The BIGGEST Mistake Keeping Men Single In 2023 | Dr Robert Glover
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- Опубліковано 17 лип 2024
- Dr. Robert Glover is a therapist, coach, speaker, and best-selling author. Dr Glover is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. Dr Glover is the author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, and the recently released, Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide transform their lives and get what they want in relationship, sex, and career.
In this episode today, Dr Glover and I discuss:
- How Robert's work has saved marriages and lives
- What nice guy syndrome is
- Why there are so many sexless people in the modern world
- Dating advice & much more
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
01:35 No More Mr Nice Guy
08:00 Advice For Women
14:00 Nice Guy Syndrome
23:20 Why People Get Friend-zoned
34:10 Why Women Like Bad-Boys
40:40 Why People Are Having Less Sex
49:30 The Paradox Of Choice
50:20 The Red Pill
1:00:10 The Pick-Up Community
1:08:10 Connect With Robert
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i've should've enter into no more mister nice guy mentality at age of 15, i'm nearly 30 now and i'm slowly getting there, being nice guy cost me a lot in this 15 years... but no more, i'll try...
9:14 "That's what nice guy syndrome is. It is codependency" Fascinating..
Robert is the real deal. He gave me (and many others) the tools to change my life in so many positive ways. Thank you!
This has to be single handlely one of the most informational and impactful videos I’ve ever come across on UA-cam ! This is amazing, both of you are doing amazing work , keep teaching and educating
Thank you Robert, you saved my life many times as well
Great interview, powerful thoughts. Thank you very much!
Great episode!
Good interview bro
The problem I have with dating after my divorce, is that I can’t find a women that’s actually worth my time. I’ll go to a bar to get some dinner and have a couple non-alcoholic beverages. I have no problems talking to women, or getting women to talk to me. But that’s when the issues start. As soon as the women open their mouths they spew a bunch of nonsensical propaganda and instantly uninterested. I have absolutely no issues controlling my base instincts and the first ten years of adulthood I had plenty of experiences so I’m in no way desperate. I’m too old to be after one thing, I more interested in having a meaningful relationship. I’m friends with the bartender and we talk about these things. After I talk to some of these women and after they blow it and I leave, he hears them talking about me and he’ll tell me what they say. They have no idea what they did that made me uninterested after what they thought was decent conversations. Even after I tell them that as soon as they telegraph that they’re on the progressive side of the political spectrum I lost interest, they think I’m fooling around or something. I’m not. I think the ideology is toxic and it makes women awful mates. Obviously, I know from experience.
2 priceless pcs of advice: 1. few wise ppl can be found in an north american night bar. 2. change country, millions do.
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Go overseas
Remember what Robert Glover says take Cant out of your vocabulary
Good stuff dude, keep tracking.
I love Dr. Glover's work on NMMNG, but once he starts talking about "hook-up" culture and women's sexual desires I think he's off base and often contradicts himself. 100% of the men don't want 10% of the women. It's actually reverse. Most women are sleeping with the same 10-20% of the men. Stats on dating sites show this. Also he talks about how nature wants women to sleep around, well that's the exact opposite of how their body works. Women can procreate at very specific time frames. Not to mention the issue with how having multiple partners effects female pair-bonding. I say just stick to what you know Dr. Glover. Your work on helping "nice guys" is phenomenal.
I have the same thoughts. After reading NMMNG I searched for more about him and I didn't like that much
Does RG offer a coaching program?
I've found a lot of breaking the nice guy spiral is dictating our own life, building those daily mission briefings and habits - seriously build our own abundance and structure every single day to fill in that deep void nice guys often have and allow others to fill for them. Structure the life - sounds hard, it's not compared to life itself, it's just a rift in how life is engaged. Hard is a frame of mind anyways, why is hard a bad thing? scary thing? It's not inherently any of these things, just energy.
Living the aimless nice guy lifestyle is similar to how the brain hallucinates when senses are cut off, how the mind starts to fill in the void. The same seems to apply to nice guys, when they dictate less of their own life... life dictates for them. Which one is shittier? A lot of times it's not how aggressive we fight off those violating personal boundaries, it's having built powerful structure and boundaries in the first place to stand their own. Our own mind filling our own abundance over time. If there's constant struggle defending our self then we're fighting our self. I'm with David Goggins advice on winning the war with the self first, absolutely true. Absolutely involves developing a daily structure, a journaled personal mission, a daily personal briefing - stick to it wake early and hit it early. Things start to fall into place with the deeply personal and powerfully aspired structure engaged daily over a lengthy period of time. Niceness has no place in a real structure, there's shit to do, personally dictated life is happening greater than nice and comfort.
Men, and I should say me want a partner in my women. That is what I noticed in my father that what attracted my mother to him is that in anything they worked well together even in the most mundane tasks.
Can someone put the timestamp for the intro in the start
I think that there are some men that do that but the standards have gone up for men that point that some are unrealistic. Most men now just try to get anything
yeah his understanding of modern dating culture doesn't seem to be correct. Dating apps show men will hookup with just about anything, and women are extremely selective.
I haven't heard such a good convo in a while. Thank you, mr Glover, for admitting that most guys at least go through a phrase, of wanting the top 10% of women, and then complaining about how they can't get any women, or about how all women are shallow, stupid, gold diggers etc. As an introverted woman i've noticed this tendency, although the same guys would constantly complain about women having high standards and not "settling" for them specifically. Society needs to get off online world and meet people in real life. Anyways, looking forward to reading some more of your stuff!
Its hard to not have an imposter sydrome with women when they very rarely if ever make an effort to talk to me, every girlfriend I have ever had came after hundreds of rejections of me going up and speaking to women, and Im not a bad looking guy.
Women want to be liked by the men they value. For women to value a man is not necessarily equal to liking him.
Rollo says every woman could...not every one will. So be aware. I agree would that
Drizzle Drizzle
20:00
Women are going to be disappointed in you no matter what it seems.
Help me fix my nice guy syndrome or I will take my own life I am no longer playing around I am done. I need personal one on instruction or I will def delete
RG. The only real deal. He comes from a healthy inside out approach. The Red pill community is angry and paranoid. I’m sad for those non 10% women who are a little overweight or less than classically beautiful. RG has a thread to get through this mess
Taking risks. *Sigh* Here we go again. Women don’t want me bro….
Smh. This is your competition fellas.
@@Alex-gb7sm Hey, it gets much worse than me. I’m not spewing propaganda nor am I trying to dissuade anyone from anything. Just going from my lived experience and things I’ve witnessed or lack-thereof.
WTF do you mean "redpill skills"?
You don't know what you're talking about, sorry mate.