Sometimes I feel empty even though I have so many blessings in my life, but the worst part is because of that I feel like I don't have the right to feel empty and sad and I just should feel good and happy. My heart is broken and is all my fault, I should know best.
Maria de los Angeles Añon it’s not your fault, and it has nothing to do with being ungrateful. I have a bipolar disorder and that’s how I use to feel when I was depressed. And it was awful, when people tried to make (and you fell like they force) you to feel better because “you have so much to be thankful for”...so you go on a loophole feeling worst because you can’t feel good, despite all you can be grateful for. But depression and every kind of mental disorder is not anything more than chemicals no working the right brain. And it’s not your fault when your body doesn’t work how it’s supposed to . You have to know that, and for that same reason, you have to look for help if you haven’t. Mental health issues shouldn’t be taboo. That’s the only way they’ll be approached the way they need to. All the best for you! Ps: Your name says maybe I could have written all this in Spanish, which is my native tongue, but I hope it was useful...I could go on on this subject, but I hope this brings some light...Never forget 1. it’s not your fault and 2. Look for help, I assure you it works when done right!
Germanita Campos Lagos it was my fault because I fell for a men that I knew was not a good man, I should know best and not get in the relationship, but this can’t knock me down, I will look for help. Gracias por tus palabras, realmente las aprecio.
I was born legally blind, and now at age 70, I'm also losing hearing. However, I have had a wonderful life. I have two kids and a granddaughter. I am divorced for almost 20 years now, but I like being my own boss. I have a nice condo and many nice things...BUT I still feel like I'm not good enough...I'm flawed physically and mentally. So I know exactly how you feel. You have many blessings, and you know it, but you can't stop thinking you aren't good enough. I think it's ok to feel that way...and in fact, I will bet that almost everyone feels that way. It may be built into us to feel like that so we keep trying harder to be better. Look at all these people like Kim Kardashian...you think they have EVERYTHING, but she's still always crying about something. You just want to slap her...I mean, she has it ALL...money, fame, a family (crazy family)...but she isn't happy all the time, and it makes her keep trying harder just like us. Our former First Lady, Jackie Kennedy Onasis had it all too...but at the peak of everything her husband was assassinated. It didn't stop her though, she went on and met Mr. Onasis and continued to be rich and famous....HOWEVER in the end she got Cancer, and no matter how much fame and money she had, she couldn't beat that. So I think we are all the same. You are good enough, even though you probably will never think so. :)
I have never considered suicide, but there have been times when I wished I was not here. Then the next day...or the next year, something great happened and I was glad I didn't just disappear. Life is just up and down for all of us.
Wow... Thats absolutely crazy and depressing. You are such beautiful and amazing people! Nobody should feel so worthless and sad and if you do right now, remember that you are unique and absolutely wonderful exactly the way you are! ♡
After getting through my suicide attempts a couple years back/ I found a purpose. It does get better, you’ll even come out the other end stronger. You may still fall from time to time but just brush it off and walk/ that’s life. You have something to offer the world/ go find that something and share it ✨
Thank you for sharing this story with us. We're so happy to hear that you found strength in your struggle and that your living your life's purpose now ❤️
For anyone reading this who's struggling, it will get better. Life's a roller-coaster: there will be many dips but a high will always be waiting. Enjoy life while you still have it, life is truly too short. Battle your demons. Conquer your fears. Love yourself and live life to the best of your abilities. Remember that you always have someone - even when you don't think so there's someone looking out for you. You're not alone. You'll never be alone ❤
Jaw Breaker saying it will get better its the biggest joke ive ever read. Ive been ignored and excluded from society and family since i was 5 for being a too sensitive guy now im 22 and im done, i think about suicide every minute and im not trying to get overwhelmed by it but i cant handle it no more
Diogo Oliveira why should you let them dominate you? Why let them pollute your train of thought? If they're not accepting of you they're not good enough for you. As long as you're being the best version of yourself there's nothing to be apologetic for. Being sensitive is normal - if your family can't see that then they're not good enough for you. Try to distract yourself, join some clubs, become part of a community, and before you know it you will find yourself immersed in the best group of people - the people that accept you for you. Don't give up, don't let your family win this battle. I'm rooting for you 👊
Diogo Oliveira I am so sorry for what you have been through. :( People who ignored and excluded you were mean. I can understand that being sensitive especially , a sensitive guy gets you a lot of judgement. People put you down in the worst ways possible. But please don't let them take away your humanity and sanity. They are mean people who are sad with themselves , so they take their frustration out on good , kind - hearted people like you . Why do you think nobody cares about you ? Jaw Breaker cares , I care..... every sensitive person in the world cares. It's just that you have not met the right set of friends yet. Trust me they exist. Please don't hurt yourself. You are important . You matter. The world cannot afford to lose a beautiful soul like you. Just imagine what good you can do with your life. Don't quit. Don't ever quit....Don't let these mean people take control over your life . Don't let these suicidal thoughts take control over your mind. Fight for yourself. Fight to live. You can do it ! I believe in you !! Trust me, when you will become successful , I will be the happiest person on Earth....😊 Best Wishes Buddy !! @Jaw Breaker You are awesome !!! :) Keep spreading love and positivity . More power to you !!💕
the whole of 2017 was probably my lowest point in life so far, i'm so glad i'm better now. i mean i'm not 100% over it, but my depression has gone down to pretty mild instead of tip toeing the line between moderate and severe, as well as my anxiety and other things. i can never thank the people helping me through it enough, even though most weren't even aware of it.
Shiba Doggo i struggle with depression okay. I know. But this helps a lotttttttttttt what else am i suppose to say? That death is the only answer? I'm giving solutions and I'm sure there's more like medication and psychological help. Don't be so close minded
i am past being emotional about suicide. i dont fit in this world and i dont want to. i dont want to live in this society but I have too many mental issues that hold me back from finding a new place to call home somewhere far far away. i never see a future for myself i dont want one. i think the best years of my life have gone by and im happy leaving that as my legacy. sadly i know that i dont want to change everyone in my life's reality. its unfair of me to do that to the people that have supported me to no end. so i suffer. i still want to not be here everyday but i know that i cant leave. is this living?
it wont always be like this. i know that you cant imagine a future, but it’s there. you have to keep believing things will get better one day because... things just must get better. this cant be all there is to life, so it must get better, right?
Autumn Johnson I wish I could say something inspirational, but I think of killing myself all the time. The only thing holding me back is my mom and dad.
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. Autumn Johnson, I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
bottling it up isn’t healthy, i hope you can soon find someone to open up to and talk to, i find that helps a lot. if you’d like to talk to me, i’m here too.
Everytime I get into my car I just want to drive somewhere else out of the way and just scream, it feels like it's building up and I'm about to explode
My husband passed away, have no children, became housebound, don't see people(except the doctor or when my sister takes me food shopping) or she goes for me, felt so alone ended up in the hospital & almost died but if I were to hurt myself it would hurt my family & I can't do that to them. Just keep busy with what ever & keep your mind busy with positive things!!!!
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. Carol Tassin, I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
I’m sorry for your lost, things will be better someday. I know how it feels to stay for the sake of family, just know that pain doesn’t end completely it’s like a domino you will just pass it to a long to rhem
When I decided to take a break to face myself, I was shunned for "having fun" while I'm "supposed to be resting/getting better" I'm supposed to stay home & sulk, yet I shouldn't stay inside to wallow in pain - they seem to imply. Another reason why I feel I want to disappear
Hi Everyone, I just wanted to share my little story with you all. So I'm a 23 yrs old boy who has lives his life uptil now as "the entertainer" or even "the boy who always cracks jokes and smile". I am actually the most jovial person you could ever meet, friendly but I do have my dark side as well live every person. However, no one in my surrounding know that I am struggling daily, all those laughs are actually fake. I am actually in a lot of pain inside myself. I have some problems which are permanent in nature, beyond my control and I can't say that to anyone. But I am dying inside. I just wanted to live a normal life like anyone else but I know that the worst is still to come. You may find me pessimistic but I gave everything of myself to fix it but I was faulty by nature. I find solace in crying as it later makes me feel better. I am aware that people have gone through way worse than me but I pray to god, no one has a fate like me. I am stong enough not to kill myself but I'm dying daily already. I promise to be strong until god puts me to sleep. May god bless you all
Imagine getting sent hundreds of secrets, and then paying people to come on, read four (with only two of them really about mental health) of them, and then have them talk about themselves for the rest of the two minutes. Yikes. If you were just going to bring on people to talk about their experiences why even include the secrets?
Stupid Bird It's to talk about the point of all this. One of the best features of empathy is that it doesn't have to be a 1-to-1 connection. Sometimes we connect at weird angles. Even if I don't fine someone who has shared an exact experience, it can be helpful to connect all the same.
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
søsad , it's sad yeah but probably only minuscule cuts , nothing major hence the fact they still alive , it's a cry for help and years of listening to emo music , she's not depressed enough to. Iget dressed and do her make up and hold down a life , to me it's all in the head , real suicidal people are dead already , people need to snap out of it if ur angry at the world change it
“I had everything I wanted and I still wasn’t happy” I feel this so deeply
A nobody Really but did you get what you actually what you needed?
Wants and Needs my friend...wants and needs...
Sometimes I feel empty even though I have so many blessings in my life, but the worst part is because of that I feel like I don't have the right to feel empty and sad and I just should feel good and happy. My heart is broken and is all my fault, I should know best.
Maria de los Angeles Añon it’s not your fault, and it has nothing to do with being ungrateful. I have a bipolar disorder and that’s how I use to feel when I was depressed. And it was awful, when people tried to make (and you fell like they force) you to feel better because “you have so much to be thankful for”...so you go on a loophole feeling worst because you can’t feel good, despite all you can be grateful for. But depression and every kind of mental disorder is not anything more than chemicals no working the right brain. And it’s not your fault when your body doesn’t work how it’s supposed to . You have to know that, and for that same reason, you have to look for help if you haven’t. Mental health issues shouldn’t be taboo. That’s the only way they’ll be approached the way they need to. All the best for you!
Ps: Your name says maybe I could have written all this in Spanish, which is my native tongue, but I hope it was useful...I could go on on this subject, but I hope this brings some light...Never forget 1. it’s not your fault and 2. Look for help, I assure you it works when done right!
Germanita Campos Lagos it was my fault because I fell for a men that I knew was not a good man, I should know best and not get in the relationship, but this can’t knock me down, I will look for help. Gracias por tus palabras, realmente las aprecio.
If you wanna someone to talk about it, I am here.
youtu.be/addme/4ULfUajCs1t5ZB_Wj--gWmqZGq8Sjg
I was born legally blind, and now at age 70, I'm also losing hearing. However, I have had a wonderful life. I have two kids and a granddaughter. I am divorced for almost 20 years now, but I like being my own boss. I have a nice condo and many nice things...BUT I still feel like I'm not good enough...I'm flawed physically and mentally. So I know exactly how you feel. You have many blessings, and you know it, but you can't stop thinking you aren't good enough. I think it's ok to feel that way...and in fact, I will bet that almost everyone feels that way. It may be built into us to feel like that so we keep trying harder to be better. Look at all these people like Kim Kardashian...you think they have EVERYTHING, but she's still always crying about something. You just want to slap her...I mean, she has it ALL...money, fame, a family (crazy family)...but she isn't happy all the time, and it makes her keep trying harder just like us. Our former First Lady, Jackie Kennedy Onasis had it all too...but at the peak of everything her husband was assassinated. It didn't stop her though, she went on and met Mr. Onasis and continued to be rich and famous....HOWEVER in the end she got Cancer, and no matter how much fame and money she had, she couldn't beat that. So I think we are all the same. You are good enough, even though you probably will never think so. :)
Everyone who worked on this video saved lives. Congratulations.
I have never considered suicide, but there have been times when I wished I was not here. Then the next day...or the next year, something great happened and I was glad I didn't just disappear. Life is just up and down for all of us.
Wow... Thats absolutely crazy and depressing. You are such beautiful and amazing people! Nobody should feel so worthless and sad and if you do right now, remember that you are unique and absolutely wonderful exactly the way you are! ♡
After getting through my suicide attempts a couple years back/ I found a purpose. It does get better, you’ll even come out the other end stronger. You may still fall from time to time but just brush it off and walk/ that’s life. You have something to offer the world/ go find that something and share it ✨
Thank you for sharing this story with us. We're so happy to hear that you found strength in your struggle and that your living your life's purpose now ❤️
SoulPancake wow, no problem! You guys are amazing btw 👌!!!
For anyone reading this who's struggling, it will get better. Life's a roller-coaster: there will be many dips but a high will always be waiting. Enjoy life while you still have it, life is truly too short. Battle your demons. Conquer your fears. Love yourself and live life to the best of your abilities. Remember that you always have someone - even when you don't think so there's someone looking out for you. You're not alone. You'll never be alone ❤
Jaw Breaker saying it will get better its the biggest joke ive ever read. Ive been ignored and excluded from society and family since i was 5 for being a too sensitive guy now im 22 and im done, i think about suicide every minute and im not trying to get overwhelmed by it but i cant handle it no more
Diogo Oliveira why should you let them dominate you? Why let them pollute your train of thought? If they're not accepting of you they're not good enough for you. As long as you're being the best version of yourself there's nothing to be apologetic for. Being sensitive is normal - if your family can't see that then they're not good enough for you. Try to distract yourself, join some clubs, become part of a community, and before you know it you will find yourself immersed in the best group of people - the people that accept you for you. Don't give up, don't let your family win this battle. I'm rooting for you 👊
Diogo Oliveira
I am so sorry for what you have been through. :( People who ignored and excluded you were mean. I can understand that being sensitive especially , a sensitive guy gets you a lot of judgement. People put you down in the worst ways possible. But please don't let them take away your humanity and sanity. They are mean people who are sad with themselves , so they take their frustration out on good , kind - hearted people like you .
Why do you think nobody cares about you ? Jaw Breaker cares , I care..... every sensitive person in the world cares. It's just that you have not met the right set of friends yet. Trust me they exist.
Please don't hurt yourself. You are important . You matter. The world cannot afford to lose a beautiful soul like you. Just imagine what good you can do with your life.
Don't quit. Don't ever quit....Don't let these mean people take control over your life . Don't let these suicidal thoughts take control over your mind. Fight for yourself. Fight to live. You can do it ! I believe in you !!
Trust me, when you will become successful , I will be the happiest person on Earth....😊
Best Wishes Buddy !!
@Jaw Breaker You are awesome !!! :) Keep spreading love and positivity . More power to you !!💕
the whole of 2017 was probably my lowest point in life so far, i'm so glad i'm better now. i mean i'm not 100% over it, but my depression has gone down to pretty mild instead of tip toeing the line between moderate and severe, as well as my anxiety and other things. i can never thank the people helping me through it enough, even though most weren't even aware of it.
Eat healthy, exercise, create good memories, keep yourself busy, stay away from toxic people, learn new things etc😙💖
oh wow the formula of happiness... Don't get me wrong but that's a real bullshit
Shiba Doggo i struggle with depression okay. I know. But this helps a lotttttttttttt what else am i suppose to say? That death is the only answer? I'm giving solutions and I'm sure there's more like medication and psychological help. Don't be so close minded
hannah ingle...you forgot sleep, it's super important for creating inner peace.
Yes. And meditation. You just have to look for what suits you best
its not that easy
i got goosebumps watching this, so beautiful
thank you for this video, its given me some hope
vi su expo en san diego, y senti mucha empatia ,gracias a todos los que revelan un poquito se su alma
i am past being emotional about suicide. i dont fit in this world and i dont want to. i dont want to live in this society but I have too many mental issues that hold me back from finding a new place to call home somewhere far far away. i never see a future for myself i dont want one. i think the best years of my life have gone by and im happy leaving that as my legacy. sadly i know that i dont want to change everyone in my life's reality. its unfair of me to do that to the people that have supported me to no end. so i suffer. i still want to not be here everyday but i know that i cant leave. is this living?
it wont always be like this. i know that you cant imagine a future, but it’s there. you have to keep believing things will get better one day because... things just must get better. this cant be all there is to life, so it must get better, right?
Autumn Johnson I wish I could say something inspirational, but I think of killing myself all the time. The only thing holding me back is my mom and dad.
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. Autumn Johnson, I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
Thank you all
Wrong. It doesn't always get better, and for some it never will
Im holding so many secrets, waiting for the right moments to burst out😔♥️
le Nirography send them in to postsecrets :) you’ll be surprised how much weight is lifted
bottling it up isn’t healthy, i hope you can soon find someone to open up to and talk to, i find that helps a lot. if you’d like to talk to me, i’m here too.
Stainglasswindows thanks a lot ♥️ I've few to talk♥️
Best yt channel ever
Thanks for the support!
Everytime I get into my car I just want to drive somewhere else out of the way and just scream, it feels like it's building up and I'm about to explode
A Poynta it gets better
I wish I had a car to scream in...
powerful! thank you.
❤️. 🙌🏻 Peace to all who suffer from Bipolar Disorder
Oh gosh😢 here comes the onions
My husband passed away, have no children, became housebound, don't see people(except the doctor or when my sister takes me food shopping) or she goes for me, felt so alone ended up in the hospital & almost died but if I were to hurt myself it would hurt my family & I can't do that to them. Just keep busy with what ever & keep your mind busy with positive things!!!!
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. Carol Tassin, I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
I’m sorry for your lost, things will be better someday. I know how it feels to stay for the sake of family, just know that pain doesn’t end completely it’s like a domino you will just pass it to a long to rhem
When I decided to take a break to face myself, I was shunned for "having fun" while I'm "supposed to be resting/getting better"
I'm supposed to stay home & sulk, yet I shouldn't stay inside to wallow in pain - they seem to imply. Another reason why I feel I want to disappear
Hi Everyone, I just wanted to share my little story with you all.
So I'm a 23 yrs old boy who has lives his life uptil now as "the entertainer" or even "the boy who always cracks jokes and smile". I am actually the most jovial person you could ever meet, friendly but I do have my dark side as well live every person.
However, no one in my surrounding know that I am struggling daily, all those laughs are actually fake. I am actually in a lot of pain inside myself.
I have some problems which are permanent in nature, beyond my control and I can't say that to anyone. But I am dying inside.
I just wanted to live a normal life like anyone else but I know that the worst is still to come.
You may find me pessimistic but I gave everything of myself to fix it but I was faulty by nature.
I find solace in crying as it later makes me feel better.
I am aware that people have gone through way worse than me but I pray to god, no one has a fate like me.
I am stong enough not to kill myself but I'm dying daily already.
I promise to be strong until god puts me to sleep.
May god bless you all
i've seen some of these secret cards in the all american rejects video, dirty little secret
have a nice day everyone :))
So many hurt me & all I ever did was forgive and try to help others. Why do things always happen the opposite of what you want...
Thanks
We are not alone💛 you and me, stay alive 💛
We could use more of this one
Profound
I am scared of opening letters and answering the phone. It sounds ridiculous, and I've never told anyone.
I was just diagnosed with bipolar1..😑
You will be found
Vs S even when the dark comes crashing through, when you need a friend to carry you, when you're broken on the ground you will be found ♥️
DEH!!💞💞💞💞
Thank you...
Salute to the Crusaders of 21st Century plague.....☝🏽
😀
#survivor
Didnt you steal this idea from jubilee
The One post secret offered them the same deal I think
The blonde looks like Alexis Texas.
Imagine getting sent hundreds of secrets, and then paying people to come on, read four (with only two of them really about mental health) of them, and then have them talk about themselves for the rest of the two minutes. Yikes. If you were just going to bring on people to talk about their experiences why even include the secrets?
Stupid Bird It's to talk about the point of all this. One of the best features of empathy is that it doesn't have to be a 1-to-1 connection. Sometimes we connect at weird angles. Even if I don't fine someone who has shared an exact experience, it can be helpful to connect all the same.
😭never cut ur self it hurts 🤮
This is my secret I try to kill myself about 7 year ago i was very depress so I understand
Hey there, just wanted to tell you that I wish for you to feel safe, well and happy.. I believe that we need tools in order to move forward, and I'd like to suggest and recommend you to go and try be in therapy session, I'm in therapy myself, helped me to better understand and except myself, and has really kept me safe until I got the tools to do that myself (just about to start DBT, before I was 3 years in existential psychotherapy; you can look those up if you want). Please consider it! for I don't want it to be an unending battle for you, we can get better ❤
Thank u
"My only friend is my razor " thats embarrassing
Whats razor?
søsad , it's sad yeah but probably only minuscule cuts , nothing major hence the fact they still alive , it's a cry for help and years of listening to emo music , she's not depressed enough to. Iget dressed and do her make up and hold down a life , to me it's all in the head , real suicidal people are dead already , people need to snap out of it if ur angry at the world change it
Being vulnerable and telling your truth is not embarrassing. It's empowering.
SoulPancake i strongly agree :)