parties? Seems to me just an excuse to get more people to bring you gifts. Gender reveal, diaper party, baby shower, how many parties do you need to throw before the baby even shows up?
Yup. Though in their defense, I think some people do them as a way to include the fathers since baby showers are historically more of a ladies only thing. Personally I have just begun organizing coed baby showers so that everyone can celebrate! But yeah, too many parties.
Diaper party?! Oh man, there is more?
Oh god, in my country, there are exactly zero parties. There can be gifts, though - but in the way that relatives visit (separately) after the baby is born and bring something for the baby, like a toy. In my aunt's family it was normal to give some golden jewelry for the children of close relatives, but it's otherwise quite unusual to give such expensive gifts.
Usually gender reveals don't require a gift - just saying & diaper parties are for the Dads & his friends while showers are typically for the Women. I think as many parties as the couple, their friends, & Family wanna give is quite alright. Just don't go.
You don't bring gifts to the reveal. They supply snacks and a cake. Or meals. Gender reveals shouldn't be gifts bc no one knows the gender until the reveal
My gender reveals were the old fashioned way. At birth. And it was so special that way. The excitement building for 9 months.
When my daughter was born my husband was there. He glanced down as she was being born and shouted “it’s a boy!” then proceeded to make the touchdown position with hands 🙌🏻 raised straight up! So excited, his hearts delight finally realized!
Then I heard the doctor say, “Son, you need an anatomy lesson. That was the umbilical cord you saw on the baby’s belly. You have a baby girl! “
Oh the embarrassment! 😂😂😂
She was the love of his life!
Our oldest and his wife for both reveals had her sister take photos of their hands on her belly, slowly pulling away to reveal the color of the hand prints underneath. Then they made it into a video and shared it. No huge party, no smoke, pins or injuries. Perfect.
I seriously dislike gender reveal parties….it’s a trend that, thankfully, is waining. The new trend is NOT to find out. Funny how things circle back around😂
this isn't true lol
Not finding out is not a new trend......for centuries they did not know until the child came.
@@evelynwitt2529 for centuries? Try a little bit longer.
I agree, I did my own post in the comments here ranting about it, lol. It feels like people want to squeeze out as much attention as they can for everything.
@@richardvinsen2385 I know it was longer than that but suffice to say I used that term or phrase just for example. Geez. I am proving a point that until the mid to late 20th century that finding out what the baby was going to be was not a thing yet. And for the ages of known or documented history people had to wait until the baby was born to know if it was a boy or girl.
I am so glad to read so many posts declaring how much others also dislike gender reveal parties. What an absolutely ridiculous concept...particularly when you accidently set fire to an entire STATE! 😣😣😣
I personally dont really get the hate? Unless one of the parents is expecting a certain gender and is dissapointed after the reveal, why not make a party? It's a fun way for everyone to find out and you can have a nice party. Doesnt necessarily mean that that kid has to identify as a boy or girl later or dress and act a certain way.
But yeah of course, you shouldnt overdo it and maybe not set an entire state on fire. The only one I was actually mad at was the GoT one (if I understood it right) where one of them was upset that it wasnt a boy.
@@Shyress They do in fact reinforce gender stereotypes. It's limiting them and pigeonholing. but that's not the worst part. People are doing more elaborate and dangerous stunts that have directly contributed to deaths and injuries - not to mention the forest fires. It's literally the most stupid thing in the world
@@Shyress Because nobody really cares. It's just the parents wanting attention.
@@Shyress I have no problem with the party, it’s the litter that irritates me. What’s with the chemicals and fireworks and confetti and wildlife killing balloons? Does a sea turtle really have to die because pink/blue cake batter isn’t showbiz enough for your kid?
STUPID gender reveal parties, I mean nothing wrong with a bit of cake when parents want a pleasant surprise.
Can you imagine when all those fly-away balloons eventually pop, raining confetti down on unsuspecting people.
That little girl was so flustered.
People don't do this to kids. And don't get mad at them for it when they don't react perfectly.
That’s what I was thinking too. They probably hit her behind closed doors too. Not normal!
Yeah that was bad she didn't wanted to do that and they were forcing her. Hard to watch
In the video you can clearly see the mother takes it out of her hand to do it herself and the little girl screams because she wanted to do it. The mother tries to give her one more chance to try and pop it, thats when the little girl tried to Throw it at the guests instead. She didnt have to do it the mother was prepared to take over but the little girl got angry when the focus was off her and was on the mother and the balloon. I think the lityle girl just ruined what was supposed to be a happy moment between family and frends. This is why the parents should just do it themselves and not let the kids do it. 9 times out of ten the kids ruin it. I love kids but that little girl diserved to be scolded in the end. She threw a dart intending to hit a family member or friend. They were lucky nobody was close to where the little girl threw the dart or it could have been a hospital run instead.
Yeah, she reacted badly, but the parents shouldn't have put her in that situation in the first place
Nah she's a little brat
Saw the 'I'm not a girl, I'm a boy' baby, made cute agression noises and was very very pleased to see Charlotte do the exact same thing immediately after!!
Saaaame😂 and my voice goes uncontrollably high sometimes🙊😅 not my fault, when it's to cute to handle🤯 .....
Same thing kind of happened with my cousin, no gender reveal party was involved, but the ultrasound clearly showed a boy. A girl was born and my cousin had to keep looking in the diaper area because she had fully prepped for a boy
@@meowtation agreed!!
Our gender reveal was the doctor saying, “It’s a girl” after he delivered her. Our parents spread the good news.
THANK YOU!!!! Jeez, these parties are just an excuse to get more gifts, and attention/likes/views [on social media].
🤦🏻♀️
Same here, except the nurses had my husband shout it out so I knew
Same here. We didn’t want to know ahead of time. When the doctor said it’s a girl it made it extra special. 🌸
and that's the way it should be done!! :) :)
My mom always brags about that like they had any other way to find out sooner back then. 😂. They didn’t.
My niece and her husband had a very nice "gender reveal" party several years ago. No bombs or exploding balloons. Her MIL and SIL knew the gender and created a riddle that had to be solved by opening a series of presents. I don't remember exactly what the gifts were, but it was something like the first present was one item like one "onesie." The second was two items like two booties. The third was three items like 3 pacifiers. The fourth gift was a piece of ivy. And the answer to the riddle? A boy. Why? Because if they ever had a boy he would be named for his great-grandfather(Sr.), his grandfather (Jr.), and his father (III).. He would be "IV."
"IV"= "ivy." Get it? It was great fun.
This is super cute
I love that! So clever and cute.
That’s a cute idea! Makes people think too!!
I love this!!!
My sister in law, for her second child, did a gender reveal with a cake. The cake had one piece of colored cake in the middle of a chocolate cake, and she let her oldest daughter, about 1 at the time, dig into the cake to find the color. I thought it was so cute and a much better way to reveal the gender than confetti, cannons, and dangerous stuff haha
lol even when canadians roast someone when they are hurt they sound polite.
"oh, not ganna have anymore kids now, are ya? That looked like it hurt alot, ay bud?"
lmao
It's eh, bud! 😅 Eh is the Canadian way of asking for agreement. Nice day eh?
@@tanyavs1 Good to know. :)
Gender reveal parties are the most obnoxious part of modern society, watching them fail brings me joy 😹
Yep. They are another sign that mankind's collective IQ is nearing room temperature. Cool username, btw.
Agreed
@@Panbaneesha Celsius or Fahrenheit ? Haha!
@@cjofloorish Well, neither would be flattering, but I'm German, so Celsius it is... ;)
+1
My favorite thing you’ve said in quite a long time:
“…if there’s kids involved, the gender reveal will probably go wrong.”
*Flashback to the baby boy who’s not a girl*
YES to being excited about girls. It's so fun to have a little girl. Mine is a girly girl with typical kid interests, so you'll find her digging up "dinosaur bones" in the backyard wearing a princess costume. It's fun and I was extremely pumped to find out I was having a little miss.
First and perhaps the only comment that addressed this - saying they are excited about their girl.
I don't get why people use a balloon filled with helium when it's outside, Ur just asking to be screwed over 😂
I lost it at the, "aren't gonna be having any more kids now are you"
You're a gem, thank you for the videos!
The old ways are sometimes best: Decorate the nursery in primary colors, as they are most eye-engaging for the infant. Allow the doctor to announce the infant's gender at the moment of delivery.
Unfortunately in my family there's a hereditary blood disease on the X chromosome, so any babies me or my sister have with only one X chromosome will need to be monitored much more closely... So we're kinda forced to find out as soon as we can. I'd still just not tell other people. Who cares, a baby is a baby.
It was disturbing to see those parents screeming at their daughter who didn't want to participate. The little girl was clearly stressed and she got scolded instead of support.
Ya no the little girl threw a dart and could have hurt some one. Her being upset about a sibling is a separate issue. You don’t get to get away with potential maiming someone because your upset.
Ok and the mother took the dart out of her hand to do it herself and take that pressure off the little girl. When the mother went to do it the daughter screamed and the mother gave her another chance to do it herself when she went ballistic and threw the dart at the people instead. In the end she ruined everything. If i was that girls mother i would have been scolding her too. There was Absolutly no reason for that little girl to be so upset to throw a dart at people, let alone ruin what was supposed to be a proud moment for the close friends and family. This is why i will never let my kids do it they can watch while mommy and daddy pop the balloon.
@@santanamariedarjes7363 oh yeah, if I thought my daughter wasn't her own person who may not like to be the center of attention and has anxiety in front of people and just an extension of myself I'd scold her to because that would definitely fix things. Because having a picture perfect moment in front of friends and family is more important than my actual family. How the heck is revealing my child's genital a proud moment at all??
@@lawrencelopez9839 im talking about a little girl with the attitude a mile long because the focas was not on her. Im not talking about the babies genitals at all.?? Im litterally saying i would scold her for throwing a dart at the guests. 🤦🤦🤦
@@lawrencelopez9839 Dude, the kid wasn't scolded because she "may not like to be the center of attention." She was scolded because she could have genuinely injured someone. Disciplining a child isn't bad as long as it's done in the right way. If the kid grows up being able to literally throw pointed projectiles at people with no repercussions, I fear for the neighborhood. Kids need to learn right from wrong, and while I don't think a kid should be forced to partake in something as stupid as gender reveals, that kid needed to learn that it's not okay to throw a damn tantrum which could hurt someone.
In my opinion gender reveal parties are just obnoxious, cause in general nobody actually cares what you're having, especially if you already have kids
I wish people were like that. My mil threw a tantrum because we were having a boy! A few months later we actually found out we were having a girl and she was so happy that she took us to dinner and started talking about the baby when months prior she didn’t do any of that. I went into a depression soon after as I felt that if I had a boy he wouldn’t have been loved.
Oh dude same, my neighbors had a big one during the height of the pandemic in their backyard where they did an egg toss or something with dyed eggs. We're in a global pandemic, better ask 30+ family members to come stand in your yard so you can throw an egg back and forth and find out what genitals your baby has.
@@jessicag1664 That sucks I'm so sorry!
If it were me, and that balloon popped, there would be nothing but holo sparkles and a sign that says 'Surprise, it's humanoid!'
Love that!
Note should say "Not an Octopus"
@@mlapointej Or add an addendum 'Not at liberty to discuss humanoid type.'
Exactly! That's what I said for most of these that didn't have a colour. I basically just quoted Del Boy. "It's a b-b-b-b.... BABY!"
I'd prefer a velociraptor but y'know. We're not quite there yet.
that's my kind of gender reveal party lol
I'm sorry but that little girl who lost it and threw something was getting yelled at by a whole party of people. That would be so overwhelming and probably scary. I can't blame her for reacting poorly
seriously, poor girl looked scared to be so close to the balloon that was going to pop but was being forced to be that close anyway. why force your kid to do something they're obviously terrified of doing for the sake of a gender reveal party?
@@nomnomduder internet clout is more important then someone's well being?
I felt bad for the girl. She clearly didn't want to be there.
And mom smacking her because she wasn't preforming on demand had my blood boiling
When I was a child, I would get so scared of balloon popping, the sound would make me terrified. I felt so upset for her :
I was taking a sip of my drink when Charlotte said "I'm gonna stop doing that with my hand." I fuckin lost it.
The winner of this should be the gender reveal that started that massive Cali. fire a couple years ago.
Haha yes. Gender reveals pop up frequently on my ig and there’s always some fool in the comments going “Oh, a balloon. How original.” I’m like did they already forget why people had to dial it back in the first place? 😄
I don’t get why knowing the gender of someone’s baby is worth polluting the planet.
Same thoughts
Same here…. I also feel that if people are so dumb to cause harm to themselves and the environment JUST to reveal a gender, then I feel bad for that baby and hope the best for it.
better to do it now, cuz your kids gonna ruin the earth anyway
Lol they're literally polluting the world with more people
But I’m the main character so nothing I do has consequences 😩
I think that gender reveals should just be the parents finding out then calling family and friends and just tell them what they are having, that's what my brother did when he had his 3 kids.
That’s what I’ve done twice now.
My friends had a gender reveal and it was so sweet! We were told not to bring a gift (as most gender reveals don’t involve gift exchanges) and we just had a fun day of snacks, games and just hanging out! Was a fun way to just be excited for the couple ^^
I'm pregnant with my 4th. First 3 I did no gender reveal.... for my last one, I found out myself during dna testing, and I did a black balloon with blue confetti for just my children to find out. Especially because all 3 kids, my girls and my son wanted a boy... and when I found out it was indeed a boy, I wanted to surprise them... but I could never see myself planning a whole party to announce it... I don't think anyone is that invested in me and my crotch goblins to attend a party announcing their genitals.... my kids on the other hand, were very invested. So the surprise was for them alone.
"...me and my crotch goblins... To announce their genitals..."
I laughed so hard, thank you!
@@purpleicicles glad to be of service. 🤣
Exactly, I understand people who have a party, and I don't think they are silly or anything like that. I just personally wouldn't invest that much time into something that could be announced in a txt.
You're a good mom.
Bless you for knowing your crotch growling are indeed crotch goblins. And giving them the attention instead of asking for it from your social circle!
Babies are expensive enough, no need to trash your car firmly* establishing you're having a boy for 30 seconds straight 🤣
And they filmed it. no way the insurance is paying a cent for that one
It was in slow mo lol
@@peps1943 how they film the car in slow mo while the people continued at normal speed. DUH!! They were power braking the car. That is why it moved so slow. Plus it takes a while to pop and/or catch a tire on fire.
@@huntjl88 no they weren't
@@peps1943 get glasses. Also only an idiot would think a tire would catch fire after only a few seconds of spinning. Because for that to be slo-mo it would have only been a few seconds long at normal speed. Use common sense.
When they started, gender reveals were just another reason to get excited about the coming baby and eat cake. My brother and SIL did a simple one for their first daughter, but we’re put off what they had come to represent by the time they had their second. The families got together, played some guessing games, they cut a cake, saw it was pink, and everybody cheered. Nobody actually cared if it was a boy or girl; it was just a reason for a party.
But holy everything, some of them are crazy toxic!
Rules for a successful Gender Reveal:
1) absolutely no fire or explosives
2) if using balloons DO NOT fill them with helium
3) if using a popper DO NOT aim at a person and aim it up and not towards the ground
4) Make sure the person setting up the reveal knows the difference between Male and Female
5) Remember that gender determined thru a Sonogram is not always 100% accurate.
Guess what kids, We're having a
*smacks head with box*
traumatic brain injury
I agree.
Bring back the Old'n times when people spoke to each other and said things like "Hey, we're having a baby/girl/boy"
Better yet, bring back the old'n times when people spoke to each other and said things like "Hey, we just had a baby..."
Not fun fact: Those tyres that create smoke when doing burnouts are made in Australia.
Some people just shouldn't.
"It's empty" omg imagine. Lol just kidding, we're not actually having a baby, thx for stopping by though. We'll keep the presents.
I am so old. When I was born, gender reveal was called birth!
Me too g m. Not everything needs to be known in advance. What happened to the element of surprise.
If my partner insisted on a gender reveal, I'd make the color purple
there is a video where the couple did purple and green because it was a halloween theme. purple for girl, green for boy i think. i would probably do something similar if i were to go that route, since i actually don't like the color pink lol.
In Scouts (Scouts in Canada has been co-ed for many years) we (the scouters/leaders of the teenage groups - Venturers & Rovers) had a saying girls are red, boys are blue - no making purple!!!!!
They either go wrong or they're underwhelming - which is just another type of fail lol
I love how you let your Canadian fly more and more the longer you have this channel!
I'm so happy gender reveal parties aren't a thing in my country.
What country is that? I live in Sweden and we tend to do all things Americans do.. First baby shower... then gender reveal. 🤑
@@sofie1724 I thought the swedish people were so intelligent. Why should one do something like that?
@@sofie1724 I'm Swedish too, but a bit older. Haven't heard about it and this makes me sad to hear that people do this now. It's so stupid and ridiculous. 😒
@@sofie1724 Denmark actually so we're close. Never heard of anyone having a gender reveal here. I'm 40 though so things might have changed from when I was young. I don't know a lot of people having children these days. Husband's sister just had one but she sure as hell isn't one to jump on those types of trends.
Same. No one is doing this shit is just so unnecessary, not to mention where I live is a unspoken that people will not come/like when there so many gifts to give. We understand one but that is, everyone has family, not to mention things got so expensive.
Why does everyone choose such messy reveals? For my youngest, my twins revealed the gender by wearing "It's a girl!" t-shirts. We ate cake, I didn't have to clean anything up, it was great!
That's simple & cute - if I was gonna do one that'd be what I'd do
Didn't set anything on fire, didn't put anyone's eye out...what kinda party is that?
@@lynncrosby9175 🤣🤣
Could have been dangerous! There was cake involved... and you've seen those wedding videos with Smush face (thanks Caspy!) with cake!!
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I agree. Especially the plastic confetti and coloured smoke ones, you just know it's gonna be left there with nobody cleaning it up 😠
Charlotte's Mom right now: Da Fuq? This is how I learn about my grandchild?
That second one gives "blue balls" a whole new meaning...lol
A father to be who points the popper at his PREGNANT wife concerns me.
Pretty sure that's more or less how she got pregnant in the first place.
@@orgazmo686971 😂🤣
He's just a toad
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Not just at her but straight to her face! Could have really done permanent damage to her eyes. Confetti can be surprisingly sharp especially with force
Baseball dad looked like he was more thrilled with having a daughter than a son. And my basketball skills are so terrible that i could be standing a few inches away and still miss lol
I bought one of these for my friend her husband hit it when it was too close to her and she got hit in the face with the plastic 🤦🏻♀️
I have been to a few gender reveals and they've all been like normal little get-togethers where someone cuts a cake or opens a box with balloons tied to the inside and that's it. Not one of them "went wrong" and it was really cool for everyone to find out together. Idk why people can't just do it like that. It should be more about finding out together than making a cool video for attention from strangers on the internet 🤷 but maybe that's just me..
And that right there is the reason why if you ever have a fire outside or using fireworks, you ALWAYS have buckets of water ready for an emergency.
Something that never goes wrong is this Channel. My favorite thing to watch everyday...Charlotte always makes my day better. 🎉🎉🎉
When we had my children we had a select few at the gender reveal. There was my wife at the time, me, the midwife, a nurse…. in those boomer days we called gender reveals 'giving birth'.
Those were the days. 🙂
Charlotte looking so confused at a burnout was killing me 😂😂
The car reveal had special tires on it that produces blue smoke. They can do other colors too. So pink/red was also possible. They are mainly for burnout competition. No more flammable than normal tires. Which will catch on fire doing a long burnout like that one.
Yes, Australia, April 2018. The driver received a $1,000.00 fine and a six month driving ban.
"Later in the emergency room" is not a sentence you would want to include in a story about your own party, I would think.
Oh, well... all the best and worst parties end up in an emergency room... 🤷♀️😜
Daenerys Targaryen is Jon Snow's aunt, so I feel like dressing up as them at your gender reveal party is a bit ... odd, to put it mildly..
A lot of people choose to overlook that in order to idolize the relationship that existed between them instead I believe that's probably what that is....... I looked it up to verify because I actually don't like game of thrones but they were actually intimate with each other and considered a relationship at one point. How on Earth you can idolize a relationship between related person's is beyond me but here we are............
relax. in the books NAJ any way 😁
The slow-mo one....girl I know that hurt but thank you for this! 😂😂😂
The best gender reveal is when your grown kid tells you they're trans, and now that they're out they can live authentically.
At around the 7:50 mark -- I felt so sorry for that little girl who seem very afraid of popping a big balloon while her (I'm assuming) parents try to bully her into into it...and when she has an emotional break-down and tosses the pointed dart that was to pop the balloon, she got her hands slapped for it. :(
And...although not shown, I am pretty sure given how the parents treated her for not 'complying' to their demands to do something the girl was obviously afraid of doing...that little girl was probably blamed for the balloon escaping and she got into even more trouble, or even spanked.
Little kids are often afraid of loud popping sounds, and in seeing balloons break. Instead of the treatments she got from those 2 self centered assholes, she should have been given a hug and told she didn't need to expose herself to popping the balloon and the resulting explosion of sound, and the chaos of the balloon coming apart along with anything in it that would have spilled out of it.
I'm 57 and think it's ridiculous to have a gender reveal party...to me it's just another scam to try to get people to bring gifts. It use to be there was a bridal shower, then later a baby shower...now there are all kinds of bullshit 'events' to waste time and other people's money to celebrate the self entitled bridezillas and couples out there who are either getting married and/or having a baby. .
I felt sorry for the little girl too :( broke my heart to se her being forced into doing something she clearly is not comfortable doing.
It could also be that the little girl didn't like being the center of attention and felt uncomfortable with that too. Parents should leave their other children out of these ridiculous "reveals."
I thought the same. That’s how you make an older sibling hate a younger sibling.
Yep, I’m 59 and I’ve said all along they’re another gift grabbing excuse
I was thinking this same thing. I personally get anxiety when balloons are around because I'm scared they'll pop. I can't imagine being scared and being bullied by my parents to pop a balloon on purpose. :(
You could just tell everybody.: "It's a boy or girl" without all the fuss.
I have come to think its a new way for businesses to make more money. It was much more fun without them.
But then we wouldn't have people nuking half of California to celebrate what some random baby has in their diaper.
@Mina L From what I've been told it started as a positive thing for people who had fertility issues .They would celebrate reaching this milestone in their pregnancy. Then it became commonplace as baby showers.
I'm sorry. Maybe I'm too old (?) but I just don't see the point. Like so many other made up special occasions, the big winner is the industry behind these contraptions. We routinely see weddings that cost more than my first house because it's so important to outdo your sister or best friend, and now we have gender reveal parties that more often than not go wrong, sometimes terribly (massive wildfires anyone?). Is it worth having to replace a car or even a house because you left the planning to someone with no inkling of how lethal some chemical reactions can be? Geez. If you absolutely must have a reveal, just stick some pink or blue candles on a cake, and no one will have to take a direct hit to their nuts 🤪.
Right? I dont understand the big deal lol
That moment when you're shaking it and it just shoots off in your face! 🤣
With my first 3, i just told my/his parents on the phone. For the last one, I went for scan. bought a teddy in the gift shop that said "its a boy!" gave it to my parents in the car. job done. On all four occasions, anybody with an ounce of interest knew within the hour.
Never had a baby shower either. If anybody wanted to buy the baby a gift, I welcomed any and all efforts.
After suffering several miscarriages, my only real interest was whether my children survived to term and came out in full working order.
Gender is unimportant.
In my country , the gender of the baby is not revealed by the doctors . Probably for the better I think .
Used to be like that in Canada too, when i had my kids... and now they tell u again, because people would sue if the gender was the opposite, as they would think its a boy and buy boy stuff, but then u have a girl. SUE, SUE, SUE
Good way to make sure stupid mess doesn't happen. People have died over this dumb crap!
@@ardise768 That is crazy! One of my mother's friends was supposed to give birth to a girl, but had a boy instead. They just dressed baby boy up in his pink bunny suit and took him home. To sue over that is ridiculous.
@@ardise768 why would you sue? Like its not the doctor that's having the baby its you if anything you can only blame yourself. Besides its not that big a deal. Babies are just babies they can wear any color
@@ardise768 crazy to sue a doctor over this. Just buy few clothes neutral colors, and when baby is there, buy everything else. That's what we did both times we had our kids.
I dislike gender reveal parties just as much as participation trophies. 🤮
Ooh...don't get me started on participation trophies.
3:40 watch how quickly her face changes when her hand does that 😂 "I'm going to stop doing that with my hand" lmao love you girl
Definitely remember the El Dorado fire as I live right near there. As a mom, just stick with a dang cake. It's not worth it and everyone ends up happier 👶🏻👶🏼👶🏽👶🏾👶🏿
This gender reveal thing got out of control here in Brazil 😒 it's so silly the whole pink or blue thing... so I'm 8 months pregnant now and I refuse to tell anyone the gender of my baby, only my husband and I knows. Just because I'm annoyed with the whole gender expectations haha my family wants to kill us 😅
I'd do that too. It's so ridiculous
8:41 was hilarious. The poor guy that got hit in the gonads though. Man down moment. Charlotte reacting to babies is easily the most adorable thing I have ever seen! Have a great Saturday everybody, and enjoy the rest of your weekend!
We waited until birth for babies #3-5. When #4 was born, we thought that the baby would be a girl since we already had three but it was a lovely surprise to find out we had our first boy. I loved not knowing because I wasn’t stressed out about making sure I was buying girl or boy specific items.
I have five heathens and my youngest daughter (7 at the time) REALLY enjoyed being the “baby”… until the 5th came along. Her exact response when we told them it was a boy was “kill it” completely straight faced and dead pan. … she became his best baby helper but they still go head to head for the baby title 🤣🤣🤣
I genuinely don't know when or why gender reveal parties became a thing. Seriously, who cares enough about a baby's gender (especially if it's not their own baby) that they'd want to do/go to one of these things?
A woman who kept having miscarriages created the first gender reveal because it was the furthest she got in a pregnancy and wanted to mark it. Their kid ended up coming out as nonbinary and now the mom of the kid who created the gender reveal speaks out against them, saying they've p much gone too far.
@@coraqu1n772 did the kid come out as nonbinary? I'm just seeing that she enjoys wearing suits and not falling into "norms." That led the mom to realize that placing too much emphasis on gender at an early age can be harmful to children that don't want to "follow the gender 'rules'" and it's just unhealthy at times
north americans?
The only gender reveal parties I went to are always with close family members, as in people who will actually be involved in the child’s life lol. It’s fun because, well, why not enjoy some exciting news with cake and music? Obviously the more elaborate parties are just too much, especially the ones that litter the planet (or burn it 🤦♀️). Otherwise, I think they’re fun and really just an excuse to gather loved ones for a great time :))
I feel like they need to put a “this side up” on the confetti canons
They do ...
@@OnlySushiCat then some people are seriously undereducated…
May I just say to you, Charlotte, thank you, for making me laugh so hard in this crumby world ❤️
"Based on news articles I'm cross referencing, everyone was OK, but the car wasn't."
That's good to hear. I was getting concerned because, since it's a gender reveal party, there's a pregnant lady involved, and that much smoke can't be good for the baby boy.
Back in my day the gender reveal was at the 5-6 month ultrasound and ONLY IF the baby cooperated! Fortunately all 3 of my babies were spread eagle at the get-go, there wouldn't have been a way for it to be a surprise even if I wanted it to be!
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I'm lmao cuz SAME! My son was doing some sort of in-utero split for every ultrasound 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for the chuckle! 😂
My baby did that too! The sonographer commented that he had his legs spread open, which made her job easier.
The gender reveal parties of my parents’ age were, if someone accidentally gave birth while there was just a regular party going on.
When my daughter was coming I didn't want to know. The doctor knew, but I went all the way into the delivery not knowing. I wanted a son really bad, and I guess that's why I didn't want to know. But OMG, watching my daughter come into the world and then looking at those cute little eyes staring up at me she had me wrapped around her little pinky immediately.
Lmao those turkey sounds Charlotte makes 😂 reminded me of myself and my work mom anytime we saw each other we would gobble gobble 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry, I can’t even watch this. Gender reveal parties make me SO angry. One near me started a massive forest fire that killed a firefighter and caused lots of damage to a place I love. (Gosh, who knew smoke bombs were incendiary? Apparently everybody but YOU.) Not to mention the one also near me that killed a pilot.
I live there too ♥️
My hubby just put your video on the TV, I've subjected him to you a lot, and you have totally won him over!! Hurrah! He says plus she is Canadian, my sisters are Canucks, rest of family lives in BC. Lots of love! ♥️♥️
I LOL'd so hard at the balloon which flew away.
Remember the good old days when people just mailed little cards out that said "it's a boy!" Or whatever in fancy letters?
I laugh at their misfortune because that's what they get for being extra for no damn reason.
I hate gender reveal parties! So unneeded and pointless🤦🏽♀️
Jon Snow: It's a boy!
Ygritte: You know nothing, Jon Snow.
I've only ever seen one gender reveal go right. It was my Aunt and uncle's, since their calm and normal people who just put pink colouring inside a cake🤣
The best part of these is the people laughing in the background 😂😂
I want to see IQ reveal parties...parents first.
Edit: Although, the more I think about it I think my choice would be a whoopie cushion filled with dyed baby powder.
Edit of the Edit: Better idea; something that harmlessly dyes the urine of those who drink it. "You'll find out later."
"You'll find out later." 🤣
If it was me, they'd be pissing red, blue, and every shade of purple in between so I could tell them that my future crotch goblin is omnigender. Makes it sound like I'm popping out a wizard, so I can get some excellent baby swag from some very mystified people. 😈
Dudes pointing confetti cannon at unsuspecting mate should tell you all you need to know about the relationship.
My son and daughter in law knew so they did the cutest thing. She put on a white shirt and he dipped his hands in pink paint and stood behind her and made a heart on her tummy. Gender reveal and keepsake all in one.☺️💜
Oh God, please do more of these, I'm dying of laughter. XD
Hearing Charlotte Dobre say "Hello everybody" and "Subscribe" every day makes me smile!
My sister didn’t do anything like this when she was pregnant but for her 3rd pregnancy she had a friend make a small Christmas tree decorated with the gender color on it. On Christmas morning, with both sides of the family there, they opened the box and revealed it was a girl with a really cute green Christmas tree decorated in pink. I think the reveal should be something like that, because now my sister uses that tree every year
I remember an ex-close friend's gender reveal; it was in her backyard with a balloon, simple but cute and I got to watch as she stood next to the baby daddy she told mid-pregnancy she was no longer "in love with" because she just wanted a baby and awkwardly pop the balloon then scramble around scooping up the confetti because her dog chose that moment to reveal it has Pica...Fun times.