You are never too long in, nor too old to leave and start over. Like Andrew, I left (after 45 years) and (64 years old) and I am breaking all of the ties. Andrew's videos are such a wealth of information.
Hi Andrew, i have gone through narcissistic abuse in my family, at work, friends and to top it all off i married a covert narcissist whom i am seperated from now. And from my experience in order to claim our life back is to cut both physical and emotional ties with these toxic people. There is no way around it. Of course i did it once i got the education through out the years. It was not easy but it had to be done. And now i am liberated and i am building a new life for myself. The life i feel i deserve. Have a wonderful afternoon. ❤❤😊
The KEY to healing from narcissist's is the knowledge of the CYCLE they use invariably. When I learned them ( Thank You ANDREW ) Love Bomb,Devalue You,Discard You then believe it or not....Hoover You. Trys to get back with You. I know that I can NEVER. accept them back so they can finish me off. VERY EVIL DEVILS. NO & NO.!!! Thank GOD for Truth, that sets you FREE.🌿🙏🌿
I've broken 95 percent of the ties, with one or two to finalize. Holy moly what a journey when we reflect. Super grateful for this community and to see how far many of have come. Have a beautiful day everyone. ❤❤❤. Baby steps.
@@OliviaHorton-d9tNewbie welcome to this wonderful community of bright shining lights! 🙂 You are one as well! Might I suggest binge watching the next 5 - 6 titles on NARCDAILY that your intuition leads you to watch. 😊
I have been married for 27 years and separated for the last 1 1/2. There were times I didn’t think I could go on- the pain was too great. But now I see him for what he is. I thank God for my faith and Andrew for helping me to see things on my own. You can’t tell other people who are suffering what to do. You can only slowly help them to see things themselves . Andrew does this so masterfully. He is gifted. We all need to share his message to others to see.
Yes, WE CAN tell people what to do. Andrew does in every video. And every single individual has the make a choice to ignore it or not act on the guidance given. I do not believe that if we can help prevent someone from staying "even one more minute" in the relationship by telling them to "do" something, we are doing them wrong. Blessings on your journey. ♥
Its a pretty tricky situation when it is a grown child/children in a difficult situation/situations, along with my grandchildren, who their parent is responsible for cause they are minors. If i just send my kids these videos am i trying to rescue and be the hero parent who was once smeared decades ago. That feels wrong so i keep accepting my powerlessness and try to be supportive.
I hope after a year and a half you are on you way out. Read my prior long post above yours. You have 2 years on me. Strength and love to you to move on and heal without the toxic person attached to you in your life.
Our Relationship with the Narcissist was a Lesson not a life Sentence... We lost Our Identity trying to hold on to someone who didn't care about losing us..Sometimes bad things happen to us to put us on the Path for the Best things to happen to us....
The emotional, physical, spiritual and possibly also the financial connection are like an umbilicial cord to the narcissist, nutured by constant devaluation and disrespect. How can we break these strong ties? -Acknowledge the unhealthy connection -Cut of contact with the Narc -Practice self-care -Surround yourself with good people, if possible -Get help, maybe a therapist, or community like we are here Maybe you find strength in a higher power -Forgive yourself It's not easy, but these are some ways to find your healing...and be patient. I love you all guys and I know you gonna make it! 😊❤ Thx Andrew!❤
Been No Contact for 4 years. Lately I've been receiving her negative energy because thoughts of her have been entering my mind. I feel sick at times knowing that she never loved me in the 11 years we lived together. Hopefully these thoughts will dissipate soon. She married new supply within 4 months of me leaving her. Thank God i never married her.
Is the spiritual battle. Remove all things, including pictures you may have of this person from your environment and bless your home with prayer and meditation. Blessings to you!♥
I tried a ceremony to symbolically cut the ties to the ex-narcissist. It didnt work. I still felt connected. So, I went back for more education on the subject so that I could process through the pain. One day, I noticed the emotional ties were gone. Point being, it takes the time that it takes.
Hey Andrew, just found your channel about 5 or 6 weeks ago. Thought you should know that: TODAY, Halloween, was my final hearing of my divorce in court, 25 years of marriage, 30 in total with dating. Long time. Hasn't been good for years. Born in it were 2 wonderful kids: one finishing his last year of college and one in last year and a half of high school. Lots of changes and tragedy lately. WE made it. I can't begin to tell you how much you have helped me get that silver colored "horse trough" tied around my waste securely with some suspenders and knots to make me GALVANIZED today for all this ...Yep. YOU. Your daily videos have done wonders for me. Thank YOU. I now get it. I understand this narcissist WORD now after all these years from your videos. He was so very charming and loving in the dating phase but hindsight there were red flags all over. I never knew much about narcissism in the past and yes they should teach this in school just like you say. The bringing up issues about what happened a "20years ago" was always something that was thrown in my face. YIKES. Irrelevent for a disagreement really. So off to this new book me with our kids are writing we will get through it. God has been always shining his face in presence even through all the storms. So blessed, so grateful. Thank you for what you have done for me to understand and to heal. YOU make a difference to people everywhere and everday with your videos.
Its not our kids,any more,,its your children now, only,they, your children need the bands of narcissists broken,,off them too. Remember its a spirit..pray for them,help them recognize the signs,in them, or others,,that way, that demonic spirit does not get a foothold in their life,IN their spirit, and future relationships.They will be able to recognize it a mile away...
- emotional ties attachment -financial, material stuckness -physical company , contact -spiritual energy flow capture Extrication from all these needs to happen
What is amazing Andrew is that if you're the scapegoat, empath, etc. even after no contact (2.5 years) we still attract them to us. It still takes a LONG time to figure out IF co-worker, neighbor, "friend" is another narc. I've been friendly but not open, we have to completely become not ourselves out with ppl so that we do not end up in another entanglement. My sister STILL sends her flying monkeys, I moved 6 months ago, did not tell ANYONE, last night her main monkey called on a new number not blocked, "where are you?" who does he think he is, it's amazing to experience what I used to tolerate and participate in.
I know the feeling. A flying monkey tracked me and knocked on my door, after finding out from the property management office ( I'm still ticked off about that). I've seen the obvious increase in Privacy invasion in all kinds of ways across the decades ( online personal history companies, Goog Maps that can see my backyard, info given at a purchase, then it's sold all over, etc.). Protect your Privacy, it'll be the last bastion of personal freedom.
Face all your emotions, good and bad. Don't immediately think that something is wrong with you. Clear those shadows. Fear of confrontation creates your shadow. Do not bypass emotions and you will become free from any spiritual influence. This is my experience. Emotions are just emotions 🤷♀️
Ive had a horrible time getting over the narc. The only way is to escape them. Block, move away, dont keep in contact with flying monkeys aka people, friends of the narc that want to be flys in your ear. Create a new life you owe it to yourself to have joy peace and happiness. Cry for months if u need to get it out. I did. I cried probably longer than i should have. I was very trauma bonded for 7 years. Take action to help yourself. Eventually youll start to heal. Dont sit in self pity too long count your blessings this person was removed from your life.
I refused several Hoovers. He went though several supplies and recycled. He tracked me down at church my healed rashes acted up. I told him: Go for a complete physical and will see! The word NO! Never applies to him. Run for the hill 🏃🏻♀🏃🏾♂🏃🏼or suffer Death by a thousand cuts. We can go forward with our lives. But, they will always in the pit, that is our revenge. Stay strong my family. Namaste 🙏
Broke all 4 ties. It takes time on each one. They were not broken in any specific order ( for me anyway). But each step is part of radical acceptance, loving yourself, boundaries, prayer, and trying to move forward as best as you can . Give yourself that grace, time, and self love, then one day you will reflect back to see you have grown so much, getting back to yourself, just a really happy feeling inside that you will look forward to your next chapter in life. It don't matter your age, just believe and have faith you are healed. Andrews teachings taught me alot, and keep me reminded of what's needed during and after.
Thanks for this message Andrew! I believe the spiritual connection is very important to address. Dreams are the most invasive for me. I have a prayer ritual when I go to sleep that seeks protection and healing. When the " other " ties have been long broken the narc energy will try to enter via dreams and nightmares. These people must be seen as the evil entities they are. No messing around. This is serious healing that is required. Love your self first and the goodness will follow. ❤ to you today Andrew. ❤
It is very hard to break... esp. when you have to deal with relatives incl. siblings and ex partner whom you share a child with. I know I am broken and is trying hard to mend. I endured a lifetime of abuse and trauma. I am now fighting to stand up... Many Thanks also to Andrew for helping me along the way!
Stand firm don't waver left or right the narrow road is the path, it's all the detours which consume us. Even if you are labelled yet again as dull, boring, not the same anymore do not worry because just as those people keep up their verbal or social let downs you will be strategising how to "not care " what anyone thinks! Just don't let anyone know you're onto them just get strong on the inside and ask God to give you the strength you need .
@@alisonj9533 I totally agree. I ignore them - trying to live like they are dead to me. I am now more trying to stop ruminating - get them out of my head. It is hard since It is not the best option to block them. They are always hoovering and since I'm the scapegoat, as usual, I am made to carry the guilt of their dysfunction and narcissistic disorders. I no longer explain nor defend, nor indulge in any argument or debate. Absolutely nothing from me! I'm Trying, learning how to love myself. The over 4 decades of trauma is evident and is proven to be most difficult challenge of my existence. Still I will continue trusting God and trying. They want to see me dead or in the worst demise. These people who say they love me are very sick twisted, sadistic and evil.
Thank you Andrew!! You’re so spot on they are like slithering snakes.. they may shed their skins, but there’s still the same snake!! They can’t change they won’t change..
All four ties are hard to break free from, but for me, the spiritual tie was the hardest. I could FEEL his dark energy creep into my environment like a spector or a demonic force attempting to materialize. I had to repel and resist with cleansing, prayer, and developing a stronger faith in God. Also, I have been working on focusing on positive things and attempting to avoid anything that is negative. I read my Bible and pray and meditate, and am trying to more consistently apply what I have been learning to my life. I hope this helps someone 😊
Bless you for sharing this, I have also felt that dark presence at times, as you say almost like something trying to materialize, but I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because I thought it sounded too weird. Thankfully it hasn't happened for several months now.
I knew what narcissism was but this person was still able to con me gradually over time. Partly because he had a convincing “cover” as a member of the clergy - he looked and sounded the part - fake empathy and interest in me coupled with charm and confidence. He invited me to share part of his house when we were friends…then started the heavy manipulations after I had moved in and he came onto me pretty strongly. Still believing him to a nice guy who really cared about me, the up and down journey of now just over a year has been devastating: He was not just abusive but used religion and the church to belittle, shame, isolate and exclude and insult me in various covert and overt ways…even the priests were flying monkeys who shamed, and insulted me further. I am thanfully on my way out to an entirely new location and even country but the effect on my mind (confusion, lack of concentration, confidence, sadness, despair even) are incredible. I feel like I am in the worst nightmare ever. Never have I witnessed such cruelty, coldness, hypocrisy, selfishness and greed (he took advantage financially as well). Bless you for this channel and community. I feel for all of us who undergone such undeserved pain and suffering.
I know how you feel. I exited a connection with a spiritual teacher . Long story. But it is sickening to be around a narc masking as a spiritual leader. And all the deflecting of demonic blame onto us. You will make it out of this fog and pain. It took me 26 years to do it!!!! Them and us!!✨🙏✨
I too was a victim of a supposed friend & her elder husband. Wow, it truly is a mind blower. So disgusting how they have an endless supply at the church! Glad you moved away. Take time to heal & educate yourself on the spiritual narcissist... their playground. Be well & God Bless you! 🎀😘
I just stop feeling anything ,somethimes i feel so stupid for let my life to be blinded by this toxic creature who didnt care for me ,i feel guilt,shame and fear for alow myself to not see clear red flags
I am 4 months into discard after 33 years of marriage and I wish I could get my emotions under control. He doesn't know what he wants but he won't let me go and it's destroying me.
Also discarded.....a year and a half ago....after 33 years married. My emotions sway from one minute to the next ......in the early days, the first few months, it was like being on a rollercoaster and huge disbelief, "how could someone you love do such a horrible thing and divide our children and family" it's so painful, not to mention the toll it takes on your health. They don't want us and it hurts, especially when we were good to them....but as time goes by and you keep coming back to the channel and reading the comments......you begin to see things differently. We are all walking the same path and doing our best to heal. It's going to take time, wisdom and understanding before we can fully let them go. It's a spiritual battle and we have to grow through the pain. Hang on in there and put yourself first priority. One day at a time. There is no quick fix - stay strong...and remember you are never alone. God bless....sending you love and prayers. 🙏💐💐💐
Why do you need his permission to go? Is a discard not clear enough? I would suggest you make a list of all the horrific stuff you've experienced with this person and read it each time you feel your emotions taking over. Journal, pray and meditate and be grateful you finally have a real chance to live vs exist. Emotions can be our worse enemy when it comes to the narc. Just look at the reality of the experience. Blessings to you!❤
I think they have venom running through their icy veins and blackened hearts. 🥶🥶 "It's been nice. Thanks for the memories!" is what the ex said to me the last time I saw her. She did contact me via text about a year and a half later asking me to go do some work on her house. I told her that I couldn't but if she wanted to talk about things we could do that and she blew up and told me to get lost! I said "Ok." 😅 Then two years ago she sent me a short note via snail mail accusing myself and my friend's sister in law of causing the dentist to break her teeth as he was removing her braces. 🤦♂️🤷♂️🤣🤣🤣 They're so cold and numb to reality that the lies they feed are what they become. Everything is someone else's fault no matter what.
I agree about the nightmares, for me they happened a long while after the discard (approx a year) and were pretty shocking and absurd situations, but they so accurately reflected the true behaviours of my ex. Thankfully they didn't happen for too long and after the first couple, when I woke and reminded myself that the nightmare was all over in real life, each time I felt immense relief knowing that I didn't have to live through those situations or feel that immense pain any more in real life. Great video again Andrew, thank you. Loved the sound of the rain too, so beautiful 🙏
That's a grim statement about the spiritual bond. Definitely have those awful dreams. Really, the "plot" of the dream can be benign but just having those awful family narcs make a cameo can make it awful
I’ve broken the ties, got a home and bills in my name, blocked and I don’t want any contact. Finally I’ve practiced a visual chord cutting. Now he wants to see me but I’m not interested I’ve let go and found my peace. It took almost 2 yrs. I am back at University which has helped me find my purpose and learning is healing.
Recently when i was about to wake up i saw her on top of me as spirit, trying to hug me but at the same time i felt that she was trying to cause harm. That was most likely a cleansing experience and a cut of the emotional tie that is driven by these good/evil fronts in order to violate the boundaries and extract.
This is exactly what i needed, thanks once again Andrew! I continue to introduce people to your channel. Even ones who arent dealing with the main subject, its just a peaceful, genuine channel, meaning you, bro!
So much insight into negative human behaviors..even in myself i recognize some things and in others..it took me 36 years to have a friend become an x narc friend i knew something was off.even my other friend used to say,that person does not like you..I was not paying attention.broke it off 2+ years ago,way before looking at these videos,but these videos have given me so,so much insight into my ? relationships.
@@MattyNelson-rs3ik 36 years of friendship is a tough loss, but looks like it was for the better, im old so im down to 3-4 friends that i know have my back.
We work together. Our job has us traveling all over the US. Even though I keep my distance, sometimes we have projects that WE HAVE to do together. Its damn difficult and stressful.
Thank you Andrew. This is such great content. I’ve been no contact nearing 8 months. I remember thinking to myself when I left the relationship, one day it’ll be 8 months since I’ve left and I’m finally here. One day it’ll be 8 years narc free. God bless you and thank you for sharing your message.
I am grateful for your videos. You are making a difference in people’s lives with your knowledge, guidance and support. Thank you for all that you do. You’re appreciated! Many blessings to you.
Andrew, I am glad that you deal with the spiritual aspect of narcissism. At it's simplest dark versus light, hatred versus love, and good versus evil. Some dismiss such notions as simplistic, with the phrase 'Hurt people hurt people' and pseudoscience.
As i Cut the emotional tie, (the financial tie didn’t exist) the physical tie…. I noticed my body’s filed with hot spots(inflammations) of solidification…. That were the spots I was forced to shut down(not speak, not move, not Handel/ mouth, feet and hand). The evil fury he planted in me by his lies etc. Got me caught and arrested through this spiritual tie!!!! A dream told me to stay alone for a while and open all frontiers he forced me in, to let all security go and to free me(trough this actions) from this spiritual tie!!! Just dreamed this tonight !!
I agree Andrew. Breaking all those ties is vital to heal properly. The emotional and financial and physical are first and the spiritual is last and I think the most difficult to break. Meditation, prayer self-care, exercise and fasting have helped me and it has been a real battle. Thank you Andrew. God bless you❤
Hi Andrew The spiritual connection was very intense and powerful. I think you could do an entire video on that. There were so many synchronicities and odd things happening the first year of our break up. This weird pull. It might have been part of a spiritual awakening. As a person of faith I believe he was from Satan. Wrapped up in this perfect little package of what my heart desired. It totally blew up! I’m grateful that I am on the other side and I was watching your channel thru my journey. Even check back on occasion. I’m actually grateful this happened to me. I needed to learn this. Thank you
FANTASTIC ❤💪🙏 Yes, so good. Really could be solid curriculum here. These 4 ties ⛓️ to break. Huge wisdom here everyone. It’s real all that was shared. There are tests to help us see if we’ve broken them and we can get strengthened as we apply the wisdom. Thank you Andrew! What a wonderful gift you’ve given the world today. 🙏 🌎 ❤️
This is so perfectly stated, so perfectly described, I’m going to save to come back to. Excellent As far as breaking the emotional tie, it will happen, it will get bad enough that you will be happy to get away
Great knowledge as always Andrew. I have 3 out of 4 ties broken, the spiritual one has been the hardest to disconnect from, I have accepted as it is a blood tie it will always last but lesser each day. Thank you once more 🙏
🎉 emotional,roller-coaster,financial,physical tie. false love.spiritual tie.i havnt had a dream about the narc for a very long time hopefully I never do.I know my value❤ back, then I didn't. . My energy outshines any narc I come across now. .I have boundaries I'm so happy to have . 🎉❤
💯 they do. They needed to goto guy. To have the hideout, to be safe, to run into city, to drink and blow off steam in safety. They all wiped their askes on me. Until the word NO. Then I turned into the devil.
Then the narcissistic guy next door was so jealous he would lay in wait for the ladies to step outside and proposition them. Then you have a drunk pissed off narcissist. The troubles weren't far behind. 😔
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for your service I've been and going thru it again 😂😂😂😂😂 it's funny how they are so attracted to me I'm just to myself and God with all honesty I wouldn't have made it without him Jesus Christ answered prayers from childhood about my family 😅
try doing a divorce agreement with a narcissit and get ready to feel like your dealing with a free agent top tier pitcher in baseball trying to drain your bank account
The spiritual tie will travel along with you until recognized & addressed! Its tentacles have entwined within the deep bonds of your soul. They must be severed in order to be completely free. A dark spirit riding along with every thought, breath & experience you live. You must know of its existence so that you may DENOUNCE & RIP IT FROM YOU! God Bless 🎀😘
I am still here. I just needed a break. Still no contact. I did go through a bit of emotional sadness. There is no future in the shadowed past. I have to find the right path. Making new friends has been hard. Been alone for so long, I just don't fit in. I play cards and bingo, no real connections. Perhaps it's just me not wanting connections. I don't know. Time only moves forward. I can't change the past, I can build a new tomorrow. I just don't know how.
I'm struggling with this as well. But I know I'm on the right path & so glad for what I now know & am not under that bondage! One step at a time & we will make it. Blessings 🎀😘
I can relate to the dark and vivid dreams.. have had them numerous times even when things were “good” or “better”… I’d wake up with so much anger for the narc .. I’ve never had these disturbing dreams about anything or anyone else ever in my life.. just him.. it must be another way that our bodies warn us about these evil monsters.. I found this video very helpful.. thank you.
Hi Andrew......very interesting concept of spiritual connection.I believe in this and I have felt it with the man I thought I loved.We spoke of feeling this special something between us.Little did it help in my case but a difficult one to break.Distance and silence helps me combat this tie and hopefully it does for all of you good people within our special community. A spiritual connection with the right person must be near to a perfect relationship.
These monsters their enablers and whatever else they use and strip you of are doing nothing less than following Satan the devil themselves. That is exactly what they all are doing Yes. Andrew i am a bright shining light. I know who i am. I love that rainy park or forest. I can feel it. Thanks ♥️
O yes, Andrew, having dreams, many such dreams that end up waking up with crying like a baby, but it's ALL dissipating, Deo Gratias, (pardon the Latin). Just about EVERYTHING you say resonates ❤.
I'm sorry, I'm not theirs. There is no longer any spiritual tide with anyone like that from my environment and from my family's past I can feel it. They no longer have any influence. Ours are stronger 💪 I'm freeee.... ✨ 🎉!
Great video . He’s gone , he knows his control is gone and I’m living a good life etc . But he still gets in my mind , but your bit on the spiritual side explained it to me very well . Thankyou 🎉
Morning Andrew from Durham,UK.I would just like to wish you and this wonderful community a wonderful and peaceful autumn day.Autumn for me is the most beautiful season and walking out through the autumn leaves connects me to nature and how to just ....be.......🍁🌾🍁🐿🕊❤
I made the final decision to "not trust to hope" regarding the rest i had kept a hope of those who chose to enable the abuse and help keep it going. I do sadly know that is the reality. And it will be done. ( i made that decision before this video.)
Andrew, I relocated so I no longer see my neighbor. I was suffering too much. And now he's hoovering me. I've courteously replied, I'm still in touch but thanks to your warnings and explanations I know what to do. I don't feel like meeting him now, or anyway I have no hopes for a future together. By now, I' ve almost healed and I am unwilling to fall in the trap of his nice ways again.
I cannot change another person and I çannot stop change within myself. I moved innocently into a dark place and after wondering blind and afraid for so, so long, I saw the Light. Then, the only choice I had was to continue in fear and darkness or to embrace the Light that set me free. Thank you, ANDREW, for helping me to cleanse my wounds with your clarity, insight, and strong loving spirit. You are a precious gift to the world. "May the long time sun shine upon you, All love surround you, And the pure light within you, Guide your way on." (quote written by Mike Heron - The Incredible String Band -1968 in 'A Very Cellular Song')
It’s crazy that these entities really will keep preying upon you until you learn to identify them. It’s absolutely a spiritual battle. Cool to see a channel that recognizes that.
I walked away from a new home, most of my savings, my dreams of retiring off the grid, and a dream that was never going to happen...growing old with him. I did not fight in court. I am so grateful now that it did not drag out. I can recover, brick by brick. He is not capable of much, which is why he needed my for so long. I am finally free, except spiritually. That is my last tie, maybe the most difficult. He haunts my thoughts as I reflect on how everything I thought was real was a lie. Thank you Andrew for these videos. Your direct nature and radical acceptance message is powerful and necessary in this journey. For years, I did not want to see the evil, so I closed my eyes to it and accepted him as a flawed human like the rest of us. Only now am I seeing that his flaws are pathological and would have lead me to an early grave.
Your words resonate. “ He haunts my thoughts as I reflect on how everything I thought was real was a lie.” The relationship isn’t over once it’s over. We can be haunted for years after getting out, trying to make sense of what we experienced. Dr Jeckyll/Mr Hyde, altruistic narcissist, whatever he was - I have spent years struggling with myself to accept that nothing was real (once we have the knowledge). “For years, I did not want to see the evil, so I closed my eyes to it and accepted him as a flawed human like the rest of us.” Yes, so did I. Any attempts to talk about things led to more abuse so I shut down. In the end I realised that he had to be severely mentally ill to behave, think that way, and I had to get out to save myself. I felt like I was physically and mentally dying. Stayed far too long! Peace and blessings for your ‘rebuild’. ❤
Am I the only person who has a pure, real, and huge heart despite everything life has thrown at them? When I think of how a narcissist operates, I feel this would be practically impossible for me. At the current point in my life, I feel my ego has been destroyed and I operate out of love instead because of being humbled and understanding that "you get what you give"
I work for two narcs...one is disabled and a covert narc. It took months to see this, listening to you helped. The other is overt and her husband. Nuff said. After a year I gave my notice today. Please pray for me. God bless you all.
guess what I got today, a text from the narc even after I blocked her; six months later. Can you believe it? I guess she needs something, like me to pay for everything like I was.
Thanks again Andrew , had some weak moments today as my narc was blocked but left a message , I deleted it unread but it played on my emotions then your video and the all the stuff you mentioned reminded me of why I did ..thanks
One of the worst nightmares I've had in my life was when sleeping with the Narc during the thick of the love bomb stage. It didn't make a lick of sense when I woke . Why so dark and horrible, when this is the most wonderful person in the world? Many years later, I see it now, the inner self calling out a warning.
I have broken all ties but am not at the indifference stage as of yet. It is one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through and am still healing from. Part of me is thankful for the experience however painful and horrific it was though. I am a new me and love that I can now see what I need to do to make my life better and not allow this craziness in it again. Having a lifetime of trauma to work through is super hard but you will thank yourself for being strong. Don’t let this turn you bitter or angry forever. Life can be beautiful just being alone and learning to love yourself. Good luck to you all and thank you for this video. ❤
The spiritual connection is the hardest. I understand that if intimacy was involved, it's even harder. This is when you delve deeper into prayer and journaling. I had to create a woman's prayer circle to pray with me. I'm much better now, but you have ti continuously keep your Prayer life active. Because the thoughts do return. My Bible has gotten so much usage after this. Praying for all who come into contact with these people. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
be sure if you're going to be in a relationship, do NOT have joint financial accounts. whats yours is theirs in their mind!! they are not only physical and verbal abusive, they also are financial abusers!
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You are never too long in, nor too old to leave and start over. Like Andrew, I left (after 45 years) and (64 years old) and I am breaking all of the ties. Andrew's videos are such a wealth of information.
Thank you for sharing..💯💜🙏
Hi Andrew, i have gone through narcissistic abuse in my family, at work, friends and to top it all off i married a covert narcissist whom i am seperated from now. And from my experience in order to claim our life back is to cut both physical and emotional ties with these toxic people. There is no way around it. Of course i did it once i got the education through out the years. It was not easy but it had to be done. And now i am liberated and i am building a new life for myself. The life i feel i deserve. Have a wonderful afternoon. ❤❤😊
Thank you for sharing 🙏😌🙌💯💪❤️
So great to hear!
@@jayneweaver8695 🌞 thank you. Hope you are doing well too. Have a great afternoon and evening 💞
The KEY to healing from narcissist's is the knowledge of the CYCLE they use invariably.
When I learned them ( Thank You ANDREW ) Love Bomb,Devalue You,Discard You then believe it or not....Hoover You. Trys to get back with You.
I know that I can NEVER. accept them back so they can finish me off. VERY EVIL DEVILS.
NO & NO.!!! Thank GOD for Truth, that sets you FREE.🌿🙏🌿
@@vickipacheco9787 Amen to that. 💯💪🙏
I've broken 95 percent of the ties, with one or two to finalize. Holy moly what a journey when we reflect.
Super grateful for this community and to see how far many of have come.
Have a beautiful day everyone. ❤❤❤. Baby steps.
Prayers and good wishes to you
Beautiful message 🙏🙌❤️💪
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It’s just beginning and I’m hurting and alone right now.😢
@@OliviaHorton-d9tNewbie welcome to this wonderful community of bright shining lights! 🙂
You are one as well!
Might I suggest binge watching the next 5 - 6 titles on NARCDAILY that your intuition leads you to watch. 😊
I have been married for 27 years and separated for the last 1 1/2. There were times I didn’t think I could go on- the pain was too great. But now I see him for what he is. I thank God for my faith and Andrew for helping me to see things on my own.
You can’t tell other people who are suffering what to do. You can only slowly help them to see things themselves . Andrew does this so masterfully. He is gifted.
We all need to share his message to others to see.
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Yes, WE CAN tell people what to do. Andrew does in every video. And every single individual has the make a choice to ignore it or not act on the guidance given. I do not believe that if we can help prevent someone from staying "even one more minute" in the relationship by telling them to "do" something, we are doing them wrong. Blessings on your journey. ♥
Its a pretty tricky situation when it is a grown child/children in a difficult situation/situations, along with my grandchildren, who their parent is responsible for cause they are minors. If i just send my kids these videos am i trying to rescue and be the hero parent who was once smeared decades ago. That feels wrong so i keep accepting my powerlessness and try to be supportive.
@@lauramytunes Agree,
I hope after a year and a half you are on you way out. Read my prior long post above yours. You have 2 years on me. Strength and love to you to move on and heal without the toxic person attached to you in your life.
Our Relationship with the Narcissist was a Lesson not a life Sentence... We lost Our Identity trying to hold on to someone who didn't care about losing us..Sometimes bad things happen to us to put us on the Path for the Best things to happen to us....
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Love this thank you so much ❤
@@happyhealthyblessed you're welcome...I hope it eased your pain even a little bit..
GOD BLESS YOU
The absolute truth & well said! 👍
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Thank you Anne Marie. You are so right xxx
The emotional, physical, spiritual and possibly also the financial connection are like an umbilicial cord to the narcissist, nutured by constant devaluation and disrespect.
How can we break these strong ties?
-Acknowledge the unhealthy connection
-Cut of contact with the Narc
-Practice self-care
-Surround yourself with good people, if possible
-Get help, maybe a therapist, or community like we are here
Maybe you find strength in a higher power
-Forgive yourself
It's not easy, but these are some ways to find your healing...and be patient.
I love you all guys and I know you gonna make it! 😊❤ Thx Andrew!❤
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You are an angel, Lio!❤
Block as much as possible
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Been No Contact for 4 years. Lately I've been receiving her negative energy because thoughts of her have been entering my mind. I feel sick at times knowing that she never loved me in the 11 years we lived together. Hopefully these thoughts will dissipate soon. She married new supply within 4 months of me leaving her. Thank God i never married her.
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Is the spiritual battle. Remove all things, including pictures you may have of this person from your environment and bless your home with prayer and meditation. Blessings to you!♥
If we take a risk of a Hoover, we can be smacked down like a mole.
fortunately my therapist understands abuse and narcissism; I literally talk to her 2 hours at a time every week these days.
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I tried a ceremony to symbolically cut the ties to the ex-narcissist. It didnt work. I still felt connected. So, I went back for more education on the subject so that I could process through the pain. One day, I noticed the emotional ties were gone. Point being, it takes the time that it takes.
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Agree. It is a process. Not an event. And time alone does nothing. Is what we do in THAT TIME that matters. Congratulations! ♥
@@lourdesecheverria6209 Thank you. I hope that you are doing well.
Hey Andrew, just found your channel about 5 or 6 weeks ago. Thought you should know that: TODAY, Halloween, was my final hearing of my divorce in court, 25 years of marriage, 30 in total with dating. Long time. Hasn't been good for years. Born in it were 2 wonderful kids: one finishing his last year of college and one in last year and a half of high school. Lots of changes and tragedy lately. WE made it. I can't begin to tell you how much you have helped me get that silver colored "horse trough" tied around my waste securely with some suspenders and knots to make me GALVANIZED today for all this ...Yep. YOU. Your daily videos have done wonders for me. Thank YOU. I now get it. I understand this narcissist WORD now after all these years from your videos. He was so very charming and loving in the dating phase but hindsight there were red flags all over. I never knew much about narcissism in the past and yes they should teach this in school just like you say. The bringing up issues about what happened a "20years ago" was always something that was thrown in my face. YIKES. Irrelevent for a disagreement really. So off to this new book me with our kids are writing we will get through it. God has been always shining his face in presence even through all the storms. So blessed, so grateful. Thank you for what you have done for me to understand and to heal. YOU make a difference to people everywhere and everday with your videos.
Its not our kids,any more,,its your children now, only,they, your children need the bands of narcissists broken,,off them too. Remember its a spirit..pray for them,help them recognize the signs,in them, or others,,that way, that demonic spirit does not get a foothold in their life,IN their spirit, and future relationships.They will be able to recognize it a mile away...
- emotional ties attachment
-financial, material stuckness
-physical company , contact
-spiritual energy flow capture
Extrication from all these needs to happen
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What is amazing Andrew is that if you're the scapegoat, empath, etc. even after no contact (2.5 years) we still attract them to us. It still takes a LONG time to figure out IF co-worker, neighbor, "friend" is another narc. I've been friendly but not open, we have to completely become not ourselves out with ppl so that we do not end up in another entanglement. My sister STILL sends her flying monkeys, I moved 6 months ago, did not tell ANYONE, last night her main monkey called on a new number not blocked, "where are you?" who does he think he is, it's amazing to experience what I used to tolerate and participate in.
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I know the feeling. A flying monkey tracked me and knocked on my door, after finding out from the property
management office ( I'm still ticked off about that). I've seen the obvious increase in Privacy invasion in all kinds of
ways across the decades ( online personal history companies, Goog Maps that can see my backyard, info given at a purchase, then it's sold all over, etc.). Protect your Privacy, it'll be the last bastion of personal freedom.
I broke 90 percent. will break the nex 10 percent very soon. Thank GOD. ❤🙏
Face all your emotions, good and bad. Don't immediately think that something is wrong with you. Clear those shadows. Fear of confrontation creates your shadow. Do not bypass emotions and you will become free from any spiritual influence.
This is my experience.
Emotions are just emotions 🤷♀️
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Good call, I think yer exactly right ✅️.
Ive had a horrible time getting over the narc. The only way is to escape them. Block, move away, dont keep in contact with flying monkeys aka people, friends of the narc that want to be flys in your ear. Create a new life you owe it to yourself to have joy peace and happiness. Cry for months if u need to get it out. I did. I cried probably longer than i should have. I was very trauma bonded for 7 years. Take action to help yourself. Eventually youll start to heal. Dont sit in self pity too long count your blessings this person was removed from your life.
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I refused several Hoovers. He went though several supplies and recycled. He tracked me down at church my healed rashes acted up. I told him: Go for a complete physical and will see! The word NO! Never applies to him. Run for the hill 🏃🏻♀🏃🏾♂🏃🏼or suffer Death by a thousand cuts. We can go forward with our lives. But, they will always in the pit, that is our revenge. Stay strong my family. Namaste 🙏
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Broke all 4 ties. It takes time on each one. They were not broken in any specific order ( for me anyway). But each step is part of radical acceptance, loving yourself, boundaries, prayer, and trying to move forward as best as you can . Give yourself that grace, time, and self love, then one day you will reflect back to see you have grown so much, getting back to yourself, just a really happy feeling inside that you will look forward to your next chapter in life. It don't matter your age, just believe and have faith you are healed. Andrews teachings taught me alot, and keep me reminded of what's needed during and after.
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Thank you for the message. No contact since May, moved out and healing. Was born into but I’m the generational chain breaker.
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Thanks for this message Andrew! I believe the spiritual connection is very important to address. Dreams are the most invasive for me. I have a prayer ritual when I go to sleep that seeks protection and healing. When the " other " ties have been long broken the narc energy will try to enter via dreams and nightmares. These people must be seen as the evil entities they are. No messing around. This is serious healing that is required.
Love your self first and the goodness will follow. ❤ to you today Andrew. ❤
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Share these messages with people you know you have toxic partners, toxic parents or toxic coworkers.
They will use you for supply- to confidently go after new supply. LET THEM GO! GREAT TALK Again☀️
Thank you 😌🙏💯
It is very hard to break... esp. when you have to deal with relatives incl. siblings and ex partner whom you share a child with. I know I am broken and is trying hard to mend. I endured a lifetime of abuse and trauma. I am now fighting to stand up... Many Thanks also to Andrew for helping me along the way!
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May God bless you, every step of the way on your healing path.🌻
Stand firm don't waver left or right the narrow road is the path, it's all the detours which consume us. Even if you are labelled yet again as dull, boring, not the same anymore do not worry because just as those people keep up their verbal or social let downs you will be strategising how to "not care " what anyone thinks! Just don't let anyone know you're onto them just get strong on the inside and ask God to give you the strength you need .
@@alisonj9533 I totally agree. I ignore them - trying to live like they are dead to me. I am now more trying to stop ruminating - get them out of my head. It is hard since It is not the best option to block them. They are always hoovering and since I'm the scapegoat, as usual, I am made to carry the guilt of their dysfunction and narcissistic disorders. I no longer explain nor defend, nor indulge in any argument or debate. Absolutely nothing from me! I'm Trying, learning how to love myself. The over 4 decades of trauma is evident and is proven to be most difficult challenge of my existence. Still I will continue trusting God and trying. They want to see me dead or in the worst demise. These people who say they love me are very sick twisted, sadistic and evil.
Same OP!
Stay strong 💪
Thank you Andrew!! You’re so spot on they are like slithering snakes.. they may shed their skins, but there’s still the same snake!! They can’t change they won’t change..
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All four ties are hard to break free from, but for me, the spiritual tie was the hardest. I could FEEL his dark energy creep into my environment like a spector or a demonic force attempting to materialize. I had to repel and resist with cleansing, prayer, and developing a stronger faith in God. Also, I have been working on focusing on positive things and attempting to avoid anything that is negative. I read my Bible and pray and meditate, and am trying to more consistently apply what I have been learning to my life. I hope this helps someone 😊
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you are welcome, Andrew. I pray that it helps you and others as well 🙏 ❤️ 😊
Bless you for sharing this, I have also felt that dark presence at times, as you say almost like something trying to materialize, but I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because I thought it sounded too weird. Thankfully it hasn't happened for several months now.
I have also felt it on several occasions and literally RAN from it one time.
I needed to get into a space with a light on. 😌
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I knew what narcissism was but this person was still able to con me gradually over time. Partly because he had a convincing “cover” as a member of the clergy - he looked and sounded the part - fake empathy and interest in me coupled with charm and confidence. He invited me to share part of his house when we were friends…then started the heavy manipulations after I had moved in and he came onto me pretty strongly. Still believing him to a nice guy who really cared about me, the up and down journey of now just over a year has been devastating: He was not just abusive but used religion and the church to belittle, shame, isolate and exclude and insult me in various covert and overt ways…even the priests were flying monkeys who shamed, and insulted me further. I am thanfully on my way out to an entirely new location and even country but the effect on my mind (confusion, lack of concentration, confidence, sadness, despair even) are incredible. I feel like I am in the worst nightmare ever. Never have I witnessed such cruelty, coldness, hypocrisy, selfishness and greed (he took advantage financially as well). Bless you for this channel and community. I feel for all of us who undergone such undeserved pain and suffering.
I know how you feel. I exited a connection with a spiritual teacher . Long story. But it is sickening to be around a narc masking as a spiritual leader. And all the deflecting of demonic blame onto us.
You will make it out of this fog and pain.
It took me 26 years to do it!!!!
Them and us!!✨🙏✨
Thank you for sharing this 😌🙏💯🙌
I too was a victim of a supposed friend & her elder husband. Wow, it truly is a mind blower. So disgusting how they have an endless supply at the church!
Glad you moved away. Take time to heal & educate yourself on the spiritual narcissist... their playground.
Be well & God Bless you!
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All true! ❤️🤘✝️ It’s hard to explain all of this to other people, unless they are living it or are now recovering from it too
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I agree. God blessed me with a good friend that was going through it at the same time. It was monumental in my healing. Agree no one gets it.
Thank you for your wisdom. It saved my life and it is saving the lives of so many others.
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Absolutely!
The divorce is horrable,to stay calm and don't give supply is something that take for that day my power. I need sleep,it's a fight. Every single day.
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I just stop feeling anything ,somethimes i feel so stupid for let my life to be blinded by this toxic creature who didnt care for me ,i feel guilt,shame and fear for alow myself to not see clear red flags
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You learned valuable lessons.
I am feeling tremendous shame and guilt as well. Looking back, there were so many red flags
I’ve broken them all. No contact saved me
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I am 4 months into discard after 33 years of marriage and I wish I could get my emotions under control. He doesn't know what he wants but he won't let me go and it's destroying me.
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Also discarded.....a year and a half ago....after 33 years married. My emotions sway from one minute to the next ......in the early days, the first few months, it was like being on a rollercoaster and huge disbelief, "how could someone you love do such a horrible thing and divide our children and family" it's so painful, not to mention the toll it takes on your health. They don't want us and it hurts, especially when we were good to them....but as time goes by and you keep coming back to the channel and reading the comments......you begin to see things differently. We are all walking the same path and doing our best to heal. It's going to take time, wisdom and understanding before we can fully let them go. It's a spiritual battle and we have to grow through the pain. Hang on in there and put yourself first priority. One day at a time. There is no quick fix - stay strong...and remember you are never alone. God bless....sending you love and prayers. 🙏💐💐💐
Why do you need his permission to go? Is a discard not clear enough? I would suggest you make a list of all the horrific stuff you've experienced with this person and read it each time you feel your emotions taking over. Journal, pray and meditate and be grateful you finally have a real chance to live vs exist. Emotions can be our worse enemy when it comes to the narc. Just look at the reality of the experience. Blessings to you!❤
I suggest you focus on what you want.. sending healing energy your way 💜
Tried to get him to express some regret or sense of loss. because we just broke up. He said thanks for everything.
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They are the best predators on earth. He was honest , you were only a pocketbook. Yep! me too. Beggars and takers Just a 6 year old child puke
I think they have venom running through their icy veins and blackened hearts. 🥶🥶 "It's been nice. Thanks for the memories!" is what the ex said to me the last time I saw her. She did contact me via text about a year and a half later asking me to go do some work on her house. I told her that I couldn't but if she wanted to talk about things we could do that and she blew up and told me to get lost! I said "Ok." 😅 Then two years ago she sent me a short note via snail mail accusing myself and my friend's sister in law of causing the dentist to break her teeth as he was removing her braces. 🤦♂️🤷♂️🤣🤣🤣
They're so cold and numb to reality that the lies they feed are what they become. Everything is someone else's fault no matter what.
I agree about the nightmares, for me they happened a long while after the discard (approx a year) and were pretty shocking and absurd situations, but they so accurately reflected the true behaviours of my ex. Thankfully they didn't happen for too long and after the first couple, when I woke and reminded myself that the nightmare was all over in real life, each time I felt immense relief knowing that I didn't have to live through those situations or feel that immense pain any more in real life.
Great video again Andrew, thank you. Loved the sound of the rain too, so beautiful 🙏
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I dreamt about the covert narc but he was in sad, victim mode and in the dream I ignored him and he disappeared. I took that as a positive sign.
Yep 😔
That's a grim statement about the spiritual bond. Definitely have those awful dreams. Really, the "plot" of the dream can be benign but just having those awful family narcs make a cameo can make it awful
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I’ve broken the ties, got a home and bills in my name, blocked and I don’t want any contact. Finally I’ve practiced a visual chord cutting. Now he wants to see me but I’m not interested I’ve let go and found my peace. It took almost 2 yrs. I am back at University which has helped me find my purpose and learning is healing.
Good for you....stay on YOUR path.
Blessings for a brighter future! 👍
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@@marieeakin8534 Thank you 🌺
Recently when i was about to wake up i saw her on top of me as spirit, trying to hug me but at the same time i felt that she was trying to cause harm. That was most likely a cleansing experience and a cut of the emotional tie that is driven by these good/evil fronts in order to violate the boundaries and extract.
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This is exactly what i needed, thanks once again Andrew!
I continue to introduce people to your channel.
Even ones who arent dealing with the main subject, its just a peaceful, genuine channel, meaning you, bro!
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Forever grate•ful and your courage inspires many hungry souls!
So much insight into negative human behaviors..even in myself i recognize some things and in others..it took me 36 years to have a friend become an x narc friend i knew something was off.even my other friend used to say,that person does not like you..I was not paying attention.broke it off 2+ years ago,way before looking at these videos,but these videos have given me so,so much insight into my ? relationships.
@@MattyNelson-rs3ik 36 years of friendship is a tough loss, but looks like it was for the better, im old so im down to 3-4 friends that i know have my back.
We work together. Our job has us traveling all over the US. Even though I keep my distance, sometimes we have projects that WE HAVE to do together. Its damn difficult and stressful.
Thank you Andrew. This is such great content. I’ve been no contact nearing 8 months. I remember thinking to myself when I left the relationship, one day it’ll be 8 months since I’ve left and I’m finally here. One day it’ll be 8 years narc free.
God bless you and thank you for sharing your message.
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I am grateful for your videos. You are making a difference in people’s lives with your knowledge, guidance and support. Thank you for all that you do. You’re appreciated! Many blessings to you.
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Andrew, I am glad that you deal with the spiritual aspect of narcissism. At it's simplest dark versus light, hatred versus love, and good versus evil.
Some dismiss such notions as simplistic, with the phrase 'Hurt people hurt people' and pseudoscience.
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As i Cut the emotional tie, (the financial tie didn’t exist) the physical tie…. I noticed my body’s filed with hot spots(inflammations) of solidification…. That were the spots I was forced to shut down(not speak, not move, not Handel/ mouth, feet and hand). The evil fury he planted in me by his lies etc. Got me caught and arrested through this spiritual tie!!!!
A dream told me to stay alone for a while and open all frontiers he forced me in, to let all security go and to free me(trough this actions) from this spiritual tie!!!
Just dreamed this tonight !!
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So true such a blessing to get rid of the soul sucker . Now with new supply on number 3 .😮 thanks Andrew Peace be with you and us.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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I agree Andrew. Breaking all those ties is vital to heal properly. The emotional and financial and physical are first and the spiritual is last and I think the most difficult to break. Meditation, prayer self-care, exercise and fasting have helped me and it has been a real battle. Thank you Andrew. God bless you❤
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You maintaining these ties is giving them the supply they need. Cut these ties and they lose all power and control over you.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Its funny because you are the one who formed all these ties. They never even formed any of these ties with you.
I remember when he left how free and scared. I felt they take over your mind, body and soul and no one understands that.
Fix yourself...commonly said. I have flaws but I have decided I love myself just the way I am
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Thank you! I am trying to break all ties. I thought it was just me until I started listening to you. Thank you so much!
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Hi Andrew
The spiritual connection was very intense and powerful. I think you could do an entire video on that. There were so many synchronicities and odd things happening the first year of our break up. This weird pull. It might have been part of a spiritual awakening. As a person of faith I believe he was from Satan. Wrapped up in this perfect little package of what my heart desired. It totally blew up! I’m grateful that I am on the other side and I was watching your channel thru my journey. Even check back on occasion. I’m actually grateful this happened to me. I needed to learn this. Thank you
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Yes, so good. Really could be solid curriculum here. These 4 ties ⛓️ to break. Huge wisdom here everyone. It’s real all that was shared. There are tests to help us see if we’ve broken them and we can get strengthened as we apply the wisdom.
Thank you Andrew! What a wonderful gift you’ve given the world today. 🙏 🌎 ❤️
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I appreciate your experience and advice.❤
This is so perfectly stated, so perfectly described, I’m going to save to come back to. Excellent
As far as breaking the emotional tie, it will happen, it will get bad enough that you will be happy to get away
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As a follow up, I did not need therapy, God walked me through the darkness.......
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Great knowledge as always Andrew. I have 3 out of 4 ties broken, the spiritual one has been the hardest to disconnect from, I have accepted as it is a blood tie it will always last but lesser each day. Thank you once more 🙏
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❤ merci! Thank you!
Resonates, damn Andrew this was a deep one. Bravo..and thank you for the detailed and accurate analysis.
🎉 emotional,roller-coaster,financial,physical tie. false love.spiritual tie.i havnt had a dream about the narc for a very long time hopefully I never do.I know my value❤ back, then I didn't. . My energy outshines any narc I come across now. .I have boundaries I'm so happy to have . 🎉❤
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💯 they do. They needed to goto guy. To have the hideout, to be safe, to run into city, to drink and blow off steam in safety. They all wiped their askes on me. Until the word NO. Then I turned into the devil.
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Then the narcissistic guy next door was so jealous he would lay in wait for the ladies to step outside and proposition them. Then you have a drunk pissed off narcissist. The troubles weren't far behind. 😔
I broke all 4 ties about a month ago and I feel victorious!!
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Thank you so much. You have a brother over here... greetings from Germany ❤
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Working on the financial separation thank you Brother!!!!
Blessed you are!!!!
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for your service I've been and going thru it again 😂😂😂😂😂 it's funny how they are so attracted to me I'm just to myself and God with all honesty I wouldn't have made it without him Jesus Christ answered prayers from childhood about my family 😅
try doing a divorce agreement with a narcissit and get ready to feel like your dealing with a free agent top tier pitcher in baseball trying to drain your bank account
Great video Andrew!
Wishing everyone clarity and peace..
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The spiritual tie will travel along with you until recognized & addressed!
Its tentacles have entwined within the deep bonds of your soul. They must be severed in order to be completely free. A dark spirit riding along with every thought, breath & experience you live. You must know of its existence
so that you may DENOUNCE & RIP IT FROM YOU! God Bless 🎀😘
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Agree with every word! ❤
I am still here.
I just needed a break.
Still no contact. I did go through a bit of emotional sadness.
There is no future in the shadowed past. I have to find the right path.
Making new friends has been hard. Been alone for so long, I just don't fit in.
I play cards and bingo, no real connections.
Perhaps it's just me not wanting connections.
I don't know.
Time only moves forward.
I can't change the past, I can build a new tomorrow.
I just don't know how.
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I'm struggling with this as well.
But I know I'm on the right path & so glad for what I now know & am not under that bondage!
One step at a time & we will make it.
Blessings 🎀😘
THANKS! For your IMPORTENT VISDOM and ALL the LOVE You share! God Bless You!!!!
Heelsegh,GoabdesBïárnu,Sápmi.
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I can relate to the dark and vivid dreams.. have had them numerous times even when things were “good” or “better”… I’d wake up with so much anger for the narc .. I’ve never had these disturbing dreams about anything or anyone else ever in my life.. just him.. it must be another way that our bodies warn us about these evil monsters.. I found this video very helpful.. thank you.
Have broken all ties . All four. Has taken One year and a half. Well worth the struggling to get there 😎🌈🙏🏼🗡❤️Thanks Andrew ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💕
Congratulations 🎉big and happy for you
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Hi Andrew......very interesting concept of spiritual connection.I believe in this and I have felt it with the man I thought I loved.We spoke of feeling this special something between us.Little did it help in my case but a difficult one to break.Distance and silence helps me combat this tie and hopefully it does for all of you good people within our special community. A spiritual connection with the right person must be near to a perfect relationship.
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These monsters their enablers and whatever else they use and strip you of are doing nothing less than following Satan the devil themselves. That is exactly what they all are doing
Yes. Andrew i am a bright shining light. I know who i am.
I love that rainy park or forest. I can feel it. Thanks ♥️
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O yes, Andrew, having dreams, many such dreams that end up waking up with crying like a baby, but it's ALL dissipating, Deo Gratias, (pardon the Latin). Just about EVERYTHING you say resonates ❤.
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day 2 of trauma bond break. I had a fked up dream, nightmare, woke up in the middle. First time ever i have been in this situation, it just sucks
I'm sorry, I'm not theirs. There is no longer any spiritual tide with anyone like that from my environment and from my family's past
I can feel it.
They no longer have any influence.
Ours are stronger 💪
I'm freeee.... ✨ 🎉!
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Amen!
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Great video . He’s gone , he knows his control is gone and I’m living a good life etc . But he still gets in my mind , but your bit on the spiritual side explained it to me very well . Thankyou 🎉
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The cleaner you get the harder the triggers hit when they pop back in
Morning Andrew from Durham,UK.I would just like to wish you and this wonderful community a wonderful and peaceful autumn day.Autumn for me is the most beautiful season and walking out through the autumn leaves connects me to nature and how to just ....be.......🍁🌾🍁🐿🕊❤
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GOOD JOB ANDREW 🎉 thumbs UP
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I made the final decision to "not trust to hope" regarding the rest i had kept a hope of those who chose to enable the abuse and help keep it going. I do sadly know that is the reality. And it will be done. ( i made that decision before this video.)
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💯 The spiritual tie is, for me, the most difficult one and takes the longest to break..
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Thank you Andrew🎉tides
🚨Emotional Tie⛔️
🚨Financial Tie⛔️
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Wow seeing this reminds us.
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So glad no financial connection or living situation..hoping to not see him again.
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That was intense. Watch this one multiple times.Happy Halloween 🎃❤
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Andrew, I relocated so I no longer see my neighbor. I was suffering too much. And now he's hoovering me. I've courteously replied, I'm still in touch but thanks to your warnings and explanations I know what to do. I don't feel like meeting him now, or anyway I have no hopes for a future together. By now, I' ve almost healed and I am unwilling to fall in the trap of his nice ways again.
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I cannot change another person and I çannot stop change within myself. I moved innocently into a dark place and after wondering blind and afraid for so, so long, I saw the Light. Then, the only choice I had was to continue in fear and darkness or to embrace the Light that set me free. Thank you, ANDREW, for helping me to cleanse my wounds with your clarity, insight, and strong loving spirit. You are a precious gift to the world. "May the long time sun shine upon you, All love surround you, And the pure light within you, Guide your way on." (quote written by Mike Heron - The Incredible String Band -1968 in 'A Very Cellular Song')
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Thanks Andrew the spiritual tie seems to be still attached the Narc 🎭 keeps stalking but i am focused on moving forward on my healing path.
Thank you Andrew,after 7 months I have still emotionally feelings in some days 🤔but I am working on me and I know I deserve much better 👍✌️💪😀🙏❤️🌹🌈
As a veteran on a few wonderful communities one of the best shares was " soldiers stay the line".
It’s crazy that these entities really will keep preying upon you until you learn to identify them. It’s absolutely a spiritual battle. Cool to see a channel that recognizes that.
I walked away from a new home, most of my savings, my dreams of retiring off the grid, and a dream that was never going to happen...growing old with him. I did not fight in court. I am so grateful now that it did not drag out. I can recover, brick by brick. He is not capable of much, which is why he needed my for so long. I am finally free, except spiritually. That is my last tie, maybe the most difficult. He haunts my thoughts as I reflect on how everything I thought was real was a lie. Thank you Andrew for these videos. Your direct nature and radical acceptance message is powerful and necessary in this journey. For years, I did not want to see the evil, so I closed my eyes to it and accepted him as a flawed human like the rest of us. Only now am I seeing that his flaws are pathological and would have lead me to an early grave.
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Your words resonate. “ He haunts my thoughts as I reflect on how everything I thought was real was a lie.” The relationship isn’t over once it’s over. We can be haunted for years after getting out, trying to make sense of what we experienced. Dr Jeckyll/Mr Hyde, altruistic narcissist, whatever he was - I have spent years struggling with myself to accept that nothing was real (once we have the knowledge).
“For years, I did not want to see the evil, so I closed my eyes to it and accepted him as a flawed human like the rest of us.” Yes, so did I. Any attempts to talk about things led to more abuse so I shut down. In the end I realised that he had to be severely mentally ill to behave, think that way, and I had to get out to save myself. I felt like I was physically and mentally dying. Stayed far too long! Peace and blessings for your ‘rebuild’. ❤
Am I the only person who has a pure, real, and huge heart despite everything life has thrown at them? When I think of how a narcissist operates, I feel this would be practically impossible for me. At the current point in my life, I feel my ego has been destroyed and I operate out of love instead because of being humbled and understanding that "you get what you give"
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I work for two narcs...one is disabled and a covert narc. It took months to see this, listening to you helped. The other is overt and her husband. Nuff said. After a year I gave my notice today. Please pray for me. God bless you all.
guess what I got today, a text from the narc even after I blocked her; six months later. Can you believe it? I guess she needs something, like me to pay for everything like I was.
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Andrew, you are like a warm blanket to me. Thank you, more than you'll ever know.
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Awe....that is so sweet & so true!
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Blessings
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Thanks again Andrew , had some weak moments today as my narc was blocked but left a message , I deleted it unread but it played on my emotions then your video and the all the stuff you mentioned reminded me of why I did ..thanks
One of the worst nightmares I've had in my life was when sleeping with the Narc during the thick of the love bomb stage. It
didn't make a lick of sense when I woke . Why so dark and horrible, when this is the most wonderful person in the world? Many years later, I see it now, the inner self calling out a warning.
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❤️🔥Andrew this mighty band of psychological warriors has moxy thanks in no small part to your diligence to educate us 👏 👍 ✊️✌️
I have broken all ties but am not at the indifference stage as of yet. It is one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through and am still healing from. Part of me is thankful for the experience however painful and horrific it was though. I am a new me and love that I can now see what I need to do to make my life better and not allow this craziness in it again. Having a lifetime of trauma to work through is super hard but you will thank yourself for being strong. Don’t let this turn you bitter or angry forever. Life can be beautiful just being alone and learning to love yourself. Good luck to you all and thank you for this video. ❤
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The spiritual connection is the hardest. I understand that if intimacy was involved, it's even harder. This is when you delve deeper into prayer and journaling. I had to create a woman's prayer circle to pray with me. I'm much better now, but you have ti continuously keep your Prayer life active. Because the thoughts do return. My Bible has gotten so much usage after this. Praying for all who come into contact with these people. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
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A beautiful share.
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be sure if you're going to be in a relationship, do NOT have joint financial accounts. whats yours is theirs in their mind!! they are not only physical and verbal abusive, they also are financial abusers!
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My narcissist strung our division of marital goods for over 3 years.
I got 42% from the 42 year marriage. Court judges and attorneys aren't any better
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