While there are many takes on this matter, each couple needs to discuss what's best for them. However, I always air on the side of caution. Please Subscribe if you find this insightful and take a look at Speak Love if you're ready to work on your relationship.
I feel like not allowing your spouse or SO to have platonic friends that are the opposite sex is a sign of a lack of trust and trust is one of the most important aspect of a romantic relationship. I let my SO be friends with who ever and they need to rcpacateate.
I was okay with my partner having an opposite sex friend until she broke my trust with him. She became secretive with her phone and started acting out of character. I later found out she had been going for days out whilst I was at work under the pretence of seeing her mother. I was devastated. She claimed they were just "friends". I didn't believe her one bit. I later found out she had told this guy she was single. It's took me best part of 3 years to sort my head out. I'm still with my partner however, the relationship is not the same. I can sometimes find it difficult if she's out and i dont know where she is. She says if she was going to meet anyone else that she would break up with me first.
I'm so sorry. This happens far too often and now there is a huge barrier in your relationship. The fact that she said she'd break up with you first if she met someone else will contribute to your relationship not growing. It gives a false sense of security. It doesn't have to be me but please speak to someone about your relationship. Our foundation starts at home so when it's shaky at home, that unsettling foundation is felt in all areas of our lives.
While there are many takes on this matter, each couple needs to discuss what's best for them. However, I always air on the side of caution. Please Subscribe if you find this insightful and take a look at Speak Love if you're ready to work on your relationship.
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I feel like not allowing your spouse or SO to have platonic friends that are the opposite sex is a sign of a lack of trust and trust is one of the most important aspect of a romantic relationship. I let my SO be friends with who ever and they need to rcpacateate.
I was okay with my partner having an opposite sex friend until she broke my trust with him. She became secretive with her phone and started acting out of character. I later found out she had been going for days out whilst I was at work under the pretence of seeing her mother. I was devastated. She claimed they were just "friends". I didn't believe her one bit. I later found out she had told this guy she was single. It's took me best part of 3 years to sort my head out. I'm still with my partner however, the relationship is not the same. I can sometimes find it difficult if she's out and i dont know where she is. She says if she was going to meet anyone else that she would break up with me first.
I'm so sorry. This happens far too often and now there is a huge barrier in your relationship. The fact that she said she'd break up with you first if she met someone else will contribute to your relationship not growing. It gives a false sense of security. It doesn't have to be me but please speak to someone about your relationship. Our foundation starts at home so when it's shaky at home, that unsettling foundation is felt in all areas of our lives.