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  • Опубліковано 5 бер 2020
  • Sunita Dwiwedi got menopause when she was only 32. Between 1-5% Indian women experience menopause before the age of 40 and yet, hardly anyone talks of premature menopause.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 152

  • @rebeccav.3734
    @rebeccav.3734 11 місяців тому +21

    I just turned 39 but had been having symptoms for a few years that have been getting worse. I started missing periods when I was 36 and haven't had any at all this year. My doctor last year attributed it to stress since I am going through a very stressful time in my life (had to pretty much start my entire life over at age 37) but I had gone through stressful times before and hadn't missed periods. Finally I went to a different doctor who ran a bunch of tests and they told me I already reached menopause. I'm healthy, in good shape and all my other labs were normal, and I started my periods at age 13. The symptoms are terrible and I have no one to talk to about it because nobody my age that I know is going through this!

    • @thungchibenilotha6818
      @thungchibenilotha6818 9 місяців тому +1

      May u have the strength to go through this

    • @terrykroy6534
      @terrykroy6534 Місяць тому

      Hello. Do you feel better? I'm 41yo and also in menopause :(

  • @lakshmibhavaja5613
    @lakshmibhavaja5613 2 роки тому +33

    To everyone watching this / experience menopause earlier than when it is supposed to happend , forst of all more strength and power to you ✨ I experienced premature ovarian failure/ menopause at the age of 20. I had no idea that it was this coz as a teenager I was celebrating not having periods until I received this diagnosis and its implications. The doctors ( endocrinologists /gyenacologists ) were not even curious to know the underlying cause of my condition and were simply busy in inducing periods by putting me on HRT ( some even said medically this is not a problem personally it is , the first doctor who told me that I wont be able to reproduce also delivered the news to me in 5 mins in an insensitive manner. Later one doctor ( gynaecologist ) got curious ordered a bunch of tests ( which included kidney , liver functioning tests , karyotyping, full blood profiles and tests for auto immune conditions ) - all of these tests are very IMPORTANT in case you are experiencing this. In one of the tests I unfortunately got diagnosed with a complete kidney failure. Luckily I was atleast diagnosed otherwise I was on the verge of dying. Then I got my transplant done 7 months back. It was and is still an emotional rollercoaster sometimes. Mostly happy and doing great now. But the nephrologist and the gynaec thought that there might be connection between these two problems , hence are expecting my periods to be natural again, so far there hasn't been any improvement. However my hopes are up, if not also I have been managing it since 7 years now so Ill continue to manage. I urge whoever is experiencing this to educate yourself about it and ask your doctor for more information and tests to find out why this is happening to you and do a full body check up once a year to have a check on overall body functioning. Menstrual Health is important beyond pregnancy. Us Indians do not have a habit of going through medical checkups, I SERIOUSLY URGE YOU TO GET FULL BODY CHECKUP ONCE A YEAR.

    • @chandeepkaur4808
      @chandeepkaur4808 2 роки тому +3

      hi Lakshmi
      You are very strong
      I have diagnosed with POF now and I’m just 28
      I can understand your pain
      this is highly traumatic

    • @marinellatresmonte3784
      @marinellatresmonte3784 Рік тому +1

      I am 23 and according to my doctor, I am in menopausal stage already. All my laboratory results came back positive except for high level of FSH and LH. 😭😭😭

    • @DipanwitaDas9
      @DipanwitaDas9 Рік тому

      Thank you so much for this valuable comment. Wish you good health and happiness 💓💓

    • @immia4892
      @immia4892 11 місяців тому

      I'm here now because, I'm experiencing this (POF) I'm only 33 years old.
      I am currently taking medication prescribed by my OB-Gyne for this case. I'm also having anxiety because of this.

    • @InfoLunix
      @InfoLunix 10 місяців тому +1

      Periods are so important and a sign of good health! Education system has failed so many women, it's sad.

  • @kristateufel124
    @kristateufel124 9 місяців тому +13

    100% thing happend to me , I’m 34. We are not alone and we’re strong 💪🏼

    • @sajalsharma249
      @sajalsharma249 5 місяців тому

      My mom got her overies taken off at 37 plzz could you tell will she able to live a normal life like other women plzz tell mam

    • @terrykroy6534
      @terrykroy6534 Місяць тому

      Do you feel good?

  • @melissamc12
    @melissamc12 Рік тому +16

    I have never felt so lost with being put in to surgical menopause at 31. I have no kids yet but thankfully managed to save some eggs and my uterus was saved too (major surgery). Such a scary, sad and both draining physically and mental battle. Thanks for making! There needs to be more awareness on this 💜 take care, with love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @shsh-lv3wh
      @shsh-lv3wh Рік тому

      How you save eggs? I want to do but I don’t know how

    • @iwillnotremembernthg
      @iwillnotremembernthg Рік тому

      Good luck my dear!!

    • @CanopusLux
      @CanopusLux Рік тому +1

      @@shsh-lv3wh you can go to a clinic or gynecologist. Then you have to take some medication to grow eggs. The eggs then get removed by sugery and freezed in tanks (laboratory). But it's not cheap unfortunately

    • @terrykroy6534
      @terrykroy6534 Місяць тому

      Do you feel better?

  • @gulafshanikramraja2134
    @gulafshanikramraja2134 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the advice sister. In sha Allah, you will get well soon

  • @navingupta4433
    @navingupta4433 4 роки тому +6

    Didi bhagwaan sb shi kr dega... God bless you always... Proud to see stand so bravely

  • @randomoverpopulatedworldid3286
    @randomoverpopulatedworldid3286 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so sorry for those who have had a harder time with this but I'm just wondering around some early symptoms I have....
    My work environment is stressful. I care for teens who could by my own children, (like the perfect age to be my children.) Can that cause premature menopause? Hair is falling out more than normal, turning grey, irregular periods, inability to regulate my body temp like all the time now, (I'm hot or cold but never just okay,) and I have zero sex drive. This has changed ever since COVID and my best friend (dog) died in 2020... and I was unable to work from home during that time. I care for youth ages 16-21yrs old. The exact age my own children would be had I had kids around age 20-25.
    I've never had weight gain but have weight loss which is not uncommon for me during stressful times. Been to psychiatrist; he basically said to take an antidepressant or screw off. Antidepressants cause mania in me. My regular doctor said they could only do a blood test to see if my iron levels are correct for the hair loss. My mother didn't have menopause until 55... she didn't even turn grey till 52. My father however was grey at age 40 and so was my father's sister.
    I've never wanted kids. Ever. But, I work with teens and was just wondering if their hormones can set off premature menopause in a nearly 40 yr old woman. And I've never had COVID or any other disease except HPV and it's treated by PAP every year. My gyno is male and he knows nothing.

  • @Cannabest
    @Cannabest 10 місяців тому +6

    I'm menopausal at 32. I have one kid and thankfully that's all I want but it's still such a bummer

    • @lovelocked5385
      @lovelocked5385 9 місяців тому +1

      You've been spared. I'm 50 and still monthly pms and periods 😢 . Sister is 51 and happily in menopause. So I have hope

    • @vikayyyye
      @vikayyyye 5 місяців тому +1

      Did u have any irregular bleeding? Like bleeding but not ur period?

  • @yule42
    @yule42 8 місяців тому +3

    I started getting hotflashes at 28, not I'm 35 and I went a year without a period, and now I bleed 3 weeks out of the month sometimes. My doctors are slow, but I am seeing one, they have yet to say I am menopausal, or check my estrogen levels, but I've had the feeling I was going through it when I couldn't get pregnant no matter how much we tried. I hope my doctors get their shit together I'd like to get on estrogen and not be as tired all the time.

  • @rhvlogs9463
    @rhvlogs9463 9 місяців тому +2

    Same thing. I'm 32 years old and not having my period for several months already.

  • @anubhaguptamadesia178
    @anubhaguptamadesia178 3 роки тому +1

    Hi I m facing the same need to connect ppl with same problem

  • @vikayyyye
    @vikayyyye 5 місяців тому +1

    I had my period got off it on feb 1st… feb 7th im bleeding again. Not spotting but actually bleeding i need pads again. Also having bad headaches every day. Has anyone here ever went thru this?…also not to mention i been feeling sad/depressed and keep randomly crying and idk why

  • @theaqua1517
    @theaqua1517 8 місяців тому +2

    It's a sad reality out there . 33 is too young to have menopause,the issue isn't limited to the older women ,it can happen to younger women as well,even to teenage girls .Some don't even get a period ever because of problems with health

  • @pihu5157
    @pihu5157 3 роки тому +18

    my age is 26 and i am also facing this problem . last year I diagnose.i have facing lot of Emotional breakdown. i am Just 26 year old College Student. i have never smoked, never takes alcohol, just my menstruation period is started in age of 9 to 10 year old i have no idea how to overcome.

    • @jennyfantonial9122
      @jennyfantonial9122 3 роки тому +3

      Hi do you have any social media account? I am experiencing the same thing as you .. connecting people with the same experience would be really great

    • @tamara3194
      @tamara3194 3 роки тому

      @@jennyfantonial9122 I need support too. going through this since 35

    • @neerajsisodia6212
      @neerajsisodia6212 3 роки тому +1

      I got c-section and have a baby of the age of 29 and I don't have period for 2 years then I went to a doc and she tested Fsh lh and some ultrasound and tested i hv premature menopause

    • @sarahkhan9920
      @sarahkhan9920 3 роки тому

      Hi. I also had my first menstrual period at the age of 9years 11months. Am I also gonna go thru early menopause?

    • @abhiramsharma6988
      @abhiramsharma6988 3 роки тому +1

      Hi.... I am 25 years old and I am also facing this problem and i face a lot of stress....... 😭

  • @beatricefrask5230
    @beatricefrask5230 5 місяців тому

    I do have an autoimmune disease, and was going through this at age 35 without knowing it.....

  • @HarshitaKalita-tp7ts
    @HarshitaKalita-tp7ts 10 місяців тому

    I got early menopause at 42 ...is it dangerous for me....plzz reply

  • @Yourmom43589
    @Yourmom43589 2 роки тому +2

    💔💔💔💔💔 please god no 😢😢😢

  • @sajjankumar7372
    @sajjankumar7372 4 роки тому +4

    Isliye Log Kehte Hai Ke 23-30 tak Mai Jitna Nikalna Hai Nikal Lena Chahiye Yarr!! I am Sorry For Your Condition BUT I Had Listen This...
    After 30 The Quality Of Ovary Decrease Because Of polluted Environment and Chemical Contaning Food , Way Of Living, Wine 🍷 All Drugs 💉 So Girls Not Think Drinking Wine Or Taking Drugs Make You Modern.....

  • @LiezelAbo
    @LiezelAbo 4 місяці тому

    I'm lonely so much because my age 35 start actually this time I'm 37 I'm not sure for premature minuposal but I'm a mother for one daughter but past a single I'm a regular ministration but this time nothing period I'm from Palawan Province Country of Philipines

  • @xheng7722
    @xheng7722 Рік тому +2

    I undergone surgical menopause at 28 yrs old😢

    • @-iq8sm
      @-iq8sm Рік тому

      Why? Did you use hrt or estrogen patch?

  • @chamolifamilyyy5731
    @chamolifamilyyy5731 2 роки тому +7

    I also got menopause at 32....hair loss is majer problem with me

    • @xinea5306
      @xinea5306 2 роки тому +5

      Try to change your diet plan.. Maximize Fish intake, fruits, dates, coffee, skimmed milk and nuts..and believe in yourself. Your brain power can help you to make it possible!

    • @healthyogawithdr.kavita5934
      @healthyogawithdr.kavita5934 2 роки тому

      Feeling very sorry to see your problem dear. But you don't worry. I have one solution for you people. To understand fully about menopause. Go through my channel (health and yoga with doctor Kavita). this part 1 video included,what is Menopause . types of Menopause . sign and symptoms of menopause. Very soon I will make it's second part. Second part will include ,treatment as well as management fully. In Menopause the management is the most most important part to understand not only for medical student as well as common people also. If you watch and understand my video then no any queries you will have any more. In part 3 of Menopausal videos. I will show you all the yoga aasan for reducing symptoms of menopause as well as some medicine for it. Which will be beneficial for our community..

    • @chamolifamilyyy5731
      @chamolifamilyyy5731 2 роки тому

      @@healthyogawithdr.kavita5934 thank you mam

    • @chamolifamilyyy5731
      @chamolifamilyyy5731 2 роки тому

      @@xinea5306 mam is there any vitamins which help me for hair regrowth

    • @ap3008
      @ap3008 Рік тому

      I am possibly going to early menopause soon too. I am 32 too. Thing is…I want children, but I also have infertility. My ovarian reserve is like one 45 year old woman.

  • @jenniferreynoso8231
    @jenniferreynoso8231 Рік тому +6

    Mine was surgically induced. I lost my first ovary and tube at 5 yrs old. I had a cyst and it errupted and ruined them. I lost the other at 38 because of the same reason. Im 46 now and im aging at such a fast pace. 😥 Talk to your doctor about HRT. I went almost 9 years without hormones. Thankfully, Im on a Estrodiol patch and progesterone because I still have a cervix and uterus. I sleep much better now and have no hot flashes.

    • @sheilaemadian
      @sheilaemadian Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing! I’m glad to hear the patch is helping balance things out and help you sleep better, and that is so amazing no hot flashes😮

    • @xxturkishgirl15xx
      @xxturkishgirl15xx 4 місяці тому

      But hrt causes cancer if taken too long. That’s what my endo and gym said

  • @samra3654
    @samra3654 4 роки тому +2

    It happened with my mother..and she was 26 then...she had a tumour in her uterus

    • @xxturkishgirl15xx
      @xxturkishgirl15xx 4 місяці тому

      How is she doing now? Does she have health issues?

  • @indianbee3280
    @indianbee3280 4 роки тому +12

    We are living under radiations of all kinds so they are causing harm at levels

  • @CLfamily1
    @CLfamily1 2 роки тому +2

    In this moment I have it 😥😥😥🤔

  • @sparxnsff3697
    @sparxnsff3697 8 місяців тому +1

    I got menopose just 39

  • @bexstamorecroft3306
    @bexstamorecroft3306 3 роки тому +5

    I'M 41 GOING THROUGH This RIGHT NOW, It's a bloody nightmare

    • @sarahkhan9094
      @sarahkhan9094 2 роки тому

      When was your first menstrual period?

    • @healthyogawithdr.kavita5934
      @healthyogawithdr.kavita5934 2 роки тому

      Feeling very sorry to see your problem dear. But you don't worry. I have one solution for you people. To understand fully about menopause. Go through my channel (health and yoga with doctor Kavita). this part 1 video included,what is Menopause . types of Menopause . sign and symptoms of menopause. Very soon I will make it's second part. Second part will include ,treatment as well as management fully. In Menopause the management is the most most important part to understand not only for medical student as well as common people also. If you watch and understand my video then no any queries you will have any more. In part 3 of Menopausal videos. I will show you all the yoga aasan for reducing symptoms of menopause as well as some medicine for it. Which will be beneficial for our community..

    • @daliaali7607
      @daliaali7607 Рік тому

      Me too my menstrual cycle stopped this month and am afraid

  • @XimenaRodriguez-ti7sq
    @XimenaRodriguez-ti7sq 2 роки тому +3

    Early menopause and not kids

  • @cataleyaschannel6819
    @cataleyaschannel6819 4 місяці тому

    I'm 30

  • @salvolondon
    @salvolondon 3 роки тому +7

    I think with something so serious as ovarian cancer one should be focused on being alive . Luckily there is HRT that helps women who have had their ovaries removed because of cancer early in life . It’s sad not being able to have kids but being alive should be the most important thing

    • @astf5943
      @astf5943 2 роки тому

      Ok. Alive with a shithole quality of life. Cool comment Salvo.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 2 роки тому

      @@astf5943 it's not shithole quality wtf

    • @astf5943
      @astf5943 2 роки тому +1

      @@SRBOMBONICA86 yes it is. And HRT doesn’t do shit

    • @astf5943
      @astf5943 2 роки тому +2

      @@SRBOMBONICA86 unless you have cancer and are in menopause, then please don’t talk to me about this. I’m living this.

  • @b.ssushma3851
    @b.ssushma3851 Місяць тому

    I have the menopause at the age of 30

  • @Seriestravel585
    @Seriestravel585 Рік тому

    I got pre mature ovarian failure at 18

    • @appyLippy
      @appyLippy Рік тому

      R u suffering from osteoporosis?

    • @appyLippy
      @appyLippy Рік тому

      Or r u on hrt ?

  • @monalishakumari2113
    @monalishakumari2113 2 роки тому +3

    I got it at 23 came to know yday only!!

  • @emi_heart20
    @emi_heart20 Рік тому +4

    Ive got menopause at 18 😂 hahaha not fun its very annoying

  • @preciousperson433
    @preciousperson433 2 роки тому +1

    :((

  • @Nisha-kl8rl
    @Nisha-kl8rl 3 місяці тому

    Menopause doesn't stand a chance against Planet Ayurveda's effective treatment options.

  • @nslavulj
    @nslavulj 4 роки тому +4

    Primature in 39..

    • @nslavulj
      @nslavulj 4 роки тому

      @@ashukumar3559 me to skere.. Now 43... I take b komplex.. Cink. C vitamin.. Megnesium.. E vitamin and D i start to take bioindentical hormons... In frst me ldh koresterol wose 4.7 now is 3... I don't have autoimmune dizis.. Nothing me doctor didn't give me dobroston fore regulation menstrual nothing I didint now nothing me mather go normal in 50...i go to layt private doctor.. Sorry fore me english

    • @sarahkhan9920
      @sarahkhan9920 3 роки тому

      When did you have your first menstrual period?

    • @nituthapa7721
      @nituthapa7721 Рік тому

      Same😥

  • @shantanusharma4901
    @shantanusharma4901 Рік тому +1

    Suit on a God, why women don't get EQUALITY WITH BENIFIT

  • @reviewer1379
    @reviewer1379 4 роки тому +4

    1-5% is not an alarming rate. There's no need to band wagon.

  • @gurindersingh8109
    @gurindersingh8109 4 роки тому +16

    She is lucky, now the Sabrimala statue would be delighted to meet her.

    • @gurindersingh8109
      @gurindersingh8109 4 роки тому +1

      @@ak2849 hate is wrong word, I mock hinduism not hate it. King Ashok rejected hinduism due to its inherent violence. He hated hinduism, I am a victim of Hindu hate too, but I pity Hindus but mock what's wrong in hinduism. If you meet me I shall respect you like I respect myself. Cheers

    • @gurindersingh8109
      @gurindersingh8109 4 роки тому +1

      @Kartik Puri I am a fake Sikh from Punjab India. Fake because I am living as slave of Hindu rashtar extremists and terrorists in India while Guru Nanak Sahib blessed Sikhs to live as the Khalsa (Free). I sincerely believe that a statue of anyone, or any real religious person, shall never discriminate against women whether she is menstruating or not, married or widow, childless or mother because a woman, like man, is complete person in herself since birth till death. Don't insult hinduism by having statues like in sabrimala where brahmins mock beautiful women who are your mother, daughter, girlfriend and colleague etc. Pandas are stupid,you don't become stubborn.

    • @gurindersingh8109
      @gurindersingh8109 4 роки тому +1

      @@ak2849 well you may be a hindu but some Hindus too can try speak truth also sometimes? King Ashok rejected hinduism due to its inherent violence. Mohan Gandhi called gita his mother but used Buddhist ahimsa in his politics because Gandhi knew in his heart that gita was a war time speech which instigates violence against own family friends and guru. Guru Nanak Sahib wasn't tallest spiritual person who brought Islam and hinduism together. Because Sikhism is a divine religion with its prophet and His message, unlike snatan mythologies and superstitions. Sikhism is unique in its message that's universal and unique without any similarities. Sikhism spoke for women in an era when women were treated as second class people. Sikhism gave 'right to wear arms' century before the founding fathers of USA thought so. Sikhism is the religion of the future. Guru Gobind Singh Sahib fought 14 wars but always in defense, most against Hindu kings and brahmins pandas. Sarkar E Khalsa of Maharaja Ranjit Singh fought 49 wars, kept the mighty British empire in Delhi Calcutta ruling over Hindus, Sikhs never took POWs or butchered the losing military. Sikhs defeated Duke of wellington in the battle of Aliwal. Sikhs defeated hindu rashtar extremists and terrorists outfits rss and snatan Sanstha members in June 1984 genocidal attack on Sikhs by killing both Durga (Indira) and Hanuman (gen Vaidya). Sikhism has no resemblance to violent hinduism and shall inspire everyone who love equality, fraternity and justice for all humanity.

  • @username3543
    @username3543 4 роки тому +9

    The earlier the better.

    • @nandini3025
      @nandini3025 4 роки тому

      But why?

    • @Itsmeggiemoo
      @Itsmeggiemoo 3 роки тому +8

      Not for all sadly
      It means some of us don’t get to have kids :(