I'm going through a separation but living together. I have read 3 great books and there blogs. I've joined a nice guy group. My life has changed so much " the way I look at my behaviours and learning two loving myself so differently also excepting love from others rather that hiding my shame. I'm still growing and the journey I'm on is going to be great even with all the pain of my wrongness iv now found . I look at my x partner with my new self and I find a world of openness and honesty /strength within. I'm learning to walk. This book and his work is such an insight.
I really appreciate the concepts summary after each episode. Great idea. Would like to hear more about men needing a tribe. Thank you for another satisfying episode.
I really think it’s different depending on age and the individual. I am 53 and over child bearing years. I want a man who is open and honest. I don’t expect him to change who he is and I don’t want to play games.
OMG this is really a big issue. Relationships should not be run on a "contract" (in an ideal world, right?) As long as we only "do things" in order to get (whatever) mainly love, or sex it is the wrong kind of love and the wrong kind of giving. Love should be unconditional. We should give for the joy of giving. Why so much hiding? This appears to me it is allbased running on fear. Trust is missing, It takes a lot of guts, to open yourself and show to be vulnerable, on both sides. Let's be ourselves, and stay honest. All the best to everyone here.
I think that ‘being nice’ is a turn off counts for both… loosing the sense of self and confidence is never attractive. Also women are so trained to be the ‘nice girl’, maybe even more than men and that really doesn’t help to be an authentic and have a mature relationship. Needing negative emotional tension is a program that might get ‘nice girls’ attracted or women who have a traumatic responsive behavior but not a secure woman. We need the feeling of excitement and adventure but please in a healthy way!
I'm going through a separation but living together. I have read 3 great books and there blogs. I've joined a nice guy group. My life has changed so much " the way I look at my behaviours and learning two loving myself so differently also excepting love from others rather that hiding my shame.
I'm still growing and the journey I'm on is going to be great even with all the pain of my wrongness iv now found . I look at my x partner with my new self and I find a world of openness and honesty /strength within.
I'm learning to walk. This book and his work is such an insight.
Great episode thank you. The first part is for men and women and then men owning their masculinity without shame is refreshing.
I really appreciate the concepts summary after each episode. Great idea. Would like to hear more about men needing a tribe. Thank you for another satisfying episode.
I really think it’s different depending on age and the individual. I am 53 and over child bearing years. I want a man who is open and honest. I don’t expect him to change who he is and I don’t want to play games.
OMG this is really a big issue. Relationships should not be run on a "contract" (in an ideal world, right?) As long as we only "do things" in order to get (whatever) mainly love, or sex it is the wrong kind of love and the wrong kind of giving. Love should be unconditional. We should give for the joy of giving. Why so much hiding? This appears to me it is allbased running on fear. Trust is missing, It takes a lot of guts, to open yourself and show to be vulnerable, on both sides. Let's be ourselves, and stay honest. All the best to everyone here.
I think that ‘being nice’ is a turn off counts for both… loosing the sense of self and confidence is never attractive. Also women are so trained to be the ‘nice girl’, maybe even more than men and that really doesn’t help to be an authentic and have a mature relationship. Needing negative emotional tension is a program that might get ‘nice girls’ attracted or women who have a traumatic responsive behavior but not a secure woman. We need the feeling of excitement and adventure but please in a healthy way!
Wow great podcast- agree yep yep yep and yes haa, I like nice though
Women like to be “ contained” . Not ordered, not dominated, but contained.
Teal Swan has said the same
34:16 this is called "betaization process" of the man
Nice men might be hiding something.
Great interview, poor metaphor if I may disagree respectfully, women sounded more like camper vans or suv's than a sports car.
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