I think y’all need to add some more diversity in the age range.. I assume that an 18/19 year old’s fwb relationship is sooo different from someone a decade or so older. I know fwb is more common with the youngins but I (a 29 y/o sh*t show ) would love to hear other’s hot takes on this! ❤
Why do you keep negating questions for no reason? Couldn't you have prompted "I was instantly attracted to you" Which would be much easier to comprehend for the participants 0:53
honestly even still she needs therapy and self reflection to build her self esteem first before getting in a relationship, otherwise shell just end up w another dude that doesn't treat her well
That’s not always true. I had a friend with benefits when I was younger. He was hot, but I had zero romantic feelings and it was the same for him. That’s all it was. So, it can be like you describe but not always.
Reese, girl... It's a real situationship you got going on. Leave this guy and find someone who will love and respect you. Accept Jadyn's boundaries for real.
He does respect her but she’s telling him things that makes him think that it’s okay to continue with their agreement. It’s up to her to stand up for herself😭😭
@@beeeeeeeees4962 I agree. From what he's been saying, he has made it very clear where he stands. It's up to her whether or not she wants to accept it.
I coudlnt agree more in Jadyn's defense he kept it real with her from the jump. He hasnt led her on in anyway and you gotta give him props for that. I woudlnt say hes the disrespectful one here. If anything she is disrespecting herself by staying with him if shes hoping for anything more than sex@@beeeeeeeees4962
i hope she sorts out her self worth issues, that bum gets to use her as a breathing fleshlight and she gets to ??? feel desired for once in her life? i guess
She’s so pretty tho and the guy doesn’t make her feel like she is. From an outsider pov it def feels like she should leave him esp the s** part they can be friends I mean but it won’t be healthy when it eventually ends
You can tell Reese rather have some of him than none of him. She deserves someone who is more in line with her and will treat her the way she wants to be treated
But it is also not his fault I need to make that clear because the way she is in this fwb, actually shows some immaturity and insecurity that she doesn’t know herself enough to walk away due to wanting to keep control and hope of changing someone’s mind whose made their current situation and comfort ability get clear. Perhaps, no, she doesn’t deserve anyone else necessarily but just the space and time on herself- she has too much opinion on him and his mind rather than herself and that shows some personal work needs to be done. If she was truly sure of the connection and also stable in herself and in love she would walk away. He’s made it so so clear and he is not backing down and really she possibly is only showing him more of what he doesn’t want currently. Props to him for not messing her about but sticking to his honesty. ❤
But if he really wanted the best for her he would’ve broken it off w her. Because he KNOWS she’s emotionally involved and he isn’t. He needs to care enough to take her out of a situation that she can’t take herself out of.
@@bellaluchetti2089 I get what you're saying, but they have both clearly put all their cards on the table. She seems to even know she's taking it further than him. I get your point but at this point all the "damage" (for lack of a better word) is on her.
@bellaluchetti2089 it's also not fair for her to pretend to be OK, when she isn't. That's also a form of deception. Men do this to women and it comes across less cute.
First of all "your guy Jaydn" definitely knows she's in love with him yet still he's FWB with her. And then he's saying sex is not that imp to him bruhh that's the only reason you're here for it and lastly She deserve better
Everyone’s coming after Reese(understandably) but after hearing her say that he’s only the person she has around hit home. Loneliness can sometimes make u end up with some questionable people..
That's what I've been saying. Loneliness is the culprit and Jadyn knows that sooo well. Since they are both in college, she needs to be more open and outgoing and make new friends (and wisely this time). Her friendship with Jadyn is conditional and VERY toxic for her. She needs to end it totally and go back to being strangers.
ikr!! It's so obvious that's a bad situation. happens so often. Guy just wants a sex toy, girl hopes guy eventually catches feelings, guy never does and finds another girl who he does... girl 1 gets hurt. It's such a straight people stereotype / trope. lollll
The gay couple giving Reece free therapy and trying to wake her up from her delusion 😂 The thing is that Jadyn doesn’t even seem like a bad person, he’s been honest with her the whole time
Jadyns issue is that he's not being honest with himself. He is totally being honest with her about what he wants and what he expects. But he's lying to himself if he thinks that the relationship is going to end in any other way but with her being hurt. If he really tried to consider how she feels he would cut this off for her sake.
I am not saying Jaydn is a bad person, but I am saying Jaydn doesn't respect her as a person and her emotional wellbeing. Any person who cared for the Reece in a friend way, would recognize that Reece will not be the one to leave because she is attached and delusional. They'll know that to not hurt her and to benefit her, they will have to leave themselves. Jaydn knows all of this but is still not leaving because it is easy bangs for him. He recognizes that saying he has boundaries in place and keeping it strictly fwb will stop the fault from falling on him while knowing that unless he drives her away, Reece will never leave. He is taking advantage of this situation. Any person who respected the other would break this up solely to protect them from the negative feelings and hurt.
No, Jadyn is without question a bad person. But he openly admits it and Reese doesn't seem to believe it. Maybe she believes she will change him, but she won't.
I don't have a clue what Reese saw in Jayden, guy has 0 charisma, he's high or drunk (either way he's definitely not sober), guy is boring AF, 0 interest in her besides sex he even told her he has no desire to have a relationship with her.
I absolutely LOVED how the gay couple were trying SO OBVIOUSLY HARD to make Reese realise how crap the situation is😭😭 And their reactions when Jayden tried to justify the relationship got me ROLLING💀💀 they’re too funny 😭
You’re never too young to start practicing healthy monogamy. Committing to someone doesn’t mean you’re asking them to marry you. Relationships end. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have them.
@@adamlevy9845FWB, its usually the girls that catch feelings. Men can be testosteronedriven without feelings. Women however release much more nurture and bonding hormones and is inclined to be much more sensitive. BUT if its socalled "platonic" friendship? No FWB!. Then most of her male friends... is around her because of ",thirst". Concious or subconciously. Meaning that the s...p. will very likely catch feeling for her... without she caring much about them. For her it could be much more about egoboost and benefits in life (comciously and/or subconciously).
Jayden KNOWS he's hurting her and lying through his teeth. Damn. Taking full advantage of that girls isolation..no wonder she thinks he's a knight in shining armor
@@hickorysocks2628 Yes, but he also acknowledged that she is alone in their part of town, and came from a bad place. No decent person will pounce on that person's isolation/vulnerability and string them along, knowing that they are seeking more-than-friends connection and have attachment issues... He knows what he's doing.
@@hickorysocks2628 jayden is fully conscious about how she feels about him yet he continues to treat her like their just FWB Reece genuinely can't see how she's messing up with their relationship bro is taking advantage of the chick he knows it doesn't matter how detached he is and claims to be she won't leave because she cares about him to much its jaydens responsibility to end things.
@@ohhhbirdy5975 Of course she needs to learn that… However, she can learn that in therapy, not by being strung along by a guy that clearly knows he is hurting her, but values his access to her more than her mental health. He can hide behind the honesty, which is more than most get in her position, but it’s still obvious. Edit to clarify: My use of “access” just means contact with her (not just sexually), which doesn’t exclude him caring about her on some level.
@@danielc93 that is not what stringing along means. He has made clear his boundaries and said bluntly that he doesnt want commitment. Its her decision to make. Stop infantalizing her. He is not the one hurting her and he explained in the video why. He literally even said they took multiple weeks long break because she wasnt fine with it. Saying that he values access to her than her mental health when you dont know much about their relationship is weird and creepy. Sounds like someone projecting their own hurt feelings onto the relationship.
@@Sukinero Jadyn is kinda straightforward and cold but at least he’s honest that he doesn’t want commitment.. she needs to respect herself and find someone who wants to be her boyfriend
Reese is lovely, and I hope she'll find the strength to end this situationship and find someone who actually loves her and wants a real relationship with her.
I feel so sad for Reese! I hope she'll never feel gaslighted like that😢😢😢 Sending love to you Reese! I hope you find someone better.❤ Kudos to the moderator and couple standing up to help Reese come to terms with things.
what a weird thing to say about another person. Gay people aren’t your “token gay friend”. Just say u need someone who’s blunt. So tired of girls constantly saying this sh*t
I don’t have commitment issues. I just don’t want to commit. Because it would limit me. But I will totally keep this woman around and use her body whenever I want and tell her if I want to use someone else’s body and pretty much guarantee that she stays around by giving her the minimum. He literally defined commitment issues
I felt so sorry for her when Jayden was talking and basically telling her that he isn't as accepting of her boundry... Like she was so clear that he is not supposed to sleep with someone else and he was just talking about it may happening and saying she'd be okay if he told her... boy... I could feel her hurting...
He is NEVER going to give her what she is looking for. He doesn't want to date her, never will, and doesn't think she is worthy of his commitment. The problem here is she seems to be hearing something different (despite wanting something different for herself), and her inability to walk away speaks volumes of how she sees and values herself. Self-worth and self-esteem issues.
@@KathrinH1997 He isnt accepting of what she said because what she drew wasnt boundary? You cant control other person. He never said she should be okay if he told her. He said that if he wanted to do it then he will tell her and she can decide for herself if she wants to stay or not. At the end its "her decision". Stop reframing things to make him sound like the bad guy and projecting your own insecurities onto them.
I feel bad about Reece, she's so pretty and is smiling through the pain lmao. You can tell she keeps doing this, because she hopes she can change his mind one day. But it doesn't look like it's gonna happen, I hope she realizes this soon and stops it.
Bro she is a grown woman ether she will learn from her mistakes or not but we should stop treating grown women as children like they can’t make their own decisions all the comments are about that girl.
@@Ugaas3 Nobody is treating her like a little kid, and just cause she's a grown woman it doesn't mean that she protected from wrong decisions. It's okay to feel bad about someone who's clearly blinded by their own feelings. We've all been there, that's why there's empathy from a lot of people.
@@balxvcut it out - he isn’t a POS he’s young too and probably doesn’t even know what he’s doing. Just because she’s the one suffering doesn’t mean she’s the victim. Sounds like they are both trying to navigate through it tg. Obviously she needs to get out. But it’ll take her time to make that decision for herself.
@@carlinjames9475 The stuff he was saying about "She isn't hurting, she's growing" and etc is why he's a pos, not the other stuff. It's ridiculous for him to tell others how she feels, even tho everyone there, him included, and everyone on youtube can clearly see how she actually feels.
not saying its his fault at all but if the agreement in the beginning was “no strings attached” and strings started attaching, they should definitely cut it off
Im osrry but doesnt sound like he ahs two braincells to rub together... I dont think hes aware of anything going on around him. Allt hatw as missing was a drop of drool out the corner of his mouth while everyone was trying to help reese realize she needs to move on
@@leahcarnevale7340he definitely knows what their relationship is doing to her, but i think that bcs she isn't removing herself he is using that 'might as well' mentality with her
People are gonna come for me for this, but Jaydn is doing this out of purely selfish reasons - he likes the attention, he loves someone crushing on him, he loves the company, the sex whenever he wants, he wasn't even attracted to her from the start (which is weird, cause one usually starts physical relationship with someone they are physically attracted to), and he in no way helps her grow... he "helps" her only by keeping her stuck and lonely, so he's the only close person she has. If he was a true friend, he would've set her free... she's obviously continuously hurt...
the worst part sometimes is having to come to terms with the fact that sometimes people are not emotionally unavailable or have commitment issues, they just simply do not wanna be with you. & that's okay.
12:58 "Don't mistake my non-desire to entertain a relationship for commitment issues" - he straight up said he doesn't want to commit to YOU, honey. Lol I'm embarassed for her.
Facts. I'm in 3 years strong and aside from our friendship, it's the worst thing I could ever put myself through. And what's worse is I went in with emotion. And I'm still in it just suffering but much to afraid to end it seriously because of so many reasons that would and should have me seeing a therapist.
It is her fault for staying in the relationship tho. And its also not Jayden's problem or fault when he sets boundaries and is clear with what he wants/doesnt want but she can't speak up for herself
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fgExactly. She’s a grown adult. It’s her fault if she stays when he’s been very honest with her, plus letting her know she can leave. It will be a learning experience anyway.
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fg exactly. the amount of people saying jayden is the one in the wrong need to stop victimizing her. he's 1000% honest and its her fault that she's still in this situation.
As a woman I can truly appreciate that Jadyn is so honest with her. I don’t think it’s his fault that she’s clung herself to him although it’s sad and it’s happened to the best of us. I felt kinda bad for him this episode. I feel like everyone was judging him for not having feelings for her but that’s not something he can just force and saying he should leave her lol.. This isn’t all on him that SHE is not respecting HIS boundaries
💯 He's been honest from the start. As a woman, I prefer and respect guys who are honest and it's up to us to walk away when whatever we're into with them is no longer what we want.
@@Leah-nh5bw he can just find another person who only wants sex with no strings attached, yet he still deals with Reece. If I were him I would have been like "baby girl, this ain't working" lol
@@brookeh21 i feel like he just doesn't want to be the one to end it and judging his answers he does care about her but just as a person not a romantic partner
i feel like jadyn is being very clear and trying to say it nicely. “ i do not have issues with commitment i just don’t want to date anyone” WHICH INCLUDES REESE! she obviously likes him so maybe it’s hard for her to see that he flat out is saying “i can date someone if i want but i just don’t want to date you”. we’ve all been there. i just hope she goes and gets what she rlly wants. it just seems like she’s settling with whatever he’ll give her to keep him in her life /:
Jaydn knows what he wants and doesn't want and when he says I just dont want to date anyone that means he enjoys being single. Nothing to see with 'I can date someone if I want but I just don want to date you'. People forget you can be happy taking your time being single
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fg i agree! i can like being single as well as be open to or be ready to date someone at the same time. yea you can definitely be happy taking ur time being single it’s a choice to stay single and enjoy that experience. exactly he does know what he wants he wants to be single and not date her. i hope this doesn’t come off condescending. i do agree w u and i think we’re saying the same thing!
why should he even date her if he's already getting everything he needs from her? unlimited sex and attention, and he doesnt even have to ask how her day is lmfao
He doesn’t want to date Reese BUT HE Likes the attention and doesn’t want her to date someone else so is d Weeey seggs supply keeps on going he knows that he could cut her off knowing she is falling in love with him….
@@DamonPersona yea exactly he's not avoidant because he's there as a friend for her but he just has established boundaries that don't really fit well with what she wants in a guy. seems like she wants a boyfriend more than a fwb
It's the fact Reese said she's got no family or friends really where she's at with him. So for him to be so flippant is pretty cruel, there's a very imbalanced power dynamic. I hope he stops messing her around. He's 100% going to blame her and say it's her problem for catching feelings, too.
I feel like this generation tries so desperately to numb themselves with sex, and convince themselves that they can separate their feelings for someone, even though they are soul tying and connecting with someone on THE most intimate level possible. It honestly breaks my heart and makes me so sad. I don’t believe that anyone who is healthy or healed, has casual sex, is sexually promiscuous, or gets entangled in a situationship, or anything of the like. I pray that the people who want true love, stay single and save themselves for someone who wants it just as bad as them, and the people who aren’t ready to commit, take the time to grow and heal and maybe separate themselves from physical intimacy while they develop. Love to everyone!💝
I absolutely despise this hookup culture and how it's so common in the West, hope it stays there and doesn't reach my country (it already kinda has sadly but it's concentrated to very few big cities)
Reese you need to leave this bum azz dude. I’ve been there done that, trust me, you WILL heal and you WILL be SO much happier without him. There’s plenty of guys out there for you who WILL commit to you and won’t be afraid to show you off and be affectionate in public and everything. This guy is just using you as a placeholder until something better comes along. Again, been there done that. He’s not gonna change, he’s not gonna come around, it’s much easier for us to see the truth since we’re not emotionally invested like you are. I just truly hope one day VERY soon you see your worth and realize how poorly this BOY is treating you, just stringing you along. He knows what he’s doing, don’t doubt that for a second. One day you’ll see, I just hope it’s soon. Sending you so much love, light, and healing energy 💜
Very empathetic towards Reese. Absolutely, I am. Jayden isn't necessarily doing anything wrong though. They are both young and both clearly stated their desires here. Jaydn doesn't want a committment, and Reese does. Reese could end it herself, but her biggest struggle and fear is losing that anchor she has in her life (socially, etc.) because of they go separate ways, she likely won't have anyone to help with her needs (in all aspects). I'm not saying she can't find anybody else who actually suits her, but she is losing just about all she has by making that move and she's scared to death of doing it. Understandably so too.
@@OfficialDreamTheaterif they are friends though Jayden should care about her wellbeing. She’s obviously caught feelings and isn’t growing as a person with this FWB. If she won’t break it off he should.
@@Ray03595 idk if Jayden should, he clearly stated what he is in for with Reese, and it doesn't seem like he would end it, cuz he getting pus pus. Reese should end it, but she lacks the self-respect to do so, in the video. Hopefully she thinks thoroughly through and realises that she aint getting what she wants.
Both should run lol She obviously got heartache from this relationship, and the guy may get headache later if he finds someone he wants and then BAM she evolved to clingy ex.😅
The gay boys were the MVPs… they literally said everything I wanted to say. You can hurt someone even if you do nothing but keep everything the same as it always was. She’s carrying these feelings along with her every single day, and when he ignores those feelings, intentional or not, he hurts her. Then he tries to make her feel like it’s her fault for having feelings because “he set the expectations from the very beginning.” People aren’t stagnant and relationships certainly aren’t either, you can’t expect the same rules to work forever and allow a close friend to get hurt regardless of how you feel romantically.
As a female who was once a Jadyn in a relationship.. run. He doesn’t care. He is using you. I’m not proud of how I was. I’m no longer like that but I remember clearly that I was very selfish. I did not want to be in a relationship because I didn’t love him that way. I used him when it was convenient for me. Run girl!
theyre literally trolling and i hate it and can respect it at the same time like id do the same, but it kinda sucks bc theyre faking it. (He says its a prank in his ig bio)
I think the issue with Jayden and Reece is you have one girl who is emotionally involved and you have a dude who knows the girl he's messing with likes him, but he ignores it. Just because you you make it clear you don't want a relationship, doesn't mean it's ok to continue on in relationships like this.
but why should he even date her if he's already getting everything he needs from her? unlimited sex and attention, and he doesnt even have to ask how her day is lmfao, the day she's tired of being a breathing fleshlight is the day things will end. until then, have fun jadyn
@@nwgverifiedI really hate this logic but unfortunately it’s very true. It’s the same thing w/ drug addicts + dealers : you know this is bad, you know you are providing someone with something that is harmful and detrimental to their health but THEY are grown adults, consenting to it (by handing you their money for it) but it doesn’t take away the fact that it’s fvcked up 😢😢😢😢
Reese… please run. Being on a relationship where you accept less than what you deserve (and give) can have a long lasting effect on someone’s self esteem. You deserve someone who makes you feel awesome about yourself.
This isnt exclusive to fwb the same thing happens when one person is doing things for other person like emotional support or other kinds of help which is not necessarily having sex trying to get a relationship with them but the other person doesnt want it but just wants to be friends.
Reese is a grown adult, who has literally been told that she can leave whenever she wants, as well as been told exactly what the situation is. Too many of you in the comments treat women like little kids
The entire channel should be focused on learning from older people. They/we messed up the world, but we/they do have more experience. Trying to learn from young people sends a bad message. On top of that, Jubilee always seems to bring in toxic people.
@@eugenetswong Older people didn't mess up the world. Governments mess up the world. We had as much control over the world as younger generations have in their time. I only suggested older people to see what they would do in an experiment like that...especially since they have more life experiences.
I'm pretty disappointed in the pair that came as a joke. These are "fun videos" but also for the audience to gain real perspective. Anyways, maybe that's just me🤷♀️
When Jayden was asked if this situation is bad for her and his answer was basically no because HE has told her his boundaries and HES been honest with her - but like, is that answering the question? He can do all those things and it can still be bad for her
Jadyn places the emotional responsibility of attachment on Reese alone, despite knowing of her feelings. Claiming to be a friend while using self-affirmation as a justification is disingenuous, and demonstrates a lack of respect for her wellbeing.
Soooo how are we feeling about friends with benefits after watching that?
It rarely works out
So many people are toxic and accept toxicity. It's sickening. Damn, so messed up.
I think y’all need to add some more diversity in the age range.. I assume that an 18/19 year old’s fwb relationship is sooo different from someone a decade or so older. I know fwb is more common with the youngins but I (a 29 y/o sh*t show ) would love to hear other’s hot takes on this! ❤
I kinda like it it can be. Better than a relationship
Why do you keep negating questions for no reason? Couldn't you have prompted "I was instantly attracted to you"
Which would be much easier to comprehend for the participants
0:53
Reece, girl... What strong connection? that dude has no thoughts behind those eyes....
the BBC connection lmao
Exactly, mouth breather and dead eyes, I don't know what she sees in him.
@@busterbaxter828 😂😂😂😂 I just died and came back
She likes guys who don't actually appreciate her and don't give her attention
@@YoureRightIThink It seems so which is so sad :(
Reese wants a boyfriend, not a FWB. She should move on to someone who wants the same thing.
hard finding a boyfriend who wants a bf lol
@@avxnull9839facts. And alot of those guys will pretend to want to be a boyfriend in order to get what they want.
Yup! She has feelings for homeboy, but she's frustrated he won't commit.
honestly even still she needs therapy and self reflection to build her self esteem first before getting in a relationship, otherwise shell just end up w another dude that doesn't treat her well
@Joe-fj6dj wouldn't it be the other way around though?
jiya and brad are clearly two friends who have never slept together but just did this for shits and giggles and drama. theyre probably both gay too
YESS ITS SO CLEAR 😂
Like, did they even rehearse this?😂
They miscalculated. They are treating this show like open mic stand up. It isn't going over well.😂
😂😂😂
Theater kids
FWB is usually one person with low esteem and the other with commitment issues. Protect your heart, folks
This. This is so true.
So true. As you get older it can be because of trust issues. It usually doesn’t ever end well.
That’s not true maybe for some people. I know I’m the cats meow, I want a boyfriend but I wouldn’t mind a FWB with established boundaries 🤷🏿♀️
That is really wise.
That’s not always true. I had a friend with benefits when I was younger. He was hot, but I had zero romantic feelings and it was the same for him. That’s all it was. So, it can be like you describe but not always.
May Reece's birth control never fail. Amen 🙏🏽
AMENNNN
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"Padre nuestro que está en el cielo..."
Amen
amen ✨
Reese, girl... It's a real situationship you got going on. Leave this guy and find someone who will love and respect you. Accept Jadyn's boundaries for real.
He does respect her but she’s telling him things that makes him think that it’s okay to continue with their agreement. It’s up to her to stand up for herself😭😭
@@beeeeeeeees4962 I agree. From what he's been saying, he has made it very clear where he stands. It's up to her whether or not she wants to accept it.
who cares shes a mudshark
I coudlnt agree more in Jadyn's defense he kept it real with her from the jump. He hasnt led her on in anyway and you gotta give him props for that. I woudlnt say hes the disrespectful one here. If anything she is disrespecting herself by staying with him if shes hoping for anything more than sex@@beeeeeeeees4962
He def respects her, he's clearly been open about it from the jump, but she also wants something exclusive so I think she should look elsewhere
This was a whole therapy session for Reece lmao
Ikr plus everyone else getting involved and basically telling her to gtfo of the situationship, we love ppl supporting other ppl
Definately a humbling experience for her
@@Rizul_09 Real!
i hope she sorts out her self worth issues, that bum gets to use her as a breathing fleshlight and she gets to ??? feel desired for once in her life? i guess
she won't listen lol
Reece, just leave him alone for your own sanity babe
No seriously it’s no point
It's clear she has self-worth and self-esteem issues. So sad.
@@o_m8717 white women have self hatred.
She’s so pretty tho and the guy doesn’t make her feel like she is. From an outsider pov it def feels like she should leave him esp the s** part they can be friends I mean but it won’t be healthy when it eventually ends
She deserves better
You can tell Reese rather have some of him than none of him. She deserves someone who is more in line with her and will treat her the way she wants to be treated
She is so tied to him, they have classes and work together.
But it is also not his fault I need to make that clear because the way she is in this fwb, actually shows some immaturity and insecurity that she doesn’t know herself enough to walk away due to wanting to keep control and hope of changing someone’s mind whose made their current situation and comfort ability get clear. Perhaps, no, she doesn’t deserve anyone else necessarily but just the space and time on herself- she has too much opinion on him and his mind rather than herself and that shows some personal work needs to be done. If she was truly sure of the connection and also stable in herself and in love she would walk away. He’s made it so so clear and he is not backing down and really she possibly is only showing him more of what he doesn’t want currently. Props to him for not messing her about but sticking to his honesty. ❤
My dude Jadyn is not lying to Reese. Reese is lying to herself.
But if he really wanted the best for her he would’ve broken it off w her. Because he KNOWS she’s emotionally involved and he isn’t. He needs to care enough to take her out of a situation that she can’t take herself out of.
@@bellaluchetti2089 I get what you're saying, but they have both clearly put all their cards on the table. She seems to even know she's taking it further than him. I get your point but at this point all the "damage" (for lack of a better word) is on her.
@bellaluchetti2089 it's also not fair for her to pretend to be OK, when she isn't. That's also a form of deception. Men do this to women and it comes across less cute.
Fair honestly but I get it
First of all "your guy Jaydn" definitely knows she's in love with him yet still he's FWB with her. And then he's saying sex is not that imp to him bruhh that's the only reason you're here for it and lastly She deserve better
Everyone’s coming after Reese(understandably) but after hearing her say that he’s only the person she has around hit home. Loneliness can sometimes make u end up with some questionable people..
What time did she said it?
no fr i was in her shoes not too long ago at my new college
@@Saraeid9225:50
That's what I've been saying. Loneliness is the culprit and Jadyn knows that sooo well. Since they are both in college, she needs to be more open and outgoing and make new friends (and wisely this time). Her friendship with Jadyn is conditional and VERY toxic for her. She needs to end it totally and go back to being strangers.
It brings back memories 😭
The gay homies were trying so hard to help her
😂😂😂 she dont wannabe savedd
Lmfao🤣🤣🤣
No for real 😂
ikr!! It's so obvious that's a bad situation. happens so often. Guy just wants a sex toy, girl hopes guy eventually catches feelings, guy never does and finds another girl who he does... girl 1 gets hurt. It's such a straight people stereotype / trope. lollll
@@vynnevei knoww I feel so bad for the girl too
Jiya and Brad probably thought this was The Mole
Also Brad is not straight 😅
@@marioprevil1139 Yup 😭 I caught on to that as I heard them speak more lmao
Brad is this straight... \
@@snicholson8884Straight as a tilde ~~~~ ! 😂
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
The gay couple giving Reece free therapy and trying to wake her up from her delusion 😂
The thing is that Jadyn doesn’t even seem like a bad person, he’s been honest with her the whole time
21:09 literally!
Jadyns issue is that he's not being honest with himself. He is totally being honest with her about what he wants and what he expects. But he's lying to himself if he thinks that the relationship is going to end in any other way but with her being hurt. If he really tried to consider how she feels he would cut this off for her sake.
I am not saying Jaydn is a bad person, but I am saying Jaydn doesn't respect her as a person and her emotional wellbeing. Any person who cared for the Reece in a friend way, would recognize that Reece will not be the one to leave because she is attached and delusional. They'll know that to not hurt her and to benefit her, they will have to leave themselves.
Jaydn knows all of this but is still not leaving because it is easy bangs for him. He recognizes that saying he has boundaries in place and keeping it strictly fwb will stop the fault from falling on him while knowing that unless he drives her away, Reece will never leave. He is taking advantage of this situation. Any person who respected the other would break this up solely to protect them from the negative feelings and hurt.
No, Jadyn is without question a bad person. But he openly admits it and Reese doesn't seem to believe it. Maybe she believes she will change him, but she won't.
@@arshiyaamreen5808 so true.
I don't have a clue what Reese saw in Jayden, guy has 0 charisma, he's high or drunk (either way he's definitely not sober), guy is boring AF, 0 interest in her besides sex he even told her he has no desire to have a relationship with her.
Seems like she likes the way he looks because she described thinking he’s cute from the start
Hater alert
She damn sure not cute. She need some melanin!!
@@jonwhite549 jayden alert.
@@rachellotus5137I honestly can’t imagine why
I absolutely LOVED how the gay couple were trying SO OBVIOUSLY HARD to make Reese realise how crap the situation is😭😭 And their reactions when Jayden tried to justify the relationship got me ROLLING💀💀 they’re too funny 😭
They were great 😅. Everyone needs friends like that, who will be straight up with you.
@@smileprincess6834 i see what you did there
Wait what's the timestamp?!
@@elizabethcartagena-vp5tp 14:05 and 21:03
And a shout out to the guy in the green jacket always backing up the gay couple and trying to explain it in a different way for Reece! 😅
dude literallly said he isnt down for a relationship with HER and she still takes it, damn bro
u needa be locked away in a maximum security prison til further notice for the way u spelled relationship big dawg
@@hela8202 nah he is talking about a rellation ship, like space ship xD
@@thev8212 gabriel sit this one out babe
@@hela8202lmaooo, I didn’t even notice till a saw your comment!
@@hela8202 maybe English is not their first language
New title: “Reese’s Intervention”
Poor girl lmao
Yea they need to go their seperate ways. She's wasting her time.
😩😩😩 I feel so bad for her
Real though
😂😂
That was painful, so clear from the outside that Reece needs to get out of that situation but loves him
You’re never too young to start practicing healthy monogamy. Committing to someone doesn’t mean you’re asking them to marry you. Relationships end. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have them.
jiya and brad are def not actually together there are no benefits happening there😭 it’s giving besties who wanted to be in a video together
Brad subconscious saying for now exposed him. Probably was petrified in that moment
@@adamlevy9845 in a fwb situation its usually the women that catch feelings if thats what u mean im p sure most ppl wld agree as well
People who say "it's giving" 🤡
@@adamlevy9845FWB, its usually the girls that catch feelings.
Men can be testosteronedriven without feelings.
Women however release much more nurture and bonding hormones and is inclined to be much more sensitive.
BUT if its socalled "platonic" friendship? No FWB!.
Then most of her male friends... is around her because of ",thirst". Concious or subconciously.
Meaning that the s...p. will very likely catch feeling for her... without she caring much about them.
For her it could be much more about egoboost and benefits in life (comciously and/or subconciously).
literally. like wtf are they doing there
I’m glad the others were honest with Reese and actually tried to help her
jiya and brad felt like an improv skit 💀
Lmaoooooo
last minute participants
lol Jubilee employees
Yeah I was like… Are they trolling us rn?..
I think a couple dropped last min and they needed a substitute lmao
Reese nodding when the guy said that he only goes for guys that treat him wrong 😭😭😭 like girl we can tell that applies to you too
Jayden KNOWS he's hurting her and lying through his teeth. Damn. Taking full advantage of that girls isolation..no wonder she thinks he's a knight in shining armor
THIS! He wants to keep the situationship so bad
He’s being honest and saying he doesn’t want a relationship with her. It is her responsibility to leave
@@hickorysocks2628 Sure, but he makes it sound like he isn't making it hard but he is playing with her emotions when they are romantic in bed
@@hickorysocks2628 Yes, but he also acknowledged that she is alone in their part of town, and came from a bad place. No decent person will pounce on that person's isolation/vulnerability and string them along, knowing that they are seeking more-than-friends connection and have attachment issues... He knows what he's doing.
@@hickorysocks2628 jayden is fully conscious about how she feels about him yet he continues to treat her like their just FWB
Reece genuinely can't see how she's messing up with their relationship bro is taking advantage of the chick he knows it doesn't matter how detached he is and claims to be she won't leave because she cares about him to much its jaydens responsibility to end things.
Jayden needs to end it for Reese, because she clearly won’t do it for herself.
He won’t, but he should.
nah she needs to learn to make her own decisions or she'll continue with those bad decisions for life.
@@ohhhbirdy5975
Of course she needs to learn that… However, she can learn that in therapy, not by being strung along by a guy that clearly knows he is hurting her, but values his access to her more than her mental health. He can hide behind the honesty, which is more than most get in her position, but it’s still obvious.
Edit to clarify:
My use of “access” just means contact with her (not just sexually), which doesn’t exclude him caring about her on some level.
@@danielc93 that is not what stringing along means. He has made clear his boundaries and said bluntly that he doesnt want commitment. Its her decision to make. Stop infantalizing her. He is not the one hurting her and he explained in the video why. He literally even said they took multiple weeks long break because she wasnt fine with it. Saying that he values access to her than her mental health when you dont know much about their relationship is weird and creepy. Sounds like someone projecting their own hurt feelings onto the relationship.
@@Disnotz
If you say so. It’s not my relationship so 🤷🏻♂️
@@DisnotzLol you're jaydn.
Reese you are not okay with this, you just like him too much and are willing to do anything to keep him by your side. Girl go, much love to you.
So u don’t like Jadyn?
@@Sukinero Jadyn is kinda straightforward and cold but at least he’s honest that he doesn’t want commitment.. she needs to respect herself and find someone who wants to be her boyfriend
This works for Jayden, nothing wrong with that
@@thabomos He's aware that he's hurting her, but is content to do so as long as it benefits him. A lot is wrong with that.
@@Glichyy Most females do the same thing by keeping guys in friend zone. Are you saying there's something wrong with most females?
that girl is hurt, she’s in denial
Also lowkey a manipulator. Lying to him that she understands and accepts the boundary, in hope that he will eventually succumb to what she wants.
@@Kobble8I feel like she genuinely wants to believe that herself, so she's voicing it out more rather trying to convince him
@@ogechianusi6809 Yeah I get that tbf
@@Kobble8 that is called insecurity
@@liltunturi1251 Which isn’t an excuse to overstep boundaries
Reese is lovely, and I hope she'll find the strength to end this situationship and find someone who actually loves her and wants a real relationship with her.
Jadyn seems like the kind of guy that in a relationship, is not responsible for any disagreement and it will always be his partner’s fault
I feel so sad for Reese! I hope she'll never feel gaslighted like that😢😢😢
Sending love to you Reese! I hope you find someone better.❤ Kudos to the moderator and couple standing up to help Reese come to terms with things.
Yes...he is just in it for the nookie!
The video that finally proves how any straight girl needs her gay friend to shove the harsh truths in her face
OMG! Yes! It got so obvious over time
Lol fr
Ugh i seriously need one.
what a weird thing to say about another person. Gay people aren’t your “token gay friend”. Just say u need someone who’s blunt. So tired of girls constantly saying this sh*t
@@fritzthepetitedeity8356you don’t
This was an intervention for Reese disguised as a jubilee episode
😭😭💀
LMAO
Their situation had me so stressed out
Jiya and brad were definitely not talking about the benefits that everyone else was
Guys they literally cut out a whole segment where we said our benefits were swiping each other into the college dining hall
@@JiyasGiantVlogs girl wtf are u doing on this video in the first place HELP???? no hate tho ur so gorg
LMAOOOO HI no like jubilee asked me to audition and i got brad bc we thought it would be funny😭😭 ALSO TY🫶
@JiyaSinghz it was the most funny part of the show, thanks for showing up
@@JiyasGiantVlogsy'all so annoying , esp you girl
I don’t have commitment issues. I just don’t want to commit. Because it would limit me. But I will totally keep this woman around and use her body whenever I want and tell her if I want to use someone else’s body and pretty much guarantee that she stays around by giving her the minimum.
He literally defined commitment issues
Such a classic narcissist
Girl of course he’s supporting you… and you just keep giving him the cookie
The red head is struggling. Girl, stand up. You know what you WANT 😩☝️
I felt so sorry for her when Jayden was talking and basically telling her that he isn't as accepting of her boundry... Like she was so clear that he is not supposed to sleep with someone else and he was just talking about it may happening and saying she'd be okay if he told her... boy... I could feel her hurting...
Wait she's red head ? Isn't that brunette or brown?
He is NEVER going to give her what she is looking for. He doesn't want to date her, never will, and doesn't think she is worthy of his commitment. The problem here is she seems to be hearing something different (despite wanting something different for herself), and her inability to walk away speaks volumes of how she sees and values herself. Self-worth and self-esteem issues.
@@KathrinH1997 not a boundary your boundaries only apply to YOURSELF
@@KathrinH1997 He isnt accepting of what she said because what she drew wasnt boundary? You cant control other person. He never said she should be okay if he told her. He said that if he wanted to do it then he will tell her and she can decide for herself if she wants to stay or not. At the end its "her decision". Stop reframing things to make him sound like the bad guy and projecting your own insecurities onto them.
I feel bad about Reece, she's so pretty and is smiling through the pain lmao. You can tell she keeps doing this, because she hopes she can change his mind one day. But it doesn't look like it's gonna happen, I hope she realizes this soon and stops it.
Not to mention that guy saying "I feel like I'm not hurting her, she's growing" what a pos lmao
Bro she is a grown woman ether she will learn from her mistakes or not but we should stop treating grown women as children like they can’t make their own decisions all the comments are about that girl.
@@Ugaas3 Nobody is treating her like a little kid, and just cause she's a grown woman it doesn't mean that she protected from wrong decisions. It's okay to feel bad about someone who's clearly blinded by their own feelings. We've all been there, that's why there's empathy from a lot of people.
@@balxvcut it out - he isn’t a POS he’s young too and probably doesn’t even know what he’s doing. Just because she’s the one suffering doesn’t mean she’s the victim. Sounds like they are both trying to navigate through it tg. Obviously she needs to get out. But it’ll take her time to make that decision for herself.
@@carlinjames9475 The stuff he was saying about "She isn't hurting, she's growing" and etc is why he's a pos, not the other stuff. It's ridiculous for him to tell others how she feels, even tho everyone there, him included, and everyone on youtube can clearly see how she actually feels.
Jiya and Brad have to be trolling, there's no way
They got annoying the way they were talking over each other
they’re both just very excitable bubbly people and they’re mouths can’t keep up with how fast their brains are moving but I believe them😭
Brad’s instagram says it’s a prank lol
They seem like actors ngl
bro did NOT convince ANYONE 😂
Reese said “even if we were friends without sex” lmao I promise you, he will not be your “friend”without sex! He will dispose you.
Jayden is a hard core mouth breather and it pissed me off the entire video
The feeling when one starts saying they would never date the other one is so tense 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
True ey.
He's so emotionally unavailable and she is, plus she has feelings. tough!
Thats the deal with FWB so you cant fault him
@@anonymousaccount8855 Not necessarily. It can evolve into something else. Life happens, time passes, people change.
not saying its his fault at all but if the agreement in the beginning was “no strings attached” and strings started attaching, they should definitely cut it off
“The benefit is that I’m helping her grow as a person “😭😭😭😭😭Jayden is so mad for saying this
Im osrry but doesnt sound like he ahs two braincells to rub together... I dont think hes aware of anything going on around him. Allt hatw as missing was a drop of drool out the corner of his mouth while everyone was trying to help reese realize she needs to move on
He sounded like a narcissist.
@@leahcarnevale7340 Im dyinggg plssss not the drool
@@leahcarnevale7340he definitely knows what their relationship is doing to her, but i think that bcs she isn't removing herself he is using that 'might as well' mentality with her
Honestly Idk what she sees in him
The girl with the black top and brown trousers.. he doesn't want you girl please stand up 😭
Reese you mean.
Reese
Her style is whack
FR, STAND UPPPPPPP
People are gonna come for me for this, but Jaydn is doing this out of purely selfish reasons - he likes the attention, he loves someone crushing on him, he loves the company, the sex whenever he wants, he wasn't even attracted to her from the start (which is weird, cause one usually starts physical relationship with someone they are physically attracted to), and he in no way helps her grow... he "helps" her only by keeping her stuck and lonely, so he's the only close person she has. If he was a true friend, he would've set her free... she's obviously continuously hurt...
also, he never discussed how SHE helps HIM, just talking about how much he helps her and how she grows as a result of his friendship
Honestly I think he has no self awareness. Now that people tried to spell it out for both him and her, i hope it clicks for him
the worst part sometimes is having to come to terms with the fact that sometimes people are not emotionally unavailable or have commitment issues, they just simply do not wanna be with you. & that's okay.
Poor Reese, she’s stuck. He wont commit, she wont move on. He will eventually find someone and she’s gonna be devastated
12:58 "Don't mistake my non-desire to entertain a relationship for commitment issues" - he straight up said he doesn't want to commit to YOU, honey. Lol I'm embarassed for her.
LIKE HE GAGGED HA, I WAS LIKE DAMN. 😭
I was looking for this comment😅
@@crepeeric1134 he gagged ME too, she needs to leave him 😭
@@kurt4789 she cant leave him because she is not with him
He 100% is gonna wife up some other girl and she's gonna act like she didn't see it coming
“i was a dressed as a penguin..”
“i was dressed as a hotdog…”
LMAO
Pengdog ⛳
They seem made for eacother :D
He surely likes her
LOLL I like that the gay couple stepped in and intervened with Reece
Let's just call it what it is, they are just placeholding until someone better comes along.
the mental gymnastics that Reece nd the guy were doing just to come across as if they didn't have an unhealthy dynamic omg lol
🤸♀️🤸♀️🤸♀️
Like come on now
So unhealthy
This episode turned into a group therapy session for reece
Falling in love/getting into a relationship with ur fwb is a different type of struggle u DON’T want to experience or get into in ur life
It gets so weird and almost never works out. Lmao
Why even be fwb?
Facts. I'm in 3 years strong and aside from our friendship, it's the worst thing I could ever put myself through. And what's worse is I went in with emotion. And I'm still in it just suffering but much to afraid to end it seriously because of so many reasons that would and should have me seeing a therapist.
it's pretty much unavoidable for women. We are wired to become attached to anyone who gives us orgasms
@@dekarriofficialsee a therapist, seriously. It will help.
1:29 brings to the table, y’all not even dating lol 😂
FWB is basically you're training yourself to dgaf about someone while also being physically intimate. A bad habit to build.
as someone who was in Reese’s shoes. RUN!!! he will never change his mind and it’s not your problem or your fault
It is her fault for staying in the relationship tho. And its also not Jayden's problem or fault when he sets boundaries and is clear with what he wants/doesnt want but she can't speak up for herself
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fgExactly. She’s a grown adult. It’s her fault if she stays when he’s been very honest with her, plus letting her know she can leave. It will be a learning experience anyway.
@@Kobble8 Yes, it is still very sad that she needs to have a group therapy session to realize it but hopefully she can grow from this experience
!!!
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fg exactly. the amount of people saying jayden is the one in the wrong need to stop victimizing her. he's 1000% honest and its her fault that she's still in this situation.
Omg Reese get out of that situation! Have some self respect girl! 🤦♀️
I was saying the same thing that she don’t respect herself
She is probably in denial
I do feel bad but he said from the beginning what it was
But they Beard guy can have any number of marriage and they Oblivious gonna be plural. 😅😂
Girl hes not emotionally unavailable or has commitment issues he just don’t want YOU
THIS
As a woman I can truly appreciate that Jadyn is so honest with her. I don’t think it’s his fault that she’s clung herself to him although it’s sad and it’s happened to the best of us. I felt kinda bad for him this episode. I feel like everyone was judging him for not having feelings for her but that’s not something he can just force and saying he should leave her lol.. This isn’t all on him that SHE is not respecting HIS boundaries
💯 He's been honest from the start. As a woman, I prefer and respect guys who are honest and it's up to us to walk away when whatever we're into with them is no longer what we want.
@@Leah-nh5bw he can just find another person who only wants sex with no strings attached, yet he still deals with Reece. If I were him I would have been like "baby girl, this ain't working" lol
@@brookeh21 i feel like he just doesn't want to be the one to end it and judging his answers he does care about her but just as a person not a romantic partner
I would simply d1e if my situationship said their attraction with me didnt begin w what i looked like... but my work ethic....
It’s not weird to build up to an attraction but he didn’t even sound that attracted to her now 😬
@Natu014 well why else do you think he's not dating her? She probably isn't his type
i feel like jadyn is being very clear and trying to say it nicely. “ i do not have issues with commitment i just don’t want to date anyone” WHICH INCLUDES REESE! she obviously likes him so maybe it’s hard for her to see that he flat out is saying “i can date someone if i want but i just don’t want to date you”. we’ve all been there. i just hope she goes and gets what she rlly wants. it just seems like she’s settling with whatever he’ll give her to keep him in her life /:
Jaydn knows what he wants and doesn't want and when he says I just dont want to date anyone that means he enjoys being single. Nothing to see with 'I can date someone if I want but I just don want to date you'.
People forget you can be happy taking your time being single
@@Ginger_Dwarf-nc3fg i agree! i can like being single as well as be open to or be ready to date someone at the same time. yea you can definitely be happy taking ur time being single it’s a choice to stay single and enjoy that experience. exactly he does know what he wants he wants to be single and not date her. i hope this doesn’t come off condescending. i do agree w u and i think we’re saying the same thing!
why should he even date her if he's already getting everything he needs from her? unlimited sex and attention, and he doesnt even have to ask how her day is lmfao
He doesn’t want to date Reese BUT HE Likes the attention and doesn’t want her to date someone else so is d
Weeey seggs supply keeps on going he knows that he could cut her off knowing she is falling in love with him….
Basically, Avoidant + Anxious attachment style = dysfunctional relationship
Yeah fr unless the two individuals are mature and patient enough to work through their differences and grow
nah he just doesnt wanna be with her lmao
I don’t know if I’d say his avoidant, he knows what he wants… not her
@@DamonPersona yea exactly he's not avoidant because he's there as a friend for her but he just has established boundaries that don't really fit well with what she wants in a guy. seems like she wants a boyfriend more than a fwb
I don’t even think he’s avoidant, he just doesn’t want a relationship with HER
The gays save the day, love it.
Videos like this just make me appreciate being married so much more.
It's the fact Reese said she's got no family or friends really where she's at with him. So for him to be so flippant is pretty cruel, there's a very imbalanced power dynamic. I hope he stops messing her around. He's 100% going to blame her and say it's her problem for catching feelings, too.
tannor and noah really trying to help her out
Yeah they were wholesome
I noticed that. I hope she reads the comments and gets out 😭
Damn, the gays put our girl on blast 🤣
Lmao 😂
💀
“ You don’t need to lie to women. If they like you enough, they’ll lie to themselves” - Red head is definitely not ok with just being a FWB.
Yess!! I like this quote she’s in love with her imagination of him
okay sabrina carpenter
I feel like this generation tries so desperately to numb themselves with sex, and convince themselves that they can separate their feelings for someone, even though they are soul tying and connecting with someone on THE most intimate level possible. It honestly breaks my heart and makes me so sad. I don’t believe that anyone who is healthy or healed, has casual sex, is sexually promiscuous, or gets entangled in a situationship, or anything of the like. I pray that the people who want true love, stay single and save themselves for someone who wants it just as bad as them, and the people who aren’t ready to commit, take the time to grow and heal and maybe separate themselves from physical intimacy while they develop. Love to everyone!💝
100% agree.
I absolutely despise this hookup culture and how it's so common in the West, hope it stays there and doesn't reach my country (it already kinda has sadly but it's concentrated to very few big cities)
@@mimitabiswas4534what country do u live in
Reese you need to leave this bum azz dude. I’ve been there done that, trust me, you WILL heal and you WILL be SO much happier without him. There’s plenty of guys out there for you who WILL commit to you and won’t be afraid to show you off and be affectionate in public and everything.
This guy is just using you as a placeholder until something better comes along. Again, been there done that. He’s not gonna change, he’s not gonna come around, it’s much easier for us to see the truth since we’re not emotionally invested like you are.
I just truly hope one day VERY soon you see your worth and realize how poorly this BOY is treating you, just stringing you along. He knows what he’s doing, don’t doubt that for a second. One day you’ll see, I just hope it’s soon.
Sending you so much love, light, and healing energy 💜
Jadyn is not helping Reese “grow as a person” 💀
Very empathetic towards Reese. Absolutely, I am. Jayden isn't necessarily doing anything wrong though. They are both young and both clearly stated their desires here. Jaydn doesn't want a committment, and Reese does. Reese could end it herself, but her biggest struggle and fear is losing that anchor she has in her life (socially, etc.) because of they go separate ways, she likely won't have anyone to help with her needs (in all aspects).
I'm not saying she can't find anybody else who actually suits her, but she is losing just about all she has by making that move and she's scared to death of doing it. Understandably so too.
She's helping him grow something, alright
@@OfficialDreamTheaterif they are friends though Jayden should care about her wellbeing. She’s obviously caught feelings and isn’t growing as a person with this FWB. If she won’t break it off he should.
@@Ray03595 idk if Jayden should, he clearly stated what he is in for with Reese, and it doesn't seem like he would end it, cuz he getting pus pus. Reese should end it, but she lacks the self-respect to do so, in the video. Hopefully she thinks thoroughly through and realises that she aint getting what she wants.
I swear!! That was the stupidest thing I heard in this video
The gay FWB said what we were all thinking and I love them for it
Reese should RUN
why? she signed up for a FWB and couldnt control her feelings
Siddadle asap
Both should run lol
She obviously got heartache from this relationship, and the guy may get headache later if he finds someone he wants and then BAM
she evolved to clingy ex.😅
@@anonymousaccount8855 that's exactly why she should run 😂
@@anonymousaccount8855yes, but she always put all of her eggs in one basket & he knows it. Manipulation is mainly in forms of actions and not words..
The gay boys were the MVPs… they literally said everything I wanted to say. You can hurt someone even if you do nothing but keep everything the same as it always was. She’s carrying these feelings along with her every single day, and when he ignores those feelings, intentional or not, he hurts her. Then he tries to make her feel like it’s her fault for having feelings because “he set the expectations from the very beginning.” People aren’t stagnant and relationships certainly aren’t either, you can’t expect the same rules to work forever and allow a close friend to get hurt regardless of how you feel romantically.
As a female who was once a Jadyn in a relationship.. run. He doesn’t care. He is using you.
I’m not proud of how I was. I’m no longer like that but I remember clearly that I was very selfish. I did not want to be in a relationship because I didn’t love him that way. I used him when it was convenient for me.
Run girl!
wtf are jiya and brad even saying half the time
theyre literally trolling and i hate it and can respect it at the same time like id do the same, but it kinda sucks bc theyre faking it. (He says its a prank in his ig bio)
Im kinda upset about it, I wanted to watch people who were serious, if I wanted to see troll videos, I’d go watch troll videos.
@@ReidScottonYT oh o.k, I found it irritating- I'm glad the host kind-of stopped talking to them at the end.
Returning when the comments are spiced, seasoned and ready to cook.
Sameee!! 😂
You know it lmao, people go crazy in these comment sections
haha same
Gotta let em cook
@@Makoyoyocomment section be better than the video
I think the issue with Jayden and Reece is you have one girl who is emotionally involved and you have a dude who knows the girl he's messing with likes him, but he ignores it.
Just because you you make it clear you don't want a relationship, doesn't mean it's ok to continue on in relationships like this.
It's really up to her to show some agency and break it off because he's made his feelings very clear and she's fully consenting.
but why should he even date her if he's already getting everything he needs from her? unlimited sex and attention, and he doesnt even have to ask how her day is lmfao, the day she's tired of being a breathing fleshlight is the day things will end. until then, have fun jadyn
@@nwgverifiedI really hate this logic but unfortunately it’s very true. It’s the same thing w/ drug addicts + dealers : you know this is bad, you know you are providing someone with something that is harmful and detrimental to their health but THEY are grown adults, consenting to it (by handing you their money for it) but it doesn’t take away the fact that it’s fvcked up 😢😢😢😢
@sj5218 If the drug you're referring to is coffee, I would say the comparison is pretty accurate.
@@nwgverified 😂😂😂😂😂 hey whatever drug of choice
dude w the black t-shirt is STONED 😂
Very
i’ve been in reese’s shoes before and i will NEVERRRRRR do it again. it was emotional torture. reese, if you’re reading these comments, BABY GET OUT
Reese… please run. Being on a relationship where you accept less than what you deserve (and give) can have a long lasting effect on someone’s self esteem. You deserve someone who makes you feel awesome about yourself.
Unfortunately sometimes we just have to learn the hard way, and I think Reese is gonna learn the hard way too eventually
I was shocked when he said that Reese would be hurt. We were all thinking it but he said it😂
denial is not just a river in egypt honey
yall all know who i'm talking about
Lmao
8:12 they’re basically in a complete relationship, but he’s just scared of commitment and dragging the girl along
When Reese learns to value herself, she’ll stop settling for scraps.
I noticed that with FWB one person is being used and the other follows along in hopes of something more only to be let down and hurt
Yes, thats the norm.
This isnt exclusive to fwb the same thing happens when one person is doing things for other person like emotional support or other kinds of help which is not necessarily having sex trying to get a relationship with them but the other person doesnt want it but just wants to be friends.
how is someone being used? they set the standards these aren't traditional monogamous relationships
@@queenxnaiya7460Its like they act like Reese isn't an adult
Reese is a grown adult, who has literally been told that she can leave whenever she wants, as well as been told exactly what the situation is. Too many of you in the comments treat women like little kids
I'd like to see this experiment with older people who have more experience in life
They would just cherrypick the contestant/participants to get "unicorn"-coverage etc.
@@paulruano1903 I understand what you're saying...this is rigged for entertainment.
The entire channel should be focused on learning from older people. They/we messed up the world, but we/they do have more experience. Trying to learn from young people sends a bad message.
On top of that, Jubilee always seems to bring in toxic people.
@@eugenetswong Older people didn't mess up the world. Governments mess up the world. We had as much control over the world as younger generations have in their time. I only suggested older people to see what they would do in an experiment like that...especially since they have more life experiences.
@@SistaSourcelast I checked the average age of elected officials is 50+.
Reece you deserve better, not from him, from yourself. 🙏🏻
this. 🫂🫂🫂❤
Reese you hold the power to let go and find everything you want from a relationship in someone else.
He never once said Reese helped him grow….She needs to leave him alone and get someone who actually values her in more ways than one
AMEN
He did say that they are growing TOGETHER ( I am not protecting him) but just pointing out a fact 25:30
@@asmrbae8143 I must’ve missed that part. Thank you for pointing it out.
@@asmrbae8143 he was so heavy on the “I’m helping her grow” that I didn’t even hear that he mentioned growing together.
Reese is having her canon event 😬
Hope she watches this back and gets clarity
Hope she reads the comments
@@jacobfschaffer Agreed!
so true, it’s a canon event 😭
I'm pretty disappointed in the pair that came as a joke. These are "fun videos" but also for the audience to gain real perspective. Anyways, maybe that's just me🤷♀️
Plenty enough perspective to be had in Jaydn and Reese lol
reese, STAND UP.
LEGEND SAYS : She literally is Standing Still
😂😂
When Jayden was asked if this situation is bad for her and his answer was basically no because HE has told her his boundaries and HES been honest with her - but like, is that answering the question? He can do all those things and it can still be bad for her
Jadyn places the emotional responsibility of attachment on Reese alone, despite knowing of her feelings. Claiming to be a friend while using self-affirmation as a justification is disingenuous, and demonstrates a lack of respect for her wellbeing.
Reese girl Jayden is giving you signs to ruuuuuun. He doesn’t want you.
Not even signs. He told her straight up, yet she’s choosing to stay. She’s a grown adult anyway
she's desperate (for obvious reasons), let her suffer
@@Kobble8
Exactly. He’s clearly honest and blunt about what he feels
Yeah he’s being very clear with her and she’s choosing to stay. She’s putting her eggs in a basket that never existed 😂
he’s not even attracted to her lol
Omg why is the gay fwb shading reece so much omg 😭 they’re kinda real for that tho
I dont think it was shade. I actually appreciated gently calling her out...even if she knows her true feelings already.
They were trying to help her XD
@@ezequielmondada6427all 3 of them or the 2 next to her.
But she needs a wakeup call.
@@ezequielmondada6427 Yeah. Everyone there was trying to help her. She's in her Delulu era. I hope she gets out if this and learns.
@@o_m8717”delulu era” took me outttt 🤣
All I can think of is Cody is gonna love this one
I was looking for this comment lmaooo
@@arieljantra I think he’s gonna have fun w this one lol
So excited for lunch tomorrow
Yes I will re watch something just to hear Cody’s reaction to it makes it 10x better
Who’s Cody?
Reece, he isn't afraid of committing he jsut doesn't want to commit with YOU. Pls girl get yourself out that whatever-it-is.